Good morning and welcome
to your morning cereal.
Okay, good morning and welcome to Monday.
I hope you had a fantastic weekend
and you're here ready to start and
conquer another week.
Well, let's just say for some of us,
conquering may look just
a little bit different.
It might be a little
more on that quiet side.
And today we celebrate us.
Today is World Introvert Day,
celebrating those who
know how to self reflect,
they have quiet
strength, they're creative,
and all my fellow
introverts who recharge in solitude.
Well, the answer to
Friday's trivia was decoupage.
That's the craft involving
the cutting out of images
and varnishing them
onto an object, decoupage.
And now the essential
vitamins in your morning cereal.
Today's quote is from
birthday boy turning 52 today,
comedian Dax Shepard, who said, quote,
"The minute you stop
needing someone else's approval,
you reclaim your power," end
quote, which feels freeing,
right, sounds freeing and a little bit
uncomfortable maybe,
but you will achieve a new level of
personal empowerment
and self-sufficiency the
moment you start to base
your decisions and your
self-worth and your actions
on your own internal values,
rather than the opinions or the
acceptance of others.
All right, good luck.
Well, let's hear from the experts now.
It's time to pour in
some of the let them theory
by Mel Robbins.
And we are in the sub-chapter,
stop bailing out other adults.
Now, Mel Robbins delivers
one of the most uncomfortable,
but necessary truths
here in the entire book.
Helping too much can
actually hold people back.
She explains that when we
repeatedly rescue other adults
from consequences,
financial, emotional, or logistical,
we're not being kind to them.
We're actually
interfering with their growth.
Mel writes, quote,
"Bailing someone out might
feel loving in the moment,
but it steals their confidence in the
long run," end quote.
Now, that line lands because so many of
us help out of care,
out of guilt or habit,
not realizing that we're
quietly teaching people to rely
instead of rise, right?
So she goes on to explain
that adults grow through
experience, not protection.
When we step in too quickly,
we remove the very discomfort
that builds resilience, okay?
Mel points out that this pattern often
shows up in families,
in friendships, and
even in the workplace,
where one person
consistently becomes the fixer
while quietly burning out.
Now, another powerful
reminder from the chapter
is when Mel says, quote,
"When you carry someone
else's responsibilities,
you teach them they don't need to carry
their own," end quote.
Now, that's not
support, that's substitution.
And over time, it creates
resentment on both sides.
So Mel emphasizes that
boundaries are not punishments.
They are clarity for everyone.
Saying no doesn't mean you don't care.
It means you trust
the other person enough
to figure things out for themselves.
Letting someone struggle
doesn't make you heartless.
It makes you respectful
of their ability to grow.
Now, she also addresses the guilt
that comes along with
stepping back from these situations.
Mel reminds readers that
discomfort is part of adulthood,
right?
And shielding people
from it delays maturity
rather than helping it out.
So this chapter is
ultimately about respect.
Respect for your own time,
respect for your own
energy and emotional health,
and also respect for other
adults' abilities to learn,
to adapt, and to succeed.
All right, well, here
is your Monday takeaway.
Stop rescuing grown
adults from consequences.
Real support means trusting
them to rise on their own.
All right, well, today,
remember that quiet
strength still counts.
Honor your pace today.
Now, the prize from the
bottom of the cereal box,
the morning cereal
trivia question of the day.
Here it is.
What volleyball position
wears a distinct jersey?
All right, hey, thanks for listening to
morning cereal today.
We will see you back here tomorrow
for the answer to the trivia question
and more sugar for the soul.
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