Subscribe
Share
Share
Embed
Our scars from childhood can follow us long into our adulthoods, and they often manifest in ways we may not realize or fully understand. In this episode of Never in Reverse, Doug and Jeremy discuss their childhoods as children of divorce, and the fear of abandonment that resulted from their childhood struggles. This insightful conversation focuses on emotional growth, security, and healing.
Jeremy and Doug begin by discussing their parents’ divorces. Divorce was different in Doug’s family and in Jeremy’s, and both learned from their parents’ experiences and carried traumas with them. Next, they explore how coming from a broken home can lead to fearing abandonment, and what healing has looked like for them.
For detailed show notes, navigate using the time stamps below:
[2:52] Today’s episode topic is near and dear to Doug and Jeremy: growing up with a divorced parent. This can be a touchy topic, particularly as the feelings you experience as a child manifest in unexpected ways as an adult.
[4:55] Doug’s parents divorced about a month before his fifth birthday. They were very transparent about what was going on, and Doug never felt that it was his fault.
[8:22] Doug didn’t feel any toxic pressure from his parents during the divorce. His parents were very young and did the best that they could.
[10:32] Jeremy grew up in an unsafe environment due to his parents’ divorce. He found refuge in his friends and in sports.
[15:01] Doug always viewed his father and stepmom as a safe place, so they proved his fear of abandonment wrong. However, there were still elements he missed in his connection with his mom.
[18:09] Jeremy still struggles with his fear of abandonment. He found some safety in his stepdad’s family and in his Aunt Diana.
[25:55] Doug and Jeremy sometimes still have unrealistic expectations of their parents, specifically their mothers, stemming from their childhoods.
FOLLOW US:
Creators and Guests
Host
Doug Cox
THEStrategist Doug's ability to break down complex situations comes from years of adapting to new environments throughout his childhood. This adaptability evolved into a superpower for finding practical solutions to life's challenges. Doug's thoughtful approach to challenges helps challenges helps make complex topics accessible and actionable. Jeremy in black outfit THEBridge Builder Known for his gift of deep listening, Doug excels at finding common ground and building genuine connections. His journey from traditional "man of the house" thinking to embracing vulnerability and partnership has transformed both his family life and leadership style. Jeremy in black outfit IN HISOWN WORDS "True leadership starts at home. The same principles that build trust in business—accountability, integrity, and genuine care—are what strengthen our most important relationships."
Host
Jeremy Axel
THECOMPETITOR Jeremy's competitive nature was forged on the sports field, where being physically smaller meant having to work twice as hard to succeed. That same drive now fuels his approach to business, family, and personal growth. As the founder and CEO of Fluent Conveyors, he's learned that true success extends far beyond the bottom line. Jeremy in black outfit THEEVOLUTION While his "two more deals" mentality once defined him, Jeremy's greatest growth came from learning to balance his ambitious drive with being present for his family. His journey from pure provider to engaged husband and father shapes many of the podcast's powerful discussions. Jeremy in black outfit IN HISOWN WORDS "Success isn't just about winning—it's about showing up authentically in every role you play. Sometimes the biggest victories come from knowing when to slow down and be present. "
What is Never in Reverse?
You have the power to change your life and Never In Reverse Podcast is here to show you how. Hosted by Jeremy Axel and Co-host Doug Cox, this fast-growing global podcast is changing millions of lives.
In every episode, we share hard-earned wisdom, deeply personal stories, and actionable insights to help you transform your life. If you're a new listener, you're in the right place! Each episode is designed to empower you, guiding you one step closer to the life you want.
Want more? Follow us at @neverinreverse for updates.
What to Expect Each Week:
- Engaging conversations with thought leaders and trailblazers
- Insights into personal and professional growth
- Practical strategies for overcoming life's challenges
- A few laughs along the way!
Whether you're commuting, working out, or simply unwinding at home, Never in Reverse is your companion for inspiration.
Join us, subscribe, and set out on an exciting journey forward!🤝