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Welcome to The Crucible, Conversations for
the Curious.

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I'm Hamish, your host.

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In each episode you'll hear from everyday
people who've been through profound life

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altering experiences, from life
threatening illnesses or accidents, deep

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existential crisis, addiction, or having
to make life choices that have ultimately

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brought them peace, connection and
purpose.

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They've all stared into the abyss, walked
through the fire of their own personal

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dark nights of the soul, and emerged from
the other side transformed.

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This podcast is for anyone going through
an awakening, a time of massive change, or

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questioning the

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meaning of life.

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You are not alone.

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You can get through this.

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I promise you life is more meaningful and
beautiful on the other side.

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We're here today with Raz and he is from
the centre of Israel.

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Raz, thanks ever so much for turning up
today.

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Can you tell us a little bit about your
awakening?

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First off, thank you very much for having
me here.

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I really appreciate this place and the
opportunity to talk and present what I

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have been through and all of this process.

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So thank you very much, Hamish.

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So a little bit about my awakening, if we
can say it that way.

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For me, awakening, it's actually waking up
to who we really are, our own true nature.

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Nothing special about me.

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It is within every single one of us.

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It is within you, Hamish, your parents,
your loved ones, everyone around us.

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And awakening for me, it is really
awakening to the true nature of who we

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really are in our core.

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Means we are one, we are love, we are
like, I hope we are not going too deep

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already, but eventually we are all the
same one.

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Okay.

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And.

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It started for me, this old journey
started when I was around 19.

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I was in the army in Israel.

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We all serve in the army.

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I was in a combat unit and then I
experienced a lot of pain, back pain.

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And looking backward, it is me, Raz, carry
trauma from childhood, which I will not

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share right here, but it was a trauma that
I carried literally on my back.

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And that made me to feel...

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really in pain physically and mentally,
and I couldn't really express what I feel.

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I felt exhausted of life, I felt stuck, I
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And then I remember this one event that I
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the army wanted me to make a presentation
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And I remember this moment that 30...

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pair of eyes looking at me, I feel the
judgment and I become blushed and red and

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it starts shaking and I see those gazes
looking at me and I'm so scared inside and

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all I'm asking is that please God, please
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they would see that I'm freaking out from
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And while I'm shaking, like I just wanted
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out of there and just to tell you like the
whole settings over there I'm behind some

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cover that is hiding me there is another
girl that is doing just the same as I am

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we have something to read from and I know
all of those people I know them pretty

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much some more some less and even with
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That was just a big fear that came out,
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looking and they would see me and they
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And then when I just hope that I will just
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I'm like scrambling, barely saying the
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happening.

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They all see that I'm actually blushing.

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They see that I am really freaking out
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point on me.

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They actually saw that.

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And when I see their faces on those people
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biggest fear for me just actually
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Like that actually happened at that
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And from that moment I said to myself
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that again.

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Like I will never do that again as a
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that was pretty introverted and I couldn't
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That was like, that was too much for me.

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Today, after this journey, learning
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standing in front of people and actually
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now, that is a honor for me to share my
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your biggest fear,

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That is just the beginning of something
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And moving forward, six years ago when I'm
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I am, what is that journey, what is my
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biggest question we all have to ask.

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I traveled in India and I do not really
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I wake up one day in an ambulance figuring
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fractures in my spine, two ribs that broke
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I understood that they got like a blank
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page from now on.

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I had those fears, everything came up, but
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are you going to really use everything you
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everything that you learned in this
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resist that as you did in the first
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Looking backward, that was like the
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myself.

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Like, I think it is Tony Robbins that is
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the quality of your questions.

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And I started to ask the right questions.

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I started to ask, what can I learn from
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Who do you want to be from now on?

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And just for everyone that is listening,
awakening and creating who you really want

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to be or destiny.

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This is not something that you have only
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In my opinion, you are the one that is
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are someone that want to bring other
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Hamish, you are bringing other people the
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is beautiful.

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In my opinion, we all have something to
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and because each one of us have this gift
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share that I will not go to my

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childhood trauma but all I can share is
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that I couldn't really share over there
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I used to stand in front of people and I
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fearful today I know this is my gift what
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I understood that I got a gift.

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I live.

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I got this gift and the present moment and
realising who we really are and bringing

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our own gift.

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This is one of the things that we can call
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Awakened to who you really are, your own
gift, nourish them.

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And from then, my gift and my vision is to
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themselves from suffering and start
smiling independently of any external.

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Just like I was in hospital bed, maybe you
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hospital bed after a few days, few weeks,
people come to visit me and they're

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asking, Raz, how are you doing?

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You are like, this and that happened, how
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And I'm like, I'm doing great.

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How are you doing?

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And they couldn't really realize that
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lying.

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And they are like asking again, but how do
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And I'm saying again, I'm doing great.

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Thank you for coming.

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How are you doing?

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And they couldn't really get that thing
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We all have that leadership inside to lead
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Whatever happened.

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So this is a little bit about my
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who I can be and take my ambitious and
stand on stages today.

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This is what I'm doing, helping others to
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because we all have that gift inside of
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in India, you had you fell off something
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And then so then in the in the hospital,
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and what was important and and things like
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So how long were you in the hospital for?

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So I was in India around like one month
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five hospitals.

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I was in danger of death because I had
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I started to cough blood.

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So they understood it's not just injuries
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It is also an inner bleeding, which is
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So it was around one month and a half and
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I was in Israel, they brought me to Israel
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more but it was like the whole recovery
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to recovery day to day to get better.

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Wow, okay.

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So you had time to think and decide what
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What was the result of that?

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I mean, you've explained it's all about
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that point?

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What were you feeling?

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What were you thinking?

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What was your body telling you when you
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So if we are taking that moment that they
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I am in the ambulance.

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They are telling me, Raz you actually fell
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Then I didn't really believe them, by the
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coming, like becoming awake.

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They are telling me that and I'm like, no,
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And I'm asking someone else and then
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And like it was like around seven friends
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And I think like it was around five
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would say, Raz, it actually happened.

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You fell from 10 meter height.

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And in that point, we have no idea what
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So the first reaction was I laughed.

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I was laughing.

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Like this is part of me recovering things.

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I'm laughing about things.

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Like I said, like how city is that man?

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Like how did it happen?

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And then there was like few days in those
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danger of death.

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Yes, I'm not going to really keep
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I didn't really understand how bad it was.

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I thought that three days and I'm going to
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But it was more than two months that I
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I'm just lying on hospital bed, seeing the
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Upside upside down turtle looking on the
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This is how it was.

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I couldn't eat alone Couldn't do anything
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So for someone that just wants to please
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myself so for your question I was confused
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I was Extremely confused what it's going
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I would not lie.

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I didn't what I was not just yes

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I'm alive.

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I have a blank page.

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No, it was not like that.

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I was confused and there were questions
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What career would I have as I'm injured
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you're going to suffer from the pain to
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have back pain.

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You wouldn't be able to even take a coke
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you will suffer from pain even doing that.

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That was a lie.

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Okay, not that I'm mad about the doctors,
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perspective what they thought it's going
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And then other questions like who would
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would I do with my life?

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And those questions started to come up.

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And fortunately, I had beautiful amazing
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this traveling and this trip.

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And I remember that some of them said,
Raz, it is a gift.

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Like you could be dead, but you are alive.

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And for some reason, something, someone
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No matter what you believe, but something
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And I'm someone that pretty much believe
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whatever we call it, God, love, energy,
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We know that there is something and he
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want me to be here.

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And then it hit me like, maybe there is,
maybe there is some force that...

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Wanted me to do not finish this journey
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Like I could be dead 10 meter height just
for the perspective My mom said that like

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a week after that happened to me though
was like How would I call it like Like

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those people that are on on on the
circuits, okay, and they are like walking

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on really high Like tight ropes

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They can do everything and it was extended
six meter height and one of them actually

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fell down and he died Six meter and mine
was ten.

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So then it gives you some perspective that
well, whatever you believe You are here

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because something or someone wanted you to
still be here.

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Whatever you believe it doesn't matter and
After those times of confusion I

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understood

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Yeah, maybe I have to do something with
that gift.

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And then I started to visualize what I
want.

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So this is another super important thing.

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Visualize what you want.

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Just yesterday, one of my family member
had a child and like she was not born, but

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she had a child like two months ago.

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And she wrote in the WhatsApp group that
she came into surgery.

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brain surgery and I freaked out because I
really love her and this is her daughter

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and I'm praying and one of the things that
they did over there it is pretty similar

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to what they did on hospital bed and this
is visualizing the end goal as if it is

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already fulfilled means I actually saw her
daughter coming back today like

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one day after for some reason after brain
surgery, I do not really think that you're

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just coming back to home with your
parents, right?

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But this is what I visualized.

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I didn't care.

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And one of the things that is super
important is I didn't beg.

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At the beginning I begged.

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Like I said, please God, whatever it is,
please make a miracle for her.

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I love her so much.

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And I started to see her.

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And then I switched that energy to stop
being that someone that please God.

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It started to be happy.

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like see her smiling coming back with her
parents and guess what Haimish today I got

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in my whatsapp a picture that she is
thanking everyone for praying and her

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daughter smiling coming back without
anything that I imagined that could be the

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worst case she actually came back healthy
and this is a holiday today yeah like this

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is a miracle I

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I'm not saying I did it, a lot of people
that prayed wished for that as well, but

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the same principles that I used on
hospital bed and yesterday made the same

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things to happen.

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So for me, for example, it was, I wanted
to walk again without relying on anything.

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So I started to imagine and visualize me
and my dog walking and he's like really

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tough boy, you know, and I said like,

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in my imagining, in like me imagine that
if I can work with him means that I am

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pretty much good.

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So I started to see that I saw me going to
a trip with my dog and doing those actions

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day after day.

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And there are some principle of course,
and little nuance to that.

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And when you do them, you actually
activate the biggest part, this part that

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is we are all

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part of it.

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We are creatives.

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We can create our own universe.

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We can create sadness and misery and
hardship, or exactly as you've done, we

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can create something that we want.

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And I'd love you to tell me a little bit
more about your visualizing, be able to

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walk again, because that's so powerful.

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But you're spot on.

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When we...

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think about something when we desire it
from here, very much from our heart and

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aligned with our purpose.

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It's not, I really desire a million
dollars so I can buy a really nice house,

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a really nice car.

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No, You had that second chance, so it was
important for you to live it.

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And you said, well, I need to be able to
walk.

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And I think that's absolutely remarkable.

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how did your family, how did that change?

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Your family relationships change when you
came back from India and you then had

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months of recovery and presumably you had
an idea of a career that you could no

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longer do.

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Well, they were supportive and I'm
grateful every day that I have this

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family.

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Like, to be honest, a lot of people said
that what my mom did, their mom would

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never do.

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And what my mom did, at the moment she
heard that and then like she's telling me

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this whole story in much more expenditure
of details, you know, like I'm a man and

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they women talk a lot about the details.

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And when she's...

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talking and saying that she's telling that
from her perspective after she's yelling,

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the first thing she's doing is like, she
is calling to anyone that she can that

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would help her to fly at the moment to
India to be with me.

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And this is what she did.

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Like the moment she could, like it was
like after three days that they told her,

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the doctors that I'm not going to come
back because of the inner bleeding,

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because I'm in danger of death, of being
death, she just flew.

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She took like whatever I took and just
came to India to be with me, a foreign

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country that she was never been and she
was with me.

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So after that, they were super supportive.

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People came to visit me.

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They fed me, they helped me and step by
step, I came back to what I was just for a

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perspective after one year from that
accident.

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Accident that was not an accident.

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That was the biggest present of my life.

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Yeah, let's be honest.

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I Went to a ski trip One year after this
accident.

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I went to a ski trip means I was with
something to support me and some pills for

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pain but I was pretty Motivated to keep
going in with my life.

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I started to picture not only me walking
with my dog, but the

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the biggest expression of me and visualize
that every single day.

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And you asked that before and for me, it
was, I saw me when I'm lying on hospital

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bed physically, I saw in my mind a picture
of me on stage.

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Okay, like I saw myself going through the
biggest fear that I had.

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And so I did after like one year.

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I think like a little bit after the
recovery, I went to NLP trainer, which is

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how you stand up in front of camera, how
you stand in front of stage and people.

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And today, like the biggest dream is like
to stand on Ted Talk.

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And I will, you would see my name there,
like 1000%.

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You will see that

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I guess as well, your priorities have
shifted.

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What's important to you has shifted.

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Expand on why nearly dying, breaking your
back was the best thing that ever happened

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to you and who you are as a result of
that.

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So who I was before that is well, I was
like scared, introverted, sensitive guy

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who felt inadequate to society because
society and I came from a religious

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family.

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I raised that there is heaven and hell.

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And if you do good, you go to heaven.

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If you do bad, you go to hell.

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And

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that is really hard concept to believe in.

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And today I can tell you that heaven and
hell are here, like right here, right now.

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Okay.

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So before this accident, I lived in pretty
much hell.

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Like the story that I told you at the
beginning, 30 pair of eyes looking at me

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standing, that was hell, absolute hell.

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My whole life was a big hell.

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Today's heaven.

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I truly believe that

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There is absolute joy like there is no
difference and our journey here is to be

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that Here and now and that can be only
here and now of course that could that

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cannot be in the future that cannot be in
the past that can only be here and now and

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Before that, I used to be like, I feared
from judgment and I overcame that.

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I used to fear of rejection and I went
through that.

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I had the fear, which I have sometimes
even today, the fear that I'm not enough,

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that I'm not good enough, this inner
doubt.

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And all of those fears are stopping us
from being who we really are.

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A clue for those that are listening,
Hamish, those fears are here.

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exactly and specifically for us because
life happening for us and not to us.

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It's happening for me means every time
that I have some fear it is here so I

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would be able to overcome that.

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It is here because the biggest version of
me, me that actually fulfilling and have

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the beautiful life, wealth, great
relationship, beautiful body, beautiful

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health, they're all just

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one step after you overcome this fear.

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And some people are super afraid that,
yeah, but what would happen?

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And if you would tell them, yes, you can
just do it, and this is actually what we

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should actually do, but the mind make it
really complex.

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A lot of times after we are doing those
little things, there is higher force

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that's supporting our way.

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Means, for example,

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when I understood that I want to be the
greatest expression that I can be and I

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went to learn how to lecture in front of
people.

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Then some new opportunities came by.

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I learned from the most successful person
here in Israel that also interviewed in

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the BBC and a lot of international
channels.

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And I learned from him and I became like
one of the best.

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I'm...

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I truly think that I'm really amazing
lecturer.

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And then I got more opportunities and this
dream that I would stand in talking in

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front of people became a dream that today
I have created few courses, courses that

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one of them called the Flagship Program,
the Peaceful Leader Blueprint, where I

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help people to bring this peaceful leader
that is inside and move from that place

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that I said before to who we can be, to
the most fulfilled.

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most connected, happy, confident version
of ourself.

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And I'm saying that maybe you can't see
that today, but I was extremely

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unconfident.

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I couldn't even say hi to someone new.

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And if I had to talk to some girl that I
saw that I like her, I couldn't do that.

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I will tell you one story that you would
understand.

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I had so much negative thoughts about
myself before that.

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I used to walk in the street and imagine
that I'm walking in the street and three

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girls passing by me and they are
beautiful, okay, and I'm moving past them

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and Suddenly when they pass by me, they
start to laugh.

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They are like jiggling.

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00:29:54,445 --> 00:30:01,089
Haha And it's like sweet if you'd see that
it's like little girls laughing but

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All that happened in my head was, you are
such a loser.

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they're laughing at you.

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they think that you are such a big fat
loser, unsuccessful man.

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Look at you.

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How ugly, how weird are you?

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And all of those are thoughts in my head,
which I believe that all of them who I

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really am, I believe those thoughts.

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Today, okay, today the same thing
happened.

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Same thing, Hamish.

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and something extremely different
happening.

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What is actually happening is the same
thing happening three girls, three

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beautiful girls passing by me on the
street.

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I'm walking.

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First off, I'm smiling.

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Second, all I say to myself that they are
laughing because, you're such a cool man.

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They are laughing because you're such a
handsome boy.

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they know that you are such a big win if
they would get you.

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00:31:00,481 --> 00:31:01,151
It doesn't matter.

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You have a girlfriend and all of those
positive self -talk that I have today.

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Nothing changed outside.

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Nothing.

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00:31:09,661 --> 00:31:10,041
Okay.

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00:31:10,041 --> 00:31:19,681
Same thing, but the inner expression of my
image, who I really am that extremely

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changed.

429
00:31:20,381 --> 00:31:21,661
I became someone else.

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00:31:21,661 --> 00:31:28,461
I became someone that if I would talk to
my old self, my younger self, he wouldn't

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00:31:28,461 --> 00:31:30,049
recognize that like,

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00:31:30,049 --> 00:31:34,269
I like some part of me died few times.

433
00:31:34,269 --> 00:31:39,209
Okay, like there was few version of me
that died and I died many times to be

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honest like someone that would hear that
and he never died in his head like he

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00:31:43,749 --> 00:31:46,629
never changes identity drastically.

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00:31:46,629 --> 00:31:49,519
He would maybe say like what the fuck he's
saying, right?

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00:31:49,519 --> 00:31:51,729
Like what what is he saying?

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00:31:51,729 --> 00:31:58,433
But we all die sometimes it's when we
leave some identity behind us.

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and we change and when we change that
identity we become someone else and there

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are three main things that for those that
are listening maybe that would give you

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some direction you have to change three
main things and they're super important

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one is what you have to be focused on the
what you have to have clarity on what you

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want the second thing is you have to know
why so the first one is about the mind

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00:32:26,049 --> 00:32:30,709
Okay, what is it the thought what i'm
directed to the second thing is why why

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i'm doing it Why I want it.

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This is my heart's desire what my heart
really wants that my soul desires We want

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to combine them both and the third thing
which most people never even point or say

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00:32:45,889 --> 00:32:51,369
This is the identity the identity that you
wear You can look at that as like the

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identity is your clothes.

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00:32:52,709 --> 00:32:56,089
Okay, this is like your car

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00:32:56,161 --> 00:33:01,341
but you are not your car, you are not your
clothes, you are what is within.

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And you can change clothes, you can change
your car, but your true self is the same,

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00:33:09,211 --> 00:33:10,041
right?

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So what really changes, I just, a lot of
people here that in the self -development

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area, I just removed more and more layers
out of this onion that this is who we

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really are.

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And in our core, we are all the same.

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00:33:25,249 --> 00:33:29,629
This is why I help people to stop
suffering, start smiling independently of

459
00:33:29,629 --> 00:33:33,569
the external source and be their own
peaceful leader.

460
00:33:33,569 --> 00:33:37,769
Within you and me, there is the same
source, the same self.

461
00:33:37,769 --> 00:33:42,269
And that self is that peaceful leader that
we all have in common.

462
00:33:42,269 --> 00:33:45,519
The one that just knows what is right.

463
00:33:45,519 --> 00:33:52,189
So those three things, the what, why and
who, like the mind, the thought, the

464
00:33:52,189 --> 00:33:55,201
heart, which is the emotion.

465
00:33:55,201 --> 00:34:01,161
and the identity, which is the what you
wear, the clothing that you wear.

466
00:34:01,161 --> 00:34:05,441
When you change them all, you can change
every single thing and we can all do that

467
00:34:05,441 --> 00:34:07,621
and we all did that.

468
00:34:07,861 --> 00:34:09,461
It was just unconscious.

469
00:34:09,461 --> 00:34:15,801
And when we do that consciously, this is
what we are doing in my program and other

470
00:34:15,801 --> 00:34:16,881
people doing that.

471
00:34:16,881 --> 00:34:22,449
But when we do that consciously, that is
like, that is a magic in my opinion.

472
00:34:23,829 --> 00:34:25,009
Absolutely.

473
00:34:25,009 --> 00:34:26,609
It is.

474
00:34:26,609 --> 00:34:31,249
And so many people I identify by their
job.

475
00:34:31,689 --> 00:34:33,169
I'm a mum, I've got children.

476
00:34:33,169 --> 00:34:34,359
I'm a dad, I've got children.

477
00:34:34,359 --> 00:34:35,109
I'm a lawyer.

478
00:34:35,109 --> 00:34:36,989
I'm this, I'm that.

479
00:34:36,989 --> 00:34:40,889
Exactly as you said, forgetting that this
is what I am.

480
00:34:40,889 --> 00:34:41,449
I'm here.

481
00:34:41,449 --> 00:34:42,179
I'm here.

482
00:34:42,179 --> 00:34:44,229
I'm this person.

483
00:34:44,229 --> 00:34:47,169
I'm not external things.

484
00:34:47,169 --> 00:34:50,229
And I think that's really important to
appreciate.

485
00:34:50,229 --> 00:34:52,525
And yet it's...

486
00:34:53,045 --> 00:34:58,205
It is an awareness and it's also difficult
to re -identify with things because you've

487
00:34:58,205 --> 00:35:02,085
got to, you've got to take responsibility
for your life, haven't you?

488
00:35:02,085 --> 00:35:05,565
You've got to start saying, this is who I
am.

489
00:35:05,565 --> 00:35:06,685
This is why I am.

490
00:35:06,685 --> 00:35:07,285
I love that.

491
00:35:07,285 --> 00:35:08,545
And this is how I am.

492
00:35:08,545 --> 00:35:14,445
And looking at your identity and realizing
you're not your car.

493
00:35:14,445 --> 00:35:15,595
You're not those shoes.

494
00:35:15,595 --> 00:35:16,735
You're not anything.

495
00:35:16,735 --> 00:35:18,245
You are whatever you want to be.

496
00:35:18,245 --> 00:35:21,845
And I think, I think you've really had it
on the head because you can be whatever

497
00:35:21,845 --> 00:35:23,013
you want to be.

498
00:35:23,125 --> 00:35:24,615
You can make yourself that.

499
00:35:24,615 --> 00:35:25,605
And yeah, you've got to die.

500
00:35:25,605 --> 00:35:26,305
So what?

501
00:35:26,305 --> 00:35:27,465
You know, you've died.

502
00:35:27,465 --> 00:35:31,285
You fell off the whatever it was, the roof
and you died.

503
00:35:31,285 --> 00:35:32,565
I had to stop drinking.

504
00:35:32,565 --> 00:35:34,005
I died.

505
00:35:34,105 --> 00:35:35,341
And...

506
00:35:37,077 --> 00:35:38,857
then you've got all that potential.

507
00:35:38,857 --> 00:35:42,257
As you said earlier, you've got any
potential you want.

508
00:35:42,437 --> 00:35:45,637
And I think that is fantastic.

509
00:35:46,297 --> 00:35:53,257
So when you die, when you've changed your
identity, what happens to the people

510
00:35:53,257 --> 00:35:53,817
around you?

511
00:35:53,817 --> 00:35:55,737
What happens to your situation and you?

512
00:35:55,737 --> 00:35:59,085
What do you become and what happens around
you?

513
00:35:59,841 --> 00:36:04,509
Do you mean like in my own occasion or
generally when we change that identity?

514
00:36:05,237 --> 00:36:08,917
I think, well, maybe, maybe definitely for
you because you've been through this.

515
00:36:08,917 --> 00:36:12,167
So you're talking to me and I'm, I'm on
that cusp.

516
00:36:12,167 --> 00:36:15,477
I don't want to identify as, as that and
that.

517
00:36:15,477 --> 00:36:20,677
I don't want to identify as the victim who
I always felt I've been, you know, I used

518
00:36:20,677 --> 00:36:23,057
to get beaten up as a kid and all this
kind of stuff.

519
00:36:23,057 --> 00:36:28,717
And I want to change and I'm frightened,
but I know I want to.

520
00:36:28,717 --> 00:36:30,497
So I'm doing that process that you've
done.

521
00:36:30,497 --> 00:36:35,117
So what, what can you tell me that is
going to make me.

522
00:36:36,725 --> 00:36:39,325
risk changing my identity.

523
00:36:39,325 --> 00:36:40,925
Why should I do it?

524
00:36:40,925 --> 00:36:42,705
What is the benefit?

525
00:36:42,705 --> 00:36:44,717
What will I get out of it?

526
00:36:45,281 --> 00:36:50,171
Well, first off, we need to remember that
we are all motivated from two main things.

527
00:36:50,171 --> 00:36:53,501
The first one is running from pain.

528
00:36:53,501 --> 00:36:56,301
The second one is thriving for pleasure.

529
00:36:56,301 --> 00:37:02,241
Tony Robbins talk and a lot of new age
psychology, super important to understand.

530
00:37:02,241 --> 00:37:06,181
It's either you try to run from pain,
which is the biggest motivation for us.

531
00:37:06,181 --> 00:37:08,021
We are human beings.

532
00:37:08,021 --> 00:37:12,081
And the second one is striving for better,
striving for pain.

533
00:37:12,141 --> 00:37:12,947
So.

534
00:37:13,377 --> 00:37:18,697
At the beginning of my journey, it was
mainly running from pain.

535
00:37:18,697 --> 00:37:26,977
It was mainly stop experiencing that
suffering of being controlled by my

536
00:37:26,977 --> 00:37:33,797
emotions, by my fears, by my doubts, by my
worries, by what people are saying that I

537
00:37:33,797 --> 00:37:35,377
should do.

538
00:37:35,557 --> 00:37:40,057
And eventually after I've been through
some things, this is a negative

539
00:37:40,057 --> 00:37:42,017
motivation, by the way, the first one.

540
00:37:42,017 --> 00:37:47,041
The second kind of motivation is...

541
00:37:47,041 --> 00:37:49,241
Getting more of what we want.

542
00:37:49,241 --> 00:37:52,241
For me, for example, it is about giving.

543
00:37:52,241 --> 00:37:57,181
Like I want to have meaningful
contribution until the day I die.

544
00:37:57,181 --> 00:38:02,991
I don't want to live the same life I had
before that accident, okay?

545
00:38:02,991 --> 00:38:05,421
I want to have different life.

546
00:38:05,421 --> 00:38:13,221
This is why I have in my head a blank page
that I started to draw what I want until

547
00:38:13,221 --> 00:38:13,821
this very day.

548
00:38:13,821 --> 00:38:15,311
I'm doing that from time to time.

549
00:38:15,311 --> 00:38:15,649
Like...

550
00:38:15,649 --> 00:38:20,109
Literally writing and drawing who I want
to be so for your question.

551
00:38:20,109 --> 00:38:21,969
Why would we do that?

552
00:38:22,129 --> 00:38:28,189
first off in my opinion and that would
sound really cruel, but This is what I saw

553
00:38:28,189 --> 00:38:29,059
until now.

554
00:38:29,059 --> 00:38:36,029
I actually believe that I hope that I'm
wrong But most people around 90 % and I

555
00:38:36,029 --> 00:38:44,449
think even much more but let's put it in
90 % of people are changing only as a

556
00:38:44,449 --> 00:38:45,185
result of

557
00:38:45,185 --> 00:38:47,885
of suffering and running from pain.

558
00:38:47,885 --> 00:38:53,725
Means even in my occasion, and as I
understood, I guess in your case as well,

559
00:38:54,185 --> 00:38:56,835
we trying to run from this pain.

560
00:38:56,835 --> 00:38:59,465
We are not just unsatisfied.

561
00:38:59,465 --> 00:38:59,865
Okay.

562
00:38:59,865 --> 00:39:01,065
This is like a little road.

563
00:39:01,065 --> 00:39:02,805
We are suffering.

564
00:39:02,805 --> 00:39:07,305
We can't like, we are drawing this line on
the sand and each one of us has this point

565
00:39:07,305 --> 00:39:10,165
in life that no more.

566
00:39:10,165 --> 00:39:12,115
I would not live that way.

567
00:39:12,115 --> 00:39:15,201
I wouldn't, I don't want this life
anymore.

568
00:39:15,201 --> 00:39:20,021
And sometimes this is the most important
point when we cross this line in the sand

569
00:39:20,021 --> 00:39:25,581
and say no more, I'm not going to live
that life anymore.

570
00:39:26,081 --> 00:39:31,481
And for the question that why we would
even do that first off, I believe that we

571
00:39:31,481 --> 00:39:33,341
need to get to the bottom.

572
00:39:33,341 --> 00:39:37,401
We need to get to this point that we
suffer that much.

573
00:39:37,401 --> 00:39:44,289
And some of you guys that is listening to
that, that are listening, just...

574
00:39:44,289 --> 00:39:49,469
I just want to encourage you, if you are
still suffering and you had not changed

575
00:39:49,469 --> 00:39:52,949
yet, just understand that you have super
power to suffer.

576
00:39:52,949 --> 00:39:56,479
You are so strong that you can actually
suffer by now.

577
00:39:56,479 --> 00:39:59,789
This is beautiful, beautiful point, okay?

578
00:39:59,789 --> 00:40:05,689
But just take this one point when you
actually choose that you want to do that,

579
00:40:05,689 --> 00:40:07,789
you don't have to keep suffering.

580
00:40:07,789 --> 00:40:12,129
I promise you, I'm not saying any of that
to encourage you.

581
00:40:12,129 --> 00:40:13,953
Like just yesterday I had this...

582
00:40:13,953 --> 00:40:20,073
one trainee that he said to me something
after I said to him that he asked like,

583
00:40:20,073 --> 00:40:21,703
can I go through that?

584
00:40:21,703 --> 00:40:25,953
Can I be like to the direction that you
told me?

585
00:40:25,953 --> 00:40:27,593
And he said, absolutely.

586
00:40:27,593 --> 00:40:32,113
And he said like, aren't you saying that
just to encourage me?

587
00:40:32,113 --> 00:40:34,133
And I said, hell no, man.

588
00:40:34,133 --> 00:40:34,803
Hell no.

589
00:40:34,803 --> 00:40:35,753
I know that.

590
00:40:35,753 --> 00:40:40,573
I know that I see thousands of people and
I know that there are millions of people

591
00:40:40,573 --> 00:40:41,703
that already did that.

592
00:40:41,703 --> 00:40:43,307
So why can't you?

593
00:40:43,489 --> 00:40:49,269
Sometimes we are so locked in our head and
even me with my own struggles or

594
00:40:49,269 --> 00:40:51,409
challenges these days.

595
00:40:51,428 --> 00:40:54,629
I know that one day I would go through
them no matter what.

596
00:40:54,629 --> 00:40:59,529
I know that there is no difference between
what happened to me physically or me not

597
00:40:59,529 --> 00:41:03,529
having a girlfriend and saying like I'm
not loving myself.

598
00:41:03,529 --> 00:41:04,949
How can I even find love?

599
00:41:04,949 --> 00:41:07,789
Like who would want someone that can't
even love myself?

600
00:41:07,789 --> 00:41:12,529
And this is like the very sane and very
self -talk that stopped me from having a

601
00:41:12,529 --> 00:41:12,929
girlfriend.

602
00:41:12,929 --> 00:41:13,705
Okay.

603
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:19,340
Then I started to give myself this love
and I found love like this is just when

604
00:41:19,340 --> 00:41:24,960
you change things here the external world
changes accordingly, so why would we

605
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:32,020
change is usually one suffering from
enough pain the second thing is Striving

606
00:41:32,020 --> 00:41:42,305
for more it is when we stop Being jealous
or and an envy on other people

607
00:41:42,305 --> 00:41:47,175
It is when we stop scrolling on Instagram
and see all of those beautiful life.

608
00:41:47,175 --> 00:41:47,765
Okay.

609
00:41:47,765 --> 00:41:50,385
And we say, and we get encouraged.

610
00:41:50,385 --> 00:41:57,405
Instead, we choose that I want to make my
life a masterpiece and I'm going to make

611
00:41:57,405 --> 00:41:58,765
it no matter what.

612
00:41:58,765 --> 00:42:03,705
So those two things are actually what I
mentioned before about motivation.

613
00:42:03,705 --> 00:42:08,485
The first one is running from pain when I
don't want to suffer anymore.

614
00:42:08,485 --> 00:42:10,337
And I said like enough is enough.

615
00:42:10,337 --> 00:42:13,237
And the second thing is like some part of
me want more.

616
00:42:13,237 --> 00:42:14,617
This is my sole want.

617
00:42:14,617 --> 00:42:20,997
And one of the things that we can all do
is be in a supportive environment.

618
00:42:20,997 --> 00:42:24,047
Be around people and listen to podcasts
like that.

619
00:42:24,047 --> 00:42:27,557
And people like that, like you that's
visiting other people or talking about

620
00:42:27,557 --> 00:42:28,017
that.

621
00:42:28,017 --> 00:42:29,697
People that are encouraging.

622
00:42:29,697 --> 00:42:30,837
It can be your friends.

623
00:42:30,837 --> 00:42:33,697
It can be mentors.

624
00:42:33,697 --> 00:42:38,721
It can be communities, maybe going to
church.

625
00:42:38,721 --> 00:42:42,291
everything that is uplifting your spirit
will help you.

626
00:42:42,291 --> 00:42:52,821
And that was like biggest, we can say pain
point in my case or biggest endeavor in my

627
00:42:52,981 --> 00:42:58,081
journey that I had a lot like a hard time
to change my environment.

628
00:42:58,081 --> 00:42:59,451
It was really hard for me.

629
00:42:59,451 --> 00:43:02,721
And this is one of the basics to have
better life.

630
00:43:02,721 --> 00:43:08,545
So those of you that are listening, change
your environment and be ready to be alone.

631
00:43:08,545 --> 00:43:14,105
that this is extremely important to be
ready and allow yourself to be alone.

632
00:43:14,105 --> 00:43:18,725
When you allow yourself to be alone, this
is like the biggest thing that you can do

633
00:43:18,725 --> 00:43:20,265
for yourself because two things will
happen.

634
00:43:20,265 --> 00:43:23,405
The first one is you would start to love
yourself.

635
00:43:23,405 --> 00:43:23,945
Okay.

636
00:43:23,945 --> 00:43:25,965
And there are a lot of ways to do that.

637
00:43:25,965 --> 00:43:26,895
You can Google that.

638
00:43:26,895 --> 00:43:30,765
You can just send me a message on Facebook
and I will try to help you out as I did to

639
00:43:30,765 --> 00:43:32,105
the guy yesterday.

640
00:43:32,105 --> 00:43:37,057
And the second thing that would happen
when you are being alone,

641
00:43:37,057 --> 00:43:42,957
you allow the universe, God, the world to
give you the new environment that you want

642
00:43:42,957 --> 00:43:43,617
to have.

643
00:43:43,617 --> 00:43:49,917
You start redirecting your life and your
mind towards the new future that you want.

644
00:43:49,917 --> 00:43:53,197
And you cannot do that when your cup is
full.

645
00:43:53,197 --> 00:43:58,037
It means you have those still same
environment, the same wrong friends,

646
00:43:58,037 --> 00:43:58,587
family.

647
00:43:58,587 --> 00:44:02,907
I'm not saying they are bad, but you are
still hanging out the same time with them.

648
00:44:02,907 --> 00:44:05,757
So you are not allowing the new to come
up.

649
00:44:05,757 --> 00:44:06,657
Like and...

650
00:44:06,657 --> 00:44:11,867
Like a full cup cannot be full more than
what it already is.

651
00:44:11,867 --> 00:44:18,917
You need to remove whatever is inside, the
old environment, the old habits, and then

652
00:44:18,917 --> 00:45:12,549
the new can come.

653
00:45:12,549 --> 00:45:18,109
How do people quieten themselves to make
that time to listen to themselves and

654
00:45:18,109 --> 00:45:23,713
listen to the universe?

655
00:45:23,713 --> 00:45:27,973
Like a lot of people saying, well, you're
saying those things, but how do I really

656
00:45:27,973 --> 00:46:02,777
start?

657
00:46:02,777 --> 00:46:06,477
So what I recommend is first off meditate.

658
00:46:06,636 --> 00:46:13,257
Meditation allows you to be here and now
and few key points that most people

659
00:46:13,257 --> 00:46:15,371
wouldn't tell you about meditation.

660
00:46:15,809 --> 00:46:19,229
The first thing that you have to
understand it is a practice.

661
00:46:19,229 --> 00:46:23,489
This is not you winning meditation or
losing meditation.

662
00:46:23,489 --> 00:46:25,869
There is no such a thing.

663
00:46:25,869 --> 00:46:28,329
You are practicing.

664
00:46:29,229 --> 00:46:36,469
The second thing is when a thought come
up, you are not losing.

665
00:46:36,469 --> 00:46:38,629
You are just...

666
00:46:38,629 --> 00:46:40,199
You are doing it actually right.

667
00:46:40,199 --> 00:46:44,209
If a thought is coming and it's like
saying, no, you can't do that.

668
00:46:44,209 --> 00:46:44,769
No.

669
00:46:44,769 --> 00:46:51,349
this is just a bullshit no you have to pay
this bill no she told you that no it's

670
00:46:51,349 --> 00:46:55,909
okay this is part of the process allowed
it to come and the last thing i will say

671
00:46:55,909 --> 00:47:00,309
to you when those things comes up in
meditation and i'm giving a lot of tools

672
00:47:00,309 --> 00:47:06,029
here that i'm giving to my paid clients
usually one of them is actually understand

673
00:47:06,029 --> 00:47:14,049
that you want to say that as well has the
permission to exist do not resist that

674
00:47:14,049 --> 00:47:16,789
when we resist, it persists.

675
00:47:16,789 --> 00:47:23,869
When we try to say no, like some voice in
the head saying no, but you can't feel

676
00:47:23,869 --> 00:47:24,389
that.

677
00:47:24,389 --> 00:47:31,269
Like this guy yesterday, we came into some
meditative state and I wanted to really

678
00:47:31,269 --> 00:47:33,329
feel that, how it feels like.

679
00:47:33,329 --> 00:47:36,669
And he had a really hard time, like he was
shaking.

680
00:47:36,968 --> 00:47:42,029
And I told him, that's okay, allow this to
happen.

681
00:47:42,029 --> 00:47:42,977
And he's saying, but...

682
00:47:42,977 --> 00:47:47,977
I hear this voice that's saying to me, you
do not deserve to feel good.

683
00:47:47,977 --> 00:47:51,517
And I say it to him, that's okay.

684
00:47:51,777 --> 00:47:53,607
Do not resist that voice.

685
00:47:53,607 --> 00:47:54,817
That's okay.

686
00:47:54,817 --> 00:47:58,937
You don't have to say, no, no, no, and
like stop.

687
00:47:58,937 --> 00:48:00,517
And he's like opening his eyes.

688
00:48:00,517 --> 00:48:01,717
It's okay.

689
00:48:01,717 --> 00:48:04,317
That has as well as the permission to
exist.

690
00:48:04,317 --> 00:48:09,477
Another sentence that you can say is, this
is what it is.

691
00:48:09,877 --> 00:48:11,167
This is what it is.

692
00:48:11,167 --> 00:48:12,409
That's okay.

693
00:48:12,449 --> 00:48:16,709
So those things I can say about
meditation, meditation is super impactful,

694
00:48:16,709 --> 00:48:21,689
like endless research, helping to the
body, healing the body, strengthening the

695
00:48:21,689 --> 00:48:23,219
immune system, like endless things.

696
00:48:23,219 --> 00:48:28,649
You can just Google that or check GPT that
and see endless evidence that meditation

697
00:48:28,649 --> 00:48:32,029
is something that is healing, super
powerful.

698
00:48:32,169 --> 00:48:36,409
The second thing for people that are
starting, as I already said, is be alone

699
00:48:36,409 --> 00:48:40,089
and change your environment, like allow
yourself to be alone and change your

700
00:48:40,089 --> 00:48:41,009
environment.

701
00:48:41,009 --> 00:48:41,985
This is super...

702
00:48:41,985 --> 00:48:49,425
important and the third thing start to
give yourself love what we really strive

703
00:48:49,425 --> 00:48:54,845
for and the biggest fear that all of us
have is that we will die in some way and

704
00:48:54,845 --> 00:49:05,585
if we take like 1 000 years ago when we
had tribes okay and when we had no tribe

705
00:49:05,825 --> 00:49:10,105
we are dead okay because we have no
protection we cannot really protect

706
00:49:10,105 --> 00:49:11,681
ourselves because we are alone

707
00:49:11,681 --> 00:49:15,681
We are not in the city and there is a
danger always.

708
00:49:15,981 --> 00:49:21,481
And today this fear that we would stay
alone means no love, means we would be

709
00:49:21,481 --> 00:49:26,391
rejected or we would be judged and then we
would be rejected and be alone.

710
00:49:26,391 --> 00:49:31,241
Then it's like, why?

711
00:49:31,241 --> 00:49:36,881
The brain actually go into the survival
mode that it is dangerous because it takes

712
00:49:36,881 --> 00:49:41,185
you to 1000 years ago or I don't know, a
few hundred years ago.

713
00:49:41,185 --> 00:49:46,505
when you was out in the nature without
protection, that means you are dead.

714
00:49:46,505 --> 00:49:53,125
So if you are isolated and you had no
tribe, no family, no people, no friends

715
00:49:53,125 --> 00:49:57,385
that would be with you, that means
actually to be dead.

716
00:49:57,385 --> 00:50:01,965
So when you are getting rejected means you
do not love yourself and you are just

717
00:50:01,965 --> 00:50:09,921
dependent on the external world, means the
brain just switched to survival mode.

718
00:50:09,921 --> 00:50:18,040
And then there are those negative
thoughts, the overthinking, the fears, the

719
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:19,521
worries, the doubts.

720
00:50:19,521 --> 00:50:24,481
And all of those comes up as a result of
not giving ourselves the one thing that we

721
00:50:24,481 --> 00:50:25,880
all need.

722
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:30,321
And there is research, and I'm telling you
that because I've been through that

723
00:50:30,321 --> 00:50:34,741
research and I teach that all the time
because this is extremely important.

724
00:50:34,861 --> 00:50:38,109
And listen carefully, that is beautiful
research.

725
00:50:38,337 --> 00:50:43,537
They have tested that little monkeys when
they are separated from their moms, they

726
00:50:43,537 --> 00:50:48,077
did the research that they are putting
them in a lab and they are giving them

727
00:50:48,077 --> 00:50:49,937
like two characters.

728
00:50:49,937 --> 00:50:56,577
One that feed them like some metal, okay,
metal or something like that, that is just

729
00:50:56,577 --> 00:50:57,177
feeding them.

730
00:50:57,177 --> 00:51:03,557
No warmth, no like no human or no monkey
mom, nothing, but it feeds them.

731
00:51:03,557 --> 00:51:06,317
The other one is fluffy.

732
00:51:06,317 --> 00:51:07,321
It's like...

733
00:51:07,733 --> 00:51:13,753
it's like feel warm and it's nice and they
left them alone.

734
00:51:13,753 --> 00:51:16,097
What do you think happened Hamish?

735
00:51:18,081 --> 00:51:20,921
they all went to the second one, okay?

736
00:51:20,921 --> 00:51:25,281
I will tell you, they all went to the
second one and when they needed the food,

737
00:51:25,281 --> 00:51:30,781
they went to the mom, like the metal one
that gave them food and came back to the

738
00:51:30,781 --> 00:51:36,021
one that was fluffy with the fairy that
they could hug because they needed the

739
00:51:36,021 --> 00:51:43,233
warmth and that research actually proved
that we all want in our core love.

740
00:51:43,233 --> 00:51:48,593
And what they concluded from that, that we
are creatures of love, we are creatures of

741
00:51:48,593 --> 00:51:49,613
emotions.

742
00:51:49,613 --> 00:51:52,693
And what we need in our core is love.

743
00:51:52,693 --> 00:51:59,513
And more than that, we need that out of
this research as we need food and

744
00:51:59,513 --> 00:52:01,073
sometimes more.

745
00:52:01,073 --> 00:52:08,953
So as you need air and food and water to
live at the same breadth, funny enough,

746
00:52:08,953 --> 00:52:13,249
but at the same level, we need love and
warmth.

747
00:52:13,249 --> 00:52:20,429
and connection and this is like the third
in Maslow pyramid of needs that expresses

748
00:52:20,429 --> 00:52:28,249
the needs of the human of the humankind we
all need that and this is have been proved

749
00:52:28,249 --> 00:52:34,609
already so what we can do is give
ourselves love there are many ways to do

750
00:52:34,609 --> 00:52:39,989
that but like we all heard that but this
is extremely important most of the

751
00:52:39,989 --> 00:52:42,689
problems that I'm having Hamish

752
00:52:42,689 --> 00:52:49,649
with people is like usually giving them
love not that it will come from me but I'm

753
00:52:49,649 --> 00:52:56,245
teaching them how to give that to
themselves

754
00:52:56,245 --> 00:52:57,985
It is so important, isn't it?

755
00:52:57,985 --> 00:53:02,385
Learning, learning self -compassion,
learning self -care and learning to love

756
00:53:02,385 --> 00:53:03,525
oneself.

757
00:53:03,685 --> 00:53:10,865
And I don't understand why our current
culture where it's, it's not there because

758
00:53:10,865 --> 00:53:14,625
everyone's parents to more or lesser
extent has loved them the best that they

759
00:53:14,625 --> 00:53:15,625
were able.

760
00:53:15,625 --> 00:53:17,625
But I mean, you're seeing it.

761
00:53:17,625 --> 00:53:18,105
I see it.

762
00:53:18,105 --> 00:53:20,185
Other people are spoken to.

763
00:53:20,185 --> 00:53:21,655
People don't respect themselves.

764
00:53:21,655 --> 00:53:23,853
People don't love themselves, but...

765
00:53:25,269 --> 00:53:29,889
It is a process to do that and I'm
guessing certainly in my case through my

766
00:53:29,889 --> 00:53:35,049
awakening, through having to make hard
choices, I began to realize I had to start

767
00:53:35,049 --> 00:53:38,629
looking after myself better and loving
myself better.

768
00:53:40,565 --> 00:53:42,105
That is incredibly important.

769
00:53:42,105 --> 00:53:48,185
How do you encourage people to look at
that and to appreciate that they can, when

770
00:53:48,185 --> 00:53:54,125
they start loving themselves and rewriting
those stories of I'm not worthy, how can

771
00:53:54,125 --> 00:54:06,853
they start to develop that self -love to
evolve?

772
00:54:06,853 --> 00:54:12,713
First off, we need to understand the four
main sources that we need to give

773
00:54:12,713 --> 00:54:14,073
ourselves love.

774
00:54:14,073 --> 00:54:16,933
I call them the four wheels of self love.

775
00:54:16,933 --> 00:54:22,233
Imagine a car that is driving and it has
four wheels.

776
00:54:22,233 --> 00:54:27,803
Each wheels need its own air, means its
food, let's call it that way, okay?

777
00:54:27,803 --> 00:54:28,993
And each wheel,

778
00:54:28,993 --> 00:54:36,233
is one part of us that need the right
nutrition, the right food for itself.

779
00:54:36,713 --> 00:54:44,113
So the four of them are body, mind,
emotion, and spirit or soul, whatever you

780
00:54:44,113 --> 00:54:44,513
call it.

781
00:54:44,513 --> 00:54:49,253
So each one of those are having like some
spatial needs.

782
00:54:49,253 --> 00:54:57,913
And one core hack for this method that we
want to give to that each one of those

783
00:54:57,913 --> 00:54:59,041
parts.

784
00:54:59,041 --> 00:55:05,541
or wills the right nutrition is that there
are certain activities that would give

785
00:55:05,541 --> 00:55:10,601
some of them, like more than one of them,
the right nutrition or even to all of

786
00:55:10,601 --> 00:55:11,441
them.

787
00:55:11,441 --> 00:55:14,481
One of them I already shared, meditation.

788
00:55:14,481 --> 00:55:17,481
Meditation is actually good for the body.

789
00:55:17,481 --> 00:55:20,821
It calms the mind because it quiets the
thoughts.

790
00:55:20,821 --> 00:55:24,793
It reduces the volume of them and there
are endless of them today.

791
00:55:25,281 --> 00:55:28,841
For the emotion, it's regulate your
emotion, it's helping you to be more in

792
00:55:28,841 --> 00:55:34,041
control and master your own emotion when
you practice meditation.

793
00:55:34,221 --> 00:55:38,921
And for the spirit, this is like one of
the biggest way that people like for

794
00:55:38,921 --> 00:55:43,920
thousands of years are focusing on the
here and now and meditating and becoming

795
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:51,461
that, becoming that being that is the one
and connecting to it.

796
00:55:51,461 --> 00:55:54,337
And this is one of the common methods to
be.

797
00:55:54,337 --> 00:55:56,677
here and now and connected to the spirit.

798
00:55:56,677 --> 00:56:02,097
So I will give you just a few examples for
self love for each one of those.

799
00:56:03,097 --> 00:56:10,897
But we need to understand that each one of
us has its own unique activities and ways

800
00:56:10,897 --> 00:56:18,017
to give to each wheel or part their own
nutrition for that self love.

801
00:56:18,017 --> 00:56:19,957
I will give you my own examples.

802
00:56:19,957 --> 00:56:23,779
I will give you a few of them for each one
so people would understand.

803
00:56:24,065 --> 00:56:26,565
For the body, I'm exercising, okay?

804
00:56:26,565 --> 00:56:27,345
Pretty straightforward.

805
00:56:27,345 --> 00:56:29,645
I eat healthy food.

806
00:56:29,645 --> 00:56:33,995
I eat pretty much the most that I can
organic food.

807
00:56:33,995 --> 00:56:38,005
I'm not perfect at that, but I'm trying my
best.

808
00:56:38,005 --> 00:56:41,025
For the mind, I'm reading books.

809
00:56:41,085 --> 00:56:43,065
I hear podcasts.

810
00:56:43,065 --> 00:56:47,845
I'm sharing my thoughts with people like
you and others and I teach them what I

811
00:56:47,845 --> 00:56:48,785
learn.

812
00:56:49,205 --> 00:56:52,449
I keep investing in myself, in my brain.

813
00:56:52,449 --> 00:56:57,589
Even though I know enough things that I'm
happy and motivated and fulfilled every

814
00:56:57,589 --> 00:57:01,229
single day, I keep learning because it's
already part of my ways.

815
00:57:01,229 --> 00:57:06,829
And one big secret, all of the most
successful people that I learned about in

816
00:57:06,829 --> 00:57:09,559
all of the books, they all had one thing
in common.

817
00:57:09,559 --> 00:57:14,489
They all had, and you can see that even
Arnold Schwarzenegger, Oprah Winfrey,

818
00:57:14,489 --> 00:57:21,761
whoever you would look up and also people
in the history, they all had some kind of,

819
00:57:21,761 --> 00:57:25,841
personal development journey for their own
self.

820
00:57:26,221 --> 00:57:32,381
So investing in that thing that is between
our two ears, this brain, is the biggest

821
00:57:32,381 --> 00:57:37,221
and the best investment that you will do
in your whole life.

822
00:57:37,301 --> 00:57:38,101
The best.

823
00:57:38,101 --> 00:57:40,781
Know your clothes, know your car.

824
00:57:40,781 --> 00:57:42,321
It is not the house.

825
00:57:42,321 --> 00:57:45,281
This is not the toy, the yak, none of
them.

826
00:57:45,281 --> 00:57:50,849
The third part or will that we want to
give the love for,

827
00:57:50,849 --> 00:57:52,209
is the emotion.

828
00:57:52,209 --> 00:57:57,449
So what I do is I journal, I talk to
myself and connect between the parts

829
00:57:57,449 --> 00:58:02,529
within me and give them love, like
literally bring that peaceful leader

830
00:58:02,529 --> 00:58:05,639
within me that is communicating with them.

831
00:58:05,639 --> 00:58:12,829
I'm doing that with writing, with certain
exercises, writing verbally outside,

832
00:58:13,049 --> 00:58:18,709
having environment and people that I love
and express that love to them and for my

833
00:58:18,709 --> 00:58:19,521
spirit.

834
00:58:19,521 --> 00:58:23,781
I meditate, as I said, it also apply to
all of my parts.

835
00:58:23,781 --> 00:58:25,661
I'm doing yoga.

836
00:58:26,261 --> 00:58:27,211
I am connected.

837
00:58:27,211 --> 00:58:32,981
I'm connecting and asking my higher self,
this version that already have what I

838
00:58:32,981 --> 00:58:33,761
want.

839
00:58:33,761 --> 00:58:36,631
I am advising with it.

840
00:58:36,631 --> 00:58:36,881
Okay.

841
00:58:36,881 --> 00:58:39,521
I'm connected to eat as much as they can.

842
00:58:39,521 --> 00:58:45,275
And also I'm doing every single day some
exercising.

843
00:58:45,345 --> 00:58:47,005
like self -centering exercise.

844
00:58:47,005 --> 00:58:50,705
This is some of the things that I'm
teaching my students, which is some

845
00:58:50,705 --> 00:58:54,145
exercise that you are centering yourself
in the middle of the day.

846
00:58:54,145 --> 00:58:59,265
Extremely important to get out of the
outer screen, the outer environment,

847
00:58:59,265 --> 00:59:05,805
people, smells, sights, and also from the
inner screens, my thoughts, my emotions.

848
00:59:05,805 --> 00:59:09,977
And when I am in the middle, I'm connected
to my...

849
00:59:10,241 --> 00:59:14,581
Spirit I am in the middle screen and in
the middle screen you are disconnected

850
00:59:14,581 --> 00:59:19,821
from the script From whatever is going
outside and then you can create your own

851
00:59:19,821 --> 00:59:25,941
life So those four wheels and parts when
you give each one of them love and this is

852
00:59:25,941 --> 00:59:31,961
this is why I gave the example and the
metaphor of a car and wheels You don't

853
00:59:31,961 --> 00:59:36,021
want to just give a lot of air to one
wheel or two wheels or three wheels

854
00:59:36,021 --> 00:59:38,849
because there is the last one that if it

855
00:59:38,849 --> 00:59:42,369
has no, yeah, exactly, you would go out.

856
00:59:42,369 --> 00:59:43,549
You would go out.

857
00:59:43,549 --> 00:59:54,883
So the key is balance, balance between all
of them.

858
00:59:55,353 --> 01:00:01,133
It takes me back to the "Think and Grow
Rich." You can't just exercise one leg.

859
01:00:01,133 --> 01:00:03,193
You can't just exercise your mind.

860
01:00:03,193 --> 01:00:05,153
It's all of it.

861
01:00:05,153 --> 01:00:06,893
We are physical creatures.

862
01:00:06,893 --> 01:00:07,663
We are mental.

863
01:00:07,663 --> 01:00:10,533
We are emotional creatures and spiritual
creatures.

864
01:00:10,533 --> 01:00:12,543
And we've got to embrace all of those.

865
01:00:12,543 --> 01:00:14,223
I think that is a really great answer.

866
01:00:14,223 --> 01:00:18,765
Thank you.

867
01:00:18,765 --> 01:00:22,623
do you think we humans are spiritual
creatures?

868
01:00:23,917 --> 01:00:25,417
Yeah, 100%.

869
01:00:25,417 --> 01:00:31,317
One little evidence that we all can find
already in modern science, which when I

870
01:00:31,317 --> 01:00:38,397
saw that and understood that, I like,
like, it's like, like it was mind blowing.

871
01:00:38,397 --> 01:00:39,257
Okay.

872
01:00:39,257 --> 01:00:41,037
Let me put it that way.

873
01:00:41,037 --> 01:00:48,837
This microphone, this screen, my hand, my
hair, you, your friends, your mom, each

874
01:00:48,837 --> 01:00:53,443
one of the things that you can see, touch,
smell, whatever.

875
01:00:54,317 --> 01:00:57,137
are made from the same matter.

876
01:00:57,137 --> 01:00:59,137
Science already knows that.

877
01:00:59,137 --> 01:01:06,497
From atoms in different components and
different speeds.

878
01:01:06,497 --> 01:01:10,817
And when you take something, each one of
those things, and you separate that to the

879
01:01:10,817 --> 01:01:20,597
atom level, and then you keep separate
that, you come to this subatomic particle.

880
01:01:20,857 --> 01:01:23,373
And some of the...

881
01:01:23,373 --> 01:01:29,213
physicists saying that there is more than
that but let's stop there when you look at

882
01:01:29,213 --> 01:01:35,513
that in the microscope you see this
nuclear nucleus and you see a lot of

883
01:01:35,513 --> 01:01:41,953
neutrons and protons turning around very
rapidly like this is modern science

884
01:01:41,953 --> 01:01:52,923
physics everyone can see that when you ask
them how much of this is actually matter

885
01:01:53,293 --> 01:02:02,553
and what is the other like the nucleus and
the other thing the neutrons which we call

886
01:02:02,553 --> 01:02:08,813
them in some way energy already how many
of that is really you know solid and how

887
01:02:08,813 --> 01:02:21,893
many of that is not the answer is amazing
it is 0 .4201 means almost all of that or

888
01:02:21,893 --> 01:02:23,437
none of that I'm sorry

889
01:02:23,437 --> 01:02:33,377
is matter the rest is void, vacuum,
energy, nothingness means like Raz what

890
01:02:33,377 --> 01:02:39,357
are you saying like I can touch that I can
see that I can see you like this is solid

891
01:02:39,357 --> 01:02:43,845
like this is I can touch that like what do
you say what are you saying man

892
01:02:45,549 --> 01:02:53,019
The thing that is connecting between us is
our own thoughts, frequency and emotions,

893
01:02:53,019 --> 01:02:57,389
which is eventually the thoughts and
emotions.

894
01:02:57,649 --> 01:03:03,629
You and I, for example, are connected with
the viewers and the listeners in the same

895
01:03:03,629 --> 01:03:05,929
frequencies in some way.

896
01:03:05,929 --> 01:03:09,599
We are all attract like, like attract
alike.

897
01:03:09,599 --> 01:03:09,869
Okay.

898
01:03:09,869 --> 01:03:12,989
This is like very simple rapport
principle.

899
01:03:13,069 --> 01:03:14,797
Like attract alike means,

900
01:03:14,797 --> 01:03:17,117
I am attracting the same people as I am.

901
01:03:17,117 --> 01:03:20,547
So for your question, we are all
spiritual.

902
01:03:20,547 --> 01:03:22,337
This is an illusion.

903
01:03:22,337 --> 01:03:23,777
This is not a hoo -hoo.

904
01:03:23,777 --> 01:03:24,817
You can see that.

905
01:03:24,817 --> 01:03:26,667
You can go see Dr.

906
01:03:26,667 --> 01:03:31,497
Joe Dispenza is talking about that from
the scientifically, like he would explain

907
01:03:31,497 --> 01:03:35,937
to you exactly, much better than I can,
how it works.

908
01:03:35,937 --> 01:03:36,387
Dr.

909
01:03:36,387 --> 01:03:41,127
Bruce Lipton, they read, they wrote books
about that.

910
01:03:41,127 --> 01:03:44,641
There are amazing researchers and there
are doctors, okay?

911
01:03:44,653 --> 01:03:46,103
And there are endless evidence.

912
01:03:46,103 --> 01:03:54,693
So in our core, we are all spiritual
creatures and we are all here for some I

913
01:03:54,693 --> 01:04:01,713
wanted to say duty, but I would use some
other word which could be vocation.

914
01:04:01,713 --> 01:04:07,233
Okay, we have some gift we are here to
give and this is a journey.

915
01:04:07,653 --> 01:04:08,523
This is a journey.

916
01:04:08,523 --> 01:04:14,595
So for your question, of course, we are
all spiritual beings, all of us.

917
01:04:16,993 --> 01:04:18,133
Yep.

918
01:04:18,413 --> 01:04:21,553
I love that answer and I completely agree.

919
01:04:22,733 --> 01:04:25,733
It took me a long time to appreciate that.

920
01:04:25,733 --> 01:04:32,773
Like you, you've alluded, I was brought up
religious and it was not my thing.

921
01:04:32,773 --> 01:04:34,213
It didn't resonate.

922
01:04:34,213 --> 01:04:42,497
However, through my awakening, through
rehab, through realizing things, I...

923
01:04:42,497 --> 01:04:47,397
I came to realize that yes, there is more,
there is that spiritual element to it and

924
01:04:47,397 --> 01:04:49,877
it is incredibly profound.

925
01:04:51,337 --> 01:04:53,497
And science can't disprove it.

926
01:04:53,497 --> 01:04:57,977
You know, consciousness, quantum
mechanics, what you've talked about,

927
01:04:57,977 --> 01:05:05,517
energy, there's so much there that beyond
what we can touch and things like that.

928
01:05:05,517 --> 01:05:11,149
And I just think that's, it makes it
beautiful and it doesn't take away.

929
01:05:11,393 --> 01:05:14,113
being human, it doesn't take away from
anything.

930
01:05:14,113 --> 01:05:20,613
I think it allows us to sort of be bigger
and appreciate things or appreciate things

931
01:05:20,613 --> 01:05:21,773
differently.

932
01:05:22,353 --> 01:05:27,193
So I love what you've had to say,
everything you've had to say.

933
01:05:28,737 --> 01:05:34,197
And curiosity, I think that's one thing
you haven't mentioned, but that's

934
01:05:34,197 --> 01:05:36,857
certainly everything through what you've
been talking about.

935
01:05:36,857 --> 01:05:38,337
You're very curious.

936
01:05:38,337 --> 01:05:41,625
What gets you out of bed in the morning?

937
01:05:42,989 --> 01:05:48,649
First off, you touched on one point that I
had a lot of time.

938
01:05:48,849 --> 01:05:53,849
Like I, this is one of the biggest point
that if you guys that are listening and

939
01:05:53,849 --> 01:06:00,709
hearing and seeing that want to take like
one trait that would make you successful

940
01:06:00,709 --> 01:06:07,149
in your own way, no matter what is what
you just said, curiosity, like being the

941
01:06:07,149 --> 01:06:11,229
infinite student, being the one that is
always striving to learn.

942
01:06:11,229 --> 01:06:12,429
Like we are all.

943
01:06:12,429 --> 01:06:14,769
Learning even me talking to you right now.

944
01:06:14,769 --> 01:06:16,569
You even asking me.

945
01:06:16,569 --> 01:06:18,199
I'm learning I'm getting something.

946
01:06:18,199 --> 01:06:28,009
Okay, so for your question curiosity is
extremely important I Would I would say to

947
01:06:28,009 --> 01:06:32,289
people that are going through this journey
if if I understood what you're asking and

948
01:06:32,289 --> 01:06:39,309
correct me if I'm not answering that That
you would go to sources that you feel

949
01:06:39,309 --> 01:06:41,037
eager and resonated

950
01:06:41,037 --> 01:06:46,197
energetically when you are talking to
them, when you're hearing them, when you

951
01:06:46,197 --> 01:06:49,657
feel that, like you feel that you cannot
ignore that.

952
01:06:49,657 --> 01:06:54,157
And maybe there like there would be a fear
with that.

953
01:06:54,157 --> 01:06:55,857
That is actually a good sign.

954
01:06:55,857 --> 01:07:00,577
That means that you see this two roads and
there is like this.

955
01:07:01,337 --> 01:07:06,317
I think this is a poet in English when I
learn and English is not my native

956
01:07:06,317 --> 01:07:06,617
English.

957
01:07:06,617 --> 01:07:09,777
So I'm sorry for all of the grammar
mistakes here.

958
01:07:11,405 --> 01:07:17,165
There is a story that is talking about the
road not taken, if you know that Hamish.

959
01:07:17,165 --> 01:07:20,905
And it's talking about one way that
everybody used to take.

960
01:07:20,905 --> 01:07:25,355
And this is usually the road that you just
took until today, not you, but most of us,

961
01:07:25,355 --> 01:07:29,205
every one of us, until this very day, we
take that road most of the time.

962
01:07:29,205 --> 01:07:34,805
This is the road that already have been
taken, that people already took before

963
01:07:34,805 --> 01:07:35,345
you.

964
01:07:35,345 --> 01:07:40,493
And this is usually the mind way and what
people say that you should do.

965
01:07:40,493 --> 01:07:47,433
usually resisting to the fear and there is
the other way, the road not taken.

966
01:07:47,433 --> 01:07:52,593
That's what I used to say to people when
they used to talk to me and they were

967
01:07:52,593 --> 01:07:53,653
confused.

968
01:07:53,653 --> 01:07:58,413
I used to just share with them that story
and remind that we all have those two

969
01:07:58,413 --> 01:08:00,813
roads and we need to choose.

970
01:08:00,813 --> 01:08:06,673
Either you stop this curiosity part of you
and go to the road that you know and

971
01:08:06,673 --> 01:08:09,829
familiar, which is okay, no judgment
like...

972
01:08:10,125 --> 01:08:14,315
I love all of you that would keep taking
that road.

973
01:08:14,315 --> 01:08:15,095
That's all right.

974
01:08:15,095 --> 01:08:16,885
That is okay.

975
01:08:17,245 --> 01:08:24,225
But the biggest expression of yours, the
fulfillment, the joy, the biggest dreams

976
01:08:24,225 --> 01:08:28,785
of yours, just one decision away.

977
01:08:29,445 --> 01:08:35,085
And it is about taking this road, the road
not taken, the road that is going through

978
01:08:35,085 --> 01:08:37,477
the fear, through the...

979
01:08:37,837 --> 01:08:43,397
The anxiousness of doing something that
you have never done all of my biggest

980
01:08:43,397 --> 01:08:49,657
Decisions I used to say to the clients
that I used to talk to was like the

981
01:08:49,657 --> 01:08:54,877
biggest decisions that I took that were
the the best Always started with this one

982
01:08:54,877 --> 01:09:01,037
sentence Sorry for the word, but fuck it

983
01:09:01,037 --> 01:09:07,557
Yeah, like that always start with that
Okay, and one other thing that I think

984
01:09:07,557 --> 01:09:13,197
people would need to hear in the road My
mentor is saying that a lot and I don't

985
01:09:13,197 --> 01:09:22,657
remember the sauce or forgive me It is
nothing Await you on the top Nothing I

986
01:09:22,657 --> 01:09:26,977
will I will repeat Nothing await you on
the top.

987
01:09:26,977 --> 01:09:31,117
There is nothing await you when you get
the dreaming car

988
01:09:31,117 --> 01:09:37,077
There is nothing that is waiting for you
when you get this dream home, this

989
01:09:37,077 --> 01:09:42,397
relationship, this one million thousand
billions of dollars.

990
01:09:42,397 --> 01:09:46,277
There is nothing waiting for you when you
would get this island, this vacation,

991
01:09:46,277 --> 01:09:47,517
nothing.

992
01:09:48,117 --> 01:09:50,057
It is actually on the journey.

993
01:09:50,057 --> 01:09:51,597
It is who you become.

994
01:09:51,597 --> 01:09:56,257
It is who like all of those things that
you are doing bringing you to being

995
01:09:56,257 --> 01:10:01,101
someone else, someone that is Arabian.

996
01:10:01,101 --> 01:10:06,741
like another identity and that person on
its nature that already have those he

997
01:10:06,741 --> 01:10:15,221
knows to feel fulfilled and happy from
those things so ask yourself that what if

998
01:10:15,221 --> 01:10:25,841
what if I am able to feel as if the wish
fulfilled now and when we understand that

999
01:10:25,841 --> 01:10:29,357
we can do that 1000 %

1000
01:10:29,357 --> 01:10:33,376
sure that we can, people are teaching that
all around the world, I'm teaching that as

1001
01:10:33,376 --> 01:10:39,697
well, feel as the wish fulfilled and you
are already living in the here and now

1002
01:10:39,697 --> 01:10:41,777
when you already have what you want.

1003
01:10:41,777 --> 01:10:49,017
Means you are not attached to the results,
you are happy and fulfilled now and you

1004
01:10:49,017 --> 01:10:54,657
are already like having what you want from
the being and in that way you are not only

1005
01:10:54,657 --> 01:10:55,565
happy now,

1006
01:10:55,565 --> 01:11:05,185
You are also attracting in maximum record
time speed the wish that you have.

1007
01:11:05,185 --> 01:11:06,765
I like that.

1008
01:11:07,105 --> 01:11:08,705
I like that a lot.

1009
01:11:08,705 --> 01:11:09,561
Yeah.

1010
01:11:11,361 --> 01:11:12,401
A lot to think about.

1011
01:11:12,401 --> 01:11:15,001
This has been a fantastic conversation.

1012
01:11:15,001 --> 01:11:17,221
Really, really interesting.

1013
01:11:18,785 --> 01:11:19,605
Yeah.

1014
01:11:19,605 --> 01:11:20,845
Hmm.

1015
01:11:21,485 --> 01:11:22,565
Thank you.

1016
01:11:22,565 --> 01:11:26,681
Tell me, Raz, how can people find out a
little bit more about you?

1017
01:11:28,045 --> 01:11:34,245
Well, first off, I hope that I gave you
some background about myself here and if

1018
01:11:34,245 --> 01:11:39,025
you guys want to talk to me, share your
comments, your thoughts, your

1019
01:11:39,025 --> 01:11:47,285
observations, ask a question, feel free to
approach me on my Facebook, Raz Tayar and

1020
01:11:47,285 --> 01:11:50,955
you will find me, this handsome guy that
you would see, this is me, I'm kidding,

1021
01:11:50,955 --> 01:11:53,225
but you can find me there.

1022
01:11:53,225 --> 01:11:55,405
My YouTube channel, which...

1023
01:11:55,405 --> 01:12:00,605
from time to time I'm coming back because
I'm starting out a project in my native

1024
01:12:00,605 --> 01:12:04,575
language recently, but you can see videos
over there.

1025
01:12:04,575 --> 01:12:10,405
But the best way to communicate is
actually via my Facebook on the messenger,

1026
01:12:10,405 --> 01:12:11,505
send me a message.

1027
01:12:11,505 --> 01:12:17,145
I will see that maybe after a few days or
after a few hours and I'm always answering

1028
01:12:17,145 --> 01:12:22,125
unless you start to just promote something
and push that to me.

1029
01:12:22,125 --> 01:12:24,165
Then I will just ignore.

1030
01:12:25,133 --> 01:12:29,233
I wanted to just give something for free
for those people that are watching and

1031
01:12:29,233 --> 01:12:30,293
listening.

1032
01:12:30,433 --> 01:12:37,413
I've made an emotional mastery mini course
for free because I feel that was the

1033
01:12:37,413 --> 01:12:40,483
biggest thing that helped me to control my
feelings.

1034
01:12:40,483 --> 01:12:42,273
I don't want anything in return.

1035
01:12:42,273 --> 01:12:44,573
Just use that, okay?

1036
01:12:44,573 --> 01:12:49,273
Just as I gave to that amazing guy
yesterday that I talked with.

1037
01:12:49,273 --> 01:12:53,213
This is an emotional master, which I know
that Hamish would publish for all of you

1038
01:12:53,213 --> 01:12:55,013
to just click on that.

1039
01:12:55,181 --> 01:13:00,301
It will teach you everything that you need
to learn about emotions because there are

1040
01:13:00,301 --> 01:13:06,141
even I think this is the most important
thing that you would ever learn about life

1041
01:13:06,141 --> 01:13:08,141
when you want to create what you want.

1042
01:13:08,141 --> 01:13:09,681
Mastering your own emotion.

1043
01:13:09,681 --> 01:13:15,701
If you are happy, you would be able to
walk in one way or operating in one way.

1044
01:13:15,701 --> 01:13:20,881
If you are depressed, you would probably
just probably operate in different way.

1045
01:13:20,881 --> 01:13:21,481
Right.

1046
01:13:21,481 --> 01:13:22,285
OK.

1047
01:13:22,573 --> 01:13:29,113
So if you can control those states and you
can master them, you would be able to

1048
01:13:29,113 --> 01:13:35,593
approach who you really are most easily
that you could ever think of.

1049
01:13:35,593 --> 01:13:42,453
So this is a very, very beautiful thing
that I've made and you can approach that

1050
01:13:42,453 --> 01:13:43,193
for free.

1051
01:13:43,193 --> 01:13:49,857
And also, as you already said, watch the
other channels that I've shared before.

1052
01:13:51,137 --> 01:13:52,177
Brilliant, thank you.

1053
01:13:52,177 --> 01:13:57,177
I'll put all that information in the show
notes so people can find that.

1054
01:13:57,517 --> 01:13:58,387
I think that's brilliant.

1055
01:13:58,387 --> 01:14:00,947
That's EversaKind doing that free gift for
everybody as well.

1056
01:14:00,947 --> 01:14:02,457
I know people will enjoy that.

1057
01:14:02,457 --> 01:14:03,767
And I will look forward to that as well.

1058
01:14:03,767 --> 01:14:05,557
So thank you.

1059
01:14:05,557 --> 01:14:06,597
Right.

1060
01:14:06,717 --> 01:14:08,857
The last question I want to ask you.

1061
01:14:08,857 --> 01:14:12,757
What gift did you get from your awakening?

1062
01:14:12,757 --> 01:14:16,331
Or what superpower have you developed from
your awakening?

1063
01:14:16,973 --> 01:14:18,153
Hmm.

1064
01:14:18,253 --> 01:14:19,133
All right.

1065
01:14:19,133 --> 01:14:27,853
So the biggest thing that I got from what
we call here awakening in some way is the

1066
01:14:27,853 --> 01:14:29,313
peaceful leader within me.

1067
01:14:29,313 --> 01:14:33,313
This is the one being that we all have
within us.

1068
01:14:33,313 --> 01:14:39,833
You, me, each one of us has this common
being, this one consciousness that is

1069
01:14:39,833 --> 01:14:41,533
common for all of us.

1070
01:14:41,533 --> 01:14:46,093
And from that experience, like me,

1071
01:14:46,381 --> 01:14:52,041
Approaching and connecting to that being
to that we can say it's not even a being

1072
01:14:52,041 --> 01:14:59,401
it is it is it We can't really talk about
it because it is it it's not something

1073
01:14:59,401 --> 01:15:00,391
it's formless.

1074
01:15:00,391 --> 01:15:07,321
All right When you're able to connect to
that you're able to lead your life and

1075
01:15:07,321 --> 01:15:10,189
most importantly in my opinion peacefully

1076
01:15:10,189 --> 01:15:15,409
Because if I can lead my life with that
voice that is always yelling this mind,

1077
01:15:15,409 --> 01:15:24,169
this monkey mind, this ego, it's not
really the life that I would wish for

1078
01:15:24,169 --> 01:15:26,749
myself or for you guys.

1079
01:15:26,749 --> 01:15:32,269
So finding the peaceful leader within me
that is allowing me to feel every single

1080
01:15:32,269 --> 01:15:37,765
day fulfilled, empowered, energized, full
of...

1081
01:15:38,925 --> 01:15:46,225
vitality and like I feel that I can do
everything and we all have that thing

1082
01:15:46,225 --> 01:15:51,805
within us to communicate with that and
when we have that present and we know that

1083
01:15:51,805 --> 01:15:59,425
it's always here, home, it's here now and
when we can approach that without

1084
01:15:59,425 --> 01:16:06,025
suffering and without depending on
something external like friends, drugs,

1085
01:16:06,445 --> 01:16:08,845
parties, mom.

1086
01:16:08,845 --> 01:16:17,165
parents, kids, whatever is outside of this
skin and outward when we can stop being

1087
01:16:17,165 --> 01:16:22,995
dependent on that, we are becoming the
peaceful leaders for our lives.

1088
01:16:22,995 --> 01:16:24,461
I hope that answers.

1089
01:16:25,537 --> 01:16:27,137
That is a brilliant answer.

1090
01:16:27,137 --> 01:16:27,737
Yep.

1091
01:16:27,737 --> 01:16:28,497
I like that.

1092
01:16:28,497 --> 01:16:30,757
The peaceful leader of ourselves.

1093
01:16:30,817 --> 01:16:31,517
Yeah.

1094
01:16:32,137 --> 01:16:34,097
I think that is very good.

1095
01:16:34,097 --> 01:16:36,077
Well, Rouse, thank you ever so much for
your time.

1096
01:16:36,077 --> 01:16:40,697
You've given me a lot to think for, a lot
to think about, and certainly some lovely

1097
01:16:40,697 --> 01:16:43,557
messages and some thoughts and some
inspiration for people.

1098
01:16:43,557 --> 01:16:45,265
So thank you ever so much.

1099
01:16:45,933 --> 01:16:47,243
Thank you very much, Hamish.

1100
01:16:47,243 --> 01:16:52,013
I appreciate you and your time and I hope
that more people are watching you and the

1101
01:16:52,013 --> 01:17:00,153
other guests that and that this beautiful
project of yours and your podcast and they

1102
01:17:00,153 --> 01:17:04,633
would also publish that and promote that
to their other people, not to watch me,

1103
01:17:04,633 --> 01:17:12,353
but to watch your beautiful aspiration and
inspiration, see more people and get

1104
01:17:12,353 --> 01:17:15,589
inspired from them because by the way,
this is...

1105
01:17:15,661 --> 01:17:20,581
the most beautiful way and the biggest way
that other people have created massive

1106
01:17:20,581 --> 01:17:25,301
success in life, they actually interviewed
and modeled other people.

1107
01:17:25,301 --> 01:17:28,241
And what you're doing is in some way doing
the same.

1108
01:17:28,241 --> 01:17:32,681
So thank you for the opportunity and thank
you for the opportunity to give service

1109
01:17:32,681 --> 01:17:33,655
and value.

1110
01:17:35,554 --> 01:17:36,601
Thank you.

1111
01:17:39,873 --> 01:17:43,453
Thank you for listening to this episode of
The Crucible, Conversations for the

1112
01:17:43,453 --> 01:17:44,233
Curious.

1113
01:17:44,233 --> 01:17:47,833
If these powerful stories of
transformation resonated with you, be sure

1114
01:17:47,833 --> 01:17:51,813
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with anyone who you think could do with a

1115
01:17:51,813 --> 01:17:53,813
dose of inspiration for their own journey.

1116
01:17:53,813 --> 01:17:57,073
I would really appreciate it if you could
make any comments on your favourite

1117
01:17:57,073 --> 01:18:00,393
podcast platform as well, that helps me
reach more people.

1118
01:18:00,393 --> 01:18:03,853
All the important links and information
are in the show notes below.

1119
01:18:03,853 --> 01:18:06,937
Thank you very much for listening and
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