In this episode Carrie interviews Alena Papayanis, a writer and professor, about her journey of self-discovery and the influences that shaped her identity. We discuss Elena's childhood experiences, the impact of her immigrant background, and the challenges of navigating her queer identity in a predominantly straight environment. The conversation also touches on Elena's educational journey, her exploration of cultural studies, and her quest for authenticity in her personal and professional life. In this conversation, Alena and Carrie delve into the complexities of overcoming people pleasing, navigating relationships, and the impact of media on self-expression.