What I Love About Sex

In this episode, I’m calling out the misguided advice telling men to quit masturbating to be better lovers. The truth? Cutting off self-pleasure without understanding it is wrecking your confidence and your performance.

✅ Cutting off masturbation kills sexual confidence
When you label self-pleasure as “wrong,” you wire guilt into your arousal—and that guilt follows you into the bedroom.
✅ You master your sex life by knowing your own body
Men who lead well in bed first learn what turns them on alone. Masturbation is about building that awareness, without pressure, without performance.
✅ Masturbation and porn are not the same
Porn can desensitize you. But masturbation—done right—is a tool. It helps you build control, clarity, and connection with your body.

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What is What I Love About Sex?

Stephanie Ganowski is a clinical sexologist and sex coach for men. In her podcast, “What I Love About Sex”, her mission is to take the pressure out of sex and put the pleasure in!
She does this by helping men overcome their d*ck-related issues and improve their sex communication skills, so they can feel in control of their bodies and connecting deeply with their partners.

Coaching clients 1:1 for 6+ years, with a background in psychology, relationship communication training and clinical sexology makes Stephanie the person you can trust to help you. She especially wants men to have a ‘go-to’ place for help here, so they feel they’re directly spoken to and supported.
Stephanie is a firm believer that sex is like any other part of life in that we need to work to understand and improve it through practice, vulnerability and patience. And if we can do that while having fun and not taking ourselves so seriously, we can create the sex life we’ve always dreamed of.

Stephanie’s style of coaching (and podcasting) is lighthearted, fun and action oriented. Her aim is to have her listeners leave her show feeling confident in what step to take next!