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Matthew 6:9-13

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Pray then, like this.

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Our father in heaven, hallowed
be your name.

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Your kingdom come, your will
be done on earth as it is in heaven.

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Give us this day
our daily bread, and forgive us our debts,

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as we also have forgiven our debtors.

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And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us

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from evil.

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Well, good morning, and welcome

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to the weekly gathering of Christ Community
Chapel, and welcome to the New Year.

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Happy 2026.

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Ugh, good,

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good grief.

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Okay,

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we'll keep moving.

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My name is Ken.

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I'm one of the pastors here,

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and it's my privilege
to spend some time with you this morning.

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If you're here and you're visiting,

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I just want you to know
we're really glad that you're here.

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Thanks for taking the time with us
this morning.

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Today we're going to talk about prayer,
and we're going to use the passage

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that you just heard read commonly referred
to as the Lord's Prayer, to do it.

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And we'll get there in a moment.

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But first, I just feel
I need to be honest with you.

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This was not an easy
message for me to prepare,

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because prayer is not always easy for me.

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I can get stuck when it comes to prayer,
and there are all sorts of reasons

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for that.

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Some of them might resonate with you.

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I can struggle to even define prayer
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What is it?

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What is prayer?

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We're told to do it time and time again.

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Pray without ceasing.

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Be steadfast and constant in prayer.

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Well, what is prayer?

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How do we approach God in prayer?

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What?

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What should it look like and sound like?

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How do we stay disciplined?

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How do we keep praying?

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There are other reasons
this was hard for me

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that are a little bit more personal.

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Any prayer like this one that begins with

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our father is hard for me
because I didn't have a good dad.

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So I got to work through that.

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I also struggle with self-sufficiency.

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I like doing things myself.

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I don't love asking for help.

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Do you know what I didn't do enough of?

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When preparing to preach on prayer.

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Pray. Yeah.

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Come on. It can.

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It can be hard. Maybe.
Maybe it can be hard for you.

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It can be hard. For me.

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I just want you to know
that if you're here this morning

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and any of these reasons resonate
with you, this message is for you.

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And if you're here

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and you don't know

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what you think about prayer,
you don't know what you think about God.

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This message is for you too.

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So with that, let's get started.

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I'm going to use three points
to guide our time this morning.

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And here they are.

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The conversation,
the connection and the approach.

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The conversation,
the connection and the approach.

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So let's start with the conversation.

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What is prayer.

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Let's just start there.

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Let's get a working definition.

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Well, if we look at how Jesus prayed here.

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And by the way, if you're using a pew Bible, you can find this passage on page 761.

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All right.

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If we look at how Jesus prayed,
we can see what prayer isn't.

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Jesus didn't
pray this prayer as a last ditch effort.

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I've tried everything else.

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I guess now I'll come to you.

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God, he didn't do that.

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He didn't approach prayer as a wish
list of things that he would like to have.

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Reminds me of when I was in second grade
and I wanted a new pair of shoes.

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We couldn't really afford
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my mom told me to go talk to Jesus
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hoping that it would have me come back

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more grateful for the things we did have
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I came back telling your I received a
vision of black Nike's with blue accents.

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But Jesus doesn't approach prayer
as a wish list.

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He doesn't approach it as a mindfulness
exercise or as meditation,

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and he certainly doesn't approach it
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In fact, he has something to say
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If you look with me,

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verse seven, just a few verses up,
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don't heap up empty phrases
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they think that they will be heard
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So don't don't pray like that.

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So if prayer isn't any of those things,
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Well, I think the easiest,
the simplest definition for us to work

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with is this prayer is a conversation.

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It's a conversation.

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And we're going to unpack that
more in a minute.

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But let's just consider the
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if that's the

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dynamic between us and God in prayer,
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God like an emergency button
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We don't approach him as a cosmic
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to give us the things we want.

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Means that we don't approach prayer
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hoping if we get it just right,
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hear us.

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No prayer is a conversation,

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and if it is a conversation,
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then how we're commanded to pray.

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At least to me.

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Pray without ceasing.

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Be in conversation with God constantly,
without ceasing.

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That that makes more sense to me.

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I know some of you are probably thinking
right now, can prayer as a conversation?

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Come on

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more like a monologue?

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Isn't it?

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Let me push back on that a little bit.

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You know, God has spoken
right here in his Word, the Bible.

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God speaks in,
in, through the person of the Holy Spirit

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to comfort, to convict,
among other things.

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And he often
does it in and through prayer.

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And then, of course, God answers prayers.

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And what is an answered prayer,
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of a conversation?

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All right.

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So if prayer is a conversation,
what kind of a conversation is it?

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Well, that's my next point.

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The connection.

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See, conversation can come

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in all shapes and sizes, right?

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If you're gifted with the ability
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you can have conversations with people
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Like for instance, at the grocery store.

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And then you might,
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on being pregnant,
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And that's why I don't small

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talk at the grocery store anymore.

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All sorts of conversations we can have.

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But when you have a conversation driven
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meaning there's relationship
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It's a different kind of conversation.

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It runs deeper, it's fuller, it's richer.

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There's there's vulnerability.

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You can be raw.
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or dressed up
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A few years ago, I lost my oldest sister.

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Suddenly and violently.

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She was shot to death.

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I was a zombie

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just trying to make it through the day

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and every night for those first few weeks,

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once the kids were in bed,

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Jamie,
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I'd collapse on the couch

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and I would cry and I would question,

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and I would remember her
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And there were times
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And I don't actually remember
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I know she said things in response,
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I do remember?

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I remember that I've never felt

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as loved by her than I did then.

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Just being in her presence.

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Because when you're in the presence
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who you know loves you.

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You don't worry about how you say things.

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You don't worry about getting it right.

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You just bring it all.

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And that's the kind of conversation

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God invites us to have to be connected
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God means that the conversation
that we have can be raw.

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We don't be buttoned up or dressed up.

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We don't have to say it just so God
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And if you don't believe me,
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that run the spectrum of human emotion.

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I mean, you could look at Jesus himself

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as connected to God as anybody,
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And some of those conversations
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Father, if possible,
take this cup from me.

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My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?

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If you struggle with prayer,

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might it be.

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That you struggle with the idea

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that you can bring it all to God
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You don't have to say it just so you don't
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You can be raw.

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You can be real.
You can be vulnerable. He can handle it

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prayer is a conversation with God
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by it is arising from connection with God.

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And if you're here

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and you're saying to yourself,
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with God, I don't know how to have
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First of all,
I'm really glad that you're here,

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and I want to talk to you
in just a minute.

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So hang in, please.

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But just to hammer this home prayer,

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it is a conversation,
but it is driven by connection.

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And if that's true, then.

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Then how should we approach prayer?

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Practically speaking, what does it look
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That's my third point.

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And again, just to emphasize this,
there is no special source.

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There's no equation.

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But it is true that if

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we understand who God is
and we understand who we are,

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then it should absolutely shape
and form our approach to God in prayer,

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just as it did
for Jesus in his prayer here.

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So here's my spoiler
alert for this for this point.

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One sentence
that we'll unpack when we approach God.

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We approach God in prayer
as sinners saved by grace

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turned sons and daughters

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seeking God's
kingdom, sinners saved by grace

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turned sons and daughters seeking

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God's kingdom.

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Let's start with that
first piece, Sinners Saved by Grace.

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Look with me at verse nine.
I think it'll be on the screen behind me.

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This is how Jesus opens the prayer.

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Our father in heaven, hallowed
be your name.

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That word hallowed,
it means holy, consecrated, set apart,

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other, distinct, unique.

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Because that is who God is.

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Simply put, there is no one like him.

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And to say hallowed

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be your name carries
more significance than it does today.

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When we use names as labels for people,
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somebody's name was indistinguishable
from the very nature from their character.

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So to pray, Our Father in heaven, hallowed
be your name.

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Say God, you are holy, you are set apart.

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You are Almighty, supreme, sovereign.

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You are all of those things.

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You are what my kids sometimes refer to
because of a song that they like to sing.

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You are the God of wow,

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the God of wow.

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The truth is, we have no business

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approaching
the God of war on our own terms.

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Can't do it,

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but we don't have to.

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Because

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Jesus in his life
and his death and his resurrection,

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he made it possible
for us to be in relationship with God,

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to enter into a conversation driven
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Jesus did that for us so that when God
looks at us, he doesn't see our sin.

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He sees his sinless son, Jesus.

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We are sinners.

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Yes, we are sinners saved by grace.

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And if you're stuck
when it comes to prayer,

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might it be that you've forgotten
that God is the God of wow?

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And to remember
that means that our prayers

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will be shaped
by awe and wonder at who this God is.

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Hallowed be your name. God.

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Maybe you're stuck
because you've forgotten

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what it took for you to approach
that God of wow,

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nothing less

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than the life of His Son Jesus?

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And if that's true, then

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then our prayer should be shaped
and formed by gratitude, by humility,

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knowing we could never have done this
in our own strength, by confession,

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knowing that the blood of Jesus
is sufficient to cover our sins.

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Maybe you're stuck
because you think your sin is too big.

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It's not.

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There is no sin
that the blood of Jesus cannot cover.

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Full stop.

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Or maybe you're here.

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And this idea of being a sinner
saved by grace, trusting in Jesus.

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This is new to you,

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or you've considered it 100 times,
but you can't quite let it go.

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Can I talk to you for a moment?

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We're talking about prayer this morning.

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There's a prayer that you're invited
to pray.

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Very simple, very straightforward.

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It goes something like this.
And you can use your own words.

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But this is what God invites you to pray.

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Jesus, I know I am a sinner.

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I know I deserve judgment, and I can never
be in relationship with God on my own.

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But Jesus, you lived in my place.

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You died in my place,
and you rose from the dead to show me

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that the price has been paid for my sin.

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Jesus, I trust you.

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You're the King and Lord of my life,
and your way is best.

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I want to follow you, Jesus.

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You're invited to pray that prayer.

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I hope you pray that.

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I hope you pray right now.

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You can tune me out for the rest of this
message to pray that prayer.

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I hope you do.

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Because we are sinners.

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Yes, we are sinners saved by grace,
but because of Jesus,

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our status before God,
it changes to sons and daughters.

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So we approach God as sons and daughters
just like

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Jesus did.

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Verse nine again,

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our Father in heaven, verses 11 through 13
give us this day our daily bread.

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Forgive us our debts
as we also have forgiven our debtors.

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Lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

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You know, in healthy

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families, kids run to their fathers.

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No fear, no hesitation.

304
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I didn't have that growing up.

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When my dad was around,
I was absolutely terrified of him.

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So if I wanted something,

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go outside, play with the toy.

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I waited till he was out of the room.

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I'd go to my mom
and I'd whisper in her ear,

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can I play outside now?

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Can I go play with that toy?

312
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And I know that's messed up.

313
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But that's not who God is.

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He is a good father.

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And he welcomes us as sons and daughters.

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You know, we just had Christmas.

317
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And so I have three little girls.

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We got them gifts, of course,

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which they played with
for about seven minutes,

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then thought over what someone else had
and then discarded everything.

321
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But it was fun.

322
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It's a good time. Merry Christmas.

323
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But I love giving gifts to my kids, right?

324
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I love giving gifts to my kids.

325
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You know, Jesus says something about who
God is and how he loves giving good gifts.

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Look with me at chapter seven.

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This is verses nine through 11.

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He says this

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which one of you, if his son asks him for
bread, will give him a stone?

330
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Or if he asks for a fish,
will give him a serpent?

331
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If you then, who are evil,
know how to give good gifts

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to your children, how much more will
your father who is in heaven,

333
00:17:05,307 --> 00:17:08,427
give good things to those who ask him?

334
00:17:10,763 --> 00:17:13,766
I actually got my middle daughter a fish

335
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and then when it died overnight,
I got her another one.

336
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I hope this one takes. We'll see.

337
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But like, imagine

338
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if she asks for a fish and I said, or

339
00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,563
how about a cobra like that, right?

340
00:17:27,563 --> 00:17:29,181
That's weird.
That doesn't even make sense.

341
00:17:29,181 --> 00:17:32,451
And we're not God
if we love giving good gifts,

342
00:17:32,451 --> 00:17:37,523
if we love giving good gifts to our kids,
how much more so does God, our Heavenly

343
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Father, love
when we come running to him and asking,

344
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so ask, ask in prayer as a son or daughter
running into the arms of your dad.

345
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Ask for provision. Ask for forgiveness.

346
00:17:49,201 --> 00:17:51,687
Ask for strength. Ask for endurance.

347
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Ask because you are welcomed
in the presence of God the Father.

348
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Because of Jesus,
we are sons and daughters and we can

349
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and should approach God that way.

350
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And if you're stuck in prayer,
maybe that's why.

351
00:18:05,818 --> 00:18:08,821
Maybe you've forgotten
that he's a good father.

352
00:18:08,937 --> 00:18:12,841
He's inviting you to run right into that
throne room, jump right into his lap,

353
00:18:13,041 --> 00:18:13,609
and ask.

354
00:18:17,362 --> 00:18:20,282
So we pray as sinners saved by grace.

355
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Yes, turn to sons and daughters.

356
00:18:22,584 --> 00:18:24,620
But this is this last piece and this.

357
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Honestly, for me,

358
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this was what resonated the most
where God is doing the most work.

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As I was preparing this,
we pray seeking God's kingdom.

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Look with me at verse ten.

361
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Jesus prays this your kingdom come,
your will be done on earth

362
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as it is in heaven.

363
00:18:43,639 --> 00:18:47,576
You know, the Kingdom of God was
absolutely central to Jesus's ministry.

364
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The Kingdom of God is is really central
in the narrative of the Bible.

365
00:18:51,897 --> 00:18:55,667
Because when God created this, this world,
he created everything.

366
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It was good.

367
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His kingdom was firmly established here.

368
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And that lasted
for all of a couple of chapters of Genesis

369
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until Adam and Eve screwed it up.

370
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Broke relationship
with God, broke the world.

371
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But Jesus,

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Jesus, who was God's promised
deliverer and rescuer, he came to restore.

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He came to reconcile us to God.

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He came to reestablish God's
kingdom here on earth.

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And at the end of this story,
in the book of Revelation, we are given

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a sneak peek of what that looks like
when the kingdom is reestablished,

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a new heaven and a new earth.

378
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Which means then
that God's kingdom is advancing.

379
00:19:36,658 --> 00:19:40,279
His will is being done right here
and right now.

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Means that God's kingdom is advancing
in your heart and in my heart,

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00:19:46,318 --> 00:19:48,203
in here and out there.

382
00:19:48,203 --> 00:19:50,973
And it means then, that when we pray,
we ought to pray.

383
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Seeking God's kingdom,

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knowing how the story ends.

385
00:19:58,380 --> 00:20:00,899
And it might mean
we pray for some of the same things,

386
00:20:00,899 --> 00:20:03,902
but how we pray might change

387
00:20:04,219 --> 00:20:08,240
so we can and should go to God
asking for him to meet basic needs.

388
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God, would you provide for me?
I need you, God.

389
00:20:11,193 --> 00:20:14,012
God, would you repair this relationship?

390
00:20:14,012 --> 00:20:16,615
God, would you change this diagnosis?

391
00:20:16,615 --> 00:20:18,951
Because I know who you are.
I know what you've done.

392
00:20:18,951 --> 00:20:21,470
I know what you're capable of.
You are sovereign.

393
00:20:21,470 --> 00:20:22,671
You are almighty.

394
00:20:22,671 --> 00:20:25,674
There's nothing you can't do. God.

395
00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,163
But if you choose not to.

396
00:20:32,064 --> 00:20:35,417
You've already met
my biggest need in Jesus Christ.

397
00:20:35,701 --> 00:20:38,670
You have already repaired
my relationship with you.

398
00:20:38,670 --> 00:20:40,555
And I know because you've promised it

399
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that there is a kingdom
being reestablished right here.

400
00:20:44,309 --> 00:20:47,429
I know the end of the story,
and I know that I can look forward

401
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to a time where there is no sickness,
there is no death, there is no brokenness.

402
00:20:50,882 --> 00:20:52,951
Every tear will be wiped away.

403
00:20:52,951 --> 00:20:57,122
I believe that God,
your kingdom come, your will be done.

404
00:21:01,493 --> 00:21:04,579
We pray seeking God's kingdom,
knowing it's advancing.

405
00:21:04,579 --> 00:21:06,198
This notice also means in this.

406
00:21:06,198 --> 00:21:09,201
I'd never considered this before.

407
00:21:09,268 --> 00:21:12,421
Every single answered prayer,
every time God says yes,

408
00:21:13,522 --> 00:21:16,525
his kingdom moves forward.

409
00:21:18,010 --> 00:21:19,828
This is when it really started
to resonate for me.

410
00:21:19,828 --> 00:21:22,831
I thought about in my own life
when God has answered prayers.

411
00:21:24,383 --> 00:21:27,386
When we didn't have food on the table
after my dad left,

412
00:21:27,753 --> 00:21:30,739
when we prayed that God
would put food on the table and he did

413
00:21:31,890 --> 00:21:34,893
the Kingdom of God move forward.

414
00:21:35,661 --> 00:21:38,480
Means that when my wife and I

415
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:42,451
didn't get the answer we were hoping for
in terms of getting pregnant, and prayed

416
00:21:42,768 --> 00:21:47,422
that God would open our hearts
and open her home to adoption, and he did.

417
00:21:48,090 --> 00:21:50,659
The Kingdom of God moved forward.

418
00:21:53,395 --> 00:21:56,748
That means that when I asked God
to give me the supernatural strength

419
00:21:56,748 --> 00:21:59,751
because it would have to be from him,
I could never do it.

420
00:21:59,968 --> 00:22:02,971
Give me the strength, God,
to forgive my father

421
00:22:03,055 --> 00:22:07,826
for walking out on our family
Thanksgiving night 31 years ago,

422
00:22:08,193 --> 00:22:11,363
and he answered that prayer
and I forgave my dad.

423
00:22:12,180 --> 00:22:15,167
The kingdom of God moved forward.

424
00:22:19,971 --> 00:22:22,157
Don't tell me God doesn't answer prayer.

425
00:22:22,157 --> 00:22:23,842
I know he does.

426
00:22:23,842 --> 00:22:26,845
I've witnessed it.

427
00:22:31,650 --> 00:22:32,367
We are to pray,

428
00:22:32,367 --> 00:22:35,904
seeking God's kingdom, believing,
knowing the end of the story,

429
00:22:36,138 --> 00:22:40,342
asking
but knowing, knowing his kingdom come,

430
00:22:40,342 --> 00:22:43,345
his will be done.

431
00:22:46,381 --> 00:22:49,368
Also, when we pray, seeking God's kingdom,

432
00:22:50,786 --> 00:22:53,221
we better be ready
to be part of the answer

433
00:22:53,221 --> 00:22:56,208
to that prayer.

434
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,362
Because we are invited, commanded, really

435
00:23:00,712 --> 00:23:03,348
to be part of his kingdom coming,
part of his will being done.

436
00:23:03,348 --> 00:23:06,051
Because it's happening in here
and it's happening in here.

437
00:23:06,051 --> 00:23:08,603
It's happening out there too.
There are people.

438
00:23:08,603 --> 00:23:11,723
There are people who don't know, who can't
approach God like this in prayer.

439
00:23:11,723 --> 00:23:13,492
They don't have the connection yet.

440
00:23:13,492 --> 00:23:16,578
Your friends, my friends,
neighbors, families,

441
00:23:16,578 --> 00:23:20,298
coworkers to pray your kingdom
come means God.

442
00:23:20,332 --> 00:23:23,485
Would your kingdom advance in here
and out there

443
00:23:23,485 --> 00:23:26,488
and however
you want to use me to do it, I'm in.

444
00:23:26,605 --> 00:23:26,938
I'm in.

445
00:23:31,660 --> 00:23:34,663
If you're stuck with prayer.

446
00:23:35,180 --> 00:23:39,234
Maybe you've forgotten
that God is reestablishing his kingdom.

447
00:23:39,234 --> 00:23:41,486
It is advancing right here and right now.

448
00:23:41,486 --> 00:23:44,606
Maybe you've forgotten
that he is inviting you to be a part

449
00:23:44,606 --> 00:23:47,909
of how he advances his kingdom, right here
and right now.

450
00:23:53,298 --> 00:23:56,301
You know, it being 2026,

451
00:23:56,635 --> 00:23:57,686
in the new year, what do we do?

452
00:23:57,686 --> 00:24:00,839
We make New Year's resolutions right?

453
00:24:02,357 --> 00:24:05,360
Lose that 10 pounds
you picked up over the holidays.

454
00:24:07,379 --> 00:24:10,549
If you're in Ohio State, maybe you resolve
to show up for next year's playoffs.

455
00:24:10,732 --> 00:24:12,167
I don't know.

456
00:24:12,167 --> 00:24:15,170
Oh, I'm an Irish fan, so sorry.

457
00:24:17,539 --> 00:24:20,358
What would it look like for us as a church

458
00:24:20,358 --> 00:24:23,361
to resolve to pray like this?

459
00:24:24,296 --> 00:24:26,214
To pray

460
00:24:26,214 --> 00:24:30,535
as sinners saved by grace turned sons
and daughters, seeking God's kingdom

461
00:24:30,535 --> 00:24:34,739
and asking God to show us how we can be
a part of the answer to that prayer.

462
00:24:36,892 --> 00:24:38,760
Well, that's a step that you want to take.

463
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,179
Have a great opportunity for you.

464
00:24:41,179 --> 00:24:43,832
You know, month from now we're going
to, as a church,

465
00:24:43,832 --> 00:24:47,219
have 24 hours of continuous prayer
right here in the building.

466
00:24:48,153 --> 00:24:49,104
I think the slide will go up there.

467
00:24:49,104 --> 00:24:53,308
It is 24 hours of prayer,
divided into 30 minute segments,

468
00:24:53,492 --> 00:24:56,912
guided prayer opportunities
to pray for specific things.

469
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,048
I'd love it
if you just put your phones up.

470
00:25:00,048 --> 00:25:02,517
Captured
the you're not going to distract me.

471
00:25:02,517 --> 00:25:05,120
You'll get better slots
now if you want to and wait a while.

472
00:25:05,120 --> 00:25:06,087
That's fine.

473
00:25:06,087 --> 00:25:08,940
It's up to you.

474
00:25:08,940 --> 00:25:11,927
But what an opportunity for us as a church

475
00:25:11,927 --> 00:25:14,930
to pray that God's kingdom would come,
his will be done,

476
00:25:15,597 --> 00:25:20,335
and to anticipate that he's going
to answer that prayer in amazing ways.

477
00:25:20,335 --> 00:25:23,238
And he's going to have
us be a part of the answer.

478
00:25:26,725 --> 00:25:28,793
Prayer is a conversation.

479
00:25:28,793 --> 00:25:32,664
It's a conversation driven by connection
with the God of the universe.

480
00:25:34,282 --> 00:25:36,601
When we as sinners saved by grace,

481
00:25:36,601 --> 00:25:39,588
turn to sons and daughters,
seek God's kingdom.

482
00:25:40,038 --> 00:25:42,958
Let's pray that way. This year,

483
00:25:42,958 --> 00:25:46,711
and let's be ready
to be part of the answer that he gives.

484
00:25:46,711 --> 00:25:49,698
Amen.

485
00:25:50,699 --> 00:25:51,032
All right.

486
00:25:51,032 --> 00:25:53,485
As I close
this part of the service in prayer,

487
00:25:53,485 --> 00:25:55,620
I'm going to invite you all
to pray with me

488
00:25:55,620 --> 00:25:57,589
because we just unpacked
the Lord's Prayer.

489
00:25:57,589 --> 00:25:59,608
So I'd love it if we prayed it together.

490
00:25:59,608 --> 00:26:01,226
All right, so it should.

491
00:26:01,226 --> 00:26:02,627
There it is, up behind me.

492
00:26:02,627 --> 00:26:05,630
Let's pray the Lord's Prayer together
to close this section.

493
00:26:05,897 --> 00:26:09,384
Our father in Heaven, hallowed
be your name.

494
00:26:10,352 --> 00:26:15,407
Your kingdom come, your will be done
on earth as it is in heaven.

495
00:26:16,458 --> 00:26:19,261
Give us this day our daily bread,

496
00:26:19,261 --> 00:26:23,548
and forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.

497
00:26:24,266 --> 00:26:28,737
And lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.

498
00:26:29,187 --> 00:26:29,654
Amen.