21. How to Have Tough Conversation with your Family During the Holidays

Bite Your Tongue or Say Your Peace? Today, Mike and Aydian delve into the always entertaining world of interacting with your family during the holidays. From dated humor to political view, the holidays can be a minefield of emotions and opinions. When do you say something? When is it appropriate and when is it not? Mike and Aydian answer these questions and more, along with providing helpful tips for navigating difficult topics without compromising your boundaries.

Top Take-Aways:
- What do you do in those touchy and difficult situations?
- Are we different around our families versus in our real, everyday, lives? Do we compromise our boundaries to create comfort for other people?
- How do we have these hard conversations? When are we calling people out versus calling people in?

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The State of Men is hosted by two Elder Millennial work-from-home-Dads, Mike Watts (cis man) and Aydian Dowling (trans man).

A funny and real-life approach to being Men in the 2020s The State of Men is taking a deep dive into masculinity to talk about what we do, and why we do it.

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