Can a man really be happy in a marriage without sex? Most husbands facing this question feel torn — wanting to stay faithful and kind, but also feeling unseen, rejected, and empty. You’re not broken for wanting intimacy. You’re not selfish for craving connection. You’re human.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott shares the story of one coaching client who faced this same battle — caught between loyalty and loneliness. You’ll learn how he used The Secure Husband Process to stop pretending he was okay, start living with honesty, and rebuild confidence even when intimacy didn’t return.
What you’ll learn:
✔️ Why the question “Can I be happy in a sexless marriage?” is really about self-abandonment
✔️ How emotional honesty is the foundation of healing
✔️ Why avoiding conflict destroys connection more than it protects it
✔️ How to express your truth without blame or guilt
✔️ How to stop outsourcing your worth to your spouse’s desire
✔️ How to live from authenticity, not resentment
You don’t have to give up your values or your desire. You can stay true to yourself and build peace without pretending everything is fine. This episode will help you understand what it means to honor your truth — even when love feels distant.
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If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.
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What is The Secure Husband?
A Secure Husband no longer seeks validation from his wife—he stands strong in self-worth, meets his own emotional needs, and leads with confidence and clarity. I’ve been where you are, and I’m here to help you break free from old patterns, reclaim your strength, and transform your marriage from the inside out.