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All right, all right.

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Feeney Talks with friends. Episode 152.

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We're in an exciting place
with some great people.

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How are we doing, Deb?

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I'm doing great. Thank you. Hey, Lisa.

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How are you doing? I'm doing great.

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We got Lisa and Deb here
joining us for 152.

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This is Feeney talks with friends.

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My name is Eric Feeney, founder
and president of Friends of Feeney.

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Our mission is to help

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children and families that need assistance
after heartbreak or tragedy.

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And I use this podcast.

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Feeney talks with friends, and I talk
to wonderful people in the community

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that are doing great things.

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And you've been in the West
Hartford community since 2016.

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I have been in the community since
1999, 1999.

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All right. Check those notes. Feeney.

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And how how long have you been in the West
Hartford community?

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Going to need an asterisk.

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I've been in the West Hartford community
from 1991 to 94

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when I went to Romberg School,
but I've been living in West Hartford

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probably for about three years now. Nice.

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Yeah, nice. Oh,
so you three kids went here?

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Two kids. Oh, boy. That's all right.

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We're on a roll.

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My third kid is our kitchen.

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Actually,
we joke about this that we had one child,

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and then we had a second child,
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we've sort of like to have a third child,

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but we also want to do our kitchen over
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So we have. Kitchen. Kitchen child.

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Nice, nice.

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Oh, so let's just get to it.

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Everyone's wondering,
this is the hottest topic I need to know.

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How is it you any questions?

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You any guesses what I'm going?

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How? It's.

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No, I don't like to assume.

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How is it.

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Being one of 11?

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Oh, you have a 11 siblings? Yes.

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Are you one of 11?

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Are you all right?

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I do have 11 siblings. I am one of 12.

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I have 11 siblings.

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That's a list. And I'm the youngest.

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Oh, wow. Great.

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No, it's,

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I don't yeah, I loved being the youngest.

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I always I saw that, and I was like,
this has to be topic question number one.

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Yeah I grew up with three.

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I'm one of three but 12.

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Yeah. Same house.

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Same household, same parents.

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It's perfectly
even six boys and six girls.

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The older six,
it was four girls and two boys.

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The younger six, which I'm part of
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So the dynamic is completely different

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among all the siblings
and personalities are different.

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It was a lot of fun
and definitely a lot of fun growing up.

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Growing up with four boys.

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Jeez. And how many siblings?

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I have three brothers.

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And I'm also at the end. You.

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The two youngest?

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Yeah, yeah.

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Oh, so what do they say
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Nothing. Really.

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You get. Away with everything.

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Spoils. Of course. You, spoil.

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The most trouble. Thing.

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Sometimes you. Don't get. In the most.
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No, no, not a lot of trouble at all.

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But we'll follow her. Yeah.

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Most resilient.

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No, I don't know.

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You know, when you're with your siblings,
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So it's when we talk to each other,
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Like teasing each other.

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I will say this.

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That, like,
having siblings is such a gift.

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I can I can tell you feel that same way.

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Yeah. And my brothers know
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I'm just so happy to have them in my life.

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And we're we have a text chat.

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It goes all day
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Usually they're stupid things, but we're
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That's awesome. That's awesome.

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Now they say like three children.

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The first kid eats dirt. You're like,
call the hospital.

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The second kid eats dirt.

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You're like, soap. And water.
We got to clear it out.

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The third kid eats dirt. You're like,
that's lunch.

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Yeah, that's.

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So the 12 kid, they were like.

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They can't. Imagine.

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That's great. That's great.

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Quickly, I just want to shout out some
the past podcast.

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So 150 was great. 150 was ball for a cure.

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There are another local nonprofit.

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They help children with pediatric cancer.

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So I want to give you a sticker
and a bracelet from a ball for a cure.

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Wonderful guests.

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Go back and check out with number 158.

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We had a huge celebration here.
We got some stickers.

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Yes. And bracelets.

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Thank you, Luke and Matt.
They were great guests.

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We filmed at New Park Brewery.

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We had Lonesome Eddie
and the Bird Dogs doing live music.

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After.

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That's All on the podcast
you just told me the podcast is

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2.5 hours long,
so be sure to check it all out.

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Okay? What?

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You watched it on a certain speed, right?

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I the ones I listened to earlier today,
I did listen at 1.81.8.

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I don't recommend that if there's music,
however.

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Okay, I kind of changed things like.

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For two hours you might want to do
what's the fastest. 2.5?

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Yeah, sounds.
Like Alvin and the Chipmunks.

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And then 151.

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This is a great guest.

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151 is my guy Shane Spencer.

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Oh, wow.

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The cover of Sports Illustrated,
it was a huge, met him in Brantford.

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He came to our golf tournament. Great guy.

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September 1998.

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He was the hottest player in baseball.

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Awesome guy.

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Congratulations to you for landing that.
Yeah, it was great.

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He signed. He was at our golf tournament.

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Oh, awesome. Sons. You know,
thanks for all you do.

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Your buddy Shane, three time World Series
champ.

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Awesome.

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And then he wrote. This was really funny.

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He's like

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he writes suck it Shane Spencer.

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So he's like on this one.

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He's like, hey great job.

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Thank you for all you do.

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Your body.

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And then this one,
he's like you know. Invalid.

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Funny but not great.

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So I could say that someone was on
the cover of Sports Illustrated.

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I had him interviewed,
so it was really cool. Yeah.

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Have you guys been on the cover
sports illustrated? Not. Yet.

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Not yet? Exactly.

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Working on it.

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What's your favorite sports?

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Basketball. Nice.

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I would say baseball to watch. Yep.

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And I don't.

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I don't really play any sports,

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but I was pretty good at Foursquare
when I was a kid. Oh.

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Nice. Foursquare. Yeah. I'm the champ.

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At third grade recess every Tuesday
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I'm really good. I'm currently
playing with your third graders. Yeah.

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Oh, yeah. And I'm football, too.

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I could throw the ball the farthest.

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Yeah. Can you also run the fastest?

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I I've never been beaten in a race.

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No no no tackling
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I still remember Matthias.

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Soccer player.

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Like, you know, I was
I almost had a knee injury that day, but.

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Recess is great. Yeah. This is great.

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I miss recess, and I truly believe we need
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Oh, for those of us who were not teachers.

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Nice.

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I. I like it, so I go outside.

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Today. I did chin ups on the play scape.

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I played a little Gaga.

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Gaga is like a dog ball.

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Like, below the knee. Dodgeball.

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Oh, I know how you're.

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Do you have a Lady Gaga lady?

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You have a guy at your school?

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We have a Gaga pit. Excellent.
Which is new.

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Maybe within ten years.

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It's a
newer sport, but it's a great sport.

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You know, the kids line up,

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that one kid gets out,
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It's controlled, doesn't get too crazy.

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But there are times it gets crazy.

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Yeah, well,
seeing that you're at the YWCA.

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Yeah. You must,

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have some sports, right?

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You know, no sports.

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You're in the office.

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I am in the office. Yeah,
I work in the administrative offices.

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I'm in human resources, so.

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No, I say, at a desk most of my day.

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The closest I get so ball
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Nice.

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I tried that,
I had a yoga chair, actually.

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Oh, yeah.

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And you got to keep your core engaged,

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and you sit with your feet
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And then kids would bounce on it
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But then after a while,
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it really makes like, oh, my neck.

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That's exactly why I'm sitting on it.

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Yeah. Yeah.

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I am postural aware
as my, former PTA would say.

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Yeah. You like to do walks, yoga.

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Yeah. And read books. Yes. Gotcha.

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Natural introvert.

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A lot of solo activities and food.

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We're going to get to food. Yes.
They can't.

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We can't wait. Stick around to the end.

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In preparation of 153,

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our Hot Wings challenge, our third
annual Hot Wings Challenge would Abby haw.

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Hey, Chris. Conway.

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Allie at Luna pizza, we're going to eat
some hot wings, so stick around.

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You see, Lisa and I eat some hot wings.

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Deb, maybe.

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Maybe we'll say
you can eat a buffalo wing.

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Maybe it's not hot.

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Hot ish. Wow. Buffalo's too hot for you.

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Is Pepper too. Hot for you now?

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Like black pepper?

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Yeah. No.

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Oh. Another connection.

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I have a sociology degree and a psychology
degree as well.

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Yeah. Same as me. Yeah.

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Very cool.

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I saw that I went to central,
I was not. Wow.

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I don't even know school.

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I went to,
I went to Southern in New Haven.

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Central is in New Britain.

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But, and you went to Tulane?

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I did, in New Orleans. Yeah.

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My daughter's applying to Tulane.

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She is. Oh,
good luck to every application.

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I guess I'll be fantastic. The green wave.

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Roll wave roll.

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Yeah. Like I was like this.

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Roll wave roll. Nice.

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Very cool.

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Yeah.

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They, it was a great experience
to be in college there.

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Yeah. What made you go down there?

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I'm not really sure, actually.

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Well, I'll be honest, I had only applied
to three schools, and Tulane

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at the time
was not as hard to get into as it is now.

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And it was my safety school.

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I didn't get into my top two choices.

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Nice.

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Never to be named, but, I loved Tulane.

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Yeah, yeah. And transformative.

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All that. Right now, seniors,
I have twin girls their senior year,

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and a safety school and, reach

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school, and, 
And how many schools did they apply to?

255
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We're telling them ten.

256
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They're due November 1st, so we're
still up in the air of which ones?

257
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But we're I'm pushing for ten.

258
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Some are like,

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you know, some they're more confident.

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Others they just visited BC yesterday
with the day off.

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They really liked it.

262
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They saw Fordham, Villanova, BC, UConn.

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A couple other ones.

264
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Okay. So where'd you end up?

265
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Where'd you go? Schools.

266
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Yeah.

267
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And I think Connecticut College
for undergrad

268
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and American University for grad school.

269
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Very nice. Yeah.

270
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That's lovely.

271
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Yep. I.

272
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I was also a psychology major so yeah.

273
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Oh no.

274
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All right. Cheers to. That.

275
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So the soft sciences.

276
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Right.

277
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And Deb,
also you were on the Board of Education.

278
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I was I was on the Board of education
from 2017 through 2022,

279
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and I was the chair of the board
of Ed for two years during that time,

280
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during the height of Covid.
And there's a meeting tonight.

281
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Are you going.

282
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For the board of Ed?

283
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I am not actually my daughter.
Where are you. Going?

284
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Yeah, I go every year.

285
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My daughter is not, every other week.

286
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She's the high school representative
for Canada.

287
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Oh, fantastic.

288
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In attending to bring her, her ride.

289
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So then I stick around.

290
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But it's really interesting. Good stuff.

291
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What were the pros and cons of that?
Did you like it?

292
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It was, I loved it.

293
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I had a lot to learn.

294
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I didn't know education policy going in.

295
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Thankfully, I'm married to a teacher now,
a principal, so that was very helpful.

296
00:11:03,162 --> 00:11:04,563
I'd be like, what's this?

297
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What's this? Test score? I mean,
I don't really know what this means.

298
00:11:07,133 --> 00:11:08,401
He was super helpful.

299
00:11:08,401 --> 00:11:12,271
Also, of course,
the staff of HBS are incredible.

300
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During that time, Tom
Moore was the superintendent.

301
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Yep. And,
we're still friends, so, I loved it.

302
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It was a great learning experience for me
and such an opportunity

303
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to make a difference on the lives
of our kids, our future.

304
00:11:26,419 --> 00:11:28,788
Really? Here in West Hartford.

305
00:11:28,788 --> 00:11:33,426
And then I was, I had an opportunity
to move over to the town council

306
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and broaden the issues that I was focused
on, and I grabbed it.

307
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I was very fortunate.

308
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To be so.

309
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Doctor Lorna, in your position
now. Is, Yes.

310
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Yep. She is now. Okay.

311
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And that she's actually stepping down. So.

312
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So someone so there'll be a new chair?

313
00:11:48,074 --> 00:11:50,643
Yeah. After the election.
That might be happening today?

314
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No. No, it'll be after the election.
That's right.

315
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That's it. Cool.

316
00:11:54,680 --> 00:11:58,884
How did your time on the board of Ed help
you and your role at town council?

317
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Just understanding, the issues in town,

318
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how to interact
with our professional staff.

319
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That's a really important part
of being an elected official here.

320
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We have an incredible, 
professional staff,

321
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both on the board of Ed side
and on the town side.

322
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And I think, what some people don't
realize is

323
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how talented and expert
they are at a variety of different issues

324
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so that they think, oh, it's
the Board of Education should just do ABCd

325
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and E, when the reality is it's
the Board of Education

326
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should look into these issues and find out
what's being done somewhere else.

327
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What has worked.

328
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Ask the people who know.
The people who know

329
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are the professional staff
and then also the families in town.

330
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So it's not all about
just figuring it out on your own.

331
00:12:48,701 --> 00:12:51,837
So it was really helpful for me
to kind of understand the process

332
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of how we work here in town government,
and then how the board of Ed

333
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relates to what's going on on the town
council side of things.

334
00:13:00,246 --> 00:13:02,047
So then when I moved over to town council,

335
00:13:02,047 --> 00:13:05,451
I already kind of understood
what was happening on the board of Ed, and

336
00:13:05,451 --> 00:13:08,454
I was able to broaden
and learn new issues.

337
00:13:08,754 --> 00:13:10,156
Very cool.

338
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Have you reached out to your friend Lisa?

339
00:13:12,291 --> 00:13:15,294
Oh yes. I gave her sat here.

340
00:13:15,628 --> 00:13:17,363
And gave her some advice.

341
00:13:17,363 --> 00:13:19,431
Suggestions? Yeah.

342
00:13:19,431 --> 00:13:20,399
And who else are you getting?

343
00:13:20,399 --> 00:13:21,867
Advice and suggestions from.

344
00:13:21,867 --> 00:13:23,836
I take. It probably everybody.

345
00:13:23,836 --> 00:13:24,970
People. Yeah, exactly.

346
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You know, you take in all the information
and listen.

347
00:13:28,007 --> 00:13:32,144
And I think that's the very important,
statement Deb just made is that you're

348
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working with a highly professional
and competent people,

349
00:13:36,882 --> 00:13:41,353
and you have to have a disposition of,
I'm here to listen.

350
00:13:41,821 --> 00:13:45,491
And, you know, she's obviously
been doing that for some time

351
00:13:45,491 --> 00:13:48,494
now and on the board of Ed
and as a town counselor.

352
00:13:48,561 --> 00:13:52,698
And, you know, I know a lot of people
would love to just jump into the role

353
00:13:52,698 --> 00:13:55,568
and be able to change this and change
that and want to do this.

354
00:13:55,568 --> 00:13:56,101
I want to do that.

355
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It's like, hold on, there's a process
and you have to respect the process

356
00:14:00,539 --> 00:14:03,542
and you have to respect
the people who have worked

357
00:14:03,709 --> 00:14:07,546
so long trying to put these policies
and processes together.

358
00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:10,382
And you got to know how to play
nice in the sandbox.

359
00:14:10,382 --> 00:14:14,620
And if you can't,
then this might not be the role for you.

360
00:14:14,787 --> 00:14:16,088
Yeah, yeah.

361
00:14:16,088 --> 00:14:17,523
We have two ears and one mouth.

362
00:14:17,523 --> 00:14:20,893
Yes. That's twice as much listening
as you do talking.

363
00:14:20,893 --> 00:14:23,462
I will say too, though, 
not everybody does

364
00:14:23,462 --> 00:14:28,334
play nice in the sandbox as we know, and
so it does also help to have a thick skin.

365
00:14:28,601 --> 00:14:30,502
Which I really have. Talked about this
a lot.

366
00:14:30,502 --> 00:14:30,970
Yeah.

367
00:14:30,970 --> 00:14:34,740
And, you know, talking about
being the youngest in the family

368
00:14:34,740 --> 00:14:38,611
and then being the youngest
with the boys in the family.

369
00:14:38,611 --> 00:14:42,715
We have definitely learned
how to be resilient and thick skinned

370
00:14:42,715 --> 00:14:47,219
and tough and like, you know, advocate
for ourselves and our ideas for sure.

371
00:14:47,586 --> 00:14:50,522
Yeah, I know you said that,
but I've seen it like,

372
00:14:50,522 --> 00:14:52,725
it's all on the computer
though, too, right?

373
00:14:52,725 --> 00:14:56,128
You're saying the harsh words
or the people not being nice.

374
00:14:56,328 --> 00:14:56,629
Yeah.

375
00:14:56,629 --> 00:14:59,732
You see that more often
when they're behind the keyboard.

376
00:15:00,332 --> 00:15:03,602
But, yeah, it's unfortunate
they're not being good friends.

377
00:15:04,169 --> 00:15:04,370
Right?

378
00:15:04,370 --> 00:15:05,604
Everyone should be a good friend.

379
00:15:05,604 --> 00:15:07,406
Yes. Be a good friend.

380
00:15:07,406 --> 00:15:09,441
Be a good neighbor.
Be a good, good friend.

381
00:15:09,441 --> 00:15:10,743
Yeah.

382
00:15:10,743 --> 00:15:13,078
You have experiences with that? Come.

383
00:15:13,078 --> 00:15:14,079
I had the Navy.

384
00:15:14,079 --> 00:15:16,682
I was in the Army National Guard.
I wasn't.

385
00:15:16,682 --> 00:15:18,417
I know you weren't in the Navy,
but you helped.

386
00:15:18,417 --> 00:15:23,956
Yeah, yeah, I worked in human resources,
at the Department of Navy in Hawaii.

387
00:15:23,956 --> 00:15:25,958
And Pearl Harbor Naval Station.

388
00:15:25,958 --> 00:15:27,693
Yeah. In Hawaii too, I don't.

389
00:15:27,693 --> 00:15:30,329
Know, it was awesome.
Getting better. Loved. Yes.

390
00:15:30,329 --> 00:15:32,431
I loved going to work every day.

391
00:15:32,431 --> 00:15:35,434
I'd get there super early. And,

392
00:15:36,602 --> 00:15:37,136
what time?

393
00:15:37,136 --> 00:15:38,871
A probably like 8:00 in the morning.

394
00:15:38,871 --> 00:15:41,206
They'll do the Star-Spangled banner.

395
00:15:41,206 --> 00:15:45,277
And then 3 p.m.,
they do the Air Force flyovers

396
00:15:45,277 --> 00:15:48,414
because it was a joint
Air Force Navy naval base.

397
00:15:48,747 --> 00:15:50,382
So that was really cool.

398
00:15:50,382 --> 00:15:53,252
Wow. I feel super safe, super patriotic.

399
00:15:53,252 --> 00:15:54,753
I get to hear Star-Spangled banner

400
00:15:54,753 --> 00:15:57,756
every morning and see a flyover
every afternoon.

401
00:15:58,357 --> 00:16:00,326
Can be. So cool. Can't be.

402
00:16:00,326 --> 00:16:01,593
You don't get that at the YWCA?

403
00:16:01,593 --> 00:16:03,862
No, I'm very different from the YWCA.

404
00:16:03,862 --> 00:16:06,031
I definitely feel like I'm in a government
building, though.

405
00:16:06,031 --> 00:16:09,001
I'm like old school building.

406
00:16:09,401 --> 00:16:10,803
Cool. Yeah.

407
00:16:10,803 --> 00:16:12,371
Yeah. No, we had a special guest coming.

408
00:16:12,371 --> 00:16:14,707
Unfortunately, she can't make it.

409
00:16:14,707 --> 00:16:16,342
That's a hint.

410
00:16:16,342 --> 00:16:17,743
Any guesses?

411
00:16:17,743 --> 00:16:20,612
Are you to give us more than just.
She can?

412
00:16:20,612 --> 00:16:22,514
Can you give us policy?

413
00:16:22,514 --> 00:16:23,749
State rep.

414
00:16:23,749 --> 00:16:25,951
Oh, is it Jillian Gilchrist?

415
00:16:25,951 --> 00:16:27,653
Ding ding ding ding.

416
00:16:27,653 --> 00:16:28,754
Jillian was going to make it.

417
00:16:28,754 --> 00:16:30,656
Jillian had to be somewhere else.

418
00:16:30,656 --> 00:16:32,491
She was going to swing by for 5:00.

419
00:16:33,525 --> 00:16:34,727
And on her way.

420
00:16:34,727 --> 00:16:37,596
But we scheduled she's
going to schedule her own podcast.

421
00:16:37,596 --> 00:16:38,964
Oh, cool. Excellent.

422
00:16:38,964 --> 00:16:41,166
And she'll be so interesting to talk with.
Yeah, sure.

423
00:16:41,166 --> 00:16:43,602
Yeah. See, I was
I had a good second guess.

424
00:16:43,602 --> 00:16:44,970
Height requirement.

425
00:16:44,970 --> 00:16:47,072
I like how tall. Tall would have been
good.

426
00:16:47,072 --> 00:16:50,042
Kate has already been on.

427
00:16:51,110 --> 00:16:52,945
And Tammy has the invite

428
00:16:52,945 --> 00:16:55,948
but we haven't just reconnected yet so.

429
00:16:56,148 --> 00:16:58,650
Yeah.
But that would be all the state reps.

430
00:16:58,650 --> 00:17:00,352
So very cool. Very cool.

431
00:17:00,352 --> 00:17:03,355
Now I'm so honored to live
and teach in West Hartford.

432
00:17:03,522 --> 00:17:05,557
I lived in New Haven
after going to southern.

433
00:17:05,557 --> 00:17:08,160
I mentioned going to southern.

434
00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,095
My wife got pregnant with twins.

435
00:17:10,095 --> 00:17:12,398
We were like, where are we going to move?

436
00:17:12,398 --> 00:17:14,433
I'm from Waterbury.
My mom was in Waterbury.

437
00:17:14,433 --> 00:17:16,201
Her parents were in East Granby.

438
00:17:16,201 --> 00:17:19,271
Let's move to,
you know, both being educators.

439
00:17:19,271 --> 00:17:20,572
She was a teacher at the time.

440
00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:24,043
So now we're
here, and it was the greatest move ever.

441
00:17:24,043 --> 00:17:26,845
I was a little hesitant. I'm like,
I want to go to West Hartford.

442
00:17:26,845 --> 00:17:30,249
But now I play basketball at the JCC
for the past 17 years,

443
00:17:30,249 --> 00:17:31,517
making friends and networking.

444
00:17:31,517 --> 00:17:34,720
They're great people, teaching great.

445
00:17:34,820 --> 00:17:36,221
And, you know, my commute is awesome.

446
00:17:36,221 --> 00:17:37,990
My commute is two minutes to work.

447
00:17:37,990 --> 00:17:39,358
Oh, that is nice.

448
00:17:39,358 --> 00:17:41,093
It is now very nice.

449
00:17:41,093 --> 00:17:44,096
So, driving or walking, right?

450
00:17:44,163 --> 00:17:48,133
In the 13 years that I work there,
I maybe walked

451
00:17:49,501 --> 00:17:50,369
13 times.

452
00:17:50,369 --> 00:17:53,038
Wow. Maybe 20. I don't know yet.

453
00:17:53,038 --> 00:17:54,106
But now it's great.

454
00:17:54,106 --> 00:17:55,941
It's very nice. I love it.

455
00:17:55,941 --> 00:17:57,776
It's like my bubble. Yeah.

456
00:17:57,776 --> 00:18:01,613
And then we started the nonprofit,
which we're helping inside the classroom

457
00:18:01,613 --> 00:18:04,283
and out
now. So it's just a great community.

458
00:18:04,283 --> 00:18:07,953
So with that being said, what is your,
like favorite parts of West Hartford?

459
00:18:08,420 --> 00:18:11,290
I'll let you
go. You've been here. Oh, boy.

460
00:18:12,691 --> 00:18:14,426
I have a lot of favorite parts
of West Hartford.

461
00:18:14,426 --> 00:18:16,895
I would say like physical space wise.

462
00:18:16,895 --> 00:18:19,765
I keep discovering new hidden gems.

463
00:18:19,765 --> 00:18:25,104
So, for example, I had for somehow
I had never been to the Walgett

464
00:18:25,104 --> 00:18:29,508
Children's Forest until a couple of weeks
ago, and I highly recommend it.

465
00:18:29,508 --> 00:18:31,176
Lisa, if you haven't been there yet.

466
00:18:31,176 --> 00:18:35,614
The reason I went is that they had
a ribbon cutting for the new pollinator

467
00:18:35,614 --> 00:18:36,582
garden. Oh, yeah. Yep.

468
00:18:36,582 --> 00:18:39,151
And that's something that
we've been working on on town council.

469
00:18:39,151 --> 00:18:41,320
And so I wanted to see that.

470
00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:44,223
And then I was like,
this place is like magic actually.

471
00:18:44,223 --> 00:18:46,158
It just is incredible.

472
00:18:46,158 --> 00:18:48,127
And there's a lot of these little,

473
00:18:48,127 --> 00:18:51,697
special places around
town, outdoor spaces around town.

474
00:18:51,697 --> 00:18:56,568
So I would say those finding those,
you know, parks, the Tropic trail,

475
00:18:56,568 --> 00:18:59,571
all of that,
I feel like, makes West Hartford

476
00:18:59,671 --> 00:19:02,608
really different
than a lot of other suburbs.

477
00:19:02,608 --> 00:19:07,446
But as far as beyond the physical space,
it's really, it's the people,

478
00:19:07,913 --> 00:19:11,617
you know, the people here, you know,
every place is going to have people

479
00:19:11,617 --> 00:19:14,753
that you gel
with and people that you don't gel with.

480
00:19:14,753 --> 00:19:20,592
But I think overall, we have a community
that wants West Hartford

481
00:19:20,592 --> 00:19:23,829
to succeed
and wants to be welcoming to all.

482
00:19:23,829 --> 00:19:24,396
People.

483
00:19:24,396 --> 00:19:27,866
Who want to move here
or want to stay here as they age.

484
00:19:29,801 --> 00:19:33,372
That is a really good
answer, and I don't think I can come up

485
00:19:33,372 --> 00:19:38,477
with anything to top it, because,
I mean, West Hartford, it's it's a vibe.

486
00:19:38,477 --> 00:19:40,646
You just love being here.

487
00:19:40,646 --> 00:19:45,417
Being a pedestrian,
the food is fantastic.

488
00:19:45,851 --> 00:19:49,521
If I have to pick a favorite part

489
00:19:49,521 --> 00:19:52,591
of West Hartford again, really hard,

490
00:19:52,858 --> 00:19:58,530
but any tree lined street in West Hartford
just looks beautiful to me.

491
00:19:58,530 --> 00:20:02,367
I, I mentioned that
because we have been doing a lot of

492
00:20:02,367 --> 00:20:05,070
doorknocking and canvasing
and there's just some streets

493
00:20:05,070 --> 00:20:06,972
that I'm like, wow,
this is a beautiful street.

494
00:20:06,972 --> 00:20:11,977
Like seeing Augustine,
over in the fourth district.

495
00:20:12,477 --> 00:20:15,147
I can yeah.

496
00:20:15,147 --> 00:20:17,282
Tree lined streets.

497
00:20:17,282 --> 00:20:17,549
I know.

498
00:20:17,549 --> 00:20:20,485
Unfortunately,
they are beautiful. Taken down my street.

499
00:20:20,485 --> 00:20:20,953
I'm on.

500
00:20:20,953 --> 00:20:25,490
I tell everyone I'm on Bramley Road, but
when I used to pull off of New Britain.

501
00:20:25,490 --> 00:20:26,959
Abby, it used to be a lot more trees.

502
00:20:26,959 --> 00:20:29,895
Yeah, but now it's. We cut them all down.

503
00:20:29,895 --> 00:20:33,899
My tree, unfortunately,
grew into my pipe of the bathroom.

504
00:20:33,899 --> 00:20:34,700
Yeah.

505
00:20:34,700 --> 00:20:35,701
In the front yard.

506
00:20:35,701 --> 00:20:38,136
Clogged up the whole house, made a mess.

507
00:20:38,136 --> 00:20:38,837
Yeah.

508
00:20:38,837 --> 00:20:41,873
And then, just like, I guess that happened
a bunch of times, so.

509
00:20:42,774 --> 00:20:46,645
But we worked with Ted, Ted
and the West Hartford Tree project.

510
00:20:46,678 --> 00:20:49,581
Great people. Former podcast guests.

511
00:20:49,581 --> 00:20:50,849
Ted, fellow teacher.

512
00:20:50,849 --> 00:20:51,750
Town. Yep.

513
00:20:51,750 --> 00:20:54,753
Sedgwick guy. And Helen.

514
00:20:54,753 --> 00:20:58,690
So wonderful collaborating with them now.

515
00:20:58,824 --> 00:21:02,427
So yeah my small business shout out my
hey our tree project.

516
00:21:02,427 --> 00:21:06,965
And we are, planting the trees
back onto LaSalle road this week.

517
00:21:07,432 --> 00:21:11,103
Very so it's been very stark for people
to to see LaSalle with no tree.

518
00:21:11,103 --> 00:21:11,403
Right.

519
00:21:11,403 --> 00:21:15,774
But the reason we took them down is,
just like you said, your tree, like,

520
00:21:15,907 --> 00:21:17,843
grew into your bathroom. Essentially.

521
00:21:17,843 --> 00:21:18,610
Same idea.

522
00:21:18,610 --> 00:21:21,680
The trees on LaSalle, they were,
you know, buckling the sidewalks.

523
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,815
They were a hazard for people.

524
00:21:23,815 --> 00:21:25,450
They weren't in good shape.

525
00:21:25,450 --> 00:21:28,654
Anyway,
and now we're going to have new trees

526
00:21:28,654 --> 00:21:32,524
that are native to our environment
and are planted in such a way.

527
00:21:32,524 --> 00:21:36,628
We have these soil cells
I'm learning so much about, all of this.

528
00:21:36,628 --> 00:21:40,532
I never expected to know anything
about how to plant a tree, but,

529
00:21:40,532 --> 00:21:43,502
we've built these soil cells
under the sidewalks, the new sidewalks.

530
00:21:43,502 --> 00:21:46,505
And so the goal is that the tree roots
grow down

531
00:21:46,938 --> 00:21:49,074
and not up and over the sidewalk.

532
00:21:49,074 --> 00:21:51,710
Yeah, yeah. That's cool. Yeah.

533
00:21:51,710 --> 00:21:55,113
From a real estate perspective,
I would always see homes

534
00:21:55,113 --> 00:21:57,349
where the tree might be like
hanging over the roof

535
00:21:57,349 --> 00:22:00,485
or hanging of a right wire,
or you see the, you know,

536
00:22:00,485 --> 00:22:03,655
it's the roots coming up too
close to the foundation.

537
00:22:03,655 --> 00:22:05,257
I'm always like, oh my God, the insurance.

538
00:22:05,257 --> 00:22:07,859
Oh my gosh, you know
what's going to happen to this house?

539
00:22:07,859 --> 00:22:09,761
You know,
I think about these things all the time.

540
00:22:09,761 --> 00:22:11,263
We love them for the beautification.

541
00:22:11,263 --> 00:22:14,299
But you know, we have to be wise
and responsible and care.

542
00:22:14,299 --> 00:22:14,399
Yeah.

543
00:22:14,399 --> 00:22:17,402
I learned that as far as the branches
go, that's where the roots go.

544
00:22:17,869 --> 00:22:20,105
So if the branches, like, way over.

545
00:22:20,105 --> 00:22:22,341
Over here to the left. To. Yeah. And then

546
00:22:23,475 --> 00:22:23,942
not only

547
00:22:23,942 --> 00:22:27,813
did prior to clogging the pipe,
it buckled our driveway.

548
00:22:27,813 --> 00:22:29,848
Yeah. Which put a crack in it.

549
00:22:29,848 --> 00:22:34,219
But it did give us shade
because now our house actually, the sun

550
00:22:34,252 --> 00:22:38,724
hit our front window,
reflected into the siding and melted.

551
00:22:38,724 --> 00:22:41,193
Deciding, oh no, no, no, the tree. See.

552
00:22:41,193 --> 00:22:42,794
And this is the first year

553
00:22:42,794 --> 00:22:46,231
we don't have a picture on our first day
of school with Steve the tree.

554
00:22:46,498 --> 00:22:47,699
So that's we.

555
00:22:47,699 --> 00:22:50,469
Also have a first day tree in our yard.

556
00:22:50,469 --> 00:22:51,937
So I do get it.

557
00:22:51,937 --> 00:22:53,672
12 years in. Front of the year.

558
00:22:53,672 --> 00:22:55,574
We faked it.

559
00:22:55,574 --> 00:22:57,976
We were like where the tree would be.

560
00:22:57,976 --> 00:23:01,546
So wherever you had your brand new signs
made, you should have a cutout

561
00:23:01,546 --> 00:23:05,517
made of Steve the Tree
and just use it for photos.

562
00:23:06,318 --> 00:23:07,819
Okay, I like it. I like.

563
00:23:09,121 --> 00:23:10,322
Well, that's great.

564
00:23:10,322 --> 00:23:12,224
So we play a game. Three keys.

565
00:23:12,224 --> 00:23:14,593
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566
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570
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571
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572
00:23:27,939 --> 00:23:30,275
Sally and Bob's

573
00:23:30,275 --> 00:23:30,742
the fix.

574
00:23:30,742 --> 00:23:33,812
Ivy float 41 and West Hartford lock.

575
00:23:33,812 --> 00:23:36,181
So with West Hartford locks
you with three keys?

576
00:23:36,181 --> 00:23:39,251
Yeah. Great. Clever, clever. Yep yep yep.

577
00:23:39,885 --> 00:23:42,921
Three keys that, we're going to say

578
00:23:43,922 --> 00:23:46,691
make you a good fit for town council.

579
00:23:46,691 --> 00:23:50,262
Three keys and three keys
that make you a good fit for your car.

580
00:23:50,462 --> 00:23:51,563
I mean, to go first. Yes.

581
00:23:51,563 --> 00:23:53,365
These three key, three keys.

582
00:23:53,365 --> 00:23:56,868
So my first key would be,

583
00:23:58,036 --> 00:24:00,238
humility.

584
00:24:00,238 --> 00:24:03,241
Knowing that I'm not always going
to have the right answer.

585
00:24:03,675 --> 00:24:06,678
And I should rely on others.

586
00:24:06,745 --> 00:24:11,183
Second key, obviously listening.

587
00:24:11,183 --> 00:24:12,851
I think that's the most important thing.

588
00:24:13,885 --> 00:24:16,888
And lastly, compassion,

589
00:24:16,922 --> 00:24:21,660
listening without judgment,
trying to fully understand situations

590
00:24:21,660 --> 00:24:26,164
before, jumping to conclusions
or making decisions or speaking.

591
00:24:26,832 --> 00:24:27,799
Got it. Compassion.

592
00:24:27,799 --> 00:24:29,401
Listening. Humility I like.

593
00:24:29,401 --> 00:24:29,801
All right.

594
00:24:29,801 --> 00:24:32,671
So now I am going to come up
with three different keys.

595
00:24:32,671 --> 00:24:34,840
I'll say yes and yes.

596
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,243
My three are

597
00:24:38,243 --> 00:24:41,480
I am a I'm curious about learning things.

598
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:45,050
And so I like to learn different people's
perspectives and,

599
00:24:45,317 --> 00:24:46,952
see what's been done elsewhere.

600
00:24:46,952 --> 00:24:51,957
So I would say curiosity,
I look for practical solutions.

601
00:24:52,324 --> 00:24:56,761
And, the third is,
I believe in fiscal responsibility.

602
00:24:57,629 --> 00:25:02,100
Nice fiscal responsibility, practicality,
practicality.

603
00:25:02,100 --> 00:25:03,935
Curiosity and. Curiosity.

604
00:25:03,935 --> 00:25:05,637
That's teachers love hearing that.

605
00:25:05,637 --> 00:25:07,539
Curious kids are the best kids.

606
00:25:07,539 --> 00:25:09,307
So our students wise.

607
00:25:09,307 --> 00:25:12,410
But you want someone
that you know wants to learn.

608
00:25:13,678 --> 00:25:14,779
Well human in general.

609
00:25:14,779 --> 00:25:15,547
Right. Right.

610
00:25:15,547 --> 00:25:15,780
Yeah.

611
00:25:15,780 --> 00:25:18,984
It makes it makes for a great human
just being curious all the time.

612
00:25:19,384 --> 00:25:21,953
You realize
you've got that beginner's mind

613
00:25:21,953 --> 00:25:24,556
and you're open to new experiences
and people.

614
00:25:24,556 --> 00:25:25,657
Yeah. And ideas.

615
00:25:25,657 --> 00:25:28,660
That's great.

616
00:25:29,694 --> 00:25:31,963
Anything that you want to add,

617
00:25:31,963 --> 00:25:36,134
you know, about your, your, your journey,

618
00:25:36,268 --> 00:25:39,271
pursuing this town council.

619
00:25:40,038 --> 00:25:42,007
This has been very educational.

620
00:25:42,007 --> 00:25:45,010
That has been my canned answer

621
00:25:45,710 --> 00:25:47,612
is a very educational, you know,

622
00:25:47,612 --> 00:25:52,017
because I had no, ambitions to do this.

623
00:25:52,250 --> 00:25:55,921
It was just like time and opportunity
that it presented itself.

624
00:25:55,921 --> 00:25:57,556
And I said, sure, let me do this.

625
00:25:57,556 --> 00:26:01,526
And I really, you know,
you could talk to people all day

626
00:26:01,893 --> 00:26:03,995
and get all the advice
and all the feedback,

627
00:26:03,995 --> 00:26:06,998
but it's like you never really know
until you experience it.

628
00:26:07,032 --> 00:26:10,402
And it has been an education
mentally, physically, emotionally,

629
00:26:10,402 --> 00:26:12,037
spiritually, everything.

630
00:26:12,037 --> 00:26:15,974
It's just opened my eyes to not just,

631
00:26:16,474 --> 00:26:21,947
how the town
operates, how politics work, but just

632
00:26:23,014 --> 00:26:24,382
a new type of education.

633
00:26:24,382 --> 00:26:28,520
I never thought,
I would receive this, you.

634
00:26:29,521 --> 00:26:33,558
Know, I get what you mean, because it's
something, you know, you didn't.

635
00:26:33,558 --> 00:26:35,427
You say
you didn't have the ambition before,

636
00:26:35,427 --> 00:26:38,430
but once you decide
you want to go for this,

637
00:26:38,597 --> 00:26:43,068
it becomes, It's like a full body sport.

638
00:26:43,168 --> 00:26:46,705
You go through a campaign,
even on the local level.

639
00:26:47,038 --> 00:26:49,741
And I don't know how people do it
on the national level,

640
00:26:49,741 --> 00:26:52,744
where there's all kinds of traveling
that isn't just, oh, I'm going to drive

641
00:26:52,744 --> 00:26:56,915
across town now and go see Eric's
neighborhood versus my own.

642
00:26:57,549 --> 00:27:02,187
But it is, a level of commitment
and just keeping in mind

643
00:27:02,187 --> 00:27:05,857
that this is a volunteer gig,
but we are, aiming for right now.

644
00:27:05,857 --> 00:27:11,730
So everybody who's running is running
to serve the town as a volunteer.

645
00:27:12,130 --> 00:27:14,366
I think that's really important
to keep in mind.

646
00:27:14,366 --> 00:27:18,603
Now, do other towns offer pay for that?

647
00:27:18,603 --> 00:27:19,971
Some and some.

648
00:27:19,971 --> 00:27:24,643
They've even our mayor is a volunteer in
West Hartford where other mayors get paid.

649
00:27:24,976 --> 00:27:26,111
Yes. Yeah.

650
00:27:26,111 --> 00:27:29,047
Is there any talks of that changing?

651
00:27:29,047 --> 00:27:30,148
There hasn't been since.

652
00:27:30,148 --> 00:27:32,584
I've since. I've been on the town council.

653
00:27:32,584 --> 00:27:35,620
There haven't,
we haven't had any discussions like that.

654
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,290
I remember during Covid
I was sitting on the Board of Education.

655
00:27:39,290 --> 00:27:42,460
You may remember this, that in Florida,

656
00:27:42,460 --> 00:27:48,299
the governor threatened to withhold
the pay of the school board members

657
00:27:48,299 --> 00:27:53,471
if the school district required masks,
or remote learning.

658
00:27:53,772 --> 00:27:56,041
And I was like,
the pay for the school board members.

659
00:27:56,041 --> 00:27:57,809
What in the world? What is he doing?

660
00:27:57,809 --> 00:27:59,310
He's going to hold my $0.

661
00:27:59,310 --> 00:28:01,146
So I looked it up and it was like, oh,

662
00:28:01,146 --> 00:28:04,516
and Florida school board members
make like $30,000 a year.

663
00:28:04,983 --> 00:28:09,087
And, I mean, it's not enough to not have
another job, but it's more than zero.

664
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,055
Yeah, it's for sure.

665
00:28:11,322 --> 00:28:13,224
But I do think,

666
00:28:13,224 --> 00:28:15,927
serving as a volunteer means

667
00:28:15,927 --> 00:28:20,498
you're getting people who are really,
really committed to the work itself.

668
00:28:21,866 --> 00:28:24,502
And obviously you're not in it
just for the paycheck, right?

669
00:28:24,502 --> 00:28:27,505
You're in it because you want to do
what's best for the community.

670
00:28:29,407 --> 00:28:31,676
And where do you see yourself in
five years?

671
00:28:31,676 --> 00:28:34,179
Oh goodness.

672
00:28:34,179 --> 00:28:35,680
I never even saw myself here.

673
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:41,252
So it's you know I cannot tell you
but I love living in West Hartford.

674
00:28:41,252 --> 00:28:42,520
I love my life right now.

675
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:43,555
I love my job.

676
00:28:43,555 --> 00:28:45,957
I don't want to change anything
in this moment.

677
00:28:45,957 --> 00:28:47,926
I don't want to change anything.
One step at a time.

678
00:28:47,926 --> 00:28:49,227
Yeah yeah yeah.

679
00:28:49,227 --> 00:28:51,996
It's tough sometimes.

680
00:28:51,996 --> 00:28:55,166
Yeah I would agree with I, I love
all of those things for myself as well.

681
00:28:55,166 --> 00:28:56,935
Yeah I don't, I don't,
I don't think that there's anything

682
00:28:56,935 --> 00:28:58,603
I want to change right now. Yeah.

683
00:28:59,938 --> 00:29:02,640
Kind of just like living in the moment
and when, you know,

684
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,243
kind of like this
when the opportunity presents itself

685
00:29:05,243 --> 00:29:06,978
and if it feels right,
then I'll go for it.

686
00:29:06,978 --> 00:29:09,481
But right now I'm like, this feels good.

687
00:29:09,481 --> 00:29:10,982
I like being. On the podcast.

688
00:29:10,982 --> 00:29:13,251
That too. Yeah.
Being here with good people.

689
00:29:13,251 --> 00:29:14,185
Yeah, yeah.

690
00:29:14,185 --> 00:29:16,654
Make sure you like and subscribe
for any talks with friends.

691
00:29:16,654 --> 00:29:17,689
Hey, that's right.

692
00:29:17,689 --> 00:29:20,425
Episode 152 here with Deb and Lisa.

693
00:29:20,425 --> 00:29:23,027
Oh yeah.

694
00:29:23,027 --> 00:29:24,562
Who put us in connection?

695
00:29:24,562 --> 00:29:25,263
Do you know, do.

696
00:29:25,263 --> 00:29:26,498
You remember, I can't remember.

697
00:29:26,498 --> 00:29:29,501
Oh my God,
that's another challenge of this.

698
00:29:30,135 --> 00:29:32,704
Well, Liam. Yeah. That's mine. Yes.

699
00:29:32,704 --> 00:29:36,174
My, Yeah, Liam was the original,
but there are multiple people

700
00:29:36,174 --> 00:29:37,142
who mentioned you to me.

701
00:29:37,142 --> 00:29:39,210
Leo, the guy. Liam's awesome. Yep.

702
00:29:39,210 --> 00:29:40,078
Liam's great.

703
00:29:40,078 --> 00:29:42,947
He was like, you got to connect with Lisa.

704
00:29:42,947 --> 00:29:45,583
I was like, absolutely.
So thank you, Liam.

705
00:29:45,583 --> 00:29:46,317
Great guy.

706
00:29:46,317 --> 00:29:48,086
How you doing, sweetie?

707
00:29:48,086 --> 00:29:51,289
30 100, right near top 50.

708
00:29:51,389 --> 00:29:53,758
Yeah. When we meet friends of Feeney,
the original Phoebe.

709
00:29:53,758 --> 00:29:54,692
Yeah.

710
00:29:54,692 --> 00:29:56,761
He's a Knicks fan. He's an OG.

711
00:29:56,761 --> 00:29:59,264
He played basketball with him. He's
a great guy.

712
00:29:59,264 --> 00:30:03,067
Okay I don't yeah,
I stopped playing sports in high school.

713
00:30:03,201 --> 00:30:06,871
So, now that I live with a boy,

714
00:30:07,405 --> 00:30:11,342
I watch sports all day, every day,
and it's absolutely annoying.

715
00:30:11,342 --> 00:30:12,744
He watches football.

716
00:30:12,744 --> 00:30:13,878
He watches baseball.

717
00:30:13,878 --> 00:30:15,480
He'll watch soccer. Lacrosse.

718
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,316
If there's a sport
on, he's going to watch it.

719
00:30:18,316 --> 00:30:22,587
And so now he has his own little porch,
his patio, whatever.

720
00:30:22,587 --> 00:30:24,823
If he wants to watch his sports,
he watches it out there.

721
00:30:24,823 --> 00:30:27,992
I'm like,
do not bring it into the main living area.

722
00:30:30,862 --> 00:30:33,765
I know more about sports that I want to.

723
00:30:33,765 --> 00:30:34,499
And then.

724
00:30:34,499 --> 00:30:36,334
I'm a Cowboys fan. I'm sorry.

725
00:30:36,334 --> 00:30:38,536
I know this is what's happened.

726
00:30:38,536 --> 00:30:40,772
Yeah, not. A football fan.

727
00:30:40,772 --> 00:30:42,640
Well, I'm
not a fan. Here's why I clarify.

728
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:43,741
I'm not really a fan.

729
00:30:43,741 --> 00:30:46,644
I have to say I'm a Dallas.

730
00:30:46,644 --> 00:30:49,314
City,
so I grew up in Massachusetts in the 80s.

731
00:30:49,314 --> 00:30:51,649
The Patriots were terrible.

732
00:30:51,649 --> 00:30:54,786
And in my house it went,

733
00:30:54,786 --> 00:30:57,956
Red Sox, Celtics, Bruins.

734
00:30:57,956 --> 00:31:01,259
And then about like 50
steps down the ladder where the Patriots.

735
00:31:01,726 --> 00:31:03,962
That's great.

736
00:31:03,962 --> 00:31:06,030
Maybe they weren't
even on the ladder actually.

737
00:31:06,030 --> 00:31:08,933
And when you came to Connecticut
Celtics is acceptable in Connecticut.

738
00:31:08,933 --> 00:31:09,067
Yeah.

739
00:31:09,067 --> 00:31:12,070
And Red Sox are all of
those teams are acceptable here.

740
00:31:12,136 --> 00:31:13,471
Depends right.

741
00:31:13,471 --> 00:31:15,039
That was a big change for me.
West Hartford

742
00:31:15,039 --> 00:31:18,109
I went to TJ Max and I'm like,
oh what's all this Red Sox stuff.

743
00:31:18,109 --> 00:31:19,811
And TJ I thought we're in Connecticut.

744
00:31:19,811 --> 00:31:22,780
I'm from was from Waterbury
then lived in New Haven.

745
00:31:22,780 --> 00:31:25,283
Yeah. Yankee New York.
So there's like a New Haven.

746
00:31:25,283 --> 00:31:28,152
Maybe Waterbury is the line
where it starts to turn.

747
00:31:28,152 --> 00:31:30,355
Oh, there's all kinds of great data
about that, actually.

748
00:31:30,355 --> 00:31:33,024
Oh, yeah. Where the line actually where?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

749
00:31:33,024 --> 00:31:35,560
Where do you think the line. It's
actually a sort of a diagonal.

750
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,629
Yeah.
So it's not just eastern Connecticut.

751
00:31:37,629 --> 00:31:39,831
It comes over a little bit, west.

752
00:31:39,831 --> 00:31:42,433
And I see that there are Mets
fans here as well.

753
00:31:42,433 --> 00:31:45,270
Oh yeah. People
forget about that. But there are a few.

754
00:31:47,138 --> 00:31:48,840
And how was your day today?

755
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,909
What'd you guys do? It's Tuesday.

756
00:31:50,909 --> 00:31:51,843
Where I. Work.

757
00:31:51,843 --> 00:31:54,379
Lisa and I both work side hustle.

758
00:31:54,379 --> 00:31:56,080
That's our job, right?

759
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,316
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

760
00:31:58,316 --> 00:32:00,752
You know, preparing for the end
of the year and working in H.R.

761
00:32:00,752 --> 00:32:03,755
You know, we're
preparing for our open enrollment.

762
00:32:04,522 --> 00:32:05,957
So when people change, they're pregnant.

763
00:32:05,957 --> 00:32:07,258
Pause.

764
00:32:07,258 --> 00:32:08,493
I mean, I remember when.

765
00:32:08,493 --> 00:32:10,795
Yeah. Your, medical benefits.

766
00:32:10,795 --> 00:32:13,765
We'll find out what the new premiums
will be soon.

767
00:32:13,765 --> 00:32:14,732
And you're the associate

768
00:32:14,732 --> 00:32:18,636
director of compliance and recruitment
YWCA in the Hartford region. Rex.

769
00:32:18,736 --> 00:32:19,203
Correct.

770
00:32:19,203 --> 00:32:20,038
My background.

771
00:32:20,038 --> 00:32:24,175
Prior to joining the YWCA,
I was in real estate.

772
00:32:24,175 --> 00:32:28,179
And before that, I was the business, 
vice president of operations

773
00:32:28,179 --> 00:32:31,182
and business development
for a financial compliance firm.

774
00:32:31,849 --> 00:32:34,319
And so that's where the compliance
experience come from.

775
00:32:35,253 --> 00:32:38,256
Now is being an H.R.

776
00:32:38,990 --> 00:32:41,359
Like being a third grade teacher. Do it.

777
00:32:41,359 --> 00:32:43,461
Do you do it when employees.

778
00:32:43,461 --> 00:32:44,429
Like interesting.

779
00:32:44,429 --> 00:32:47,031
Are getting when they're getting
not being nice to each other to do.

780
00:32:47,031 --> 00:32:48,633
You have to it's so problems.

781
00:32:48,633 --> 00:32:53,171
I was actually talking to, someone else
who already, you know, nameless,

782
00:32:53,371 --> 00:32:54,605
said, oh, you work in H.R.

783
00:32:54,605 --> 00:32:56,541
So you spend a lot of your time
putting out fires.

784
00:32:56,541 --> 00:33:01,279
And I rather consider myself,
you know, someone who empowers people to,

785
00:33:01,546 --> 00:33:05,116
you know, perform their work,
making sure they have the resources

786
00:33:05,116 --> 00:33:07,919
and skills they need to do their job.

787
00:33:07,919 --> 00:33:09,787
Making sure
they have the communication skills

788
00:33:09,787 --> 00:33:14,425
they need to overcome any challenges
with their peers or supervisors.

789
00:33:14,692 --> 00:33:20,164
So I see my role more as empowering
people as opposed to putting out fliers.

790
00:33:20,164 --> 00:33:20,498
Okay.

791
00:33:20,498 --> 00:33:23,067
And so when you approach it
from that perspective,

792
00:33:23,067 --> 00:33:25,370
you're being more proactive
in creating a culture

793
00:33:25,370 --> 00:33:28,373
where people like showing up to work
and working with each other.

794
00:33:28,773 --> 00:33:33,378
So that is very interesting because
obviously you will get those stories.

795
00:33:33,911 --> 00:33:34,779
Yeah.

796
00:33:34,779 --> 00:33:37,715
But it's regular people problems. Yeah.

797
00:33:37,715 --> 00:33:41,486
It's usually always comes down
to miscommunication all the time.

798
00:33:41,486 --> 00:33:43,021
Always comes out in miscommunication.

799
00:33:43,955 --> 00:33:44,589
Very nice.

800
00:33:44,589 --> 00:33:45,156
Yeah.

801
00:33:45,156 --> 00:33:48,459
And you're the Deb is the chief
strategy officer

802
00:33:48,459 --> 00:33:51,462
for the Community
Health Center Association of Connecticut.

803
00:33:51,462 --> 00:33:54,465
That is sort of a mouthful, but okay.

804
00:33:54,632 --> 00:33:56,401
Oh that's cool. Act. We say.

805
00:33:56,401 --> 00:33:58,236
What is it, CHC act.

806
00:33:58,236 --> 00:34:00,271
Oh, okay. CHC act I see that.

807
00:34:00,271 --> 00:34:04,342
And we work with, our state's community
health centers

808
00:34:04,575 --> 00:34:06,010
to help them do what they do better.

809
00:34:06,010 --> 00:34:09,514
So what they do
is they provide medical, dental

810
00:34:09,514 --> 00:34:12,950
and behavioral health care to all people,
regardless of ability to pay.

811
00:34:13,317 --> 00:34:19,290
And so you can have Medicare, Medicaid,
you can have commercial insurance,

812
00:34:19,290 --> 00:34:22,693
or you can be uninsured, and a community
health center will serve you.

813
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,264
So we have 17 community health center
organizations in Connecticut,

814
00:34:26,531 --> 00:34:29,567
and we are, the trade association
that works with them.

815
00:34:29,801 --> 00:34:32,870
And my role is around public
policy and advocacy.

816
00:34:33,171 --> 00:34:37,608
Media communications work
and then building community partnerships.

817
00:34:37,975 --> 00:34:40,778
Nice. And how long have you been there?

818
00:34:40,778 --> 00:34:45,817
Well, I am am apparently what they call a
boomerang employee or a rebound employee.

819
00:34:45,817 --> 00:34:50,521
So, I did work there from 2012
to 2019, left

820
00:34:50,521 --> 00:34:53,524
for a different job,
and I came back about two years ago.

821
00:34:53,524 --> 00:34:55,259
And this new role. Nice.

822
00:34:55,259 --> 00:34:57,028
And how long were you in that position?

823
00:34:57,028 --> 00:35:00,832
I love to mention that I started my job
the same day

824
00:35:00,832 --> 00:35:04,535
President Trump was inaugurated,
January 21st.

825
00:35:04,535 --> 00:35:08,773
I am counterprogramming
that's how I like to refer to myself.

826
00:35:08,806 --> 00:35:09,140
Nice.

827
00:35:10,975 --> 00:35:11,242
Because I

828
00:35:11,242 --> 00:35:13,611
of course,
as soon as I started at the YWCA,

829
00:35:13,611 --> 00:35:17,482
he started his job and then he wanted
to like basically put an X on everything

830
00:35:17,482 --> 00:35:22,220
that the YWCA does or your organization
does and, like, okay, well.

831
00:35:22,220 --> 00:35:25,323
It's kind of very interesting
nine months in the health care

832
00:35:25,323 --> 00:35:27,425
sphere and social services for sure.

833
00:35:27,425 --> 00:35:30,428
Yeah. Keeps us on our toes. Yeah.

834
00:35:30,895 --> 00:35:32,430
And then you have some good friends.

835
00:35:32,430 --> 00:35:37,902
I want to shout out and mention you took
the Who's step down out of town council.

836
00:35:37,902 --> 00:35:39,904
That and you took her role. Who was. That?

837
00:35:39,904 --> 00:35:40,938
Adrian Billing Smith.

838
00:35:40,938 --> 00:35:42,440
Yes. Ace.

839
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,408
Yeah. So 3060.

840
00:35:44,408 --> 00:35:46,410
Yeah. And Feeney talks to friends.

841
00:35:46,410 --> 00:35:48,312
Go back and check it out.
Ace is a good friend.

842
00:35:48,312 --> 00:35:48,746
She is.

843
00:35:48,746 --> 00:35:52,717
She is a good friend and still doing
great work on behalf of our town

844
00:35:52,717 --> 00:35:54,118
and our state, actually.

845
00:35:54,118 --> 00:35:55,453
So yeah, it was an honor to be able to
I was.

846
00:35:55,453 --> 00:35:57,722
Great, just text me on a. Chair.

847
00:35:57,722 --> 00:36:01,259
CP's trying to get a basketball team,
so they're doing some fundraising.

848
00:36:01,259 --> 00:36:04,662
So I'm going to try to help her donate.

849
00:36:04,762 --> 00:36:06,030
But yeah, she's great.

850
00:36:06,030 --> 00:36:09,033
KP you girls are the boys or a great.

851
00:36:09,033 --> 00:36:10,801
That'd be great. And she's a baller too.
Yeah.

852
00:36:10,801 --> 00:36:15,439
She is thousand point scorer and thousand
point rebounder at Central Florida.

853
00:36:15,506 --> 00:36:17,375
Oh you did your
homework on that. Yeah. Yeah.

854
00:36:18,342 --> 00:36:21,546
She's And then you had some friends.

855
00:36:21,546 --> 00:36:22,446
Carol blanks.

856
00:36:22,446 --> 00:36:24,015
Yes, we have friends.

857
00:36:24,015 --> 00:36:25,383
We are all friends. Carol.

858
00:36:25,383 --> 00:36:27,785
I surf together on the board.
And our town council.

859
00:36:27,785 --> 00:36:29,520
She has twins. Yeah.

860
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,022
So we talk twins all the time.

861
00:36:31,022 --> 00:36:32,757
Are you have so much common ground, Ernie.

862
00:36:32,757 --> 00:36:33,591
You're like.

863
00:36:33,591 --> 00:36:33,991
Oh, thanks.

864
00:36:33,991 --> 00:36:36,961
Any 12, 12 deliveries? No, I have twins.

865
00:36:37,361 --> 00:36:38,396
I don't have twins.

866
00:36:38,396 --> 00:36:40,598
My my brothers I have there are twin.

867
00:36:40,598 --> 00:36:42,567
Chances there in the fan.

868
00:36:42,567 --> 00:36:44,101
What are the chances.

869
00:36:44,101 --> 00:36:46,037
Mayor running I'm trying to get him up.

870
00:36:46,037 --> 00:36:48,539
I go yeah you try and you know,
I could put in a word for you.

871
00:36:48,539 --> 00:36:50,341
Oh. You're the guy.

872
00:36:50,341 --> 00:36:53,344
Make the connection. Yeah, let's do it.

873
00:36:53,444 --> 00:36:55,146
No. It's great. It's awesome too. Yeah.

874
00:36:55,146 --> 00:36:57,181
So no good friends.

875
00:36:58,349 --> 00:36:58,849
Yeah.

876
00:36:58,849 --> 00:37:01,219
Speaking
of friends, our motto is be a good friend.

877
00:37:01,219 --> 00:37:03,120
So hold the door.

878
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,123
Give compliments, be charitable.

879
00:37:06,724 --> 00:37:08,426
Pick up trash. It's not yours.

880
00:37:08,426 --> 00:37:12,129
So if you were to take turns
and maybe someone that we just mentioned.

881
00:37:12,463 --> 00:37:14,065
Or are you, you guys

882
00:37:14,065 --> 00:37:17,068
who would be a good friend
and what what makes them a good friend?

883
00:37:18,102 --> 00:37:19,170
You could talk about each other.

884
00:37:19,170 --> 00:37:22,173
Super cheesy,
but my husband is my best friend.

885
00:37:22,340 --> 00:37:27,278
Iron is just an incredible person,
and I feel so fortunate.

886
00:37:27,278 --> 00:37:29,647
We've been married for 30 years.

887
00:37:29,647 --> 00:37:31,449
We've been together since we were 19.

888
00:37:31,449 --> 00:37:34,452
Congratulations. And, he just.

889
00:37:34,452 --> 00:37:37,455
He makes the world a better place
for a lot of people.

890
00:37:37,622 --> 00:37:37,989
Nice.

891
00:37:37,989 --> 00:37:39,957
But importantly, also for me.

892
00:37:39,957 --> 00:37:41,759
Yeah.

893
00:37:41,759 --> 00:37:43,561
30 years. Congrats. So, like. Yeah.

894
00:37:43,561 --> 00:37:45,596
Yeah,
I got married when I was ten, obviously.

895
00:37:45,596 --> 00:37:46,397
Haha. Yeah.

896
00:37:46,397 --> 00:37:49,500
And I remember he,
he drives like far away for his job.

897
00:37:49,500 --> 00:37:50,568
He works in Basra.

898
00:37:50,568 --> 00:37:53,237
He's the principal at Fields
Memorial School,

899
00:37:53,237 --> 00:37:55,906
which I learned this summer is the longest

900
00:37:55,906 --> 00:37:58,909
continuously operating school
in the state of Connecticut.

901
00:37:58,943 --> 00:38:01,812
Oh wow. Yeah. Wfsb did a story on them.

902
00:38:01,812 --> 00:38:05,750
And like he's like,
not many schools are out there, right?

903
00:38:05,750 --> 00:38:07,351
He it's one.

904
00:38:07,351 --> 00:38:09,553
Yeah. He yeah. So the town of Boston.

905
00:38:09,553 --> 00:38:10,921
And it like cancels or.

906
00:38:10,921 --> 00:38:13,491
Yeah the town of Basra has one school.

907
00:38:13,491 --> 00:38:15,326
It goes pre-K through eighth grade.

908
00:38:15,326 --> 00:38:17,695
He's the principal of the one school.

909
00:38:17,695 --> 00:38:21,198
It has, 175 students or so.

910
00:38:21,666 --> 00:38:24,001
And, so it's one class per grade.

911
00:38:24,001 --> 00:38:27,905
They travel with each other
and they have a part time superintendent,

912
00:38:27,905 --> 00:38:31,976
a part time pupil services director,
and he is the one full time administrator.

913
00:38:32,109 --> 00:38:33,644
So nice community too.

914
00:38:33,644 --> 00:38:34,679
So wonderful community.

915
00:38:34,679 --> 00:38:37,081
Yeah. Rural. Yeah. Yeah.

916
00:38:37,081 --> 00:38:39,283
They have eggs. A lot of eggs.

917
00:38:39,283 --> 00:38:39,483
Yeah.

918
00:38:39,483 --> 00:38:42,320
Check your egg container
if you're buying local.

919
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,221
A lot of them are coming from Basra.

920
00:38:44,221 --> 00:38:46,757
Do you put them in the fridge
or keep them on the counter?

921
00:38:46,757 --> 00:38:48,726
Well,
when we buy eggs at the grocery store,

922
00:38:48,726 --> 00:38:50,561
we put them in the fridge occasionally.

923
00:38:50,561 --> 00:38:53,464
He will not it? Not often enough,
I have to say.

924
00:38:53,464 --> 00:38:57,301
But occasionally he will come home
with something that somebody grew

925
00:38:57,301 --> 00:39:00,571
and brought in and or,
you know, was generous to give him.

926
00:39:00,671 --> 00:39:03,674
Because my brother lives in New Hartford,
now has chickens.

927
00:39:03,908 --> 00:39:05,943
You keep them on the.
Counter, are supposed to.

928
00:39:05,943 --> 00:39:07,745
And it's like in the yolks, really yellow.

929
00:39:07,745 --> 00:39:09,113
There's a there's a.

930
00:39:09,113 --> 00:39:09,780
Step some.

931
00:39:09,780 --> 00:39:13,217
Getting used to it, the texture
or the taste, but gets the job.

932
00:39:13,217 --> 00:39:14,385
Done scrambled.

933
00:39:14,385 --> 00:39:16,520
And everything seasoning. Haha.

934
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,023
I do love everything about the bagel.

935
00:39:19,023 --> 00:39:20,157
Yes, yes, I do love it.

936
00:39:20,157 --> 00:39:22,093
And there's a Filipino one.

937
00:39:22,093 --> 00:39:23,994
Got to go for me.

938
00:39:23,994 --> 00:39:25,429
I see it for two different day.

939
00:39:26,597 --> 00:39:26,897
All right.

940
00:39:26,897 --> 00:39:29,467
Lisa, who's your friend? Oh, friends.

941
00:39:29,467 --> 00:39:31,702
A trait that I think friends should have.

942
00:39:31,702 --> 00:39:34,205
Or could have. Or who is a good friend.

943
00:39:34,205 --> 00:39:36,006
Anyone who practices acceptance.

944
00:39:36,006 --> 00:39:38,409
I love all of my friends. They're just.

945
00:39:38,409 --> 00:39:39,910
And including family members.

946
00:39:39,910 --> 00:39:43,347
They're very good at accepting people
for who they are.

947
00:39:44,348 --> 00:39:45,716
No judgment.

948
00:39:45,716 --> 00:39:48,886
What I love about my friends,
including my partner

949
00:39:48,886 --> 00:39:52,623
John Blair, is they laugh at me,
and that's kind of like a rule

950
00:39:52,623 --> 00:39:55,159
I need you to just laugh at me.

951
00:39:55,159 --> 00:39:59,430
I need you to not take me seriously
so that I don't take myself too seriously.

952
00:39:59,764 --> 00:40:04,168
And knowing that who I am showing up
or how I'm showing up in this minute,

953
00:40:04,301 --> 00:40:08,205
this moment right here might not be
the same as how I show up tomorrow.

954
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:09,874
You know, I could
something could have happened,

955
00:40:09,874 --> 00:40:12,610
something could have triggered
or whatever, you know?

956
00:40:12,610 --> 00:40:16,046
So I just love and even me, I do that.

957
00:40:16,046 --> 00:40:17,148
I like to think that I do that.

958
00:40:17,148 --> 00:40:18,315
Just accept people for who they are

959
00:40:18,315 --> 00:40:21,018
and how they're showing up in that moment
and just embrace it and laugh it.

960
00:40:21,018 --> 00:40:23,821
Nothing's that serious. It's,
you know, good trait.

961
00:40:23,821 --> 00:40:25,122
Yeah, yeah.

962
00:40:25,122 --> 00:40:26,056
I like humor.

963
00:40:26,056 --> 00:40:27,391
Yeah. Me too.

964
00:40:27,391 --> 00:40:28,626
Some humor.

965
00:40:28,626 --> 00:40:30,261
Having a good time. All of it. Yeah.

966
00:40:30,261 --> 00:40:32,129
Smiling is positive attitude.

967
00:40:32,129 --> 00:40:34,965
And smiling
goes a long way. Yeah, absolutely.

968
00:40:36,500 --> 00:40:38,502
All right, so I'm a teacher.

969
00:40:38,502 --> 00:40:40,237
What is it now? 22 years?

970
00:40:40,237 --> 00:40:43,107
Nine years in Waterbury
at Kingsbury School.

971
00:40:43,107 --> 00:40:45,443
The same school I went to as a kid.

972
00:40:45,443 --> 00:40:47,611
My favorite teacher was Mrs. Jarell.

973
00:40:47,611 --> 00:40:48,746
She was my fifth grade teacher.

974
00:40:48,746 --> 00:40:51,081
Went on to be the principal
who hired me to be a teacher.

975
00:40:51,081 --> 00:40:52,817
And now I'm currently in West Hartford.

976
00:40:52,817 --> 00:40:55,052
13 years in, Mr.

977
00:40:55,052 --> 00:40:56,287
Drill was my favorite teacher.

978
00:40:56,287 --> 00:40:58,622
Do you have a favorite teacher?

979
00:40:58,622 --> 00:40:59,723
God, this is so hard.

980
00:40:59,723 --> 00:41:00,825
That's a hard question.

981
00:41:00,825 --> 00:41:03,661
And also shout out
you went to Wren Brook and Miss Porter's.

982
00:41:03,661 --> 00:41:05,696
Yes. Very nice. Yeah.
The two. Wonderful school.

983
00:41:05,696 --> 00:41:07,832
So that's why it's going to be so hard
to pick a teacher.

984
00:41:07,832 --> 00:41:10,501
I'm almost thinking I should pick someone
from my elementary school.

985
00:41:10,501 --> 00:41:13,804
I went
I worked for two for one, and we did,

986
00:41:15,206 --> 00:41:15,673
Saint.

987
00:41:15,673 --> 00:41:17,441
Now, Miss Porter's this summer.

988
00:41:17,441 --> 00:41:18,242
Beautiful camp.

989
00:41:18,242 --> 00:41:20,411
Yeah, the. Food in the caf. Phenomenal.

990
00:41:20,411 --> 00:41:23,013
So I'll definitely change
since I've been there, but. Yeah. Okay.

991
00:41:23,013 --> 00:41:25,249
Is that all, girl?
So it was an all girls camp.

992
00:41:25,249 --> 00:41:26,717
My daughters were counselors.

993
00:41:26,717 --> 00:41:28,652
I was like, the sports director.

994
00:41:28,652 --> 00:41:29,420
It was great.

995
00:41:29,420 --> 00:41:33,123
I was after working ten years at, 
High Meadow Day Camp, we switched up

996
00:41:33,123 --> 00:41:34,291
and went to two for one.

997
00:41:34,291 --> 00:41:37,261
But, that Miss Porter's was an excellent
school, so.

998
00:41:37,261 --> 00:41:38,362
Yeah.

999
00:41:38,362 --> 00:41:39,830
And the curve.

1000
00:41:39,830 --> 00:41:42,333
Yeah, exactly. The, new headmistress.

1001
00:41:42,333 --> 00:41:46,871
She's definitely, invested a lot
in the athletics program, which is.

1002
00:41:46,871 --> 00:41:48,172
And it shows. It's beautiful.

1003
00:41:48,172 --> 00:41:50,040
And I love the new motto, girls win here.

1004
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,377
And I know that works with sports and
and academics and leadership.

1005
00:41:53,410 --> 00:41:54,612
It's great.

1006
00:41:54,612 --> 00:41:55,880
I love it, but.

1007
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,749
Teacher. Favorite teacher. Oh my God.

1008
00:41:59,717 --> 00:42:01,519
I'm going to have to say,

1009
00:42:01,519 --> 00:42:04,889
Maggie Middaugh
I'm going to shout her out

1010
00:42:04,889 --> 00:42:08,792
because we actually found each other
on Facebook a couple days ago.

1011
00:42:09,226 --> 00:42:12,863
She was my seventh grade
math teacher in, at run Brook.

1012
00:42:13,030 --> 00:42:16,800
And she was just,
you know, being at Rumble, coming from,

1013
00:42:17,368 --> 00:42:19,970
you know, public school as,
like a 12 or 13 year old.

1014
00:42:19,970 --> 00:42:21,772
And then you go to this private school.

1015
00:42:21,772 --> 00:42:23,207
It was a lot of firsts.

1016
00:42:23,207 --> 00:42:26,911
And she was my, like, homeroom
teacher and,

1017
00:42:27,244 --> 00:42:29,113
you know, math teacher,
and she'd do these things.

1018
00:42:29,113 --> 00:42:31,448
You talk about the decimal dip or,
you know, just try to come up

1019
00:42:31,448 --> 00:42:34,552
with little catchy things
to make you remember, some math

1020
00:42:34,552 --> 00:42:37,555
programs or math.

1021
00:42:37,621 --> 00:42:38,989
What do you call this concept?

1022
00:42:38,989 --> 00:42:40,691
Problem solving concepts. Yeah.

1023
00:42:40,691 --> 00:42:43,060
So she was just always so lovely, so nice.

1024
00:42:43,060 --> 00:42:46,897
And she was also, I could tell
she was an athlete in her younger days

1025
00:42:46,897 --> 00:42:47,932
before she was teaching.

1026
00:42:47,932 --> 00:42:51,535
And so she'd say things to,
you know, to make the girls in the room

1027
00:42:51,535 --> 00:42:55,539
or the girl athletes feel like,
you know, whatever, you got a cramp.

1028
00:42:55,539 --> 00:42:57,007
You can work through it. Keep going.

1029
00:42:57,007 --> 00:43:00,978
You know, just this is a very
I found a very empowering and I.

1030
00:43:01,111 --> 00:43:01,845
What was her name?

1031
00:43:01,845 --> 00:43:03,914
Maggie. My door. My door.

1032
00:43:03,914 --> 00:43:05,716
Yeah,
I love it. What minute are we on? So,

1033
00:43:09,086 --> 00:43:10,020
Then the 43.

1034
00:43:10,020 --> 00:43:11,689
You got to send this to Maggie. The door?

1035
00:43:11,689 --> 00:43:13,424
Yes. Mrs. Reynolds or Mr.

1036
00:43:13,424 --> 00:43:14,491
Reynolds there, Coach Reynolds?

1037
00:43:14,491 --> 00:43:17,094
Oh, yes, they were there.
They were great. Yeah.

1038
00:43:17,094 --> 00:43:21,298
I was not the first of all there
to Reynolds, I think.

1039
00:43:21,799 --> 00:43:23,067
No, Mr. Irving.

1040
00:43:23,067 --> 00:43:23,767
No. Yeah.

1041
00:43:23,767 --> 00:43:26,770
Mr. Irving, I remember him more.

1042
00:43:27,371 --> 00:43:30,841
He was like the football coach
and his blond and so friendly, Mr.

1043
00:43:30,841 --> 00:43:33,077
Reynolds.
He taught mostly the varsity sports.

1044
00:43:33,077 --> 00:43:35,613
And I was never really
that good to be on the varsity team.

1045
00:43:35,613 --> 00:43:38,415
Like, by the time I made it to varsity,
there were other coaches there.

1046
00:43:38,415 --> 00:43:39,550
But. Yeah. Well, yeah.

1047
00:43:39,550 --> 00:43:43,220
Mr. Reynolds is the father of Luke
from ball, for sure.

1048
00:43:43,354 --> 00:43:45,522
Okay. That's connection.
That's my. Only right.

1049
00:43:45,522 --> 00:43:47,491
Person. Right
now. Yeah, he's a great guy too.

1050
00:43:47,491 --> 00:43:49,793
Everyone loves him. Didn't
they just dedicate something to him?

1051
00:43:49,793 --> 00:43:50,394
Yeah, yeah.

1052
00:43:50,394 --> 00:43:52,863
Court the name of the court after Coach
Reynolds. Court.

1053
00:43:52,863 --> 00:43:54,698
Now he's a great guy. Pete Reynolds,
great guy.

1054
00:43:54,698 --> 00:43:55,399
Yeah.

1055
00:43:55,399 --> 00:43:58,402
He actually lives across the street
from Wolcott School, too.

1056
00:43:58,669 --> 00:44:00,771
So stop by, tell him I said hello.

1057
00:44:00,771 --> 00:44:01,672
He even remembers me.

1058
00:44:02,940 --> 00:44:05,609
All right, well,
I had time to think of three teachers.

1059
00:44:05,609 --> 00:44:09,780
I want to make sure I mention
one is my kindergarten teacher, Mrs.

1060
00:44:09,780 --> 00:44:14,218
Nolan, who, friended me on Facebook
about, 8 or 9 years ago.

1061
00:44:14,218 --> 00:44:18,455
So, I think, you know,
what was really special is

1062
00:44:18,455 --> 00:44:23,193
she made school fun right from the get
go and made me want to be there.

1063
00:44:23,193 --> 00:44:27,865
And she was just so sweet
the way kindergarten teachers ought to be.

1064
00:44:27,898 --> 00:44:30,267
She's everything
a kindergarten teacher ought to be.

1065
00:44:30,267 --> 00:44:32,369
And then, the second one is Mr.

1066
00:44:32,369 --> 00:44:33,504
Murphy. Mr.

1067
00:44:33,504 --> 00:44:36,306
Murphy was my English teacher
in sixth grade.

1068
00:44:36,306 --> 00:44:39,910
He taught like
an entire generation of people.

1069
00:44:39,910 --> 00:44:42,913
I grew up outside of Boston,
in a town called Peabody.

1070
00:44:43,047 --> 00:44:48,619
There were 8 or 10 elementary schools
in Peabody, and my high school

1071
00:44:48,619 --> 00:44:52,589
English teachers used to say,
we can tell which kids had Mr.

1072
00:44:52,589 --> 00:44:55,659
Murphy in sixth grade by how you write,

1073
00:44:56,260 --> 00:44:59,730
by your grammar and your spelling
and your attention to that.

1074
00:45:00,064 --> 00:45:04,735
And, I mean, so many people that I went
to school where we still talk about Mr.

1075
00:45:04,735 --> 00:45:08,205
Murphy,
he had this eight ball on the end of this

1076
00:45:08,205 --> 00:45:11,208
long, stick like a pointer.

1077
00:45:11,542 --> 00:45:12,910
You could never get away with this today.

1078
00:45:12,910 --> 00:45:15,179
And he would walk around
with this eight ball.

1079
00:45:15,179 --> 00:45:19,083
And if you were kind of, like falling
asleep at your desk or drooling

1080
00:45:19,083 --> 00:45:22,086
or doing something wrong,
he would smack it on your desk,

1081
00:45:22,352 --> 00:45:25,789
right close to your head or your hand, 
and it would wake you up,

1082
00:45:25,789 --> 00:45:26,790
I'll tell you that.

1083
00:45:26,790 --> 00:45:30,394
And, he also, had a very famous phrase

1084
00:45:30,394 --> 00:45:34,531
which was, you write tonight.

1085
00:45:34,832 --> 00:45:38,102
And what that meant was
you had to write the Gettysburg Address.

1086
00:45:38,102 --> 00:45:38,736
Oh, boy.

1087
00:45:38,736 --> 00:45:40,771
It was if you did something wrong. Right.

1088
00:45:40,771 --> 00:45:44,675
So you were talking in class
or for a while we had some rule about,

1089
00:45:44,675 --> 00:45:46,777
like, you're not supposed to
chew on your pen cap.

1090
00:45:46,777 --> 00:45:51,281
You remember when we had pens and and,
if he caught you doing something,

1091
00:45:51,281 --> 00:45:53,984
he would say, you write tonight.
You had to write the Gettysburg Address.

1092
00:45:53,984 --> 00:45:56,153
Oh, all of us know the Gettysburg Address.

1093
00:45:56,153 --> 00:46:00,657
And then and, and high school,
I had a chemistry teacher named Mr.

1094
00:46:00,657 --> 00:46:03,794
Bagga who was,

1095
00:46:04,628 --> 00:46:08,999
honestly not the best chemistry teacher,
but an awesome person.

1096
00:46:09,133 --> 00:46:10,501
He was a great friend.

1097
00:46:10,501 --> 00:46:12,836
And I used to go
talk to him after school,

1098
00:46:12,836 --> 00:46:16,073
and he would make me feel like
everything was going to be okay.

1099
00:46:16,607 --> 00:46:18,776
So I was sort of
a stress kid in high school.

1100
00:46:19,843 --> 00:46:21,211
So you went to Peabody?

1101
00:46:21,211 --> 00:46:22,880
Peabody? Peabody?

1102
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:25,649
Yeah. You did that on purpose.

1103
00:46:25,649 --> 00:46:27,284
And Mr. Murphy, I think I had a mr.

1104
00:46:27,284 --> 00:46:28,018
Murphy, too.

1105
00:46:28,018 --> 00:46:29,486
The popular named Murph.

1106
00:46:29,486 --> 00:46:31,355
Did he go by Murph? He did not.

1107
00:46:31,355 --> 00:46:32,589
Now, he was very.

1108
00:46:32,589 --> 00:46:33,657
You know, this was.

1109
00:46:33,657 --> 00:46:37,494
This was when, he would wear, like,
a three piece suit to school, to teacher.

1110
00:46:37,494 --> 00:46:40,497
And so it was very kind of old school.

1111
00:46:40,564 --> 00:46:43,233
And, we learned to diagram sentence.

1112
00:46:43,233 --> 00:46:44,501
Yeah. The 80s were a while.

1113
00:46:44,501 --> 00:46:46,970
They didn't have an eight ball
at the end of a.

1114
00:46:46,970 --> 00:46:47,671
Oh, no.

1115
00:46:47,671 --> 00:46:49,373
So I tell you, Mr.

1116
00:46:49,373 --> 00:46:52,743
Gorey, my chemistry teacher would like,
jab his thumb in my wrist

1117
00:46:53,911 --> 00:46:57,481
and, like, pull my ear and stuff,
and, like, I loved it, but I.

1118
00:46:57,481 --> 00:46:59,716
Absolutely loved it.
It was a different time, but.

1119
00:46:59,716 --> 00:47:03,520
It's like it were grab my neck and stuff
like Feeney met the back of my neck,

1120
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:04,855
but it was just like.

1121
00:47:04,855 --> 00:47:07,891
And he had like a anchor tattoo,
like he was in the Navy.

1122
00:47:07,891 --> 00:47:10,160
Sometimes he smelled of cigarets.

1123
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:11,962
But you just love this guy,

1124
00:47:13,230 --> 00:47:13,597
you know?

1125
00:47:13,597 --> 00:47:16,099
He was like, yeah. I don't know.
You made an impression. That's great.

1126
00:47:16,099 --> 00:47:17,067
Right? Yeah.

1127
00:47:17,067 --> 00:47:19,236
Or then I had, you know, I had a mr.

1128
00:47:19,236 --> 00:47:21,872
Murphy and Mr. Riley.

1129
00:47:21,872 --> 00:47:24,842
Mr. Rowley was like five, five.

1130
00:47:25,409 --> 00:47:27,611
And I put on it, I would put on this coat

1131
00:47:27,611 --> 00:47:30,347
and it would be really small, like.

1132
00:47:30,347 --> 00:47:32,049
So how old are you doing?

1133
00:47:32,049 --> 00:47:33,050
That was a high school.

1134
00:47:33,050 --> 00:47:35,652
Oh, my God. In high junior high school.

1135
00:47:35,652 --> 00:47:37,621
Were you a troublemaker in school?
Oh, boy.

1136
00:47:37,621 --> 00:47:39,389
Oh, God. When I went to Kingsbury.

1137
00:47:39,389 --> 00:47:43,560
So I again I went to Kingsbury
and I went back to teach at Kingsbury. So.

1138
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,262
And then there was Miss
Snyder was still there.

1139
00:47:45,262 --> 00:47:47,397
Mrs. wise was still there.

1140
00:47:47,397 --> 00:47:48,432
A couple of teachers were still there.

1141
00:47:48,432 --> 00:47:49,466
And they're like,

1142
00:47:49,466 --> 00:47:54,271
you're a teacher, like you remember
you, Feeney, you're a teacher.

1143
00:47:54,371 --> 00:47:56,707
You were a memorable student.
That's great, of course,

1144
00:47:57,808 --> 00:47:59,877
but your
students can't get anything over on you.

1145
00:47:59,877 --> 00:48:01,378
I try to been there, but then.

1146
00:48:01,378 --> 00:48:04,081
Like, the kids shout out and stuff
and I'm like. I was. That was me.

1147
00:48:04,081 --> 00:48:05,582
I would've done that. Yeah.

1148
00:48:05,582 --> 00:48:06,450
Yeah. That's me.

1149
00:48:06,450 --> 00:48:08,385
Can't sit still. Oh that's. Me.

1150
00:48:08,385 --> 00:48:11,388
So we work on strategies and

1151
00:48:11,588 --> 00:48:14,658
yeah, you know, channel their interests
or channel their energy.

1152
00:48:14,658 --> 00:48:17,461
Yeah. So very cool. Yeah.

1153
00:48:17,461 --> 00:48:17,861
Oh yeah.

1154
00:48:17,861 --> 00:48:21,632
We got to get a selfie to send that to ace
or the rest of the crew.

1155
00:48:21,632 --> 00:48:24,067
We'll pop it up in the video.

1156
00:48:24,067 --> 00:48:24,902
Wait, where are we?

1157
00:48:24,902 --> 00:48:26,904
And boom.

1158
00:48:26,904 --> 00:48:28,805
So we're talking favorites.

1159
00:48:28,805 --> 00:48:31,141
Favorite restaurant?

1160
00:48:31,141 --> 00:48:34,111
Then there's a follow up question.

1161
00:48:34,544 --> 00:48:35,412
That's a hard question.

1162
00:48:35,412 --> 00:48:37,314
You go first. Good go.

1163
00:48:37,314 --> 00:48:39,016
I started in vans on this one.

1164
00:48:39,016 --> 00:48:41,151
I'm doing three again. Oh, that's
all right. Oh.

1165
00:48:41,151 --> 00:48:43,420
Power of three. Over. Yeah, sure.

1166
00:48:43,420 --> 00:48:46,523
So I've picked a restaurant
in different parts of town.

1167
00:48:46,523 --> 00:48:47,491
Smart, smart.

1168
00:48:47,491 --> 00:48:49,760
Thank you.
And it doesn't have to be West Hartford.

1169
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,362
I chose West Hartford around. Gotcha.

1170
00:48:52,362 --> 00:48:56,066
But not only because I live in West
Hartford and serve West Hartford,

1171
00:48:56,066 --> 00:48:59,102
but because these
are three of my favorite restaurants,

1172
00:48:59,369 --> 00:49:01,772
and one is right around the corner
from where we are now.

1173
00:49:01,772 --> 00:49:02,506
And he guesses

1174
00:49:03,540 --> 00:49:05,742
literally in this building.

1175
00:49:05,742 --> 00:49:06,543
Oh, yeah.

1176
00:49:06,543 --> 00:49:08,612
Oh, Joe cafe. Yes.

1177
00:49:08,612 --> 00:49:09,313
Love it.

1178
00:49:09,313 --> 00:49:12,215
Family owned super friendly,
fresh Mexican food.

1179
00:49:12,215 --> 00:49:14,651
Easy. Like you're going to go
you're going to get a table.

1180
00:49:14,651 --> 00:49:17,220
The food's going to be great.
It's going to be a great experience.

1181
00:49:17,220 --> 00:49:17,854
Love it.

1182
00:49:17,854 --> 00:49:21,191
Do you ever see when you go about
to grab the handle on the front door?

1183
00:49:21,391 --> 00:49:25,228
Yes. They have they have a Friends
With Feeney sticker on there.

1184
00:49:25,228 --> 00:49:26,563
Yes, I had it right here.

1185
00:49:26,563 --> 00:49:26,997
It's fine.

1186
00:49:26,997 --> 00:49:29,599
I'm going to put that stick right
here, though, because you know what?

1187
00:49:29,599 --> 00:49:31,835
I just took a picture of both.

1188
00:49:31,835 --> 00:49:34,671
Iron and I actually had lunch there
on Saturday.

1189
00:49:34,671 --> 00:49:36,440
It was Saturday. Yeah, it was on Saturday.

1190
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,041
Eight outside. Very nice.

1191
00:49:38,041 --> 00:49:40,110
In the center.

1192
00:49:40,110 --> 00:49:41,878
I'm going to go with Max burger.

1193
00:49:41,878 --> 00:49:43,880
Okay. Love Max burger.

1194
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:48,018
They have this like salad
that has like shaved brussel sprouts.

1195
00:49:48,018 --> 00:49:51,288
And you put a burger on top
and it's fantastic.

1196
00:49:51,455 --> 00:49:53,857
Shaved brussel sprouts on top.
Oh it's so good.

1197
00:49:53,857 --> 00:49:55,892
Now it's 
while the burger is on the Brussels.

1198
00:49:55,892 --> 00:49:57,194
It's like it's a big salad.

1199
00:49:57,194 --> 00:49:59,563
And then you put the burger on it
okay. It's fantastic.

1200
00:49:59,563 --> 00:50:02,032
And then and Elmwood Zay tunes.

1201
00:50:02,032 --> 00:50:04,735
Nice. Yes. Underrated.

1202
00:50:04,735 --> 00:50:06,870
This place is incredible.

1203
00:50:06,870 --> 00:50:10,707
It's, Lebanese and other Middle
Eastern food also family owned.

1204
00:50:10,707 --> 00:50:16,279
Nice as people owners usually there
walk around and say hello to you BYOB.

1205
00:50:16,279 --> 00:50:17,781
Yes.

1206
00:50:17,781 --> 00:50:18,849
And the food is.

1207
00:50:18,849 --> 00:50:20,851
If you if you walk down the harvest.

1208
00:50:20,851 --> 00:50:22,986
And you can literally walk next
you get. A discount.

1209
00:50:22,986 --> 00:50:24,721
Oh, they were like, I'm eating as a tune.

1210
00:50:24,721 --> 00:50:26,156
They, I think they give you a 10% off.

1211
00:50:26,156 --> 00:50:29,659
And that's in the old,
you must have shopped at the chalkboard.

1212
00:50:29,659 --> 00:50:30,160
Why not? Was.

1213
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,461
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

1214
00:50:31,461 --> 00:50:32,896
I loved that store. Yeah.

1215
00:50:32,896 --> 00:50:36,433
But then I was so happy that, Zay Tunes
was able to move into that bigger spot.

1216
00:50:36,566 --> 00:50:37,167
Yeah. That's right.

1217
00:50:37,167 --> 00:50:39,603
Go in. There. They've got.
I was just. Lovely.

1218
00:50:39,603 --> 00:50:42,272
I knew the woman that runs it and owns it.

1219
00:50:42,272 --> 00:50:46,810
Mrs. Clayton, my colleague
Leah Klein's mom ran that forever.

1220
00:50:46,810 --> 00:50:49,813
So anytime you need a name tags,

1221
00:50:49,846 --> 00:50:52,649
sort of booklet maps,
that was the go to spot.

1222
00:50:52,649 --> 00:50:54,751
Oh, man. Bringing me. Back.

1223
00:50:54,751 --> 00:50:56,853
I know,
and I'm, like, salivating over here.

1224
00:50:56,853 --> 00:50:59,823
Everything about all that
food. Yeah. But here's Lisa.

1225
00:51:00,991 --> 00:51:04,795
So, since she did three,
I'm going to do three to I don't sect.

1226
00:51:04,861 --> 00:51:09,399
So Frieda, over in the freedom.

1227
00:51:09,399 --> 00:51:13,470
Oh, my God, the food,
the tacos, the fish tacos.

1228
00:51:13,470 --> 00:51:15,272
Highly recommend. Go get that.

1229
00:51:15,272 --> 00:51:18,108
I have been to Zaytuna do love it,

1230
00:51:18,108 --> 00:51:21,111
but the Sahara.

1231
00:51:21,244 --> 00:51:24,614
Yeah, I could eat also doing that,
but also very delicious.

1232
00:51:25,048 --> 00:51:27,884
And then I have to shout out brick.

1233
00:51:27,884 --> 00:51:30,887
Oh, because Billy Grant,
I love Billy is good friend.

1234
00:51:31,054 --> 00:51:32,923
And it's just food.

1235
00:51:32,923 --> 00:51:34,791
Italian food for the soul, you know.

1236
00:51:34,791 --> 00:51:38,161
And then he's got
he loves the Jamaican culture.

1237
00:51:38,161 --> 00:51:39,729
And so sometimes these say

1238
00:51:39,729 --> 00:51:43,100
he'll have the Caribbean or the African
influence in some of the food,

1239
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:45,168
salivating, thinking about it.

1240
00:51:45,168 --> 00:51:48,105
Where's my food, He puts. On Instagram.

1241
00:51:48,105 --> 00:51:50,006
He'll put on a plate.
Hey, this is this this. And he goes.

1242
00:51:51,508 --> 00:51:52,075
Belly.

1243
00:51:52,075 --> 00:51:53,343
He's a good guy.

1244
00:51:53,343 --> 00:51:56,613
And I do want to mention Trevor also,
since I'm not just Italian for you.

1245
00:51:56,613 --> 00:51:58,115
I love you, Trevor.

1246
00:51:58,115 --> 00:52:00,250
It's so hard to pick a favorite
that was the hardest one.

1247
00:52:00,250 --> 00:52:02,953
I was like,
there's no way to answer that question.

1248
00:52:02,953 --> 00:52:05,522
But I tried. I'm like,
all great. Love it.

1249
00:52:05,522 --> 00:52:08,725
I'm glad you shot it out of your cafe,
because we're going to do some

1250
00:52:08,758 --> 00:52:10,694
of your cafe in a few.

1251
00:52:10,694 --> 00:52:11,695
Oh. Their wings are good.

1252
00:52:11,695 --> 00:52:12,963
The wings. I've never had them.

1253
00:52:12,963 --> 00:52:14,598
Oh, I love their wings.

1254
00:52:14,598 --> 00:52:17,434
I love the barrel tacos at, Frida.

1255
00:52:17,434 --> 00:52:20,437
Zahara, the dip, the,

1256
00:52:21,104 --> 00:52:23,340
Yeah, the hummus, the lamb or the hummus.

1257
00:52:23,340 --> 00:52:25,208
Okay. Oh, yeah. Beets.

1258
00:52:25,208 --> 00:52:27,377
I love the lamb.

1259
00:52:27,377 --> 00:52:29,279
Lamb that I love the cigars.

1260
00:52:29,279 --> 00:52:29,613
The land.

1261
00:52:29,613 --> 00:52:32,115
These are so many. I'm
everything. I want it.

1262
00:52:32,115 --> 00:52:33,250
So honestly, I've never been to.

1263
00:52:33,250 --> 00:52:36,453
There's a tunes on New Bread,
but they used to be on Park Road.

1264
00:52:36,453 --> 00:52:38,288
Yeah. So I. I've had them. There.

1265
00:52:38,288 --> 00:52:40,056
Well, yeah. Highly recommend
you check it out.

1266
00:52:40,056 --> 00:52:40,590
Yeah. All right.

1267
00:52:40,590 --> 00:52:44,628
So you're at a restaurant you can eat with
four guests, dead or alive.

1268
00:52:44,628 --> 00:52:46,029
Anyone in the world.

1269
00:52:46,029 --> 00:52:47,898
Who eats. With a dead person, that's.

1270
00:52:47,898 --> 00:52:50,433
That's crazy question. All right.

1271
00:52:50,433 --> 00:52:51,034
They're alive.

1272
00:52:51,034 --> 00:52:53,670
I assume. While you're eating with. That.
Okay.

1273
00:52:53,670 --> 00:52:57,941
I'm saying for, you know, time frame wise,
like mine are always Abraham Lincoln.

1274
00:52:58,475 --> 00:53:01,945
Mr. Rogers
old dirty bastard from the Wu-Tang clan.

1275
00:53:01,945 --> 00:53:06,183
And,
I'm throwing a different athlete either

1276
00:53:06,183 --> 00:53:09,152
Michael Jordan, 
Larry Bird, Charles Barkley.

1277
00:53:09,653 --> 00:53:12,656
So this is awesome. Okay, this is great.

1278
00:53:12,756 --> 00:53:16,026
I would choose, Huey Newton,

1279
00:53:16,593 --> 00:53:19,062
founder of Black Panthers, FDR.

1280
00:53:19,062 --> 00:53:21,331
Obviously we know, Franklin Roosevelt.

1281
00:53:23,833 --> 00:53:26,836
Tupac.

1282
00:53:27,370 --> 00:53:27,837
I feel like,

1283
00:53:27,837 --> 00:53:31,608
I need to have a woman in there
and Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Oh.

1284
00:53:31,641 --> 00:53:34,544
Good choice.
Oh, I it yeah, those are good people.

1285
00:53:34,544 --> 00:53:35,812
I wonder if I have four.

1286
00:53:35,812 --> 00:53:38,281
But since you mentioned Mr.

1287
00:53:38,281 --> 00:53:40,150
Rogers, I will join that table.

1288
00:53:40,150 --> 00:53:43,353
Let's add in Judy Blume, who,

1289
00:53:43,720 --> 00:53:46,623
just was such a formative
part of my childhood.

1290
00:53:46,623 --> 00:53:47,991
I read every single one of her books,

1291
00:53:47,991 --> 00:53:51,561
like front to back start again,
you know, front to back start again.

1292
00:53:51,928 --> 00:53:52,729
And I have.

1293
00:53:52,729 --> 00:53:56,032
A whole Judy
Blume basket in my room. Class.

1294
00:53:56,233 --> 00:53:57,901
I never read a Judy Blume, but.

1295
00:53:57,901 --> 00:53:59,402
It's not too late. Lisa.

1296
00:53:59,402 --> 00:54:01,471
Yes, I'll bring some nice. Not too late.

1297
00:54:01,471 --> 00:54:04,274
She told me I about. Library
pick one up there.

1298
00:54:04,274 --> 00:54:08,278
My great grandfather, Maury Sachs,

1299
00:54:08,278 --> 00:54:11,848
was, really special to me,
and he passed when I was nine.

1300
00:54:12,349 --> 00:54:17,220
He just had this,
like, warm vibe about him.

1301
00:54:17,220 --> 00:54:21,458
And I would just love to get to know him
when I'm an adult.

1302
00:54:21,558 --> 00:54:26,596
So if it's not too creepy,
I would invite him to join us, for dinner.

1303
00:54:27,230 --> 00:54:30,166
Probably, somebody like Ben Franklin.

1304
00:54:30,166 --> 00:54:32,469
He was really interesting person.

1305
00:54:32,469 --> 00:54:34,871
Very varied interests.

1306
00:54:34,871 --> 00:54:37,874
And, maybe he can help us
figure out what they meant.

1307
00:54:37,874 --> 00:54:40,443
Yeah. Wrote a book about farts.

1308
00:54:40,443 --> 00:54:41,611
I did not know that.

1309
00:54:42,979 --> 00:54:43,413
Kids love.

1310
00:54:43,413 --> 00:54:46,249
That. Can you get that from the library?
Is that also at the library?

1311
00:54:46,249 --> 00:54:47,651
Do you learned that at jeopardy?

1312
00:54:47,651 --> 00:54:47,917
Like, I.

1313
00:54:47,917 --> 00:54:50,487
Don't know
when and how, but. These facts I'm.

1314
00:54:50,487 --> 00:54:53,790
Going to ask, library director Laura,
I'm sure she can,

1315
00:54:53,790 --> 00:54:57,560
get the Larry and Franklin book on farts.

1316
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,796
They don't talk. About that enough. Right.

1317
00:54:59,796 --> 00:55:01,898
Well, the kids are like,
hey, no, no, I'm listening.

1318
00:55:01,898 --> 00:55:03,033
Yeah, exactly.

1319
00:55:03,033 --> 00:55:06,002
And my athlete will be, 
Pedro Martinez, who.

1320
00:55:06,703 --> 00:55:07,237
Of course.

1321
00:55:07,237 --> 00:55:10,240
Say Red Sox fan.

1322
00:55:10,940 --> 00:55:11,708
And then the next.

1323
00:55:11,708 --> 00:55:14,577
And before we do wings, we're gonna do
recommendations and questions for me.

1324
00:55:14,577 --> 00:55:17,447
So if you want to recommend the podcast,
a book,

1325
00:55:17,447 --> 00:55:20,083
or you want to just do questions for
me, whatever you want to do.

1326
00:55:21,651 --> 00:55:24,421
I highly
recommend that Diplomat on Netflix.

1327
00:55:24,421 --> 00:55:25,622
I am so addicted to it.

1328
00:55:25,622 --> 00:55:28,158
I'm going to rewatch it again one season.

1329
00:55:28,158 --> 00:55:29,059
How many episodes it has?

1330
00:55:29,059 --> 00:55:32,462
Three seasons, eight episodes per season,

1331
00:55:32,462 --> 00:55:35,732
and the third season just complete
is like every season.

1332
00:55:35,732 --> 00:55:38,401
It just it's good. It's insistently good.

1333
00:55:38,401 --> 00:55:41,438
Okay, it might be like the new that West
Wing or something.

1334
00:55:41,438 --> 00:55:44,474
I don't know, because I think they have
two of the, stars from West.

1335
00:55:44,474 --> 00:55:47,477
I saw their diplomat. Okay, interesting.

1336
00:55:47,911 --> 00:55:52,982
So I've been watching a lot of cozy
murder mysteries on BritBox.

1337
00:55:53,216 --> 00:55:56,152
Because they're nice and light.

1338
00:55:56,152 --> 00:55:58,621
Yeah, and there's a lot of heaviness
going on in the world right now.

1339
00:55:58,621 --> 00:56:04,661
So I'm noticing that with books
and, TV shows and things like that,

1340
00:56:04,661 --> 00:56:06,129
I try to find something that I know

1341
00:56:06,129 --> 00:56:06,996
is either going to have

1342
00:56:06,996 --> 00:56:10,867
a happy ending for sure, or is just going
to be something really light.

1343
00:56:10,967 --> 00:56:12,736
So I highly recommend that.

1344
00:56:12,736 --> 00:56:17,040
Oh, I want to recommend a book
to All About Love by Bell hooks.

1345
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:21,211
I am a little bit more than halfway
done with it, and it kind of

1346
00:56:21,211 --> 00:56:24,214
just like shakes your old world

1347
00:56:24,414 --> 00:56:27,484
about what love is,
what the definition of love

1348
00:56:27,751 --> 00:56:32,589
could be or should be, and how you relate
and communicate to people with people

1349
00:56:32,589 --> 00:56:37,127
or rethink about, you know, your
your childhood and how you treat others.

1350
00:56:37,127 --> 00:56:39,496
It's so great, so good. Cool.

1351
00:56:39,496 --> 00:56:39,929
Yeah, I.

1352
00:56:39,929 --> 00:56:42,632
Just watched the first three
episodes of House of Guinness.

1353
00:56:42,632 --> 00:56:45,468
Yeah,
and I'm reading How to Talk to Strangers.

1354
00:56:45,468 --> 00:56:48,037
Malcolm
Gladwell, my daughter suggested it.

1355
00:56:49,038 --> 00:56:50,473
She actually, she got a voice.

1356
00:56:50,473 --> 00:56:51,141
Oh, nice.

1357
00:56:51,141 --> 00:56:54,711
She went and got she went to like, a book
fair and brought it home for me.

1358
00:56:55,044 --> 00:56:58,014
Tell me, the guy who runs podcasts,
how to talk to strangers.

1359
00:56:58,014 --> 00:56:59,883
Pretty good. Honing your skills.

1360
00:56:59,883 --> 00:57:03,887
I try to watch House of Guinness,
but once they came with the pop music,

1361
00:57:03,887 --> 00:57:04,587
I don't like that.

1362
00:57:04,587 --> 00:57:06,990
I don't like pop music and period pieces.
It was weird.

1363
00:57:06,990 --> 00:57:07,857
Keep it consistent.

1364
00:57:07,857 --> 00:57:08,858
Yeah, I actually thought the same.

1365
00:57:08,858 --> 00:57:11,261
I immediately turned it off
after the first episode

1366
00:57:11,261 --> 00:57:13,463
they played a pop song is like,
no, don't want it.

1367
00:57:13,463 --> 00:57:15,632
It's not fitting the time frame
or the genre.

1368
00:57:15,632 --> 00:57:17,700
Yeah, I didn't, I didn't get it either.

1369
00:57:17,700 --> 00:57:21,004
And then the words popping up on
the screen was kind of random.

1370
00:57:21,037 --> 00:57:21,404
Yeah.

1371
00:57:21,404 --> 00:57:22,972
Like how much the money is now.

1372
00:57:22,972 --> 00:57:25,308
Yeah. Compared to that. Yeah.

1373
00:57:25,308 --> 00:57:27,811
And something else was like
and then I was texting.

1374
00:57:27,811 --> 00:57:29,879
I'm like, I got kind of boring. Yeah.

1375
00:57:29,879 --> 00:57:32,649
Already 2. Or 3. I'm getting. Diplomatic.

1376
00:57:32,649 --> 00:57:33,082
All right.

1377
00:57:33,082 --> 00:57:33,516
Yeah.

1378
00:57:33,516 --> 00:57:36,119
Like the arc you need to like
you need to know.

1379
00:57:36,119 --> 00:57:36,986
That was like ten.

1380
00:57:36,986 --> 00:57:39,589
You're like, yeah, it's 12:00.
You're like, let's watch one more.

1381
00:57:39,589 --> 00:57:42,325
Yeah, exactly. Oh, man.
I love that show. Yeah.

1382
00:57:42,325 --> 00:57:44,961
What are some of the books
your students are reading right now? Oh

1383
00:57:46,262 --> 00:57:46,463
they're.

1384
00:57:46,463 --> 00:57:48,031
Great. Right? Yeah. Yeah.

1385
00:57:48,031 --> 00:57:48,932
Yep. Third grade.

1386
00:57:48,932 --> 00:57:49,933
So, yeah.

1387
00:57:49,933 --> 00:57:53,403
They're about 7 or 8 graphic novels.

1388
00:57:53,403 --> 00:57:56,372
Dog man, diary of a Wimpy Kid.

1389
00:57:57,474 --> 00:57:59,843
Oh. The classic, the bad guys.

1390
00:57:59,843 --> 00:58:01,277
Yes. Cat.

1391
00:58:01,277 --> 00:58:03,746
Cat. Something
something I want to say. Cat.

1392
00:58:03,746 --> 00:58:04,314
Bad guy.

1393
00:58:04,314 --> 00:58:05,548
Dog man. Cat, man.

1394
00:58:05,548 --> 00:58:08,117
Yeah. Anything again?

1395
00:58:08,117 --> 00:58:09,285
Diver.

1396
00:58:09,285 --> 00:58:10,587
Wimpy kid is the principal.

1397
00:58:10,587 --> 00:58:13,590
He wears diapers, he fights a toilet,

1398
00:58:13,623 --> 00:58:15,058
he's weapons, a plunger.

1399
00:58:15,058 --> 00:58:17,227
So the kids are, like, all about it.

1400
00:58:17,227 --> 00:58:20,096
Oh, the lunch lady?

1401
00:58:20,096 --> 00:58:21,764
Yeah, she's a superhero, so.

1402
00:58:21,764 --> 00:58:23,299
Yeah, she uses a spatula.

1403
00:58:23,299 --> 00:58:24,534
You know, I love to.

1404
00:58:24,534 --> 00:58:27,537
Pull up with the spatula, so,

1405
00:58:27,537 --> 00:58:29,272
And now

1406
00:58:29,272 --> 00:58:31,908
I guess it was graphic novels
when they first came out.

1407
00:58:31,908 --> 00:58:32,942
Kind of got a bad rap.

1408
00:58:32,942 --> 00:58:36,212
Yeah, not really reading,
because it's just, like speech bubbles.

1409
00:58:36,279 --> 00:58:38,014
But now we're really encouraging it.

1410
00:58:38,014 --> 00:58:42,218
And I went in my time frame, I would do
like I had the Judy Blume basket.

1411
00:58:42,318 --> 00:58:45,755
I had two graphic novel baskets.

1412
00:58:46,022 --> 00:58:48,525
Now I'm up to ten, ten baskets.

1413
00:58:48,525 --> 00:58:51,728
All, you know, the babysitters
came back as a graphic novel.

1414
00:58:53,730 --> 00:58:55,532
Who else?

1415
00:58:55,532 --> 00:58:56,666
Yeah, just so many. Good. Yeah.

1416
00:58:56,666 --> 00:58:59,202
And then there's some really cool ones
I survived.

1417
00:58:59,202 --> 00:59:01,804
So that's a realistic,

1418
00:59:01,804 --> 00:59:02,539
history.

1419
00:59:02,539 --> 00:59:05,542
It was a real, real realistic fiction.

1420
00:59:05,842 --> 00:59:07,176
So they'll do 911 or.

1421
00:59:07,176 --> 00:59:10,179
Yeah, Titanic or. And they'll.

1422
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:11,748
Yeah,
they'll put a character in there. Yeah.

1423
00:59:11,748 --> 00:59:13,683
So the kids learn about that event.

1424
00:59:13,683 --> 00:59:15,785
But in a fiction. Way I like that.

1425
00:59:15,785 --> 00:59:21,324
It, it it reminds me I used to be
a teacher briefly, you know, reminds me,

1426
00:59:21,324 --> 00:59:24,661
you know, when you're working with early
readers, they have to do the picture.

1427
00:59:24,661 --> 00:59:25,728
Walk first. Oh, yeah.

1428
00:59:25,728 --> 00:59:29,365
Look at the pictures
and form the vocabulary or the story

1429
00:59:29,365 --> 00:59:32,669
in your own mind
before, you know, reading the words

1430
00:59:32,936 --> 00:59:37,106
and even this, at eight years old,
it could still be very valuable.

1431
00:59:37,106 --> 00:59:41,511
Helping them just create in their mind,
work their brains in different ways

1432
00:59:42,178 --> 00:59:43,079
predictions.

1433
00:59:43,079 --> 00:59:45,181
And we're helping with predictions
and things like that.

1434
00:59:45,181 --> 00:59:46,149
It's really good.

1435
00:59:46,149 --> 00:59:47,917
We in compassion like.

1436
00:59:47,917 --> 00:59:52,889
Yeah we have to
we we summarizer predictor clarifier.

1437
00:59:52,889 --> 00:59:53,656
Questioner.

1438
00:59:53,656 --> 00:59:56,559
Yeah, you get a role in a team and you

1439
00:59:56,559 --> 01:00:00,029
before you get a reading passage
or an article, we make predictions.

1440
01:00:00,029 --> 01:00:02,865
One person clarifies,
one person ask questions.

1441
01:00:02,865 --> 01:00:04,701
So that's helps the reading comprehension.

1442
01:00:06,035 --> 01:00:06,903
Oh let's shout out.

1443
01:00:06,903 --> 01:00:09,772
Oh so we got to get into these wings.

1444
01:00:09,772 --> 01:00:10,940
Anything I missed.

1445
01:00:10,940 --> 01:00:13,943
Anything you like to share.

1446
01:00:14,744 --> 01:00:15,645
But it went by fast.

1447
01:00:15,645 --> 01:00:17,981
We were talking. Boom boom two guest
I like it.

1448
01:00:17,981 --> 01:00:21,618
I was trying to make sure it goes by fast
so we can get to these wings. Yes.

1449
01:00:21,618 --> 01:00:24,954
Wings was like, oh, I'm focused with.

1450
01:00:24,988 --> 01:00:28,391
Some swag shout outs to see 
these are some hats we have.

1451
01:00:28,424 --> 01:00:31,327
We collaborated with Anthony's Abatement
for our golf tournament.

1452
01:00:31,327 --> 01:00:33,630
Nice. Be a good friend is our motto.

1453
01:00:33,630 --> 01:00:33,963
You know.

1454
01:00:33,963 --> 01:00:35,632
Don't forget how you do it.

1455
01:00:35,632 --> 01:00:38,067
You're a great post buddies.

1456
01:00:38,067 --> 01:00:38,968
Be it.

1457
01:00:38,968 --> 01:00:39,969
Oh, that's a nice.

1458
01:00:39,969 --> 01:00:41,704
Nice scene. It's a hybrid fit.

1459
01:00:41,704 --> 01:00:45,575
It's great for watching sports
or walking and doing yoga.

1460
01:00:45,642 --> 01:00:48,211
Walking, canvasing. Yeah, exactly.

1461
01:00:48,211 --> 01:00:49,212
Curling up with a friend.

1462
01:00:49,212 --> 01:00:49,712
You look at some.

1463
01:00:49,712 --> 01:00:52,348
We got pineapple fresca. Habanero.

1464
01:00:52,348 --> 01:00:55,351
We got, heartbreak hot sauce cans.

1465
01:00:55,551 --> 01:00:59,555
So my students know
this is a gift from last year's class.

1466
01:00:59,589 --> 01:01:01,424
Okay. Sunkist tomato

1467
01:01:03,159 --> 01:01:03,526
Mike's.

1468
01:01:03,526 --> 01:01:04,394
Hi, honey.

1469
01:01:04,394 --> 01:01:06,462
Oh. Of course. Yeah.

1470
01:01:06,462 --> 01:01:07,363
Fly by jinx.

1471
01:01:07,363 --> 01:01:09,532
Spicy chili.

1472
01:01:09,532 --> 01:01:10,633
Latino herb.

1473
01:01:10,633 --> 01:01:11,668
Well, there's so many.

1474
01:01:11,668 --> 01:01:14,704
So many hot. Ones. Caliente.

1475
01:01:14,937 --> 01:01:17,106
Oh, hot ones, like the. Fly by jinx.

1476
01:01:17,106 --> 01:01:19,876
Session goals. So.

1477
01:01:19,876 --> 01:01:22,679
And then we got the shout out to Otro
Cinco.

1478
01:01:22,679 --> 01:01:24,213
Oh, okay.

1479
01:01:24,213 --> 01:01:26,149
Oh. Just singles in five five.

1480
01:01:26,149 --> 01:01:26,983
That's a five.

1481
01:01:26,983 --> 01:01:29,519
Oh Joe Cinco Chad Johnson. Oh, yes.

1482
01:01:29,519 --> 01:01:30,620
He changed his name.

1483
01:01:30,620 --> 01:01:33,256
Yes. So what?

1484
01:01:33,256 --> 01:01:34,891
Chad Johnson was a wide receiver.

1485
01:01:34,891 --> 01:01:35,992
He wore 85.

1486
01:01:35,992 --> 01:01:38,494
He changed his name to Chad Ochocinco.

1487
01:01:38,494 --> 01:01:39,328
Okay.

1488
01:01:39,328 --> 01:01:42,498
And for some reason I every time I say,
oh, I just Cinco has to come.

1489
01:01:42,498 --> 01:01:43,966
Down, comes out naturally. All right.

1490
01:01:43,966 --> 01:01:45,835
Oh that was a football reference.

1491
01:01:45,835 --> 01:01:46,169
All right.

1492
01:01:46,169 --> 01:01:46,936
So so that.

1493
01:01:46,936 --> 01:01:49,806
Much like you're on team
oh spirit star. All right. Yeah.

1494
01:01:49,806 --> 01:01:52,742
Oh I'm the same I'm the one I'll be like
there's there's carrots.

1495
01:01:52,742 --> 01:01:55,244
There's chips and salsa. Chips and salsa.

1496
01:01:55,244 --> 01:01:57,413
Got the ranch.
We got the chip. We got six.

1497
01:01:57,413 --> 01:02:02,785
There's rings a lot of sources B
be sure to tune in if you can join us.

1498
01:02:02,785 --> 01:02:03,886
Will this won't be out on time.

1499
01:02:03,886 --> 01:02:08,157
But next next Monday 5:00 Luna Pizza.

1500
01:02:08,491 --> 01:02:10,193
It's our third annual hot wings.

1501
01:02:10,193 --> 01:02:12,595
We're we're raising money for cancer.

1502
01:02:12,595 --> 01:02:15,598
Trying to rid the word of rid
the world of cancer.

1503
01:02:15,631 --> 01:02:16,699
AbbVie.

1504
01:02:16,699 --> 01:02:19,569
It's collected over $10,000
and he's trying to do more.

1505
01:02:19,569 --> 01:02:23,106
So he's like charging
you know like the hottest one.

1506
01:02:23,206 --> 01:02:26,242
The bomb is like the hottest of the heart.

1507
01:02:26,242 --> 01:02:30,246
And charging 100 bucks
for every bomb when he eats.

1508
01:02:30,646 --> 01:02:32,348
Okay.

1509
01:02:34,650 --> 01:02:35,284
And what you.

1510
01:02:35,284 --> 01:02:36,352
Want to pick one. Let's do one.

1511
01:02:36,352 --> 01:02:38,721
Or do you want. Me to pick. One
or just do regular buffalo?

1512
01:02:38,721 --> 01:02:41,591
You want to do that? What?
That is, we go to Buffalo.

1513
01:02:41,591 --> 01:02:43,893
Oh, no. No, we've got to try these sauces.

1514
01:02:43,893 --> 01:02:47,764
All right, so let's try,
which you said your students gave you.

1515
01:02:47,764 --> 01:02:49,165
All of. Them. All of them.

1516
01:02:49,165 --> 01:02:52,368
So I got a Nike gift card
because they know I like sneakers, and I

1517
01:02:52,401 --> 01:02:53,803
there was a lot more.

1518
01:02:53,803 --> 01:02:56,539
So currently, there's always in my room.

1519
01:02:56,539 --> 01:02:57,840
I'm looking at the computer.

1520
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:02,011
Yeah, I have my cup of forks for lunch
and then hot sauces.

1521
01:03:03,079 --> 01:03:04,747
I like that.

1522
01:03:04,747 --> 01:03:07,683
I know there's a nice little shop
in, Boston.

1523
01:03:07,683 --> 01:03:10,686
You get some hot sauce.

1524
01:03:10,820 --> 01:03:11,287
Where are we going?

1525
01:03:11,287 --> 01:03:15,024
Are you somebody who has, like,
many kinds, many pairs of sneakers?

1526
01:03:15,024 --> 01:03:16,292
Yes. How many? How many?

1527
01:03:17,593 --> 01:03:19,195
36 pairs of sneakers right now.

1528
01:03:19,195 --> 01:03:20,830
Yeah. Lisa, do you.

1529
01:03:20,830 --> 01:03:22,498
Have anything that you collect?

1530
01:03:22,498 --> 01:03:24,600
Like sneakers? I'm not into collecting.

1531
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:25,802
Sorry, ma'am.

1532
01:03:25,802 --> 01:03:28,805
I like that you have a lot of. No.

1533
01:03:29,038 --> 01:03:30,306
I don't so good source.

1534
01:03:30,306 --> 01:03:31,908
Did you go with.

1535
01:03:31,908 --> 01:03:33,075
Heartbeat hot sauce?

1536
01:03:33,075 --> 01:03:35,678
I like the flavor. It's
very good. It's perfect.

1537
01:03:35,678 --> 01:03:36,579
Our feet hot.

1538
01:03:36,579 --> 01:03:39,482
Yeah I can't yeah.

1539
01:03:39,482 --> 01:03:39,749
All right.

1540
01:03:39,749 --> 01:03:42,451
It doesn't look that hot right there.

1541
01:03:42,451 --> 01:03:44,453
That is really good.

1542
01:03:44,453 --> 01:03:47,456
We're going to get ready for that.

1543
01:03:48,291 --> 01:03:49,292
All right.

1544
01:03:49,292 --> 01:03:50,893
Have you not opened any of these.

1545
01:03:50,893 --> 01:03:53,863
These are all brand new. Oh my gosh

1546
01:03:53,863 --> 01:03:54,697
I have to agree.

1547
01:03:54,697 --> 01:03:57,800
One 150 was here.

1548
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,969
Oh cheers.

1549
01:03:59,969 --> 01:04:01,604
How do you do.

1550
01:04:01,604 --> 01:04:04,607
Yeah.

1551
01:04:05,441 --> 01:04:06,275
Squeeze a burst of.

1552
01:04:06,275 --> 01:04:06,909
It's pretty hot.

1553
01:04:06,909 --> 01:04:09,512
What's the
do you have like a rating on these.

1554
01:04:10,479 --> 01:04:12,281
Oh, this is mild or medium.

1555
01:04:12,281 --> 01:04:14,717
Okay. No, some have the Scoville rating.

1556
01:04:14,717 --> 01:04:16,686
Yeah, I'm not big into that I don't know.

1557
01:04:16,686 --> 01:04:17,820
Okay.

1558
01:04:17,820 --> 01:04:18,788
Oregano, Basil.

1559
01:04:18,788 --> 01:04:20,656
How Italian might not like that one. Okay.

1560
01:04:20,656 --> 01:04:22,658
So which one's the hottest one.

1561
01:04:22,658 --> 01:04:24,093
I'm going to try the hottest on this.

1562
01:04:24,093 --> 01:04:26,863
Five out of ten heat level. Oh.

1563
01:04:26,863 --> 01:04:30,666
Looks like a medium
super spicy extra tingly oil.

1564
01:04:31,734 --> 01:04:34,604
I think I'm into this extra tingly.

1565
01:04:34,604 --> 01:04:35,872
Do it.

1566
01:04:35,872 --> 01:04:36,973
Do you want to be the one to open it.

1567
01:04:36,973 --> 01:04:38,941
I don't want to.

1568
01:04:38,941 --> 01:04:39,976
And I'll open another one.

1569
01:04:39,976 --> 01:04:42,812
Sorry I'm over here
like licking my fingers to it.

1570
01:04:42,812 --> 01:04:43,946
This is really. Good.

1571
01:04:43,946 --> 01:04:47,917
I know I order 12
but I think I ordered online

1572
01:04:47,917 --> 01:04:50,286
and then I had a call in like
oh I need these for 4:00.

1573
01:04:50,286 --> 01:04:51,654
You don't want to give it a go.

1574
01:04:51,654 --> 01:04:54,390
The waiter was really. I know it's Monday.

1575
01:04:54,390 --> 01:04:54,757
All right.

1576
01:04:54,757 --> 01:04:56,893
I go, do you like this time?

1577
01:04:56,893 --> 01:04:58,728
It's that real easily.

1578
01:04:58,728 --> 01:04:59,729
It was a little too easy.

1579
01:04:59,729 --> 01:05:02,198
Yeah. You know, I haven't had dinner.
So I know that's exact.

1580
01:05:02,198 --> 01:05:03,933
Maybe that's why I'm like, yeah,
let's do this.

1581
01:05:03,933 --> 01:05:05,167
Congrats to Ojo cafe.

1582
01:05:05,167 --> 01:05:08,304
Those wings are really flavorful, meaty.

1583
01:05:10,873 --> 01:05:12,775
Like, it does not need hot sauce.

1584
01:05:12,775 --> 01:05:15,211
But since we're doing this, why not?

1585
01:05:15,211 --> 01:05:16,846
Let's go for it.

1586
01:05:16,846 --> 01:05:18,581
I gosh,

1587
01:05:18,581 --> 01:05:22,585
and my family is part Asian,
so I do like to try out Asian sauces.

1588
01:05:22,585 --> 01:05:25,588
I'm gonna have the, I can do.

1589
01:05:26,155 --> 01:05:27,490
I have born back.

1590
01:05:27,490 --> 01:05:29,892
Okay.

1591
01:05:29,892 --> 01:05:32,161
Oh. Thank you.

1592
01:05:32,161 --> 01:05:34,630
Prepping. This is prepping for 153.

1593
01:05:34,630 --> 01:05:37,633
We're at 152 with Deb and Lisa,

1594
01:05:38,701 --> 01:05:42,638
the main part of West Hartford,
the community helping out this.

1595
01:05:42,638 --> 01:05:44,573
Yeah. This is I like this.

1596
01:05:44,573 --> 01:05:46,075
Where they get this.

1597
01:05:46,075 --> 01:05:48,277
They get this from, like,
a dog market or something.

1598
01:05:48,277 --> 01:05:48,878
I'm going to be.

1599
01:05:48,878 --> 01:05:51,881
This is a type of hot chili oil.

1600
01:05:51,881 --> 01:05:54,917
I like that when you put like in the
in the noodle

1601
01:05:54,917 --> 01:05:57,920
bowl.

1602
01:05:59,722 --> 01:06:01,657
This one I'm
a little nervous about this one.

1603
01:06:01,657 --> 01:06:02,758
Looks very oily.

1604
01:06:04,193 --> 01:06:04,927
Super spicy.

1605
01:06:04,927 --> 01:06:06,796
Extra tingly.

1606
01:06:06,796 --> 01:06:09,332
Oh that is flavorful.

1607
01:06:09,332 --> 01:06:12,301
Very aromatic but not a lot of heat.

1608
01:06:13,002 --> 01:06:17,940
There's more flavor than heat so far
I'm liking that one a lot.

1609
01:06:17,940 --> 01:06:20,910
The flavor is a lot better.

1610
01:06:20,910 --> 01:06:22,278
Any of them local.

1611
01:06:22,278 --> 01:06:25,081
Oh look Argentina let's try hot ones.

1612
01:06:25,081 --> 01:06:26,682
They're trying to make you think it.

1613
01:06:26,682 --> 01:06:29,685
Let's do it for it.

1614
01:06:29,852 --> 01:06:32,855
Do you have any Can I get it open?

1615
01:06:34,557 --> 01:06:36,726
Oh, she was I going to say.

1616
01:06:36,726 --> 01:06:37,059
Closing.

1617
01:06:37,059 --> 01:06:39,929
Remarks?

1618
01:06:39,929 --> 01:06:40,129
All right.

1619
01:06:40,129 --> 01:06:44,900
I want to thank you for having us on and
for everything you do for your students.

1620
01:06:44,900 --> 01:06:49,705
Now, your students in prior years
and then with your nonprofit.

1621
01:06:50,006 --> 01:06:53,009
Yeah, you're doing good stuff.

1622
01:06:54,076 --> 01:06:54,577
Thanks, Deb.

1623
01:06:54,577 --> 01:06:55,711
I appreciate the compliment.

1624
01:06:55,711 --> 01:06:58,681
Yeah, I know we chatted before,
but it was great to,

1625
01:06:58,681 --> 01:07:02,485
you know, to chat a little more
then I never really talked with you.

1626
01:07:02,485 --> 01:07:05,121
So it was wonderful getting to know you.
Yeah. Same here.

1627
01:07:05,121 --> 01:07:07,189
I wish you both the best of luck.

1628
01:07:07,189 --> 01:07:10,860
Hopefully we can collaborate
on a fundraiser or an event or.

1629
01:07:10,893 --> 01:07:11,761
That would be great.

1630
01:07:12,995 --> 01:07:16,265
Please continue to be good friends
and donate and support.

1631
01:07:16,265 --> 01:07:19,802
I want to thank you both for your support
and your generous donation.

1632
01:07:22,271 --> 01:07:26,108
Oh. Starting to that oily one.

1633
01:07:26,242 --> 01:07:27,476
I'm sorry.

1634
01:07:27,476 --> 01:07:28,110
I'm good.

1635
01:07:28,110 --> 01:07:29,278
Thanks. Yeah.

1636
01:07:29,278 --> 01:07:32,148
Good flavor.

1637
01:07:32,148 --> 01:07:35,151
This is a good commercial
for these hot sauce for the wings.

1638
01:07:36,118 --> 01:07:36,986
I am down for that.

1639
01:07:36,986 --> 01:07:39,989
Is it? Cheers to otro cafe.

1640
01:07:40,556 --> 01:07:42,658
Do you need. What?
Are you okay? Damn, girl.

1641
01:07:42,658 --> 01:07:43,592
I want to make it.

1642
01:07:43,592 --> 01:07:45,361
Yeah, sure. So, Oto cafe.

1643
01:07:45,361 --> 01:07:48,064
All right. Means for dinner. She and I.

1644
01:07:48,064 --> 01:07:51,067
I didn't even know that the wings
were going to be coming from Ojo, right.

1645
01:07:51,133 --> 01:07:52,802
I perfect, very fitting.

1646
01:07:52,802 --> 01:07:54,070
One of my top three.

1647
01:07:54,070 --> 01:07:56,205
I know as I was buying them,
I go, these are going to be

1648
01:07:56,205 --> 01:07:58,507
on a podcast downstairs
and we're going to talk about them.

1649
01:07:58,507 --> 01:08:00,009
She was like, all right. And

1650
01:08:00,976 --> 01:08:03,946
so we're going to show them, okay,
thank you for putting my sticker up.

1651
01:08:03,946 --> 01:08:05,948
I don't know who put that sticker
that's been there for a while

1652
01:08:05,948 --> 01:08:07,783
says good friends rule.

1653
01:08:07,783 --> 01:08:09,852
You saw out there earlier.

1654
01:08:09,852 --> 01:08:10,953
They're good people.

1655
01:08:10,953 --> 01:08:13,489
Yeah. The West Hartford
community is great.

1656
01:08:13,489 --> 01:08:16,225
They are very supportive of our mission,
are helping children

1657
01:08:16,225 --> 01:08:19,228
and families that need assistance
after heartbreak or tragedy.

1658
01:08:19,228 --> 01:08:21,597
We're going on, like,

1659
01:08:21,597 --> 01:08:23,199
six, 19.

1660
01:08:23,199 --> 01:08:27,269
So six years, we won the best of West
Hartford three years in a row.

1661
01:08:27,269 --> 01:08:29,238
So we're going back for our fourth year.
So go get out.

1662
01:08:29,238 --> 01:08:32,241
Get out and vote. Best of West Hartford.

1663
01:08:32,341 --> 01:08:34,310
We have our toy drive coming up.

1664
01:08:34,310 --> 01:08:36,645
We're collecting toys again at Luna Pizza.

1665
01:08:36,645 --> 01:08:38,180
It's going to be December 5th.

1666
01:08:38,180 --> 01:08:40,015
We'd love to have you come by,
bring a toy.

1667
01:08:40,015 --> 01:08:42,451
And, I gently used coat,

1668
01:08:43,586 --> 01:08:44,353
and that's it.

1669
01:08:44,353 --> 01:08:45,621
So we got toy drive.

1670
01:08:45,621 --> 01:08:48,624
Oh, we're handing out
candy this week at the Miracle League.

1671
01:08:49,525 --> 01:08:50,626
Just wonderful community.

1672
01:08:50,626 --> 01:08:52,128
I love being here.

1673
01:08:52,128 --> 01:08:56,265
That Echo League, they're doing a big, 
celebration to honor coach Mike.

1674
01:08:56,265 --> 01:08:58,801
Yeah. Do you know when that's going to be?
That was last. Saturday.

1675
01:08:58,801 --> 01:09:00,903
Oh, it's already happened. Yeah.

1676
01:09:00,903 --> 01:09:03,372
Mike, podcast guest.

1677
01:09:03,372 --> 01:09:04,440
Of course.

1678
01:09:04,440 --> 01:09:06,509
I don't know what. Which one?

1679
01:09:06,509 --> 01:09:07,376
I'm trying to get them all.

1680
01:09:07,376 --> 01:09:07,776
All right.

1681
01:09:07,776 --> 01:09:09,812
We're getting everyone from West Hartford
unpaid.

1682
01:09:09,812 --> 01:09:12,014
Absolutely. We'll help you. Thank you.

1683
01:09:12,014 --> 01:09:15,017
So on three on three together
we're going to say be a good friend.

1684
01:09:15,084 --> 01:09:17,553
Ready? 123. Be a. Good. Friend.