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Hello friends.

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I'm Kendra Losee at kendralosee.com
and you've tuned into the Invisible

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to Invisible podcast where
unapologetically driven business

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owners share their journeys from
hidden gems to industry leaders.

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Together we'll uncover the secrets, mental
shifts, and business strategies that

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turn hidden gems into undeniable forces.

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Hit that subscribe
button and let's dive in.

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Our guest today is sales coach
and trainer Justine Beauregard.

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Welcome, Justine.

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Thank you so much for having me.

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Absolutely.

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I'm excited you're here.

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For those of you listening, Justine
has been a sales coach and trainer

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since 2008, helping hundreds of
small businesses and entrepreneurs

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increase their income up to 22, 300%.

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And have fun doing it.

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Is that right?

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It is right.

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That individual client went
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monthly recurring revenue.

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Okay.

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We're diving into this for sure.

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So before we do, and before you dive
into that story, I would love to hear

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about your business and what you do.

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How do you help people
as a sales coach and

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trainer?

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Yeah.

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So I mean, it's pretty straightforward
when you think about sales, I

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teach people how to sell things
and more things to more people.

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And I think a lot of people when
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like a slicked back hair style
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a little, you know, ill fitting
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like a very masculine sales image.

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And it's funny, because I will often use
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I talk about sales and how brilliant it
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the sales modeling that car dealerships
use and different approaches and

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strategies to sell in the same exact
scenario, but in a different way.

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So I help people not just understand.

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Sales dynamics and sales psychology
and what to say and how to overcome

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objections and all of that, but it's
almost taking it back a layer and talking

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about what is your ideal sales process
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and going, well, what exactly is your
offer in the thing that you're selling?

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Because sometimes you're not
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You just don't know what to say when
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you don't know how to navigate those
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really authentic and that feels easy
and seamless and that's part of it.

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But a lot of the time, it's just
that we don't have a process.

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We don't have a set process.

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So usually when you are selling
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trouble doing it, it's not just.

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the sales process.

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And it's not just knowing what to say.

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It's also what you're selling and
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structured and all of those things.

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And so I help people kind
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sticking point in the process?

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Is it that you're not clear and
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sell it and feel like it's a steal?

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Or is it because you lack a process?

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Or is it because you're just having a
lot of trouble overcoming objections?

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And for some people, It's
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It's that they have no, and especially
for your listeners, because they're

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self proclaimed hidden gems that are
trying to be trusted leaders, for those

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people, it's lead gen and demand gen
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where and how to meet people.

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And that's an interesting part of my
background as a former, you know, someone

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startups, I kind of bridged the gap.

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between marketing and sales and
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So if you can nail some of that messaging
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offer sooner, then by the time you get on
sales calls, you're objection free, right?

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And there's no friction in the
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people already want to buy it.

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So it's a variety of factors,
but we work on all of it.

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I love that.

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And I have so many questions for
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about how you started this business.

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Tell me a little, you mentioned
you're a marketing manager.

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Tell us a little bit about your
journey to starting your business.

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And then I'm going to just a teaser.

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I want to also dive into the
decision to name it after yourself.

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Yeah.

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So my entrepreneurial journey really
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My maternal grandmother
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She was one of the founders
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She had her own company in the tech space.

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She had real estate investments.

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So she was really like a go getter.

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She had five kids.

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Like just, Totally went all in on
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she was just an amazing role model.

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And I remember when I was about 17,
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actually passed away five days apart.

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And I remember sitting with her
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you know, I know I don't say.

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Well, I know we don't talk as often
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busy woman and we didn't spend a ton
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to shadow her at work a lot and I
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I would always be like, can I come to
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And I would pretend to be one
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carry around a little notepad.

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And you know, I had like lemonade stands
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and all sorts of the fun things that
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right before she passed away, we had
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anyone's going to follow in my footsteps.

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It's going to be you.

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And I think you have the potential
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I see the spirit of entrepreneurship
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that as much as possible because
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Fast forward to her passing away,
my mom being a single mom, needing

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to make money and kind of ingraining
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One, you can be anything.

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And anyone that you want to be, but
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to pay the bills and you need to have
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not be able to provide for yourself.

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I don't want you to be
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So I, she raised me to be very
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So fast forward from my corporate
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tried my hand at a lot of different
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I did a little dabbling in publishing.

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I did a little dabbling in
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I got pregnant with my first son.

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I have two boys and I just remember
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I've wanted to climb the corporate
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VP level and all of these things.

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And now that I'm pregnant, I really
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And I had this conversation
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not start your business early?

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Because I had always had the dream of
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firm in my fifties and going that route.

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And I was like, okay, I guess
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And like most people, it was not
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I had no sales for the first
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was good at helping others with.

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I was terrible at helping myself with.

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And that is when I started.

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To think about, okay,
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And I made the decision to
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And once I did that and hired mentors
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the things that I had helped other people
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was when my business really took off.

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And from year one to year two
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And my clients started to get great
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client example that I told you about.

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I've had hundreds of clients since.

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Some of them have gone from zero to
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Some of them have gone
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So, I've had big transitions and, and
most of the people that I work with.

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Are exactly who you have described
your audience on this podcast to be.

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They are the people who
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They have a gift.

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They have something within
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They're really smart.

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They know how to do what
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But when it comes to the sales
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They get uncomfortable.

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They think it's something
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They shy away from it.

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And instead they pour their energy into
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productive or that they just enjoy and
they don't actually hit their goals.

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So my job is to bring the fun back
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they can actually enjoy how they grow.

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You said so many different things there.

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I'm like, okay, okay, remember this.

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What, first of all, honestly, what a gift
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That early.

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I think that growing up a lot
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generation by generation, but a lot
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female business owners, a female
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spirit because there just wasn't an
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And to be able to see that as a role
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such an early age, that's incredible.

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Yeah, I feel really lucky.

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And being able to pull that in
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So when you decided to go all
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decided to start your business.

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What, let's talk, I want to
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Because both of us have
businesses named after ourselves.

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What was your reason for doing that?

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Most people buy me because I am in.

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the intangible space of services.

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So most people, when, you know,
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want, I want what you're doing.

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I want to talk to you.

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And it actually wasn't an easy decision.

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And it wasn't really a decision
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For many years, I've hidden behind
stock photography and a company name.

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When I started my business,
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It wasn't my name.

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This was only a recent rebrand in the
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actually started calling my company what
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my next level of growth looked
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that represented me in the brand.

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It was never my intention
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That was like a pretty big leap.

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But this agency that I hired was like,
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And, you know, I think it needs to be you.

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And the more of my clients that I talked
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research I did for, you know, that whole
branding project, everybody was like,

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Well, it's, we're really buying Justine.

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We're buying your knowledge.

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We're buying, you know,
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And so as I started to think about it
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with this business in the longterm?

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Because that's going to
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If I want to end up building an agency
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to keep it a company name, right.

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Versus really going in.

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So About two years ago, I started
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on the consulting side, more on the
coaching training side, which means when

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people meet me, they're going to go.

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Justine Beauregard.

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She's the one I want to work with.

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She's the one that I'm hiring, which
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if I get hit by a bus tomorrow,
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Because it is me.

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But that's also.

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Thank you.

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A truth that I'm not going to
escape either way because I

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don't want to grow an agency.

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I like the model and the structure of my
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one on one and I love for it to be me.

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So in that way, it felt like a natural,
you know, this is what I want to do long

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So it just felt like
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I love this and because it's
something I've gone through

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myself and I think that a lot of.

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People that I talked to and a
lot of business owners that I

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talked to are struggling with
the very same thing, right?

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Because it's really really easy to hide
behind a logo and behind hide behind a

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different company name And it's easy to
use stock photography It is hard or it can

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be hard to decide to show up as yourself
and show up on video and show up with

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your face on your website and on social
media and your emails and your content.

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What made you, was it the branding
agency that made you decide to make

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that change and start showing up?

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As yourself on your own face
on everything, or was it

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another combination?

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I mean, like the agency definitely
pushed me further than I had been

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pushed before in that direction.

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But just before that time, I had started
working with some assistants and they were

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all like, we're seeing trends on Instagram
and, you know, LinkedIn and all these

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places like people want to see your face.

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They want you to go live on video.

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They want you to do reels.

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And I remember a couple of years ago,
I created my first reel and it was

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about how I didn't want to create reels
because I was like, no, I don't want to

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be on video and I don't want to dance.

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I don't want to have like things.

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I want to just be myself and
I don't want to have to use

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gimmicks to try to reach people.

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And I don't think I need a huge
audience to hit my sales goals.

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I'm proof that I, you don't need that.

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buT.

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Just thinking about all the
different layers of hiring people

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to work for me, outsourcing some
of my projects to other people.

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And everyone's telling me the same thing.

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My clients are saying, I bought you.

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I didn't buy like generic
sales coaching or program.

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I really bought access to your brain and
your process and the way that you think.

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And all of that kind of solidified
into, okay, they're really buying me.

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And I can't let my discomfort of posting
pictures of myself on my homepage,

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pull me away from building trust in
a very important way for my brand.

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And it's certainly not for everybody.

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And I think there are, you know,
going back to the example from before.

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There are pathways where maybe you are
certifying people in a process and you're

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leaning have a heavier on your IP or like
building out some sort of agency model or

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have an aggressive goal to be able to sell
your business and three to five years.

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And it doesn't make
sense to brand it as you.

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But for me, it was actually a
really empowering lesson to be

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like, Yeah, I need to, as you said,
show up authentically as myself.

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And I think I told myself
for many years, Who am I?

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My story is not interesting.

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I'm just a normal person who lives in
a normal town with a normal family.

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There's nothing.

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Stand out about me.

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That's what I believed.

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And then every time I do a podcast
interview, it's inevitable.

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People go, wow, your story is so
fascinating, or I love that you grew

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up with a strong maternal figure.

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And for me, it's just that's
just, that was my Nana.

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I don't, that doesn't seem remarkable,
but to many, everyone has a story

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that's remarkable in some ways.

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Right.

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I think that's one of the most amazing
things is that I speak to these

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primarily women, but some men too.

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And they're like, Oh, I've done
all these things, but that's

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not really that was before.

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It doesn't really matter.

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It doesn't count.

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And when we take those things
that we've done for granted,

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it's really hard to Thank you.

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You're welcome.

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Help connect with your audience
because you're like, you don't

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want to talk about yourself.

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You don't want to talk about these
things that could potentially be things

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that they're going through as well.

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Yeah, they can be things
that they have faced.

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I mean, I actually did the same
exact thing almost around the same

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time because last year I rebranded
from I was actually two different

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businesses because why do one if you
can do two and I didn't want to do an

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agency model I'd worked in an agency.

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I didn't want to do an
agency model anymore.

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I was starting to go down that
road and why like I didn't love it.

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I like working with people
exactly like you're saying.

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And I did a very similar thing
from consulted to coaching

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and doing more of that.

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And I do like some
consulting, but I love you.

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The one on one and let the transformations
and I love taking people who don't

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want to show up, who are afraid to
show themselves, who are afraid to

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talk about what they're doing and
helping them scale their personality.

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Yeah.

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Right.

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If people are buying
you, why are you hiding?

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Right.

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And how do you expect them to buy you
if you're not showing them who you are?

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Exactly.

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Exactly.

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So I love, absolutely love
everything you're saying in

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your story that you got to.

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If you were to give someone advice
who is on the fence about showing

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up, who's on the fence about putting
themselves out there from a marketing

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and sales perspective, what is the like
number one advice you give to people?

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So I am not in the camp of like
Favorites or my number one tip

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or any of these things because
for me, it's super personal.

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Like when I meet someone, I get
to know them and I figure out

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where their gap is pretty quickly.

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That's one of my skill
sets as a salesperson is to

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really dive deep quickly.

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So I will understand like this
is where they're struggling.

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This is the thing I'm going
to tell them or this is the

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thing I'm going to give them.

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And so it will vary.

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It's also dependent on my mood and I'm
always learning and growing and, you

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know, changing my mind about things.

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I also have ADHD, so that
contributes to it a little bit too.

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Welcome to the club.

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I'll Thank you.

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I love to be here.

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It, I would definitely say though,
even just what we were talking about a

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moment ago, just because that's what's.

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feels relevant to the conversation now is
this idea of going back and reflecting on

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your strengths and skills and things that
have made you feel the way that you want

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others to feel when they experience you.

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So for me, when I was going through this
whole rebranding process, I remember

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being challenged by multiple people.

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The agency I was working with, I hired a
copywriter to help me with some things.

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I was working with my business
coach at the time on it.

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There were so many different
people's perspectives and opinions.

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And what I ended up doing was going
back and reflecting on what makes

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my story worth telling to me, which
not everybody is going to have the

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same perspective on that, right?

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But I went back and I thought
about what are the accolades?

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What are the standout moments?

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What are those little pieces
that made me who I am?

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And it was really interesting to go back.

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I never told these stories to people
before I did this exercise of, the

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influence of my maternal grandmother as
much as like hindsight is 2020 looking

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back and like seeing all those visits
to her business and shadowing her like I

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didn't think much of it or the fact that
I went on a vacation my father and my

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stepmother for my high school graduation.

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I am a quality time is my
love language type of person.

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And when they said we could give
you money or we could give you an

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experience, what do you choose?

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And I said, obviously
I want the experience.

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So they took me to Aruba for a week
after I graduated from high school.

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And when we were there, I brought homemade
earrings that I like Swarovski crystals

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were all the rage back then and I made
these earrings and I brought 35 pairs

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and I sold every single pair before we
left and made hundreds of dollars on

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my vacation because I just have this
entrepreneurial spirit or that, you know,

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I had, I was flown to Arizona to have
lunch with Drew Bledsoe when I was a kid.

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Because I won this like award
and I just thought it's so

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interesting to go back and look.

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I was published in a book of poetry
when I was nine years old, like

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all these little things that have
contributed to like when people say, why?

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Oh, you're such a strong writer.

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You're so great with copy
and messaging and things.

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I'm like, yeah, I've been a
published poet since I was nine.

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I write every day.

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I read things about how to write.

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I read a lot of nonfiction and fiction.

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I learn about these things and like it.

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Thinking about all those experiences,
whoever is listening, you have that same.

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Ability to to go dive into the archives
and look through the story of your

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life and pinpoint where are those like
really special standout circumstances

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that make you feel a little bit more
confident, a little bit more ready, a

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little bit more worthy, a little bit
more excited to put yourself out there

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and go grab that collection of stories.

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And use hindsight to your advantage.

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So you can then compelling, you know,
craft this really compelling brand

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story that people can see themselves
in because often it's those little

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moments and details that we just
overlook or think aren't important.

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And as you've seen in the beginning
of this interview, you immediately

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attached to that story about my
grandmother and a lot of people do.

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And for me, it was just.

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That's how I grew up.

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That was just a little
detail, but it matters.

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I think it's, there's something
that you said in there.

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A lot of it, actually, if you guys
are listening, please take notes.

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There's some really good,
great insights in here.

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I think that what it's really easy for
us to look back and say, okay, here's

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the big things that happened, right?

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I've been laid off six times.

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I finally decided to
start my own business.

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That's one story.

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But what are the deeper moments in there?

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And those little moments, right?

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Not just the big things, but what are
the little things that we often forget?

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And I think journaling, you
know, really, really helps.

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And  as well as just going back
and looking and tying that in.

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I'm going to take what you said
once up farther and tying that in.

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So what do you really want, because when
you know what you really want, and you

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know who you want to help and what you
want to do, it also can help start pulling

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those stories out and aligning them for
your brand and for your brand stories.

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And there's so many different pieces that
you can then start to use to craft your

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marketing messaging to connect better.

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So as Justine mentioned earlier, when
sit, when people are coming to you as.

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For sales, they already know you.

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They can already point to things
they've already decided in their

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head or in their gut that they like
you and they wanna work with you.

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So it's those extra pieces that help just
add those layers because we're not just

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one thing I also love, so like
I said, I'm a perpetual student.

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I love to read and a couple of things
that really helped me in this department.

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There was a, there's a book by
James Clear called Atomic Habits.

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I'm sure a lot of people have
read it, but it's the idea that

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these tiny moments, it's not like
the big decisions that you make.

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It's these tiny habitual choices
that we make that are what

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get us where we want to go.

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And so that book was really powerful.

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Also, The Big Leap.

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By Gay Hendricks talking about what's
your zone of excellence versus your zone

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of genius versus your zone of competence
and incompetence to really understand.

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Because for me, for many years, I
was like, Oh, I'm a great writer.

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And so I told myself, I'm just going
to write email campaigns for people.

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I'm going to write, you know,
sales copy for people because

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that's what I'm good at.

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I've been writing my
whole life and I enjoy it.

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That's actually my zone of
excellence, not my zone of genius.

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My zone of genius is more critical
thinking and instant problem solving.

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So when I hear somebody say something,
I immediately attached to it and can

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reverse engineer success from it.

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I can hear someone talk about their
business and sell them better than they

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can within five minutes of meeting them.

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And I do this for hundreds
of people like Okay?

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I really have this
skill in the sales side.

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And for so many years, because
I have a marketing degree and a

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background in marketing, I told
myself that story, I'm a marketer.

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And now it's, I'm an expert
sales trainer and coach.

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And that's what I really love.

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And that's what I really help people do.

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And yes, I can help with the
marketing pieces, but really that

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sales piece is where I thrive.

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And I think a lot of people As you ask
yourself those questions of what do

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I really want, you'll go to what am I
good at versus what do I really want?

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What is my zone of genius?

463
00:25:07,430 --> 00:25:12,350
And why I love The Big Leap is because
Gay will ask specific questions in

464
00:25:12,350 --> 00:25:18,520
that book to help you identify what
your zone of genius actually is.

465
00:25:18,550 --> 00:25:21,210
And I didn't know until I was in my 30s.

466
00:25:21,780 --> 00:25:22,620
Which is mind blowing.

467
00:25:22,660 --> 00:25:24,740
I don't want anyone to
wait that long to know

468
00:25:25,740 --> 00:25:27,620
both of those are
excellent, excellent books.

469
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,000
Absolutely.

470
00:25:29,690 --> 00:25:30,780
I loved the big leap.

471
00:25:30,870 --> 00:25:33,960
I was given to me and I was like,
another one of these books and I

472
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,170
read it was like, oh, oh, oh, oh,

473
00:25:36,170 --> 00:25:40,010
I would be a multimillionaire
at this point.

474
00:25:40,010 --> 00:25:41,840
I've recommended his book so many times,

475
00:25:42,540 --> 00:25:42,950
right?

476
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,120
It's really, really, it's solid for sure.

477
00:25:45,120 --> 00:25:49,680
And it's a great book to pick up if you're
trying to find that thing, because I

478
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,910
always write As the marketer working on
my own stuff is always the hardest thing.

479
00:25:54,980 --> 00:25:59,280
Like you said, I can, I can help people
look at their business and assess where

480
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,320
the problems are and figure out where
the solutions are beyond just marketing.

481
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:03,700
But here's what we need to do.

482
00:26:03,750 --> 00:26:05,870
Here's where it's actually
gonna work best for you.

483
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:06,930
Here's how you can talk about it.

484
00:26:06,950 --> 00:26:07,720
Here's how you connect.

485
00:26:07,750 --> 00:26:11,340
Like I thrive on doing that.

486
00:26:12,140 --> 00:26:17,120
Yeah, but it also comes down to, I
didn't know it, you know what I mean?

487
00:26:17,120 --> 00:26:21,620
Like you put yourself in these boxes and
you decide what you can and can't do.

488
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:23,660
And it's a lot of times it's those things.

489
00:26:23,660 --> 00:26:25,390
And this is what's in the
book talks about as well.

490
00:26:25,390 --> 00:26:26,550
It's the things we take for granted.

491
00:26:26,990 --> 00:26:29,770
Like you, I always thought
everyone could write.

492
00:26:30,205 --> 00:26:34,305
I mean, I was writing my dad's sales
emails at 15, and this was back before,

493
00:26:34,485 --> 00:26:36,885
you know, before the internet really.

494
00:26:37,095 --> 00:26:39,165
So there was no real examples to use.

495
00:26:39,205 --> 00:26:42,175
And so trying to figure it out, how to
connect and find the problem and figure

496
00:26:42,175 --> 00:26:46,605
out the structure of something with
no resources is really challenging.

497
00:26:46,605 --> 00:26:49,065
And so I just always assumed
everyone else could do it too.

498
00:26:49,535 --> 00:26:51,955
But it's learning that not everyone can.

499
00:26:52,745 --> 00:26:55,845
It's what are you, what, that
thing that really makes you, you,

500
00:26:56,305 --> 00:26:57,485
and then how do you talk about it?

501
00:26:57,535 --> 00:26:58,245
How do you share it?

502
00:26:58,275 --> 00:27:02,815
How do you position it in a way that is
going to connect with people in a, and

503
00:27:02,815 --> 00:27:04,565
that's really such an exciting process.

504
00:27:05,425 --> 00:27:05,885
Yeah.

505
00:27:05,935 --> 00:27:09,625
And it's hard to see when you're
not looking for it because why would

506
00:27:09,625 --> 00:27:14,435
you dig into any of that without
a reason, without a prompt, right?

507
00:27:14,435 --> 00:27:16,945
It's figuring out why do I brush my teeth?

508
00:27:17,165 --> 00:27:17,555
I don't know.

509
00:27:17,555 --> 00:27:19,795
I just do it every day in
the morning and at night.

510
00:27:19,805 --> 00:27:23,715
Like that's, you were just raised to
kind of inherently do some of these

511
00:27:23,725 --> 00:27:28,245
things and you never really stopped to
question until it gets to a point where

512
00:27:28,245 --> 00:27:30,925
you're like, okay, I have a cavity.

513
00:27:30,975 --> 00:27:34,285
Now I need to figure out what I
need to do differently or how I need

514
00:27:34,285 --> 00:27:37,165
to change this process or how I'm
doing it to make it more efficient.

515
00:27:37,175 --> 00:27:41,835
Like most of us do have these
innate skills or things that we've

516
00:27:41,835 --> 00:27:46,640
just Nurtured or have had nurtured
by people in our environment.

517
00:27:46,990 --> 00:27:48,470
We don't really give
them a second thought.

518
00:27:48,490 --> 00:27:49,820
And why would we?

519
00:27:49,890 --> 00:27:53,360
So just and part of the reason why
I'm saying that is because there's

520
00:27:53,360 --> 00:27:58,570
a lot of shame and like guilt and
feelings of remorse and not pain

521
00:27:58,590 --> 00:28:03,730
knowing sooner or not taking that
time to do those things earlier.

522
00:28:04,050 --> 00:28:07,790
I know there was for me and
thinking about, you know, like I

523
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,750
just said, I didn't know my zone of
genius until I was in my thirties

524
00:28:11,310 --> 00:28:13,040
and it's I wish I knew that.

525
00:28:13,050 --> 00:28:14,610
So I want other people to know that.

526
00:28:14,610 --> 00:28:17,960
But at the same time, what's
meant to be always is that's

527
00:28:17,970 --> 00:28:19,430
my favorite Irish proverb.

528
00:28:19,590 --> 00:28:22,290
And I feel like there.

529
00:28:22,795 --> 00:28:25,625
You're always given exactly
what you need when you need it.

530
00:28:25,665 --> 00:28:26,755
I believe that.

531
00:28:26,775 --> 00:28:31,335
And so there was a reason why I was
meant to follow the pathway that I did.

532
00:28:31,855 --> 00:28:34,765
And if you're listening now
and something is sparking,

533
00:28:34,815 --> 00:28:36,295
maybe it's not even that point.

534
00:28:36,305 --> 00:28:37,975
Maybe it's something about atomic habits.

535
00:28:37,975 --> 00:28:41,015
Maybe it's something about
the story earlier, but you're

536
00:28:41,015 --> 00:28:42,355
hearing it for a reason.

537
00:28:42,355 --> 00:28:43,885
And so lean in.

538
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:48,930
Don't, don't pull away when you feel the
draw that's when you lean in, even if

539
00:28:48,930 --> 00:28:53,110
it's uncomfortable, even if you don't
know what to do with it yet, just sit

540
00:28:53,110 --> 00:28:57,100
with it, pay attention to it, notice
how it feels in your body to receive

541
00:28:57,100 --> 00:29:01,860
it it, it really does make a difference
when you start to open yourself up to

542
00:29:01,930 --> 00:29:07,710
Oh, I really liked that, pause, write it
down, put it somewhere, think about it

543
00:29:07,710 --> 00:29:11,920
more, take an action on it if you want
to, but don't just let it pass you by.

544
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,670
And I'm going to add to that, especially
if it makes you uncomfortable or

545
00:29:17,130 --> 00:29:20,650
provide some sort of discomfort
because that's where some of those

546
00:29:20,670 --> 00:29:25,960
things that we are outside of what we
normally think about and approach and

547
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:26,910
Oh, that's going to be uncomfortable.

548
00:29:26,910 --> 00:29:27,650
I don't want to do that.

549
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,490
Those are usually the things where
you can make those bigger leaps and

550
00:29:31,500 --> 00:29:34,670
make those bigger connections and
that will have the biggest impact.

551
00:29:35,670 --> 00:29:36,770
Justine.

552
00:29:37,165 --> 00:29:38,355
You have been awesome.

553
00:29:38,385 --> 00:29:42,245
I could talk to you for another
half hour to an hour, at least

554
00:29:42,655 --> 00:29:46,785
you guys will enjoy me talking
with my new best friend, Justine.

555
00:29:47,785 --> 00:29:48,145
She is

556
00:29:48,165 --> 00:29:48,635
fantastic.

557
00:29:49,635 --> 00:29:50,175
No, I'm just kidding.

558
00:29:51,765 --> 00:29:53,565
I said, see you for cocktails at five.

559
00:29:53,935 --> 00:29:54,775
Exactly,

560
00:29:54,815 --> 00:29:55,775
exactly.

561
00:29:56,145 --> 00:29:58,405
Before we start to wrap up.

562
00:29:58,900 --> 00:30:04,200
I would love to hear a little bit
about what, where you are right now.

563
00:30:04,230 --> 00:30:06,510
Are there any accomplishments
that you have recently that

564
00:30:06,510 --> 00:30:07,740
you really want to celebrate?

565
00:30:08,380 --> 00:30:13,480
And my last question as part of that is,
what does your business allow you to do

566
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,650
now that wasn't possible when you started?

567
00:30:16,330 --> 00:30:16,720
Hmm.

568
00:30:17,490 --> 00:30:18,490
I love these questions.

569
00:30:19,490 --> 00:30:23,670
Okay, where I am now is in a
totally different place from when I

570
00:30:23,670 --> 00:30:27,280
started because I'm not even doing
the same things that I was doing

571
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,240
when I started, which is okay.

572
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,980
By the way, I feel like again,
there's a lot of shame and

573
00:30:32,980 --> 00:30:34,560
guilt and changing direction.

574
00:30:34,570 --> 00:30:38,190
And as a multi passionate ADHD
entrepreneur with multiple

575
00:30:38,210 --> 00:30:42,000
autoimmune conditions, like I've
had to pivot quite a few times.

576
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,305
I know that word is not everyone's
favorite, but It is real, right?

577
00:30:46,305 --> 00:30:48,815
We have to make choices
and decisions that suit us.

578
00:30:49,435 --> 00:30:54,725
And I have to say, I am the most free,
which is one of my core values is freedom,

579
00:30:55,405 --> 00:31:01,995
feeling free to be who I am, to love who
I am, to do what I want, to serve who

580
00:31:01,995 --> 00:31:04,565
I want, how I want all of those things.

581
00:31:05,015 --> 00:31:08,365
And so, you know, my business
has gone through many iterations

582
00:31:08,365 --> 00:31:09,885
and evolutions over the years.

583
00:31:09,925 --> 00:31:13,005
I am now at the point
where I do whatever I want.

584
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:14,250
Whenever I want.

585
00:31:14,260 --> 00:31:18,080
So I'm working with people in
a way that's really flexible.

586
00:31:18,130 --> 00:31:19,580
I'm taking summers off.

587
00:31:19,610 --> 00:31:22,070
I'm taking multiple weeks
off throughout the year.

588
00:31:22,090 --> 00:31:24,770
I'm working 25 hours a week at most.

589
00:31:24,790 --> 00:31:26,460
I have the perfect clients.

590
00:31:26,500 --> 00:31:30,370
I have loads of money, all
the things that is great.

591
00:31:30,420 --> 00:31:31,680
And I love that.

592
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:36,770
I love to celebrate those wins because
I was not an overnight success.

593
00:31:37,645 --> 00:31:43,375
And I don't think a lot of people are,
some people are, but I was not and

594
00:31:43,635 --> 00:31:49,765
everything that I learn, everything that
I gain, and one of the other books that

595
00:31:49,765 --> 00:31:53,254
I really love is Florence Scovel Shinn.

596
00:31:53,255 --> 00:31:58,615
She wrote a collection of works in
the 1920s about business and there's a

597
00:31:58,615 --> 00:32:02,835
book called The Secret Door to Success.

598
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:04,220
And it's great.

599
00:32:04,340 --> 00:32:06,180
There's also the game of
life and how to play it.

600
00:32:06,260 --> 00:32:08,420
Another one of my favorites
from her, but there's four

601
00:32:08,420 --> 00:32:09,610
different books that she wrote.

602
00:32:10,370 --> 00:32:15,070
And there's a quote that reminds
me of my grandmother, actually.

603
00:32:15,730 --> 00:32:19,920
And it says, I do wonderful
work in a wonderful way and give

604
00:32:19,930 --> 00:32:22,130
wonderful service for wonderful pay.

605
00:32:23,130 --> 00:32:28,635
And for many years, I thought I do
wonderful work in a wonderful way and give

606
00:32:28,635 --> 00:32:33,665
wonderful service and I didn't want to
talk about money and I didn't want to talk

607
00:32:33,675 --> 00:32:40,545
about my desire for more of it or, you
know, leaning into even what my clients

608
00:32:40,545 --> 00:32:42,215
were generating in terms of income.

609
00:32:42,215 --> 00:32:45,345
I always shied away from it
because I didn't want to be unfair.

610
00:32:45,425 --> 00:32:48,325
Some of my clients are
making millions of dollars.

611
00:32:48,355 --> 00:32:49,905
Some of my clients are making.

612
00:32:50,505 --> 00:32:54,355
Thousands of dollars or hundreds of
dollars and they're brand new and I

613
00:32:54,385 --> 00:32:59,235
think it's an unfair comparison and
we live in a very compare and despair

614
00:32:59,235 --> 00:33:03,805
society that's brought about by social
media, seeing other people's success.

615
00:33:03,805 --> 00:33:08,505
And so when I say I helped a
client go from 3000 to 70, 000

616
00:33:08,505 --> 00:33:11,895
months, that's not typical.

617
00:33:11,950 --> 00:33:14,560
of most business owners, right?

618
00:33:14,580 --> 00:33:19,000
And the types of clients that
they're serving and what they offer

619
00:33:19,010 --> 00:33:22,400
and the price point and all of the
things like there's so many factors.

620
00:33:23,130 --> 00:33:27,390
But over the years, as I've done more
work on my money mindset and more work

621
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,630
thinking about who I want to be and
how I want to show up in the world and

622
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:36,230
being in the industry of sales where
people, it is a metrics oriented, revenue

623
00:33:36,230 --> 00:33:41,495
oriented business, talking about the
numbers is I'm going to keep it real.

624
00:33:41,495 --> 00:33:45,275
I'm going to tell you that a client
of mine just booked 120, 000 of

625
00:33:45,275 --> 00:33:49,435
business in eight weeks, but that
doesn't need to be your story.

626
00:33:49,475 --> 00:33:52,905
And it also could very well be your story.

627
00:33:53,025 --> 00:33:55,055
You could blow them out of the water too.

628
00:33:55,175 --> 00:33:57,495
So it's not about comparison.

629
00:33:57,555 --> 00:33:58,875
It's about proof.

630
00:33:59,025 --> 00:34:03,145
It's about understanding
what lights you up.

631
00:34:03,285 --> 00:34:07,525
What you connect to, what you desire
and really asking yourself that

632
00:34:07,525 --> 00:34:09,375
question, not what should you be doing?

633
00:34:09,385 --> 00:34:10,635
Not what could you be doing?

634
00:34:10,635 --> 00:34:12,545
Not what do other people want you to do?

635
00:34:12,815 --> 00:34:14,155
What do you want?

636
00:34:14,965 --> 00:34:19,695
Because whatever you decide, like you
said, you can have it if you're clear

637
00:34:19,705 --> 00:34:21,665
and you create that pathway forward.

638
00:34:21,675 --> 00:34:23,295
So that is.

639
00:34:23,605 --> 00:34:25,175
you know, my ADHD kicked in.

640
00:34:25,175 --> 00:34:31,375
I don't even remember your original
tangent, but that's, you know,

641
00:34:31,385 --> 00:34:35,835
that's something to, to, I hope
people take away from this is you

642
00:34:35,835 --> 00:34:39,325
can be and have anything you want,
but you need to be clear about it.

643
00:34:39,335 --> 00:34:42,805
You need to be direct about the pathway
to get it, and you need to be intentional

644
00:34:42,805 --> 00:34:45,335
about your decisions and get after it.

645
00:34:45,900 --> 00:34:51,160
Don't do one thing and say another,
do the thing, say the thing, be

646
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,370
the thing, own the thing, like
really go all in on that thing.

647
00:34:55,370 --> 00:34:56,220
Absolutely.

648
00:34:56,290 --> 00:34:58,920
That is fantastic advice.

649
00:34:59,920 --> 00:35:07,050
Those of you who are tuned in, you
can reach Justine at, where would

650
00:35:07,050 --> 00:35:09,650
you like people to, what's the
best place for people to find you?

651
00:35:10,105 --> 00:35:11,575
Yeah, Justine Beauregard.

652
00:35:11,575 --> 00:35:16,305
com is my website and I also have a
podcast called People Over Profit where

653
00:35:16,305 --> 00:35:21,825
we talk about and dig into for under 15
minutes an episode on average, different

654
00:35:21,825 --> 00:35:26,745
sales marketing and growth strategies or
concepts that I think are valuable for

655
00:35:26,745 --> 00:35:29,599
people like how to be more productive
with your time or how to you know.

656
00:35:29,660 --> 00:35:32,560
You know, close more sales
conversations or how to generate more

657
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:34,500
leads or be 10 times more visible.

658
00:35:34,510 --> 00:35:37,720
Things like that, that are really
hopefully going to help people build

659
00:35:37,720 --> 00:35:41,740
up their sales, marketing and growth
muscles a little bit more so they

660
00:35:41,740 --> 00:35:43,650
can make more impact and income.

661
00:35:45,895 --> 00:35:47,195
Thank you so much for being here.

662
00:35:47,195 --> 00:35:48,625
I love this conversation.

663
00:35:48,625 --> 00:35:52,275
Like I said, I would continue it easily
for much longer, but we're not going to,

664
00:35:52,275 --> 00:35:58,075
you have to go find us on our podcast
and on our website and on social media.

665
00:35:58,855 --> 00:36:00,125
Thank you for joining us today.

666
00:36:00,125 --> 00:36:04,565
And remember at KendraLosee.Com, you can
find business coaching and our upcoming

667
00:36:04,575 --> 00:36:09,385
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668
00:36:09,385 --> 00:36:14,475
clarity, confidence, and consistency
to how you and your business show up.

669
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:20,860
We are all about unapologetically
driven entrepreneurs guiding you to

670
00:36:20,860 --> 00:36:26,280
success in both business and life
because it's never too late to make

671
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,680
your business and career work for you.

672
00:36:29,030 --> 00:36:30,660
Not the other way around.

673
00:36:31,310 --> 00:36:31,910
Until next time.