00:05 Julia Hey, Kieran, what's up? 00:06 Kieran Julia, did you hear what they said? 00:09 Julia No, what did they say? 00:10 Kieran Oh, my gosh. I have to tell you right now. Meet me in the studio in five minutes. 00:14 Julia Okay, I'm on my way. I'll see you soon. Welcome back to that's what they Said, an educationally conversational podcast where we address all the things, the art, and to college, for sure. 00:28 Kieran Happy Valentine's Day. You're spreading that love. And you know what else? I'm spreading love to my roommate who's joining us on the podcast. 00:39 Tanner Me. Oh, my God. Thank you guys for having me. I'm just so excited to be here. 00:46 Kieran Yes. 00:47 Tanner What's up, YouTube? 00:52 Kieran Everybody say hello to Tanner Moore, my roommate. 00:55 Julia Hello, Tanner Moore, Kieran's roommate. 00:58 Kieran This is also my friend of, like, two years. 01:01 Tanner That is true. 01:02 Kieran This is true. So every time I've talked about how much I don't like my roommates and how messy they are, it's been. Tanner. No, Sometimes it is, but most of the time it's not. Okay, yeah, go ahead and give us a little introduction about yourselves, about yourself. Well, hello, podcast. 01:17 Tanner My name is Tanner, like it was stated before. I'm a sophomore here at NC State. I'm animal science major who is intending to also double major in political science. 01:28 Kieran Can I hear political science? Political sc. 01:31 Tanner Really smart, really educated, and as you can see, really sexy. 01:36 Kieran Really true. 01:37 Julia I'm just really overwhelmed by the amount of sexiness. 01:39 Tanner Overwhelmed by my beauty. 01:41 Kieran It's just like it's blowing me backwards towards the wall. 01:43 Julia Yeah, that's why we're wearing these glasses. Because we can shield ourselves. 01:46 Kieran Yes. 01:46 Tanner I took my glasses off. 01:47 Julia Oh. 01:48 Tanner Oh, sorry, guys. 01:49 Julia I'm actually committed to the. I'm also committing to this video, but that's just me. But whatever. 01:53 Kieran That's why you're not. 01:54 Julia Okay, so I would love to hear your high low, Buffalo. Tanner, tell us your high low, Buffalo. 02:00 Kieran Please take it away. 02:01 Tanner My high is being here with you guys. Yeah, of course. 02:06 Kieran Swap. 02:08 Tanner My low. My low is probably being here with you guys. 02:15 Kieran Oh, we're committing to the bit. 02:17 Tanner Oh, I'm committing to the bit. And my buffalo. Hey, you'll never guess. Being here with you guys. 02:27 Kieran What a man. What a guy. 02:29 Tanner What a fellow. 02:30 Kieran What? 02:30 Tanner And it's me. 02:31 Kieran A fellow. So funny. That's the story of my life. Yeah. 02:35 Julia In my life. It's kind of crazy. Kieran. 02:39 Kieran Yeah. 02:39 Julia Hi, Laura, Buffalo. 02:40 Kieran Hi, Laura Buffalo. My low is that I have two exams this week, one of them being biz law. 02:48 Julia Me too. We're in the same class. 02:52 Kieran Not feeling pretty joyous about that. Being that I have to one, study and two, do the exam. So. Feeling stressed? Really nervous. Wish me luck, guys. My. Hi. 03:03 Julia Hey. 03:04 Kieran Hey. 03:05 Julia Hi. 03:06 Tanner Wow. Hey, people. 03:08 Kieran Oh, my God. I say that all the time. Anyway, okay, back to Kieran, back to sound, Back to talent. Oh, my God. That's what they say, don't they? 03:20 Tanner And you the talent, baby. I'm the talent. 03:23 Kieran Oh, we start fighting. 03:26 Julia My high. 03:27 Kieran Maybe this. I think this is my high. I've been looking forward to this for a few days. 03:32 Julia I love that. 03:33 Kieran My other high. Well, this can also be my buffalo. No, actually, it's not gonna be Butterflow. Oh, it's not, you guys. 03:38 Tanner It's not. 03:39 Julia It's not. 03:39 Tanner It's freaking not. Don't even think it is. 03:41 Kieran Cut that. My other highs. I'm having a Galentine's party the day that this goes out. The day before Valentine's. Spreading the love. 03:48 Tanner I wasn't invited. 03:50 Julia Girl, you live in the apartment. 03:51 Tanner I live there. 03:51 Kieran Tanner was invited. He's not contributing anything, though. 03:54 Tanner That is not true. 03:55 Kieran What are you contributing? 03:56 Tanner I'm contributing whatever you need from me, girl. Whatever you freaking need, I'll provide. 04:03 Kieran Okay? We make out, we start having bleep, bleep. I can't. So, yeah, that's my other high. I'm very excited for it. My buffalo is that my mom called me on Friday and said, amy, hey, Amy. And said, hey, I'm going to the mall with your dad to go meet his co worker for lunch, and we're stopping by Cheesecake Factory. What do you want? So now I have a cheesecake slice in the fridge and two loaves of Cheesecake Factory bread. Very excited about that. Very, very excited about that. She also made her meatballs, which are one of my favorite things that she makes ever, and she sent me home with a tub of them yesterday. Also, the Seahawks, one go. Seahawks talks. 04:51 Julia What about Benito? What about Benito? I think he slayed. 04:55 Kieran Yeah. 04:56 Julia Did you watch the halftime show? 04:58 Tanner You guys? I didn't. I went to sleep. 05:00 Kieran I'm sorry. 05:01 Tanner I was so tired. I know. I'll watch it today. I love Bad Bunny Baddie. I would. I would kiss him, girl. I would kiss him. I would. 05:10 Kieran I would. I would. 05:12 Julia And I would. 05:12 Tanner You know what? Maybe a little more. 05:15 Julia Maybe a little something. 05:16 Tanner If he consented, of course. 05:17 Julia I know, right? Right? 05:18 Tanner Love him. 05:19 Julia Consent is sexy, guys. Okay, Am I safe to do my high low Buffalo? 05:23 Kieran Yeah, please. Good. Oh, sorry, we gotta leave. 05:27 Julia My low is that this morning? I Was exiting the gym and what occurred was that my bag broke. My. My like bag that I carry my laptop in my. All my stuff. She broke the strap broke. 05:41 Kieran Oh, yeah, I know. 05:42 Tanner I saw that. I said, oh, hi, glitch. 05:46 Julia So that was a low for me. My high. Loki had a lit tastic time watching the super bowl with you. Yeah. And all your nasty little friends. Yes. 05:56 Kieran Brady. And Ian was there and I. Redhead Ian. 05:59 Julia I have Ian written down on my highlight buffalo. Because I just like to say the joy. I've said this before, but the joy I get from making fun of that man is actually astronomical. 06:08 Tanner Unmatched. 06:09 Julia It. He like is so easy to rage bait. Like, I walked in, I said, oh, I thought I saw your minivan out there. And he's like a car guy. So he like, he got an attitude. Yeah, it's so funny. 06:19 Kieran It's his golf. 06:20 Julia It's. He's. He's pretty nasty. Loki. 06:23 Kieran He's pretty nice. 06:24 Tanner So were you guys over at the apartment last night? 06:26 Kieran No, at my parents house. 06:27 Tanner Oh, love. Okay. Because I was like, I did not hear y'. All. 06:30 Kieran No, it was Brady and Julia. I. My parents, my aunt, my great. 06:36 Tanner Notice how I was invited. Oh, think about it. 06:39 Kieran You were a living. 06:40 Tanner What you think about that? 06:41 Julia Think about it. 06:42 Kieran Yeah, why don't you think about that? Why do you think I wouldn't have invited you? 06:45 Tanner Oh, I don't know. 06:47 Julia Can I share my buffalo? Yeah. 06:48 Tanner Oh, sorry. 06:50 Julia I have two. One is that I have been feeling extremely motivated as of late. So this is true. This morning I got up at 6 and I went to the gym and I did cardio and took a shower at the gym. And then I came and got my breakfast, which I haven't eaten yet, so my bag. And then now I'm here. So I'll be doing cardio Monday, Wednesday, Friday, in the morning things I will not. So me either. And that's okay. But it was lucky fun. And then my second is that I have a date today. 11:30, he's meeting me in this building and we're walking to lunch together. 07:27 Tanner So actually recording the next podcast episode together. 07:29 Julia Yes. Actually, we've never met. And he's gonna be right. That would look. 07:32 Tanner He'd be fun, right? No, like, that's a first date. 07:36 Julia Yeah. Now we'll just see. I don't know. Like we're just saying, you know, but. And you know what that is? Loki. Good segue, guys. Because we're talking about Valentine's Day today. And which is why we have these glasses on like if you didn't notice, like, these are not my normal everyday glasses. 07:52 Kieran Wearing a heart shirt today. 07:53 Julia I'm wearing I have a heart in here, guys. Oh, right here. One of these right here. So I. What I would like to know personally is current relationship status. 08:06 Kieran Go around the room. 08:08 Julia Let's go around the room. 08:09 Tanner Share the circle. 08:10 Kieran Name, age. 08:12 Julia Alcoholics Anonymous, but Relationships Anonymous. 08:15 Kieran And then goals for the future. 08:17 Julia And goals. Yeah. So, like, what are we looking for? Like, are we just in this moment, Are we trying to stay single? Are we, like, doing, like, hookups? Are we, like, dating? Dating? Are we searching for something? You know what? So, Tanner, I want you to go first because I don't know these things about you. 08:28 Tanner Okay, I'll go ahead and go. 08:29 Julia Okay. 08:30 Tanner So currently, I am single, but you know what? I'm single, and I'm ready to mingle. 08:37 Kieran I knew you were gonna say that. 08:39 Tanner I'm ready to get out there. I'm ready to hit that scene. I'm ready. I'm looking. Please, please, please, please. No. Yeah. So I'm looking. I am. I am, like, I've said single, but I'm ready to see, like, where the waters take me. 08:57 Kieran Where the wind blows. 08:58 Tanner Yeah. Where. 09:00 Kieran Yeah, yeah. 09:01 Tanner I'm gonna make a joke, and I can't. I won't. 09:04 Kieran Yeah, yeah. 09:05 Julia Wow. 09:06 Kieran I can go next. I'm Kieran. I'm 19 going on 20 soon. I'm single. Have been for many years now. Goals for the future is hopefully something at this point. 09:22 Tanner Anything. Hey, I'll pick it all. 09:24 Julia I'm. 09:24 Kieran Applications are open for whatever. 09:27 Julia As we say in literally every freaking episode. 09:29 Kieran Shoot us a dm. Shoot us a dm. I've yet to receive one, but looking forward to it. I know that they're on backlog. 09:36 Julia There's just so many request. 09:39 Kieran It's just. It's just. It's an influx. It's crazy. No, I am ultimately loving something long term. I think I. You know, I've. I've tried the short, slow and steady wins the race. The race did not even begin before I gave up. So, you know, I've tried. I haven't tried the hooking up, and I don't. I think I'm okay with that. 10:03 Tanner Yeah, me either. 10:05 Kieran Right? 10:08 Tanner I've never done that. I would never do that. I'm a child of the Lord. 10:11 Kieran Yeah. What I've heard in my room begs to differ. Me and Tanner share a wall, so. 10:18 Julia Oh, I can hear. I can hear everything. 10:21 Tanner We play too much. 10:24 Kieran Yeah. So I am single and I am Open to something. 10:30 Julia To something. 10:30 Tanner Oh, to something. 10:31 Julia I'm open to something. 10:32 Kieran I'm. 10:33 Julia I could be convinced. 10:34 Kieran I could be persuaded. 10:36 Julia Long term. Open to short. 10:37 Kieran Yeah, long term. Maybe short. I would know nothing about that, so. 10:42 Julia Oh. Oh, that's really interesting. 10:44 Kieran Yeah. 10:45 Julia Okay. Well, in terms of me. 10:49 Kieran Yeah. 10:50 Julia As we can tell, I'm. I'm out there. I'm dating. I'm putting in the work. I. You know. 10:59 Kieran Yeah. 10:59 Julia I. 11:00 Kieran Like, it's been one of those days. No. 11:02 Julia Well, no, honestly, no. I. Like, actually, no, you're dead wrong. 11:06 Kieran Okay. 11:07 Tanner Wow. 11:08 Kieran No, I just, like, are fighting again. 11:11 Julia I'm sorry, guys. 11:14 Kieran Wait, is Julia mom, or am I Mom? I feel like I'm Dad. 11:17 Tanner Yeah. You're my daddy. Oh. 11:20 Kieran That was my nickname in middle school. Daddy. One of my nicknames. I had two nicknames in middle school. 11:27 Julia Bring that one back. 11:28 Kieran One of them was Ketamine, and the other was Daddy Kieran. That was my nickname in middle school and part of high school. 11:34 Tanner Wait. But now it's Mama Keeks, and now it's Mama Kiki. 11:37 Kieran Mama Keeks. So I've gone from Daddy Kieran to Mama Kiki or Mama Kee. That's true. 11:44 Julia So my current mindset, I was talking to my mom on FaceTime, like, two days ago, right. And I had an interesting experience a few days ago with a dating situation. And I then was like, you know, if I ever mention another person in a romantic way, like, take me out back and, like, you know, like. Right. Like, and put it in. Just go on with your life. Like, don't even think about me. But then I woke up the next morning, and I was like, actually, that is not conducive to who I am, because I love going on dates, and I love meeting people and doing fun stuff. So, like, why would I stop doing that? 12:18 Kieran And I don't. 12:18 Julia If I. If I have a mindset of, like, I hate men, like, I'm never going on another date, then I feel guilty when I do go on a date. And there's no need for that. 12:25 Kieran We don't need that. 12:26 Julia Right. I'm just causing myself, like, extra stress. Yeah. No, I don't want to do that. So my current mindset is I'm still dating because I find it fun, and I like talking to people, and I don't have to, like, put it all one person. Like, I can date multiple people as long as, like. Like, you know, like, obviously, if we're exclusive, then no, but, like, I am loyal. 12:45 Kieran I promise. 12:45 Julia I don't know, guys. I probably no, but, like, I like. I like to give all my attention to one person, but I think it's healthier to be like, oh, like, I. I want to date with this person. I want to date with this person. Like, I'm just, like, seeing who I like. Mesh betters. Yeah. And I. I think that's healthy. And I think that's my goal. And also another goal I have. I told my mom I was like, within the next two weeks, I'm going to ask someone out in person. Like, just a random person, because it's me. 13:14 Kieran Tanner, you propose at the end of the podcast. 13:16 Julia What are you doing on Valentine's Day? I have not seen. Me neither. But that's actually not true. 13:22 Kieran I have, like, I have a lot of plans. 13:24 Julia Okay. 13:24 Tanner So for me either. Like, I also have plans, too. 13:26 Kieran No, Like, I've actually have so many friends. 13:28 Julia I have a lot of guys lined up. Yeah. So that's my current mindset. I like, that's. My next bullet point is I want to know your philosophies and mindsets when it comes to dating. 13:40 Kieran Yeah. 13:40 Julia Like, Tanner, take it away. 13:42 Tanner I'll go. Well, hey, I'm looking for a good Christian woman, and that's what I always say. Yeah. Reflect my values. 13:50 Kieran Your values. 13:51 Julia Conservative as well. 13:52 Kieran Conservative, please. 13:54 Tanner Would love that. No, my. And what was the question again? I bidded too close to this side. 13:58 Julia Philosophies and mindsets about dating at the moment. 14:02 Tanner So my philosophy and my mindset for dating, a growth mindset would be. I'm. I'm just looking to, like, be happy. Like, I want to find someone that I'm obviously. Hey, I think that's everybody's looking for. I just think it's really. 14:17 Kieran I want to be sad. 14:18 Tanner Especially I actually want to hate the person. Oh, wow. Hey, people. No, I think my goal is I would love to meet somebody in person. I feel like that's obviously, that's the dream. I just think it's really hard, obviously, as a gay person to date. I think it's. I think that's not talked about. 14:42 Kieran This is coming out. 14:45 Tanner I think it's not talked about enough how truly hard it is as a gay person to date. 14:50 Kieran Yeah. 14:51 Tanner My philosophy is I would love to meet someone in person, but really just find someone who makes me happy. Find someone who matches my freak. 15:00 Julia Doesn't matter. 15:00 Kieran You wanna match my freak? 15:02 Tanner Go ahead, hit my line. 15:06 Julia I would like to circle back after you go to the conversation of meeting someone in person, but you go ahead. Mindset and philosophy. 15:13 Kieran Yes. I mean, mine also Kind of goes with meeting somebody in person I love. 15:16 Julia Pause. I cannot get over how much you look like a bug with those glasses on. And it's really slick. A cute little bug. She's so cute. She's. I swear. 15:23 Kieran Do I look like a love bug? 15:24 Julia Bug. 15:24 Tanner A bear. 15:25 Kieran Bug. 15:25 Tanner A bear. Let's talk about it. Let's talk about Bugab. Bugabear. 15:29 Julia Queen was applying to an internship the other day. I looked over, Queen was typing in the email bugabear at, and I was. 15:35 Tanner Like, girl, and that needs to be talked about. 15:36 Kieran And I literally wrote bugabear. I saw Julia go. And then I hit backspace and I put K, N, M, C, C, L, E, A, N, C, S, U dot. 15:44 Tanner Because for some context, Kieran's email is bugabear. And she sends that with anything. 15:51 Kieran And that's attached to, like, my health documents, my insurance, like my school applications. It starts with bugabear. So thank you, dad, for starting that for me in third grade. 16:06 Tanner A real one. 16:06 Julia Yeah. 16:07 Kieran It makes me angry every day. But yeah, so I do look like a bug. My nickname is actually Bug at home and Love bug. So it's quite fitting. 16:15 Julia So pretty much it's okay. 16:16 Kieran So pretty much you're a loser for making that joke. 16:18 Julia Oh, anyway. So what's your mindset on dating? 16:20 Kieran Yeah. So anyways, I am one who believes and well, not believes, but wants strongly to meet someone in person. Especially, like, I talk about this all the time. Like going through like the public school system, you're like surrounded by people for so long that it's just like maybe like instilled in me because I'm like, I was surrounded by people that I was like, I'm just going to be like a friends to lovers. Like, because like any relationship you really have in high school is a friends to lovers and. Or just like classmate to lover. Like, you just spend so much time with them that you start dating them. 16:45 Julia Yeah. 16:46 Kieran Whereas in college is like a whole different ball game because for the first time in my life, like, I have to actually put an effort to have relationships with people. 16:54 Tanner Sorry, I spied the camera. 16:55 Kieran Okay. 16:56 Julia You have to choose to spend time with somebody. 16:57 Kieran Yeah, you. Yeah. You have to make like a conscious effort to actually be friends with someone. You can't just like sit next to them in class at your assigned table. You can sit in the 400 person lecture room and you have to choose to sit next to them every single Tuesday. 17:10 Tanner You gotta be bold. 17:11 Kieran And it's not every day. Like, you know, it's every Tuesday, Thursday So. Or sometimes it's just once a week. Yeah. 17:17 Julia So our baddie class on Wednesdays, it's. 17:19 Tanner Once, once a week. 17:20 Julia We only get to see those baddies once a week. 17:22 Kieran And it makes me angry. I agree. But, yeah. So I really love the idea of meeting someone in person. I've also, I think, by proxy, accidentally become a friend to lover person. I have a very hard time, like, meeting someone and instantly, like, going into the dating mode. I have to, like, see the vision first. I think that's natural. And I have to, like. Like, I'm just not someone who would, like, go. I mean, like, I want to be that person. Like, I've mentioned before, I've never been on a date. And I think part of that is, like, I just. The idea is kind of weird to me. Not weird, but it's just like, I'm uncomfortable that it's like, we're going to see each other with the intention that we both already like each other. Like, there's no fight or there's no. 18:00 Kieran Like, there's no. There's nothing to. It's just like, in theory, we both are. Like, we're going on this purposeful hangout because in theory, we're going to be together. Like. Like you. 18:11 Julia I understand what you're saying, but I kind of like to approach it in the sense that, like, a date is just, like. Especially, like, a first date is just kind of like, you're hanging out to see if you have chemistry enough to maybe, like, go on another date. Like, it doesn't have to be like, I'm going on a date, because we can't. Like, that's just not. Like, that doesn't make any sense. Like, you can't. That you cannot go into a date. 18:39 Kieran It's not sustainable. 18:40 Julia Right. Unless you, like, have been friends with the person. But, like, you go on a date with the intention of, like, getting to know somebody to see if you want to go on another date. Like, all that matters is the next step. You don't even have. You have to be like, do I want to see this person again? Yeah. Well, yes, but, like, also me when I say that. But also, if I go on a date and I have really good chemistry with somebody, I'm immediately thinking about, okay, so when we are together, here's what's gonna happen. Like, I'm gonna hang out with you on these days, and you're gonna hang out with me on these days, and then we're gonna. In like, a year, and then we're gonna have kids and Then we're gonna live here. Like, I. I knew that. And. 19:12 Julia But those are inside thoughts. I keep. 19:14 Kieran You're an optimist, right? 19:16 Julia I am a major optimist. 19:17 Kieran Yeah, yeah. In terms of mindset, I'm looking for someone who. 19:25 Julia Tall, handsome, bunny, smart. 19:28 Kieran Yeah. All the things, but. 19:30 Tanner Yeah. 19:31 Kieran One of my goals this year is I really want to go on a first date. I've never been one, and so it's on my bucket list. 19:35 Julia Rather get out there. It's fun. 19:36 Kieran I'm trying. I'm trying. There's a couple individuals that need you so bad. 19:42 Tanner It's me again. 19:43 Julia Yeah, we're both after Tanner, so it's. It's kind of. There's kind of a breach. 19:48 Tanner I'm just so freaking cool. 19:49 Julia It's just so freaking cool. 19:50 Kieran Next episode, we announce Run with Ruppel. 19:52 Julia Oh, my God. 19:55 Tanner With the gay man. 19:56 Kieran With the gay man. That wouldn't be the first time I've. Nevermind. 20:00 Tanner Oh, wow. 20:01 Julia With a gay man. 20:01 Kieran No. 20:02 Tanner Hey, we've all been there now. 20:04 Julia We have all been there. 20:04 Kieran I was in a relationship with someone who was. Whatever. 20:08 Julia Who? 20:08 Tanner What? 20:09 Kieran Wait. 20:09 Julia Who? 20:09 Tanner We'll talk. 20:10 Kieran Well, not in a relationship. Well, one time I had a crush on a gay guy. That did happen. That does happen to. 20:15 Tanner It was Brady. 20:16 Kieran Oh, Lord. Draws crazy. 20:20 Tanner No, no. Just kidding. 20:21 Kieran No, it was not Brady. 20:22 Julia Okay. 20:27 Kieran Brady's gonna listen to this and text me and be like, hey, so I heard of the podcast. 20:32 Julia We listen to the podcast, I think. Okay, so I want to circle back to the concept of meeting someone in person versus dating online. Because I was talking to my mom about this. Hey, Queen. Because I be like, I use the apps, but I only use Hinge at the moment. Because I, like, I don't want to hook up, so I don't use Tinder. But like. But also, you can find something real on Tinder, because I found. I dated a guy over the summer, and he was, like, so slight. It would have worked out if I stayed in Wilmington, but, you know, whatever. Anyway, so I use Hinge. And. 21:02 Kieran I. 21:03 Julia You know the guys that are like, I. They'll be like, I'm looking for my wife. But then you scroll down and they're like, things as, like, short term, open to long, right? Or like, they're like, what. What do I want to do this year? Get off this app? Or, like, what can we do together? We could, like, get off the app. Or, like, what. What do you enjoy talking about? 21:21 Kieran You. Or like, when it says what? We get, like, first date idea. Like, Coming up with our lie to tell people about how we met, bro. 21:29 Julia Like, I feel like, take away the shame of online. 21:32 Tanner I agree. There should be no stigma. 21:34 Julia I agree. But my. My par. Like, anti blah. But I was telling my mom, there's like an epidemic of people that are unable to walk up and say, hey, you look, like, really cool. You want to, like, go get a coffee? Like, you people don't do that anymore. And, like, if you do that, then people are like. Like, they, like, be weird about it. Like, I don't know, like, you have. It's. Online dating has made it so, like, efficient and, like, standardized of, like, you just wipe through all these people until you find somebody that's, like, cute. And then you, like, send like, 10 people the same message. And then whichever one responds, you like starting conversation. 22:07 Julia If it goes on for a long enough, then eventually they'll ask you out or you ask them out and then you go out on a date and it's like. But, like, I mean, it works for some people. And like, I'm. I. I think it, like, I believe in it, I hope. But, like, I don't know. Bring back asking people out in real life. 22:26 Tanner Like, I agree. I saw a TikTok the other day, and it was like back in, like, cavemen times, like, they only saw one baddie their whole life, and, like, they had to shoot their shot right there. And that's my philosophy moving forward is I like that. 22:41 Kieran Have you ever shot your shot? I. 22:42 Tanner Well, hey, hey, I have. And if it goes bad, that's okay. The worst that they can do is say no and then call you ugly, and that's you. And, well, and yeah, but. 22:54 Julia And yeah. 22:56 Kieran I mean, to be fair, every relationship I've ever been in, I asked them out, right? So, like, all of the boyfriends I've ever had, Daddy Kieran, Daddy Cuban. It's because I asked them to be my boyfriend. 23:07 Julia I asked him to be my girlfriend. 23:09 Tanner I thought that was you gonna say, hey, what did I just say? 23:14 Kieran This is my coming out. 23:16 Julia I am a lesbian. 23:17 Tanner No, I thought we're all straight. 23:19 Julia No, we're in a trouble. 23:20 Tanner Yes. 23:21 Julia We're just platonic. But, like, we're like. 23:23 Tanner But yeah. You guys don't kiss. But we all kiss. 23:27 Kieran It's like reverse Zendaya and Challengers. 23:31 Tanner Let's talk about it. 23:32 Kieran Reverse Challenger. 23:34 Tanner Whole podcast episode, just challengers, Y'. All. That's crazy. I was gonna ask at some point. I think we should talk about our celebrity crushes. 23:45 Kieran Oh, hey. 23:48 Julia Like, hot takes of like, bro, the fish from Nemo. Scar from Nemo. 23:52 Tanner Ooh. Okay. Okay. 23:53 Kieran Yeah, let's. Let me. Let's. 23:57 Julia I just need to take a moment and talk about this. 23:58 Kieran Let's talk. 23:59 Julia Go ahead. 24:00 Tanner Okay. So you want me to go? I have so many. 24:02 Kieran Okay. 24:03 Julia Hit it. 24:03 Tanner My number one celebrity crush of all time will forever and always be Mike Feist. 24:10 Julia I don't know. 24:11 Tanner Challengers, fame. Of fear. Of panic. He's in panic. Not fear. He's in panic. He plays a cowboy in that. 24:17 Julia Okay. 24:17 Tanner My face. He's in challengers. He's sexy. He was in this stage production of Brokeback Mountain. Like, he is sexy. He is sexy. Mike Feist, hit my line. I know you are straight, but let me see here. 24:31 Kieran This man. 24:31 Julia Oh, the blonde. 24:32 Kieran Okay, that's him. 24:33 Tanner And he was also in Dear Evan Hansen on Broadway. Yes, the blonde one. 24:36 Julia Okay. What? 24:37 Tanner Don't show that one. Show him in challengers. He's so sexy. 24:41 Julia He. Loki gives Ilya from heated rivalry. 24:43 Tanner Oh. Which need that. 24:47 Julia Both of them. 24:48 Kieran Too bad at the same time. 24:51 Tanner I would say another celebrity crush is. Hey. Jacob Elordi. 24:55 Julia Yeah, classic. Like, you can't even deny that there's that one. 24:58 Tanner I don't know if you guys have seen the photo shoot of him where he, like, has, like, the soft mullet. He's, like, in the corset on the mute. On the museum statue. Like, I need him. Oh, I need him. 25:09 Kieran In that same vein, Theo James. 25:12 Tanner Oh, yeah. Yes. No. 25:13 Kieran Yeah. 25:14 Tanner That's the photo, right? 25:20 Julia Good Lord. 25:21 Tanner I know. Wow. Wow. 25:24 Julia Okay, since this is on my mind. Benito. Bad bunny. He is. She was. So yesterday were watching the super bowl, right? Kieran's mom says, have you seen those videos of him, like, when he's, like, Loki not wearing underwear? And I turned around, I said, I have watched every single one of those edits on Tick Tock Girl. I have seen it. 25:44 Tanner Bad Bunny. Cloud Kelp. 25:46 Kieran Yeah. 25:46 Julia And that's what I always say. 25:47 Tanner Bad Bunny. Calvin Klein ad. Let's talk about it. 25:52 Julia He is so fine, and he's so politically active. 25:57 Tanner He's just, like, sexy and his voice is sexy and he's sexy. When he was on snl because he's also funny. Hey, you can be as sexy, but if you're not funny, I don't want you. You gotta be. Oh, I agree. 26:08 Kieran I like tattoos. 26:09 Julia He's so. He's so, like, politically active and, like, he's. The way that he, like, speaks about Puerto Rico is just so, like, I need him. 26:18 Tanner So I love him. 26:20 Julia One of my I don't know, like, how you're gonna feel about this, but like, one of my celebrity crushes, my top celebrity crush is going to be Jeff Goldblum. 26:28 Tanner I get it. And I know daddy. 26:30 Julia Okay, but I mean, like now, like, not even when he was young. I mean, yes, when he was young, but like. But like this low key. I disagree. 26:37 Tanner No, Jeff Goldblum is. Because I also think, like, I don't think that he's like the sexiest in the face, obviously, but I think that he has a sexy personality. He's like, really charming. 26:47 Julia Yeah, he is so charming. 26:49 Tanner I've met him. No, I haven't. 26:50 Julia Oh, I was gonna be like, that's. 26:52 Tanner Actually my best friend. Go way back. 26:57 Julia That's how I. Right. 27:00 Kieran Jim from the Office. Whatever his real name is. 27:02 Julia I never watched the Office. 27:03 Tanner What is his name? I know it. 27:06 Julia Okay, what is it? 27:06 Kieran Jim Halpert. 27:07 Tanner Well, okay, no, it's John Kazinski. 27:16 Julia Trying to think of who other hot take. 27:19 Kieran But also, I lowkey need him when he was in the office. I do too. 27:23 Tanner There's that one episode where he is playing basketball and I'm like. 27:26 Kieran Yeah. 27:26 Julia Wait, guys, the. The saber tooth tiger from Ice Age way. 27:31 Kieran I get it. 27:31 Julia Yeah. 27:33 Kieran Yeah. Okay, so Jennifer Lawrence need. Yes. Oh, yeah. Dakota Johnson. Need Dakota Johnson. 27:45 Tanner Yeah. 27:47 Kieran I need Blake Lively, but not as much as I need Jennifer Lawrence. Like. Like, he's on the back. 27:52 Tanner Lawrence. 27:53 Kieran I need Jennifer Lawrence. Yeah. 27:55 Tanner The fish from Nemo. 27:56 Julia Scar from Nemo. Hold on. It's a video. 28:00 Kieran The entire cast of the Outsider. 28:04 Tanner The. The movie or the musical production? 28:07 Kieran No, the movie, baby. No. Because I need. I need pony boy. Or not pony. Wait, no. 28:16 Tanner Boy boy. 28:18 Julia You know, have you ever seen Dead Poet Society? Oh, honey. 28:22 Tanner Wait, is that the sexy dude and he's. He's also in that medical show? Yes, yes. He's bad. He's bad. 28:27 Julia He's bad. Wait, I need the older brother gay undertone. It's like major gay under. No in the. 28:32 Tanner Yes, that's what I've heard. 28:33 Kieran I need him. 28:34 Julia Look, okay, this is. Let's let me zoom in on this really super d. Quick. Baddest freak. Hold on. Look at this cast. Hold on. I'm trying to move closer while it's still talking. Right this. Wow. Just actually inspiring the amount of battiness in that photo. 28:51 Tanner Wait, and can I mention one more? 28:53 Kieran Yeah, you got. 28:54 Tanner Hey, viewers out there. You guys see the show? The pit? 28:57 Julia Nope. 28:58 Tanner This sexy dude right here. This a tick tock edit. Come on, get into it. He's Sexy. He bad as hell. Come on, y'. 29:04 Julia All. 29:05 Tanner I know. I went to my tick tock and just pulled up my, like, sexy edits. 29:11 Julia Hold on. Let me see. Who else? 29:12 Tanner Come on. Everybody in Heater Rivalry. 29:15 Kieran Yeah. 29:17 Tanner I could die happy with any of them. Any of them. Especially Scott. Scott Hunter. 29:23 Julia I have a good one. Have you guys seen Catching Fire, the Second Hunger? 29:28 Tanner Yeah. 29:29 Julia Do you know the scene where Finnick. 29:31 Tanner Is and he's drinking from the water bottle? 29:35 Julia That is I. That scene. Look at me gripping this thing. I have watched edits of that scene like, I. No, you don't understand. You don't understand. My face is heating up. That is just a little unsafe. Absolutely bust. Hold on. Catching. 29:54 Tanner Absolutely best. Also another one of mine. Actually, two here. I just saw two. If you guys know Jonathan Bailey, my mom needs Jonathan Bailey. Anything he's been in. Anything. Give me that. Give me that right now. 30:09 Kieran Yeah. 30:10 Tanner Fellow travelers. That's just a beautiful TV show. Beautiful. 30:16 Julia I just found an edit of that scene, y', all, and I just. 30:19 Kieran I really. 30:19 Julia I can't take it. 30:20 Tanner I just can't take it. Josh Hutchinson. I could go all day. I could go all day. 30:25 Julia He's so funny. Money, too. 30:27 Tanner I know. Oh, just guys. But Mike Feist. You guys like Mike Feist? Like, I'm like Mike Feist in the show Panic. He plays a cowboy. Like, Lord, I need him. 30:40 Julia Oh, I love a cowboy. Hold on. 30:41 Tanner Oh, I know. No, I. Get into it, get into it. Oh. 30:48 Julia Oh, you know, people are gonna love. 30:51 Tanner Us just talking about. 30:52 Kieran Wait, wait. What is. 30:53 Julia Dylan o'. 30:54 Kieran Brien. 30:56 Julia Oh, my God. Maze Runner. Whole cast now. 30:59 Kieran Oh, my God. Now this is mine. Runner. I literally was, like, rocking back. I watched the Maze Runner for the first time, like, two weeks ago or three weeks ago. 31:09 Julia It was longer than that, but yes. 31:10 Kieran A month ago. I don't know. It was over winter break, whatever that is. End of December, beginning of January. I need the entire Maze Runner cast. So. 31:23 Tanner Guys, wait. I've never seen the Maze Runner. 31:25 Julia Oh, my God. 31:26 Kieran You would actually like. 31:28 Tanner Oh, no. Yeah, he's in. 31:30 Julia Yes. Who? 31:31 Tanner The one that. 31:31 Julia Did he play? 31:32 Kieran Percy Jackson. 31:33 Julia Shirty. 31:34 Kieran Which one's this one? 31:35 Julia The. 31:36 Kieran This guy. 31:38 Tanner I see him before. 31:41 Julia Mino. 31:41 Kieran Mino. I need Mino. 31:44 Julia What's his actual name? 31:46 Kieran Just vote. I mean, just so bad. I also need. 31:51 Tanner Wait, all of them. 31:54 Kieran I need them so bad. I need them so bad. 31:57 Julia What is his name? 32:02 Tanner Sorry? 32:04 Julia Oh, Kihong Lee. That's his name. 32:06 Tanner Oh, no, he died. 32:08 Julia The guy who plays Galley. 32:09 Kieran Hold on and see, that's A little bit of a controversial take because he looks like Sid from Toy Story. 32:16 Julia Will Poulter. 32:17 Tanner No, he says. 32:18 Kieran Wait, hold on. 32:19 Tanner He's sexy. 32:21 Kieran Oh, okay. Okay. Yeah, no, he's sexy. He's sexy. 32:25 Tanner Yeah. No, I think he's very expressive. 32:27 Kieran Yeah. 32:27 Tanner He's also a very good actor, which I also find to be sexy. 32:31 Julia He's in Narnia. 32:31 Kieran Okay, you know what? I, I. 32:33 Tanner He plays Prince Caspian. 32:34 Kieran You're right. 32:34 Julia You're right. 32:35 Tanner He's a Narnia. 32:36 Julia Yeah, he plays Eustace. 32:39 Kieran Wow. 32:40 Julia Narnia. 32:43 Tanner Like the lion. The Witch in the Wardrobe. 32:44 Julia Well, in the Dawn Treader. 32:46 Tanner Oh, I never seen that one. 32:47 Julia What? 32:48 Tanner I only seen the one. I've only seen that one. The one Prince Caspian in. 32:52 Kieran Yeah. 32:52 Julia Eustace. 32:55 Kieran Oh, you know who I've been saying this whole time? 32:57 Tanner Who? 32:58 Kieran Hiccup from how to Train youn Dragon. 33:00 Julia The animated one. Yeah, Yeah, I agree, y'. 33:03 Tanner All. The. The actor. Not that. The one who at Universal. Oh, plays a cup there. Give me. That's not even a celebrity. 33:11 Julia Give me. 33:12 Tanner That's just me. 33:12 Julia Me. 33:13 Kieran That's just a man. 33:14 Tanner That's just a random guy. Sorry, dude. 33:17 Julia The amount of times my camera has glitched. 33:19 Tanner No. 33:20 Kieran Like, a little glitchy girl. 33:21 Julia I'm just too baddie. Like, it's like, can't take it. 33:24 Tanner Are you pulling up? It's Hayden Christensen. That one's for my friend Maddie. Hey, Maddie, this one's for you, girl. 33:33 Julia But, like, not even just him, like, him in general, but him in Star Wars. Oh, my Lord. 33:39 Tanner He's in that one movie where he played, like, emo. 33:44 Julia Also Loki. 33:49 Tanner Loki. 33:50 Kieran Hold on. 33:50 Julia Loki. Literally. Y' all seen. Y' all seen the prequels of Star Wars? Like, the original. Okay. Hey, why aren't we going? I need to see this, man. 33:59 Tanner I'm a little older. 34:00 Julia Qui. 34:00 Tanner Gon Australia. 34:01 Kieran Oh, yeah. 34:04 Tanner But no, I get it. I mean, you. 34:06 Julia If you would watch. Have you seen the prequels? 34:08 Kieran No. 34:08 Julia Oh, he is so, like, soft spoken and, like, you know. Yeah. 34:12 Tanner And then there's. 34:13 Julia Hold on. Obi Wan Kenobi. Hold on. Okay. And Loki. Loki need. This king stance is, like, going a little crazy. 34:22 Tanner What's his name? 34:23 Julia Obi Wan. 34:23 Tanner No. Well, yeah, with the actor. 34:26 Julia No, you don't get it. And you know the scene I could not stop yawning in the third one, where Anakin is, like, he's, like, all, like, burnt up, you know, in the lava, and he's like, you have. 34:37 Tanner I'm supposed to be the chosen one. 34:39 Kieran Yeah. 34:39 Julia Like, all this, he's like, you know, I need both of them. 34:44 Kieran Anyway, I hate to cut this off. Oh, I'm sorry. 34:46 Tanner No, please do. 34:47 Julia You don't like me. 34:48 Kieran Oh, no. I'm just dying to know about Tanner's pre date, pre hookup routine. Recently discovered that there is a routine. Well, actually, I knew this, but, like, there's a full breakdown and I need to. 34:58 Julia I need to. 34:59 Kieran And I feel like you need to educate the people. 35:01 Tanner Yes, Educating the people on the routine. So before a day or before any kind of thing that where I will be meeting a potential partner. 35:10 Kieran Yeah. 35:10 Tanner I. So I am crazy. I am. I have a lot of anxiety. Like, I gotta, like, do it my way. So once, like, the plans have been confirmed, I take about five minutes to have a freak out. I have basically a panic attack of like, oh, my gosh, I'm ugly. Like, what is gonna. I'm gonna die. And then once I get, you know, I get into a good headspace, I'm like, I'm a baddie. Like, who wouldn't want all this? Kieran. Kenneth. I start to blast my music. I pull out my Bose speaker and I blast music and I get in that headspace. I'm playing like Von Dutch by Charlie xcx. I'm playing. 35:50 Kieran It's all upbeat music. 35:51 Tanner It's all like, I gotta get baby Tate McRae never play. I don't like her. Sorry. Sorry to my. Sorry to the Tate McRae fans out there. She not my cup of tea. 36:05 Kieran She's not really mine either. 36:06 Tanner So I'm getting ready. So once the music is blasting, I strip down to just my underwear so I can see what I'm working with. You know what I mean? Like, I gotta have a clear base. 36:16 Julia Yeah. 36:16 Kieran A clean slate. 36:17 Tanner Yes. And then I put on. I have special underwear. 36:20 Kieran Of course. 36:21 Tanner It's my sexy underwear. I put on my sexy underwear. 36:24 Julia I do the same thing. I see the same thing. 36:25 Tanner Cause you gotta have sexy. Because you don't want to be in, like, your granny panties. 36:29 Julia I've been there and an unexpected event occurred and I was. I was wearing cute, like, under things. 36:36 Tanner I always wear my sexy underwear. Even if I don't think, like, anything is gonna happen. Like. Yeah, just in case. Like, I. 36:41 Kieran In case of emergency break. 36:43 Tanner Yes, it's my emergency sexy underwear. 36:45 Kieran Right. 36:46 Tanner So I'm wearing that and then I scrounge through my closet and I usually end up on the same outfit every time. 36:52 Julia Me too. 36:52 Kieran Those white camouflage sweatpants. 36:55 Tanner Yeah. Well, that's if it's a night in. If it's a night out. I usually go for a pair of long jeans. Usually are not short jeans. Dark wash. No, they have to be long. They're like baggy. Like, I love a good baggy jean. 37:06 Kieran They look so good in baggy jeans. 37:07 Tanner Yeah, it's my long legs. And then I usually decide on a lucky brand top. Lucky brand makes the best tops for Twinks for. 37:21 Julia Right. 37:21 Tanner All their tops fit me so beautifully. It like snatches the waist. But it's like still like. Because like my. My struggle is like, I don't think they make a lot of male tops, like shirts to wear that are fun and original. Usually it's like, it's a shirt. I like something a little more. So I usually put on that. And then. Well, I put that on later. I set it on my bed. I'm not wearing it because I gotta get ready. I gotta beat the face. Beat the mug, if you will. I brush my teeth about four times. So, like, this is true, like 30 minute increments. I'm brushing my teeth because I'm so. Could you imagine you're making out with somebody in a gossame breath? 38:01 Julia Okay, hold on. Pause. 38:02 Kieran I have been there. Pause. 38:03 Julia The other day, like, yes, I was. I kissed someone and said, oh, we just went out to dinner. And they were like, your breast sounds like cheese. And I said, I'm actually gonna end it. But he was saying it in like a. 38:15 Tanner Like, like, I want some. Give me that cheese. 38:18 Julia Like Loki. I was like, I don't. 38:22 Kieran Like just trying to string that cheese. 38:23 Julia I don't like that. Oh. 38:24 Tanner Oh. 38:25 Julia But anyway, I'm not seeing him any worse. 38:28 Kieran No. You know what's worse, though? Hold on. I thought I'll let you go back. Is kissing someone with braces and it tastes like metal. 38:34 Julia I have never kissed anyone with braces. 38:36 Tanner Me either. 38:36 Kieran Maybe that's because all my dates were in high school. In middle school, all my relationships were in like when I was like 13 and 15. 38:44 Julia Real. 38:44 Kieran But making out with someone with braces. And then I also had braces at the same. 38:48 Julia Oh, have you ever got. I'm stuck. 38:50 Kieran Yep, that also happened. No, it was cute too, when we both were wearing glasses as well. So it was like, clink, clink. 38:57 Julia I wear actual glasses. Like right now I can't really see much because I'm wearing these glasses. But I like, I think it's cute. Like, I think it's adorable when you have to like, take off your glasses. Like, you know. Anyway, continue. 39:09 Tanner So once I have my. My outfit laid out. 39:12 Kieran Teeth brushed. 39:13 Tanner Teeth brushed. I go into the. The scaping. 39:18 Kieran The scaping. 39:20 Julia So you do a very fresh. 39:21 Tanner Yeah, I like. So what? 39:22 Kieran I clean out the closet? 39:24 Tanner Yes, yes. Because that's also. That's scary. Like, you down. You know, downstairs, you want to be clean. So. 39:29 Julia Yeah, it's true. 39:30 Tanner I do some cleanup downstairs and I take a second shower. Because usually what I do is like, I. If, like the plans are made the night before, then the morning of, I'll take a shower that morning, and then like. Like an hour and a half before I leave, I take a second one. 39:45 Julia Yeah. 39:46 Tanner Because I'm like, I. I use specific kind of body wash when I'm going on a date. 39:51 Julia Yes. 39:51 Tanner Because it's a different scent. It's my method body wash. It's like the vanilla cat. It's like vanilla. 39:58 Kieran The gray bottle. 39:59 Tanner Yes, it's the gray bottle. 39:59 Kieran That's the one. 40:03 Tanner Because I like it. 40:04 Kieran That's just my everyday soap. But yeah. 40:06 Tanner Vanilla and smooth. And so than once. And I don't wash my hair. 40:10 Kieran Okay. 40:10 Tanner Because when I have my hair freshly washed and comb it out, it always looks bad. So I like my hair, like, to look a little messy. 40:18 Kieran Yeah. 40:19 Tanner Because you don't want to look like. You know what I mean? Like, you don't want to look like you're like, I tried really hard, but you want. You don't want to give. Like, I'm a bum. Like, you got to find that middle ground. 40:27 Kieran Efforts effortlessly. Baddie. 40:29 Julia Yes. 40:29 Tanner So then once I have all that, I then go put on the outfit. The day outfit. We're ready. I brush my teeth for the final time. I then put on my. My date. 40:45 Kieran Right. 40:46 Tanner Not perfume. What's it called for a man? Cologne. 40:48 Julia What's it called for a man. 40:49 Tanner For a man. It's my margarita and lime dossier cologne. Because it's like it's a night out. 40:55 Kieran Yeah. 40:55 Julia Like she's feeling. 41:01 Tanner And then I spend. And then I usually get ready, like, ridiculously early. Like, like an hour and a half before anything's happening. Because that last hour and a half. 41:11 Kieran It'S been pacing around the apartment. 41:12 Tanner Pacing around the apartment. Any of my roommates can attest if they know I'm gonna go on a date. 41:17 Kieran It's. 41:17 Tanner I'm walking. I'm like, basically running all throughout the apartment because I'm so scared. 41:23 Kieran And sitting in my room, I usually. I hear it's Kieran. Yeah. Can I come in? 41:29 Tanner Yeah, exactly. Shaky, shaky breath. Like I'm scared No, it's like I'm getting. It's like someone is making me do it against my will. I'm like, that scared. 41:38 Kieran Emma has texted me before saying Tanner's pacing around the apartment. 41:41 Tanner It's bad. Like, I'm like, I'm someone who's so. Because, like, there's like, no, like, adrenaline rush. Like, when you're about to meet up with somebody for the first time. 41:49 Kieran Your heart also goes fast on its own. Don't you have a really fast heart? 41:52 Tanner Oh, but I also have heart condition. 41:54 Kieran Yeah. 41:54 Tanner So there's probably that, too. And then. Yeah, and then I. I get in my car and I drive to the date. And then usually it goes swimmingly because it's freaking me, you guys. Like, that's what I say. I'm gonna be honest. I've never been on a first date, and it been bad. Every first date I've been on. Like, I've been like, okay, yeah. 42:13 Julia Like, yeah, but, like, sometimes that's what I'm saying. 42:16 Tanner I have this experience. 42:17 Julia I, like, am so fun, and I am, like, always myself that, like, I, like, have a great time with whoever I'm with. 42:24 Tanner Because it's basically just a date with myself. 42:26 Julia Right. I'm like, wait. 42:27 Tanner I mean, I'm just going out for some free dinner. 42:29 Kieran Treat myself. 42:30 Julia Treat myself. No, but, like, the only, like, really bad day I went on was the one that after I came to y' all's apartment right after the guy that cried. 42:39 Tanner Oh, my gosh. 42:40 Julia That was. Yeah, that was, like, the only, like, bad date I've been on there. I've been on dates where, like, I didn't, like, click with the person, you know? Yeah. Like, and then I just didn't see them again, and it's fine. But, like, usually I have a good time because I am a good time. 42:52 Tanner Because I'm a flicking great time. 42:57 Kieran Julia, do you have a pre date routine? 42:59 Julia Yeah. So I kind of used to do the same thing, like, get ready really early and pace around and be scared because I'm also very anxious. 43:07 Kieran Just some anxious girlies. 43:09 Julia Just some girlies. But I these days don't do that. I, like, I don't give myself enough time to, like, have time to sit there and be like. I just kind of like. Like, if I'm going on a dinner date these days, it's like, I go to the gym, I get home, I take a shower, and I get dressed, and by the time that happens, they're picking me up, you know? Or like, today I'm going on a Lunch date, and I'm just gonna be at work, and he's gonna come and, like, meet me here, and we're gonna walk there together. Like, it's just kind of like. I just don't put as much pressure on it these days. But, like, I'm still nervous. But, like, I've been on so many dates. Like, so many first dates. 43:45 Tanner I've been on so many freaking days, you guys. Everybody wants to date. 43:49 Julia Everybody wants me. No, but, like, I. I, at this point, have gone on so many first dates that I'm just like. I'm not. I'm just like. Okay. 43:56 Kieran Not phased by it. 43:57 Julia Like, I'm not like you after the crying in the middle of a restaurant thing. I can handle anything. I can genuinely handle anything. Like, lay it on me. I can take it. Well, that was kind of crazy. 44:06 Kieran Lay it on you. 44:08 Tanner Whoa. 44:09 Julia But anyway, so that's how I feel. 44:11 Kieran And that's not in the sense that. 44:14 Julia Yeah. So what's your. Yeah. What's your routine? 44:18 Kieran So it's very extensive, I would imagine, my predate. If I had to guess what it. 44:27 Julia Would be. 44:29 Kieran I'm sure it would be something. I'm sure there'd be a lot of panicking. I'd probably call everyone. 44:33 Julia Well, this is true. Because when we thought you were gonna invite that guy over. 44:36 Kieran Yeah. 44:36 Julia Everybody on the phone, it was. Because that's why. Because I have your. Your deep breathing and, like, preparation, which is why I wanted to. 44:43 Kieran Yeah. I'm at the phase where I have such. Not, like, little, but little experience with having people in my life romantically, that I'm in the stage still where everybody has to hear about it. Because I'm like, I need your advice. And I need your advice. And what do you do? Okay. And you do this. Okay, great. And then it's normal if this happens. Right. And then it's cool if I say this right? Like, Because I just. I got nothing. Like. 45:03 Julia Like. But Loki. 45:05 Kieran I like to think that I'm a pretty good flirter. Like, I'm a pretty good. Yeah. Smooth talker. I, like, once I'm there, I'm fine. I just. I think I look ugly and everything going into something. I think that I smell weird. 45:17 Julia I think that I. 45:18 Kieran They're gonna meet me and be like, wow, she's gross. 45:20 Julia Like, she looks nothing. Like how. Like, I thought. 45:23 Kieran Right? And then. But as soon as I'm, like, when I'm talking to someone, like, there's no stopping me, baby. Like, usually I. Like, there's a lot of people. I flirt with that. I don't even think they realize I'm flirting with them. It's, you know, it's how it's happening. 45:34 Julia I love flirting with people. 45:36 Kieran Yeah. 45:36 Tanner Oh, Hate it. 45:37 Julia Really? 45:38 Tanner I just feel like I'm bad at it. 45:40 Kieran I think I'm pretty good at it. 45:41 Tanner I'm like, let me, like. Okay, I'm gonna flirt with you, Julie. Like, how I do. 45:43 Kieran Okay. 45:44 Julia Hi. Oh, hey. 45:47 Kieran So you're really cool. 45:49 Julia Thank you. So are you. 45:50 Kieran Can I, like. Can I, like, get your Instagram? 45:53 Julia Sure. Julia P. Larson. 45:55 Tanner And then when I get it, I run away and I just run and. 45:58 Julia Do you message them on Instagram? 46:00 Kieran No. Oh, it's like that. 46:01 Tanner Spongebob. Yep. Just. Just a fan. 46:04 Julia Just a fan. Okay. 46:06 Kieran See, I'm someone. I have. Well, I do think, because I've never asked someone for their Instagram romantically. Oh, well, I mean, like, I have, but I haven't. Actually, I have because there is this guy that I was talking to at this event where I knew you were gonna say that. 46:22 Tanner Oh, I love his story. I love this story. 46:25 Kieran Let me tell y' all something. Something. Okay, well, one thing about me, actually, I love talking. I don't love talking about this, but this is a random thing that I. No, this is something different. This is something random that I have and that I am not afraid to write my phone number on receipts. 46:38 Julia Oh, my Lord. 46:40 Kieran I have written my phone, Atlanta and at least 10 different receipts in my life, easily. I've written my friend's phone numbers on receipts. I've written my phone number on their receipts like crazy. Now, how many times have I been texted because of it? Zero know, zero times. 46:56 Julia But it's good. 46:56 Kieran But I have no shame in doing it. No, that's what I'm saying. 47:00 Tanner Nothing is embarrassing. It only gets embarrassing if you put that mindset. 47:05 Julia Yeah. 47:05 Tanner Like, on it. 47:06 Julia If you make it embarrassing, then it is. But, like, yeah, and, like, asking someone out and getting rejected or doing something like that and not getting text back is not embarrassing because it's just like. 47:14 Kieran Oh, yeah, okay, whatever. But, yeah. Yeah, I don't really care to, like, make a fool of myself. Not that it's like, making a fool of myself. I don't really care that much. 47:22 Julia Well, that's. But, like, yeah, that's what I'm saying. Take away the stigma of, like, making a fool of yourself by, like, flirting with somebody in public. Like, sometimes I'd be walking up and being like, hey, like, I think your outfit is really cool. Or, like, you look really cute, you know? Like, because. Because even if somebody walked up to me to say that and, like, not even in a romantic way, I'd be like, right. It's always. 47:40 Tanner It, like, always makes your day. Exactly. 47:44 Kieran Right. 47:44 Julia Yeah. No, I agree in the sense of that. 47:46 Kieran In a sense that. 47:48 Julia Can I. 47:48 Kieran No, go ahead. 47:49 Julia I was just gonna ask, what are our Valentine's plans for this year? 47:52 Kieran Oh, yes. Tanner, do you wanna go first? 47:56 Tanner Yeah, I'll go first. Well, on the 13th, I am having a beautiful Galentine's Day that I am hosting. That I set up. This is a big fat lie. Ms. Beautiful Kieran is hosting a Galentine's Day in our apartment. 48:12 Kieran I am. 48:13 Tanner And I will be attending that on the 13th. And then on the 14th, my lovely friend, Ms. Josie Bolin, is graciously allowing us, me and a couple friends to spend the night at her house in. In her family home. So that's what I'll be doing. We're gonna bake some cookies. Gonna have so much fun. 48:32 Julia Some cookies. 48:32 Kieran That's cute. I have to say about this Galentine's thing, it's turning into more of everybody and their partner is coming, and then it's. 48:38 Julia Which I don't love. 48:40 Kieran I. I was really looking at it today because. So, my friend. I think that there's. 1, 2, 3, 4. 48:51 Tanner No couples allowed. 48:52 Kieran That's what I'm saying. Maybe five sets of couples coming or sets of people, like, coming with someone. 48:57 Tanner If you date somebody, get out. 49:00 Kieran And at first, it was like, I invited them both because I'm friends with both the people in the relationship, like, separately. And so I was like, no, like, obviously. Or it's like someone that likes. Like, they've been dating them for, like. Like, I know them, I'm friends with. Like, it's fine. And it's slowly turning into more couples or people coming with someone than singles. 49:18 Julia They are not. 49:20 Kieran And so I was like, oh, I need to get a date to my own Valentine's party that I'm hosting. Like, because it's a Galentine, it's like. 49:27 Tanner It'S not a Valentine's party. A Valentine's party is couples. A Galentine's historically, is single or just. 49:35 Kieran The gals, at least. Like, again, if I'm feeling friends with both the people in the relationship, that's totally fine. 49:40 Julia Because we're the girls. 49:41 Kieran Like, it's like, it's fine. And they're also. 49:43 Tanner We're all having to be gay couples, right? 49:45 Kieran Girls and gays. The Galentine. The Galentines, if you will. But now it's turning into like. Someone else just texted me today, and they're like, hey, can I bring someone? I was like, no. 49:57 Julia Are they a romantic partner? 49:58 Kieran No. And it's this. It's this guy. There's one of my guy friends texting me if they could bring the girl. 50:03 Julia And I was like, who? 50:04 Tanner Who? You got a spill now, Ian? 50:06 Kieran No. 50:07 Tanner Oh, no way. Is it Ian, no offense to you, but it's not you. 50:11 Julia Based on the conversations that we had last night, ain't no way. 50:16 Kieran I can tell you guys when we're not recording on the podcast. 50:19 Tanner Top secret, you guys. 50:21 Julia Well, I'm. I'm bringing someone, but not romantically. I'm bringing one of my. One of my best friends is a straight man who is socially awkward. 50:31 Kieran He's fun, though. Oh, he's country. 50:34 Julia No, he's country, but he's. He's a liberal. 50:36 Tanner He's a liberal cowboy. 50:39 Julia Yeah. He's so excited. I was like, okay, honey, you gotta wear red or pink or white. And he was like, okay, I have a lot of red in my closet. Like, I already know what I'm gonna wear. And then he was like, do you want me to pick you up? And I was like, yes. 50:48 Tanner And I was. 50:48 Julia And it's gonna be. 50:49 Kieran It's gonna be great. 50:50 Julia It's gonna be great. 50:50 Kieran He's gone. 50:51 Julia He's. He's silly. 50:52 Kieran He asked. He asked for us to connect on LinkedIn. Like, that's how. Like, brother. He didn't ask for, like, a social. He asked for my LinkedIn. He's like, Are we connections on LinkedIn? 51:01 Julia He doesn't do social media. LinkedIn is. Yes. 51:04 Kieran It just. It just makes me laugh. 51:05 Julia He's like, I love that, man. It's like. And like, I'm good friends with the girl that he's like, low key. Like, they're about to start dating. So, like, it's like, we're all, like, good friends. 51:16 Kieran Oh, what's her face? Yeah, it's. 51:19 Julia I can't. I. Like, we'll talk. Yeah. 51:21 Kieran Anyways, in terms of my Valentine's plans, in terms of so hosting the Galentine's party, I'm puppet. Fun fact about me, Valentine's is in my top three for favorite holidays, followed by St. Patrick's Day, which is also coming up. This is me dropping to my roommate right now that I want to host Something for St. Patrick's Day. 51:36 Tanner Hey. And this is me dropping to my roommate that I was gonna ask to do the same thing because I also wanted to host. I wanted to host. 51:42 Julia Yeah. I like that. 51:43 Kieran We'll be talking about that actually super soon, because St. Patrick's Day is in the three months. Yeah. Less than a month. 51:48 Julia Three weeks. 51:48 Tanner Yeah. Or maybe four. 51:50 Kieran No, it's a month. 51:51 Tanner It's a month. 51:51 Kieran It's a month. Well, it just depends on when anyways. Depends on when we're gonna do it. You get the point. 51:56 Tanner Podcast. Just us playing the party. 51:57 Kieran Yeah. 51:57 Tanner We're like. 51:57 Kieran Okay, so I'm picking out this theme. Yes. I'm hosting a Valentine's party. Very excited. I've been buying a lot of decorations. I bought an outfit for it. I need to show you. I bought a shirt and I bought a dress, too. Yes. 52:10 Tanner I'll wear what you don't wear. 52:11 Kieran Perfect. I'll give you the dress. 52:13 Tanner Awesome. 52:15 Kieran Yes. Very excited about this. I love Valentine's Day. We're gonna have heart shaped pasta. We're gonna get heart shaped chicken nuggets. We're gonna have chicken nugget. There's gonna be. 52:24 Tanner There's gonna be. 52:24 Kieran There's so many things. My mom. My mom bought some treats that I'll put out. Tweets, some. I think it's like chocolate covered marshmallows and some, like, cookies and I don't know. It'll be fun on Valentine's Day itself. I believe. Me and Julia are gonna go do a breakfast brunch. A breakfast brunch. And it's gonna be like a dress up. Like, I want photos. I want everybody to feel jealous that they're not with me. Then I'm going to the basketball game. 52:48 Julia That. 52:48 Kieran That stay that day with a guy, technically, who. 52:52 Julia Oh, never mind. He listens to the podcast. 52:53 Kieran He does listen to the podcast. 52:54 Julia Anyway. 52:54 Tanner Can we shout him? 52:55 Kieran No, Shout out Ian. Yay. 52:59 Tanner A different one. A different one. 53:00 Kieran A different Ian. 53:01 Tanner Not redhead. 53:02 Kieran This is not redhead Ian. This is the other Ian. Every time I talk about basketball. 53:06 Julia This is rowing club Ian. 53:07 Tanner This is. 53:08 Kieran That's how he rowed. 53:09 Julia This is what he does for fun. 53:11 Kieran I really hope that's one of the promotional clips. 53:14 Julia Hey, Ian. 53:17 Kieran I won't be doing that. I am going to the basketball game with him. He better ask me to be his valentine. 53:25 Tanner But that's what Ian. 53:27 Kieran If I'm gonna be spending my Valentine's Day, it's fine. I'm kidding, Ian. 53:32 Tanner I'm telling you right now. 53:33 Julia Hey, hey. 53:36 Tanner Ian. 53:37 Kieran Ask her. 53:37 Tanner Ian, you want to ask her so bad. I just do. I just really want to. She's right there. 53:41 Julia Look at her. Look at her. Isn't she beautiful? 53:46 Tanner Okay, sorry. 53:48 Kieran Anyway, so I'm going to the basketball gift with Ian and then me and Julia are going to my parents house after that for dinner. Because my parents always do something for dinner on Valentine's Day and they always give me and my siblings and whomever I bring home with me being my friends little Valentine's. 54:04 Julia I'm sorry. 54:05 Kieran So she did buy you some stuff? I was there and she got it. 54:08 Julia Well, when I left last night, she was like, I'll see you next weekend, sweetie. And I said, yeah, you will. 54:12 Kieran She's very excited. She, I went over, she might be making breakfast too. It's either pizza or it's gonna be breakfast. And I'm hoping it's the pizza. 54:19 Julia I'm also hoping it's the pizza, but I will eat the breakfast as well. 54:22 Kieran I think she's talking about making chocolate whipped cream filled croissants and like quiche and stuff. 54:29 Tanner And you're bringing the extras home? 54:30 Kieran Yeah, I'll be taking it. No, but when I, I went to help clean up yesterday cuz were there for the super bowl. And she's like, I just love when you have your friends over. I love hearing you laugh and I love like she also like your mom. 54:41 Tanner Is like so worried about you. 54:43 Kieran My parents like have told me more than once that they love the people that I surround myself with in my life. We were just thinking about like you have such good friends and like the people you bring home are like just such good people. Like they always make you laugh and they love you and they support you and like, you know, like I obviously have drama in my life, but I don't really have that much. 55:01 Julia Not me. 55:02 Tanner No. 55:03 Kieran Like, you know, it's every now and then with something but I don't really have that much friend drama and I, I pride myself and I feel like I have really good like the people I'm friends with are good people. 55:12 Julia It's true. 55:12 Tanner Wait, I'm surprised we haven't talked about this yet. 55:15 Kieran Okay. 55:17 Tanner Kieran does have a Valentine's Day. Her mom told her to just call somber up. 55:23 Julia Oh yes. 55:24 Tanner I don't know how we haven't talked about this. 55:26 Kieran My mom did tell me. She's like, you should just DM Somber. Like why not just call. 55:31 Tanner Let's just call Taylor up. 55:33 Kieran No, because she was like, he's cute. He's your age. 55:35 Julia Age. 55:36 Kieran And he's like six foot six or something like that. 55:39 Tanner You can say six, seven. Sorry. How to do it? I had to do it. 55:44 Kieran No, also I need to address it again. I keep touching my nose. It's because my nose ring is flipping out. 55:49 Tanner She's picking her nose. She's got crazy bones. 55:53 Julia Ew. Like, rotten. 55:57 Kieran Anyhow, so, yes, those are my Valentine's plans. We're gonna eat pizza, and I think we're making chocolate lava cake. Maybe bus. Oh, my mom's gonna give us Valentine's. I already know what mine is because she gets me the same thing every year. And it's chocolate covered strawberries, and I'm so excited. It's one of my favorite desserts ever. Chocolate covered strawberries and caramel apples are two of my favorite desserts of all time, and I always forget about them. Oh, we will be wrapping up soon. I forgot Tanner has class. 56:21 Julia Do you want to hear about. 56:23 Kieran Yeah, no, I'm not done. No, I'm just saying in the next. 56:25 Julia Like, yes, of course. Well, obviously, I'll be going to brunch with here and dressing up and slaying. And then I text my friend the other day, and I was like, I need to meet your cats. Like, I need to. I need to pet a cat right now. And she's like, okay, well, the only days are I'm for your. Blah, blah. And I was like, how about Saturday? And she's like, okay, she has one of those naked cats. She has one of those. And then she has this other cat named Liana who has no teeth because she's an old lady. And I just am so excited to just. Just hang out. And this person that I'm friends with is actually the funniest person I've ever met in my life. Like, actually hilarious. So we suck. 57:04 Tanner We're not funny, you guys. 57:05 Julia Like, I've actually been fake laughing at you guys this whole time. I'm laughing at you, not with you. Anyway, so she's really funny, and I'm excited to hang out with her. And then we're going to Kieran's house. 57:13 Tanner And. 57:16 Julia Hanging out with her mom and her dad and I guess her sibling. Okay. 57:20 Kieran Yeah. 57:20 Julia The fact that your younger brother is in a successful relationship at the age of what, 14. 57:26 Kieran He's 14. 57:27 Julia And does he listen to the podcast? 57:29 Kieran No. 57:30 Julia Can I speak on? That boy is gay, and I really believe that. And he has a girlfriend. And I, like, I. I found out that he's been seeing this girl yesterday, and I said, that boy's gay. We all know that boy's gay. Like, we all know that boy's gay. So I don't really know what's going on. 57:50 Kieran I am choosing not to speak on this topic, because my parents listen to the podcast girl. 57:55 Julia Amy, I know you agree with me. 57:56 Kieran She was only talking about it last night. 57:58 Julia My queen. I know. You know. 58:00 Kieran I know. 58:00 Tanner Amy would love her gay son. She would just love it. 58:04 Julia She just loves him secretly. 58:05 Kieran She wants a gay child. 58:06 Julia No. Well. And that's valid. But anyway. So actually crazy that your younger brother who is gay, has a girlfriend before we have a boyfriend. 58:16 Kieran Maybe canoodling too much low key. 58:19 Julia Aren't your mom saying she like. 58:20 Kieran Yes. 58:20 Julia Walk in on them? 58:23 Kieran Not like in on them. Just walked in on them. Like, my dad found them locked in my bathroom. 58:29 Tanner They had to pee together. 58:32 Kieran Their excuse was that they were trying to see each other's height in the mirror, but the door had to be closed. 58:36 Julia That's it. 58:37 Tanner I. Hey. 58:38 Julia Oh, God bless. I have my prescription ready. Campus health. Okay. 58:44 Kieran Yeah. 58:46 Julia Wow. Yeah, so I actually. 58:49 Tanner Wow. Hey, people. 58:50 Julia Hey, people. Okay, let's. 58:52 Kieran Do we have time? 58:54 Julia Oh, let's do it. Yeah. We're at 58 minutes. Let's do each one share a quick notes app, and then we're done. Okay. 58:59 Tanner Awesome. Awesome. 59:00 Kieran Hit it. 59:00 Tanner I'll go first. Okay. In my notes app, something that I like to keep is a list of future Halloween costumes. 59:06 Kieran Yeah, I'm just gonna list off a couple. 59:08 Tanner Couple costume idea. Little gay men. And night at the museum. 59:12 Julia If you get it. 59:12 Tanner You get it. 59:13 Kieran I love those guys. 59:14 Tanner Troye, Sivan. 59:15 Kieran Yeah, yeah. 59:16 Tanner Fiona Gallagher. 59:17 Kieran Yeah, yeah. 59:18 Tanner Horse. But one of us is the butt and the other is the head. Yeah, yeah, I'm the butt. Hello. 59:25 Kieran Well, yeah. 59:25 Julia Well, yeah. 59:26 Tanner Britney Spears. Nosferatu. 59:29 Kieran Yeah. 59:29 Tanner Fergie. But when she had. When she peed her pants on stage that one time. 59:32 Julia Okay. 59:33 Tanner Sheila and Frank from Shameless. Wallace and Gromit. 59:37 Kieran Yeah. 59:37 Tanner And then Uma Thurman and Kill Bill. 59:39 Kieran Yeah. 59:41 Julia Slay. Thank you Notes out. 59:43 Kieran Go. Let me scrounge up a notes app. 59:48 Julia Well, I can go while you're thinking. Yeah. Mine is if you sit right next to me in an empty space and there's seats everywhere else. Yeah, you're canceled. I'm. I'm coming after you because I was sitting in tally this morning waiting for my food. They put a bunch of new seats in tally, and I was like, wait, this is lit. So I sat down. It's like, empty in there. Because it was right after I got out of the gym, so it was early. And this man just sits right next to me. Like, actually right next to me. And I said, be actually. So for real, why are you doing it? Like, get like, get away. 01:00:14 Kieran It's like when it's an empty parking lot and you, like, someone parks right next to you. 01:00:18 Julia Right. 01:00:19 Kieran Hands on site. Anyway, mine, something that I've been sitting with recently is that people have been disrespecting my time. 01:00:24 Julia Look, it's true. 01:00:26 Kieran People have been really disrespecting my time lately, and it's been really getting me good. I. I don't know what it is. I mean, I do know what it is, but something that really grinds my gears probably top three things is when people disrespect my time. Like, when people, like, are super late to something, they're late consistently. They cancel last minute. 01:00:45 Julia Or they don't even, like, text you back. 01:00:47 Kieran They don't text me back. They will say, we're gonna do something, and then I go to confirm and I get hit with silence. They show up 30 minutes late to something when I already. I only have, like, an hour. 01:00:57 Julia Right. 01:00:57 Kieran To spare. 01:00:58 Julia Right. And waiting. 01:00:59 Tanner Lack of respect. 01:01:00 Kieran Lack of respect. It's just recently, in the past couple weeks, I've been hit one after the other, and it's been really getting me good. 01:01:06 Tanner And, you know who you are. 01:01:08 Kieran They don't. They're not. 01:01:09 Tanner Oh, and you don't know who you are. 01:01:10 Julia You are. 01:01:12 Kieran They also don't listen to the podcast, but. 01:01:14 Julia Fake fans. 01:01:15 Kieran Yeah, it just. It's been getting me good recently, and it's just, hey, guys. Text back. Hey, guys. 01:01:21 Julia No, don't beg someone for their time or attention. Don't do it. 01:01:26 Kieran Don't do it. And on the topic of reaching out, reaching back, people should start reaching out to me more to hang out with me, because I'm tired of being the person to ask to hang out. Thank you. 01:01:35 Julia Thank you. 01:01:36 Kieran There's this one person who I'm really close friends with that I have to keep begging to hang out. 01:01:39 Tanner Call them out. Unless you don't want to. 01:01:41 Kieran No, I won't. It's me. It's us. It's not Julio. It's very easy to convince Julia to hang out with me, and I'm grateful for that. Oh, can we also do a quick something that we love about each other? 01:01:53 Julia Really quick? 01:01:54 Tanner Yeah. 01:01:54 Kieran In the spirit of Valentine's Day, now that we've been talking so negatively about everything in the world, we're gonna say something nice about each other very quickly. 01:02:00 Julia Okay. 01:02:02 Kieran I don't want to go first, though. 01:02:03 Julia Oh, you go first. 01:02:03 Tanner I'll go first. Something that I love about Julia is Julia has one of the funniest personalities I've Ever met. Like, I love when Julia goes, nasty, you're nasty. And she means it as a compliment, and it's beautiful. 01:02:19 Kieran When Julia says, you're slaying me, that's the biggest compliment I'll ever receive because she only says that for really funny things. It's true. 01:02:24 Tanner And something that I love about Kieran is me and Kieran have a beautiful bond. Like, truly, I could not. I don't think that I could function as a person without Kieran by my side. Anytime I need something, I'm knocking on her door. Anytime that I need any advice, I'm going to Kieran. Kieran truly is one of the greatest friends that you could ever have. And I'm so grateful to be blessed. 01:02:46 Kieran With a friend like Kieran McLean me when I cry. Okay, okay. 01:02:52 Tanner Now it's your turn to say nice things about me. 01:02:53 Julia Yeah. Okay, I'll go. One thing that I love about you, Tanner, is low key, similar to what you said about me. I think you are so funny, and I appreciate how genuine you are. And I don't know, like, you're just so easy to have a conversation with that I appreciate that. Like, I've never. I'm never, like, oh, I have to hang out with this, like. Like, guy that, like, is, like, my friend's roommate. Like. But, like, you're my friend, and I think you pretty nasty, so I love. 01:03:24 Tanner Being nasty, you guys. Yeah. 01:03:26 Kieran Julia did ask if Tanner could be the guest, because I text her. I was like, we need a guest for the Valentine's episode. She's like, what about Tanner? He's pretty nasty. 01:03:31 Julia It's pretty. That is exactly what I said, actually. 01:03:33 Tanner Well, she read it to me. She read me that text. 01:03:36 Julia Yep. Something that I love about Kieran. 01:03:39 Tanner Something. 01:03:40 Julia I think it's pretty nasty as well. And. And I just. I really. 01:03:45 Tanner It's pretty nasty. 01:03:46 Kieran That's the whole compliment. 01:03:47 Julia It's pretty nasty. I don't know. I just. I think I am very blessed to have found you. I think when I think about. I think a lot, apparently, because I just said think eight times in that sentence. But when I think about being in college and having, like, college friends and then, like, oh, my God, that it is my college friend right there. It right there. And I think about when we graduate and we grow up and when I get married and when I have kids, it's gonna be my kid's aunt, and it's gonna be in my wedding, and. 01:04:15 Kieran Julia's already gonna be one of my bridesmaids. Like, Julie's gonna Be one of my. I'm gonna have multiple maids of honor, and Julia's gonna be one of them. 01:04:21 Julia Well, yes. Well, yes. Yeah. I don't know. I just, like, I'm grateful to have found you, girl. I really am. I just think it. I just think it is so funny that we started work on the same day. 01:04:30 Kieran Yup. 01:04:31 Julia And then now we. We have a podcast together. And, like, we're gonna be in each other's weddings. And just like, that is just. 01:04:36 Kieran No, you're one of my best friends. 01:04:37 Julia No, it is. It's such a blessing to have found you like that. Like, the Lord really sent you to me. He just sat you down on that desk and said, for you. Her. And I said, yeah, it. 01:04:48 Kieran I love being called an it last night. 01:04:51 Julia And Ian was like, did you just call her it? And I was like, I've had to. 01:04:54 Kieran Clarify them to more than one people that my pronouns are not it. Julia just refers to me as it is. 01:04:59 Julia Because it's nasty. 01:04:59 Kieran Because it's nasty. 01:05:00 Julia Anyway, your turn. 01:05:02 Kieran Something I love about Tanner. I love Tanner's passion in the sense that, like, if I'm upset about something, Tanner is immediately, like, what's going on? Like, let's talk about it. Like. Like, it's such, like, let me give you advice. Like, but it's, like, so heartfelt and so genuine and so passionate. Like, when Tanner's in a good mood, it's with so much love. And I'll say not like lust. Like, lust, but, like, you know, like, so much like, love and passion and spirit, and it's just, like, genuine. Like, it's very. Like, Tanner feels all of his emotions very genuinely, and it makes sense. Me feel so much better because. Well, not, like. Not like that. I just, like. 01:05:36 Julia No, I. I know what you're saying. 01:05:37 Kieran It makes me feel, like, so, like, seen and also so appreciated. I feel like I can finally, like, be some, like, my part of myself. Cuz, like, me and Tanner just are. Like, we just. 01:05:43 Julia We just are. 01:05:44 Kieran We can be whoever we want to be, and we do it 100%. And Tanner, someone who I can 100% be myself with. Because Tanner is not one to judge. Tanner's one to take that and amplify it. 01:05:52 Tanner Tanner is. 01:05:53 Julia Love it, love it. 01:05:55 Kieran So I love that about Tanner. Tanner makes me feel like I can be whoever I want to be. 01:06:02 Julia Just so sweet. Julia. 01:06:04 Kieran There's not enough nice things I could say about Julia. 01:06:06 Julia I can't think of a single thing. 01:06:08 Kieran There's so many I could. I could be Here forever. Julia is so funny. She's so caring. She's so supportive. Julia is genuinely my other half. We get called twins a lot and it's like, people call us the same, like, each other's names. 01:06:20 Julia It's true. 01:06:21 Kieran We act very similar. It's true. Like, we are a copy of each other in a lot of forms, but. 01:06:25 Julia Like, a cocky of each other. 01:06:26 Kieran No, Julia is my best friend. 01:06:28 Julia It's true. 01:06:28 Kieran I could not be here without Julie. I would not be standing. 01:06:30 Julia It's true. 01:06:31 Kieran So I love Julia. 01:06:33 Tanner That's just so beautiful, you guys. 01:06:36 Kieran And I. I just love this podcast, too. I think this has been a really great opportunity for us to. 01:06:40 Julia I agree. 01:06:41 Kieran Express ourselves and, like, it's just a fun outlet and it's such a random. I'll say. 01:06:45 Julia Side note, I was looking at our. This document because we put all of our, like, outlines for all the episodes on it, and we have done a lot. We have a lot. And I'm very proud of that. That and also I've learned so much. I just. Just looking at Taylor in the camera and he's just like, I. 01:07:01 Tanner We. 01:07:02 Julia I don't know. This has just been so fun. I've. I've made a lot of connections through this and I've learned a lot, and it's just. It's just a fun old time. 01:07:09 Kieran Somebody asked us the other day, like, do you ever feel like you're, like, exposing yourself or, like, you know, like, exploiting yourself for content, basically? And honestly? No. 01:07:16 Julia Like, no. 01:07:18 Kieran Everything that I talk about in these episodes are things that I, A, want to talk about or B, need to, like, obviously, do I want to sit here and talk about how I was really depressed last year and share that side of myself with, you know, however many amount of people who listen to it. Probably not. 01:07:30 Tanner It's a little. 01:07:31 Kieran Millions. 01:07:32 Tanner Millions of viewers. 01:07:33 Kieran Yeah. It's a little awkward. It's kind of weird because I'm. It's a parasocial relationship, but, like, at the same time, like, it's something that I should talk about and something that's important to me and something that, you know, like, I don't get to really share outside anywhere else but here. 01:07:45 Julia I agree. I, like, sometimes I'm like, people, like, text me something or say something. I'm like, oh, my God, I forgot that you listened to that. I can't believe I talked about that. 01:07:52 Kieran Yeah. 01:07:53 Julia Like, because I'm so open and honest about my dating life on this podcast. Podcast, I sometimes get people that are like, are, like, they ask me about it or like, I've been on dates where the person I'm on it with is like, so I was listening to your podcast and I heard you say that, and I was like, that's like low key crazy. But also that's what I wanted the podcast to be. Is. 01:08:14 Kieran Is. 01:08:15 Julia Let me, like, speak clearly and tell you the truth of what I experienced, because you are not alone in anything that you do. Like, genuinely, we've all been there. Queen. 01:08:24 Kieran Like, in a campus of 40, 000 people. You're not the one. 01:08:27 Julia We're not all. We are all in it together. Yeah. Yeah. No, like, I. I will always be open and honest about what I do because I don't ever want anybody to be ashamed of anything that they do. Unless it's like, you know, freaked up. 01:08:41 Tanner Shameful. 01:08:41 Julia Yeah, don't feel shame. Don't feel guilt. 01:08:44 Kieran You know, you should never feel ashamed about following us on the podcast at TWTS Pod. Our individual accounts are linked in the bio as well. Yes. Make sure to follow Tanner at tanner13z. 01:08:58 Tanner And also shout out to Epsilon Ada. 01:09:01 Julia NC State Rush App Ada. 01:09:03 Kieran Oh, wow, we're gonna bleep that. I'm kidding. 01:09:06 Tanner I'm kidding. 01:09:07 Kieran Yes. Make sure to follow us on the Instagram, ask us any questions or dms, any topics you want to talk about. Tell us your favorite highlight from the episode or just like, our content so that it gets promoted. Other people listen to it. So. 01:09:19 Julia Because we're. 01:09:21 Kieran Because they don't always get it right. Bye, guys. Transcribed by https://fireflies.ai/ We Love Love.mp3 Meeting created at: 12th Feb, 2026 - 10:18 AM