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 Welcome to Arvid and Tyler Catch Up. I'm Arvid.

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 I'm Tyler. Let's catch up.

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 I'm good. I'm good. I'm much, much, much better.

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 If folks listened to last week, I was coming off of a pretty serious illness

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 and a whole bunch of dramatic changes in the business all at once.

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 Frantically trying to just tread water.

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 I've been spending most of the last week or so just heads down

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 reviewing applications, talking to founders, all the fun parts of my job.

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 I'm really good.

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 I'm happy to hear it. That was quite the week. You got everything at the same time.

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 It's really bad. I'm glad to see you smile again.

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 You always try to keep a smile on, I guess, but it comes from a deeper, more healthy place.

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 These are just our moments to practice being calm.

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 The universe is just giving us a couple of workouts for that.

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 There's always this time of year when my allergies start

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 kicking in. I always get a little bit frustrated with just breathing.

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 That is also a nice opportunity to just practice calmness because a calm breath

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 is a less agitated one and it keeps your body in a better mood as well.

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 I'm certainly glad to just know that

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 there is a way to deal with all these things. Not that my life was as stressful as yours

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 over the last couple of days, but it's nice to know.

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 Total tangent, but have you read the book Breath by James Nestor?

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 It's somewhat recent, last couple of years. Especially if you have allergies.

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 Definitely recommend it. Very, very cool book. Literally just all about the

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 science and practice of breathing. I just read it. It was super timely.

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 I was dealing with allergies and sinus infections and the whole thing.

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 It's very frustrating when you literally can't breathe. It's like, "Hey, breathing is super important.

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 Not doing it well is really bad for you." You're like, "Great. I can't breathe through my nose."

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 When you get back up and you can do it, there's a whole bunch of practices

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 and mindfulness around breathing correctly that I found super interesting.

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 And also just really easy to put in practice day to day.

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 I would definitely recommend it. Thanks so much. You know the problem with having some sort of disposable income?

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 Every time somebody recommends a book, I immediately have to buy it because I have no reason not to.

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 It's the worst. That's a champagne problem right here. Thanks for that suggestion.

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 I will definitely do this. I look into these kind of books in particular, just trying to

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 figure out the basic concepts of life. Like Why We Sleep by Walker was

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 another book like this. And even though a lot of scientists have a lot of opinions,

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 the specifics of what people in that field that try to make it more popular,

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 they kind of skim over certain things and certain things may not work as well as they want it to

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 for the cohesiveness of the argument. But I still love having some level of insight. So thanks for that.

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 I'm very much looking forward to doing this. I've been amplifying my reading schedule

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 since we're talking about what we're doing because I'm trying to get back into a writing habit

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 for the book that I want to write, not just for my weekly writing, which I also enjoy quite a lot. And I get a lot

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 of fun of. But you know, a more extensive project, my building public book project

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 essentially. And I've talked about this a lot over the last couple of weeks. There are little things happening here or there.

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 And I think last week I talked about how well should I self publish or should I go the

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 traditional route? We had that conversation. And Brendan Dunn has been really helpful

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 because he's publishing one right now the traditional way. And he's been trying to encourage me to

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 go the traditional way as well. It was really nice because it's hard to break into an industry

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 that has certain expectations that for us indie founders, indie creators, they feel

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 quite outlandish. But like the idea of trying to have mass appeal goes against anything

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 that we learn as indie hackers to niche down and be specific and have people that

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 it's for. And some people or a lot of people who it's not for the traditional industry is slightly

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 different. So the way you even talk to people about this is also different. Right. If you want to pitch your

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 project to somebody, you don't pitch a book that is for a couple hundred thousand people.

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 You say essentially this is what James Clear has done, but for a different audience,

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 right. Effectively be the most applicable way of looking at the thing you're writing

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 about. So I'm trying to deal with this like getting so much encouragement from people

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 that tell me that I should go bigger than what my aspirations are right now. So

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 can't really go into specifics here, but I'm talking to agents now like actual agents

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 to maybe help me find a deal somewhere. So that is exciting because it's again,

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 one of these things I have no idea how to even deal with the conversation that I have with an agent, which is supposedly

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 a win win situation. But I still don't even know how to approach that to not scare them away or

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 to not over promise. And we can talk about like being honest and not over

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 committing in the things that we promise in a minute or two. But

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 it's kind of hard. It's hard to get into a completely new field when you're so comfortable

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 in the field you're in right now. Right. By any people like I can I can write a book, I can self publish it. And I know that

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 there's thousands, if not tens of thousands of people who would support me immediately because they like what I write

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 anyway and they would just give it a try. But there is a level beyond that and it requires

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 a very different approach. And I'm as scared as I am excited to go into that world.

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 So I'm trying to grow, you know, like as a person.

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 is the way you connect with agents still pretty much just through referrals from other

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 the book the way I want it to write, I have to employ these mechanisms. It's kind of it does

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 introduce a lot of doubt in me and into my capacity to both

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 really necessarily align with it to get to the point where I then can do it. It's

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 a very complicated way. But yes, there's a lot of back channel stuff, a lot of introductions, a lot of

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 and people not even talking to you if you don't have a referral, that kind of stuff. That is very real.

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 who have been supporting these extremely popular books and making them real,

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 want to be in that league if I even try. So why not? Because I might as well shoot for the stars. So, yeah,

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 I've been doing this. Yeah. And the other side of this is I still want to

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 talk to my self-published friends. So we talked a lot about Paul Miller last week. I think even the week

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 before. We've been mentioning that guy quite a bit. And I got him to commit

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 to a podcast interview with me, which is nice. I'm going to chat with him next week and then that'll be

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 on the show. I'm really looking forward to talking to him. He's been quite supportive of this show,

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 which I'm extremely grateful for. He put it into his newsletter as well and referenced our

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 I saw your thing in Paul's newsletter. So here's my opinion, which is one of the best feelings

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 for anybody who has friends. It's nice to have friends that help you with these kinds of things to reach

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 more people. So that was cool. So I'm very excited for that. If you have anything that you think I should ask

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 that would surprise him, let me know. I'd be super curious to hear you two riff

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 a calm fund for books. What would that look like? What would it have? What would it not have?

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 Not that I can promise that I'm going to do it, but somebody might do it and that would be great.

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 Any person that would at least be able to teach me how to do it, it would probably be you.

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 calm fund right now? Let me know how your week went with that.

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 It sounds so much better than what happened over the last couple weeks.

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 I think we should talk about something.

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 You've been grappling with this much more directly.

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 Maybe here's the back story.

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 Some people might know, way back in the day, I don't even know, maybe seven, eight years ago,

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 The main thing that derailed me was this variation of imposter syndrome.

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 It's so hard to give advice in this space

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 without starting to feel like you're creeping into the whole nasty, get rich quick scheme online.

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 obvious fraudster, huckster kind of crowd to people who have pretty good advice,

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 but are probably embellishing quite a lot and then still selling you stuff on it.

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 I just felt kind of icky as I started to wade more and more in there.

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 I just couldn't properly calibrate.

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 I'd write something and then I would add 17 caveats to it

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 because I didn't want to come across as a huckster, but then I'd be like, "Well, this is crap writing.

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 I just kind of got stuck there.

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 successfully use. That is real because it actually happened. Here's what an audience is. Here's what a

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 community is. This is how you can think about this. Where you can go and find people. There's no

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 promise in the course to like, within an hour, you make $10,000 or

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 It's a big problem. So I've learned to, like what you said, wrap

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 but this strategy usually tends to, you know, the stuff that makes it boring, I still put this in.

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 my tweets or in writing when I do my articles or my books or whatever, I still read through and

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 both optimistic and truthful. And that's one of the biggest problems. We can

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 So I like that answer. That ultimately it's a sort of selfish act.

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 In the sense that... Or not selfish is not the right word. But it's self-serving.

415
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 It's the idea that... It's self-preservational. That's what it is. You're building the community that you actually want to be

416
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:45,000
 around versus attracting the wrong people. I want to throw

417
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:50,000
 out a very interesting devil's advocate position here. Because I've been sort of

418
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:55,000
 talking about this. I've just found it interesting. I've had a couple of in-person discussions about this

419
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 recently. So I think

420
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:05,000
 one thing that you learn when you just get, I would say, like a

421
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 little more plugged in. You have a lot of

422
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 back channel visibility. Especially in the fund and investing world.

423
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 You see a lot of company data and stuff like that.

424
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:25,000
 Also just having a peer network that has more visibility. You start to learn

425
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:30,000
 that there is a lot of... You have the obvious hucksters

426
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 on one end where everybody can see this as kind of BS.

427
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:40,000
 There is a very murky gray area where there are a lot of people

428
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 on social media who significantly embellish

429
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 either their own success or the performance of their

430
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 "playbook" or guides or masterminds or

431
00:35:55,000 --> 00:36:00,000
 whatever the product is. There's a lot of people out there that you know,

432
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:05,000
 well I know for example, that's completely not true. Either the premise

433
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:10,000
 that you're sort of selling this on or the performance metrics that you're asserting this

434
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:15,000
 sort of strategy has. There's a lot of people out there that are doing to a

435
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:20,000
 varying degree kind of like everywhere from light to heavy embellishment while

436
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:25,000
 being still well clear of the outright fraud or just complete crap. They have pretty good ideas

437
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:30,000
 but they are really nudging the needle in their favor in a lot

438
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:35,000
 of slightly questionable ways. They're playing

439
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:40,000
 fast and loose with the truth, let's put it that way. So here's the thing

440
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:45,000
 which is looking at the

441
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 contour of the consequences for this. On the one hand, there seems to be

442
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:55,000
 almost no downside to doing this in the sense that these folks are

443
00:36:55,000 --> 00:37:00,000
 still very accepted among professional peers even when people know they're doing this.

444
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:05,000
 They're not shunned, they're not only associating with other hucksters, they're still welcome

445
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:10,000
 to do whatever, speak at events, join groups, etc. Show up

446
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:15,000
 at dinners, nobody's like, "Oh, that person is like, they embellish all the time on Twitter or wherever else."

447
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:20,000
 There's just kind of no tangible downside to doing

448
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:25,000
 this and there seems to be real meaningful upside which is that this kind

449
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:30,000
 of embellishment tends to grow audiences very fast.

450
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:35,000
 And you often see these folks that you know are just making stuff up left and right,

451
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:40,000
 building kind of platforms, brands, for example something like the Calm MBA,

452
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:45,000
 you know it's just very clear that doing this is a very effective growth tactic, right?

453
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:50,000
 All things equal. If your content is good, shading the truth to make everything look

454
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:55,000
 better just works on the internet because it's just impossible to verify

455
00:37:55,000 --> 00:38:00,000
 and like if you go and look at, sorry this is getting a little rambly but I'm going to wrap it up here,

456
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:05,000
 which is there's a YouTube channel called We're the Coffeezilla and it's this guy

457
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:10,000
 who just takes down these hucksters, right? He just goes and does this kind of pseudo-investigative

458
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:15,000
 journalism where he kind of just calls out these people for being total frauds and

459
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:20,000
 nothing happens. There's just no example of this YouTube actually

460
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:25,000
 taking down one of these folks.

461
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:30,000
 The kind of devil's advocate question here is, I mean obviously we're kind of,

462
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:35,000
 we can't really do this because we're doing this on a podcast and people are going to know, right? But like

463
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 is it a good idea to do it a little bit? It just seems to be

464
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 only upside and almost no downside in a world of the

465
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 internet. What's our best argument for not doing it, I guess?

466
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:55,000
 I mean there are great arguments to do it because there are immediate wins.

467
00:38:55,000 --> 00:39:00,000
 That's what you said, right? You built your audience more easily.

468
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:05,000
 You're like underlying we think you have a good mission and good content.

469
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:10,000
 It might just be self-delusional in some ways and in the way that we

470
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 dream. Most dreams that we have for our lives aren't delusions until they are either

471
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:20,000
 true or proven wrong. So in many ways our entrepreneurial

472
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:25,000
 mission and division that we have, they are just as

473
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 delusional as what these people do in embellishing their stories. It's just a different way

474
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:35,000
 of being delusional. But I'm so happy you mentioned Coffee Silica

475
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 because that's one of the few things that I actually, or a few YouTube channels that I actively support on Patreon for example.

476
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 Because I think what this guy is doing is massively important journalism.

477
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:50,000
 And that's the thing. There are traces of these things all over the place. And maybe YouTube has

478
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:55,000
 an incentive to keep these channels with people like Logan Paul, with the whole crypto

479
00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:00,000
 zoo thing that is a debacle. You should

480
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:05,000
 watch this. Coffee Silica did a trilogy on just that one guy

481
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 scamming a lot of people, allegedly. Not just allegedly. I think there is now a lawsuit.

482
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:15,000
 There are legal actions to this, but they have to come

483
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 from somewhere beside the platforms that these people used to amplify their

484
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 or just even facilitate their scams or their questionable activities.

485
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 Let's just say that. So that's why I support Coffee Silica because he's a great

486
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:35,000
 YouTuber. He just does it really well. And he's very outspoken about

487
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 not just truth, because that is always a questionable thing to begin with, but integrity.

488
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 And I feel that we are moving in the world of creators that I'm

489
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 part of and that you're also part of, we are moving to a much more trust-centric

490
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 even business world that we're in. Because these people, they get a lot of attention and in the attention

491
00:40:55,000 --> 00:41:00,000
 economy, that pays a lot of money. But I think particularly with the admin

492
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:05,000
 of AI, generative AI and conversational AI, this will shift a little bit.

493
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 We're going to shift from just mere attention to intimacy. Intimacy

494
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 being like having actual relationships with people or with AIs. That's the thing.

495
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:20,000
 I watched a video, I think I wrote about it last week, of AI researchers talking about

496
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:25,000
 the big problems that we have with social media. Everything is attention focused.

497
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:30,000
 Every metric is optimized for attention. Well, what's that going to be for an AI? For things that can

498
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:35,000
 be like people and they can get into your mind. They can build a relationship with you. And that's going to be intimacy.

499
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:40,000
 Who do I trust? Do I trust this thing that is just a virtual person? Is it real?

500
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 Is there a person behind this? Is there a Turing test somewhere?

501
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 A social shift from just mere attention to actual intimacy. Supposedly.

502
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:55,000
 Who knows? That's an estimate, a guess somewhere. But I think it's true.

503
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 And I see this. I'm going to write about this this week because I see this in how

504
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:05,000
 marketing happens for creators. There used to be a time where you could just get somebody's ad and run it on

505
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:10,000
 your show and they would be happy with it and your audience would maybe click it, maybe listen to it, maybe do something about it.

506
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 But that is over. I think now we have so much like creator centric advertising

507
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:20,000
 and sponsorships where the creators are acutely aware of the fact. I'm taking away from my own

508
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:25,000
 podcast here by talking about this. That they are the

509
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 people who run sponsorships or ads on their podcasts or newsletters or whatever. They're not just purchasing

510
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:35,000
 the eyes of the audience. They're actually purchasing a small part of that person's credibility.

511
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 Of that podcast host's credibility, newsletter author's credibility. And that is not new. Obviously

512
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:45,000
 every advertising is kind of credibility based. But now people

513
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 know that there are coffee zillows out there that will look at them and they will be very

514
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:55,000
 acutely aware if somebody is actually just running a perfectly fine ad like I don't know

515
00:42:55,000 --> 00:43:00,000
 Squarespace or something as a sponsor or if it's FTX. Something that has

516
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:05,000
 the crypto world, a very questionable authority to begin

517
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:10,000
 with and people just get a lot of money. There was this thing with these

518
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:15,000
 Scottish titles. Do you remember? Do you have any idea about that? I think coffee zilla was talking about this too.

519
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:20,000
 You can get a Lord or Lady title by purchasing a $50

520
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 certificate by some company from Hong Kong that owns a tiny

521
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:30,000
 little parcel of land in Scotland because there's an old Scottish law. That's great. It's

522
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:35,000
 bizarre. And it's actually not true. If you are

523
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 in your own land in Scotland, you're technically a Laird, which is the Scottish version of Lord

524
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:45,000
 or a Lady of that place. If you own that for residential purposes, that is

525
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:50,000
 kind of Scottish law. Everybody that owns a house is a Lord. Everybody who owns property

526
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:55,000
 that is not just like novelty square meter or something or a

527
00:43:55,000 --> 00:44:00,000
 square foot of Scotland. But these companies sell a square foot of

528
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:05,000
 Scotland so you can legally call yourself a Lord or Lady. It's kind of a novelty gift. But

529
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:10,000
 the thing is in their advertising, which they paid a lot of money for, sometimes six figures

530
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:15,000
 for a couple months of running it on popular podcasts and YouTube shows, they were talking

531
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:20,000
 about as if, or they were giving those creators scripts and approval

532
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:25,000
 of scripts as if it was actually a legal title. So they were technically

533
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:30,000
 selling something that they would not be allowed to sell because there is a bylaw in Scotland about

534
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:35,000
 these novelty titles not actually amounting to real titles in terms of Scotland.

535
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:40,000
 So the coffee cellar and the field of YouTube

536
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:45,000
 investigators, which is hilarious that that actually exists as a profession that people can make a living

537
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:50,000
 from just from YouTube money that comes in. They discovered this and they called

538
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:55,000
 out so many creators and so many creators were just taking

539
00:44:55,000 --> 00:45:00,000
 in those five figure deals, 20,000, 50,000 for running this for a couple months

540
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:05,000
 looking at it saying, yeah, this is kind of weird, but I'll still say it. That's fine. I mean, it's a novelty

541
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:10,000
 gift item. What are you going to do? And there were like hundreds of high profile YouTubers

542
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:15,000
 who fell into this and were called out and had to cut ties with the advertiser, had to

543
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:20,000
 publicly apologize on the YouTube channels, which is always hilarious to watch because you can kind of feel

544
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:25,000
 how they kind of trying to save their reputation, but still not really commit to having

545
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:30,000
 not done enough research. And that's the thing that now creators do more and more is actively

546
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:35,000
 research. When I get a sponsor on my newsletter, my podcast, I'm now digging into them.

547
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:40,000
 I'm doing due diligence for every single sponsor that goes

548
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:45,000
 onto my podcast or my newsletter. And if there's anything that looks like a red flag, it's a no

549
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:50,000
 for me because I know that my trust that I have with the people that I serve with my

550
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:55,000
 content is so slowly earned but so quickly destroyed that one ad or

551
00:45:55,000 --> 00:46:00,000
 just running one little 20 second segment by the wrong people could

552
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:05,000
 completely disrupt or destroy my reputation. And that's something that that is intimacy

553
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:10,000
 because only somebody who actually cares about me would be disappointed when I give

554
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:15,000
 them Scottish titles or whatever that was good. Nobody thing was called right. If I'm just some guy

555
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:20,000
 peddling something talking about certain things, I'm kind of entertaining. Yeah, that would be different.

556
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:25,000
 Yeah, he's just trying to sell this skip. But if they have a relationship with me, just like I want to have

557
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:30,000
 a relationship with everybody that listens to me or watches me, then I cannot do this.

558
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:35,000
 And this is why I will never even go into this territory because I feel I value

559
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:40,000
 this potential intimacy with somebody that shares my brain for the hour that they

560
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:45,000
 listen to me so much more than the hundreds or thousands of dollars that I could be making.

561
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:50,000
 I still need to make money, but I will try to make it on the exact side of

562
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:55,000
 like the exact opposite of where hucksters are. I want to be as clear, as transparent, and as

563
00:46:55,000 --> 00:47:00,000
 honest as I can. And if the people that want to sponsor my work are not, then they're not going to be on there.

564
00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:05,000
 Yeah, interesting.

565
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:10,000
 Yeah, I think maybe the argument that you're the counter argument that you're making to my to be

566
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:15,000
 clear, this is a devil's advocate. This is not what I actually think, but I just thought it was an interesting thing to sort

567
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:20,000
 of spar with is that ultimately there are consequences, right?

568
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:25,000
 The sort of like arc of Internet karma might be long, but

569
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:30,000
 it sort of bends towards justice and eventually

570
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:35,000
 eventually it comes back around to bite you. Although some people do seem to be very effective at just

571
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:40,000
 continuously chasing the next audience and the next audience.

572
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:45,000
 That's the thing, right? They burn bridges wherever they go. And at some point, I'm sorry for the background noise. I'm having people do some

573
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:50,000
 work in my house at this point. So you are live with my basement being finished.

574
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:55,000
 I have an example for this. When I started writing,

575
00:47:55,000 --> 00:48:00,000
 I was reaching out to a lot of authors that I really admire and had a chat with

576
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:05,000
 one of them, obviously not going to name them, but they tried to kind of sell me

577
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:10,000
 on maybe building some kind of MLM online education

578
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:15,000
 system with them.

579
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:20,000
 One of those moments was like, "Yeah, I love your books, but boy am I never going to talk to you

580
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:25,000
 again." And they have since moved on to greener pastures, different fields

581
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:30,000
 of writing. And I'm like, "Yeah, this kind of reputation, it's not just that you

582
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:35,000
 burn your reputation with your potential customers, your prospects, which is bad enough.

583
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:40,000
 And then you need to move to a different market and kind of rediscover that to begin with if you do these kinds of things. But you burn

584
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:45,000
 reputation with people in your industry that could generate massive, hopefully, opportunities for you.

585
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:50,000
 Like potential collaborators, partners, people who are also just as interested as you are

586
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:55,000
 in making money, maybe not using the same methods, but they still try to build a business

587
00:48:55,000 --> 00:49:00,000
 in that field. And boy, every time somebody in private

588
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:05,000
 talks to me about that author, they get the story. I will not shut up about the story because

589
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:10,000
 this is just, "Don't meet your heroes." And they are obviously projecting to be somebody

590
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:15,000
 completely different from who they actually are. And that is something that

591
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:20,000
 in an industry, people will know. And if you want to be known as the person who

592
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:25,000
 tries to scam their way around their audience, go for it. But I don't want

593
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:30,000
 to be that. I don't want to close my opportunities. I don't want to make ten dollars today

594
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:35,000
 if I can make a couple thousand a year from now. I don't think

595
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:40,000
 of it as finite games. I don't want to play finite games. I don't want to scam. You don't see me

596
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:45,000
 do giveaways or that kind of stuff because I know I could get a lot of followers, get a lot of

597
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:50,000
 attention, get a lot of hype, but why would I? I was just going to try to get these people one at a time by just

598
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:55,000
 having a nice interaction with them because that is what builds intimacy. I want to attract people

599
00:49:55,000 --> 00:50:00,000
 who want to respond to me on a personal basis, who want to build a relationship with me.

600
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 That's my rant and my story.

601
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:10,000
 That seems really helpful. I feel like I'm coming to a sort of loose conclusion on this topic.

602
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:15,000
 I'm going to try and summarize it and see what you think.

603
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 I do think probably you and I have a light version of imposter syndrome on this

604
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 in the sense that probably we are over-correcting

605
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 in terms of over-caviating, over-calibrating and saying

606
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 "I'm going to get a lot of information on this."

607
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:40,000
 Just basically adding even more uncertainty in there than maybe there actually is.

608
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 Probably we could dial that back a little bit and just do a version of what I started doing

609
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 with my tweets by just saying, "Look,

610
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:55,000
 it's assumed that entrepreneurship is a tricky domain. There's no correct

611
00:50:55,000 --> 00:51:00,000
 thing that we say is in my experience to the best of my understanding as far as I can tell,

612
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:05,000
 blah, blah, blah, blah." I'm not going to repeat that over and over and over again.

613
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:10,000
 I think maybe we're making the case for building public here as well, which is to have

614
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:15,000
 a public conversation about the underlying epistemology of

615
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:20,000
 what is knowable and what's not knowable and how we approach that and then just letting

616
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:25,000
 folks understand that framework. Hopefully they consume

617
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:30,000
 both of those things simultaneously. Maybe we clip this and it's

618
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:35,000
 part of the common BA as Arvind and Tyler talk about what they know and don't know.

619
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:40,000
 But yeah, build in public. Just say how we're thinking about it and put that out

620
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:45,000
 there as well and then that maybe gives you license to not certainly not embellish

621
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:50,000
 or anything but to not feel like you have to constantly caveat

622
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:55,000
 and feel like, "Oh, well, can I really say this or not?"

623
00:51:55,000 --> 00:52:00,000
 You just say what you think as long as you've told people how you think about it.

624
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:05,000
 I think that's one of the things that you've done so well over the last couple of weeks, with things not working out

625
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:10,000
 as you expected in your own business there. Something you said a couple of weeks ago,

626
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:15,000
 is you shared everything, you talked about everything in public, your decisions were out there,

627
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:20,000
 your assumptions were out there. It's hard to fill in the blanks if there are no blanks.

628
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:25,000
 And blanks usually are things where people put in the worst of them because they have their own

629
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:30,000
 doubts and their own things internally that they project on others.

630
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:35,000
 By us just talking about our own insecurity, I think we defeat some of the insecurity because we can always

631
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:40,000
 reference this as us honestly sharing our opinion on the topic. There's no pretense here.

632
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:45,000
 What's the pretense in being vulnerable? Can you fake vulnerability?

633
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:50,000
 It's probably much, much harder to fake being vulnerable than it is to fake being invincible.

634
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:55,000
 To cut only the finest things and show them, that is much easier than to show the whole thing

635
00:52:55,000 --> 00:53:00,000
 or make up things to represent that. Yeah, I think you're right. Building in public is a great

636
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:05,000
 way out of there because it also invites not just a conversation, but empathy.

637
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:10,000
 It invites empathy of the reader, the viewer, the person on the

638
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:15,000
 other side to see that you are a human being trying to make something happen.

639
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:20,000
 Most of the time when you read a book, you read thoughts. And if you don't think of them as just

640
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:25,000
 something that comes out of somebody's mind, you take them as gospel.

641
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:30,000
 Most of the time, unless you're reading the Bible or the Quran or whatever holy book you're reading,

642
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:35,000
 you're not reading the words of God. You're reading the words of man. And the words of man are as fallible as

643
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:40,000
 the person is behind them. And if you forget that, then you

644
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:45,000
 have no empathy for the writer or for the author. So I guess maybe I'm asking for my

645
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:50,000
 empathy by people who consume because

646
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:55,000
 that also makes them less prone to take advice that was not meant for them in the first place. It's to understand

647
00:53:55,000 --> 00:54:00,000
 where this is coming from. Maybe I'm renting here, but I just want to teach people to

648
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:05,000
 teach people to take less

649
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:10,000
 advice differently. I just want people to see advice

650
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:15,000
 and see, "Okay, here's an option." Not, "Here's a surefire way to do X in one hour." Or not, "Here

651
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:20,000
 are 10 ways that are guaranteed to XYZ." I just hate these kinds of things because they are never true.

652
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:25,000
 Literally, they can't be true because if they were, you wouldn't need to state them or you wouldn't

653
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:30,000
 state them that way. You would be more elaborate in actually transporting the information.

654
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:35,000
 Looking at anything as potential, not as a guaranteed

655
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:40,000
 way, that would be a good start. I really like this topic. I could go on about this forever, but I don't think we

656
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:45,000
 should.

657
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:50,000
 We got a little bit off track with the Calm MBA scheduling, the origin

658
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:55,000
 of this podcast. That's my fault entirely.

659
00:54:55,000 --> 00:55:00,000
 I think what did we decide between now and the next episode of this?

660
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:05,000
 The last thread we left it on was basically wanting to run some slightly

661
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:10,000
 more experimental, more workshop versions of things. It might be either one day or a couple of days or

662
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:15,000
 a weekend or something like that.

663
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:20,000
 I think between now and the next one, we commit to doing the first one. Basically, how long is it going to be? What's the rough agenda?

664
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:25,000
 Which exact dates are it?

665
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:30,000
 That is a good topic for weeks of reflective work.

666
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:35,000
 Most importantly, probably when are we going to start this? Because I thrive on deadlines and I

667
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:40,000
 fear deadlines at the same time, so this is going to be fun.

668
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:45,000
 We both need to shuffle around probably a couple of things or make sure that we overlap and are present for that.

669
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:50,000
 Let's think about that. Let's reconvene here in a week and

670
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:55,000
 have an extended conversation about this. Maybe cut our big

671
00:55:55,000 --> 00:56:00,000
 exploratory topic a bit short and get back into the Comm MBA a little bit.

672
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:05,000
 It's so nice for us to be able to talk about whatever we want in whatever way we want to. It's really

673
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:10,000
 enjoyable. But see if we can actually focus on the project that we are intentionally

674
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:15,000
 building here again. Let's find a time,

675
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:20,000
 a length and a really rough bullet point content

676
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:25,000
 situation. Let's work on that and talk about it next week.

677
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:30,000
 Do we have anybody to shout out? I don't want to shout out

678
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:35,000
 Paul Millard again because we've been doing this forever. But I've been reading his work and it's been so

679
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:40,000
 enjoyable. Do you have anybody you want to give a big shout out to?

680
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:45,000
 Yeah, you know who comes to mind is Elizabeth Yin. She's an investor at the

681
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:50,000
 Hustle Fund. Her Twitter handle is

682
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:55,000
 very funny. It's dunkhippo33

683
00:56:55,000 --> 00:57:00,000
 D-U-N-K. Anyway, Elizabeth is at Hustle Fund.

684
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:05,000
 I just refuted a thread that she had earlier today that was great. Just

685
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:10,000
 basically on the state of fundraising.

686
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:15,000
 More of a traditional VC, I would say.

687
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:20,000
 Coming through things through that lens.

688
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:25,000
 Also one of the few people on Twitter from that kind of perspective that really just says it like it is.

689
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:30,000
 Very bluntly, doesn't embellish or anything like that.

690
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:35,000
 She had a bunch of great advice for founders on how to think about fundraising this year.

691
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:40,000
 Elizabeth.

692
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:45,000
 I love her tweets as well. It's nice to have a view into the VC world through her.

693
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:50,000
 That is both instructive and intriguing.

694
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:55,000
 I don't have many people that I enjoy reading from that world as much.

695
00:57:55,000 --> 00:58:00,000
 That's a wonderful suggestion.

696
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:05,000
 And work on the Com MBA because I really want to see this progress that we are about to

697
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:10,000
 make over the next week. Well, I guess let's catch up again a week from now.

698
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:15,000
 Talk to you later. See you. Bye.