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[MUSIC]

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[LAUGH]

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My gosh.

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So good.

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[MUSIC]

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Friendship, so it is good to see my

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friends, give them a hug.

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We can all go back to our home now and

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see each other on the screen.

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Yeah, you can do it.

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Standing on the

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counter in his underpants.

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I'm gonna consider this a win.

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Super professional.

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That is one of the

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beauties of technology.

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There's always a fire,

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there's always a dumpster fire.

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I just gotta get this one thing out.

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Just one, I just gotta

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get this one thing out.

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I've learned to stop myself.

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Why, cuz we're flying

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somewhere fun, honey?

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No.

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No, absolutely not.

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No. Do you go buy any aliases?

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Stop skipping the

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toilet, I got the riffs.

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Bra, what do you mean, bro?

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Soccer's the best when

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there's good weather.

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Did you say cult or club?

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It just felt like they were too manly.

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And I was like, yeah, I'd love to.

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[LAUGH] What became known as the mahjong moms.

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So it was really legit, but

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she gave me an aspect on it.

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I mean, I can be Shauna.

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You're Shauna the mahjong father?

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Yeah, that's right.

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Yeah.

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Shauna the mahjong mama.

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Fail.

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Third time's not a charm.

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It's not a charm, it's hard.

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Yeah, I can only go so far.

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You can't be a boo girl.

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I've never been a boo girl.

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Wow, the pool sure looks great.

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[LAUGH]

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It's so green.

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It's greener than our grass.

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Oh, good.

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It's a metal tromp.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, it's good.

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P.T. was asking when they're

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going to get to see Mr. Megan.

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It was a split household to some degree.

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These decisions are emotional.

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The gods smile on you?

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Yes.

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It's like, oh.

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Yeah, those

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conversations don't come easy.

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Yeah, and the day

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that it's not is the day

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that I shouldn't be leading people.

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That's when I get in the whole, like,

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waste your boots up.

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That is realistic.

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You're positive.

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So we're real positive.

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One, two, three.

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[GASP]

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You're kidding.

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Get out of here.

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We really do finish each other's.

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Welcome to the Mr. and

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Mrs. English podcast.

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I'm Megan.

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And I'm Shauna.

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We're here to talk about

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the wild ride of raising kids,

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growing careers, and

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keeping life together

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in the middle of all the chaos.

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So buckle up, because we're all in this

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crazy journey together.

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P.T. You're like Roadrunner tonight.

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Yeah, changed it up a little bit there.

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Does it give you the same effect?

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Probably.

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Oh, that's good.

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I think so.

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Yeah.

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You could just be

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Roadrunner instead of, like,

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a 1950s doo wop person.

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I love it.

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Yeah, that's right.

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To get my mic ready.

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It's very low.

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No, I was going to get my

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mic ready after I do that.

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Yeah.

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Because it sets at a different

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height for the other podcast.

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For sure.

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Yeah.

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Some technical difficulties, people.

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It's all good.

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That's all right.

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You would think we'd have

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maybe the production crew

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can just cut this out.

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You would think so.

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Somebody should be

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able to edit the editor.

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Yeah, the editor can get rid of that.

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It's easy.

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Somebody can.

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Oh my gosh.

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So for folks watching on

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YouTube, that was perfect.

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You're, like, struggling to lift it up.

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And it just went, whoa.

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I thought it was done.

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This is the top of the line stuff here.

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I know.

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Well, you know, it is late.

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Like, we are recording this late.

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It's getting to be late at night.

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It's been a long day.

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Yeah.

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So I will give you grace.

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I don't know if the listeners will give

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you grace, but I will.

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Well, this is the first time we've really

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seen each other since this morning.

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I know.

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It's good to see you.

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Almost 10 o'clock at night.

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I know.

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This has been a long one.

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It's a long one.

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Yeah.

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I mean, this is what

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the podcast is about.

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It's juggling careers and family.

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That's right.

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You know?

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That's right.

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It's days like this when

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I had to be in the office.

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I have to be in the

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office for the next few days

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for all day things.

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Oh, I don't know how people do it when

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they work from an office

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100% of the time.

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Because then you have to do

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all the home and family stuff.

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I'm out of it, but then

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come back and it's still like,

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well, I need to help.

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And I feel like I'm jumping in halfway.

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And it's just--

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Well, you've done it for

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two decades, where I usually

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was the one traveling all the time.

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And my travel schedule has definitely

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eased in the last year,

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which has been fantastic.

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It has.

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It has.

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It's always harder when mom's gone.

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Dad's are easier to

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leave the house, I think.

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I don't know.

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Well, a part of it, I think, is just the

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segregation of duties

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that we have.

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Most of mine are the keep the house

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running kind of things,

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you know?

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Like the cooking, the

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lunches, the laundry, you know?

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Whereas yours are the

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things that we need.

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It's the things that push us forward.

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Mine just kind of keeps the status quo.

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All your chores kind of push us forward.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, it does.

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I was going to ask you how it was being

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in the office today.

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I mean, it's been so long

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since we've been in offices,

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I mean, seeing people.

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I mean, are people getting used to just

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seeing each other four

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times a year?

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Yeah, I think so.

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At least at your company, you guys

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are fully remote since COVID.

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Yep, yep.

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It's nice to see people.

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I mean, because I've been

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with the company so long,

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I have a lot of friendships.

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So it is good to see my friends, give

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them a hug, you know?

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It's great.

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But for the most part, it's like,

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OK, after a couple of

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days, it's like, OK,

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we can all go back to our homes now

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and see each other on the screen.

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Yeah, I agree.

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I mean, I'm hybrid for the

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most part, but basically remote.

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I always had an office

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kind of somewhere in a city,

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but I was never there.

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Well, you travel so much.

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Because you travel and I

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can do my job from the house,

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my home office here.

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But I've found, because we

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never utilized it before COVID,

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or rarely do we

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utilize video conferencing,

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whether it's Skype or

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Teams or what's the other one?

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Zoom.

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Zoom, yeah.

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Zoom, probably one of the main ones.

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Yeah, zoom, zoom, zoom.

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We never use those

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before, but ever since, I mean,

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it's made it so much easier.

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I honestly don't feel like I'm not

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at the office with those

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people, because at least the way

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I used it on my team, and maybe this was

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the wrong way to use

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it, but I mean, it was

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water cooler sometimes.

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Yes.

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I didn't use it

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formally every single time.

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No, I didn't either.

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And I think I made it a

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point, and my teams and everyone

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that I work with, we--

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I guess our department or whatever--

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we made it a standard

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thing to always be on camera.

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And that allowed us to keep

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that kind of human interaction.

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I think teams where

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they're like, hey, I'm not even

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going to turn on my camera, I think

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they lost a lot of that, maybe.

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But the other thing is, it

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does present challenges, though,

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at home, because I am--

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I've said it before, like

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my job is primarily meetings.

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But I'm on camera that whole time.

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And there's not a whole

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lot that you can hide.

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During COVID, and we

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all have these stories,

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I will never forget the view into--

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behind me was into our kitchen, based on

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where I was sitting.

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Do you know the story?

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I think so, but we were at a different

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house at that point,

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because we were building this house.

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And I had told-- this was

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truly 2020 in the midst of COVID.

287
01:08:00,208 --> 01:08:01,083
And I had told our

288
01:08:01,083 --> 01:08:03,958
oldest, who was fourth grade--

289
01:08:04,250 --> 01:08:05,500
fourth or fifth grade at the time,

290
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:06,500
I was like, hey, can

291
01:08:06,500 --> 01:08:07,375
you empty the dishwasher?

292
01:08:07,500 --> 01:08:09,583
I get on a call with

293
01:08:09,583 --> 01:08:10,958
my team, and everybody

294
01:08:11,125 --> 01:08:12,416
is just dying laughing.

295
01:08:13,625 --> 01:08:14,500
Sure enough, our oldest

296
01:08:14,500 --> 01:08:15,875
is standing on the counter

297
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:17,208
in his underpants,

298
01:08:17,208 --> 01:08:18,916
putting away the dishes.

299
01:08:20,333 --> 01:08:22,666
And I was like, you know what?

300
01:08:23,416 --> 01:08:24,833
I'm going to consider this a win.

301
01:08:24,833 --> 01:08:25,250
It's classic.

302
01:08:26,333 --> 01:08:27,750
He is doing what I asked him.

303
01:08:28,125 --> 01:08:29,333
I didn't tell him to put on

304
01:08:29,333 --> 01:08:31,333
his clothes before doing it.

305
01:08:31,666 --> 01:08:32,875
I asked him to do the dishwasher.

306
01:08:33,208 --> 01:08:33,708
He did it.

307
01:08:34,333 --> 01:08:35,583
That's so funny.

308
01:08:35,583 --> 01:08:37,625
I wish-- you always see

309
01:08:37,625 --> 01:08:38,541
those videos or those--

310
01:08:38,791 --> 01:08:40,041
somebody should have videoed

311
01:08:40,041 --> 01:08:43,000
that call and sent it to you.

312
01:08:43,375 --> 01:08:43,750
That's hilarious.

313
01:08:43,958 --> 01:08:45,000
That would have been funny to see.

314
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:45,833
Oh, it gets around.

315
01:08:45,833 --> 01:08:46,833
They still talk about it.

316
01:08:46,833 --> 01:08:48,000
They're like, remember that time.

317
01:08:48,958 --> 01:08:50,083
And then, I mean, there

318
01:08:50,083 --> 01:08:51,125
were so many from that time,

319
01:08:51,125 --> 01:08:53,083
because the kids were always there.

320
01:08:53,625 --> 01:08:54,875
Yeah, I've had employees

321
01:08:54,875 --> 01:08:57,000
that have younger kids,

322
01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:58,500
and they'd always be jumping on.

323
01:08:58,916 --> 01:09:00,250
And on my desk, I've got

324
01:09:00,250 --> 01:09:03,125
some little Lego figurines

325
01:09:03,125 --> 01:09:03,875
and whatnot.

326
01:09:04,208 --> 01:09:05,000
And so I'd always put the

327
01:09:05,000 --> 01:09:07,625
Lego guys up to the camera

328
01:09:07,750 --> 01:09:08,750
and show them-- little

329
01:09:08,750 --> 01:09:09,916
kids love that kind of stuff.

330
01:09:10,291 --> 01:09:10,791
I know.

331
01:09:10,791 --> 01:09:11,000
They do.

332
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:11,208
I guess.

333
01:09:12,416 --> 01:09:14,333
So who says the old guy?

334
01:09:15,541 --> 01:09:16,208
Daddy's boss.

335
01:09:17,250 --> 01:09:17,458
Yeah.

336
01:09:18,958 --> 01:09:19,916
Super professional.

337
01:09:20,375 --> 01:09:22,041
Super-- I don't know.

338
01:09:22,041 --> 01:09:23,375
It's a different world now.

339
01:09:23,375 --> 01:09:24,416
I think COVID allowed

340
01:09:24,416 --> 01:09:26,500
working family to blend together

341
01:09:26,500 --> 01:09:27,500
a little bit better.

342
01:09:27,500 --> 01:09:29,375
It works for us, but--

343
01:09:29,541 --> 01:09:30,708
or definitely works for me.

344
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:31,333
I don't know.

345
01:09:31,541 --> 01:09:32,458
Yeah, I think it did.

346
01:09:33,125 --> 01:09:35,458
But I also saw at one of the companies

347
01:09:36,208 --> 01:09:38,166
that I was at where

348
01:09:38,166 --> 01:09:40,375
people do take advantage of it.

349
01:09:40,750 --> 01:09:42,625
And I'm sad to say that, honestly.

350
01:09:43,458 --> 01:09:44,625
Because most of us are professionals.

351
01:09:45,583 --> 01:09:47,833
But I think if there's a

352
01:09:47,833 --> 01:09:49,291
certain culture, potentially,

353
01:09:50,166 --> 01:09:53,000
that it's kind of set that

354
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:55,083
way within the culture that--

355
01:09:56,416 --> 01:09:58,000
I feel like people took

356
01:09:58,000 --> 01:09:59,583
advantage of it to some degree.

357
01:09:59,583 --> 01:10:00,125
Not the video

358
01:10:00,125 --> 01:10:01,500
conferencing, but the working from home

359
01:10:02,333 --> 01:10:04,250
expectations of just how

360
01:10:04,250 --> 01:10:05,666
flexible their schedule was.

361
01:10:06,916 --> 01:10:10,500
The nine-hour workday kind of

362
01:10:10,500 --> 01:10:12,083
turned into a four-hour work

363
01:10:12,083 --> 01:10:14,708
days, because it just felt that flexible.

364
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:16,125
This wasn't on my team.

365
01:10:17,625 --> 01:10:19,708
This was more of a junior-type team.

366
01:10:20,750 --> 01:10:23,083
Most of our teams are senior people.

367
01:10:24,541 --> 01:10:26,250
They've been around for a long time.

368
01:10:27,333 --> 01:10:28,875
So we didn't see that there.

369
01:10:28,875 --> 01:10:30,041
But yeah, that always

370
01:10:30,041 --> 01:10:30,958
frustrated me a little bit.

371
01:10:32,041 --> 01:10:34,541
Because a lot of us, and even

372
01:10:34,541 --> 01:10:36,083
people that I work with still

373
01:10:36,083 --> 01:10:37,791
now, report up through me.

374
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:39,875
They're the old school.

375
01:10:40,250 --> 01:10:41,916
They got in at 6 o'clock in the morning.

376
01:10:41,916 --> 01:10:42,375
They didn't leave

377
01:10:42,375 --> 01:10:43,791
till 7 o'clock at night.

378
01:10:43,791 --> 01:10:44,791
I mean, you cut your teeth.

379
01:10:45,541 --> 01:10:46,750
In the office.

380
01:10:47,250 --> 01:10:49,416
You got there before the boss.

381
01:10:49,416 --> 01:10:50,625
You left after the boss.

382
01:10:52,500 --> 01:10:55,416
So those guys have kind of struggled

383
01:10:55,416 --> 01:10:57,083
getting through this.

384
01:10:57,333 --> 01:10:58,208
But I think even them

385
01:10:58,208 --> 01:10:59,791
now understand, like, hey,

386
01:10:59,833 --> 01:11:01,583
the video thing's not that bad.

387
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:04,625
Maybe just put a collar shirt on.

388
01:11:04,833 --> 01:11:05,041
Right.

389
01:11:06,833 --> 01:11:07,833
For the day-to-day.

390
01:11:08,208 --> 01:11:08,916
I mean, obviously, when

391
01:11:08,916 --> 01:11:09,875
we're talking to clients,

392
01:11:10,375 --> 01:11:11,416
you look better.

393
01:11:11,416 --> 01:11:11,750
A little different.

394
01:11:12,125 --> 01:11:12,333
Yeah.

395
01:11:13,083 --> 01:11:14,333
Every now and again, you're

396
01:11:14,333 --> 01:11:15,708
like, gosh, you know what?

397
01:11:15,708 --> 01:11:16,500
I don't have too many

398
01:11:16,500 --> 01:11:18,458
meetings with important people

399
01:11:18,458 --> 01:11:19,166
or whatever.

400
01:11:19,166 --> 01:11:20,458
I'm just going to dress down.

401
01:11:20,458 --> 01:11:21,041
That's different than

402
01:11:21,041 --> 01:11:22,083
being in person with people.

403
01:11:22,583 --> 01:11:23,625
It is, yeah.

404
01:11:24,458 --> 01:11:26,250
You do look nicer.

405
01:11:26,500 --> 01:11:27,708
And it's exhausting.

406
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:30,291
I find myself a little--

407
01:11:30,916 --> 01:11:33,291
not a little-- a lot more tired at night.

408
01:11:33,958 --> 01:11:34,625
Well, you're in meetings.

409
01:11:35,166 --> 01:11:35,833
Well, I don't know.

410
01:11:35,833 --> 01:11:36,958
Maybe in the office you would have been

411
01:11:36,958 --> 01:11:37,875
going from conference

412
01:11:37,875 --> 01:11:38,958
room to conference room.

413
01:11:38,958 --> 01:11:39,208
Yeah.

414
01:11:39,875 --> 01:11:40,125
Yeah.

415
01:11:40,625 --> 01:11:40,833
Wow.

416
01:11:41,041 --> 01:11:41,416
I mean--

417
01:11:41,541 --> 01:11:42,458
I would be tiring.

418
01:11:42,750 --> 01:11:43,500
You know, you're just--

419
01:11:43,500 --> 01:11:45,625
Just carrying your laptop and your coffee

420
01:11:45,625 --> 01:11:46,333
everywhere you went.

421
01:11:46,583 --> 01:11:47,250
Yep, yep.

422
01:11:47,500 --> 01:11:48,500
You always have it.

423
01:11:48,500 --> 01:11:49,958
And then kick people

424
01:11:49,958 --> 01:11:51,041
out of conference rooms,

425
01:11:51,291 --> 01:11:52,958
because you're waiting and they're late.

426
01:11:53,833 --> 01:11:55,500
Well, I mean, that's the one beauty.

427
01:11:55,750 --> 01:11:56,916
We complain a lot

428
01:11:56,916 --> 01:11:58,458
about technology, right?

429
01:11:58,708 --> 01:11:59,458
But that is one of the

430
01:11:59,458 --> 01:12:00,750
beauties of technology

431
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,750
is that if you use it correctly and

432
01:12:03,750 --> 01:12:05,000
you're professional enough

433
01:12:05,083 --> 01:12:07,250
about it, that that work flexibility--

434
01:12:08,000 --> 01:12:09,666
I mean, literally before we came in here,

435
01:12:09,666 --> 01:12:10,583
we were both on the computer.

436
01:12:10,916 --> 01:12:11,125
Yeah.

437
01:12:11,333 --> 01:12:13,041
You're-- I was laughing with you,

438
01:12:13,041 --> 01:12:14,125
because it's always day four.

439
01:12:14,458 --> 01:12:14,666
You know?

440
01:12:15,041 --> 01:12:15,541
Always the--

441
01:12:15,541 --> 01:12:16,416
Meghan Bean in the

442
01:12:16,416 --> 01:12:18,375
accounting finance side of her job,

443
01:12:19,041 --> 01:12:20,625
you know, they have to close the books.

444
01:12:20,625 --> 01:12:22,000
And the books are always closing on,

445
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:23,416
like, days three, four,

446
01:12:23,416 --> 01:12:25,000
and five are so hard, or day

447
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:26,416
four is the worst, you know,

448
01:12:26,416 --> 01:12:26,875
all the time.

449
01:12:26,875 --> 01:12:27,541
Yeah, say 758.

450
01:12:27,875 --> 01:12:28,500
Yeah, say yeah.

451
01:12:28,791 --> 01:12:29,583
But it's just always--

452
01:12:29,916 --> 01:12:31,000
every day's day four,

453
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:32,208
there's always a fire drill.

454
01:12:32,208 --> 01:12:33,375
There's always a dumpster fire.

455
01:12:33,625 --> 01:12:34,666
And then the newest one

456
01:12:34,666 --> 01:12:36,208
tonight, again, that just hit me.

457
01:12:36,625 --> 01:12:37,791
Because you're doing it all the time now.

458
01:12:37,791 --> 01:12:39,208
You're like, oh, I just got

459
01:12:39,208 --> 01:12:40,500
to get this one thing out.

460
01:12:40,875 --> 01:12:41,958
Just one-- I just got to

461
01:12:41,958 --> 01:12:42,958
get this one thing out.

462
01:12:43,500 --> 01:12:44,916
There's always one thing.

463
01:12:45,250 --> 01:12:46,125
I mean, I know everybody

464
01:12:46,125 --> 01:12:47,541
always has one thing, but--

465
01:12:47,791 --> 01:12:48,125
I know.

466
01:12:48,458 --> 01:12:49,416
It's your go-to right

467
01:12:49,416 --> 01:12:50,250
now, which is kind of funny.

468
01:12:50,250 --> 01:12:50,875
I know.

469
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:54,500
It really was just one thing.

470
01:12:55,416 --> 01:12:57,833
I just needed to get this one thing.

471
01:12:58,750 --> 01:12:59,625
And then after that one

472
01:12:59,625 --> 01:13:01,000
thing, there's another one thing.

473
01:13:01,416 --> 01:13:01,583
Yeah.

474
01:13:01,875 --> 01:13:02,375
The one thing--

475
01:13:04,458 --> 01:13:05,333
You know, it wasn't even planned.

476
01:13:05,958 --> 01:13:06,916
It really wasn't planned.

477
01:13:08,166 --> 01:13:10,625
Something that-- this is good and bad.

478
01:13:11,375 --> 01:13:12,708
But working from home,

479
01:13:12,958 --> 01:13:14,125
and when you are on video,

480
01:13:14,666 --> 01:13:18,041
you can multitask a lot easier.

481
01:13:18,041 --> 01:13:20,250
So if somebody needs something and you're

482
01:13:20,250 --> 01:13:22,250
in more flexible meaning,

483
01:13:22,583 --> 01:13:23,916
you can send it off real quick,

484
01:13:24,375 --> 01:13:26,375
and no one will even miss the fact

485
01:13:26,375 --> 01:13:28,083
that you maybe spaced

486
01:13:28,083 --> 01:13:29,250
out for a minute or two

487
01:13:29,583 --> 01:13:30,375
while you sent it.

488
01:13:30,625 --> 01:13:32,083
You were just actively listening while

489
01:13:32,083 --> 01:13:33,041
you sent something out.

490
01:13:33,416 --> 01:13:34,541
But being in what--

491
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:36,500
it's kind of like a

492
01:13:36,500 --> 01:13:37,500
conference that I'm in.

493
01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:40,291
I don't have access, just easy access.

494
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:42,500
So you're like, I do have

495
01:13:42,500 --> 01:13:43,416
to send that out tonight.

496
01:13:45,291 --> 01:13:46,166
Yeah, that's right.

497
01:13:46,166 --> 01:13:47,625
You don't get as much kind of

498
01:13:47,625 --> 01:13:49,083
double time a little bit there.

499
01:13:49,083 --> 01:13:50,541
I was never good at that

500
01:13:50,541 --> 01:13:52,083
double time when I do it.

501
01:13:52,125 --> 01:13:54,291
So I just can't because I will--

502
01:13:54,875 --> 01:13:56,041
I'll start focusing on that,

503
01:13:56,041 --> 01:13:58,000
even though I'm really good

504
01:13:58,000 --> 01:13:59,041
at having multiple things.

505
01:13:59,625 --> 01:14:00,458
You are.

506
01:14:00,458 --> 01:14:02,041
You're a great multitasker.

507
01:14:02,041 --> 01:14:03,125
I'm terrible at it.

508
01:14:03,125 --> 01:14:04,916
But when it comes to being on video

509
01:14:05,666 --> 01:14:07,625
and trying to do something else, I

510
01:14:07,625 --> 01:14:08,791
can't listen to the person on video

511
01:14:08,791 --> 01:14:09,333
and then concentrate

512
01:14:09,333 --> 01:14:10,166
on something I'm doing.

513
01:14:10,166 --> 01:14:10,916
So maybe it's just a

514
01:14:10,916 --> 01:14:12,208
higher level function thinking

515
01:14:12,416 --> 01:14:13,625
that I can't multitask.

516
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:16,208
But I'm always-- I've

517
01:14:16,208 --> 01:14:17,625
learned to stop myself.

518
01:14:17,625 --> 01:14:18,916
I just have to be engaged.

519
01:14:19,166 --> 01:14:19,666
That's it.

520
01:14:20,041 --> 01:14:20,833
That's one reason why I

521
01:14:20,833 --> 01:14:22,208
always use the video, too,

522
01:14:22,500 --> 01:14:24,375
is it does keep me engaged.

523
01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:27,666
But because you know if

524
01:14:27,666 --> 01:14:28,791
I've turned my computer off,

525
01:14:29,750 --> 01:14:31,791
I'm just listening

526
01:14:31,791 --> 01:14:33,375
while doing something else.

527
01:14:33,666 --> 01:14:33,875
Yeah.

528
01:14:34,375 --> 01:14:34,583
Yeah.

529
01:14:34,916 --> 01:14:35,916
So oh, well.

530
01:14:36,500 --> 01:14:37,541
Enough work talk.

531
01:14:37,916 --> 01:14:38,750
That's no fun.

532
01:14:39,041 --> 01:14:39,291
I know.

533
01:14:39,583 --> 01:14:40,416
It's not fun.

534
01:14:40,416 --> 01:14:41,416
It's just been a busy day.

535
01:14:42,541 --> 01:14:44,291
So yeah, literally just got--

536
01:14:44,291 --> 01:14:44,750
Every day.

537
01:14:44,750 --> 01:14:45,375
We're getting up early in

538
01:14:45,375 --> 01:14:47,041
the morning before school

539
01:14:47,041 --> 01:14:47,666
to take the kids.

540
01:14:48,875 --> 01:14:50,750
I mean, again, it's the chaos train.

541
01:14:50,750 --> 01:14:52,166
And this is what everybody does, I know.

542
01:14:52,166 --> 01:14:52,666
But just so everybody

543
01:14:52,666 --> 01:14:55,000
knows, the little things

544
01:14:55,375 --> 01:14:58,416
that families like you and us fit in.

545
01:14:59,125 --> 01:15:01,916
So we're flying out of the house earlier

546
01:15:01,916 --> 01:15:02,708
than we would normally

547
01:15:02,708 --> 01:15:03,625
get on a bus or go to

548
01:15:03,625 --> 01:15:04,333
school because we're going

549
01:15:04,333 --> 01:15:05,500
to the airport tomorrow morning.

550
01:15:06,166 --> 01:15:06,500
Why?

551
01:15:06,500 --> 01:15:06,958
Because we're flying

552
01:15:06,958 --> 01:15:07,833
somewhere fun, honey?

553
01:15:08,625 --> 01:15:09,000
No.

554
01:15:09,375 --> 01:15:10,666
No, absolutely not.

555
01:15:11,416 --> 01:15:12,041
Our kids.

556
01:15:12,541 --> 01:15:13,250
We're going there to

557
01:15:13,250 --> 01:15:14,458
get our global entry.

558
01:15:15,875 --> 01:15:16,916
Interviews for the children.

559
01:15:17,875 --> 01:15:19,875
Because you and I have our global entries

560
01:15:20,291 --> 01:15:20,875
since we're going out of

561
01:15:20,875 --> 01:15:21,666
the country this summer.

562
01:15:22,791 --> 01:15:25,208
But they make it very clear you are not

563
01:15:25,208 --> 01:15:25,875
allowed to bring your

564
01:15:25,875 --> 01:15:27,000
children through global entry

565
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:28,458
if they don't have their own--

566
01:15:29,041 --> 01:15:29,500
Global entry.

567
01:15:30,208 --> 01:15:30,666
Cards, right.

568
01:15:30,958 --> 01:15:31,166
Yes.

569
01:15:31,708 --> 01:15:32,541
Someone at customs was

570
01:15:32,541 --> 01:15:34,916
very clear about that in one

571
01:15:34,916 --> 01:15:36,541
of the trips that we took recently.

572
01:15:37,875 --> 01:15:38,041
OK.

573
01:15:38,625 --> 01:15:38,916
Yeah.

574
01:15:39,125 --> 01:15:39,500
Got it.

575
01:15:39,625 --> 01:15:39,916
Sorry.

576
01:15:40,750 --> 01:15:41,791
I don't think that was recent.

577
01:15:41,791 --> 01:15:42,958
They were small when we did that.

578
01:15:42,958 --> 01:15:43,875
We were little, yeah.

579
01:15:44,333 --> 01:15:45,416
I remember where we were.

580
01:15:45,750 --> 01:15:46,583
But anyway, so that's--

581
01:15:46,791 --> 01:15:47,500
so yeah, we'll do that.

582
01:15:47,541 --> 01:15:48,000
And then we'll drop

583
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:48,791
everybody off at school

584
01:15:48,791 --> 01:15:51,000
and have a regular full normal day again.

585
01:15:51,208 --> 01:15:51,416
Right.

586
01:15:51,916 --> 01:15:52,125
Right.

587
01:15:52,791 --> 01:15:54,458
But nothing like getting going fast.

588
01:15:54,750 --> 01:15:55,833
Nothing like getting going fast.

589
01:15:56,083 --> 01:15:56,916
I'm sure it's--

590
01:15:57,833 --> 01:15:58,500
I don't know.

591
01:15:58,500 --> 01:15:59,375
Hopefully it's real quick.

592
01:15:59,375 --> 01:16:00,583
I mean, what are they going to ask them?

593
01:16:01,083 --> 01:16:01,416
Like, are you going

594
01:16:01,416 --> 01:16:02,208
to ask an 11-year-old,

595
01:16:02,500 --> 01:16:03,208
have you ever smuggled

596
01:16:03,208 --> 01:16:04,291
anything into the country?

597
01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:06,208
Yeah.

598
01:16:06,375 --> 01:16:07,708
He'll be like, what does smuggle mean?

599
01:16:07,708 --> 01:16:09,291
Do you go buy any aliases?

600
01:16:10,875 --> 01:16:11,041
Bra.

601
01:16:11,458 --> 01:16:12,708
What do you mean, bro?

602
01:16:14,250 --> 01:16:16,875
Subskibbly the way they talk right now.

603
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:17,916
Subskibbly toilet.

604
01:16:18,125 --> 01:16:18,791
I got the riz.

605
01:16:19,083 --> 01:16:19,291
Like--

606
01:16:19,375 --> 01:16:19,666
That's right.

607
01:16:20,208 --> 01:16:21,583
I don't know what any of that means.

608
01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:22,833
I hope I didn't offend anyone.

609
01:16:22,833 --> 01:16:23,541
The skis.

610
01:16:24,458 --> 01:16:24,625
Yeah.

611
01:16:25,750 --> 01:16:26,000
Yeah.

612
01:16:26,750 --> 01:16:27,375
We'll have to remind our

613
01:16:27,375 --> 01:16:29,000
children to speak properly

614
01:16:29,125 --> 01:16:29,916
tomorrow morning.

615
01:16:29,916 --> 01:16:30,125
Yeah.

616
01:16:30,583 --> 01:16:30,791
Uh-huh.

617
01:16:32,458 --> 01:16:32,750
[LAUGHTER]

618
01:16:32,750 --> 01:16:33,708
I do wonder, like, what

619
01:16:33,708 --> 01:16:34,791
are you going to ask them?

620
01:16:35,625 --> 01:16:36,375
Well, we'll find out.

621
01:16:37,041 --> 01:16:38,416
What other names have you gone by?

622
01:16:38,416 --> 01:16:38,958
Three minors.

623
01:16:40,125 --> 01:16:41,500
You know, they might not even know

624
01:16:41,500 --> 01:16:42,500
how to spell their middle names.

625
01:16:42,791 --> 01:16:43,000
Yeah.

626
01:16:43,291 --> 01:16:44,750
Are these your-- have

627
01:16:44,750 --> 01:16:45,666
you been married before?

628
01:16:47,875 --> 01:16:48,291
I'm 11.

629
01:16:48,666 --> 01:16:49,666
What country are we in here?

630
01:16:50,250 --> 01:16:50,458
Right.

631
01:16:51,125 --> 01:16:51,833
So that'll be fun.

632
01:16:52,875 --> 01:16:54,416
Not really fun, but I

633
01:16:54,416 --> 01:16:55,708
guess I'm just summing that up.

634
01:16:55,958 --> 01:16:57,000
We'll get it in there.

635
01:16:57,208 --> 01:16:58,166
There's been a couple things

636
01:16:58,166 --> 01:16:59,458
that we've had to squeeze in.

637
01:16:59,916 --> 01:17:01,041
You know, had to take

638
01:17:01,041 --> 01:17:02,208
the daughter to urgent care

639
01:17:02,208 --> 01:17:03,958
on top of you coming back from--

640
01:17:04,791 --> 01:17:06,000
how was this weekend in Austin?

641
01:17:06,333 --> 01:17:07,333
Yeah, I was going to get to that one.

642
01:17:07,333 --> 01:17:08,208
It was great, you know.

643
01:17:10,208 --> 01:17:10,833
It was good weather.

644
01:17:11,416 --> 01:17:12,750
Soccer's the best when

645
01:17:12,750 --> 01:17:13,541
there's good weather.

646
01:17:13,625 --> 01:17:13,875
Yes.

647
01:17:14,125 --> 01:17:14,750
And you're sitting on the

648
01:17:14,750 --> 01:17:15,666
side of the lane, not freezing,

649
01:17:16,375 --> 01:17:17,250
not sweating to

650
01:17:17,250 --> 01:17:19,458
death, because it's usually

651
01:17:19,958 --> 01:17:21,625
10 months of the year in Texas.

652
01:17:22,375 --> 01:17:24,000
Soccer is either way too cold.

653
01:17:24,333 --> 01:17:24,583
Yes.

654
01:17:24,583 --> 01:17:26,333
It gets super cold here.

655
01:17:26,583 --> 01:17:26,875
It does.

656
01:17:27,125 --> 01:17:28,416
Like, I've worn--

657
01:17:28,833 --> 01:17:30,166
I wear way too many layers.

658
01:17:30,666 --> 01:17:31,208
Enough that I could

659
01:17:31,208 --> 01:17:32,375
go skiing in it easily.

660
01:17:33,083 --> 01:17:33,500
Yeah.

661
01:17:33,500 --> 01:17:34,583
Maybe more than when I go skiing.

662
01:17:34,583 --> 01:17:35,583
There are times when you

663
01:17:35,583 --> 01:17:36,958
need to use two hands to count

664
01:17:36,958 --> 01:17:38,000
the layers that you have.

665
01:17:38,541 --> 01:17:39,000
Yeah.

666
01:17:39,416 --> 01:17:40,083
So it gets really cold.

667
01:17:40,416 --> 01:17:41,041
Or it's too hot.

668
01:17:41,041 --> 01:17:41,791
I don't know how you move.

669
01:17:42,250 --> 01:17:42,458
Like--

670
01:17:43,208 --> 01:17:44,958
I mean, they've played in--

671
01:17:45,833 --> 01:17:46,708
what's the lowest

672
01:17:46,708 --> 01:17:48,791
temperature we've played in?

673
01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:52,208
Like, actual or wind chill?

674
01:17:52,500 --> 01:17:52,875
Because I mean--

675
01:17:52,875 --> 01:17:54,000
With wind chill down here.

676
01:17:54,375 --> 01:17:55,583
Oh, it's easily gotten in

677
01:17:55,583 --> 01:17:56,708
the single, if not negatives.

678
01:17:57,041 --> 01:17:57,333
I mean--

679
01:17:57,708 --> 01:17:58,958
We've been right near zero.

680
01:17:59,250 --> 01:17:59,833
We've been right near

681
01:17:59,833 --> 01:18:00,500
zero with wind chill.

682
01:18:00,500 --> 01:18:01,166
So that's cold.

683
01:18:01,166 --> 01:18:03,000
And that was 17, like, actual or

684
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:03,666
something like that.

685
01:18:03,666 --> 01:18:04,166
And we played.

686
01:18:04,500 --> 01:18:05,708
They don't ever stop.

687
01:18:05,750 --> 01:18:06,041
No.

688
01:18:06,041 --> 01:18:06,583
I get that.

689
01:18:06,583 --> 01:18:07,375
People in Minnesota might

690
01:18:07,375 --> 01:18:08,625
think that's not a big deal.

691
01:18:08,916 --> 01:18:09,875
But I don't think soccer

692
01:18:09,875 --> 01:18:11,250
season's year round there.

693
01:18:11,291 --> 01:18:12,500
Soccer season here for our

694
01:18:12,500 --> 01:18:14,208
club soccer is year round.

695
01:18:14,208 --> 01:18:14,416
Year round.

696
01:18:14,750 --> 01:18:16,291
So there is no time off.

697
01:18:16,291 --> 01:18:17,458
Other than maybe they

698
01:18:17,458 --> 01:18:19,250
might give us July off.

699
01:18:19,500 --> 01:18:19,708
Yeah.

700
01:18:20,166 --> 01:18:20,416
Yeah.

701
01:18:20,416 --> 01:18:21,541
And usually it's two

702
01:18:21,541 --> 01:18:22,416
or three weeks in July.

703
01:18:22,416 --> 01:18:24,500
Yeah, if your kid's committed to a club,

704
01:18:24,500 --> 01:18:25,583
then you get July off.

705
01:18:25,583 --> 01:18:27,083
Did you say cult or club?

706
01:18:28,375 --> 01:18:30,041
I think you know

707
01:18:30,041 --> 01:18:30,791
where I'm going with that.

708
01:18:31,291 --> 01:18:31,500
Yeah.

709
01:18:31,791 --> 01:18:32,625
I mean, they're really--

710
01:18:32,625 --> 01:18:33,625
they're not that far off.

711
01:18:33,625 --> 01:18:34,208
It's insane.

712
01:18:34,625 --> 01:18:34,833
A word.

713
01:18:35,500 --> 01:18:36,833
Or we'll play in 112.

714
01:18:37,333 --> 01:18:38,125
I think it's the

715
01:18:38,125 --> 01:18:39,291
hottest we've ever played in.

716
01:18:39,291 --> 01:18:40,250
It was 112.

717
01:18:41,458 --> 01:18:42,041
And they played.

718
01:18:42,541 --> 01:18:43,625
The kids played.

719
01:18:44,208 --> 01:18:45,708
Thank god they gave them

720
01:18:45,708 --> 01:18:48,416
a break, a water break.

721
01:18:48,416 --> 01:18:49,625
They actually-- no, they didn't just get

722
01:18:49,625 --> 01:18:51,083
one water break per half.

723
01:18:51,083 --> 01:18:52,583
They got two.

724
01:18:52,583 --> 01:18:53,041
Oh, yeah.

725
01:18:53,041 --> 01:18:54,750
Two water breaks in a half.

726
01:18:54,750 --> 01:18:55,625
So every 10 minutes they got

727
01:18:55,625 --> 01:18:57,375
to come off and get some water.

728
01:18:57,958 --> 01:18:59,666
So no kids died of--

729
01:19:01,166 --> 01:19:02,333
Do you remember--

730
01:19:03,500 --> 01:19:05,458
Do you remember the one ref that we had

731
01:19:05,458 --> 01:19:06,208
that got heat stroke

732
01:19:06,208 --> 01:19:08,208
and started puking at halftime one time?

733
01:19:08,625 --> 01:19:10,416
Yeah, I remember our oldest son guy.

734
01:19:10,583 --> 01:19:12,375
He stroked and puked after the game.

735
01:19:12,375 --> 01:19:12,583
Yeah.

736
01:19:12,875 --> 01:19:13,791
That actually was the same

737
01:19:13,791 --> 01:19:15,083
game that the ref got it, right?

738
01:19:15,541 --> 01:19:16,291
Oh, was it really?

739
01:19:16,291 --> 01:19:16,708
I think it was.

740
01:19:16,708 --> 01:19:17,708
I may have blocked that out.

741
01:19:18,125 --> 01:19:18,875
Oh, gosh.

742
01:19:18,875 --> 01:19:19,458
It was awful.

743
01:19:19,458 --> 01:19:19,958
That wasn't even the

744
01:19:19,958 --> 01:19:20,791
hottest game we've had.

745
01:19:20,791 --> 01:19:20,958
So--

746
01:19:20,958 --> 01:19:21,416
Not even close.

747
01:19:22,125 --> 01:19:23,041
Anyways, it was a

748
01:19:23,041 --> 01:19:25,250
beautiful weekend down in Austin.

749
01:19:26,208 --> 01:19:26,791
That was nice.

750
01:19:28,458 --> 01:19:29,500
Our oldest had fun.

751
01:19:29,500 --> 01:19:31,083
He's getting at the age where he's just

752
01:19:31,083 --> 01:19:32,125
getting some good friends,

753
01:19:32,125 --> 01:19:33,166
hanging out with them,

754
01:19:33,625 --> 01:19:34,916
hopefully staying out of trouble.

755
01:19:36,500 --> 01:19:37,541
But I mean, they have to go everywhere

756
01:19:37,541 --> 01:19:38,500
with a parent anyway.

757
01:19:39,791 --> 01:19:40,500
So I think it was good.

758
01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:42,208
The one highlight for me

759
01:19:42,208 --> 01:19:43,458
that I told you about was--

760
01:19:43,833 --> 01:19:44,250
I love this.

761
01:19:44,875 --> 01:19:46,083
I hope you're going there.

762
01:19:46,083 --> 01:19:47,791
Well, yeah, it's not that big of a deal.

763
01:19:48,041 --> 01:19:51,833
But some of the moms on

764
01:19:51,833 --> 01:19:53,083
the team, one mom on the team

765
01:19:53,083 --> 01:19:56,041
had a travel mahjong set, right?

766
01:19:56,333 --> 01:19:58,708
And so she was getting ready to set up.

767
01:19:58,708 --> 01:20:01,791
She's telling two other moms, oh, we're

768
01:20:01,791 --> 01:20:02,916
going to learn to play mahjong.

769
01:20:02,916 --> 01:20:03,791
She's going to teach them.

770
01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:06,666
And I was always like, I love mahjong

771
01:20:07,166 --> 01:20:08,458
because I played on

772
01:20:08,458 --> 01:20:09,875
the computer, which is--

773
01:20:10,416 --> 01:20:12,541
computer mahjong is not actual game

774
01:20:12,541 --> 01:20:14,458
mahjong, which probably

775
01:20:14,500 --> 01:20:15,500
everybody knows that.

776
01:20:15,750 --> 01:20:16,833
So I'm just verifying

777
01:20:16,833 --> 01:20:18,666
that everybody knows that.

778
01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:19,750
But I was like, I

779
01:20:19,750 --> 01:20:20,333
don't know how to play it.

780
01:20:20,333 --> 01:20:21,958
I'd love to learn how to play it in my

781
01:20:21,958 --> 01:20:23,250
mind at first, right?

782
01:20:24,125 --> 01:20:24,958
Because she was like,

783
01:20:24,958 --> 01:20:25,916
oh, we need a fourth.

784
01:20:25,916 --> 01:20:26,708
Does anybody want to play it?

785
01:20:26,708 --> 01:20:28,708
I didn't really know these moms that much

786
01:20:28,708 --> 01:20:29,875
because this is a team that's--

787
01:20:30,333 --> 01:20:31,250
the parents are a little

788
01:20:31,250 --> 01:20:33,208
stick to themselves-ish.

789
01:20:33,500 --> 01:20:36,291
Yeah, there's not a whole lot of--

790
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:37,833
everybody knows each other.

791
01:20:37,833 --> 01:20:38,708
The whole team doesn't mingle.

792
01:20:38,958 --> 01:20:40,500
It's not a mingling sideline.

793
01:20:40,708 --> 01:20:41,625
Yeah, it's not.

794
01:20:41,625 --> 01:20:45,041
So I had talked to

795
01:20:45,041 --> 01:20:46,500
two of the moms before.

796
01:20:47,250 --> 01:20:48,500
One we kind of know fairly well.

797
01:20:49,083 --> 01:20:49,458
She's talked.

798
01:20:49,458 --> 01:20:50,541
We know her the best on the team.

799
01:20:50,541 --> 01:20:51,166
The best, yeah.

800
01:20:51,416 --> 01:20:52,166
One, her son's come

801
01:20:52,166 --> 01:20:53,041
over to the house before.

802
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:54,708
And the other one, I don't

803
01:20:54,708 --> 01:20:55,916
think I've ever met before,

804
01:20:57,083 --> 01:20:58,916
other than just maybe saying hi or a nod.

805
01:20:59,291 --> 01:21:00,208
She was when that was teaching.

806
01:21:00,958 --> 01:21:03,041
Anyways, they needed a fourth, and

807
01:21:03,041 --> 01:21:04,125
there's no other moms there.

808
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:06,416
It was the NFL Draft this weekend,

809
01:21:06,416 --> 01:21:07,416
so all the dads are sitting

810
01:21:07,416 --> 01:21:09,000
down in the bar in this hotel.

811
01:21:09,583 --> 01:21:11,416
It's really nice, a nice Hyatt place.

812
01:21:11,791 --> 01:21:12,375
Oh, wow.

813
01:21:12,375 --> 01:21:13,250
It was fancy.

814
01:21:13,500 --> 01:21:13,833
Top notch.

815
01:21:14,250 --> 01:21:16,125
It was highbrow.

816
01:21:16,625 --> 01:21:17,750
There was literally an

817
01:21:17,750 --> 01:21:18,916
Applebee's across the street.

818
01:21:19,666 --> 01:21:19,875
But--

819
01:21:20,333 --> 01:21:21,000
Fancy, like--

820
01:21:21,125 --> 01:21:22,208
Like Applebee's.

821
01:21:22,208 --> 01:21:23,083
Applebee's on a date night.

822
01:21:23,083 --> 01:21:23,458
That's right.

823
01:21:24,583 --> 01:21:25,583
So anyways, long story

824
01:21:25,583 --> 01:21:26,416
short, she was like--

825
01:21:26,791 --> 01:21:28,208
because they know some of the other dads.

826
01:21:28,708 --> 01:21:30,041
And their dads were like, no, no, no,

827
01:21:30,041 --> 01:21:31,000
we're not watching that.

828
01:21:31,333 --> 01:21:32,625
No, I'm not going to do that.

829
01:21:32,625 --> 01:21:33,666
We're going to watch the game.

830
01:21:34,333 --> 01:21:36,583
It just felt like they were

831
01:21:36,583 --> 01:21:38,916
too manly to sit with the girls

832
01:21:39,500 --> 01:21:40,333
and play mahjong.

833
01:21:40,541 --> 01:21:42,125
And I was like, yeah, I'd love to.

834
01:21:45,333 --> 01:21:48,625
Which is-- I mean, it's not like classic

835
01:21:48,625 --> 01:21:49,791
me by any means, no.

836
01:21:49,791 --> 01:21:51,125
But I've always got along

837
01:21:51,125 --> 01:21:53,625
better with women or girls

838
01:21:53,958 --> 01:21:55,500
than I do with men, with females.

839
01:21:55,875 --> 01:21:56,750
Yeah, thank you.

840
01:21:56,750 --> 01:21:57,541
That's a much better way to say it.

841
01:21:57,666 --> 01:21:58,833
Female is better than

842
01:21:58,833 --> 01:22:00,375
males for whatever reason.

843
01:22:00,416 --> 01:22:03,916
I'm just not a testosterone manly man.

844
01:22:04,458 --> 01:22:06,666
And I just-- it's hard for me to connect

845
01:22:06,666 --> 01:22:07,916
with testosterone manly men.

846
01:22:07,916 --> 01:22:10,125
A lot of men are testosterone manly men

847
01:22:10,125 --> 01:22:11,041
for whatever reason.

848
01:22:11,375 --> 01:22:12,416
You are manly.

849
01:22:12,416 --> 01:22:13,958
You're just not the over the

850
01:22:13,958 --> 01:22:16,541
top, like, have to prove it.

851
01:22:17,000 --> 01:22:18,125
You're like, I'm OK.

852
01:22:18,125 --> 01:22:19,458
Like, if I would rather play mahjong,

853
01:22:20,583 --> 01:22:21,541
I'm going to go play mahjong.

854
01:22:21,833 --> 01:22:22,541
Mahjong looks like fun.

855
01:22:22,791 --> 01:22:23,000
Yeah.

856
01:22:23,375 --> 01:22:26,125
So anyways, I sat there with what became

857
01:22:26,125 --> 01:22:27,333
known as the mahjong

858
01:22:27,375 --> 01:22:27,625
moms.

859
01:22:29,041 --> 01:22:30,375
And I was one of them.

860
01:22:30,375 --> 01:22:30,916
And there's like--

861
01:22:31,375 --> 01:22:32,833
there's this one part of mahjong

862
01:22:32,875 --> 01:22:34,333
where, like, if you put down--

863
01:22:34,500 --> 01:22:37,583
there's this one tile that

864
01:22:37,583 --> 01:22:39,583
has a picture of a bird on it.

865
01:22:39,583 --> 01:22:40,375
I don't remember the name of it.

866
01:22:40,375 --> 01:22:41,166
She taught us the name of it.

867
01:22:41,166 --> 01:22:41,875
I don't remember it now.

868
01:22:41,875 --> 01:22:42,708
I was trying to remember it.

869
01:22:42,708 --> 01:22:43,125
Remember it.

870
01:22:43,125 --> 01:22:44,958
I know the picture of the bird that

871
01:22:44,958 --> 01:22:45,625
you're talking about.

872
01:22:45,625 --> 01:22:46,458
I didn't know it had a name.

873
01:22:46,458 --> 01:22:48,333
When you put those down, those are ones

874
01:22:48,333 --> 01:22:49,208
that you go, you go,

875
01:22:49,208 --> 01:22:50,375
woohoo, and you

876
01:22:50,375 --> 01:22:51,750
cheers, and you take a drink.

877
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:54,208
I had no idea.

878
01:22:54,208 --> 01:22:56,083
I can't woohoo that high.

879
01:22:56,083 --> 01:22:57,166
So I didn't do that, definitely.

880
01:22:57,166 --> 01:22:57,958
But I did cheers.

881
01:22:59,250 --> 01:22:59,625
Yay.

882
01:23:00,833 --> 01:23:02,750
But it was just fun hanging

883
01:23:02,750 --> 01:23:03,708
out with those three ladies.

884
01:23:03,958 --> 01:23:04,541
They were fun.

885
01:23:05,041 --> 01:23:05,916
They were funny.

886
01:23:06,333 --> 01:23:06,791
Yeah.

887
01:23:06,791 --> 01:23:07,291
They were giving each

888
01:23:07,291 --> 01:23:08,333
other hard times and stuff.

889
01:23:08,625 --> 01:23:10,458
I won the first game, by the way.

890
01:23:10,833 --> 01:23:12,875
But the teacher, if she

891
01:23:12,875 --> 01:23:14,250
ever hears this, I will say,

892
01:23:14,500 --> 01:23:16,333
she gave me an asterisk on it.

893
01:23:16,833 --> 01:23:17,125
Because you're not

894
01:23:17,125 --> 01:23:18,041
supposed to have more than--

895
01:23:18,541 --> 01:23:19,291
oh, I don't remember it.

896
01:23:19,291 --> 01:23:20,666
I think 12 tiles.

897
01:23:21,041 --> 01:23:21,375
OK.

898
01:23:22,000 --> 01:23:23,083
And for some reason,

899
01:23:23,083 --> 01:23:24,666
I had accumulated 16.

900
01:23:25,250 --> 01:23:25,875
That's a lot.

901
01:23:28,333 --> 01:23:29,208
But they're all on the side.

902
01:23:29,375 --> 01:23:30,375
So I had to put those down.

903
01:23:30,375 --> 01:23:31,208
I think I just forgot to

904
01:23:31,208 --> 01:23:34,250
discard the ones when I picked up

905
01:23:34,250 --> 01:23:34,833
the new ones.

906
01:23:35,416 --> 01:23:36,458
So it was really legit.

907
01:23:36,458 --> 01:23:37,958
But she gave me an asterisk on it.

908
01:23:37,958 --> 01:23:38,333
Oh.

909
01:23:38,666 --> 01:23:38,916
Yeah.

910
01:23:39,166 --> 01:23:40,208
But I won the first one.

911
01:23:40,458 --> 01:23:41,250
So anyways, it was fun.

912
01:23:41,958 --> 01:23:42,375
Mahjong moms.

913
01:23:43,333 --> 01:23:44,708
Funny, tomorrow-- or

914
01:23:44,708 --> 01:23:45,333
maybe it's Thursday--

915
01:23:45,708 --> 01:23:46,958
is International Mahjong Day.

916
01:23:47,250 --> 01:23:47,750
You're kidding.

917
01:23:48,083 --> 01:23:48,291
No.

918
01:23:48,500 --> 01:23:50,291
So I did send a shout

919
01:23:50,291 --> 01:23:52,000
out to the Mahjong moms.

920
01:23:52,916 --> 01:23:54,000
You have to.

921
01:23:54,208 --> 01:23:54,500
Yeah.

922
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:56,333
Because I'm one of them.

923
01:23:56,583 --> 01:23:57,916
So they were calling me--

924
01:23:58,291 --> 01:23:59,416
I mean, they didn't call me.

925
01:23:59,708 --> 01:24:01,125
I threw it out there for them.

926
01:24:01,125 --> 01:24:01,791
I'm like, that's all right.

927
01:24:01,791 --> 01:24:03,291
I'm fine being a Mahjong mom.

928
01:24:03,625 --> 01:24:04,916
I mean, I can be Shauna.

929
01:24:06,375 --> 01:24:06,958
That's fine.

930
01:24:07,416 --> 01:24:08,916
You're Shauna the Mahjong mama?

931
01:24:09,208 --> 01:24:09,791
Yeah, that's right.

932
01:24:10,375 --> 01:24:11,000
Shauna the Mahjong mama.

933
01:24:12,125 --> 01:24:12,791
That's fun to say.

934
01:24:13,041 --> 01:24:13,708
It really is.

935
01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:15,791
Tongue twister, though.

936
01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:16,958
Shauna the Mahjong mom.

937
01:24:17,708 --> 01:24:18,375
Ooh, gah.

938
01:24:19,166 --> 01:24:19,333
Fail.

939
01:24:19,333 --> 01:24:20,625
Third time's not a charm.

940
01:24:21,041 --> 01:24:21,416
Not a charm.

941
01:24:21,416 --> 01:24:22,000
It's hard.

942
01:24:23,083 --> 01:24:23,958
So that was fun.

943
01:24:25,375 --> 01:24:26,583
Our oldest played well.

944
01:24:27,541 --> 01:24:28,416
It's neat, because we're

945
01:24:28,416 --> 01:24:29,208
just getting at that age

946
01:24:29,500 --> 01:24:30,166
where there literally

947
01:24:30,166 --> 01:24:31,958
are scouts walking around.

948
01:24:31,958 --> 01:24:32,791
You can see them.

949
01:24:32,791 --> 01:24:33,666
They've got clipboards.

950
01:24:33,666 --> 01:24:35,250
They don't blend in all that well.

951
01:24:35,750 --> 01:24:36,000
Really?

952
01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:37,250
Because these are the

953
01:24:37,250 --> 01:24:40,375
higher tiers of soccer clubs.

954
01:24:40,375 --> 01:24:42,208
So a lot of these kids are being scouted

955
01:24:42,333 --> 01:24:43,875
for semi-professional

956
01:24:43,875 --> 01:24:45,416
teams and college teams.

957
01:24:45,416 --> 01:24:45,625
Right.

958
01:24:46,291 --> 01:24:46,791
So it's cool.

959
01:24:47,666 --> 01:24:48,083
It's fun.

960
01:24:48,625 --> 01:24:49,250
It's awesome.

961
01:24:49,625 --> 01:24:49,875
Yeah.

962
01:24:50,375 --> 01:24:52,208
So I don't know if the kids get--

963
01:24:52,208 --> 01:24:54,208
if they feel pressure from it or not.

964
01:24:54,250 --> 01:24:56,208
But I didn't get the sense

965
01:24:56,208 --> 01:24:57,458
that they felt pressure from it.

966
01:24:57,708 --> 01:24:58,583
They still wanted to win.

967
01:24:58,916 --> 01:25:01,500
And we probably gave away two

968
01:25:01,500 --> 01:25:02,791
games that we shouldn't have.

969
01:25:03,583 --> 01:25:04,541
It's really good competition.

970
01:25:04,875 --> 01:25:06,208
And we play people from

971
01:25:06,208 --> 01:25:07,000
all around the country.

972
01:25:07,333 --> 01:25:08,375
So Nashville,

973
01:25:08,375 --> 01:25:11,166
California, and I think South Texas

974
01:25:12,291 --> 01:25:12,875
is where we played.

975
01:25:13,875 --> 01:25:14,458
That's awesome.

976
01:25:14,833 --> 01:25:15,041
Yeah.

977
01:25:15,375 --> 01:25:16,958
It sounds like it was a lot of fun.

978
01:25:17,291 --> 01:25:18,583
And now that I know that you're a--

979
01:25:18,833 --> 01:25:20,166
I can't call you a woo girl.

980
01:25:20,458 --> 01:25:22,750
But yeah, knowing that you were woo--

981
01:25:23,291 --> 01:25:23,625
Yeah.

982
01:25:23,875 --> 01:25:25,208
I can only go so far.

983
01:25:25,416 --> 01:25:26,250
You can't be a woo girl?

984
01:25:26,458 --> 01:25:27,666
I will never be a woo girl.

985
01:25:27,916 --> 01:25:28,083
No.

986
01:25:28,083 --> 01:25:29,000
I'll be a mahjong mom.

987
01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:30,291
But I won't be a woo girl.

988
01:25:30,625 --> 01:25:30,833
Ever.

989
01:25:32,958 --> 01:25:33,541
I feel like you?

990
01:25:34,708 --> 01:25:35,833
I've never been a woo girl.

991
01:25:36,208 --> 01:25:36,500
No.

992
01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:38,458
I've never been a woo girl.

993
01:25:39,291 --> 01:25:39,708
I wonder if our

994
01:25:39,708 --> 01:25:41,041
daughter will be a woo girl.

995
01:25:41,333 --> 01:25:42,000
I hope not.

996
01:25:42,458 --> 01:25:43,458
We've already labeled it.

997
01:25:43,458 --> 01:25:45,458
She knows what woo girls are.

998
01:25:45,458 --> 01:25:45,958
She does.

999
01:25:46,208 --> 01:25:47,708
We kind of make fun of them, kind of.

1000
01:25:48,208 --> 01:25:49,791
No offense to any woo girls watching.

1001
01:25:49,791 --> 01:25:50,625
Yeah, I can be the woo girl.

1002
01:25:50,875 --> 01:25:51,041
Yeah.

1003
01:25:51,458 --> 01:25:52,500
It's a personality thing.

1004
01:25:53,750 --> 01:25:54,708
I was never one.

1005
01:25:55,291 --> 01:25:55,500
Yeah.

1006
01:25:55,875 --> 01:25:56,666
Do you remember when she

1007
01:25:56,666 --> 01:25:58,166
was little and she like--

1008
01:25:59,458 --> 01:26:00,583
we were in a limousine.

1009
01:26:01,375 --> 01:26:03,291
And she was standing up and wanted

1010
01:26:03,291 --> 01:26:05,666
to get out of the sunroof?

1011
01:26:05,666 --> 01:26:05,916
Yeah.

1012
01:26:06,583 --> 01:26:07,250
She was like three.

1013
01:26:07,750 --> 01:26:10,083
Well, at four, we were at

1014
01:26:10,083 --> 01:26:13,125
that concert north of Chicago.

1015
01:26:13,375 --> 01:26:13,958
Yes.

1016
01:26:13,958 --> 01:26:15,958
And she was standing on the bleachers.

1017
01:26:16,291 --> 01:26:16,500
Bleachers.

1018
01:26:16,916 --> 01:26:17,208
Dancing.

1019
01:26:17,750 --> 01:26:19,333
And I think probably wooing.

1020
01:26:19,458 --> 01:26:21,041
She was probably wooing.

1021
01:26:23,000 --> 01:26:24,541
So maybe they grow out of it.

1022
01:26:24,541 --> 01:26:25,000
Maybe it's something

1023
01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:26,291
people don't ever grow out of.

1024
01:26:27,041 --> 01:26:27,958
It's innate, maybe.

1025
01:26:29,375 --> 01:26:31,291
Or it's just a growth stage

1026
01:26:31,291 --> 01:26:33,708
that you should grow out of.

1027
01:26:33,708 --> 01:26:33,916
Yeah.

1028
01:26:34,666 --> 01:26:36,875
And you peak in your toddler years,

1029
01:26:36,875 --> 01:26:38,416
like in the case of our daughter, maybe?

1030
01:26:39,375 --> 01:26:41,708
You could peak in certain years, yeah.

1031
01:26:42,416 --> 01:26:42,583
Yeah.

1032
01:26:42,833 --> 01:26:44,083
And if you peak early, that's OK.

1033
01:26:44,333 --> 01:26:45,791
Better than peaking late than that.

1034
01:26:45,791 --> 01:26:46,166
Yeah.

1035
01:26:46,583 --> 01:26:46,791
Yeah.

1036
01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:47,416
I would say.

1037
01:26:48,166 --> 01:26:48,375
Yeah.

1038
01:26:50,041 --> 01:26:51,000
She's always been someone

1039
01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:52,500
with a just a zest for life.

1040
01:26:53,375 --> 01:26:53,833
She has.

1041
01:26:53,833 --> 01:26:55,083
Poor thing has been sick, though.

1042
01:26:55,083 --> 01:26:56,708
So hopefully she starts feeling better.

1043
01:26:56,708 --> 01:26:57,250
I know.

1044
01:26:57,833 --> 01:26:58,791
I feel so bad.

1045
01:26:58,791 --> 01:26:59,833
Algae's been so bad.

1046
01:26:59,833 --> 01:27:00,791
Our pool is green.

1047
01:27:00,791 --> 01:27:02,291
It's been green for like two weeks now.

1048
01:27:02,750 --> 01:27:03,500
It's greener than our grass.

1049
01:27:03,958 --> 01:27:04,166
Yeah.

1050
01:27:04,458 --> 01:27:05,625
I said that the other day.

1051
01:27:05,625 --> 01:27:06,916
I was like, wow, the

1052
01:27:06,916 --> 01:27:08,208
pool sure looks great.

1053
01:27:09,875 --> 01:27:10,791
It's so green.

1054
01:27:11,583 --> 01:27:12,541
It looks like a pond.

1055
01:27:13,250 --> 01:27:13,416
Yeah.

1056
01:27:13,833 --> 01:27:14,000
Yeah.

1057
01:27:14,000 --> 01:27:14,750
It looks like a pond.

1058
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:16,708
And I'm pretty sure there's

1059
01:27:16,708 --> 01:27:19,541
probably more chlorine in it

1060
01:27:19,541 --> 01:27:21,500
than actual H2O at this point.

1061
01:27:21,916 --> 01:27:24,166
But there's been so much pollen.

1062
01:27:24,750 --> 01:27:26,208
And then we had those dust storms

1063
01:27:26,500 --> 01:27:27,458
that came through a month

1064
01:27:27,458 --> 01:27:28,541
and a half ago, maybe now.

1065
01:27:28,958 --> 01:27:29,791
It's just been--

1066
01:27:30,166 --> 01:27:31,208
I know our pool guy is

1067
01:27:31,208 --> 01:27:32,916
pulling his hair out.

1068
01:27:33,208 --> 01:27:33,791
I know.

1069
01:27:34,041 --> 01:27:34,458
Poor guy.

1070
01:27:34,750 --> 01:27:36,000
He's like the nicest guy, too.

1071
01:27:36,291 --> 01:27:37,250
Super nice guy, yeah.

1072
01:27:37,666 --> 01:27:39,791
But our pool is ugly.

1073
01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:40,416
It is.

1074
01:27:41,291 --> 01:27:42,166
It really is.

1075
01:27:42,166 --> 01:27:43,583
And it takes a lot of work for you.

1076
01:27:43,875 --> 01:27:44,166
Yeah.

1077
01:27:44,500 --> 01:27:45,208
It's that time of year.

1078
01:27:45,583 --> 01:27:47,666
And I told you, too, it's spring.

1079
01:27:48,458 --> 01:27:49,375
And it's just all that

1080
01:27:49,375 --> 01:27:50,541
work to do with, oh, you've

1081
01:27:50,541 --> 01:27:51,083
got to do this.

1082
01:27:51,083 --> 01:27:51,833
You've got to do that.

1083
01:27:52,625 --> 01:27:53,625
To the house, getting it ready.

1084
01:27:54,166 --> 01:27:55,083
I told you the other day.

1085
01:27:55,750 --> 01:27:57,500
And I am feeling it more and more.

1086
01:27:57,500 --> 01:27:58,333
I think I've just hit

1087
01:27:58,333 --> 01:27:59,375
the age where I don't

1088
01:27:59,375 --> 01:28:01,125
enjoy doing yard work anymore.

1089
01:28:02,791 --> 01:28:04,291
I didn't know if you'd ever hit that age.

1090
01:28:05,083 --> 01:28:05,416
I didn't.

1091
01:28:05,416 --> 01:28:06,500
I never minded it.

1092
01:28:06,500 --> 01:28:07,208
Never minded it.

1093
01:28:07,208 --> 01:28:09,041
Because it was just something--

1094
01:28:10,458 --> 01:28:10,750
You know.

1095
01:28:11,250 --> 01:28:13,333
It was kind of just not enjoyable.

1096
01:28:13,541 --> 01:28:14,625
That's the wrong word for it.

1097
01:28:14,625 --> 01:28:15,625
But it was kind of an escape.

1098
01:28:15,625 --> 01:28:16,333
It was easy.

1099
01:28:16,500 --> 01:28:18,458
It was a quick check the box.

1100
01:28:18,708 --> 01:28:19,583
You could take pride

1101
01:28:19,583 --> 01:28:20,875
in the fact, like, hey,

1102
01:28:20,916 --> 01:28:22,458
I'm making this look nice.

1103
01:28:22,833 --> 01:28:24,791
And you're being productive.

1104
01:28:25,041 --> 01:28:25,625
You're outside.

1105
01:28:26,708 --> 01:28:27,000
Yeah.

1106
01:28:27,250 --> 01:28:27,833
There's a lot of those--

1107
01:28:28,375 --> 01:28:29,666
Digging that sump pump

1108
01:28:29,666 --> 01:28:31,333
and digging things out now

1109
01:28:31,333 --> 01:28:33,250
and moving rock, stuff like that.

1110
01:28:33,250 --> 01:28:33,583
Some of that more

1111
01:28:33,583 --> 01:28:35,083
landscaping, heavy lifting stuff.

1112
01:28:35,083 --> 01:28:35,375
Oh, yeah.

1113
01:28:35,791 --> 01:28:36,791
Not that I'm incapable

1114
01:28:36,791 --> 01:28:38,958
of doing it physically.

1115
01:28:39,500 --> 01:28:39,708
Right.

1116
01:28:40,125 --> 01:28:42,166
I think mentally I am now.

1117
01:28:43,000 --> 01:28:45,125
I don't want to do it anymore.

1118
01:28:46,041 --> 01:28:47,083
Oh, my gosh.

1119
01:28:47,833 --> 01:28:49,333
Well, and your knee is hurt, too.

1120
01:28:50,250 --> 01:28:50,416
Yeah.

1121
01:28:50,416 --> 01:28:51,541
Did we talk about that last time?

1122
01:28:51,541 --> 01:28:52,000
You didn't.

1123
01:28:52,416 --> 01:28:54,833
So the funny update there was just, as

1124
01:28:54,833 --> 01:28:55,833
everybody may or may

1125
01:28:55,833 --> 01:28:56,833
not recall, we were trying

1126
01:28:56,833 --> 01:28:58,458
to be careful on the ski trip

1127
01:28:58,458 --> 01:29:00,166
that Megan blew her

1128
01:29:00,166 --> 01:29:01,791
knee out, everything on it.

1129
01:29:02,208 --> 01:29:02,916
We were really nervous

1130
01:29:02,916 --> 01:29:04,166
about that because my knee had

1131
01:29:04,166 --> 01:29:04,583
been hurting.

1132
01:29:04,833 --> 01:29:05,041
Yeah.

1133
01:29:05,500 --> 01:29:06,500
And my knee has never hurt.

1134
01:29:07,083 --> 01:29:08,250
Figured something was wrong with it.

1135
01:29:09,500 --> 01:29:10,833
The doctor never took an MRI,

1136
01:29:10,833 --> 01:29:11,416
but thought there was probably

1137
01:29:11,416 --> 01:29:12,458
a slight tear in it.

1138
01:29:12,666 --> 01:29:13,416
So I wanted to be really

1139
01:29:13,416 --> 01:29:14,708
careful that I didn't blow my knee

1140
01:29:14,750 --> 01:29:16,458
out, which I didn't, thank God.

1141
01:29:16,458 --> 01:29:17,250
Yeah, you didn't.

1142
01:29:17,250 --> 01:29:18,625
But since we've maxed

1143
01:29:18,625 --> 01:29:21,916
out our medical this year,

1144
01:29:22,250 --> 01:29:24,000
I figured I'd go get MRIs and everything

1145
01:29:24,000 --> 01:29:25,916
because of my two shoulders and my knee.

1146
01:29:26,375 --> 01:29:27,125
Long story short, my

1147
01:29:27,125 --> 01:29:28,583
knee, in my meniscus,

1148
01:29:28,583 --> 01:29:29,750
I've got a lateral tear.

1149
01:29:31,416 --> 01:29:33,083
And for lateral tears, they

1150
01:29:33,083 --> 01:29:34,125
can't do anything about it

1151
01:29:34,500 --> 01:29:35,041
because there's nothing

1152
01:29:35,041 --> 01:29:36,541
to sew it to and whatnot.

1153
01:29:36,916 --> 01:29:37,958
So it's fine.

1154
01:29:37,958 --> 01:29:38,958
Many people have it.

1155
01:29:38,958 --> 01:29:40,916
It's not like I'm incapable of doing it.

1156
01:29:40,916 --> 01:29:41,541
It doesn't limit me.

1157
01:29:41,541 --> 01:29:42,500
I don't think other than the

1158
01:29:42,500 --> 01:29:44,000
pain and the swelling it feels.

1159
01:29:44,458 --> 01:29:44,666
Yeah.

1160
01:29:44,708 --> 01:29:45,208
So it does.

1161
01:29:45,208 --> 01:29:46,166
I do have limited

1162
01:29:46,166 --> 01:29:49,583
mobility in it now, more so.

1163
01:29:49,833 --> 01:29:50,541
So I mean, these are the

1164
01:29:50,541 --> 01:29:51,541
things getting old, people.

1165
01:29:51,541 --> 01:29:53,791
Again, this is the chaos train, just

1166
01:29:53,791 --> 01:29:55,000
throw the things into it.

1167
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:56,250
But I got MRIs on my two--

1168
01:29:56,583 --> 01:29:57,875
my shoulders also because I

1169
01:29:57,875 --> 01:29:59,375
can't sleep normal in those.

1170
01:29:59,708 --> 01:30:00,791
When you talk about getting old,

1171
01:30:00,791 --> 01:30:01,666
everybody like, I can't--

1172
01:30:02,083 --> 01:30:02,625
now I got to put--

1173
01:30:02,625 --> 01:30:04,000
instead of my arm under my head

1174
01:30:04,000 --> 01:30:05,625
when I'm sleeping on the pillow, my arm

1175
01:30:05,625 --> 01:30:07,000
has to go like behind me

1176
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:08,500
or just totally on my back.

1177
01:30:08,833 --> 01:30:10,708
You do have some pretty odd sleeping.

1178
01:30:10,708 --> 01:30:11,291
It's only where my

1179
01:30:11,291 --> 01:30:12,416
shoulders will allow me to go

1180
01:30:12,416 --> 01:30:14,625
because I have two torn

1181
01:30:14,625 --> 01:30:16,000
ligaments in both my shoulders

1182
01:30:16,208 --> 01:30:16,583
also.

1183
01:30:17,958 --> 01:30:21,125
But none that require surgery, though.

1184
01:30:21,333 --> 01:30:22,625
None of them require surgery.

1185
01:30:22,625 --> 01:30:23,875
It's just annoyances.

1186
01:30:24,708 --> 01:30:25,083
That's crazy.

1187
01:30:25,375 --> 01:30:27,000
In limiting and maybe some PT

1188
01:30:27,000 --> 01:30:30,166
to go along to get my mobility

1189
01:30:30,416 --> 01:30:31,333
back, I think, and get

1190
01:30:31,333 --> 01:30:32,291
the pain because I mean,

1191
01:30:32,291 --> 01:30:34,458
I can't even touch my back with this arm

1192
01:30:34,458 --> 01:30:35,666
because it's so stiff.

1193
01:30:36,000 --> 01:30:36,416
But it's been like

1194
01:30:36,416 --> 01:30:37,916
that for five years now.

1195
01:30:37,916 --> 01:30:39,375
Yeah, your shoulders have

1196
01:30:39,375 --> 01:30:41,000
been jacked up for a long time.

1197
01:30:41,416 --> 01:30:42,333
It's the medical term.

1198
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:43,791
You act up.

1199
01:30:45,041 --> 01:30:47,958
By the way, PT was asking when they're

1200
01:30:47,958 --> 01:30:49,208
going to get to see Mr. Megan.

1201
01:30:50,041 --> 01:30:50,833
Am I on their list?

1202
01:30:51,541 --> 01:30:52,500
No, I don't think yet.

1203
01:30:52,500 --> 01:30:52,958
They're like, we haven't

1204
01:30:52,958 --> 01:30:53,833
seen it come through yet.

1205
01:30:54,875 --> 01:30:56,541
Oh, well, I just--

1206
01:30:56,916 --> 01:30:58,375
I appeal so much to

1207
01:30:58,375 --> 01:31:00,000
the moms and the ladies.

1208
01:31:00,625 --> 01:31:02,125
They probably heard

1209
01:31:02,125 --> 01:31:03,916
about my mahjong skills

1210
01:31:04,125 --> 01:31:05,458
and want me to come in.

1211
01:31:05,750 --> 01:31:06,833
I was only there one time.

1212
01:31:08,541 --> 01:31:09,458
Lasting impression.

1213
01:31:10,166 --> 01:31:10,750
Lasting impression.

1214
01:31:11,541 --> 01:31:13,625
They're all like, where's Mr. Megan?

1215
01:31:14,791 --> 01:31:15,958
Oh, my goodness.

1216
01:31:16,125 --> 01:31:17,208
Your chauffeur no longer

1217
01:31:17,208 --> 01:31:18,291
needs to chauffeur you.

1218
01:31:18,750 --> 01:31:18,958
Right.

1219
01:31:19,500 --> 01:31:20,166
So I can chauffeur myself.

1220
01:31:20,166 --> 01:31:20,875
You're an independent woman.

1221
01:31:21,333 --> 01:31:21,500
Yeah.

1222
01:31:22,125 --> 01:31:23,958
And yeah, they're like, oh, my gosh,

1223
01:31:23,958 --> 01:31:25,625
we can't wait to have both of you here.

1224
01:31:26,500 --> 01:31:26,958
That's funny.

1225
01:31:27,583 --> 01:31:29,833
It is funny because, well, I guess no.

1226
01:31:30,041 --> 01:31:30,625
I was going to say it's

1227
01:31:30,625 --> 01:31:31,875
mostly women, but I was like,

1228
01:31:32,125 --> 01:31:32,708
actually, no, it's

1229
01:31:32,708 --> 01:31:34,125
about 50-50 when I go in.

1230
01:31:34,916 --> 01:31:37,166
There's definitely some male patients.

1231
01:31:37,625 --> 01:31:39,291
I need to get the

1232
01:31:39,291 --> 01:31:41,000
exercises, and I can incorporate them

1233
01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:42,000
when I do my workouts.

1234
01:31:42,541 --> 01:31:42,750
Yeah.

1235
01:31:43,541 --> 01:31:45,166
Well, they would love to have you.

1236
01:31:45,666 --> 01:31:45,875
Yeah.

1237
01:31:46,958 --> 01:31:47,500
Well, what else do we

1238
01:31:47,500 --> 01:31:48,208
want to talk about here?

1239
01:31:49,166 --> 01:31:50,458
There's been a lot of chit chat.

1240
01:31:50,958 --> 01:31:51,541
It has.

1241
01:31:53,375 --> 01:31:54,041
This is because we

1242
01:31:54,041 --> 01:31:55,541
haven't seen each other all day.

1243
01:31:56,083 --> 01:31:57,000
It's like, oh, catch up.

1244
01:31:57,000 --> 01:31:58,916
Or a lot of the week either because I

1245
01:31:58,916 --> 01:31:59,750
was gone for three and

1246
01:31:59,750 --> 01:32:01,583
a half days in Austin.

1247
01:32:02,291 --> 01:32:03,333
You were here with the other two.

1248
01:32:03,583 --> 01:32:04,625
And I was here with the other two.

1249
01:32:05,166 --> 01:32:05,750
And that was just--

1250
01:32:06,625 --> 01:32:08,458
I was expecting there to be a lot more

1251
01:32:08,458 --> 01:32:09,541
downtime this weekend.

1252
01:32:09,541 --> 01:32:11,000
And there was none.

1253
01:32:11,666 --> 01:32:11,875
Yeah.

1254
01:32:12,458 --> 01:32:12,625
None.

1255
01:32:13,458 --> 01:32:14,500
I know one of the

1256
01:32:14,500 --> 01:32:16,500
things you did, you went to--

1257
01:32:16,500 --> 01:32:16,875
we've been talking

1258
01:32:16,875 --> 01:32:17,791
about the soccer thing.

1259
01:32:17,791 --> 01:32:19,708
We finally made our decision.

1260
01:32:20,041 --> 01:32:20,333
Yeah.

1261
01:32:21,000 --> 01:32:26,291
And I can say in our household that it

1262
01:32:26,291 --> 01:32:27,250
was a split household

1263
01:32:27,250 --> 01:32:28,875
to some degree because we could really

1264
01:32:28,875 --> 01:32:30,208
make a decision which

1265
01:32:30,291 --> 01:32:31,791
team we went to for our youngest.

1266
01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:32,250
Yeah.

1267
01:32:33,291 --> 01:32:34,041
We really could have

1268
01:32:34,041 --> 01:32:36,500
made an appeal either way.

1269
01:32:37,416 --> 01:32:38,666
An argument for

1270
01:32:38,666 --> 01:32:39,958
either coach, either team.

1271
01:32:42,875 --> 01:32:44,000
It was really hard.

1272
01:32:44,000 --> 01:32:46,666
It was just super hard decision to make.

1273
01:32:46,666 --> 01:32:47,958
We tried to make it last week.

1274
01:32:47,958 --> 01:32:49,416
We hung on to it a little bit longer.

1275
01:32:50,458 --> 01:32:53,000
You went and saw everybody for the team

1276
01:32:53,000 --> 01:32:54,916
that we ended up not going to, which

1277
01:32:54,916 --> 01:32:56,875
is kind of the heart of the

1278
01:32:56,875 --> 01:32:58,291
old team and the old coach.

1279
01:32:59,000 --> 01:32:59,166
Yeah.

1280
01:32:59,500 --> 01:32:59,875
And it was--

1281
01:33:01,500 --> 01:33:03,000
I didn't know what way we

1282
01:33:03,000 --> 01:33:04,958
were going to go at that moment.

1283
01:33:05,541 --> 01:33:09,333
But it's like, these are our friends.

1284
01:33:09,333 --> 01:33:11,041
And this is a coach that's had a big

1285
01:33:11,041 --> 01:33:12,708
impact on our kid's life.

1286
01:33:13,041 --> 01:33:13,666
And it's just--

1287
01:33:14,708 --> 01:33:16,208
these decisions are emotional.

1288
01:33:18,291 --> 01:33:20,500
But our youngest--

1289
01:33:21,708 --> 01:33:23,625
I mean, we ultimately left it up to him.

1290
01:33:24,625 --> 01:33:27,000
And he was very--

1291
01:33:28,375 --> 01:33:30,375
I thought for an 11-year-old, very mature

1292
01:33:31,041 --> 01:33:32,291
to make the decision he did.

1293
01:33:33,291 --> 01:33:33,916
And why?

1294
01:33:34,125 --> 01:33:35,416
Because he could tell me exactly why.

1295
01:33:36,500 --> 01:33:37,000
Yeah, I was going to

1296
01:33:37,000 --> 01:33:37,916
say, I appreciated the fact

1297
01:33:37,916 --> 01:33:38,250
that he was

1298
01:33:38,250 --> 01:33:41,041
thoughtful about his reasoning.

1299
01:33:41,500 --> 01:33:41,666
Yep.

1300
01:33:42,041 --> 01:33:43,791
I mean, he articulated to me

1301
01:33:43,791 --> 01:33:45,375
multiple times, this is why.

1302
01:33:46,208 --> 01:33:47,541
I know I'm going to miss this.

1303
01:33:48,041 --> 01:33:48,958
Like, he completely

1304
01:33:48,958 --> 01:33:50,500
understood what I'm giving up

1305
01:33:51,500 --> 01:33:53,250
and what that was.

1306
01:33:53,250 --> 01:33:55,500
And I think a big part of it was the fact

1307
01:33:55,500 --> 01:33:57,166
that he had already mentally known

1308
01:33:57,166 --> 01:33:58,125
he was moving from that

1309
01:33:58,125 --> 01:33:59,000
coach to the other coach.

1310
01:33:59,291 --> 01:34:00,291
Oh, that was huge, yeah.

1311
01:34:01,625 --> 01:34:02,291
Because that's the way it

1312
01:34:02,291 --> 01:34:03,375
was supposed to happen anyways.

1313
01:34:04,166 --> 01:34:05,291
It's just the club

1314
01:34:05,291 --> 01:34:06,583
screwed the whole thing up.

1315
01:34:07,041 --> 01:34:07,875
It made it hard.

1316
01:34:07,875 --> 01:34:09,375
It made everybody make this decision.

1317
01:34:09,375 --> 01:34:09,958
And that's part of why

1318
01:34:09,958 --> 01:34:11,125
we were so upset about it.

1319
01:34:12,416 --> 01:34:13,958
So that's nice to have that done.

1320
01:34:14,166 --> 01:34:16,166
I still feel glad to tell

1321
01:34:16,166 --> 01:34:17,208
some of the other parents.

1322
01:34:18,250 --> 01:34:19,625
It's not like these

1323
01:34:19,625 --> 01:34:20,958
kids are 11 years old.

1324
01:34:21,750 --> 01:34:25,250
Well, it's a small circle.

1325
01:34:25,500 --> 01:34:29,833
But there is a huge chance that we'll

1326
01:34:29,833 --> 01:34:31,625
play on teams with these people again.

1327
01:34:32,250 --> 01:34:34,000
And we definitely will see them.

1328
01:34:34,250 --> 01:34:36,291
And we can stay in touch and all of that.

1329
01:34:36,541 --> 01:34:37,916
So that does make me

1330
01:34:37,916 --> 01:34:39,750
feel good knowing that I

1331
01:34:39,750 --> 01:34:41,083
think we did right by everybody.

1332
01:34:41,083 --> 01:34:42,041
At least I hope we

1333
01:34:42,041 --> 01:34:43,666
did right by everybody.

1334
01:34:43,666 --> 01:34:44,333
I know you had to have

1335
01:34:44,333 --> 01:34:45,583
all the tough conversations.

1336
01:34:46,625 --> 01:34:47,625
Yeah, it's funny.

1337
01:34:47,625 --> 01:34:48,333
That's one of the things I

1338
01:34:48,333 --> 01:34:49,125
was going to talk about here.

1339
01:34:49,125 --> 01:34:49,916
We don't have time today.

1340
01:34:49,916 --> 01:34:51,041
We can talk about it on a different one.

1341
01:34:51,041 --> 01:34:51,750
But just having those

1342
01:34:51,750 --> 01:34:52,833
tough conversations--

1343
01:34:53,750 --> 01:34:56,166
I used to think, I used to

1344
01:34:56,166 --> 01:34:57,541
say that I'm good at having

1345
01:34:57,541 --> 01:34:58,541
those tough conversations.

1346
01:34:58,791 --> 01:34:59,041
You are.

1347
01:34:59,875 --> 01:35:01,291
But they're just so uncomfortable.

1348
01:35:02,875 --> 01:35:05,708
But from what I see on the outside,

1349
01:35:07,125 --> 01:35:09,000
you navigate those tough

1350
01:35:09,000 --> 01:35:10,333
conversations very well.

1351
01:35:10,333 --> 01:35:12,833
You don't seem like you're uncomfortable.

1352
01:35:13,458 --> 01:35:14,750
You do a great job of

1353
01:35:14,750 --> 01:35:17,833
being candid, yet empathetic.

1354
01:35:18,541 --> 01:35:21,958
And so you handle them so well.

1355
01:35:22,000 --> 01:35:23,583
So whether you feel

1356
01:35:23,583 --> 01:35:24,750
like it's uncomfortable,

1357
01:35:25,208 --> 01:35:26,458
it's not from the outside.

1358
01:35:26,750 --> 01:35:28,291
Yeah, they are uncomfortable.

1359
01:35:28,291 --> 01:35:28,958
I think I misspoke.

1360
01:35:29,208 --> 01:35:30,000
And the most

1361
01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:31,958
uncomfortable part of the process

1362
01:35:32,541 --> 01:35:35,083
is the lead up to it, the

1363
01:35:35,083 --> 01:35:37,041
just not wanting to do it,

1364
01:35:37,041 --> 01:35:38,416
the feeling like you're

1365
01:35:38,416 --> 01:35:39,458
letting somebody down.

1366
01:35:39,458 --> 01:35:40,708
Because in the instance of this coach

1367
01:35:40,708 --> 01:35:41,666
that we didn't go with,

1368
01:35:42,125 --> 01:35:43,083
I really like him.

1369
01:35:43,583 --> 01:35:44,291
Oh, yes.

1370
01:35:44,875 --> 01:35:45,208
Yes.

1371
01:35:45,208 --> 01:35:46,208
As a coach, as a person--

1372
01:35:46,666 --> 01:35:47,208
All the above.

1373
01:35:47,208 --> 01:35:47,625
All the above.

1374
01:35:48,708 --> 01:35:49,708
This wasn't a case of

1375
01:35:49,708 --> 01:35:50,500
he couldn't have still

1376
01:35:50,500 --> 01:35:51,541
taught our kids something.

1377
01:35:51,666 --> 01:35:53,375
It's not a case that we thought someone

1378
01:35:53,833 --> 01:35:55,416
was better than the other.

1379
01:35:55,791 --> 01:35:58,083
It was just a myriad of

1380
01:35:58,083 --> 01:36:00,333
other factors that came into it.

1381
01:36:00,333 --> 01:36:01,250
And one of the biggest one

1382
01:36:01,250 --> 01:36:04,458
was when the gods smile on you,

1383
01:36:04,750 --> 01:36:07,666
we drive an hour every

1384
01:36:07,666 --> 01:36:08,625
night of the week, Monday

1385
01:36:08,708 --> 01:36:11,000
through Thursday, to go

1386
01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:12,500
to their soccer practice

1387
01:36:12,625 --> 01:36:14,208
at a high school across

1388
01:36:14,208 --> 01:36:15,833
town, an hour across town.

1389
01:36:16,416 --> 01:36:18,958
By the way, it's at 6.15 or 6.30.

1390
01:36:19,666 --> 01:36:22,458
And then the next one's at 7.15 or 7.30.

1391
01:36:23,583 --> 01:36:24,250
So we have to leave the

1392
01:36:24,250 --> 01:36:25,958
house at like 4.50 or 5 o'clock

1393
01:36:25,958 --> 01:36:27,375
to make sure we're there by 6.30.

1394
01:36:28,166 --> 01:36:30,708
So it's a commitment to get there.

1395
01:36:31,208 --> 01:36:32,375
And the gods have smiled

1396
01:36:32,375 --> 01:36:34,416
on us because all three kids

1397
01:36:34,416 --> 01:36:34,833
are there.

1398
01:36:35,333 --> 01:36:37,041
That was probably, for me, one of the

1399
01:36:37,041 --> 01:36:38,375
biggest factors in it.

1400
01:36:38,708 --> 01:36:40,625
Because our middle daughter, who's not

1401
01:36:40,625 --> 01:36:41,875
playing club soccer,

1402
01:36:42,666 --> 01:36:45,375
but her club track just happens to be at

1403
01:36:45,375 --> 01:36:46,250
the same high school.

1404
01:36:46,375 --> 01:36:46,541
Yes.

1405
01:36:47,000 --> 01:36:47,916
It's like, oh.

1406
01:36:48,708 --> 01:36:49,666
Yeah, exactly.

1407
01:36:50,250 --> 01:36:50,958
I would do that, but

1408
01:36:50,958 --> 01:36:52,916
that's kind of a woo girl thing.

1409
01:36:52,916 --> 01:36:53,958
So I'm going to let you do that.

1410
01:36:54,458 --> 01:36:56,000
It's a woo girl thing.

1411
01:36:57,833 --> 01:37:00,291
I hit that note pretty well, actually.

1412
01:37:00,833 --> 01:37:01,500
Yeah, that was good.

1413
01:37:02,000 --> 01:37:02,166
Yeah.

1414
01:37:03,500 --> 01:37:04,916
So yeah, so we can talk

1415
01:37:04,916 --> 01:37:06,166
about making hard decisions.

1416
01:37:06,958 --> 01:37:08,416
We've had to have discussions at work,

1417
01:37:08,708 --> 01:37:10,041
putting people on pips,

1418
01:37:10,416 --> 01:37:11,666
or giving annual

1419
01:37:11,666 --> 01:37:13,416
reviews, or mid-year reviews,

1420
01:37:13,416 --> 01:37:14,583
and giving tough feedback.

1421
01:37:16,833 --> 01:37:19,083
Those conversations don't come easy.

1422
01:37:19,791 --> 01:37:21,583
I do find it hard sometimes to--

1423
01:37:23,083 --> 01:37:23,916
as much as you want to

1424
01:37:23,916 --> 01:37:25,083
pull that band-aid off,

1425
01:37:25,583 --> 01:37:26,916
sometimes you only pull it halfway.

1426
01:37:27,708 --> 01:37:29,041
It's like, ah, I

1427
01:37:29,041 --> 01:37:30,208
should have just done it.

1428
01:37:30,208 --> 01:37:31,500
Now I've got to go back and do it again.

1429
01:37:31,916 --> 01:37:32,125
Yes.

1430
01:37:33,500 --> 01:37:34,291
So hard.

1431
01:37:35,083 --> 01:37:36,083
So hard.

1432
01:37:36,083 --> 01:37:37,375
And it just-- I don't know.

1433
01:37:37,583 --> 01:37:40,583
I struggle with that.

1434
01:37:41,625 --> 01:37:42,500
It's because we have some empathy.

1435
01:37:42,791 --> 01:37:44,250
I've had managers that

1436
01:37:44,250 --> 01:37:45,375
don't have people skills.

1437
01:37:45,666 --> 01:37:45,916
Yeah.

1438
01:37:46,916 --> 01:37:50,166
They're robotic about things.

1439
01:37:50,833 --> 01:37:51,041
Yeah.

1440
01:37:52,583 --> 01:37:53,625
I never would want to be

1441
01:37:53,625 --> 01:37:54,666
that kind of a manager.

1442
01:37:55,041 --> 01:37:55,250
No.

1443
01:37:55,500 --> 01:37:56,458
No, I actually told someone.

1444
01:37:56,458 --> 01:37:57,291
I know you're not either.

1445
01:37:57,583 --> 01:38:00,000
Yeah, I told someone that I work with.

1446
01:38:00,208 --> 01:38:01,166
She-- you know, we're

1447
01:38:01,166 --> 01:38:02,500
going through a tough employee

1448
01:38:02,583 --> 01:38:03,625
situation or whatever.

1449
01:38:04,500 --> 01:38:06,750
And she was like, I can tell

1450
01:38:06,750 --> 01:38:07,875
this is really hard on you.

1451
01:38:07,875 --> 01:38:09,541
And I was like, well, yeah.

1452
01:38:09,541 --> 01:38:11,166
And the day that it's not is the day

1453
01:38:11,166 --> 01:38:13,916
that I shouldn't be leading people.

1454
01:38:13,958 --> 01:38:18,166
Like, if this is ever easy, that's the

1455
01:38:18,166 --> 01:38:19,333
wrong spot to be in.

1456
01:38:20,125 --> 01:38:20,333
Yeah.

1457
01:38:20,500 --> 01:38:21,125
I don't know.

1458
01:38:21,125 --> 01:38:21,958
That's when I get in the

1459
01:38:21,958 --> 01:38:23,333
whole, like, lace your boots up.

1460
01:38:24,000 --> 01:38:27,208
Because I think they're hard.

1461
01:38:27,208 --> 01:38:28,000
I think those conversations,

1462
01:38:28,375 --> 01:38:29,541
as hard as they are for you,

1463
01:38:29,541 --> 01:38:31,666
I think I struggle with them even more.

1464
01:38:31,666 --> 01:38:34,625
I like to be all Pollyanna a lot.

1465
01:38:35,416 --> 01:38:38,666
And so getting real and having that

1466
01:38:38,666 --> 01:38:39,791
conversation is so hard.

1467
01:38:39,791 --> 01:38:41,958
And so those are the lace up your boots.

1468
01:38:42,333 --> 01:38:42,541
Yeah.

1469
01:38:42,958 --> 01:38:43,458
Well, that's definitely

1470
01:38:43,458 --> 01:38:44,458
the balance in our house.

1471
01:38:44,458 --> 01:38:45,666
Our kids know that very well.

1472
01:38:46,083 --> 01:38:47,416
Dad is realistic.

1473
01:38:48,208 --> 01:38:49,000
They know what being

1474
01:38:49,000 --> 01:38:50,541
realistic is from day one.

1475
01:38:50,916 --> 01:38:52,208
They've never not known that.

1476
01:38:53,125 --> 01:38:53,333
Right?

1477
01:38:54,375 --> 01:38:55,875
And you're positive.

1478
01:38:57,125 --> 01:38:57,500
I am.

1479
01:38:58,500 --> 01:39:00,625
So we're real positive in the end.

1480
01:39:00,625 --> 01:39:01,208
It's pretty good.

1481
01:39:03,708 --> 01:39:04,958
We're real positive.

1482
01:39:05,541 --> 01:39:05,750
Yeah.

1483
01:39:07,125 --> 01:39:07,291
Yeah.

1484
01:39:07,958 --> 01:39:10,791
So well, what do we got coming up here?

1485
01:39:12,500 --> 01:39:13,125
Let's see.

1486
01:39:14,500 --> 01:39:15,791
We have a whole bunch of end

1487
01:39:15,791 --> 01:39:17,875
of the year things coming up.

1488
01:39:18,458 --> 01:39:18,625
And--

1489
01:39:19,125 --> 01:39:20,208
Yeah, going into May, it's

1490
01:39:20,208 --> 01:39:21,708
the last month of school.

1491
01:39:21,916 --> 01:39:23,250
It's the last month of school.

1492
01:39:23,250 --> 01:39:26,541
And we have different parties and

1493
01:39:26,541 --> 01:39:29,333
different awards things.

1494
01:39:29,333 --> 01:39:29,833
I think two of our

1495
01:39:29,833 --> 01:39:31,000
kids have awards things

1496
01:39:31,000 --> 01:39:32,083
that we get to go to.

1497
01:39:33,958 --> 01:39:35,125
So we get to fit that in.

1498
01:39:35,125 --> 01:39:36,041
We got a kid going and

1499
01:39:36,041 --> 01:39:36,916
starting Driver's Ed.

1500
01:39:38,000 --> 01:39:38,458
I know.

1501
01:39:38,458 --> 01:39:40,500
He was all about it the other night.

1502
01:39:41,208 --> 01:39:42,708
He's telling me a little bit about it.

1503
01:39:42,708 --> 01:39:44,083
He's only got like an hour

1504
01:39:44,083 --> 01:39:46,208
of like a 70 hour course time.

1505
01:39:46,666 --> 01:39:48,500
So don't get too excited.

1506
01:39:48,750 --> 01:39:49,666
I seem pretty gotten home.

1507
01:39:50,916 --> 01:39:52,458
But yeah, I mean, it's just

1508
01:39:52,458 --> 01:39:55,458
all the good stuff, I guess.

1509
01:39:56,166 --> 01:39:58,541
So I think it's a busy weekend.

1510
01:39:58,833 --> 01:39:59,500
I think so.

1511
01:39:59,500 --> 01:40:00,208
I think so.

1512
01:40:00,208 --> 01:40:02,000
I think things popped up on the calendar

1513
01:40:02,000 --> 01:40:03,250
that I wasn't expecting.

1514
01:40:03,250 --> 01:40:06,250
Yeah, I saw some of that come up thinking

1515
01:40:06,250 --> 01:40:07,291
we didn't have anything.

1516
01:40:09,041 --> 01:40:10,000
We'll be getting into

1517
01:40:10,000 --> 01:40:11,291
our middle daughters.

1518
01:40:11,583 --> 01:40:13,333
Her track season now is going to start

1519
01:40:13,333 --> 01:40:14,250
getting going in May

1520
01:40:14,250 --> 01:40:14,750
and June.

1521
01:40:14,750 --> 01:40:15,083
Yeah.

1522
01:40:15,083 --> 01:40:15,291
Big time.

1523
01:40:15,583 --> 01:40:15,833
Big time.

1524
01:40:16,500 --> 01:40:17,208
That'll be fun.

1525
01:40:17,833 --> 01:40:19,750
It's our first time through this process.

1526
01:40:20,125 --> 01:40:24,500
So feels so unplanned and

1527
01:40:24,500 --> 01:40:26,791
unprepared and unorganized

1528
01:40:27,041 --> 01:40:28,250
is probably the word I'm looking for.

1529
01:40:29,833 --> 01:40:31,041
Although I know the ladies

1530
01:40:31,041 --> 01:40:32,458
that are running it aren't.

1531
01:40:32,458 --> 01:40:32,833
Aren't.

1532
01:40:32,833 --> 01:40:33,708
Yeah, no, I think it's just

1533
01:40:33,708 --> 01:40:35,333
because it's so new to us.

1534
01:40:36,166 --> 01:40:38,791
I think the difference is we know soccer.

1535
01:40:39,416 --> 01:40:41,791
We know what to expect on soccer teams

1536
01:40:41,791 --> 01:40:42,708
and things like that.

1537
01:40:42,708 --> 01:40:44,458
We know when the schedule comes out.

1538
01:40:44,458 --> 01:40:45,500
So we plan on that.

1539
01:40:46,166 --> 01:40:47,625
And we don't know any of that here.

1540
01:40:48,333 --> 01:40:50,208
So it feels that way.

1541
01:40:50,208 --> 01:40:51,166
I mean, if I didn't

1542
01:40:51,166 --> 01:40:52,166
know anything about soccer,

1543
01:40:52,625 --> 01:40:55,666
for a tournament, we don't get the

1544
01:40:55,666 --> 01:40:56,625
schedule for the tournament

1545
01:40:56,708 --> 01:40:57,541
until the Wednesday

1546
01:40:57,541 --> 01:40:58,458
before the tournament.

1547
01:40:59,250 --> 01:41:00,458
People might think that's crazy.

1548
01:41:00,458 --> 01:41:01,041
And it's like, but that's

1549
01:41:01,041 --> 01:41:02,166
just what we've gotten used to.

1550
01:41:02,166 --> 01:41:02,750
I always know.

1551
01:41:04,041 --> 01:41:05,333
I know it's a tournament weekend, but I

1552
01:41:05,375 --> 01:41:05,958
don't know what it is

1553
01:41:05,958 --> 01:41:06,666
until about Wednesday.

1554
01:41:07,416 --> 01:41:07,583
Yeah.

1555
01:41:08,833 --> 01:41:09,000
Yeah.

1556
01:41:09,041 --> 01:41:09,583
I don't know.

1557
01:41:10,583 --> 01:41:11,250
It's a lot of fun.

1558
01:41:11,333 --> 01:41:11,500
Yeah.

1559
01:41:12,625 --> 01:41:13,375
Well, all right.

1560
01:41:13,375 --> 01:41:13,833
Well, good.

1561
01:41:14,291 --> 01:41:15,083
Well, I don't think I

1562
01:41:15,083 --> 01:41:16,208
have that much coming up.

1563
01:41:16,208 --> 01:41:17,458
I mean, it's just getting through--

1564
01:41:19,541 --> 01:41:20,291
it's just blocking

1565
01:41:20,291 --> 01:41:21,541
and tackling right now,

1566
01:41:21,541 --> 01:41:22,333
kind of into the school

1567
01:41:22,333 --> 01:41:24,416
year, into the soccer season,

1568
01:41:24,625 --> 01:41:26,125
starting of the track season, just some

1569
01:41:26,125 --> 01:41:27,208
blocking and tackling,

1570
01:41:27,208 --> 01:41:28,041
it feels like.

1571
01:41:28,041 --> 01:41:28,416
It is.

1572
01:41:29,000 --> 01:41:29,125
Yeah.

1573
01:41:29,416 --> 01:41:30,875
I know it's day four for you.

1574
01:41:30,875 --> 01:41:31,875
And you just got to

1575
01:41:31,875 --> 01:41:32,875
get one more thing out.

1576
01:41:33,208 --> 01:41:33,500
Yeah.

1577
01:41:34,166 --> 01:41:34,958
You'll be there.

1578
01:41:35,583 --> 01:41:36,541
You'll see the next summit.

1579
01:41:38,041 --> 01:41:39,416
There's full summits everywhere.

1580
01:41:39,916 --> 01:41:40,125
Yeah.

1581
01:41:41,250 --> 01:41:42,958
You never reach the summit, do you?

1582
01:41:44,250 --> 01:41:45,333
You know, I feel like we're

1583
01:41:45,333 --> 01:41:46,500
flying by the seat of our pants

1584
01:41:46,500 --> 01:41:47,125
a whole lot.

1585
01:41:48,083 --> 01:41:48,416
Oh, yeah.

1586
01:41:48,625 --> 01:41:50,833
Yes, we are, for sure, more than I feel

1587
01:41:50,833 --> 01:41:51,791
like we ever have been.

1588
01:41:52,041 --> 01:41:52,250
Yes.

1589
01:41:53,375 --> 01:41:56,500
And it's not a great

1590
01:41:56,500 --> 01:41:58,416
place because you're like, ah,

1591
01:41:58,833 --> 01:41:59,375
I don't know.

1592
01:42:00,375 --> 01:42:03,125
I feel like we're making it up as we go.

1593
01:42:03,583 --> 01:42:03,750
Yeah.

1594
01:42:04,500 --> 01:42:05,708
Did our parents feel that way?

1595
01:42:07,875 --> 01:42:08,458
I'm sure they did.

1596
01:42:08,875 --> 01:42:09,583
We're going to ask them.

1597
01:42:09,916 --> 01:42:10,125
Yeah.

1598
01:42:10,333 --> 01:42:11,250
And then hopefully they can get back to us.

1599
01:42:11,541 --> 01:42:11,958
All right.

1600
01:42:12,208 --> 01:42:13,416
Well, should we wrap it up?

1601
01:42:13,416 --> 01:42:14,500
Yes, we should wrap it up.

1602
01:42:14,500 --> 01:42:16,708
So what was your word last week?

1603
01:42:16,708 --> 01:42:17,500
Do you remember it?

1604
01:42:18,791 --> 01:42:19,041
No.

1605
01:42:19,458 --> 01:42:20,500
OK, I don't remember mine either.

1606
01:42:20,500 --> 01:42:21,541
So we'll just pick

1607
01:42:21,541 --> 01:42:22,708
our words for this week.

1608
01:42:22,708 --> 01:42:23,791
OK, so we're summarizing

1609
01:42:23,791 --> 01:42:25,791
how this last week was.

1610
01:42:25,791 --> 01:42:26,333
Mm-hmm.

1611
01:42:27,791 --> 01:42:30,625
OK, so think about your word.

1612
01:42:31,041 --> 01:42:31,333
Uh-huh.

1613
01:42:33,041 --> 01:42:34,125
And let me know when you got it.

1614
01:42:35,291 --> 01:42:35,833
I got it.

1615
01:42:36,416 --> 01:42:36,625
All right.

1616
01:42:37,000 --> 01:42:37,750
I got mine.

1617
01:42:37,791 --> 01:42:38,208
OK.

1618
01:42:38,208 --> 01:42:38,583
All right.

1619
01:42:38,583 --> 01:42:39,041
I think we might

1620
01:42:39,041 --> 01:42:40,083
diverge quite a bit here.

1621
01:42:40,708 --> 01:42:41,416
We might.

1622
01:42:41,416 --> 01:42:42,041
I have no idea.

1623
01:42:42,041 --> 01:42:42,583
Yeah, OK.

1624
01:42:43,250 --> 01:42:43,750
We'll do the

1625
01:42:43,750 --> 01:42:45,041
scalability at the end of it.

1626
01:42:45,041 --> 01:42:45,250
Yeah.

1627
01:42:45,666 --> 01:42:46,250
All right, here we go.

1628
01:42:46,875 --> 01:42:48,625
One, two, three.

1629
01:42:49,625 --> 01:42:49,791
Progress.

1630
01:42:49,791 --> 01:42:50,000
Progress.

1631
01:42:50,375 --> 01:42:51,291
Oh, you're kidding.

1632
01:42:51,958 --> 01:42:52,791
Get out of here.

1633
01:42:53,500 --> 01:42:54,583
I would never have guessed that one.

1634
01:42:54,583 --> 01:42:56,250
I would have never guessed that.

1635
01:42:56,500 --> 01:42:59,291
I almost-- I was almost going to say--

1636
01:42:59,291 --> 01:42:59,958
because sometimes when

1637
01:42:59,958 --> 01:43:00,750
we say it over each other,

1638
01:43:00,750 --> 01:43:01,875
you can't hear the other person.

1639
01:43:02,125 --> 01:43:02,541
Yeah.

1640
01:43:02,541 --> 01:43:03,416
We just said the same word.

1641
01:43:03,541 --> 01:43:04,416
There's three episodes

1642
01:43:04,416 --> 01:43:05,750
to get to the same word.

1643
01:43:06,583 --> 01:43:06,875
Wow.

1644
01:43:07,833 --> 01:43:08,000
Wow.

1645
01:43:08,250 --> 01:43:08,916
We did it again.

1646
01:43:10,166 --> 01:43:11,041
Well, that one might--

1647
01:43:11,041 --> 01:43:11,250
Oh.

1648
01:43:12,541 --> 01:43:16,875
We really do finish each other's--

1649
01:43:19,208 --> 01:43:19,833
sentences.

1650
01:43:21,500 --> 01:43:22,583
Quite literally.

1651
01:43:24,666 --> 01:43:26,250
So OK, because the crazy thing

1652
01:43:26,250 --> 01:43:27,541
was I was thinking enclosure,

1653
01:43:27,541 --> 01:43:28,250
and I was like, no.

1654
01:43:28,500 --> 01:43:29,041
Not closure.

1655
01:43:29,583 --> 01:43:31,750
But I feel like we're making progress

1656
01:43:31,916 --> 01:43:33,166
this week on some things.

1657
01:43:33,708 --> 01:43:34,291
Yeah, because I was going

1658
01:43:34,291 --> 01:43:36,833
to say one step at a time,

1659
01:43:37,000 --> 01:43:38,291
one more step closer.

1660
01:43:39,166 --> 01:43:40,000
So it was like, OK, we

1661
01:43:40,000 --> 01:43:41,250
made a little bit of progress

1662
01:43:41,250 --> 01:43:42,500
this week on just some of

1663
01:43:42,500 --> 01:43:45,833
these boxes we have to check.

1664
01:43:46,833 --> 01:43:48,500
No doors have opened up.

1665
01:43:48,500 --> 01:43:49,708
We have some of the other things.

1666
01:43:49,708 --> 01:43:51,916
But it's just one step at a time.

1667
01:43:51,916 --> 01:43:52,416
So it's progress.

1668
01:43:53,041 --> 01:43:53,250
Yeah.

1669
01:43:53,958 --> 01:43:54,208
Yeah.

1670
01:43:54,458 --> 01:43:54,791
That's funny.

1671
01:43:55,000 --> 01:43:55,250
Three.

1672
01:43:55,500 --> 01:43:56,166
Three episodes.

1673
01:43:56,500 --> 01:43:58,666
So 33% of the time, we

1674
01:43:58,666 --> 01:43:59,750
have the exact same word.

1675
01:44:00,250 --> 01:44:00,458
Yeah.

1676
01:44:00,791 --> 01:44:01,333
That's pretty incredible.

1677
01:44:02,125 --> 01:44:04,625
It-- I think that's a win.

1678
01:44:05,125 --> 01:44:05,958
I mean, it's probably only

1679
01:44:05,958 --> 01:44:06,875
going to go down from there.

1680
01:44:07,291 --> 01:44:07,958
[LAUGHTER]

1681
01:44:08,083 --> 01:44:08,333
No.

1682
01:44:09,125 --> 01:44:10,583
It's a win for sure.

1683
01:44:11,416 --> 01:44:12,958
[LAUGHTER]

1684
01:44:12,958 --> 01:44:15,125
All right, well, it's

1685
01:44:15,125 --> 01:44:16,000
the middle of the week.

1686
01:44:16,000 --> 01:44:16,666
We all got to get up

1687
01:44:16,666 --> 01:44:17,375
and go to the airport

1688
01:44:17,708 --> 01:44:18,666
early, early in the morning,

1689
01:44:18,666 --> 01:44:19,875
and then go to work and school.

1690
01:44:20,125 --> 01:44:21,208
And then go to work and school.

1691
01:44:21,500 --> 01:44:22,041
Let's go to bed.

1692
01:44:22,875 --> 01:44:24,500
All right.

1693
01:44:24,750 --> 01:44:25,083
Love you.

1694
01:44:25,416 --> 01:44:26,125
See you guys next week.

1695
01:44:27,000 --> 01:44:27,333
See ya.

1696
01:44:27,750 --> 01:44:29,250
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