In light of our last two episodes, I thought it would be good to have some women come on and help me understand how to work through I Peter's call for the oppressed to submit even through oppression.
0:00 - Intro
2:30 - Recap
6:00 - Guest Intros
11:10 - What is submission and obedience?
31:00 - What does it mean to remain in our position? Is divorce a viable option?
43:45 - How can we ask those being oppressed to be nonviolent and longsuffering?
55:20 - How is the church doing with our handling of abuse and what steps can we take to do better?
1:24:30 - How do we handle material put out by abusers and oppressors?
1:32:30 - Closing
1:39:10 - Aftershow: venting about complementarianism
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Foundational Questions & Defining Terms:
- What does biblical submission mean? Ought we to distinguish submission from obedience?
- Is there a distinction between the types of submissions referenced in Peter? Do citizens have a deeper call to submission than slaves to masters or wives to husbands (spouse to spouse)? If citizens should biblically submit to a tyrannical and abusive government, and slaves to abusive masters, why shouldn’t one spouse submit to another abusive one?
- Do you think there are cultural considerations here? For example, slavery is illegal in the United States, so if someone took you as a slave, my guess is you wouldn’t say we have a biblical obligation to submit to our slave masters. Do you think the call to submission in marriage is cultural, like slavery may be, or do you think the call is free of cultural considerations?
- From what I’ve read of the early church on divorce, a big part of why they don’t like divorce at all is because they view it as a cutting off of the opportunity for restoration and forgiveness. It’s one of the main reasons we advocate nonviolence, as killing cuts off opportunity for restoration. Is it possible to think that we shouldn’t ever kill even to protect our family, yet divorce to protect our family is fine - or are those two positions logically connected?
- Submission in bad situations is hard. What do you think the church could/should do to make biblical submission easier to walk through, especially submission of a spouse in a bad marriage?
- How would you counsel a woman in an abusive situation in regard to staying with her husband? Would that change if she has children?
- [Origen quote about husbands not divorcing wife even if she tries to poison him or kills their child]. Do you agree with Origen here? Do you think if there was more stuff like this holding men’s feet to the fire for accountability, that this conversation would be a lot easier and not feel like this is just a tool for women’s oppression?
- This isn’t directly related to the topic, but I was speaking with Rebekah about using John Howard Yoder as a resource , despite his sexual assaults. How do you feel about using Yoder’s work, or the works of those who have committed sexual assault?
- Would you say the same thing about someone who committed other heinous crimes?
- If all truth is God’s truth, and if Yoder taught some things that are right, and taught them insightfully and maybe taught stuff that others didn’t grasp, do you think it’s possible to glean truth out of the chaff of evil action?
- If you’d use Yoder, what caveats or guidelines would you give?
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What is The Fourth Way?
A podcast focusing on issues related to nonviolence, and a member of the Kingdom Outpost.