What I Love About Sex

Attraction doesn’t die because of time.
It dies because of complacency.
In this episode, we talk about the uncomfortable reality many men avoid: how comfort, routine, and a lack of self-leadership quietly erode sexual desire in long-term relationships.
This isn’t about shaming men or blaming partners.
It’s about understanding how vitality, effort, and self-respect directly affect attraction — and why desire can’t survive when men stop engaging with their own lives.
We’ll explore:
  • Why “letting yourself go” is more energetic than physical
  • How comfort kills polarity and erotic tension
  • Why trying “for her” backfires — and what actually works
  • How sexual confidence is built through self-respect, not performance
If your relationship feels stable but disconnected…
If sex feels pressured, rare, or obligatory…
If you sense you’ve lost your edge — and want it back…
This episode will challenge you, ground you, and call you forward.
Not to be perfect.
But to be present.
Alive.
And intentional again.


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What is What I Love About Sex?

Stephanie Ganowski is a clinical sexologist and sex coach for men. In her podcast, “What I Love About Sex”, her mission is to take the pressure out of sex and put the pleasure in!
She does this by helping men overcome their d*ck-related issues and improve their sex communication skills, so they can feel in control of their bodies and connecting deeply with their partners.

Coaching clients 1:1 for 6+ years, with a background in psychology, relationship communication training and clinical sexology makes Stephanie the person you can trust to help you. She especially wants men to have a ‘go-to’ place for help here, so they feel they’re directly spoken to and supported.
Stephanie is a firm believer that sex is like any other part of life in that we need to work to understand and improve it through practice, vulnerability and patience. And if we can do that while having fun and not taking ourselves so seriously, we can create the sex life we’ve always dreamed of.

Stephanie’s style of coaching (and podcasting) is lighthearted, fun and action oriented. Her aim is to have her listeners leave her show feeling confident in what step to take next!