Riding The Wave

In this episode, AYD and MJ delve into the beautiful and messy world of fatherhood.

We kick things off with a discussion on the importance of being present for your children. AYD then shares his heartwarming story of unexpected fatherhood, followed by a sensitive look at considering abortion from the father’s and mother’s perspective. 

A pivotal moment arrives as AYD recounts meeting his son for the first time, prompting a powerful reflection on how men often chase women but struggle to be there for their children. We then transition to the joys of fatherhood, with AYD sharing what he loves most about being a dad. MJ chimes in with their own experiences raising a son.

No journey through fatherhood is complete without considering the practicalities. We explore the complexities of the court system and scheduling before diving into the biggest challenges AYD and MJ have faced as dads. The episode concludes with a powerful message on the importance of fathers sticking around, no matter the circumstances.

Tune in for an honest and insightful conversation about the unique joys and challenges of fatherhood!

0:00 Intro
2:04 This week's topic of being a present parent
7:47 AYD's fatherhood story is GOOD
14:08 Considering Abortion from both perspectives
17:24 Drinking during the relationship
22:05 AYD meeting his son for the first time
28:37 Men are willing to chase women, but won't fight for their children
30:23 What do you love about being a dad?
34:41 MJ's story with their son
37:36 How's the court process and scheduling?
40:02 What has been the biggest challenge of being a Dad?
44:56 Why is it important for Dad's to stick around?

Creators & Guests

Host
AYD
Host
James "MJ" Escalera

What is Riding The Wave ?

Welcome to the Riding the Wave podcast, where we talk about the daily struggles we call life. In being a part of this community, we want to hear your high and low tides. With no judgment! The purpose of this podcast is to connect with our audience and try to put ourselves in your shoes. We are here to motivate to all our listeners but also give any of you Kings and Queens an opportunity to share your story. With unity, we can overcome any obstacle. The first step of overcoming challenges is to face them head-on. No more deflecting or hiding our pain with a smile. It's time for enlightenment. At Riding the Wave, we put YOU , the audience FIRST. Join us on this voyage and discover the pursuit of happiness.