Your Relationshift

In this compelling Hard Pass episode, Hindi and Chayale unpack the common piece of advice given to many women: “Always be ready for your husband.” Whether it’s about emotional availability, physical appearance, or stopping everything to prioritize his needs, the hosts explore how this mindset—though often rooted in traditional ideals—can lead to imbalance, burnout, and resentment. They challenge the assumption that devotion means self-erasure, and instead advocate for a model of marriage that honors both partners’ experiences and boundaries.

With clarity and compassion, Hindi and Chayale explore the deeper dynamics at play, including the misconception that constantly serving your husband fosters peace. They share how orienting your entire life around your spouse can disrupt the natural flow of a healthy mashpia–mekabel relationship, and offer a powerful reframe: your marriage should be the priority—not one individual within it. Listeners will walk away with practical language, emotional permission, and a refreshing perspective on how mutual respect, presence, and balance can truly strengthen a relationship.

What is Your Relationshift?

Welcome to Your Relationshift, hosted by Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik. Together, they bring their wealth of experience and passion for relationships, self-development, and Chassidic teachings to provide listeners with practical wisdom and inspiration about a healthy Jewish marriage. Hindi, a marriage and relationship coach from LA, and Chayale, a celebrated high school teacher and speaker from Crown Heights, delve into the principles of Relationshift, sharing stories and insights that have transformed the lives of many women.

In each episode, you'll hear heartfelt discussions and personal anecdotes that illuminate the core concepts of Relationshift, offering a blend of deep Chassidic teachings and practical advice. Whether you're looking to strengthen your marriage, enhance personal growth, or simply enjoy thought-provoking conversations, Your Relationshift is your go-to source for profound, relatable, and uplifting content. Join Hindi and Chayale as they guide you on a journey toward greater clarity, connection, and empowerment in your relationships and beyond.