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Welcome to the Catholic School
Leaders podcast, where we discuss

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leadership and Catholic education.

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I'm John Mahalio, the president and
founder of Elementary Advancement

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Catholic school leaders worldwide.

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As a Catholic school principal, I
always had a passion for supporting

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our seminarians as they discerned
a vocation to the priesthood.

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And I think we have to realize that in our
schools, Uh, there are young men and women

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who may be hearing that calling from God
to discern a vocation to the priesthood or

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religious life or, uh, whatever it may be.

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and what we do as Catholic school
leaders plays such a big role in the

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future for these young people's lives.

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but also for the future of our church.

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Now, before I introduce our guests,
I just want to quickly remind you,

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Catholic school leaders, just like
you, to help grow Catholic education.

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So today I want to introduce my guest.

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It's seminarian Rob Lane, who's currently
studying to become a priest for the

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Diocese of Raleigh in North Carolina.

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Now I've known Rob for a number of
years, so this chance to sit down with

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him and get to speak with him about
his journey, as well as how schools

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can support our seminarians, was
something I was really excited about.

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Rob grew up with his two sisters in
Raleigh, North Carolina, and as a freshman

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in college, he discerned that the Lord
was calling him to the priesthood.

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And was accepted as a seminarian
for the Diocese of Raleigh.

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He completed the Deser, the discipleship
phase of his formation at St.

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Charles Bojo Seminary in
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and

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is now in the configuration stage
of his formation, studying at St.

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Vincent DePaul Regional Seminary
in Boyton Beach, Florida.

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In his free time, he enjoys
reading board games and hiking.

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Welcome, Rob.

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It's great to have you here.

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Thanks so much, John.

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It's a pleasure to be here.

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it's an honor.

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So, thank you for having me.

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I'm excited.

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the honor is mine.

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The honor is mine.

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So, we, we just, I, talking before
we started recording, and I said,

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I feel like I've had a front row
seat, uh, for your journey over

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the past, uh, couple of years.

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Even before that, maybe I said I,
I was, I had a ticket or trying

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to get a ticket outside because.

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Uh, where I was the principal at before,
you were a parishioner at, uh, long

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before you, you entered the seminary.

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So tell us a little bit about
yourself, your upbringing, and,

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and the role that faith, your faith
has played in your growing up.

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uh, to be honest, John, it wasn't
anything super extraordinary, right?

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Kind of just your typical, you
know, mass on Sunday because

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that's, that's what you do.

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And, uh, you know, pray before
meals at the dinner table.

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Uh, which is good and great, but yeah,
that was kind of the extent, so nothing,

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nothing too extravagant, we weren't
one of those, you know, super holy

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families, uh, that like pray the rosary
every night or anything like that, but

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yeah, so grew up, um, came to North
Carolina, came down to Raleigh, as

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many people do, and uh, from when I was
young, and so really, raised in Raleigh,

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which was, oh, I'm just so grateful.

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Uh, that mom and

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area here, for sure.

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Beautiful area.

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And, and knowing your parents,
great, great people as well.

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I'm going to say that
as well, great people.

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And so, uh, wonderful role
models there for sure.

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right, right, right.

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So proud.

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Um, and we'll get to that when I talk
about joining the diocese of Raleigh.

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So proud to be a part of Raleigh and,
uh, grateful to go up there and yeah.

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So I just grew up kind of typical,
um, yeah, typical upbringing, with

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my sisters, I have two sisters
and, um, Good, happy family.

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Like you mentioned, you know,
parents sent us to Catholic school.

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That's an important value for them, right?

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yeah, that was just a good,
definitely a positive experience,

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growing up in Catholic school there.

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yeah, so now I had a chance a couple
weeks ago, as, uh, you've been with

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us here at the, at the parish that
I belong to, and so we've gotten to

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know each other a little bit better
there, uh, and a couple weeks ago,

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maybe it's been even longer than that,
now time flies when we're having fun,

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you had a chance to, preach, uh, after
the gospel and really talk about your

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discernment and your journey into making
that decision, to enter the seminary.

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Can you tell a little bit about that?

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Uh, maybe just like, I guess, kind
of give a recap or a, a, a version

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of, of what you really talked about
because I thought it was very moving.

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I thought it was a wonderful, wonderful
talk and it really helped a lot of us

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get to know you on a, on a more personal
level, but also what led you to this,

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uh, this discernment in your life.

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right.

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And, uh, yeah, John, I was, I was thinking
about this, you know, considering the,

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the context of this podcast we're on,
and I really think of it as really

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a real success story of Catholic
education, um, because, you know, Right.

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So, uh, really my vocation, the vocation
part of my story, uh, starts, starts

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in high school, starts in high school
where I was just very, very blessed, to

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go to a fantastic Catholic high school.

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And the way I like to describe it is,
uh, you know, although I said that I was,

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you know, raised culturally Catholic and
cradle Catholic, um, it really wasn't

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till high school, till I was really
evangelized for the first time, um,

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in a deep and meaningful way, right?

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So going into high school, yeah,
Catholic faith, you know, I guess like

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most 8th graders going to high school,
um, kind of, uh, ambivalent about my

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faith and the importance in my life.

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But, um, yeah, really was just so blessed
to go to, um, a Catholic high school.

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It was a small school, um, a
small Catholic high school, and a

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little bit different that it was
an independent, um, high school.

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So we, you know, operate as Catholic
and call ourselves Catholic under

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the blessing of the diocese, but not
officially associated with the diocese.

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So, anyway,

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and it's a great school.

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It's a, I've had the
chance to visit the school.

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It's a beautiful campus,
a beautiful school.

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It's a, it's a, it's a great, uh, one
of the best kept secrets in Raleigh.

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It's a beautiful campus.

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Right, right.

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And yeah, just so I call it
like going to that school.

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I was just like immersed in this,
in this fervently Catholic culture,

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I'd say, really for the first time.

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So, you know, I had professor
teachers who could, who were one

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really invested in their faith
and could explain it really well.

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So getting that intellectual aspect
really for the first time, and I had

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classmates and just who were, yeah,
actually cared about their faith,

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Yes, it goes a long way, right?

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which was new.

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So just, yeah, really just thrown into
this sort of crazy new environment

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where, um, everyone is pretty on fire
for their Lord in the Catholic faith.

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And yeah, just kind of stepping into that.

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I was just, one, it was a shock.

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It's a little bit of a culture shock,
but I said, but it wasn't long before

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I said like, Whoa, this is amazing.

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And I'm extremely attracted to this.

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And I want, I want more.

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I want to jump in.

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Um, I want to start, maybe having a
serious prayer life for the first time.

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I want to start learning more, about
this faith where I'm seeing all this

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truth in so many different areas.

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so yeah, just that blessing to be in
that environment and then the subsequent,

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um, desire to just, to just jump in.

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And then it was in that jumping in, in
that kind of spending time in chapel

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just for an extended time for the first
time that, yeah, I started having this,

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this crazy thought, well, shoot, I'm
really loving this Catholic faith.

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you know, maybe, maybe I'm,
I have a vocation, to be a

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priest and to serve the church.

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So that's kind of how it started.

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And, uh, I like to say that it's just
started as a thought, not a big vision,

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uh, nothing super, super grand or
special or anything like that, but just.

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A thought that didn't go away.

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Right,

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I think that, that, the, the, the
listening piece, because I think

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oftentimes that, uh, and I remember
hearing this a couple of years ago, uh,

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that, that I think it was the Dominican
sisters would say that first God whispers,

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and then he talks, and then he yells,
and, and you don't want to get into the

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point where he yells, you know what I
mean, kind of thing, because, you know,

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he's going to speak through us, and
we just have to be willing to listen.

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We have to be listening, willing to
what it is that he's trying to tell us.

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And I think by you saying, Hey,
listen, I just spent some time in the

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chapel and, and that intentionality
behind it, uh, is so important.

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And I'm guessing too that, that, um, you
know, one of the things that I often get

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asked by teachers, especially, is, is,
well, I'm just not comfortable talking

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about my faith or, or, you know, I don't
want to, And I think the big thing is

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people don't have to like walk around
with, uh, saying the rosary in between

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classes and everything like that.

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Hey, it's a bonus if you can do so,
but, but that's not what I think has

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the biggest impact on our students.

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it's just teachers who live their
faith outwardly and, and showcase it.

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Because I'm guessing at the school
you went to, That was probably

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a big piece of it right there.

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Uh, you, you have amazing teachers over
there, but I'm guessing that the way that

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they live their lives in that outward way
that they present themselves and are the

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role models made a big impact as well.

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yeah, I speak of it very much, very
intentionally, uh, in terms of attraction.

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And yeah, the, ultimately
what's attractive, what is

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most attractive is love, right?

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having the devotions, having
all that is certainly helpful.

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Yeah, but really the, the fundamentally
attractive thing that I was really

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attracted to and that, uh, that I was
invited into that, yeah, really prompted

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me to spend that time in that chapel
where I kind of first thought about

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the vocation, was just Just really
the love, more so than anything else.

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Right.

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these people care about the faith
and they're living attractive lives.

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I want some of this.

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Yes.

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and, and I think one of the interesting
things that you talked about too was

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You know, you feel this calling, but
I think like any of us, the thing, the

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first initials like, no, I can't do that.

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Nah, I don't know if
this is the right thing.

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And that, whatever it is, that self doubt
starts creeping in and such like that.

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And so there is that piece of
things to, you know, hear the

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Lord's calling, but then also to
say yes to, to what you're hearing.

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Um, because I think it's very
easy to kind of go, I'm just going

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to ignore that and put it in the
corner, uh, and maybe it'll go away.

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But when you just keep hearing that,
calling coming over and over and over

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again, you can say, you know what?

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I think, I think I better,
better listen here.

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What's going on here.

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And yeah, that's pretty typical.

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Uh, yeah, I think of every vocation.

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and we see, we see it even
in the scriptures, right.

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Uh, the Lord calls someone there,
there's the call, And then, then come

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the questions and objections, right?

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Like Moses, like Gideon, like everyone.

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Yep.

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Are you sure me?

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Yeah.

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right, right, right.

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one of the things that, that I know, that
people get to see outwardly is kind of

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what it is that, you know, a priest or a
seminarian does at Mass, okay, but they

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don't get to see that whole other piece
of things that, that goes on in your life.

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Uh, they get a small glimpse each
week, but maybe the rest of, of

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things they don't get to see.

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Walk us through what a typical day in the
seminary looks like for you and for the

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other seminarians, obviously when you're,
when you're on, at, not within a church,

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but maybe, maybe so, I mean, because
you've been stationed at a, a church for

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the past year, but walk us through what
a, what a typical day looks like for you.

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And yeah, I'm glad to talk about this.

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This is something I kind of,
I kind of want to, I jokingly

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call it, like proclaiming the
good news of seminary formation.

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Just because I think there is
such mystery about it, right?

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I never thought about it, you
know, once in my life, till I

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actually started discerning, right?

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So I had no idea.

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And I think a lot of people in, you know,
in the pews just don't have an idea.

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And so yeah,

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Or the wrong idea.

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You know what I mean?

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Oh yeah, yeah.

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Like there is that sense of
like, oh, what's seminary?

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Are you just like sitting in a
cell all day reading the Bible?

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Right.

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Or like the monks, I'm thinking,
you know, in terms of, you

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know, things like that as such.

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So, so talk us through, I mean,
you're gonna lift the shroud, you're

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gonna tell everybody what, what's a
typical day like for a seminarian?

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it's good.

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It's a blessing though.

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So, um, so yeah, we, we, uh, wake up
and, uh, day, the day starts in prayer.

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And I love, the seminary
I go to our campus.

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the chapel is like, far and away,
just like the biggest building on

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campus and it's right in the center.

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beautiful in that sense.

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So, the day starts in the chapel.

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we pray the liturgy of the hours.

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Which is another good and beautiful
thing that the church is always doing

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that people don't realize is that, um,
yeah, every like priest, every, uh, all

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seminarians and like religious sister,
all around the world, we're praying

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the Psalms, uh, five times a day.

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Yeah, it's the church, where we
pray as church for the church.

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Um, so it's this beautiful tradition
we have for, for centuries of praying

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the Psalms together as a church.

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that's what we start the day
with is, is, is morning prayer.

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of course, next comes Mass, so we have
the communal celebration of the Mass

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as a community, again, this all happens
in community, as brothers, yeah, and

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then after Mass, there's some time for
breakfast, uh, the, we call it, This is

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a fun little tidbit about the seminary.

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We love the Catholic Church.

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We love our fancy Latin words, right?

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We can't just call it a cafeteria.

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It's called a refectory,
is where we have our meals.

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So it comes from the Latin
word, vacio, vacere, to make.

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Okay.

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So refectory, remaking, so it's almost
that, uh, that idea of, the food, we're

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nourished by food and we're, we're
almost remade, to go about the day.

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We love our, our Latin words.

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Absolutely.

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And, and, and what happens in the, in
the, well, not the cafeteria, but of

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course in the, say it one more time,
I don't want to mispronounce it here.

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The refectory,

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Refectory.

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Okay, I was going to say
refactory, but that would not be

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the right terminology there, so.

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So, so breakfast happens, and it's
a great time, I'm guessing, as well,

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for that community piece of things.

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Uh, just to, because, how many
seminarians are with you, on a typical,

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uh, how many, how many are in the
seminary with you at this point?

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We're blessed.

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We have a pretty, pretty large community.

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so there's about, uh, we
hover at about, about 90 guys.

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so it's a good number, right.

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yeah, like you're, you're
hitting right on it.

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Is that's Maybe the biggest blessing
of seminary life is you know, who else

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gets to say that, you know, they're
surrounded pretty much 24 7 all the time.

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with some of the most amazing guys
you'll ever be surrounded with, right?

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With, with men of prayer, with
men who love the church, with the

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camaraderie of we're all doing this,
call to this vocation together.

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and then, yeah, so meals
together is a big part of that.

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That communal life, the seminary,
which is, which is, I think,

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really one of the best parts.

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absolutely.

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Because that, because that
support, because it, it can be

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lonely, I'm guessing at times.

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you know, something, maybe you're
having a, a, a rough day or, uh,

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something and, and you have those
brothers of there to lift you up.

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you know, it's, it's like
anything, you'll have your closer

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friends and you'll have more

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Of course.

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but, but it's like, it's beautiful that
like every man who's here is just, a

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good, good man who I can hope, I can
like, I can trust, who I can pray with.

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Who I could share experiences with, laugh
with, so it's, it's, it's a privilege.

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It's a privilege.

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way of life.

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So yeah, our meals, and those are fun.

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We have a great food.

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Oh my goodness.

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That's, that's so helpful.

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I'm so blessed in the seminary I'm at.

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We have, very talented, uh,
food staff, which makes the

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whole place a very joyful place.

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Absolutely.

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There's, there's, there's a hook right
there, so if you're hearing the call,

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there's good food at the seminary,

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Good food at the seminary, right?

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And so outside of meals, uh, you,
you, you get up, we're going to, we're

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going to attend mass, we're going to
pray, we're going to have our meals.

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And then what happens
for the rest of the day?

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and then comes the little unglamorous,
uh, part of the seminary life is, right?

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Just, the classes.

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the seminary life, it's, it's pretty
similar yeah, at least in structure

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to, yeah, to like what like a
college, atmosphere would look like.

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So, A big chunk of the day, um, is
spent in classes, and that's just the

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reality of the church and formation
is that, there's a lot to learn.

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We do, it is different, in that, you
know, there is very much this intentional

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sense of integration, that, the classes
we're taking, the classes we're taking,

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it should kind of flow from what we
do before them in the chapel, and it

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should lead, like, to, you know, further
prayer and further service, right, and

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so that's, that is one of the blessings
is just how, you know, intentional,

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um, the classes, obviously training
for the priesthood, how this philosophy

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that we study, how the theology that we
study, um, it's very clearly and very

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intentionally, supposed to integrate it
into our, into our ministry, into our

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service, into our personal development.

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yeah, so a lot of time during the
day taking classes, but, uh, there

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is just that, that sense of unity
and integrity, which, which helps you

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get through it when you have a lot
of tests and papers to write, right?

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Absolutely.

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No, no rest for the weary on that one.

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right.

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And then, yeah, just another little
piece is that, So yeah, normally mornings

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are, heavily classes, and then lunch is
actually our big meal as a community.

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because, uh, the reason it's lunch and not
dinner is because part of, another part

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of seminary life is, weekly we all have
different assignments in the community.

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We call them our apostolates,
where we go out, And so sometimes

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that could be during dinner time.

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So that's why lunch is the communal
meal where we're all there.

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so that's another, uh, really beautiful
aspect of seminary is, is the going out.

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So I've had a lot of really great
experiences, um, different assignments

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over the years, um, of that, that
going out part, when you first start in

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seminary, it's more community service.

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It's more service oriented.

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So like soup kitchens, um, nursing homes.

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Those were kind of my assignments,
uh, my first few years of seminary.

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Uh, but then as you build
up, uh, it's, it's cool.

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You get to do more ministerial things.

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So I did, uh, I did a year of
teaching, uh, like CCD at a parish.

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That was my kind of out of
the community, apostolate.

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And I, I did a year,
uh, working in hospice.

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that was beautiful work,
beautiful ministry there.

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there was actually a year where,
This was a fun one where, uh, I

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was assigned with a brother, to a
parish, but we were assigned, do

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some door to door evangelization.

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So, going, knocking on people's doors
and just kind of having conversations

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about God, about the faith.

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Ooh, that was interesting.

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Um, so plenty of, plenty

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all kinds of reactions there.

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Right, right.

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It's a cliche that you hear it every
you hear you see it all, but it's true.

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You do see it

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You do see it all.

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And I'm guessing, too, that, through those
experiences, now, do you get any say in,

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hey, I'd like to, you know, hey, here's
five choices, pick one, or is it, hey,

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Rob, this is what you're doing today?

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hmm.

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Right, so it's it is more assigned,
uh, but the good part is that, you

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know, the assignment you get, um,
usually lasts like a whole year.

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So like, so Rob, you're doing like
hospice for this whole year, or you're

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doing teaching CCD for this whole year.

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Um, so there is that stability aspect to
it and they do try to intentionally do it.

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So you kind of get a little
bit of everything in your time.

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So you get, you get some hospital
work, you get some school work, you

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get parish work, you get, hopefully
you get like the whole package.

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Yeah, absolutely.

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And over the past year, you've been
assigned to a parish, which, which I

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think is great, because, uh, for lack of
better words, I'm gonna say it's almost

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like a student teaching, uh, kind of
thing, where you're, you're gonna be

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part of a parish and part of a community
for, for a extended period of time.

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Talk about what that's been like for you.

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How, how has that helped you grow and,
prepared yourself for in your vocation?

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right.

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It's been beautiful.

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It's been beautiful.

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It's, it's, this is a, uh, a fairly
new thing, um, that the church has

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implemented in the training of priests.

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we get summer assignments where we're
at parishes, but this spending a

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whole year is something fairly new
and I'm just so grateful, because

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I think it's such a good idea.

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yeah, right.

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It's actually one of the
tensions in seminary life.

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is that, you know, life
in seminary, it's great.

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It's good.

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It's beautiful.

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You know, we're learning so much.

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We're going so much.

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We're being formed so much, but
there is that tension that's there

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of, yeah, life in the seminary, it
really looks a lot different than what

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actual life as a priest looks like.

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So this, I think, is an effort to
really, like bridge that disparity,

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bridge that gap a little bit.

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and yeah, so this year in the and
like, It's just been so beautiful.

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So touching because,
and so affirming, right?

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Because this is what
it's all about, right?

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Uh, no one's we say in the seminary, no
one's called to be a seminarian, right?

00:20:25.696 --> 00:20:26.146
right?

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Um, no one's called to just
spend all their life at seminary.

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No, it's, this is what it's about.

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It's about the people, right?

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It's about ministering.

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It's about, uh, saving souls
about working in a parish, you

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know, working for the kingdom.

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So, uh, it's just been this, it's honestly
a year that Guys, very, very much look

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forward to, this, um, yeah, getting to
really kind of put into practice, um, all

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the tools we've learned over these years.

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And, yeah, to really,
really start ministering.

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Um, we're not ordained yet, but
this is kind of the sense of the

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year is to, um, try it on, right?

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Try on the, and.

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I'm gonna, I'm gonna ask you about
the school kids here in a little bit

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because I, you're a rock star to them.

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Okay, these kids, they, they love you.

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So I'm gonna ask you about
that here in a little bit.

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Uh, it just, well, I'll ask you about
it now, so you've had the chance to

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be part of a parish with a school.

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the kids, when they
see you, they love you.

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Uh, they love interacting with you.

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Uh, they love to maybe see if they can
get you to join in a game at recess.

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Uh, maybe if you attend
an extracurricular event.

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Uh, it's like seeing a
celebrity there, okay?

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Tell me about what you've learned
for your future, about the importance

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of a presence in the school, uh,
and what that's been like for you,

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Right.

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Oh my goodness.

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Yeah.

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So, yeah, the school has
been just, such a joy.

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Really one of my favorite
parts, um, of this parish.

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just to be around that, that joy, right?

00:21:50.638 --> 00:21:51.258
That life.

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Um, it's a, it's a loud campus.

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I like to say here with, with the school.

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You're always,

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in a good way, right?

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In a

00:21:57.558 --> 00:21:57.788
good

00:21:58.013 --> 00:22:00.963
way, signs of life, signs
of the rainforest, right?

00:22:01.473 --> 00:22:02.303
Teeming with life.

00:22:02.579 --> 00:22:04.769
so that's just been so life giving for me.

00:22:05.159 --> 00:22:08.279
And so it's, it's cool that
ministry is mutual, right?

00:22:08.699 --> 00:22:12.360
There's this aspect of service and
giving, but, but really I'm, I'm fed

00:22:12.360 --> 00:22:16.704
so much just, just by being around,
and working with the kids and to be

00:22:16.704 --> 00:22:18.404
able to be present to them, right?

00:22:18.834 --> 00:22:20.724
And yeah, the presence,
it's, it's so important.

00:22:21.184 --> 00:22:24.134
Actually, a big part of what
I've taken to be my mission here.

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and this is in talking with the pastor,
who's kind of my boss, you know, pastor

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is very busy, you know, that's the reality
of the priesthood, is there, whoo, so

00:22:31.888 --> 00:22:36.036
much to do, so, so much to do, so really,
he said, like, Rob, like, part of your

00:22:36.036 --> 00:22:41.036
mission is really to be, like, almost like
an extra set of arms and legs, like, to

00:22:41.036 --> 00:22:45.701
be, almost be where I can't, and so for
me, uh, that's been, yeah, um, It would

00:22:45.711 --> 00:22:50.101
be awesome if father could like hang out
in the school a lot, but the reality is

00:22:50.111 --> 00:22:56.521
he's just not able to, um, so that's been
very much a joy to, yeah, to be present,

00:22:56.668 --> 00:23:00.608
almost like a representative of him in
the community, especially in the school.

00:23:01.003 --> 00:23:05.483
Uh, so that's been just a joy to do,
and it's good because when I was growing

00:23:05.483 --> 00:23:08.233
up, when I was in Catholic school, I
went to Catholic school, right, and

00:23:08.233 --> 00:23:11.293
I thought, you know, priests just
kind of popped out of the sky, right,

00:23:12.563 --> 00:23:13.933
Just appear here and there, right?

00:23:14.253 --> 00:23:18.236
right, right, right, but no, I think it's
like really helpful, Yeah, to see for

00:23:18.236 --> 00:23:22.506
them to, yeah, see like, okay, this is
a man who's in this process of learning

00:23:22.506 --> 00:23:27.676
this and yeah, almost like to see like
the unfinished product in a sense, right?

00:23:27.676 --> 00:23:29.926
I think that's cool for them to
see that, like, just as they're,

00:23:30.106 --> 00:23:31.246
like, they're learning, right?

00:23:31.486 --> 00:23:34.586
And they're training to do whatever
they're going to do with their lives.

00:23:34.586 --> 00:23:36.516
It's, it's the same thing with priests.

00:23:36.636 --> 00:23:40.946
Um, and it's kind of cool, I think,
for them to, Yeah, to see someone who's

00:23:40.946 --> 00:23:44.379
on in training or on the way, right?

00:23:44.379 --> 00:23:45.791
Right,

00:23:46.121 --> 00:23:51.338
I will tell you, one of the things
I can speak on from 15 years of

00:23:51.348 --> 00:23:55.257
Catholic education, uh, having two
kids of my own you know, who are

00:23:55.257 --> 00:23:56.617
currently in Catholic education.

00:23:57.537 --> 00:24:03.037
Every time those kids see a priest
or see a seminarian, When we sit

00:24:03.037 --> 00:24:05.237
down for dinner, guess which one of
the first things out of their mouth?

00:24:06.147 --> 00:24:08.237
we we saw Seminary and Rob today, okay?

00:24:08.467 --> 00:24:10.217
Uh, we saw Father So and so today.

00:24:10.417 --> 00:24:15.367
So it's really such an important piece of
things and, and recognizing, hey, maybe

00:24:15.367 --> 00:24:18.817
I could just walk through the halls real
quick or whatever the case might be, but

00:24:18.827 --> 00:24:24.637
those kids being able to see you even just
walking by, uh, means so much to them.

00:24:24.785 --> 00:24:28.505
kudos to you for, for realizing that
and don't ever lose that for sure.

00:24:29.124 --> 00:24:29.784
And it's great.

00:24:29.866 --> 00:24:33.336
especially my presence specifically
in this school is, uh, yeah, so

00:24:33.336 --> 00:24:36.336
I'm not, you know, a full time
teacher or anything, right?

00:24:36.336 --> 00:24:38.616
I'm not responsible for
teaching a class every day.

00:24:38.899 --> 00:24:40.119
but yeah, just that freedom.

00:24:40.149 --> 00:24:41.219
Yeah, to pop in.

00:24:41.411 --> 00:24:45.211
and really, I think it's been
beautiful because, um, kind of

00:24:45.211 --> 00:24:51.821
because I'm not a teacher, I have
that ability then to like 100 percent

00:24:51.831 --> 00:24:53.941
put on the ministry cap, right?

00:24:54.251 --> 00:24:57.701
And I think the kids throughout the
year really kind of warmed up to that

00:24:57.711 --> 00:25:01.006
where it's like, Okay, there's, you
know, there's a religion class, which

00:25:01.006 --> 00:25:03.906
is good and great, but they kind
of picked up throughout the year.

00:25:03.906 --> 00:25:04.906
They're like, Oh, okay.

00:25:04.906 --> 00:25:08.306
Like when Rob's in the class,
like we're not being graded.

00:25:08.616 --> 00:25:11.086
Um, you know, we're not going
to be tested on anything.

00:25:11.086 --> 00:25:13.986
So it's like when, when
seminarian Rob comes, it's

00:25:13.986 --> 00:25:15.516
just, We're just being loved on.

00:25:15.516 --> 00:25:16.526
We're being ministered to.

00:25:16.727 --> 00:25:20.047
and I think that's been like a really,
crucial part I've been able to provide

00:25:20.047 --> 00:25:23.198
this year is that, yeah, sometimes
with Catholic school, it's like, right.

00:25:23.198 --> 00:25:24.968
We, we teach kids the catechism.

00:25:24.978 --> 00:25:29.138
We have them learn their facts, but
unfortunately a lot, some kids come

00:25:29.138 --> 00:25:32.148
out of Catholic school, um, then
not practicing the faith, right.

00:25:32.148 --> 00:25:34.198
Not, not knowing the Lord in their hearts.

00:25:34.448 --> 00:25:38.078
And so that's been, I think, a really
crucial, uh, little niche I've been

00:25:38.078 --> 00:25:40.358
able to step into is like, okay, like.

00:25:40.773 --> 00:25:43.624
Guys, it's great that you're
learning this stuff, but, yeah,

00:25:43.874 --> 00:25:45.314
like how's your heart, right?

00:25:45.314 --> 00:25:48.014
Are you taking this to prayer?

00:25:48.014 --> 00:25:50.894
Kind of be that kind of bridge
that get them from the head

00:25:50.894 --> 00:25:52.524
to the heart, if you will.

00:25:53.074 --> 00:25:55.112
And that was something I had
the chance to speak with,

00:25:55.149 --> 00:25:58.039
Bishop Byrne up in Springfield,
Massachusetts a few weeks ago.

00:25:58.269 --> 00:26:00.879
And that was something that he kind
of talked about was, you know, I'm,

00:26:00.919 --> 00:26:02.809
I'm the bishop of an entire diocese.

00:26:02.876 --> 00:26:05.286
you know, I want to be out there with the,
with the people I want to be out there.

00:26:05.286 --> 00:26:07.706
And he said, when I, when I walk
into a classroom and the kids

00:26:07.706 --> 00:26:10.881
see me, they're like, I want them
to be, Hey, Bishop, how are you?

00:26:10.911 --> 00:26:14.291
Not feel like, Oh, I've got to, you
know, stand up straight and straighten

00:26:14.291 --> 00:26:15.581
my shirt and everything like that.

00:26:15.591 --> 00:26:18.261
He said, I want them to get to
know me to get to know my heart.

00:26:18.571 --> 00:26:21.111
Uh, and, and I'm paraphrasing
that or anything like that.

00:26:21.111 --> 00:26:25.571
So, uh, I think that's so important in,
in, in leading from the front of like he

00:26:25.801 --> 00:26:31.931
expressed really, uh, I think gets the,
the, the faith out there even brighter,

00:26:32.071 --> 00:26:33.471
I guess is the best way of putting it.

00:26:33.764 --> 00:26:37.584
What's something that may surprise
you, or may surprise people, uh,

00:26:37.614 --> 00:26:39.634
about your time in the seminary?

00:26:40.147 --> 00:26:40.557
Hmm.

00:26:40.647 --> 00:26:41.607
That's a great question.

00:26:41.687 --> 00:26:42.467
That's a great question.

00:26:43.197 --> 00:26:44.377
Thinking about my experience.

00:26:44.447 --> 00:26:45.807
Um, there's a lot of surprises.

00:26:46.457 --> 00:26:47.327
Right, right.

00:26:48.077 --> 00:26:50.557
Or maybe something, maybe something
that, hey, I thought it was gonna

00:26:50.557 --> 00:26:54.257
be this, and boy, it's turned out
to be this, and it might be for good

00:26:54.257 --> 00:26:55.607
reasons, it might be for bad reasons.

00:26:55.647 --> 00:26:59.077
Uh, but hey, I was expecting
X, and boy, I got Y.

00:26:59.077 --> 00:26:59.329
Ha

00:26:59.585 --> 00:26:59.805
Yeah.

00:26:59.805 --> 00:27:03.815
And yeah, kind of along those lines
of, uh, yeah, really just how,

00:27:03.835 --> 00:27:07.593
just how human, uh, seminarians
and, and, and priests are, right?

00:27:07.673 --> 00:27:11.253
So yeah, in seminary, like,
it's not like, we're not monks,

00:27:11.253 --> 00:27:12.453
we're praying all day, right?

00:27:12.453 --> 00:27:16.593
We, we love to play basketball
and, uh, soccer and yeah, those.

00:27:17.033 --> 00:27:19.263
Those get competitive, right?

00:27:20.483 --> 00:27:22.743
little competitiveness,
juice flowin there.

00:27:23.349 --> 00:27:25.963
honestly, like um, being
a seminarian is fun.

00:27:26.101 --> 00:27:28.231
Um, you know, we, you know,
we all have hobbies, right?

00:27:28.231 --> 00:27:30.751
Those aren't, yeah, it's not like
we're asked to like renounce all

00:27:30.751 --> 00:27:34.501
that and, you know, give it up
and just like pray or all day.

00:27:34.531 --> 00:27:37.741
Like, no, it's, it's very much,
and this can be like a buzzword

00:27:37.741 --> 00:27:39.141
sometimes, but it's very true.

00:27:39.461 --> 00:27:43.111
Um, and very faithfully lived out in
the seminary is that like, We're, we're

00:27:43.151 --> 00:27:44.771
working on the whole person, right?

00:27:45.081 --> 00:27:46.641
Um, the whole person formation.

00:27:46.641 --> 00:27:50.765
It's not, yeah, like, and actually the
way the seminary is, the spiritual,

00:27:50.935 --> 00:27:54.905
the spiritual formation, it's
just one of the four pillars, um,

00:27:54.905 --> 00:27:56.155
that we're constantly working on.

00:27:56.165 --> 00:28:01.579
We have these four pillars of spiritual,
intellectual, pastoral, and human.

00:28:01.700 --> 00:28:05.450
and John Paul II was big about this,
about how, yeah, we're not just,

00:28:05.833 --> 00:28:08.063
manufacturing prayer machines, right?

00:28:08.383 --> 00:28:11.533
Uh, we need fully developed,
fully integrated men.

00:28:11.823 --> 00:28:16.453
Um, and just, so yeah, maybe just
how, how human we seminarians

00:28:16.453 --> 00:28:17.713
are, how imperfect we are.

00:28:17.832 --> 00:28:22.368
yeah, just, shenanigans, uh, that could
be a part of seminary life, but how that

00:28:22.388 --> 00:28:27.697
actually, that actually is a good thing
that we're producing, Yeah, just fully

00:28:28.247 --> 00:28:33.654
human men, can then go into the real
world, right, and, and be relatable, and

00:28:33.664 --> 00:28:35.544
be effective ministers and be bridges,

00:28:36.919 --> 00:28:39.799
And, and, and laughter
is such a good medicine.

00:28:40.021 --> 00:28:40.601
you know what I mean?

00:28:40.601 --> 00:28:44.298
If you're, if you're just, enjoying what
you're doing and you're smiling and you're

00:28:44.298 --> 00:28:48.229
laughing with one another, you know,
that, that, that work piece of things,

00:28:48.229 --> 00:28:49.399
cause we're going to work together.

00:28:49.479 --> 00:28:49.839
Okay.

00:28:49.839 --> 00:28:51.759
We're, we're gonna, we're
going to do the work together.

00:28:52.039 --> 00:28:55.529
Um, but that time just to laugh
with one another and, and share

00:28:55.529 --> 00:28:59.119
that, those joys, uh, I think just
builds a stronger community for you.

00:28:59.565 --> 00:29:02.895
Talk about maybe over the, the, your time.

00:29:03.165 --> 00:29:05.655
What's been the most
challenging piece for you

00:29:06.806 --> 00:29:10.336
And this was a little misconception too,
something I, that was, I found to be

00:29:10.336 --> 00:29:15.784
different than what I expected is that,
I remember going into seminary, entering,

00:29:16.354 --> 00:29:18.994
and I kind of had this attitude of, okay.

00:29:19.514 --> 00:29:21.314
I'm taking this big leap of faith.

00:29:21.478 --> 00:29:25.558
and there was this attitude of
like, okay, I've said yes, right?

00:29:25.598 --> 00:29:27.478
I've taken this radical step in faith.

00:29:27.848 --> 00:29:28.998
I've jumped in.

00:29:29.028 --> 00:29:30.778
I'm in the deep end now, right?

00:29:30.988 --> 00:29:31.638
I'm doing it.

00:29:31.844 --> 00:29:34.024
that was kind of my attitude
going in, which was true.

00:29:34.469 --> 00:29:38.840
But what I found, and this can be
the most challenging part is that,

00:29:38.870 --> 00:29:43.165
you know, this life, this journey
for me, it's not so much this big,

00:29:43.625 --> 00:29:48.401
massive, yes, you know, you give it the
beginning, and then you're doing it.

00:29:48.451 --> 00:29:49.531
It's no, it's.

00:29:50.346 --> 00:29:54.676
You really have to say, give that
radical yes in little ways every day.

00:29:54.985 --> 00:29:58.415
I, I speak with married couples and
they say it's a similar thing, right?

00:29:58.415 --> 00:29:58.975
With marriage.

00:29:58.975 --> 00:30:02.865
It's that, you know, saying
yes to the proposal and, uh,

00:30:02.875 --> 00:30:04.305
when the ring is out, right?

00:30:04.315 --> 00:30:05.665
That's, that's a beautiful moment.

00:30:05.675 --> 00:30:07.125
It's a beautiful yes to give.

00:30:07.495 --> 00:30:11.465
Uh, but then the reality of the
vocation, um, is just every day,

00:30:11.505 --> 00:30:15.355
just in a thousand little ways, um,
a thousand little sacrifices, right?

00:30:15.615 --> 00:30:19.460
A thousand little, opportunities,
uh, to die to self and to say yes.

00:30:19.925 --> 00:30:25.615
And yeah, that could be challenging too,
is just, yeah, just of honestly avoiding

00:30:25.795 --> 00:30:27.295
just the going through the motions, right?

00:30:27.701 --> 00:30:29.131
know, show up to chapel, right?

00:30:29.131 --> 00:30:31.691
And kind of be kind of tuned out, right?

00:30:31.691 --> 00:30:36.321
And show up to classes and, you
know, be half, half awake, right?

00:30:36.464 --> 00:30:40.574
yeah, I'd say like, that's another
piece is just intentionally, Yeah,

00:30:40.574 --> 00:30:44.536
maintaining the fire, and then
also just the patience, right?

00:30:44.816 --> 00:30:48.706
The patience in that, uh, we
want to see results, right?

00:30:48.706 --> 00:30:53.944
We want to get super holy, super fast,
and, uh, yeah, those have been some of the

00:30:53.944 --> 00:30:57.494
most challenging points in my formation,
where it's like, you know, I sit down

00:30:57.494 --> 00:31:00.454
with some of the priests I work with,
and I'm like, I'm all freaked out, right?

00:31:00.454 --> 00:31:02.934
I'm like, this isn't working,
like, what am I doing?

00:31:02.944 --> 00:31:06.933
Like, I should be this, this, this,
that, and just, the challenge and the

00:31:06.933 --> 00:31:11.973
invitation there to just like, well,
Rob, that's great, but maybe you can

00:31:11.973 --> 00:31:17.443
trust that the formation, uh, that
the love, it's, it's happening slowly

00:31:17.443 --> 00:31:19.426
and imperceptibly, which is difficult.

00:31:20.126 --> 00:31:25.011
the, the compound interest of God's love,
I guess would be the, the way to that I'm

00:31:25.011 --> 00:31:28.904
thinking of it and, and I know that, when
we got married, one of the things that

00:31:28.904 --> 00:31:32.144
the, the priest said to us is, he said,
there's a lot of couples that prepare for

00:31:32.144 --> 00:31:34.304
the wedding, but not for the marriage.

00:31:34.714 --> 00:31:38.404
And, uh, you know, it's, it's like
all about getting to the big day.

00:31:38.804 --> 00:31:40.874
But what, what about what
comes after the big day?

00:31:41.000 --> 00:31:44.310
and that, and that ongoing
say yes is so important.

00:31:44.433 --> 00:31:48.993
cause we can get to graduation
day, but then that say yes piece

00:31:49.063 --> 00:31:50.897
of things, continues to come.

00:31:50.937 --> 00:31:53.117
No matter what it is, whether
it's a marriage or a job or

00:31:53.117 --> 00:31:54.177
whatever the case might be.

00:31:54.177 --> 00:31:58.157
So, uh, that, that ongoing finding
ways to continue to say yes to

00:31:58.167 --> 00:31:59.767
God's love is just so important.

00:32:00.671 --> 00:32:03.251
advice do you have for schools out there?

00:32:03.251 --> 00:32:04.471
Because I know that.

00:32:04.790 --> 00:32:09.959
When you're away at seminary and
you have your camaraderie with your

00:32:09.960 --> 00:32:11.520
other seminarians or stuff like that.

00:32:11.711 --> 00:32:14.961
but there's schools out there,
there's, uh, parishes out there who

00:32:14.961 --> 00:32:18.741
are constantly praying for their
seminarians or supporting their

00:32:18.741 --> 00:32:20.651
seminarians in different ways.

00:32:21.081 --> 00:32:25.351
What advice do you have for schools
out there in terms of supporting

00:32:25.371 --> 00:32:30.561
seminarians and ways that if you could,
Talk to Catholic school leaders across

00:32:30.561 --> 00:32:33.809
the United States, across the world,
what would be, what would you say to

00:32:33.809 --> 00:32:39.709
them about how they can help, not only
you, but our seminarians all over the

00:32:39.709 --> 00:32:42.019
world out there, in, in, at this time?

00:32:43.789 --> 00:32:44.159
Wow.

00:32:44.889 --> 00:32:45.659
It's a great question.

00:32:45.719 --> 00:32:47.639
Uh, it's a humbling question too, right?

00:32:47.934 --> 00:32:51.764
Because we are, we are so loved and
supported, and we do, we do feel that.

00:32:51.934 --> 00:32:53.024
We feel loved and supported.

00:32:53.266 --> 00:32:57.136
yeah, Catholic schools, they love,
they love writing us mail, uh, which

00:32:57.136 --> 00:33:01.576
can just be, um, yeah, just the most,
the most uplifting thing, right?

00:33:01.666 --> 00:33:04.786
When, you know, life's a mess, and
you're angry, and you're frustrated,

00:33:04.786 --> 00:33:08.866
and you go to your mailbox, and there's
just a card from the sweetest little

00:33:08.866 --> 00:33:11.176
third grader, like, you know, Dear Mr.

00:33:11.176 --> 00:33:13.126
Seminarian Rob.

00:33:13.436 --> 00:33:15.186
I hope you're having a good day today.

00:33:16.016 --> 00:33:17.236
Um, oh, it's just the

00:33:17.291 --> 00:33:19.021
And how can you not be after that, right?

00:33:19.296 --> 00:33:20.486
Right, right, right.

00:33:20.576 --> 00:33:21.076
Amen.

00:33:21.166 --> 00:33:21.646
Amen.

00:33:22.026 --> 00:33:28.006
And, um, just of course, um, it's a,
it's a cliche answer, but it's, it's true

00:33:28.006 --> 00:33:30.646
is that, uh, yeah, it's just prayers.

00:33:30.676 --> 00:33:32.980
Um, yeah, prayers,
prayers are so important.

00:33:33.524 --> 00:33:36.644
yeah, that, that's the fundamental,
but maybe beyond that is just.

00:33:37.160 --> 00:33:41.234
I don't know, maybe don't, like, don't
wait, don't be afraid, like, get involved

00:33:41.234 --> 00:33:43.184
and get to know, uh, your seminarians.

00:33:43.514 --> 00:33:47.625
A lot of dioceses, they have, like, a
poster, and yeah, like, you know, maybe

00:33:47.625 --> 00:33:50.865
look on the poster, see some of the
posters, they say where guys are from,

00:33:50.865 --> 00:33:54.155
where their parishes are, and, yeah, maybe
don't wait till they're your priest to,

00:33:54.295 --> 00:33:57.175
you know, invite them over, to reach out
to them, to be a part of their lives,

00:33:57.308 --> 00:34:01.538
That's been so life giving for me is just,
yeah, getting to know families, right?

00:34:01.700 --> 00:34:05.143
I might not be their priest yet,
yeah, getting to know families and,

00:34:05.143 --> 00:34:07.023
uh, being invited into their homes.

00:34:07.063 --> 00:34:10.973
I think, yeah, why, why wait till,
you know, I'm ordained and all busy,

00:34:11.483 --> 00:34:11.913
Right,

00:34:12.503 --> 00:34:14.613
To start forging these,
these relationships and

00:34:14.613 --> 00:34:15.973
these, these bonds where.

00:34:16.473 --> 00:34:19.603
Uh, really the families help the
priests and seminarians so much.

00:34:19.603 --> 00:34:21.433
And I think, again, it's mutual, right?

00:34:21.453 --> 00:34:22.323
That we help each other.

00:34:22.343 --> 00:34:24.735
So, yeah, don't be afraid to reach out.

00:34:25.550 --> 00:34:29.050
And I know that was something we did a
few years ago was we gave each class,

00:34:29.260 --> 00:34:31.450
uh, a seminarian that they adopted.

00:34:31.680 --> 00:34:32.120
Okay.

00:34:32.462 --> 00:34:34.152
and, and what's been really cool.

00:34:34.577 --> 00:34:38.587
Uh, to see is, is that when we did
that, when one of those seminarians

00:34:38.587 --> 00:34:41.927
would come for a visit, maybe for
a short term or a longer term, like

00:34:41.927 --> 00:34:46.017
you, it's like, hey, that was the
guy whose picture was on our wall.

00:34:46.027 --> 00:34:48.187
That's the guy we've been, he's here now.

00:34:48.437 --> 00:34:52.477
Uh, and, and so, and I think one of the
things that was real important for me is

00:34:52.477 --> 00:34:56.907
I said, you know, For all we know, one
of these students that's in the school

00:34:56.907 --> 00:35:00.837
right now, you may be marrying them,
or you may be baptizing their child

00:35:00.837 --> 00:35:06.571
one day, or things like that, and so
getting that connection early, uh, like

00:35:06.571 --> 00:35:09.191
you just said, you don't have to wait
until you're a priest and, and getting

00:35:09.191 --> 00:35:12.921
to know, uh, but just forming those
connections now, but so that you have

00:35:12.921 --> 00:35:17.569
that support, and that they are feeling
supported by you, to me was just such an

00:35:17.569 --> 00:35:19.059
important piece of the puzzle for that.

00:35:19.556 --> 00:35:24.406
So, so, talk about what the next few
years looks like for you, um, because

00:35:24.426 --> 00:35:27.496
as we were talking kind of before,
you're, you're, uh, at the parish

00:35:27.526 --> 00:35:29.096
you're at until, I think, August.

00:35:29.217 --> 00:35:31.957
talk about what the, what the next
few years looks like for you and, and

00:35:31.957 --> 00:35:33.687
your vocation and your discernment.

00:35:34.987 --> 00:35:35.727
Right, right.

00:35:36.017 --> 00:35:39.697
So again, I'm going to kind of leverage
that question to talk about the good

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news of what's happening in seminary
formation in recent developments.

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And yeah, so actually I'm kind of
an example of some of this good

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news is that the seminary formation,
it's being tweaked a little bit.

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Maybe you could say re imagined a
little bit to where, it is becoming

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less of like a conveyor belt, uh,
like a cookie cutter, kind of same

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formation for each guy, right?

00:36:01.775 --> 00:36:03.315
Because I think the
church is realizing that.

00:36:03.730 --> 00:36:07.680
Like, someone like myself who enters,
you know, shortly after high school

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and someone who enters, you know,
after having a long career, the,

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the kind of and type of formation,
we both need would look different.

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So, I think the church is really trying
to, uh, adjust and adapt to that,

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um, and really make it almost more,
more tailor fit to each guy's needs.

00:36:27.371 --> 00:36:31.581
So almost in that spirit, I've had
some really great conversations,

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with those in charge of my formation.

00:36:33.710 --> 00:36:37.599
yeah, we've kind of mutually,
yeah, discerned that like, Hey,

00:36:38.019 --> 00:36:39.909
this past year, it's been awesome.

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It's been so great.

00:36:41.259 --> 00:36:44.519
I think I've really come into my
own a lot in the parish setting.

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And so we kind of like together said
like, well, shoot, let's have, let's

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have some more time in a parish, right?

00:36:51.009 --> 00:36:53.427
Let's continue, to yeah.

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Put me in, in this arena where
I can, where I think I'm best,

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best suited to grow and develop.

00:36:58.487 --> 00:37:00.107
So yeah, out of that is now.

00:37:00.532 --> 00:37:04.302
Yeah, a decision to get some more
time in a Paris, a new Paris, right?

00:37:04.342 --> 00:37:05.132
A new environment.

00:37:05.492 --> 00:37:10.092
That's a big part of priesthood,
right, is learning how to minister

00:37:10.102 --> 00:37:12.872
across, you know, environments
when you're, when you're moved.

00:37:12.872 --> 00:37:16.516
So, coming up immediately for
me is, uh, is actually going to

00:37:16.516 --> 00:37:18.206
be another year in the parish.

00:37:18.407 --> 00:37:21.557
this is the wisdom of the church too,
in that it's a pretty opposite parish.

00:37:21.557 --> 00:37:25.380
So I'll have, kind of both extremes
under my belt, you know, a big, a

00:37:25.380 --> 00:37:26.910
big parish like this one I'm at now.

00:37:26.910 --> 00:37:29.920
This is a smaller parish, different
part of the diocese, right?

00:37:30.264 --> 00:37:33.904
I'm very excited to have just
a wealth of good experience

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and further development there.

00:37:35.594 --> 00:37:39.127
right, but then eventually after
that, so I do still have, a couple

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years of schooling to finish up.

00:37:40.737 --> 00:37:45.457
So I've studied all my philosophy and
I just have just two more years now

00:37:45.457 --> 00:37:51.397
of my, uh, theology studies, um, until
I've, um, done all the, the academic

00:37:51.397 --> 00:37:53.089
requirements, for, for priesthood.

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So, uh, this next year in a parish and.

00:37:56.134 --> 00:37:57.124
Couple more at school.

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but if I've learned anything
thus far, it's that the time has

00:38:01.014 --> 00:38:05.634
absolutely flown by and it'll be,
it'll go by in a blink of an eye.

00:38:05.674 --> 00:38:10.895
So I'm getting there and I'm really
excited it's going to fly by, but.

00:38:11.830 --> 00:38:14.340
The, the, I used to always tell
people, I say that the days are

00:38:14.340 --> 00:38:15.980
long, but the years go by quick.

00:38:16.101 --> 00:38:17.671
you know, that's just what it seems to be.

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Uh, let me ask you one last question here.

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because I told you before we started
recording, I said that, that people

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listening to this might be, uh,
Catholic school leaders, could be

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priests, could be, uh, parishioners,
but there could be one other group

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of audience, uh, in the audience
out there, and that's maybe somebody

00:38:34.470 --> 00:38:38.900
who's Thinks they might be hearing God
whispering in their ear a little bit.

00:38:39.750 --> 00:38:45.080
What do you say to somebody who may
be hearing God's call a little bit?

00:38:45.850 --> 00:38:48.550
Maybe, maybe they're, and, and,
and as we both know, I mean that

00:38:48.550 --> 00:38:52.890
could could happen anywhere between
8 and 80 is, is to hear that call

00:38:53.080 --> 00:38:54.980
and God starts to whisper to you.

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What would you say to that person
who may be considering a vocation?

00:38:59.873 --> 00:39:05.257
I like to say that Jesus's theme song in
the gospels is, is be not afraid, right?

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Wherever he goes, he's just,
constantly encouraging people.

00:39:09.914 --> 00:39:11.384
Be not afraid, be not afraid.

00:39:11.714 --> 00:39:16.290
And yeah, as I've gone in my journey, my
discernment, it's like the further I go,

00:39:16.611 --> 00:39:18.231
The deeper those words mean to me, right?

00:39:18.261 --> 00:39:19.741
Of, of just be not afraid.

00:39:20.012 --> 00:39:23.098
because yeah, discerning like
a vocation, whatever vocation

00:39:23.098 --> 00:39:24.538
it is, it's scary, right?

00:39:24.858 --> 00:39:25.798
Commitment is scary.

00:39:26.368 --> 00:39:28.508
Um, sacrifice is scary, right?

00:39:29.110 --> 00:39:34.625
it's so easy, I think, to Maybe like
turn it into like a task, right?

00:39:34.915 --> 00:39:38.865
Where, uh, where you're like
evaluating your performance, right?

00:39:38.945 --> 00:39:42.355
And then you're disappointed in
yourself and then you feel guilty

00:39:42.355 --> 00:39:45.765
and like you're not living up to
maybe this call that God has for you.

00:39:45.805 --> 00:39:48.545
I certainly fell into this in
my journey, my discernment.

00:39:48.964 --> 00:39:52.514
yeah, it really almost got me off
the, off the right path for a while.

00:39:52.534 --> 00:39:58.482
So, but yeah, just to, just to know when
God calls us, when God, like, makes a plan

00:39:58.482 --> 00:40:02.603
for our life, He doesn't do it, like, to
torture us and make us miserable, right?

00:40:02.623 --> 00:40:05.093
He's doing that out of
an infinite love for us.

00:40:05.443 --> 00:40:06.313
He made us.

00:40:06.753 --> 00:40:07.913
So he knows your heart.

00:40:08.283 --> 00:40:12.843
He knows what's gonna make you
ultimately the most happy in life, right?

00:40:13.073 --> 00:40:17.453
So just to almost receive it, make
sure you're receiving it in that sense

00:40:17.483 --> 00:40:21.566
that like, Yeah, never just isolate
it as a task that always to just

00:40:22.746 --> 00:40:27.291
Make sure you're receiving receiving
it in love Um, and then love, what?

00:40:27.551 --> 00:40:31.821
Casts out fear, then comes the trust, and
then comes the baby steps, where, where

00:40:31.821 --> 00:40:36.027
you're able, to one little step at a time,
follow to where the Lord's taking you.

00:40:37.227 --> 00:40:41.577
And, and I think, I think that's so
beautifully put, uh, and I think it's so

00:40:41.577 --> 00:40:46.647
hard sometimes to realize that God has
a plan for each of us, and God's plan is

00:40:46.667 --> 00:40:49.899
going to be so much better than anything
we could have ever come up with, but we

00:40:49.899 --> 00:40:54.249
just have to put our trust and our faith
and, and surrender to him unconditionally.

00:40:54.509 --> 00:40:58.239
Uh, and, and when that happens,
amazing things start to happen.

00:40:58.249 --> 00:41:01.573
So, I want to say thank you so
much for, for taking the time.

00:41:01.603 --> 00:41:04.506
Obviously, you remain in
our prayers, personally.

00:41:04.546 --> 00:41:07.751
And, um, I know a lot of, uh,
the parishioners, continue

00:41:07.751 --> 00:41:08.861
to keep you in their prayers.

00:41:08.976 --> 00:41:12.086
we'll be continuing to follow you
even when you leave us, uh, to,

00:41:12.106 --> 00:41:13.296
to head to your new assignment.

00:41:13.831 --> 00:41:16.301
Uh, you remain in our prayers
and I know you won't be a

00:41:16.301 --> 00:41:17.541
stranger or anything like that.

00:41:17.541 --> 00:41:21.051
And so, uh, just know that if you ever
need anything, we are all here for you

00:41:21.051 --> 00:41:22.801
and we continue to love and support you.

00:41:23.101 --> 00:41:23.421
Amen.

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Well, thank you so much, John.

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