The Humility Advantage

Stop setting yourself up for failure! 

We reveal why your New Year's Resolutions crumble by February—it's not a lack of willpower, it's a structural flaw in the idea of a resolution. 

This episode introduces the System Solution, proving that focusing on daily processes (not future outcomes) is the only path to sustained success. 

We show you the neuroscience of systems, explaining how they shift the heavy lifting from your energy-hungry PFC to your efficient basal ganglia. 

Learn the vital role of PQ Reps in quickly resetting after a slip-up, ensuring your success is built on consistent re-entry, not flawless execution.

What is The Humility Advantage?

The Humility Advantage — Less Ego. More Impact.

What if the secret to stronger leadership, deeper influence, and lasting peace isn’t more confidence—but greater mental fitness rooted in humility?

Hosted by J. Alexander—former Marine, healthcare executive, and leadership coach—The Humility Advantage goes beneath the surface of success to explore what truly drives authentic, sustainable leadership. This podcast challenges the inner saboteurs that quietly undermine high performers—the inner critic, the controller, the pleaser, and the judge—and replaces them with calm, clear, purpose-driven leadership from within.

Through real stories, neuroscience-backed insights, and practical mental fitness tools inspired by Shirzad Chamine’s Positive Intelligence, each episode helps you recognize when ego and fear are hijacking your decisions—and how to return to your wiser, grounded self in real time. You’ll learn how to quiet imposter syndrome, build emotional intelligence under pressure, and lead from a place of clarity rather than reactivity.

Blending science, soul, and strategy, The Humility Advantage equips you to win the inner battles that drain your energy and limit your impact—so you can lead with presence, composure, and confidence that doesn’t rely on force or image.

Whether you’re leading a team, an organization, or simply working to lead yourself better, this show will challenge how you define strength, success, and greatness.

Because the world doesn’t need more impressive leaders.
It needs more mentally fit, humble ones.