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 Welcome to the Willow Ridge Sermons Podcast, where you can listen to audio from our most

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 Again, good morning, and if you have your Bibles, and I hope that you do, I want to invite

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 you to join us in Matthew chapter 5.

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 Specifically, in just a moment, we're going to start reading in verse 31.

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 Now, today's passage we're going to look at is going to be Jesus' teaching on divorce,

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 and what we're going to do is we're going to look at what Jesus says about divorce to help

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 us better understand God's plan and God's intention in marriage.

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 Now, I want to take you guys back to 2004.

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 For some of us, that seems like yesterday, for some of you, you weren't even born then.

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 I want to tell you about what would come to be the craziest, wildest, Beau Bradbury you're

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 growing up, 30-day time period in my life, from about mid-May to about mid-June.

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 Three milestones that happened and took place during that time.

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 Number one, I bought a house.

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 I bought a house.

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 I had never, I had lived up until this point, I had lived in a dorm room and in the room

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 above my parents' garage, right?

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 Like, that was my experience.

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 So, I bought my first house.

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 If you weren't there, I bought a first house.

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 About 10, 15 days after that, I took my first job and got ordained as a youth pastor at Town

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 Creek Baptist Church, right?

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 Major milestones.

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 Man, God was working.

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 God was doing things.

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 I was learning about things.

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 I was learning about things like escrow.

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 I was learning about things like interest.

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 Like, I thought like my month, like that would then deduce the amount that I owed on my house

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 and then I found out that a little bit went to pay off the house, more went to pay off

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 this thing called interest that the bank was getting, right?

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 Like, like major milestones, like the house.

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 I become a youth pastor at a church.

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 Like, all of these things are happening in my life.

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 And then, and then, the biggest milestone of my life outside of salvation, right?

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 I got married.

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 I got married.

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 Like, 15 days after that, right?

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 So, I convinced someone to let me buy a house.

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 Miracle.

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 I convinced someone to let me be their youth pastor.

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 Like, a whole church.

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 Miracle.

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 And then, a miracle upon miracles upon miracles, right?

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 I'd out to kick my coverage.

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 And at Matlock Baptist Church in Jackson, South Carolina, Erin Reiser walked down on that

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 blue carpet in that little country church, packed out with her dad standing there officiating

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 the wedding, a military chaplain, officiating, yeah, if you're not marrying a military man's

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 daughter, right?

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 We got pictures as we're all walking out, everybody's smiling, everybody's doing this, Erin's dad's

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 standing there.

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 Which, if you ever meet him, this, for him, this means I love you.

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 Right?

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 So, that's what, but I got married.

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 Now, here's where I'm going to talk about this.

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 Since then, since May of 2004, I have now lived in and purchased five houses.

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 Since May of 2004, I have worked as a full-time pastor in four different churches.

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 But since that same 30-day time period, by the grace of God and evidence of the Holy Spirit

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 in the life of my wife, I've just been married the one time.

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 Just the once.

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 Just the once.

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 She hadn't kicked me out.

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 She hadn't said, you gotta go.

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 Grace covers this woman.

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 And she loves me in spite of all that I'm capable of doing.

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 Here's why I start off by talking about this.

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 If we were to say to our world, hey, we're going to show you ways that you can move up in your career.

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 Ways that you can promote yourself and make more money and take that next step.

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 Thousands upon thousands of people would come running and say, tell me the secret.

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 If we go out into our world and advertise over and over and over again,

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 there's a way to take your house and move to the next house and move to the next house and move to the next house.

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 There's a way that you can flip and flip and flip.

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 There'd be thousands of people who sign up.

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 And in both instances, to hear about our opinion.

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 But the truth is, if we come and say, hear from the truth of God's word,

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 we can point to you and show you and tell you what it means to have the marriage that God desires for you.

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 Not only oftentimes would the world reject that,

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 but so many times those of us in the church reject it as well.

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 As we've been studying in the Gospel of Matthew,

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 we're in the section where we're studying the Sermon on the Mount.

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 So far within this sermon, Jesus has been dealing with some topics.

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 The topic of anger and the topic of lust and adultery.

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 And we see that Jesus in the teaching, that when we look at the fullness of Scripture,

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 what we find is Jesus is moving us to a greater good, a greater calling.

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 That it's not just do not murder, but that it's work toward forgiveness and reconciliation.

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 That it's not just do not lust, but it's how we look at, how we view one another,

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 how we see one another, that matters.

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 And now Jesus coming off the teaching of lust goes into a very sensitive subject of divorce.

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 And to lay down and establish not just what God's word is going to say,

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 what we're going to see in Matthew 5 about the topic of divorce,

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 but through looking at the fullness of Scripture, what we see of God's purpose and God's intention in marriage.

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 So join with me.

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 Let's read Matthew 5, starting in verse 31.

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 Jesus writes, I mean, Jesus speaks.

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 He says,

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 Now here in Matthew 5, I want to make this extremely clear.

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 And we're going to also see the Apostle Paul will refer to this in 1 Corinthians 7.

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 Jesus gives a consideration for divorce, not a command for divorce.

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 We see that Jesus' consideration for divorce in Matthew 5 is that concerning matters of adultery.

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 And the Apostle Paul will give consideration for divorce in 1 Corinthians 7 concerning matters of desertion.

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 But again, the goal is not, here's how you can divorce.

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 But the goal in the heart of God is reconciliation.

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 Reconciliation.

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 Well, it makes sense maybe in times like today, while divorce would be a very hot topic,

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 a key piece that people might want to find themselves teaching on.

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 But even in the time of Christ, this concept of divorce, this desire to obtain a divorce,

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 it was a common desire in the world of Jesus as well.

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 I think sometimes we look at our world and we think that our world is a lot worse than it was in times previously.

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 But it's not the case.

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 In fact, that what we find in Matthew 5, in the days of Jesus,

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 is the time in which he is giving this instruction in the time of Paul in 1 Corinthians as well,

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 that marriage was under attack as well.

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 So marriage has been under attack.

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 Marriage will be under attack.

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 But in the fullness of Scripture, we see God's heart and God's plan and God's desire.

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 Let me explain to you a couple of things that are happening in the time of Christ.

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 During the time of Christ, divorce was rampant.

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 And divorce was destructive in the family and in the culture in the time of Christ.

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 Very specifically, divorce was set up in the system of what's there

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 to promote and enable the men of the culture

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 to live out the fleshly desires that they had.

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 And it caused the women, in many ways, to be subjected, to be oppressed,

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 and to be controlled by the men of the day.

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 If you think that divorces happen for reasons that are flippant,

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 let me share with you some of the rabbis' teachings during the time of Christ, right?

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 Some of the rabbis' teaching of why a man could file for a certificate of divorce for his wife.

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 If a woman did not perform her household duties as given to her by her husband,

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 then he could divorce her.

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 If a wife could not bear children,

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 then the husband could divorce her.

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 If the husband found that certain aspects of his wife were unattractive,

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 specifically some examples that are spoken to,

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 was if he found the shape of her head,

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 her posture,

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 the thickness or thinness of her hair,

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 the shape of her eyebrows,

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 the shape of her nose,

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 the positioning of her eyes or her teeth,

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 the size of her knees or her ankles,

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 either too large or too small,

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 then he could divorce her.

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 It gets worse.

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 If she ate something that he did not give her permission to eat,

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 then he could divorce her.

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 Concerning matters of the in-laws,

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 please note like zero amens on this, all right?

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 Just go with me.

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 If she went to her parents' house without his permission,

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 he could divorce her.

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 Be quiet on this one.

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 If her parents moved closer to them without his permission,

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 then he could divorce her.

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 If she burned his supper,

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 like, yeah, please stop laughing,

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 he could divorce her.

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 If he found someone

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 that he thought was prettier than her,

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 then he could divorce her.

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 I think this is important.

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 If he felt like

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 she was not providing for him

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 in ways that he deemed

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 were sufficient

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 in any way,

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 shape,

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 or form,

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 then he could divorce her.

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 Now,

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 again,

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 this isn't,

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 during the time of Jesus,

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 this isn't just a cultural teaching

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 that Jesus is stepping into,

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 but Jesus is stepping into

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 an ungodly religious teaching

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 that the rabbis

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 are declaring

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 that the culture

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 has embraced

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 and at its core

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 is attacking

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 the institution

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 of marriage

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 for the sake

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 of the flesh of man.

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 Marriage is not being

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 looked at

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 at this time

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 as how does it reflect

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 the heart

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 and nature

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 of God.

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 Marriage is being

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 looked at

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 and how

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 can it satisfy

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 the sinful

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 heart

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 of man?

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 Maybe,

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 maybe,

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 this is where

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 we find ourselves today.

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 Maybe you and I

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 do

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 live in a culture

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 where we say

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 let's not allow

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 the Bible

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 and God

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 to define

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 marriage

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 and its purpose

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 and its intent,

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 but let's allow

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 the culture

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 or maybe even more

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 specifically

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 as we bring it home,

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 let's allow

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 the sinfulness

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 of me,

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 let's allow

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 the sinfulness

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 of man

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 to determine

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 what this is.

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 I found this

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 pretty surprising.

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 I've heard

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 for years

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 that the

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 divorce rate

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 in the United

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 States

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 is somewhere

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 around 50%.

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 Come to find out

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 that number

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 has

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 declined.

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 In the United

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 States

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 right now

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 about 33%

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 of all marriages

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 end in divorce.

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 so on the

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 surface

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 that's

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 commendable

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 but then

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 we begin

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 to dive in

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 and try to

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 understand

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 why the

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 numbers are

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 what the

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 numbers are

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 and what

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 we find

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 is

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 while the

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 number

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 of divorces

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 are down

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 the number

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 of marriages

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 are at an

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 all time

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 low.

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 So right

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 now

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 in our

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 world

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 it's less

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 likely

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 that

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 that

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 people

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 will

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 choose

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 to be

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 married.

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 They see

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 the system

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 they feel

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 that it's

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 broken

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 they feel

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 that it's

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 not for

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 them

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 and then

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 they will

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 define

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 their

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 union

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 as they

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 see fit.

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 What about

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 the church?

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 For

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 marriages

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 today

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 where both

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 parties

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 claim

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 Christian

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 faith

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 both

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 32%

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 end

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 in

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 divorce

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 so

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 33%

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 to

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 32%

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 and

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 today

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 if

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 we're

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 being

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 frank

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 the

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 definition

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 of

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 marriage

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 is

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 largely

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 determined

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 globally

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 by

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 governments

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 individuals

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 and

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 cultures

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 let's

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 define

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 what

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 marriage

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 is

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 and so

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 Jesus

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 steps into

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 a world

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 of that

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 steps

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 into

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 a world

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 of marriage

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 and we're

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 going to

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 see

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 the

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 different

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 pieces

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 of this

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 and why

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 this

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 matters

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 so much

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 to

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 him

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 where

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 a man

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 can

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 divorce

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 his

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 wife

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 because

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 she

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 ate

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 something

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 that

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 he

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 said

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 didn't

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 belong

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 to

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 her

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 we

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 step

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 into

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 a

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 world

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 where

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 a

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 man

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 can

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 divorce

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 his

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 wife

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 because

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 the

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 hair

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 on

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 her

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 head

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 has

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 become

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 too

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 thin

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 Jesus

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 steps

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 into

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 a

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 world

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 where

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 a

00:17:37.180 --> 00:17:37.580
 man

00:17:37.580 --> 00:17:38.040
 can

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 divorce

00:17:38.560 --> 00:17:38.860
 his

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 wife

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 because

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 another

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 woman

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 in the

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 town

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 turned

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 his

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 eye

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 and

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 that

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 in

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 this

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 these

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 people

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 claim

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 godliness

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 and I

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 see the

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 exact

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 same

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 thing

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 in our

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 culture

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 today

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 does

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 does

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 Jesus

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 give

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 does

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 god

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 give

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 considerations

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 for

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 divorce

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 absolutely

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 absolutely

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 he does

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 always

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 desiring

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 always

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 pointing

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 toward

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 reconciliation

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 the bible's

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 clear

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 god hates

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 divorce

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 but he

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 opens up

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 these matters

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 in adultery

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 and in

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 matters

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 of desertion

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 i

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 think

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 the

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 issue

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 that

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 we

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 face

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 is

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 not

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 what

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 can

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 i

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 do

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 to

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 get

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 divorced

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 but i

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 think

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 even

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 within

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 the

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 church

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 we

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 have

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 to

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 have

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 an

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 honest

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 conversation

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 about

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 what

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 is

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 biblical

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 marriage

00:18:39.160 --> 00:18:40.880
 what

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 is

00:18:41.240 --> 00:18:41.600
 biblical

00:18:41.600 --> 00:18:42.100
 marriage

00:18:42.100 --> 00:18:43.480
 because

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 i'll be

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 honest

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 with

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 you

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 most

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 christians

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 that i

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 hear

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 talk

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 about

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 what

00:18:47.980 --> 00:18:48.120
 a

00:18:48.120 --> 00:18:48.420
 biblical

00:18:48.420 --> 00:18:48.900
 marriage

00:18:48.900 --> 00:18:49.380
 is

00:18:49.380 --> 00:18:50.560
 is

00:18:50.560 --> 00:18:51.140
 defining

00:18:51.140 --> 00:18:51.420
 a

00:18:51.420 --> 00:18:51.720
 biblical

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 marriage

00:18:52.260 --> 00:18:52.560
 at a

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 kindergarten

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 level

00:18:53.480 --> 00:18:55.820
 is

00:18:55.820 --> 00:18:56.300
 defining

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 marriage

00:18:56.720 --> 00:18:57.180
 at a

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 kindergarten

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 level

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 they're

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 starting

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 with a

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 great

00:19:00.560 --> 00:19:01.240
 foundation

00:19:01.240 --> 00:19:02.600
 but

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 they're

00:19:02.780 --> 00:19:02.980
 not

00:19:02.980 --> 00:19:03.460
 growing

00:19:03.460 --> 00:19:03.720
 their

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 understanding

00:19:04.400 --> 00:19:04.800
 of that

00:19:04.800 --> 00:19:05.080
 moving

00:19:05.080 --> 00:19:05.440
 forward

00:19:05.440 --> 00:19:07.300
 and what

00:19:07.300 --> 00:19:07.660
 we want

00:19:07.660 --> 00:19:07.880
 to do

00:19:07.880 --> 00:19:08.160
 this

00:19:08.160 --> 00:19:08.560
 morning

00:19:08.560 --> 00:19:09.460
 is

00:19:09.460 --> 00:19:09.720
 as we

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 look

00:19:09.920 --> 00:19:10.080
 to

00:19:10.080 --> 00:19:10.240
 as

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 Jesus

00:19:10.520 --> 00:19:10.800
 says

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 it's

00:19:10.960 --> 00:19:11.120
 not

00:19:11.120 --> 00:19:11.280
 that

00:19:11.280 --> 00:19:11.380
 you

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 just

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 don't

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 murder

00:19:12.100 --> 00:19:12.500
 but

00:19:12.500 --> 00:19:12.580
 it

00:19:12.580 --> 00:19:12.680
 has

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 to

00:19:12.780 --> 00:19:13.020
 work

00:19:13.020 --> 00:19:13.200
 toward

00:19:13.200 --> 00:19:13.720
 reconciliation

00:19:13.720 --> 00:19:14.520
 it's

00:19:14.520 --> 00:19:14.700
 not

00:19:14.700 --> 00:19:14.860
 that

00:19:14.860 --> 00:19:14.960
 you

00:19:14.960 --> 00:19:15.120
 just

00:19:15.120 --> 00:19:15.280
 don't

00:19:15.280 --> 00:19:15.520
 commit

00:19:15.520 --> 00:19:16.060
 adultery

00:19:16.060 --> 00:19:16.440
 but

00:19:16.440 --> 00:19:16.620
 you

00:19:16.620 --> 00:19:16.840
 work

00:19:18.900 --> 00:19:19.300
 to

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 God

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 and

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 who

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 God

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 has

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 called

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 you

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 to

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 be

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 I

00:19:22.460 --> 00:19:22.660
 want

00:19:22.660 --> 00:19:22.780
 us

00:19:22.780 --> 00:19:22.900
 to

00:19:22.900 --> 00:19:23.400
 understand

00:19:23.400 --> 00:19:23.640
 this

00:19:23.640 --> 00:19:24.020
 morning

00:19:24.020 --> 00:19:25.260
 what

00:19:25.260 --> 00:19:25.780
 is

00:19:25.780 --> 00:19:26.600
 biblical

00:19:26.600 --> 00:19:27.180
 marriage

00:19:27.180 --> 00:19:28.200
 so

00:19:28.200 --> 00:19:28.880
 flip over

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 with me

00:19:29.200 --> 00:19:29.340
 to

00:19:29.340 --> 00:19:29.700
 Matthew

00:19:29.700 --> 00:19:30.820
 chapter

00:19:30.820 --> 00:19:31.400
 19

00:19:31.400 --> 00:19:33.020
 Matthew

00:19:33.020 --> 00:19:33.280
 chapter

00:19:33.280 --> 00:19:33.580
 19

00:19:33.580 --> 00:19:33.760
 here

00:19:33.760 --> 00:19:34.100
 just a

00:19:34.100 --> 00:19:34.300
 moment

00:19:34.300 --> 00:19:34.540
 we're

00:19:34.540 --> 00:19:34.680
 going to

00:19:34.680 --> 00:19:34.880
 read

00:19:34.880 --> 00:19:35.380
 verses

00:19:35.380 --> 00:19:35.660
 3

00:19:35.660 --> 00:19:35.820
 through

00:19:35.820 --> 00:19:36.160
 6

00:19:36.160 --> 00:19:37.120
 what

00:19:37.120 --> 00:19:37.280
 is

00:19:37.280 --> 00:19:37.580
 biblical

00:19:37.580 --> 00:19:38.060
 marriage

00:19:38.060 --> 00:19:39.120
 well

00:19:39.120 --> 00:19:39.400
 Jesus

00:19:39.400 --> 00:19:39.680
 in

00:19:39.680 --> 00:19:40.060
 Matthew

00:19:40.060 --> 00:19:40.980
 19

00:19:40.980 --> 00:19:41.400
 is

00:19:41.400 --> 00:19:41.520
 going

00:19:41.520 --> 00:19:41.640
 to

00:19:41.640 --> 00:19:41.920
 quote

00:19:41.920 --> 00:19:42.160
 from

00:19:42.160 --> 00:19:42.560
 Genesis

00:19:42.560 --> 00:19:44.040
 and

00:19:44.040 --> 00:19:44.380
 Jesus

00:19:44.380 --> 00:19:44.600
 is

00:19:44.600 --> 00:19:44.740
 going

00:19:44.740 --> 00:19:44.840
 to

00:19:44.840 --> 00:19:45.680
 explain

00:19:45.680 --> 00:19:46.300
 that

00:19:46.300 --> 00:19:46.760
 biblical

00:19:46.760 --> 00:19:47.540
 marriage

00:19:47.540 --> 00:19:48.040
 is

00:19:48.040 --> 00:19:48.280
 of

00:19:48.280 --> 00:19:48.720
 heavenly

00:19:48.720 --> 00:19:49.360
 design

00:19:49.360 --> 00:19:50.740
 biblical

00:19:50.740 --> 00:19:51.300
 marriage

00:19:51.300 --> 00:19:51.620
 is

00:19:51.620 --> 00:19:51.820
 of

00:19:51.820 --> 00:19:52.180
 heavenly

00:19:52.180 --> 00:19:52.680
 design

00:19:52.680 --> 00:19:53.560
 so

00:19:53.560 --> 00:19:53.740
 who

00:19:53.740 --> 00:19:54.340
 defines

00:19:54.340 --> 00:19:55.220
 what

00:19:55.220 --> 00:19:55.540
 marriage

00:19:55.540 --> 00:19:56.380
 is

00:19:56.380 --> 00:20:06.060
 check

00:20:06.060 --> 00:20:06.460
 check

00:20:06.460 --> 00:20:08.140
 all right

00:20:08.140 --> 00:20:09.580
 it's

00:20:09.580 --> 00:20:09.980
 slashing

00:20:09.980 --> 00:20:10.440
 on me

00:20:10.440 --> 00:20:12.040
 so

00:20:12.040 --> 00:20:13.880
 if not

00:20:13.880 --> 00:20:14.480
 I'll get

00:20:14.480 --> 00:20:15.080
 even louder

00:20:15.080 --> 00:20:16.060
 next time

00:20:16.060 --> 00:20:16.900
 thanks

00:20:16.900 --> 00:20:17.180
 man

00:20:17.180 --> 00:20:17.840
 all right

00:20:17.840 --> 00:20:19.360
 biblical

00:20:19.360 --> 00:20:19.800
 marriage

00:20:19.800 --> 00:20:20.000
 is

00:20:20.000 --> 00:20:20.180
 of

00:20:20.180 --> 00:20:20.520
 heavenly

00:20:20.520 --> 00:20:21.020
 design

00:20:21.020 --> 00:20:22.440
 Matthew

00:20:22.440 --> 00:20:22.880
 19

00:20:22.880 --> 00:20:23.140
 verses

00:20:23.140 --> 00:20:23.420
 3

00:20:23.420 --> 00:20:23.580
 through

00:20:23.580 --> 00:20:23.960
 6

00:20:23.960 --> 00:20:25.920
 and

00:20:25.920 --> 00:20:26.460
 Pharisees

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 came up

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 to him

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 and tested

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 him

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 by asking

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 is it

00:20:30.140 --> 00:20:30.720
 lawful

00:20:30.720 --> 00:20:31.980
 to divorce

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 one's

00:20:32.440 --> 00:20:33.020
 wife

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 for any

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 cause

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 and he

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 answered

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 have you

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 not read

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 that he

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 who created

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 them from

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 the beginning

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 made them

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 male and

00:20:42.680 --> 00:20:43.080
 female

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 and said

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 therefore

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 a man

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 shall leave

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 his father

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 and his

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 mother

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 and hold

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 fast to

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 his wife

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 and the

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 two

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 shall

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 become

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 one

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 flesh

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 so

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 there

00:20:53.280 --> 00:20:53.460
 are

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 no

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 longer

00:20:54.040 --> 00:20:54.520
 two

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 but

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 one

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 flesh

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 what

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 therefore

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 God

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 has

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 joined

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 together

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 let

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 not

00:21:00.500 --> 00:21:01.060
 man

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 separate

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 so

00:21:03.580 --> 00:21:03.840
 in

00:21:03.840 --> 00:21:04.100
 this

00:21:04.100 --> 00:21:04.640
 passage

00:21:04.640 --> 00:21:05.620
 Jesus

00:21:05.620 --> 00:21:06.100
 takes

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 the

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 teaching

00:21:07.080 --> 00:21:07.420
 of

00:21:07.420 --> 00:21:08.300
 creation

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 of

00:21:08.560 --> 00:21:08.720
 what

00:21:08.720 --> 00:21:08.880
 we

00:21:08.880 --> 00:21:09.220
 see

00:21:09.220 --> 00:21:09.560
 in

00:21:09.560 --> 00:21:09.680
 the

00:21:09.680 --> 00:21:09.940
 biblical

00:21:09.940 --> 00:21:10.600
 understanding

00:21:10.600 --> 00:21:10.920
 of

00:21:10.920 --> 00:21:11.360
 marriage

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 and Jesus

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 is going

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 to expand

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 on that

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 and so

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 that's why

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 we're looking

00:21:15.060 --> 00:21:15.260
 at this

00:21:15.260 --> 00:21:15.580
 passage

00:21:15.580 --> 00:21:15.800
 in

00:21:15.800 --> 00:21:16.460
 Matthew

00:21:16.460 --> 00:21:16.960
 19

00:21:16.960 --> 00:21:17.740
 3

00:21:17.740 --> 00:21:17.880
 through

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 6

00:21:18.160 --> 00:21:18.400
 so

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 here's

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 the

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 kindergarten

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 level

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 that we've

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 got to

00:21:20.600 --> 00:21:20.800
 begin

00:21:20.800 --> 00:21:21.060
 on

00:21:21.060 --> 00:21:22.720
 marriage

00:21:22.720 --> 00:21:24.160
 biblical

00:21:24.160 --> 00:21:24.820
 marriage

00:21:24.820 --> 00:21:26.280
 godly

00:21:26.280 --> 00:21:26.900
 marriage

00:21:26.900 --> 00:21:28.100
 Christ

00:21:28.100 --> 00:21:28.900
 honoring

00:21:28.900 --> 00:21:29.640
 marriage

00:21:29.640 --> 00:21:30.420
 is one

00:21:30.420 --> 00:21:30.720
 man

00:21:30.720 --> 00:21:31.340
 and one

00:21:31.340 --> 00:21:31.620
 woman

00:21:31.620 --> 00:21:33.960
 that's

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 the plan

00:21:34.380 --> 00:21:36.380
 that's

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 the design

00:21:36.960 --> 00:21:39.160
 one

00:21:39.160 --> 00:21:39.520
 man

00:21:39.520 --> 00:21:41.080
 and one

00:21:41.080 --> 00:21:41.340
 woman

00:21:41.340 --> 00:21:43.160
 it's

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 the plan

00:21:43.560 --> 00:21:43.940
 that god

00:21:43.940 --> 00:21:44.120
 has

00:21:44.120 --> 00:21:44.400
 given

00:21:44.400 --> 00:21:45.840
 it's

00:21:45.840 --> 00:21:46.200
 the plan

00:21:46.200 --> 00:21:46.500
 that we're

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 going to

00:21:46.700 --> 00:21:47.060
 see

00:21:47.060 --> 00:21:48.340
 it's

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 the only

00:21:48.820 --> 00:21:49.240
 marriage

00:21:49.240 --> 00:21:49.680
 that god

00:21:49.680 --> 00:21:49.940
 is going

00:21:49.940 --> 00:21:50.480
 to bless

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 it's

00:21:51.480 --> 00:21:51.740
 going to

00:21:51.740 --> 00:21:52.020
 be how

00:21:52.020 --> 00:21:52.440
 we see

00:21:52.440 --> 00:21:53.000
 god

00:21:53.000 --> 00:21:53.700
 work

00:21:53.700 --> 00:21:54.300
 and move

00:21:54.300 --> 00:21:55.680
 this is

00:21:55.680 --> 00:21:55.820
 the

00:21:55.820 --> 00:21:56.220
 kindergarten

00:21:56.220 --> 00:21:56.760
 level

00:21:56.760 --> 00:21:58.080
 this is

00:21:58.080 --> 00:21:58.380
 what we

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 have to

00:21:58.740 --> 00:21:58.980
 agree

00:21:58.980 --> 00:21:59.320
 on

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 and the

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 context

00:22:01.100 --> 00:22:01.380
 and the

00:22:01.380 --> 00:22:01.740
 matters

00:22:01.740 --> 00:22:02.000
 of

00:22:02.000 --> 00:22:02.360
 biblical

00:22:02.360 --> 00:22:03.280
 marriage

00:22:03.280 --> 00:22:04.140
 it

00:22:04.140 --> 00:22:04.840
 was

00:22:04.840 --> 00:22:05.420
 and it

00:22:05.420 --> 00:22:05.980
 is

00:22:05.980 --> 00:22:06.460
 and it

00:22:06.460 --> 00:22:06.680
 will

00:22:06.680 --> 00:22:07.000
 be

00:22:07.000 --> 00:22:08.660
 one

00:22:08.660 --> 00:22:08.980
 man

00:22:08.980 --> 00:22:10.440
 and one

00:22:10.440 --> 00:22:10.720
 woman

00:22:10.720 --> 00:22:12.180
 the

00:22:12.180 --> 00:22:12.440
 second

00:22:12.440 --> 00:22:12.720
 thing

00:22:12.720 --> 00:22:13.060
 that we

00:22:13.060 --> 00:22:13.360
 see

00:22:13.360 --> 00:22:13.680
 here

00:22:13.680 --> 00:22:14.840
 in

00:22:14.840 --> 00:22:15.160
 Matthew

00:22:15.160 --> 00:22:15.560
 chapter

00:22:15.560 --> 00:22:16.000
 19

00:22:16.000 --> 00:22:16.560
 which is

00:22:16.560 --> 00:22:17.100
 echoing

00:22:17.100 --> 00:22:17.540
 in

00:22:17.540 --> 00:22:17.840
 Genesis

00:22:17.840 --> 00:22:18.300
 1

00:22:18.300 --> 00:22:19.660
 is that

00:22:19.660 --> 00:22:20.000
 within

00:22:20.000 --> 00:22:20.520
 this

00:22:20.520 --> 00:22:21.520
 there is

00:22:21.520 --> 00:22:22.080
 commitment

00:22:22.080 --> 00:22:22.600
 to

00:22:22.600 --> 00:22:23.340
 one

00:22:23.340 --> 00:22:23.640
 another

00:22:23.640 --> 00:22:24.800
 there's

00:22:24.800 --> 00:22:25.180
 commitment

00:22:25.180 --> 00:22:25.580
 to

00:22:25.580 --> 00:22:26.360
 one

00:22:26.360 --> 00:22:26.660
 another

00:22:26.660 --> 00:22:27.740
 I'm

00:22:27.740 --> 00:22:27.820
 going to

00:22:27.820 --> 00:22:28.020
 tell you

00:22:28.020 --> 00:22:28.200
 something

00:22:28.200 --> 00:22:29.120
 I love

00:22:29.120 --> 00:22:29.660
 my wife

00:22:29.660 --> 00:22:31.340
 my wife

00:22:31.340 --> 00:22:31.720
 is a

00:22:31.720 --> 00:22:32.180
 blessing

00:22:32.180 --> 00:22:34.160
 my wife

00:22:34.160 --> 00:22:34.780
 treats me

00:22:34.780 --> 00:22:35.340
 better than

00:22:35.340 --> 00:22:35.960
 I deserve

00:22:35.960 --> 00:22:37.320
 my wife

00:22:37.320 --> 00:22:37.960
 challenges

00:22:37.960 --> 00:22:38.340
 me

00:22:38.340 --> 00:22:38.980
 my wife

00:22:38.980 --> 00:22:39.280
 makes

00:22:39.280 --> 00:22:39.480
 me

00:22:39.480 --> 00:22:39.980
 better

00:22:39.980 --> 00:22:40.660
 my wife

00:22:40.660 --> 00:22:40.820
 is

00:22:40.820 --> 00:22:41.500
 compassionate

00:22:41.500 --> 00:22:42.040
 to me

00:22:42.040 --> 00:22:42.620
 my wife

00:22:42.620 --> 00:22:42.900
 is an

00:22:42.900 --> 00:22:43.520
 encourager

00:22:43.520 --> 00:22:43.960
 to me

00:22:43.960 --> 00:22:44.660
 I

00:22:44.660 --> 00:22:45.560
 outkick

00:22:45.560 --> 00:22:45.980
 my

00:22:45.980 --> 00:22:46.680
 coverage

00:22:46.680 --> 00:22:48.120
 when she

00:22:48.120 --> 00:22:48.720
 said yes

00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:49.180
 to marrying

00:22:49.180 --> 00:22:49.500
 me

00:22:49.500 --> 00:22:51.420
 but I

00:22:51.420 --> 00:22:51.620
 want to

00:22:51.620 --> 00:22:51.960
 say this

00:22:51.960 --> 00:22:52.460
 as well

00:22:52.460 --> 00:22:54.040
 being

00:22:54.040 --> 00:22:54.700
 married

00:22:54.700 --> 00:22:55.440
 is

00:22:55.440 --> 00:22:55.880
 hard

00:22:55.880 --> 00:22:57.760
 being

00:22:57.760 --> 00:22:57.960
 married

00:22:57.960 --> 00:22:58.100
 is

00:22:58.100 --> 00:22:58.520
 hard

00:22:58.520 --> 00:22:59.600
 it's

00:22:59.600 --> 00:23:00.100
 difficult

00:23:00.100 --> 00:23:01.340
 because

00:23:01.340 --> 00:23:02.000
 while my

00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:02.340
 wife

00:23:02.340 --> 00:23:02.880
 is all

00:23:02.880 --> 00:23:03.340
 of those

00:23:03.340 --> 00:23:03.920
 things

00:23:03.920 --> 00:23:04.840
 she's

00:23:04.840 --> 00:23:05.020
 not

00:23:05.020 --> 00:23:05.500
 perfect

00:23:05.500 --> 00:23:07.340
 she

00:23:07.340 --> 00:23:07.620
 comes

00:23:07.620 --> 00:23:07.800
 with

00:23:07.800 --> 00:23:07.940
 her

00:23:07.940 --> 00:23:08.220
 faults

00:23:08.220 --> 00:23:08.420
 she

00:23:08.420 --> 00:23:08.620
 comes

00:23:08.620 --> 00:23:08.780
 with

00:23:08.780 --> 00:23:08.940
 her

00:23:08.940 --> 00:23:09.180
 sins

00:23:09.180 --> 00:23:09.380
 she

00:23:09.380 --> 00:23:09.580
 comes

00:23:09.580 --> 00:23:09.740
 with

00:23:09.740 --> 00:23:09.860
 her

00:23:09.860 --> 00:23:10.300
 issues

00:23:10.300 --> 00:23:12.040
 and so

00:23:12.040 --> 00:23:12.480
 do I

00:23:12.480 --> 00:23:14.200
 and you

00:23:14.200 --> 00:23:14.580
 take

00:23:14.580 --> 00:23:14.940
 two

00:23:14.940 --> 00:23:15.420
 people

00:23:15.420 --> 00:23:16.580
 who

00:23:16.580 --> 00:23:16.900
 in

00:23:16.900 --> 00:23:17.140
 their

00:23:17.140 --> 00:23:17.600
 flesh

00:23:17.600 --> 00:23:17.860
 can

00:23:17.860 --> 00:23:18.120
 be

00:23:18.120 --> 00:23:18.900
 selfish

00:23:18.900 --> 00:23:21.460
 and in

00:23:21.460 --> 00:23:21.820
 those

00:23:21.820 --> 00:23:22.480
 moments

00:23:22.480 --> 00:23:24.720
 marriage

00:23:24.720 --> 00:23:25.860
 is

00:23:25.860 --> 00:23:26.600
 a

00:23:26.600 --> 00:23:26.960
 commitment

00:23:26.960 --> 00:23:28.780
 marriage

00:23:28.780 --> 00:23:29.280
 is not

00:23:29.280 --> 00:23:29.540
 a

00:23:29.540 --> 00:23:29.980
 commitment

00:23:29.980 --> 00:23:30.380
 at

00:23:30.380 --> 00:23:30.740
 the

00:23:30.740 --> 00:23:31.120
 altar

00:23:31.120 --> 00:23:32.480
 it

00:23:32.480 --> 00:23:32.760
 is a

00:23:32.760 --> 00:23:33.120
 commitment

00:23:33.120 --> 00:23:33.480
 at

00:23:33.480 --> 00:23:33.720
 the

00:23:33.720 --> 00:23:34.060
 altar

00:23:34.060 --> 00:23:34.300
 and

00:23:34.300 --> 00:23:34.480
 it's

00:23:34.480 --> 00:23:34.620
 a

00:23:34.620 --> 00:23:34.920
 commitment

00:23:34.920 --> 00:23:35.260
 every

00:23:35.260 --> 00:23:35.500
 day

00:23:35.500 --> 00:23:37.060
 marriage

00:23:37.060 --> 00:23:37.400
 is

00:23:37.400 --> 00:23:37.680
 making

00:23:37.680 --> 00:23:37.920
 a

00:23:37.920 --> 00:23:38.320
 choice

00:23:38.320 --> 00:23:39.300
 to

00:23:39.300 --> 00:23:39.880
 love

00:23:39.880 --> 00:23:40.160
 and

00:23:40.160 --> 00:23:40.360
 to

00:23:40.360 --> 00:23:40.860
 honor

00:23:40.860 --> 00:23:41.300
 her

00:23:41.300 --> 00:23:42.660
 and

00:23:42.660 --> 00:23:42.820
 for

00:23:42.820 --> 00:23:43.120
 her

00:23:43.120 --> 00:23:43.380
 to

00:23:43.380 --> 00:23:43.800
 love

00:23:43.800 --> 00:23:44.060
 and

00:23:44.060 --> 00:23:44.460
 honor

00:23:44.460 --> 00:23:45.000
 me

00:23:45.000 --> 00:23:46.280
 as

00:23:46.280 --> 00:23:46.480
 we

00:23:46.480 --> 00:23:46.820
 stood

00:23:46.820 --> 00:23:47.220
 before

00:23:47.220 --> 00:23:47.500
 that

00:23:47.500 --> 00:23:47.860
 church

00:23:47.860 --> 00:23:47.980
 and

00:23:47.980 --> 00:23:48.120
 as

00:23:48.120 --> 00:23:48.300
 we

00:23:48.300 --> 00:23:48.920
 stood

00:23:48.920 --> 00:23:49.220
 before

00:23:49.220 --> 00:23:49.620
 God

00:23:49.620 --> 00:23:51.000
 because

00:23:51.000 --> 00:23:51.200
 it

00:23:51.200 --> 00:23:51.520
 comes

00:23:51.520 --> 00:23:51.900
 more

00:23:51.900 --> 00:23:52.160
 under

00:23:52.160 --> 00:23:52.420
 being

00:23:52.420 --> 00:23:52.600
 the

00:23:52.600 --> 00:23:52.920
 God

00:23:52.920 --> 00:23:53.040
 and

00:23:53.040 --> 00:23:53.220
 just

00:23:53.220 --> 00:23:53.360
 a

00:23:53.360 --> 00:23:53.700
 commitment

00:23:53.700 --> 00:23:53.940
 where

00:23:53.940 --> 00:23:54.080
 two

00:23:54.080 --> 00:23:54.320
 people

00:23:54.320 --> 00:23:54.780
 shake

00:23:54.780 --> 00:23:55.100
 hands

00:23:55.100 --> 00:23:55.260
 and

00:23:55.260 --> 00:23:55.520
 move

00:23:55.520 --> 00:23:55.780
 on

00:23:55.780 --> 00:23:56.940
 it's

00:23:56.940 --> 00:23:57.100
 a

00:23:57.100 --> 00:23:57.520
 covenant

00:23:57.520 --> 00:23:57.860
 that is

00:23:57.860 --> 00:23:58.260
 established

00:23:58.260 --> 00:23:58.700
 before

00:23:58.700 --> 00:23:59.000
 him

00:23:59.000 --> 00:24:00.620
 because

00:24:00.620 --> 00:24:01.120
 woven

00:24:01.120 --> 00:24:01.560
 into the

00:24:01.560 --> 00:24:02.100
 reality

00:24:02.100 --> 00:24:02.380
 of the

00:24:02.380 --> 00:24:02.680
 day-to-day

00:24:02.680 --> 00:24:03.040
 life

00:24:03.040 --> 00:24:03.300
 of our

00:24:03.300 --> 00:24:03.720
 marriage

00:24:03.720 --> 00:24:05.480
 is our

00:24:05.480 --> 00:24:05.840
 commitment

00:24:05.840 --> 00:24:06.260
 to one

00:24:06.260 --> 00:24:06.620
 another

00:24:06.620 --> 00:24:08.660
 as we've

00:24:08.660 --> 00:24:08.980
 made a

00:24:08.980 --> 00:24:09.280
 covenant

00:24:09.280 --> 00:24:09.760
 before the

00:24:09.760 --> 00:24:10.000
 Lord

00:24:10.000 --> 00:24:11.400
 so

00:24:11.400 --> 00:24:11.740
 biblical

00:24:11.740 --> 00:24:12.220
 marriage

00:24:12.220 --> 00:24:12.600
 is of

00:24:12.600 --> 00:24:12.940
 heavenly

00:24:12.940 --> 00:24:13.420
 design

00:24:13.420 --> 00:24:14.560
 of

00:24:14.560 --> 00:24:14.920
 one

00:24:14.920 --> 00:24:15.360
 man

00:24:15.360 --> 00:24:15.600
 and

00:24:15.600 --> 00:24:15.980
 one

00:24:15.980 --> 00:24:16.420
 woman

00:24:16.420 --> 00:24:16.740
 in

00:24:16.740 --> 00:24:17.140
 commitment

00:24:17.140 --> 00:24:17.440
 to

00:24:17.440 --> 00:24:17.600
 one

00:24:17.600 --> 00:24:17.840
 another

00:24:17.840 --> 00:24:19.120
 the

00:24:19.120 --> 00:24:19.360
 third

00:24:19.360 --> 00:24:19.540
 thing

00:24:19.540 --> 00:24:19.680
 that

00:24:19.680 --> 00:24:19.820
 we're

00:24:19.820 --> 00:24:19.920
 going

00:24:19.920 --> 00:24:19.980
 to

00:24:19.980 --> 00:24:20.160
 see

00:24:20.160 --> 00:24:20.280
 in

00:24:20.280 --> 00:24:20.760
 understanding

00:24:20.760 --> 00:24:21.060
 what

00:24:21.060 --> 00:24:21.300
 is

00:24:21.300 --> 00:24:21.880
 biblical

00:24:21.880 --> 00:24:22.380
 marriage

00:24:22.380 --> 00:24:23.600
 is

00:24:23.600 --> 00:24:24.240
 in

00:24:24.240 --> 00:24:25.400
 oneness

00:24:25.400 --> 00:24:26.960
 in

00:24:26.960 --> 00:24:27.980
 oneness

00:24:27.980 --> 00:24:29.200
 therefore

00:24:29.200 --> 00:24:29.880
 a man

00:24:29.880 --> 00:24:30.360
 shall leave

00:24:30.360 --> 00:24:30.900
 his father

00:24:30.900 --> 00:24:31.400
 and mother

00:24:31.400 --> 00:24:31.840
 and hold

00:24:31.840 --> 00:24:32.400
 fast to

00:24:32.400 --> 00:24:32.920
 his wife

00:24:32.920 --> 00:24:33.660
 and the

00:24:33.660 --> 00:24:34.020
 two

00:24:34.020 --> 00:24:34.420
 shall

00:24:34.420 --> 00:24:35.100
 become

00:24:35.100 --> 00:24:35.900
 one

00:24:35.900 --> 00:24:36.420
 flesh

00:24:36.420 --> 00:24:38.040
 oneness

00:24:38.040 --> 00:24:39.340
 I

00:24:39.340 --> 00:24:39.760
 believe

00:24:39.760 --> 00:24:40.020
 that

00:24:40.020 --> 00:24:40.620
 oneness

00:24:40.620 --> 00:24:40.900
 in

00:24:40.900 --> 00:24:41.480
 marriage

00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:42.740
 that

00:24:42.740 --> 00:24:42.960
 what

00:24:42.960 --> 00:24:43.320
 Jesus

00:24:43.320 --> 00:24:43.600
 is

00:24:43.600 --> 00:24:44.080
 speaking

00:24:44.080 --> 00:24:44.380
 about

00:24:44.380 --> 00:24:44.640
 here

00:24:44.640 --> 00:24:44.820
 is

00:24:44.820 --> 00:24:45.000
 just

00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:45.580
 not

00:24:45.580 --> 00:24:45.880
 in

00:24:45.880 --> 00:24:46.080
 the

00:24:46.080 --> 00:24:46.600
 physical

00:24:46.600 --> 00:24:47.220
 but

00:24:47.220 --> 00:24:47.440
 it's

00:24:47.440 --> 00:24:47.580
 in

00:24:47.580 --> 00:24:47.720
 the

00:24:47.720 --> 00:24:48.120
 every

00:24:48.120 --> 00:24:48.660
 aspect

00:24:48.660 --> 00:24:49.060
 of

00:24:49.060 --> 00:24:49.280
 our

00:24:49.280 --> 00:24:49.640
 life

00:24:49.640 --> 00:24:50.960
 it's

00:24:50.960 --> 00:24:51.160
 in

00:24:51.160 --> 00:24:51.340
 the

00:24:51.340 --> 00:24:51.860
 oneness

00:24:51.860 --> 00:24:53.220
 the

00:24:53.220 --> 00:24:53.520
 day

00:24:53.520 --> 00:24:53.760
 that

00:24:53.760 --> 00:24:53.960
 I

00:24:53.960 --> 00:24:54.220
 got

00:24:54.220 --> 00:24:54.620
 married

00:24:54.620 --> 00:24:54.920
 is

00:24:54.920 --> 00:24:55.120
 the

00:24:55.120 --> 00:24:55.400
 day

00:24:55.400 --> 00:24:55.640
 that

00:24:55.640 --> 00:24:56.140
 I

00:24:56.140 --> 00:24:56.640
 stopped

00:24:56.640 --> 00:24:56.960
 having

00:24:56.960 --> 00:24:57.180
 to

00:24:57.180 --> 00:24:57.380
 think

00:24:57.380 --> 00:24:57.640
 about

00:24:57.640 --> 00:24:58.000
 me

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 solely

00:24:58.880 --> 00:25:01.920
 and

00:25:01.920 --> 00:25:02.040
 it

00:25:02.040 --> 00:25:02.180
 is

00:25:02.180 --> 00:25:02.360
 the

00:25:02.360 --> 00:25:02.620
 day

00:25:02.620 --> 00:25:02.920
 under

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 surrender

00:25:03.920 --> 00:25:04.120
 to

00:25:04.120 --> 00:25:04.280
 the

00:25:04.280 --> 00:25:04.620
 Lord

00:25:04.620 --> 00:25:05.760
 that

00:25:05.760 --> 00:25:05.920
 I

00:25:05.920 --> 00:25:06.280
 commit

00:25:06.280 --> 00:25:06.480
 to

00:25:06.480 --> 00:25:06.700
 not

00:25:06.700 --> 00:25:07.020
 just

00:25:07.020 --> 00:25:07.440
 me

00:25:07.440 --> 00:25:08.680
 but

00:25:08.680 --> 00:25:08.840
 I

00:25:08.840 --> 00:25:09.080
 commit

00:25:09.080 --> 00:25:09.280
 to

00:25:09.280 --> 00:25:09.500
 we

00:25:09.500 --> 00:25:11.960
 I

00:25:11.960 --> 00:25:12.100
 think

00:25:12.100 --> 00:25:12.300
 the

00:25:12.300 --> 00:25:12.860
 dirtiest

00:25:12.860 --> 00:25:14.300
 word

00:25:14.300 --> 00:25:15.340
 when

00:25:15.340 --> 00:25:15.500
 it

00:25:15.500 --> 00:25:15.920
 comes

00:25:15.920 --> 00:25:16.220
 to

00:25:16.220 --> 00:25:16.800
 marriage

00:25:16.800 --> 00:25:17.960
 is

00:25:17.960 --> 00:25:18.160
 the

00:25:18.160 --> 00:25:18.440
 word

00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:19.080
 mine

00:25:19.080 --> 00:25:21.400
 mine

00:25:21.400 --> 00:25:23.160
 mine

00:25:23.160 --> 00:25:25.560
 you

00:25:25.560 --> 00:25:25.780
 see

00:25:25.780 --> 00:25:27.100
 in

00:25:27.100 --> 00:25:27.560
 marriage

00:25:27.560 --> 00:25:28.920
 I

00:25:28.920 --> 00:25:29.360
 believe

00:25:29.360 --> 00:25:29.600
 when

00:25:29.600 --> 00:25:29.920
 God

00:25:29.920 --> 00:25:30.380
 brings

00:25:30.380 --> 00:25:30.580
 us

00:25:30.580 --> 00:25:31.100
 together

00:25:31.100 --> 00:25:32.240
 he

00:25:32.240 --> 00:25:32.580
 brings

00:25:32.580 --> 00:25:32.800
 us

00:25:32.800 --> 00:25:33.180
 together

00:25:33.180 --> 00:25:33.560
 in

00:25:33.560 --> 00:25:34.040
 one

00:25:34.040 --> 00:25:36.620
 and

00:25:36.620 --> 00:25:36.780
 so

00:25:36.780 --> 00:25:36.940
 the

00:25:36.940 --> 00:25:37.400
 plan

00:25:37.400 --> 00:25:37.540
 and

00:25:37.540 --> 00:25:37.660
 the

00:25:37.660 --> 00:25:38.200
 purpose

00:25:38.200 --> 00:25:39.480
 is

00:25:39.480 --> 00:25:39.740
 not

00:25:39.740 --> 00:25:39.940
 to

00:25:39.940 --> 00:25:40.200
 come

00:25:40.200 --> 00:25:40.680
 together

00:25:40.680 --> 00:25:40.940
 so

00:25:40.940 --> 00:25:41.100
 that

00:25:41.100 --> 00:25:41.260
 we

00:25:41.260 --> 00:25:41.500
 can

00:25:41.500 --> 00:25:42.020
 separate

00:25:42.020 --> 00:25:43.500
 in

00:25:43.500 --> 00:25:43.640
 our

00:25:43.640 --> 00:25:43.840
 day

00:25:43.840 --> 00:25:43.940
 to

00:25:43.940 --> 00:25:44.060
 day

00:25:44.060 --> 00:25:44.540
 life

00:25:44.540 --> 00:25:46.120
 but

00:25:46.120 --> 00:25:46.300
 it's

00:25:46.300 --> 00:25:46.460
 the

00:25:46.460 --> 00:25:47.260
 intermingling

00:25:47.260 --> 00:25:47.540
 of

00:25:47.540 --> 00:25:48.260
 souls

00:25:48.260 --> 00:25:49.520
 so

00:25:49.520 --> 00:25:49.700
 that

00:25:49.700 --> 00:25:49.940
 there's

00:25:49.940 --> 00:25:50.320
 oneness

00:25:50.320 --> 00:25:50.460
 in

00:25:50.460 --> 00:25:50.620
 all

00:25:50.620 --> 00:25:51.020
 things

00:25:51.020 --> 00:25:52.840
 so

00:25:52.840 --> 00:25:53.020
 it's

00:25:53.020 --> 00:25:53.260
 our

00:25:53.260 --> 00:25:53.640
 home

00:25:53.640 --> 00:25:55.000
 it's

00:25:55.000 --> 00:25:55.240
 our

00:25:55.240 --> 00:25:55.620
 money

00:25:55.620 --> 00:25:56.940
 it's

00:25:56.940 --> 00:25:57.200
 our

00:25:57.200 --> 00:25:57.660
 kids

00:25:57.660 --> 00:25:58.800
 it's

00:25:58.800 --> 00:25:59.060
 our

00:25:59.060 --> 00:25:59.540
 plan

00:25:59.540 --> 00:26:00.500
 it's

00:26:00.500 --> 00:26:00.720
 our

00:26:00.720 --> 00:26:01.140
 future

00:26:01.140 --> 00:26:02.960
 that

00:26:02.960 --> 00:26:03.320
 in

00:26:03.320 --> 00:26:03.780
 this

00:26:03.780 --> 00:26:04.840
 me

00:26:04.840 --> 00:26:05.180
 and

00:26:05.180 --> 00:26:05.740
 mine

00:26:05.740 --> 00:26:06.140
 get

00:26:06.140 --> 00:26:06.980
 removed

00:26:06.980 --> 00:26:09.620
 and

00:26:09.620 --> 00:26:09.840
 the

00:26:09.840 --> 00:26:10.380
 we

00:26:10.380 --> 00:26:12.160
 come

00:26:12.160 --> 00:26:12.620
 together

00:26:12.620 --> 00:26:14.660
 I

00:26:14.660 --> 00:26:14.800
 think

00:26:14.800 --> 00:26:15.280
 dangerous

00:26:15.280 --> 00:26:15.780
 things

00:26:15.780 --> 00:26:16.100
 and

00:26:16.100 --> 00:26:16.540
 guys

00:26:16.540 --> 00:26:16.940
 my

00:26:16.940 --> 00:26:17.460
 marriage

00:26:17.460 --> 00:26:19.180
 I

00:26:19.180 --> 00:26:19.380
 am

00:26:19.380 --> 00:26:20.040
 not

00:26:20.040 --> 00:26:21.220
 and

00:26:21.220 --> 00:26:21.360
 what

00:26:21.360 --> 00:26:21.600
 I'm

00:26:21.600 --> 00:26:21.800
 about

00:26:21.800 --> 00:26:21.940
 to

00:26:21.940 --> 00:26:22.160
 say

00:26:22.160 --> 00:26:22.380
 you

00:26:22.380 --> 00:26:22.680
 guys

00:26:22.680 --> 00:26:22.800
 are

00:26:22.800 --> 00:26:23.020
 like

00:26:23.020 --> 00:26:23.180
 but

00:26:23.180 --> 00:26:23.360
 we

00:26:23.360 --> 00:26:23.600
 know

00:26:23.600 --> 00:26:24.520
 I'm

00:26:24.520 --> 00:26:24.720
 not

00:26:24.720 --> 00:26:24.860
 the

00:26:24.860 --> 00:26:25.100
 perfect

00:26:25.100 --> 00:26:25.460
 husband

00:26:25.460 --> 00:26:26.960
 I

00:26:26.960 --> 00:26:27.100
 do

00:26:27.100 --> 00:26:27.320
 not

00:26:27.320 --> 00:26:27.520
 have

00:26:27.520 --> 00:26:27.660
 the

00:26:27.660 --> 00:26:28.020
 perfect

00:26:28.020 --> 00:26:28.500
 marriage

00:26:28.500 --> 00:26:29.920
 but

00:26:29.920 --> 00:26:30.080
 I

00:26:30.080 --> 00:26:30.380
 see

00:26:30.380 --> 00:26:30.840
 warning

00:26:30.840 --> 00:26:31.280
 signs

00:26:31.280 --> 00:26:31.480
 of

00:26:31.480 --> 00:26:31.820
 things

00:26:31.820 --> 00:26:31.960
 that

00:26:31.960 --> 00:26:32.080
 have

00:26:32.080 --> 00:26:32.440
 crept

00:26:32.440 --> 00:26:32.660
 into

00:26:32.660 --> 00:26:32.940
 our

00:26:32.940 --> 00:26:33.440
 marriage

00:26:33.440 --> 00:26:34.760
 and

00:26:34.760 --> 00:26:34.900
 I

00:26:34.900 --> 00:26:35.080
 see

00:26:35.080 --> 00:26:35.500
 warning

00:26:35.500 --> 00:26:35.920
 signs

00:26:35.920 --> 00:26:36.140
 that

00:26:36.140 --> 00:26:36.480
 creep

00:26:36.480 --> 00:26:36.740
 into

00:26:36.740 --> 00:26:37.240
 those

00:26:37.240 --> 00:26:37.640
 around

00:26:37.640 --> 00:26:37.920
 us

00:26:37.920 --> 00:26:38.100
 into

00:26:38.100 --> 00:26:38.380
 their

00:26:38.380 --> 00:26:38.840
 marriages

00:26:38.840 --> 00:26:40.040
 that

00:26:40.040 --> 00:26:40.340
 seek

00:26:40.340 --> 00:26:40.580
 to

00:26:40.580 --> 00:26:41.100
 desire

00:26:41.100 --> 00:26:41.400
 to

00:26:41.400 --> 00:26:41.840
 push

00:26:41.840 --> 00:26:42.000
 and

00:26:42.000 --> 00:26:42.120
 to

00:26:42.120 --> 00:26:42.280
 pull

00:26:42.280 --> 00:26:42.700
 apart

00:26:42.700 --> 00:26:43.700
 and

00:26:43.700 --> 00:26:43.860
 they

00:26:43.860 --> 00:26:44.540
 always

00:26:44.540 --> 00:26:45.320
 become

00:26:45.320 --> 00:26:46.500
 where

00:26:46.500 --> 00:26:46.780
 it's

00:26:46.780 --> 00:26:47.000
 the

00:26:47.000 --> 00:26:47.460
 me

00:26:47.460 --> 00:26:47.880
 and

00:26:47.880 --> 00:26:48.480
 mine

00:26:48.480 --> 00:26:49.160
 and

00:26:49.160 --> 00:26:49.420
 not

00:26:49.420 --> 00:26:49.620
 the

00:26:49.620 --> 00:26:49.980
 we

00:26:49.980 --> 00:26:50.320
 and

00:26:50.320 --> 00:26:50.920
 ours

00:26:50.920 --> 00:26:54.440
 so

00:26:54.440 --> 00:26:54.640
 in

00:26:54.640 --> 00:26:54.800
 our

00:26:54.800 --> 00:26:55.200
 house

00:26:55.200 --> 00:26:57.380
 there

00:26:57.380 --> 00:26:57.560
 is

00:26:57.560 --> 00:26:57.980
 not

00:26:57.980 --> 00:26:58.860
 my

00:26:58.860 --> 00:26:59.140
 money

00:26:59.140 --> 00:26:59.340
 and

00:26:59.340 --> 00:26:59.520
 her

00:26:59.520 --> 00:26:59.840
 money

00:26:59.840 --> 00:27:01.640
 there's

00:27:01.640 --> 00:27:01.860
 not

00:27:01.860 --> 00:27:02.000
 a

00:27:02.000 --> 00:27:02.260
 man

00:27:02.260 --> 00:27:02.800
 cave

00:27:02.800 --> 00:27:03.660
 and

00:27:03.660 --> 00:27:03.800
 a

00:27:03.800 --> 00:27:03.980
 she

00:27:03.980 --> 00:27:04.440
 shed

00:27:04.440 --> 00:27:04.640
 where

00:27:04.640 --> 00:27:04.800
 we

00:27:04.800 --> 00:27:04.920
 need

00:27:04.920 --> 00:27:05.020
 to

00:27:05.020 --> 00:27:05.120
 get

00:27:05.120 --> 00:27:05.340
 away

00:27:05.340 --> 00:27:05.520
 from

00:27:05.520 --> 00:27:05.680
 one

00:27:05.680 --> 00:27:05.980
 another

00:27:05.980 --> 00:27:08.120
 there's

00:27:08.120 --> 00:27:08.420
 not

00:27:08.420 --> 00:27:08.720
 the

00:27:08.720 --> 00:27:09.200
 separate

00:27:09.200 --> 00:27:10.860
 but

00:27:10.860 --> 00:27:11.200
 there's

00:27:11.200 --> 00:27:11.380
 the

00:27:11.380 --> 00:27:12.040
 unified

00:27:12.040 --> 00:27:12.400
 and

00:27:12.400 --> 00:27:12.700
 coming

00:27:12.700 --> 00:27:13.220
 together

00:27:13.220 --> 00:27:14.800
 church

00:27:14.800 --> 00:27:15.040
 the

00:27:15.040 --> 00:27:15.520
 world

00:27:15.520 --> 00:27:16.000
 does

00:27:16.000 --> 00:27:16.380
 so

00:27:16.380 --> 00:27:16.900
 much

00:27:16.900 --> 00:27:17.100
 to

00:27:17.100 --> 00:27:17.360
 try

00:27:17.360 --> 00:27:17.560
 to

00:27:17.560 --> 00:27:17.880
 split

00:27:17.880 --> 00:27:18.080
 us

00:27:18.080 --> 00:27:18.480
 apart

00:27:18.480 --> 00:27:19.640
 why

00:27:19.640 --> 00:27:19.900
 do

00:27:19.900 --> 00:27:20.040
 we

00:27:20.040 --> 00:27:20.320
 want

00:27:20.320 --> 00:27:20.460
 to

00:27:20.460 --> 00:27:20.880
 welcome

00:27:20.880 --> 00:27:21.220
 and

00:27:21.220 --> 00:27:21.740
 invite

00:27:21.740 --> 00:27:21.900
 it

00:27:21.900 --> 00:27:22.180
 into

00:27:22.180 --> 00:27:22.400
 our

00:27:22.400 --> 00:27:22.800
 house

00:27:22.800 --> 00:27:24.880
 the

00:27:24.880 --> 00:27:25.100
 fourth

00:27:25.100 --> 00:27:25.260
 thing

00:27:25.260 --> 00:27:25.400
 that

00:27:25.400 --> 00:27:25.520
 we

00:27:25.520 --> 00:27:25.800
 see

00:27:25.800 --> 00:27:26.020
 for

00:27:26.020 --> 00:27:26.460
 Jesus

00:27:26.460 --> 00:27:28.320
 in

00:27:28.320 --> 00:27:28.480
 the

00:27:28.480 --> 00:27:29.160
 design

00:27:29.160 --> 00:27:29.360
 the

00:27:29.360 --> 00:27:29.700
 heavenly

00:27:29.700 --> 00:27:30.200
 design

00:27:30.200 --> 00:27:30.360
 of

00:27:30.360 --> 00:27:30.480
 a

00:27:30.480 --> 00:27:30.720
 biblical

00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:31.240
 marriage

00:27:31.240 --> 00:27:32.440
 is

00:27:32.440 --> 00:27:32.640
 it's

00:27:32.640 --> 00:27:33.000
 under

00:27:33.000 --> 00:27:33.380
 the

00:27:33.380 --> 00:27:33.980
 authority

00:27:33.980 --> 00:27:34.280
 of

00:27:34.280 --> 00:27:34.620
 God

00:27:34.620 --> 00:27:35.840
 it's

00:27:35.840 --> 00:27:36.120
 under

00:27:36.120 --> 00:27:36.360
 the

00:27:36.360 --> 00:27:36.700
 authority

00:27:36.700 --> 00:27:36.880
 of

00:27:36.880 --> 00:27:37.200
 God

00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:38.720
 that

00:27:38.720 --> 00:27:39.160
 a

00:27:39.160 --> 00:27:39.540
 biblical

00:27:39.540 --> 00:27:40.140
 marriage

00:27:40.140 --> 00:27:41.660
 is not

00:27:41.660 --> 00:27:41.980
 just

00:27:41.980 --> 00:27:42.320
 one

00:27:42.320 --> 00:27:42.660
 man

00:27:42.660 --> 00:27:42.880
 and

00:27:42.880 --> 00:27:43.120
 one

00:27:43.120 --> 00:27:43.420
 woman

00:27:43.420 --> 00:27:43.640
 but

00:27:43.640 --> 00:27:43.880
 it's

00:27:43.880 --> 00:27:44.120
 two

00:27:44.120 --> 00:27:44.500
 people

00:27:44.500 --> 00:27:45.600
 coming

00:27:45.600 --> 00:27:46.040
 before

00:27:46.040 --> 00:27:46.280
 the

00:27:46.280 --> 00:27:46.600
 Lord

00:27:46.600 --> 00:27:47.680
 in

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 unity

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 and

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 commitment

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 to

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 him

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 to

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 him

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 as

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 Lord

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 and

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 Savior

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 of

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 their

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 life

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 and

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 as

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 the

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 Lord

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 of

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 their

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 home

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 and

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 so

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 the

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 standard

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 is

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 set

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 and

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 established

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 the

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 goal

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 is

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 set

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 and

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 established

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 it's

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 not

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 under

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 my

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 authority

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 it's

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 not

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 under

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 her

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 authority

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 it's

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 not

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 under

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 the

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 authority

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 of

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 the

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 norms

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 of

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 the

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 culture

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 of

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 the

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 day

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 it's

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 under

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 the

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 authority

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 of

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 God

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 and

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 how

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 many

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 times

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 have

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 I

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 has

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 she

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 been

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 wrong

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 and

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 praise

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 God

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 we don't

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 have

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 to

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 return

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 to

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 the

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 opinion

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 of

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 a

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 person

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 but

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 under

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 the

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 authority

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 of

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 God

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 we

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 also

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 see

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 in

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 this

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 biblical

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 marriages

00:28:39.340 --> 00:28:39.560
 of

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 heavenly

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 design

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 because

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 it's

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 for

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 life

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 it's

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 for

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 life

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 so

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 they

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 are

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 no

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 longer

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 two

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 flesh

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 but

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 one

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 verse

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 six

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 therefore

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 what

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 God

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 has

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 joined

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 together

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 let

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 not

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 man

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 separate

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 that

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 word

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 separate

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 it's

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 divorce

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 that

00:29:04.440 --> 00:29:04.660
 what

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 God

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 has

00:29:05.400 --> 00:29:05.720
 brought

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 together

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 the

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 commitment

00:29:10.080 --> 00:29:11.280
 and

00:29:11.280 --> 00:29:11.460
 the

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 covenant

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 and

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 the

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 purpose

00:29:13.800 --> 00:29:14.760
 and

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 the

00:29:14.940 --> 00:29:15.640
 design

00:29:15.640 --> 00:29:16.660
 is

00:29:16.660 --> 00:29:16.900
 for

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 life

00:29:17.300 --> 00:29:18.540
 so

00:29:18.540 --> 00:29:18.920
 biblical

00:29:18.920 --> 00:29:19.500
 marriage

00:29:19.500 --> 00:29:19.720
 is

00:29:19.720 --> 00:29:19.880
 of

00:29:19.880 --> 00:29:20.260
 heavenly

00:29:20.260 --> 00:29:20.820
 design

00:29:20.820 --> 00:29:22.100
 but

00:29:22.100 --> 00:29:22.360
 also

00:29:22.360 --> 00:29:22.740
 biblical

00:29:22.740 --> 00:29:23.320
 marriage

00:29:23.320 --> 00:29:23.620
 is

00:29:23.620 --> 00:29:23.800
 of

00:29:23.800 --> 00:29:24.260
 missional

00:29:24.260 --> 00:29:25.180
 purpose

00:29:25.180 --> 00:29:26.320
 is

00:29:26.320 --> 00:29:26.620
 of

00:29:26.620 --> 00:29:27.260
 missional

00:29:27.260 --> 00:29:28.640
 purpose

00:29:28.640 --> 00:29:30.420
 in

00:29:30.420 --> 00:29:30.700
 Genesis

00:29:30.700 --> 00:29:31.360
 128

00:29:31.360 --> 00:29:33.080
 God's

00:29:33.080 --> 00:29:33.280
 word

00:29:33.280 --> 00:29:33.560
 says

00:29:33.560 --> 00:29:33.700
 and

00:29:33.700 --> 00:29:33.900
 God

00:29:33.900 --> 00:29:34.400
 blessed

00:29:34.400 --> 00:29:34.740
 them

00:29:34.740 --> 00:29:35.180
 back

00:29:35.180 --> 00:29:35.360
 into

00:29:35.360 --> 00:29:35.480
 the

00:29:35.480 --> 00:29:35.960
 creation

00:29:35.960 --> 00:29:36.480
 God

00:29:36.480 --> 00:29:36.880
 blessed

00:29:36.880 --> 00:29:37.120
 them

00:29:37.120 --> 00:29:37.260
 and

00:29:37.260 --> 00:29:37.520
 God

00:29:37.520 --> 00:29:37.820
 said

00:29:37.820 --> 00:29:37.960
 to

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 them

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 be

00:29:38.620 --> 00:29:39.140
 fruitful

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 and

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 multiply

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 and fill

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 the

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 earth

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 and

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 subdue

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 it

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 and

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 have

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 dominion

00:29:43.740 --> 00:29:43.980
 over

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 the fish

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 of the

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 sea

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 and

00:29:45.500 --> 00:29:45.700
 over

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 the

00:29:45.880 --> 00:29:46.240
 birds

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 of

00:29:46.400 --> 00:29:46.540
 the

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 heavens

00:29:46.860 --> 00:29:47.280
 and

00:29:47.280 --> 00:29:47.540
 over

00:29:47.540 --> 00:29:48.180
 every

00:29:48.180 --> 00:29:48.960
 living

00:29:48.960 --> 00:29:49.840
 thing

00:29:49.840 --> 00:29:50.360
 that

00:29:50.360 --> 00:29:51.040
 moves

00:29:51.040 --> 00:29:51.360
 on

00:29:51.360 --> 00:29:51.560
 the

00:29:51.560 --> 00:29:51.960
 earth

00:29:51.960 --> 00:29:52.300
 so

00:29:52.300 --> 00:29:52.480
 we

00:29:52.480 --> 00:29:52.740
 see

00:29:52.740 --> 00:29:52.960
 from

00:29:52.960 --> 00:29:53.100
 here

00:29:53.100 --> 00:29:53.360
 not

00:29:53.360 --> 00:29:53.660
 only

00:29:53.660 --> 00:29:53.900
 does

00:29:53.900 --> 00:29:54.200
 God

00:29:54.200 --> 00:29:54.560
 give

00:29:54.560 --> 00:29:54.940
 a

00:29:54.940 --> 00:29:55.380
 heavenly

00:29:55.380 --> 00:29:55.980
 design

00:29:55.980 --> 00:29:56.400
 from

00:29:56.400 --> 00:29:56.740
 top

00:29:56.740 --> 00:29:57.100
 down

00:29:57.100 --> 00:29:57.520
 this

00:29:57.520 --> 00:29:57.680
 is

00:29:57.680 --> 00:29:57.860
 how

00:29:57.860 --> 00:29:58.120
 this

00:29:58.120 --> 00:29:58.640
 should

00:29:58.640 --> 00:29:58.940
 be

00:29:58.940 --> 00:29:59.360
 done

00:29:59.360 --> 00:29:59.760
 this

00:29:59.760 --> 00:29:59.900
 is

00:29:59.900 --> 00:30:00.060
 how

00:30:00.060 --> 00:30:00.500
 designed

00:30:00.500 --> 00:30:00.680
 but

00:30:00.680 --> 00:30:00.940
 now

00:30:00.940 --> 00:30:01.220
 in

00:30:01.220 --> 00:30:01.520
 marriage

00:30:01.520 --> 00:30:01.920
 you

00:30:01.920 --> 00:30:02.100
 get

00:30:02.100 --> 00:30:02.660
 purpose

00:30:02.660 --> 00:30:03.920
 and

00:30:03.920 --> 00:30:04.140
 God

00:30:04.140 --> 00:30:04.320
 from

00:30:04.320 --> 00:30:04.480
 the

00:30:04.480 --> 00:30:04.700
 very

00:30:04.700 --> 00:30:05.100
 beginning

00:30:05.100 --> 00:30:05.420
 says

00:30:05.420 --> 00:30:06.000
 here's

00:30:06.000 --> 00:30:06.180
 the

00:30:06.180 --> 00:30:06.620
 purpose

00:30:06.620 --> 00:30:06.900
 and

00:30:06.900 --> 00:30:07.020
 the

00:30:07.020 --> 00:30:07.320
 plan

00:30:07.320 --> 00:30:07.520
 for

00:30:07.520 --> 00:30:07.700
 you

00:30:07.700 --> 00:30:08.060
 then

00:30:08.060 --> 00:30:08.240
 I'm

00:30:08.240 --> 00:30:08.340
 going

00:30:08.340 --> 00:30:08.500
 to

00:30:08.500 --> 00:30:08.900
 bless

00:30:08.900 --> 00:30:09.200
 you

00:30:09.200 --> 00:30:09.680
 and

00:30:09.680 --> 00:30:09.840
 I'm

00:30:09.840 --> 00:30:09.900
 going

00:30:09.900 --> 00:30:10.020
 to

00:30:10.020 --> 00:30:10.240
 say

00:30:10.240 --> 00:30:10.420
 to

00:30:10.420 --> 00:30:10.600
 you

00:30:10.600 --> 00:30:11.080
 be

00:30:11.080 --> 00:30:11.860
 fruitful

00:30:11.860 --> 00:30:12.520
 and

00:30:12.520 --> 00:30:13.320
 multiply

00:30:13.320 --> 00:30:14.060
 and

00:30:14.060 --> 00:30:14.440
 fill

00:30:14.440 --> 00:30:14.680
 the

00:30:14.680 --> 00:30:15.040
 earth

00:30:15.040 --> 00:30:15.300
 and

00:30:15.300 --> 00:30:15.720
 subdue

00:30:15.720 --> 00:30:15.940
 it

00:30:15.940 --> 00:30:16.640
 that

00:30:16.640 --> 00:30:17.040
 God's

00:30:17.040 --> 00:30:17.460
 plan

00:30:17.460 --> 00:30:17.700
 would

00:30:17.700 --> 00:30:17.980
 be

00:30:17.980 --> 00:30:18.400
 that

00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:18.900
 from

00:30:18.900 --> 00:30:19.200
 your

00:30:19.200 --> 00:30:19.900
 marriage

00:30:19.900 --> 00:30:20.300
 would

00:30:20.300 --> 00:30:20.720
 become

00:30:20.720 --> 00:30:21.040
 the

00:30:21.040 --> 00:30:21.880
 multiplying

00:30:21.880 --> 00:30:22.500
 process

00:30:22.500 --> 00:30:23.060
 of

00:30:23.060 --> 00:30:23.840
 discipleship

00:30:23.840 --> 00:30:25.040
 not

00:30:25.040 --> 00:30:25.280
 just

00:30:25.280 --> 00:30:25.620
 with

00:30:25.620 --> 00:30:26.200
 one

00:30:26.200 --> 00:30:26.680
 another

00:30:26.680 --> 00:30:26.960
 but

00:30:26.960 --> 00:30:27.220
 with

00:30:27.220 --> 00:30:27.440
 your

00:30:27.440 --> 00:30:27.960
 kids

00:30:27.960 --> 00:30:29.120
 and

00:30:29.120 --> 00:30:29.300
 to

00:30:29.300 --> 00:30:29.840
 continue

00:30:29.840 --> 00:30:30.240
 this

00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:30.720
 on

00:30:30.720 --> 00:30:30.980
 and

00:30:30.980 --> 00:30:31.420
 on

00:30:31.420 --> 00:30:31.880
 in

00:30:31.880 --> 00:30:32.140
 his

00:30:32.140 --> 00:30:32.860
 design

00:30:32.860 --> 00:30:33.460
 God

00:30:33.460 --> 00:30:33.640
 says

00:30:33.640 --> 00:30:33.780
 I

00:30:33.780 --> 00:30:33.980
 give

00:30:33.980 --> 00:30:34.120
 you

00:30:34.120 --> 00:30:34.460
 work

00:30:34.460 --> 00:30:34.640
 I

00:30:34.640 --> 00:30:34.820
 give

00:30:34.820 --> 00:30:34.940
 you

00:30:34.940 --> 00:30:35.360
 purpose

00:30:35.360 --> 00:30:35.560
 I

00:30:35.560 --> 00:30:35.760
 give

00:30:35.760 --> 00:30:35.940
 you

00:30:35.940 --> 00:30:36.680
 meaning

00:30:36.680 --> 00:30:37.480
 in

00:30:37.480 --> 00:30:38.180
 Deuteronomy

00:30:38.180 --> 00:30:38.560
 chapter

00:30:38.560 --> 00:30:39.100
 6

00:30:39.200 --> 00:30:39.520
 in

00:30:39.520 --> 00:30:39.800
 verse

00:30:39.800 --> 00:30:40.200
 7

00:30:40.200 --> 00:30:41.140
 it

00:30:41.140 --> 00:30:41.380
 says

00:30:41.380 --> 00:30:41.600
 this

00:30:41.600 --> 00:30:41.800
 about

00:30:41.800 --> 00:30:42.080
 who

00:30:42.080 --> 00:30:42.400
 God

00:30:42.400 --> 00:30:42.640
 is

00:30:42.640 --> 00:30:42.780
 and

00:30:42.780 --> 00:30:43.000
 what

00:30:43.000 --> 00:30:43.260
 God

00:30:43.260 --> 00:30:43.420
 has

00:30:43.420 --> 00:30:43.740
 done

00:30:43.740 --> 00:30:44.100
 and

00:30:44.100 --> 00:30:44.280
 how

00:30:44.280 --> 00:30:44.500
 God

00:30:44.500 --> 00:30:44.640
 is

00:30:44.640 --> 00:30:45.140
 working

00:30:45.140 --> 00:30:45.980
 verse

00:30:45.980 --> 00:30:46.160
 7

00:30:46.160 --> 00:30:46.420
 says

00:30:46.420 --> 00:30:46.760
 you

00:30:46.760 --> 00:30:47.020
 shall

00:30:47.020 --> 00:30:47.460
 teach

00:30:47.460 --> 00:30:47.740
 them

00:30:47.740 --> 00:30:48.540
 diligently

00:30:48.540 --> 00:30:49.140
 to

00:30:49.140 --> 00:30:49.380
 your

00:30:49.380 --> 00:30:49.920
 children

00:30:49.920 --> 00:30:51.100
 and

00:30:51.100 --> 00:30:51.260
 you

00:30:51.260 --> 00:30:51.480
 shall

00:30:51.480 --> 00:30:51.980
 talk

00:30:51.980 --> 00:30:52.160
 of

00:30:52.160 --> 00:30:52.440
 them

00:30:52.440 --> 00:30:52.840
 when

00:30:52.840 --> 00:30:52.980
 you

00:30:52.980 --> 00:30:53.400
 sit

00:30:53.400 --> 00:30:53.600
 in

00:30:53.600 --> 00:30:53.760
 your

00:30:53.760 --> 00:30:54.080
 house

00:30:54.080 --> 00:30:54.440
 and

00:30:54.440 --> 00:30:54.620
 when

00:30:54.620 --> 00:30:54.800
 you

00:30:54.800 --> 00:30:55.140
 walk

00:30:55.140 --> 00:30:55.340
 by

00:30:55.340 --> 00:30:55.480
 the

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 way

00:30:55.700 --> 00:30:56.100
 and

00:30:56.100 --> 00:30:56.320
 when

00:30:56.320 --> 00:30:56.500
 you

00:30:56.500 --> 00:30:56.760
 lie

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 down

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 and

00:30:57.400 --> 00:30:57.600
 you

00:30:57.600 --> 00:30:58.300
 rise

00:30:58.300 --> 00:30:58.720
 up

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 the

00:30:59.480 --> 00:30:59.940
 truth

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 of

00:31:00.100 --> 00:31:00.280
 who

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 God

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 is

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 is

00:31:01.760 --> 00:31:02.060
 what

00:31:02.060 --> 00:31:02.600
 we

00:31:02.600 --> 00:31:03.060
 what

00:31:03.060 --> 00:31:03.320
 in

00:31:03.320 --> 00:31:03.460
 the

00:31:03.460 --> 00:31:03.980
 marriage

00:31:03.980 --> 00:31:04.400
 should

00:31:04.400 --> 00:31:04.640
 be

00:31:04.640 --> 00:31:05.100
 teaching

00:31:05.100 --> 00:31:05.360
 in

00:31:05.360 --> 00:31:05.500
 the

00:31:05.500 --> 00:31:05.840
 children

00:31:05.840 --> 00:31:06.320
 it's

00:31:06.320 --> 00:31:06.500
 the

00:31:06.500 --> 00:31:07.160
 continuation

00:31:07.160 --> 00:31:07.940
 of

00:31:07.940 --> 00:31:08.140
 what

00:31:08.140 --> 00:31:08.480
 God

00:31:08.480 --> 00:31:08.660
 has

00:31:08.660 --> 00:31:08.900
 called

00:31:08.900 --> 00:31:09.040
 us

00:31:09.040 --> 00:31:09.180
 to

00:31:09.180 --> 00:31:09.400
 do

00:31:09.400 --> 00:31:09.840
 what

00:31:09.840 --> 00:31:10.220
 God

00:31:10.220 --> 00:31:10.420
 has

00:31:10.420 --> 00:31:10.640
 called

00:31:10.640 --> 00:31:10.780
 us

00:31:10.780 --> 00:31:10.920
 to

00:31:10.920 --> 00:31:11.140
 be

00:31:11.140 --> 00:31:11.520
 and

00:31:11.520 --> 00:31:11.700
 what

00:31:11.700 --> 00:31:12.020
 God

00:31:12.020 --> 00:31:12.160
 has

00:31:12.160 --> 00:31:12.400
 taught

00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:12.560
 us

00:31:12.560 --> 00:31:12.740
 to

00:31:12.740 --> 00:31:13.300
 create

00:31:13.300 --> 00:31:13.720
 in

00:31:13.720 --> 00:31:13.860
 our

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 house

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 I'm

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 so

00:31:16.360 --> 00:31:16.800
 grateful

00:31:16.800 --> 00:31:17.300
 of all

00:31:17.300 --> 00:31:17.500
 the

00:31:17.500 --> 00:31:18.040
 things

00:31:18.040 --> 00:31:18.860
 that

00:31:18.860 --> 00:31:19.020
 my

00:31:19.020 --> 00:31:19.280
 parents

00:31:19.280 --> 00:31:19.440
 have

00:31:19.440 --> 00:31:19.700
 taught

00:31:19.700 --> 00:31:19.940
 me

00:31:19.940 --> 00:31:20.960
 I'm

00:31:20.960 --> 00:31:21.120
 so

00:31:21.120 --> 00:31:21.640
 grateful

00:31:21.640 --> 00:31:21.900
 for

00:31:21.900 --> 00:31:22.200
 all

00:31:22.200 --> 00:31:22.400
 the

00:31:22.400 --> 00:31:22.760
 things

00:31:22.760 --> 00:31:23.160
 that

00:31:23.160 --> 00:31:23.320
 my

00:31:23.320 --> 00:31:23.660
 parents

00:31:23.660 --> 00:31:23.860
 have

00:31:23.860 --> 00:31:24.320
 modeled

00:31:24.320 --> 00:31:24.640
 for

00:31:24.640 --> 00:31:24.920
 me

00:31:24.920 --> 00:31:25.680
 but

00:31:25.680 --> 00:31:25.880
 the

00:31:25.880 --> 00:31:26.400
 call

00:31:26.400 --> 00:31:26.660
 of

00:31:26.660 --> 00:31:27.300
 scripture

00:31:27.300 --> 00:31:28.540
 is

00:31:28.540 --> 00:31:28.900
 don't

00:31:28.900 --> 00:31:29.140
 just

00:31:29.140 --> 00:31:29.440
 teach

00:31:29.440 --> 00:31:29.620
 your

00:31:29.620 --> 00:31:29.960
 kids

00:31:29.960 --> 00:31:30.160
 to

00:31:30.160 --> 00:31:30.380
 be

00:31:30.380 --> 00:31:31.120
 financially

00:31:31.120 --> 00:31:31.760
 stable

00:31:31.760 --> 00:31:33.300
 don't

00:31:33.300 --> 00:31:33.480
 just

00:31:33.480 --> 00:31:33.760
 teach

00:31:33.760 --> 00:31:33.940
 your

00:31:33.940 --> 00:31:34.320
 kids

00:31:34.320 --> 00:31:34.760
 what

00:31:34.760 --> 00:31:34.920
 it

00:31:34.920 --> 00:31:35.440
 means

00:31:35.440 --> 00:31:35.820
 to

00:31:35.820 --> 00:31:36.680
 grow

00:31:36.680 --> 00:31:36.960
 in

00:31:36.960 --> 00:31:37.120
 their

00:31:37.120 --> 00:31:37.600
 career

00:31:37.600 --> 00:31:38.140
 don't

00:31:38.140 --> 00:31:38.320
 just

00:31:38.320 --> 00:31:38.680
 teach

00:31:38.680 --> 00:31:38.880
 your

00:31:38.880 --> 00:31:39.180
 kids

00:31:39.180 --> 00:31:39.440
 the

00:31:39.440 --> 00:31:39.820
 things

00:31:39.820 --> 00:31:40.040
 of

00:31:40.040 --> 00:31:40.260
 this

00:31:40.260 --> 00:31:40.860
 world

00:31:40.860 --> 00:31:41.100
 that

00:31:41.100 --> 00:31:41.200
 are

00:31:41.200 --> 00:31:41.540
 there

00:31:41.540 --> 00:31:41.940
 but

00:31:41.940 --> 00:31:42.300
 show

00:31:42.300 --> 00:31:42.560
 your

00:31:42.560 --> 00:31:42.840
 kids

00:31:42.840 --> 00:31:43.400
 teach

00:31:43.400 --> 00:31:43.620
 your

00:31:43.620 --> 00:31:43.880
 kids

00:31:43.880 --> 00:31:44.520
 model

00:31:44.520 --> 00:31:44.740
 for

00:31:44.740 --> 00:31:44.920
 your

00:31:44.920 --> 00:31:45.240
 kids

00:31:45.240 --> 00:31:45.940
 explain

00:31:45.940 --> 00:31:46.360
 to

00:31:46.360 --> 00:31:46.680
 them

00:31:46.680 --> 00:31:47.360
 who

00:31:47.360 --> 00:31:48.280
 God

00:31:48.280 --> 00:31:49.200
 is

00:31:49.200 --> 00:31:51.120
 the

00:31:51.120 --> 00:31:51.600
 purpose

00:31:51.600 --> 00:31:51.900
 of

00:31:51.900 --> 00:31:52.120
 the

00:31:52.120 --> 00:31:52.560
 home

00:31:52.560 --> 00:31:53.840
 is

00:31:53.840 --> 00:31:54.400
 found

00:31:54.400 --> 00:31:54.720
 and

00:31:54.720 --> 00:31:55.020
 rooted

00:31:55.020 --> 00:31:56.120
 in

00:31:56.120 --> 00:31:56.320
 the

00:31:56.320 --> 00:31:56.720
 heart

00:31:56.720 --> 00:31:57.420
 of

00:31:57.420 --> 00:31:57.940
 missional

00:31:57.940 --> 00:31:59.260
 discipleship

00:31:59.260 --> 00:32:00.640
 one

00:32:00.640 --> 00:32:00.720
 of

00:32:00.720 --> 00:32:00.820
 the

00:32:00.820 --> 00:32:01.080
 things

00:32:01.080 --> 00:32:01.220
 that

00:32:01.220 --> 00:32:01.340
 I

00:32:01.340 --> 00:32:01.660
 love

00:32:01.660 --> 00:32:01.820
 and

00:32:01.820 --> 00:32:02.120
 treasure

00:32:02.120 --> 00:32:02.380
 the

00:32:02.380 --> 00:32:02.900
 most

00:32:02.900 --> 00:32:03.920
 about

00:32:03.920 --> 00:32:04.100
 our

00:32:04.100 --> 00:32:04.280
 kids

00:32:04.280 --> 00:32:04.720
 ministry

00:32:04.720 --> 00:32:07.320
 is

00:32:07.320 --> 00:32:07.520
 the

00:32:07.520 --> 00:32:07.940
 heart

00:32:07.940 --> 00:32:08.320
 Don's

00:32:08.320 --> 00:32:08.640
 heart

00:32:08.640 --> 00:32:09.940
 Don

00:32:09.940 --> 00:32:10.240
 Coulter

00:32:10.240 --> 00:32:10.460
 if you

00:32:10.460 --> 00:32:11.160
 don't

00:32:11.160 --> 00:32:11.300
 have

00:32:11.300 --> 00:32:11.480
 kids

00:32:11.480 --> 00:32:11.600
 you

00:32:11.600 --> 00:32:11.780
 might

00:32:11.780 --> 00:32:11.960
 not

00:32:11.960 --> 00:32:13.060
 know

00:32:13.060 --> 00:32:13.500
 who

00:32:13.500 --> 00:32:13.660
 she

00:32:13.660 --> 00:32:13.840
 is

00:32:13.840 --> 00:32:13.940
 you

00:32:13.940 --> 00:32:14.080
 might

00:32:14.080 --> 00:32:14.200
 not

00:32:14.200 --> 00:32:14.320
 have

00:32:14.320 --> 00:32:14.440
 met

00:32:14.440 --> 00:32:14.520
 her

00:32:14.520 --> 00:32:14.640
 but

00:32:14.640 --> 00:32:14.800
 Don

00:32:14.800 --> 00:32:15.140
 Coulter

00:32:15.140 --> 00:32:15.260
 is

00:32:15.260 --> 00:32:15.400
 our

00:32:15.400 --> 00:32:15.740
 children's

00:32:15.740 --> 00:32:16.040
 minister

00:32:16.040 --> 00:32:17.420
 and

00:32:17.420 --> 00:32:17.640
 she

00:32:17.640 --> 00:32:17.960
 works

00:32:17.960 --> 00:32:18.260
 hard

00:32:18.260 --> 00:32:18.420
 with

00:32:18.420 --> 00:32:18.580
 a

00:32:18.580 --> 00:32:18.900
 wonderful

00:32:18.900 --> 00:32:19.180
 group

00:32:19.180 --> 00:32:19.340
 of

00:32:19.340 --> 00:32:19.800
 volunteers

00:32:19.800 --> 00:32:20.240
 every

00:32:20.240 --> 00:32:20.480
 day

00:32:20.480 --> 00:32:20.680
 to

00:32:20.680 --> 00:32:21.200
 create

00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:21.920
 environments

00:32:21.920 --> 00:32:22.100
 and

00:32:22.100 --> 00:32:22.220
 to

00:32:22.220 --> 00:32:23.080
 provide

00:32:23.080 --> 00:32:24.100
 opportunities

00:32:24.100 --> 00:32:24.940
 to

00:32:24.940 --> 00:32:25.540
 disciple

00:32:25.540 --> 00:32:26.220
 your

00:32:26.220 --> 00:32:26.640
 kids

00:32:26.640 --> 00:32:27.260
 in a

00:32:27.260 --> 00:32:27.620
 fun

00:32:27.620 --> 00:32:28.020
 and

00:32:28.020 --> 00:32:28.500
 energetic

00:32:28.500 --> 00:32:28.860
 way

00:32:28.860 --> 00:32:29.020
 that

00:32:29.020 --> 00:32:29.140
 they

00:32:29.140 --> 00:32:29.300
 want

00:32:29.300 --> 00:32:29.340
 to

00:32:29.340 --> 00:32:29.420
 be

00:32:29.420 --> 00:32:29.520
 a

00:32:29.520 --> 00:32:29.680
 part

00:32:29.680 --> 00:32:29.860
 of

00:32:29.860 --> 00:32:31.000
 but

00:32:31.000 --> 00:32:31.240
 the

00:32:31.240 --> 00:32:31.700
 heart

00:32:31.700 --> 00:32:31.880
 of

00:32:31.880 --> 00:32:32.060
 her

00:32:32.060 --> 00:32:32.620
 ministry

00:32:32.620 --> 00:32:33.820
 is

00:32:33.820 --> 00:32:34.060
 not

00:32:34.060 --> 00:32:34.480
 bring

00:32:34.480 --> 00:32:34.740
 us

00:32:34.740 --> 00:32:34.920
 your

00:32:34.920 --> 00:32:35.540
 kids

00:32:35.540 --> 00:32:36.840
 leave

00:32:36.840 --> 00:32:37.100
 them

00:32:37.100 --> 00:32:37.580
 alone

00:32:37.580 --> 00:32:37.920
 pick

00:32:37.920 --> 00:32:38.140
 them

00:32:38.140 --> 00:32:38.360
 back

00:32:38.360 --> 00:32:38.620
 up

00:32:38.620 --> 00:32:38.920
 rinse

00:32:38.920 --> 00:32:39.100
 and

00:32:39.100 --> 00:32:39.400
 repeat

00:32:39.400 --> 00:32:39.700
 for

00:32:39.700 --> 00:32:40.560
 the

00:32:40.560 --> 00:32:40.840
 next

00:32:40.840 --> 00:32:41.180
 week

00:32:41.180 --> 00:32:42.500
 the

00:32:42.500 --> 00:32:42.800
 heart

00:32:42.800 --> 00:32:42.940
 of

00:32:42.940 --> 00:32:43.100
 her

00:32:43.100 --> 00:32:43.360
 for

00:32:43.360 --> 00:32:43.820
 ministry

00:32:43.820 --> 00:32:44.740
 is

00:32:44.740 --> 00:32:44.960
 how

00:32:44.960 --> 00:32:45.120
 do

00:32:45.120 --> 00:32:45.280
 we

00:32:45.280 --> 00:32:45.720
 come

00:32:45.720 --> 00:32:46.640
 alongside

00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:48.540
 parents

00:32:48.540 --> 00:32:49.880
 to

00:32:49.880 --> 00:32:50.460
 equip

00:32:50.460 --> 00:32:50.780
 you

00:32:50.780 --> 00:32:51.220
 to

00:32:51.220 --> 00:32:51.900
 strengthen

00:32:51.900 --> 00:32:52.340
 you

00:32:52.340 --> 00:32:52.760
 to

00:32:52.760 --> 00:32:53.180
 do

00:32:53.180 --> 00:32:53.440
 what

00:32:53.440 --> 00:32:53.840
 God's

00:32:53.840 --> 00:32:54.180
 word

00:32:54.180 --> 00:32:54.400
 has

00:32:54.400 --> 00:32:54.660
 called

00:32:54.660 --> 00:32:54.840
 us

00:32:54.840 --> 00:32:54.960
 to

00:32:54.960 --> 00:32:55.400
 do

00:32:55.400 --> 00:32:55.860
 in

00:32:55.860 --> 00:32:56.240
 Genesis

00:32:56.240 --> 00:32:56.840
 1

00:32:56.840 --> 00:32:57.340
 and

00:32:57.340 --> 00:32:57.980
 Deuteronomy

00:32:57.980 --> 00:32:58.420
 6

00:32:58.420 --> 00:33:00.380
 this

00:33:00.380 --> 00:33:00.560
 week

00:33:00.560 --> 00:33:00.820
 I told

00:33:00.820 --> 00:33:01.040
 Don

00:33:01.040 --> 00:33:01.220
 that I

00:33:01.220 --> 00:33:01.320
 was

00:33:01.320 --> 00:33:01.420
 going

00:33:01.420 --> 00:33:01.420
 to

00:33:01.420 --> 00:33:01.500
 be

00:33:01.500 --> 00:33:01.720
 talking

00:33:01.720 --> 00:33:01.920
 about

00:33:01.920 --> 00:33:02.160
 this

00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:02.300
 and

00:33:02.300 --> 00:33:02.460
 I

00:33:02.460 --> 00:33:02.660
 stopped

00:33:02.660 --> 00:33:02.800
 by

00:33:02.800 --> 00:33:02.940
 her

00:33:02.940 --> 00:33:03.280
 office

00:33:03.280 --> 00:33:04.760
 and

00:33:04.760 --> 00:33:04.840
 I

00:33:04.840 --> 00:33:04.960
 said

00:33:04.960 --> 00:33:05.160
 hey

00:33:05.160 --> 00:33:05.560
 if

00:33:05.560 --> 00:33:05.680
 you

00:33:05.680 --> 00:33:05.980
 could

00:33:05.980 --> 00:33:06.820
 this

00:33:06.820 --> 00:33:07.160
 week

00:33:07.160 --> 00:33:07.740
 just

00:33:07.740 --> 00:33:07.940
 kind

00:33:07.940 --> 00:33:08.000
 of

00:33:08.000 --> 00:33:08.540
 jot

00:33:09.700 --> 00:33:10.060
 like

00:33:10.060 --> 00:33:10.180
 the

00:33:10.180 --> 00:33:10.440
 things

00:33:10.440 --> 00:33:10.560
 and

00:33:10.560 --> 00:33:10.700
 I

00:33:10.700 --> 00:33:10.880
 know

00:33:10.880 --> 00:33:11.040
 this

00:33:11.040 --> 00:33:11.160
 is

00:33:11.160 --> 00:33:11.460
 important

00:33:11.460 --> 00:33:11.680
 for

00:33:11.680 --> 00:33:11.860
 you

00:33:11.860 --> 00:33:12.220
 guys

00:33:12.220 --> 00:33:12.720
 and

00:33:12.720 --> 00:33:12.880
 what

00:33:12.880 --> 00:33:13.020
 you're

00:33:13.020 --> 00:33:13.180
 doing

00:33:13.180 --> 00:33:13.280
 and

00:33:13.280 --> 00:33:13.360
 what

00:33:13.360 --> 00:33:13.480
 you're

00:33:13.480 --> 00:33:13.680
 modeling

00:33:13.680 --> 00:33:13.820
 but

00:33:13.820 --> 00:33:13.920
 if

00:33:13.920 --> 00:33:14.020
 you

00:33:14.020 --> 00:33:14.200
 could

00:33:14.200 --> 00:33:15.120
 jot

00:33:15.120 --> 00:33:15.420
 down

00:33:15.420 --> 00:33:15.660
 some

00:33:15.660 --> 00:33:15.800
 of

00:33:15.800 --> 00:33:15.920
 the

00:33:15.920 --> 00:33:16.220
 things

00:33:16.220 --> 00:33:16.400
 that

00:33:16.400 --> 00:33:16.680
 you

00:33:16.680 --> 00:33:17.000
 guys

00:33:17.000 --> 00:33:17.120
 are

00:33:17.120 --> 00:33:17.440
 doing

00:33:17.440 --> 00:33:18.100
 and

00:33:18.100 --> 00:33:18.600
 guys

00:33:18.600 --> 00:33:19.000
 I

00:33:19.000 --> 00:33:19.240
 thought

00:33:19.240 --> 00:33:19.960
 I

00:33:19.960 --> 00:33:20.080
 would

00:33:20.080 --> 00:33:20.220
 get

00:33:20.220 --> 00:33:20.340
 a

00:33:20.340 --> 00:33:20.520
 piece

00:33:20.520 --> 00:33:20.640
 of

00:33:20.640 --> 00:33:20.920
 paper

00:33:20.920 --> 00:33:21.260
 with

00:33:21.260 --> 00:33:21.480
 like

00:33:21.480 --> 00:33:21.660
 two

00:33:21.660 --> 00:33:21.800
 to

00:33:21.800 --> 00:33:21.940
 three

00:33:21.940 --> 00:33:22.180
 things

00:33:22.180 --> 00:33:22.340
 on

00:33:22.340 --> 00:33:22.600
 it

00:33:22.600 --> 00:33:24.420
 and

00:33:24.420 --> 00:33:24.540
 I

00:33:24.540 --> 00:33:24.760
 ended

00:33:24.760 --> 00:33:25.120
 up

00:33:25.120 --> 00:33:26.280
 finding

00:33:26.280 --> 00:33:26.520
 out

00:33:26.520 --> 00:33:26.720
 about

00:33:26.720 --> 00:33:26.920
 the

00:33:26.920 --> 00:33:27.240
 seven

00:33:27.240 --> 00:33:27.640
 different

00:33:27.640 --> 00:33:28.060
 ways

00:33:28.060 --> 00:33:29.300
 that

00:33:29.300 --> 00:33:29.580
 she

00:33:29.580 --> 00:33:29.940
 works

00:33:29.940 --> 00:33:30.180
 on

00:33:30.180 --> 00:33:30.320
 a

00:33:30.320 --> 00:33:30.860
 weekly

00:33:30.860 --> 00:33:31.500
 basis

00:33:31.500 --> 00:33:32.840
 along

00:33:32.840 --> 00:33:33.040
 with

00:33:33.040 --> 00:33:33.240
 her

00:33:33.240 --> 00:33:33.860
 volunteers

00:33:33.860 --> 00:33:35.060
 to

00:33:35.060 --> 00:33:35.760
 provide

00:33:35.760 --> 00:33:36.380
 parents

00:33:36.380 --> 00:33:36.640
 not

00:33:36.640 --> 00:33:36.820
 just

00:33:36.820 --> 00:33:36.960
 to

00:33:36.960 --> 00:33:37.120
 come

00:33:37.120 --> 00:33:37.280
 and

00:33:37.280 --> 00:33:37.500
 drop

00:33:37.500 --> 00:33:37.640
 them

00:33:37.640 --> 00:33:37.940
 off

00:33:37.940 --> 00:33:39.800
 but

00:33:39.800 --> 00:33:39.980
 how

00:33:39.980 --> 00:33:40.160
 can

00:33:40.160 --> 00:33:40.320
 we

00:33:40.320 --> 00:33:40.600
 help

00:33:40.600 --> 00:33:40.780
 you

00:33:40.780 --> 00:33:41.460
 invest

00:33:41.460 --> 00:33:42.800
 in

00:33:42.800 --> 00:33:43.200
 eternal

00:33:43.200 --> 00:33:43.780
 matters

00:33:43.780 --> 00:33:45.400
 because

00:33:45.400 --> 00:33:45.680
 folks

00:33:45.680 --> 00:33:45.840
 I'm

00:33:45.840 --> 00:33:45.940
 going to

00:33:45.940 --> 00:33:46.100
 say

00:33:46.100 --> 00:33:46.560
 this

00:33:46.560 --> 00:33:48.840
 like

00:33:48.840 --> 00:33:49.480
 in

00:33:49.480 --> 00:33:50.120
 eternity

00:33:50.120 --> 00:33:51.760
 in

00:33:51.760 --> 00:33:52.340
 eternity

00:33:52.340 --> 00:33:53.600
 it

00:33:53.600 --> 00:33:53.800
 doesn't

00:33:53.800 --> 00:33:54.120
 matter

00:33:54.120 --> 00:33:54.340
 what

00:33:54.340 --> 00:33:54.480
 your

00:33:54.480 --> 00:33:54.800
 SAT

00:33:54.800 --> 00:33:55.140
 score

00:33:55.140 --> 00:33:55.860
 is

00:33:55.860 --> 00:33:58.420
 in

00:33:58.420 --> 00:33:59.000
 eternity

00:33:59.000 --> 00:34:00.240
 it

00:34:00.240 --> 00:34:00.480
 doesn't

00:34:00.480 --> 00:34:00.880
 matter

00:34:00.880 --> 00:34:01.140
 if

00:34:01.140 --> 00:34:01.240
 you

00:34:01.240 --> 00:34:01.360
 can

00:34:01.360 --> 00:34:01.460
 hit

00:34:01.460 --> 00:34:01.580
 a

00:34:01.580 --> 00:34:01.760
 curve

00:34:01.760 --> 00:34:02.020
 ball

00:34:02.020 --> 00:34:04.080
 in

00:34:04.080 --> 00:34:04.660
 eternity

00:34:04.660 --> 00:34:05.700
 it

00:34:05.700 --> 00:34:05.840
 does

00:34:05.840 --> 00:34:06.040
 not

00:34:06.040 --> 00:34:06.560
 matter

00:34:06.560 --> 00:34:06.900
 the

00:34:06.900 --> 00:34:07.380
 level

00:34:07.380 --> 00:34:07.640
 of

00:34:07.640 --> 00:34:08.060
 piano

00:34:08.060 --> 00:34:08.480
 player

00:34:08.480 --> 00:34:08.680
 that

00:34:08.680 --> 00:34:08.840
 you

00:34:08.840 --> 00:34:09.120
 are

00:34:09.120 --> 00:34:11.260
 in

00:34:11.260 --> 00:34:11.800
 eternity

00:34:11.800 --> 00:34:12.920
 here's

00:34:12.920 --> 00:34:13.060
 what's

00:34:13.060 --> 00:34:13.160
 going

00:34:13.160 --> 00:34:13.240
 to

00:34:13.240 --> 00:34:13.500
 matter

00:34:13.500 --> 00:34:14.680
 is

00:34:14.680 --> 00:34:15.100
 Jesus

00:34:15.100 --> 00:34:15.580
 Christ

00:34:15.580 --> 00:34:15.760
 your

00:34:15.760 --> 00:34:16.000
 Lord

00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:16.180
 and

00:34:16.180 --> 00:34:16.400
 Savior

00:34:16.400 --> 00:34:19.660
 I'm

00:34:19.660 --> 00:34:19.780
 not

00:34:19.780 --> 00:34:19.940
 saying

00:34:19.940 --> 00:34:20.100
 those

00:34:20.100 --> 00:34:20.260
 other

00:34:20.260 --> 00:34:20.500
 things

00:34:20.500 --> 00:34:20.640
 aren't

00:34:20.640 --> 00:34:21.040
 beneficial

00:34:21.040 --> 00:34:22.420
 I'm

00:34:22.420 --> 00:34:22.560
 not

00:34:22.560 --> 00:34:22.720
 saying

00:34:22.720 --> 00:34:22.860
 they

00:34:22.860 --> 00:34:23.020
 shouldn't

00:34:23.020 --> 00:34:23.120
 be

00:34:23.120 --> 00:34:23.240
 a

00:34:23.240 --> 00:34:23.400
 part

00:34:23.400 --> 00:34:23.500
 of

00:34:23.500 --> 00:34:23.620
 your

00:34:23.620 --> 00:34:24.020
 life

00:34:24.020 --> 00:34:25.200
 they're

00:34:25.200 --> 00:34:25.420
 part

00:34:25.420 --> 00:34:25.520
 of

00:34:25.520 --> 00:34:25.680
 our

00:34:25.680 --> 00:34:26.080
 family's

00:34:26.080 --> 00:34:26.400
 life

00:34:26.400 --> 00:34:27.920
 but

00:34:27.920 --> 00:34:28.140
 what

00:34:28.140 --> 00:34:28.320
 is

00:34:28.320 --> 00:34:28.940
 essential

00:34:28.940 --> 00:34:29.240
 in

00:34:29.240 --> 00:34:29.640
 this

00:34:29.640 --> 00:34:30.660
 is

00:34:30.660 --> 00:34:30.840
 the

00:34:30.840 --> 00:34:31.100
 work

00:34:31.100 --> 00:34:31.240
 that

00:34:31.240 --> 00:34:31.380
 we're

00:34:31.380 --> 00:34:31.560
 doing

00:34:31.560 --> 00:34:31.740
 for

00:34:31.740 --> 00:34:32.260
 salvation

00:34:32.260 --> 00:34:33.560
 folks

00:34:33.560 --> 00:34:33.720
 here's

00:34:33.720 --> 00:34:33.840
 some

00:34:33.840 --> 00:34:34.000
 things

00:34:34.000 --> 00:34:34.100
 that

00:34:34.100 --> 00:34:34.260
 she's

00:34:34.260 --> 00:34:34.380
 got

00:34:34.380 --> 00:34:34.580
 going

00:34:34.580 --> 00:34:34.900
 on

00:34:34.900 --> 00:34:35.900
 as

00:34:35.900 --> 00:34:36.060
 we

00:34:36.060 --> 00:34:36.260
 just

00:34:36.260 --> 00:34:36.600
 mentioned

00:34:36.600 --> 00:34:36.980
 earlier

00:34:36.980 --> 00:34:37.200
 through

00:34:37.200 --> 00:34:37.420
 here

00:34:37.420 --> 00:34:37.800
 the

00:34:37.800 --> 00:34:38.100
 Bible

00:34:38.100 --> 00:34:38.440
 story

00:34:38.440 --> 00:34:38.780
 buddies

00:34:38.780 --> 00:34:40.740
 for

00:34:40.740 --> 00:34:41.140
 babies

00:34:41.140 --> 00:34:41.340
 through

00:34:41.340 --> 00:34:42.100
 preschoolers

00:34:42.100 --> 00:34:43.440
 so

00:34:43.440 --> 00:34:43.600
 that

00:34:43.600 --> 00:34:43.980
 what's

00:34:43.980 --> 00:34:44.340
 happening

00:34:44.340 --> 00:34:44.560
 in

00:34:44.560 --> 00:34:44.720
 the

00:34:44.720 --> 00:34:45.140
 life

00:34:45.140 --> 00:34:45.960
 of

00:34:45.960 --> 00:34:46.220
 these

00:34:46.220 --> 00:34:46.520
 little

00:34:46.520 --> 00:34:46.900
 ones

00:34:46.900 --> 00:34:47.800
 is

00:34:47.800 --> 00:34:48.060
 we're

00:34:48.060 --> 00:34:48.660
 instilling

00:34:48.660 --> 00:34:48.980
 in

00:34:48.980 --> 00:34:49.340
 them

00:34:49.340 --> 00:34:50.380
 a

00:34:50.380 --> 00:34:50.920
 heart

00:34:50.920 --> 00:34:51.200
 of

00:34:51.200 --> 00:34:51.700
 scripture

00:34:51.700 --> 00:34:52.960
 that

00:34:52.960 --> 00:34:53.440
 loves

00:34:53.440 --> 00:34:53.860
 God's

00:34:53.860 --> 00:34:54.200
 word

00:34:54.200 --> 00:34:55.180
 that

00:34:55.180 --> 00:34:55.580
 finds

00:34:55.580 --> 00:34:56.020
 God's

00:34:56.020 --> 00:34:56.280
 word

00:34:56.280 --> 00:34:56.940
 fun

00:34:56.940 --> 00:34:57.560
 that

00:34:57.560 --> 00:34:57.920
 finds

00:34:57.920 --> 00:34:58.320
 God's

00:34:58.320 --> 00:34:58.600
 word

00:34:58.600 --> 00:34:59.340
 convicting

00:34:59.340 --> 00:34:59.860
 that

00:34:59.860 --> 00:35:00.240
 finds

00:35:00.240 --> 00:35:00.680
 God's

00:35:00.680 --> 00:35:01.000
 word

00:35:01.000 --> 00:35:01.720
 interesting

00:35:01.720 --> 00:35:02.520
 and that

00:35:02.520 --> 00:35:02.680
 it

00:35:02.680 --> 00:35:03.160
 brings

00:35:03.160 --> 00:35:03.420
 the

00:35:03.420 --> 00:35:03.820
 family

00:35:03.820 --> 00:35:04.300
 together

00:35:04.300 --> 00:35:04.640
 to do

00:35:04.640 --> 00:35:05.040
 this

00:35:05.040 --> 00:35:07.820
 every

00:35:07.820 --> 00:35:08.260
 week

00:35:08.260 --> 00:35:08.900
 what she

00:35:08.900 --> 00:35:09.120
 has

00:35:09.120 --> 00:35:09.700
 provided

00:35:09.700 --> 00:35:11.000
 is for

00:35:11.000 --> 00:35:11.620
 she has

00:35:11.620 --> 00:35:11.780
 a

00:35:11.780 --> 00:35:12.320
 Willow Ridge

00:35:12.320 --> 00:35:12.920
 kids

00:35:12.920 --> 00:35:13.860
 worship

00:35:13.860 --> 00:35:14.580
 music

00:35:14.580 --> 00:35:15.200
 playlist

00:35:15.200 --> 00:35:16.500
 on

00:35:16.500 --> 00:35:16.840
 Apple

00:35:16.840 --> 00:35:17.360
 Spotify

00:35:17.360 --> 00:35:17.840
 Amazon

00:35:17.840 --> 00:35:18.160
 and

00:35:18.160 --> 00:35:18.480
 YouTube

00:35:18.480 --> 00:35:20.360
 so that

00:35:20.360 --> 00:35:20.780
 you can

00:35:20.780 --> 00:35:21.040
 come

00:35:21.040 --> 00:35:21.520
 together

00:35:21.520 --> 00:35:21.960
 and

00:35:21.960 --> 00:35:22.180
 let's

00:35:22.180 --> 00:35:22.360
 be

00:35:22.360 --> 00:35:22.700
 honest

00:35:22.700 --> 00:35:23.040
 instead

00:35:23.040 --> 00:35:23.200
 of

00:35:23.200 --> 00:35:23.380
 playing

00:35:23.380 --> 00:35:23.580
 the

00:35:23.580 --> 00:35:24.140
 garbage

00:35:24.140 --> 00:35:25.440
 that

00:35:25.440 --> 00:35:25.660
 comes

00:35:25.660 --> 00:35:25.780
 on

00:35:25.780 --> 00:35:25.900
 the

00:35:25.900 --> 00:35:26.260
 radio

00:35:26.260 --> 00:35:28.120
 that

00:35:28.120 --> 00:35:28.300
 we

00:35:28.300 --> 00:35:28.460
 can

00:35:28.460 --> 00:35:28.780
 listen

00:35:28.780 --> 00:35:29.160
 to

00:35:29.160 --> 00:35:30.360
 not

00:35:30.360 --> 00:35:30.780
 just

00:35:30.780 --> 00:35:31.400
 music

00:35:31.400 --> 00:35:31.620
 that

00:35:31.620 --> 00:35:32.100
 praises

00:35:32.100 --> 00:35:32.340
 and

00:35:32.340 --> 00:35:32.800
 worships

00:35:32.800 --> 00:35:33.120
 God

00:35:33.120 --> 00:35:34.080
 but

00:35:34.080 --> 00:35:34.660
 instills

00:35:34.660 --> 00:35:35.080
 in the

00:35:35.080 --> 00:35:35.440
 heart

00:35:35.440 --> 00:35:35.660
 and

00:35:35.660 --> 00:35:36.240
 reminds

00:35:36.240 --> 00:35:36.480
 them

00:35:36.480 --> 00:35:36.640
 of

00:35:36.640 --> 00:35:36.820
 the

00:35:36.820 --> 00:35:37.120
 lyrics

00:35:37.120 --> 00:35:37.280
 that

00:35:37.280 --> 00:35:37.420
 they're

00:35:37.420 --> 00:35:37.500
 going

00:35:37.500 --> 00:35:37.600
 to

00:35:37.600 --> 00:35:37.800
 sing

00:35:37.800 --> 00:35:37.960
 on

00:35:37.960 --> 00:35:38.160
 Sunday

00:35:38.160 --> 00:35:38.480
 mornings

00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:41.200
 she

00:35:41.200 --> 00:35:41.560
 provides

00:35:41.560 --> 00:35:41.720
 a

00:35:41.720 --> 00:35:41.980
 go

00:35:41.980 --> 00:35:42.600
 curriculum

00:35:42.600 --> 00:35:43.260
 resources

00:35:43.260 --> 00:35:43.800
 for

00:35:43.800 --> 00:35:44.360
 preschool

00:35:44.360 --> 00:35:44.860
 and

00:35:44.860 --> 00:35:45.380
 elementary

00:35:45.380 --> 00:35:46.300
 to

00:35:46.300 --> 00:35:47.320
 reemphasize

00:35:47.320 --> 00:35:47.580
 and to

00:35:47.580 --> 00:35:47.980
 help go

00:35:47.980 --> 00:35:48.380
 along

00:35:48.380 --> 00:35:48.600
 with

00:35:48.600 --> 00:35:48.940
 what's

00:35:48.940 --> 00:35:49.440
 instructed

00:35:49.440 --> 00:35:49.800
 on a

00:35:49.800 --> 00:35:49.980
 Sunday

00:35:49.980 --> 00:35:50.340
 morning

00:35:50.340 --> 00:35:50.800
 these

00:35:50.800 --> 00:35:51.140
 videos

00:35:51.140 --> 00:35:51.320
 are

00:35:51.320 --> 00:35:51.740
 uploaded

00:35:51.740 --> 00:35:52.940
 on the

00:35:52.940 --> 00:35:53.220
 Monday

00:35:53.220 --> 00:35:53.740
 after

00:35:53.740 --> 00:35:53.940
 the

00:35:53.940 --> 00:35:54.320
 lesson

00:35:54.320 --> 00:35:56.320
 preschool

00:35:56.320 --> 00:35:56.660
 and

00:35:56.660 --> 00:35:57.100
 elementary

00:35:57.100 --> 00:35:57.620
 families

00:35:57.620 --> 00:35:58.100
 receive

00:35:58.100 --> 00:35:58.740
 weekly

00:35:58.740 --> 00:35:59.640
 go home

00:35:59.640 --> 00:36:00.260
 guides

00:36:00.260 --> 00:36:00.760
 to

00:36:00.760 --> 00:36:01.480
 continue

00:36:01.480 --> 00:36:02.020
 the

00:36:02.020 --> 00:36:02.420
 discussion

00:36:02.420 --> 00:36:02.620
 at

00:36:02.620 --> 00:36:02.940
 home

00:36:02.940 --> 00:36:04.600
 in

00:36:04.600 --> 00:36:05.160
 additionally

00:36:05.160 --> 00:36:05.800
 elementary

00:36:05.800 --> 00:36:06.180
 school

00:36:06.180 --> 00:36:06.700
 students

00:36:06.700 --> 00:36:07.180
 take

00:36:07.180 --> 00:36:07.460
 home

00:36:07.460 --> 00:36:07.640
 a

00:36:07.640 --> 00:36:07.980
 table

00:36:07.980 --> 00:36:08.400
 talk

00:36:08.400 --> 00:36:09.020
 guide

00:36:09.020 --> 00:36:09.460
 that

00:36:09.460 --> 00:36:09.640
 can

00:36:09.640 --> 00:36:09.840
 be

00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:10.180
 used

00:36:10.180 --> 00:36:10.380
 for

00:36:10.380 --> 00:36:10.800
 dinner

00:36:10.800 --> 00:36:11.460
 discussions

00:36:11.460 --> 00:36:12.040
 throughout

00:36:12.040 --> 00:36:12.220
 the

00:36:12.220 --> 00:36:12.520
 week

00:36:12.520 --> 00:36:14.500
 we

00:36:14.500 --> 00:36:14.980
 also

00:36:14.980 --> 00:36:15.480
 offer

00:36:15.480 --> 00:36:15.960
 over

00:36:15.960 --> 00:36:16.260
 in

00:36:16.260 --> 00:36:16.580
 building

00:36:16.580 --> 00:36:16.780
 two

00:36:16.780 --> 00:36:17.100
 I

00:36:17.100 --> 00:36:17.260
 didn't

00:36:17.260 --> 00:36:17.360
 know

00:36:17.360 --> 00:36:17.540
 this

00:36:17.540 --> 00:36:17.880
 existed

00:36:17.880 --> 00:36:18.100
 I

00:36:18.100 --> 00:36:18.280
 came

00:36:18.280 --> 00:36:18.420
 home

00:36:18.420 --> 00:36:18.540
 and

00:36:18.540 --> 00:36:18.640
 told

00:36:18.640 --> 00:36:18.800
 my

00:36:18.800 --> 00:36:19.040
 wife

00:36:19.040 --> 00:36:19.340
 I

00:36:19.340 --> 00:36:19.740
 didn't

00:36:19.740 --> 00:36:19.900
 know

00:36:19.900 --> 00:36:20.020
 that

00:36:20.020 --> 00:36:20.160
 this

00:36:20.160 --> 00:36:20.320
 was

00:36:20.320 --> 00:36:20.500
 there

00:36:20.500 --> 00:36:20.820
 man

00:36:20.820 --> 00:36:21.100
 wouldn't

00:36:21.100 --> 00:36:21.240
 this

00:36:21.240 --> 00:36:21.400
 been

00:36:21.400 --> 00:36:21.760
 awesome

00:36:21.760 --> 00:36:21.940
 when

00:36:21.940 --> 00:36:22.200
 our

00:36:22.200 --> 00:36:22.360
 kids

00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:22.500
 were

00:36:22.500 --> 00:36:22.720
 little

00:36:22.720 --> 00:36:24.340
 she

00:36:24.340 --> 00:36:24.720
 offers

00:36:24.720 --> 00:36:25.420
 Willow Ridge

00:36:25.420 --> 00:36:25.720
 kids

00:36:25.720 --> 00:36:26.120
 family

00:36:26.120 --> 00:36:26.680
 resource

00:36:26.680 --> 00:36:27.280
 cabinet

00:36:27.280 --> 00:36:27.520
 in

00:36:27.520 --> 00:36:27.720
 building

00:36:27.720 --> 00:36:28.020
 two

00:36:28.020 --> 00:36:29.060
 that

00:36:29.060 --> 00:36:29.480
 includes

00:36:29.480 --> 00:36:29.920
 books

00:36:29.920 --> 00:36:30.120
 that

00:36:30.120 --> 00:36:30.440
 parents

00:36:30.440 --> 00:36:30.660
 can

00:36:30.660 --> 00:36:31.140
 borrow

00:36:31.140 --> 00:36:31.640
 on

00:36:31.640 --> 00:36:32.000
 difficult

00:36:32.000 --> 00:36:32.540
 topics

00:36:32.540 --> 00:36:33.420
 thank

00:36:33.420 --> 00:36:33.680
 you

00:36:33.680 --> 00:36:35.240
 thank

00:36:35.240 --> 00:36:35.420
 you

00:36:35.420 --> 00:36:35.780
 Dawn

00:36:35.780 --> 00:36:37.180
 for

00:36:37.180 --> 00:36:37.360
 what

00:36:37.360 --> 00:36:37.640
 God

00:36:37.640 --> 00:36:37.820
 has

00:36:37.820 --> 00:36:38.120
 done

00:36:38.120 --> 00:36:38.340
 in

00:36:38.340 --> 00:36:38.620
 your

00:36:38.620 --> 00:36:39.080
 life

00:36:39.080 --> 00:36:40.020
 and

00:36:40.020 --> 00:36:40.180
 what

00:36:40.180 --> 00:36:40.420
 you've

00:36:40.420 --> 00:36:40.580
 seen

00:36:40.580 --> 00:36:40.720
 in

00:36:40.720 --> 00:36:40.840
 the

00:36:40.840 --> 00:36:41.060
 life

00:36:41.060 --> 00:36:41.200
 of

00:36:41.200 --> 00:36:41.440
 your

00:36:41.440 --> 00:36:41.880
 family

00:36:41.880 --> 00:36:43.160
 and

00:36:43.160 --> 00:36:43.380
 what

00:36:43.380 --> 00:36:43.640
 you're

00:36:43.640 --> 00:36:44.080
 desiring

00:36:44.080 --> 00:36:44.500
 to bring

00:36:44.500 --> 00:36:44.760
 us

00:36:44.760 --> 00:36:45.020
 into

00:36:45.020 --> 00:36:47.340
 last

00:36:47.340 --> 00:36:47.620
 thing

00:36:47.620 --> 00:36:49.000
 so

00:36:49.000 --> 00:36:49.300
 biblical

00:36:49.300 --> 00:36:49.720
 marriage

00:36:49.720 --> 00:36:49.900
 is

00:36:49.900 --> 00:36:50.040
 of

00:36:50.040 --> 00:36:50.340
 heavenly

00:36:50.340 --> 00:36:50.840
 design

00:36:50.840 --> 00:36:52.800
 designed

00:36:52.800 --> 00:36:53.020
 by

00:36:53.020 --> 00:36:53.360
 God

00:36:53.360 --> 00:36:54.640
 biblical

00:36:54.640 --> 00:36:55.580
 marriage

00:36:55.580 --> 00:36:56.520
 is

00:36:56.520 --> 00:36:56.760
 for

00:36:56.760 --> 00:36:56.980
 a

00:36:56.980 --> 00:36:57.300
 missional

00:36:57.300 --> 00:36:57.820
 purpose

00:36:57.820 --> 00:36:59.260
 and

00:36:59.260 --> 00:36:59.440
 the

00:36:59.440 --> 00:36:59.940
 challenging

00:36:59.940 --> 00:37:00.300
 of

00:37:00.300 --> 00:37:00.860
 growing

00:37:00.860 --> 00:37:01.160
 and

00:37:01.160 --> 00:37:01.800
 raising

00:37:01.800 --> 00:37:02.400
 up

00:37:02.400 --> 00:37:03.620
 believers

00:37:03.620 --> 00:37:05.840
 but

00:37:05.840 --> 00:37:06.000
 then

00:37:06.000 --> 00:37:06.400
 lastly

00:37:06.400 --> 00:37:06.620
 we're

00:37:06.620 --> 00:37:06.760
 going to

00:37:06.760 --> 00:37:06.980
 see

00:37:06.980 --> 00:37:08.400
 that

00:37:08.400 --> 00:37:08.720
 biblical

00:37:08.720 --> 00:37:09.240
 marriage

00:37:09.240 --> 00:37:10.560
 is a

00:37:10.560 --> 00:37:10.760
 holy

00:37:10.760 --> 00:37:11.180
 picture

00:37:11.180 --> 00:37:12.580
 it's

00:37:12.580 --> 00:37:12.680
 a

00:37:12.680 --> 00:37:12.860
 holy

00:37:12.860 --> 00:37:13.240
 picture

00:37:13.240 --> 00:37:15.280
 in

00:37:15.280 --> 00:37:15.660
 Ephesians

00:37:15.660 --> 00:37:16.180
 5

00:37:16.180 --> 00:37:17.940
 22

00:37:17.940 --> 00:37:18.300
 through

00:37:18.300 --> 00:37:18.740
 33

00:37:18.740 --> 00:37:20.580
 the

00:37:20.580 --> 00:37:20.860
 apostle

00:37:20.860 --> 00:37:21.300
 Paul

00:37:21.300 --> 00:37:22.860
 in

00:37:22.860 --> 00:37:23.220
 writing

00:37:23.220 --> 00:37:23.540
 about

00:37:23.540 --> 00:37:24.220
 relationships

00:37:24.220 --> 00:37:25.580
 within

00:37:25.580 --> 00:37:25.780
 the

00:37:25.780 --> 00:37:26.120
 church

00:37:26.120 --> 00:37:28.420
 speaks

00:37:28.420 --> 00:37:28.780
 to

00:37:28.780 --> 00:37:29.200
 the

00:37:29.200 --> 00:37:29.860
 relationships

00:37:29.860 --> 00:37:31.380
 in

00:37:31.380 --> 00:37:31.480
 the

00:37:31.480 --> 00:37:31.880
 family

00:37:31.880 --> 00:37:33.800
 here's

00:37:33.800 --> 00:37:33.940
 what he

00:37:33.940 --> 00:37:34.120
 says

00:37:34.120 --> 00:37:34.400
 Ephesians

00:37:34.400 --> 00:37:34.720
 5

00:37:34.720 --> 00:37:36.040
 verses

00:37:36.040 --> 00:37:36.500
 22

00:37:36.500 --> 00:37:37.080
 through

00:37:37.080 --> 00:37:37.460
 33

00:37:37.460 --> 00:37:39.340
 wives

00:37:39.340 --> 00:37:41.240
 submit

00:37:41.240 --> 00:37:41.540
 to your

00:37:41.540 --> 00:37:41.700
 own

00:37:41.700 --> 00:37:42.060
 husbands

00:37:42.060 --> 00:37:42.380
 as to

00:37:42.380 --> 00:37:42.520
 the

00:37:42.520 --> 00:37:42.780
 Lord

00:37:42.780 --> 00:37:44.360
 for

00:37:44.360 --> 00:37:44.520
 the

00:37:44.520 --> 00:37:44.840
 husband

00:37:44.840 --> 00:37:45.060
 is

00:37:45.060 --> 00:37:45.200
 the

00:37:45.200 --> 00:37:45.320
 head

00:37:45.320 --> 00:37:45.420
 of

00:37:45.420 --> 00:37:45.540
 the

00:37:45.540 --> 00:37:45.860
 wife

00:37:45.860 --> 00:37:47.120
 even

00:37:47.120 --> 00:37:47.300
 as

00:37:47.300 --> 00:37:47.620
 Christ

00:37:47.620 --> 00:37:47.780
 is

00:37:47.780 --> 00:37:47.900
 the

00:37:47.900 --> 00:37:48.020
 head

00:37:48.020 --> 00:37:48.140
 of

00:37:48.140 --> 00:37:48.300
 his

00:37:48.300 --> 00:37:48.640
 church

00:37:48.640 --> 00:37:50.080
 his

00:37:50.080 --> 00:37:50.480
 body

00:37:50.480 --> 00:37:50.700
 and

00:37:50.700 --> 00:37:50.880
 is

00:37:50.880 --> 00:37:51.300
 himself

00:37:51.300 --> 00:37:51.520
 its

00:37:51.520 --> 00:37:51.840
 savior

00:37:51.840 --> 00:37:53.400
 now

00:37:53.400 --> 00:37:53.580
 as

00:37:53.580 --> 00:37:53.720
 the

00:37:53.720 --> 00:37:54.000
 church

00:37:54.000 --> 00:37:54.300
 submits

00:37:54.300 --> 00:37:54.460
 to

00:37:54.460 --> 00:37:54.740
 Christ

00:37:54.740 --> 00:37:54.900
 and

00:37:54.900 --> 00:37:55.240
 everything

00:37:55.240 --> 00:37:55.560
 wives

00:37:55.560 --> 00:37:55.780
 should

00:37:55.780 --> 00:37:56.480
 submit

00:37:56.480 --> 00:37:56.680
 in

00:37:56.680 --> 00:37:57.000
 everything

00:37:57.000 --> 00:37:57.220
 to

00:37:57.220 --> 00:37:57.360
 their

00:37:57.360 --> 00:37:57.740
 husbands

00:37:57.740 --> 00:37:59.700
 verse

00:37:59.700 --> 00:38:00.140
 25

00:38:00.140 --> 00:38:02.080
 husbands

00:38:02.080 --> 00:38:03.460
 love

00:38:03.460 --> 00:38:03.620
 your

00:38:03.620 --> 00:38:03.980
 wives

00:38:03.980 --> 00:38:04.140
 as

00:38:04.140 --> 00:38:04.400
 Christ

00:38:04.400 --> 00:38:04.620
 loved

00:38:04.620 --> 00:38:04.780
 the

00:38:04.780 --> 00:38:05.100
 church

00:38:05.100 --> 00:38:06.320
 and

00:38:06.320 --> 00:38:06.540
 gave

00:38:06.540 --> 00:38:06.800
 himself

00:38:06.800 --> 00:38:07.020
 up

00:38:07.020 --> 00:38:07.180
 for

00:38:07.180 --> 00:38:07.420
 her

00:38:07.420 --> 00:38:08.700
 that

00:38:08.700 --> 00:38:08.780
 he

00:38:08.780 --> 00:38:09.020
 might

00:38:09.020 --> 00:38:09.620
 sanctify

00:38:09.620 --> 00:38:09.980
 her

00:38:09.980 --> 00:38:11.000
 having

00:38:11.000 --> 00:38:11.620
 cleansed

00:38:11.620 --> 00:38:11.860
 her

00:38:11.860 --> 00:38:12.300
 by the

00:38:12.300 --> 00:38:12.620
 washing

00:38:12.620 --> 00:38:13.240
 of water

00:38:13.240 --> 00:38:14.060
 with the

00:38:14.060 --> 00:38:14.340
 word

00:38:14.340 --> 00:38:15.880
 so that

00:38:15.880 --> 00:38:16.200
 he might

00:38:16.200 --> 00:38:16.760
 present the

00:38:16.760 --> 00:38:17.200
 church to

00:38:17.200 --> 00:38:17.780
 himself in

00:38:17.780 --> 00:38:18.360
 splendor

00:38:18.360 --> 00:38:20.040
 without spot

00:38:20.040 --> 00:38:20.640
 or wrinkle

00:38:20.640 --> 00:38:21.200
 or any

00:38:21.200 --> 00:38:21.920
 such thing

00:38:21.920 --> 00:38:23.340
 that she

00:38:23.340 --> 00:38:23.720
 might be

00:38:23.720 --> 00:38:24.600
 holy and

00:38:24.600 --> 00:38:25.420
 without blemish

00:38:25.420 --> 00:38:27.260
 in the same

00:38:27.260 --> 00:38:27.680
 way

00:38:27.680 --> 00:38:29.160
 husbands should

00:38:29.160 --> 00:38:29.600
 love their

00:38:29.600 --> 00:38:30.300
 wives as their

00:38:30.300 --> 00:38:30.960
 own bodies

00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:33.060
 he who loves

00:38:33.060 --> 00:38:33.680
 his wife

00:38:33.680 --> 00:38:35.100
 loves himself

00:38:35.100 --> 00:38:37.260
 for no one

00:38:37.260 --> 00:38:37.820
 ever hated

00:38:37.820 --> 00:38:38.800
 his own flesh

00:38:38.800 --> 00:38:40.660
 but nourishes

00:38:40.660 --> 00:38:41.060
 it

00:38:41.060 --> 00:38:42.120
 and cherishes

00:38:42.120 --> 00:38:42.460
 it

00:38:42.460 --> 00:38:43.620
 just as

00:38:43.620 --> 00:38:43.960
 Christ

00:38:43.960 --> 00:38:44.420
 does the

00:38:44.420 --> 00:38:44.820
 church

00:38:44.820 --> 00:38:46.560
 because we

00:38:46.560 --> 00:38:47.060
 are members

00:38:47.060 --> 00:38:47.440
 of his

00:38:47.440 --> 00:38:47.860
 body

00:38:47.860 --> 00:38:49.700
 therefore

00:38:49.700 --> 00:38:51.240
 a man

00:38:51.240 --> 00:38:51.900
 shall leave

00:38:51.900 --> 00:38:52.460
 his father

00:38:52.460 --> 00:38:53.060
 and mother

00:38:53.060 --> 00:38:54.200
 and hold

00:38:54.200 --> 00:38:54.880
 fast to

00:38:54.880 --> 00:38:55.460
 his wife

00:38:55.460 --> 00:38:56.940
 and the

00:38:56.940 --> 00:38:57.360
 two

00:38:57.360 --> 00:38:58.280
 shall

00:38:58.280 --> 00:38:58.920
 become

00:38:58.920 --> 00:39:00.000
 one

00:39:00.000 --> 00:39:00.500
 flesh

00:39:00.500 --> 00:39:01.700
 verse

00:39:01.700 --> 00:39:02.120
 32

00:39:02.120 --> 00:39:04.320
 this

00:39:04.320 --> 00:39:04.900
 mystery

00:39:04.900 --> 00:39:05.220
 is

00:39:05.220 --> 00:39:05.980
 profound

00:39:05.980 --> 00:39:07.860
 and I

00:39:07.860 --> 00:39:08.520
 am saying

00:39:08.520 --> 00:39:09.700
 that it

00:39:09.700 --> 00:39:10.400
 refers

00:39:10.400 --> 00:39:11.480
 to

00:39:11.480 --> 00:39:12.080
 Christ

00:39:12.080 --> 00:39:13.540
 and

00:39:13.540 --> 00:39:14.400
 the

00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:14.880
 church

00:39:14.880 --> 00:39:16.560
 however

00:39:16.560 --> 00:39:18.160
 would

00:39:18.160 --> 00:39:18.360
 each

00:39:18.360 --> 00:39:18.780
 one of

00:39:18.780 --> 00:39:19.000
 you

00:39:19.000 --> 00:39:20.440
 love

00:39:20.440 --> 00:39:20.920
 his wife

00:39:20.920 --> 00:39:21.140
 as

00:39:21.140 --> 00:39:21.520
 himself

00:39:21.520 --> 00:39:23.240
 and let

00:39:23.240 --> 00:39:23.680
 the wife

00:39:23.680 --> 00:39:24.000
 see

00:39:24.000 --> 00:39:25.300
 that she

00:39:25.300 --> 00:39:25.840
 respects

00:39:25.840 --> 00:39:27.060
 her

00:39:27.060 --> 00:39:27.420
 husband

00:39:27.420 --> 00:39:29.340
 well

00:39:29.340 --> 00:39:30.600
 if we

00:39:30.600 --> 00:39:30.860
 move

00:39:30.860 --> 00:39:31.080
 from

00:39:31.080 --> 00:39:31.300
 one

00:39:31.300 --> 00:39:31.920
 uncomfortable

00:39:31.920 --> 00:39:32.360
 passage

00:39:32.360 --> 00:39:32.620
 of

00:39:32.620 --> 00:39:32.880
 scripture

00:39:32.880 --> 00:39:33.900
 in

00:39:33.900 --> 00:39:34.140
 Matthew

00:39:34.140 --> 00:39:34.460
 5

00:39:34.460 --> 00:39:34.680
 about

00:39:34.680 --> 00:39:35.120
 divorce

00:39:35.120 --> 00:39:36.140
 we

00:39:36.140 --> 00:39:36.340
 jump

00:39:36.340 --> 00:39:36.580
 two

00:39:36.580 --> 00:39:36.820
 feet

00:39:36.820 --> 00:39:37.200
 into

00:39:37.200 --> 00:39:38.060
 another

00:39:38.060 --> 00:39:38.420
 passage

00:39:38.420 --> 00:39:38.580
 of

00:39:38.580 --> 00:39:38.780
 scripture

00:39:38.780 --> 00:39:40.400
 that

00:39:40.400 --> 00:39:40.740
 is

00:39:40.740 --> 00:39:41.000
 on

00:39:41.000 --> 00:39:41.180
 its

00:39:41.180 --> 00:39:41.620
 surface

00:39:41.620 --> 00:39:42.860
 I

00:39:42.860 --> 00:39:43.000
 think

00:39:43.000 --> 00:39:43.700
 often times

00:39:43.700 --> 00:39:43.940
 within

00:39:43.940 --> 00:39:44.200
 the

00:39:44.200 --> 00:39:44.580
 flesh

00:39:44.580 --> 00:39:44.760
 of

00:39:44.760 --> 00:39:45.280
 humanity

00:39:45.280 --> 00:39:46.680
 an

00:39:46.680 --> 00:39:47.420
 uncomfortable

00:39:47.420 --> 00:39:48.360
 topic

00:39:48.360 --> 00:39:48.700
 to look

00:39:48.700 --> 00:39:48.920
 at

00:39:48.920 --> 00:39:50.280
 as

00:39:50.280 --> 00:39:50.700
 Paul

00:39:50.700 --> 00:39:51.200
 comes

00:39:51.200 --> 00:39:51.380
 and

00:39:51.380 --> 00:39:51.560
 as

00:39:51.560 --> 00:39:52.160
 Paul

00:39:52.160 --> 00:39:52.580
 sets

00:39:52.580 --> 00:39:52.720
 and

00:39:52.720 --> 00:39:52.880
 as

00:39:52.880 --> 00:39:53.160
 Paul

00:39:53.160 --> 00:39:54.500
 establishes

00:39:54.500 --> 00:39:56.380
 this

00:39:56.380 --> 00:39:57.760
 is

00:39:57.760 --> 00:39:58.000
 the

00:39:58.000 --> 00:39:58.560
 holy

00:39:58.560 --> 00:39:59.840
 picture

00:39:59.840 --> 00:40:01.440
 that

00:40:01.440 --> 00:40:02.120
 marriage

00:40:02.120 --> 00:40:03.580
 communicates

00:40:03.580 --> 00:40:05.720
 prior

00:40:05.720 --> 00:40:05.900
 to

00:40:05.900 --> 00:40:06.080
 verse

00:40:06.080 --> 00:40:06.700
 22

00:40:06.700 --> 00:40:06.920
 and

00:40:06.920 --> 00:40:07.120
 verse

00:40:07.120 --> 00:40:07.760
 21

00:40:07.760 --> 00:40:08.140
 Paul

00:40:08.140 --> 00:40:08.620
 writes

00:40:08.620 --> 00:40:09.880
 in

00:40:09.880 --> 00:40:10.020
 the

00:40:10.020 --> 00:40:10.520
 context

00:40:10.520 --> 00:40:10.740
 of

00:40:10.740 --> 00:40:10.900
 the

00:40:10.900 --> 00:40:11.340
 church

00:40:11.340 --> 00:40:12.420
 and

00:40:12.420 --> 00:40:12.540
 he

00:40:12.540 --> 00:40:12.760
 says

00:40:12.760 --> 00:40:13.340
 submitting

00:40:13.340 --> 00:40:14.180
 to

00:40:14.180 --> 00:40:14.480
 one

00:40:14.480 --> 00:40:14.940
 another

00:40:14.940 --> 00:40:16.200
 out

00:40:16.200 --> 00:40:16.400
 of

00:40:16.400 --> 00:40:16.960
 reverence

00:40:16.960 --> 00:40:17.480
 for

00:40:17.480 --> 00:40:17.920
 Christ

00:40:17.920 --> 00:40:19.240
 you

00:40:19.240 --> 00:40:19.360
 see

00:40:19.360 --> 00:40:19.520
 the

00:40:19.520 --> 00:40:19.980
 problem

00:40:19.980 --> 00:40:20.460
 often

00:40:20.460 --> 00:40:20.940
 times

00:40:20.940 --> 00:40:21.320
 in

00:40:21.320 --> 00:40:21.920
 marriage

00:40:21.920 --> 00:40:23.100
 if

00:40:23.100 --> 00:40:23.280
 we

00:40:23.280 --> 00:40:23.960
 haven't

00:40:23.960 --> 00:40:24.720
 accepted

00:40:24.720 --> 00:40:25.360
 the

00:40:25.360 --> 00:40:25.740
 heavenly

00:40:25.740 --> 00:40:26.400
 design

00:40:26.400 --> 00:40:27.920
 that

00:40:27.920 --> 00:40:28.160
 this

00:40:28.160 --> 00:40:28.340
 is

00:40:28.340 --> 00:40:28.640
 from

00:40:28.640 --> 00:40:29.080
 God

00:40:29.080 --> 00:40:29.300
 and

00:40:29.300 --> 00:40:29.620
 of

00:40:29.620 --> 00:40:30.100
 God

00:40:30.100 --> 00:40:30.340
 and

00:40:30.340 --> 00:40:30.600
 done

00:40:30.600 --> 00:40:31.020
 God's

00:40:31.020 --> 00:40:31.280
 way

00:40:31.280 --> 00:40:32.500
 if

00:40:32.500 --> 00:40:32.680
 we

00:40:32.680 --> 00:40:33.140
 haven't

00:40:33.140 --> 00:40:33.780
 accepted

00:40:33.780 --> 00:40:34.440
 the

00:40:34.440 --> 00:40:34.980
 missional

00:40:34.980 --> 00:40:35.720
 purpose

00:40:35.720 --> 00:40:36.040
 of

00:40:36.040 --> 00:40:36.560
 marriage

00:40:36.560 --> 00:40:37.420
 that

00:40:37.420 --> 00:40:37.680
 us

00:40:37.680 --> 00:40:38.100
 coming

00:40:38.100 --> 00:40:38.640
 together

00:40:38.640 --> 00:40:39.060
 is

00:40:39.060 --> 00:40:39.520
 more

00:40:39.520 --> 00:40:39.980
 than

00:40:39.980 --> 00:40:40.280
 about

00:40:40.280 --> 00:40:41.180
 gratifying

00:40:41.180 --> 00:40:41.400
 the

00:40:41.400 --> 00:40:41.840
 desires

00:40:41.840 --> 00:40:42.180
 of the

00:40:42.180 --> 00:40:42.560
 flesh

00:40:42.560 --> 00:40:42.980
 that

00:40:42.980 --> 00:40:43.260
 us

00:40:43.260 --> 00:40:43.740
 coming

00:40:43.740 --> 00:40:44.220
 together

00:40:44.220 --> 00:40:44.520
 is

00:40:44.520 --> 00:40:46.120
 more

00:40:46.120 --> 00:40:46.540
 than

00:40:46.540 --> 00:40:46.760
 just

00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:47.040
 figuring

00:40:47.040 --> 00:40:47.240
 out

00:40:47.240 --> 00:40:47.560
 two

00:40:47.560 --> 00:40:47.820
 or

00:40:47.820 --> 00:40:48.060
 better

00:40:48.060 --> 00:40:48.360
 than

00:40:48.360 --> 00:40:48.740
 one

00:40:48.740 --> 00:40:49.120
 that

00:40:49.120 --> 00:40:49.520
 coming

00:40:49.520 --> 00:40:50.240
 together

00:40:50.240 --> 00:40:50.720
 that

00:40:50.720 --> 00:40:51.000
 in

00:40:51.000 --> 00:40:51.220
 this

00:40:51.220 --> 00:40:51.400
 is

00:40:51.400 --> 00:40:51.600
 for

00:40:51.600 --> 00:40:51.800
 a

00:40:51.800 --> 00:40:52.180
 missional

00:40:52.180 --> 00:40:52.720
 purpose

00:40:52.720 --> 00:40:53.200
 as

00:40:53.200 --> 00:40:53.400
 we're

00:40:53.400 --> 00:40:53.800
 growing

00:40:53.800 --> 00:40:54.080
 one

00:40:54.080 --> 00:40:54.480
 another

00:40:54.480 --> 00:40:54.880
 and

00:40:54.880 --> 00:40:55.040
 as

00:40:55.040 --> 00:40:55.220
 we're

00:40:55.220 --> 00:40:55.620
 growing

00:40:55.620 --> 00:40:55.980
 each

00:40:55.980 --> 00:40:56.320
 other

00:40:56.320 --> 00:40:56.700
 up

00:40:56.700 --> 00:40:56.840
 in

00:40:56.840 --> 00:40:56.980
 a

00:40:56.980 --> 00:40:57.200
 way

00:40:57.200 --> 00:40:57.600
 that

00:40:57.600 --> 00:40:57.820
 is

00:40:57.820 --> 00:40:58.440
 reflective

00:40:58.440 --> 00:40:58.700
 of

00:40:58.700 --> 00:40:58.860
 the

00:40:58.860 --> 00:40:59.120
 heart

00:40:59.120 --> 00:40:59.280
 of

00:40:59.280 --> 00:40:59.560
 God

00:40:59.560 --> 00:40:59.760
 and

00:40:59.760 --> 00:41:00.140
 honoring

00:41:00.140 --> 00:41:00.340
 to

00:41:00.340 --> 00:41:00.620
 him

00:41:00.620 --> 00:41:01.480
 and

00:41:01.480 --> 00:41:01.600
 then

00:41:01.600 --> 00:41:01.800
 as

00:41:01.800 --> 00:41:01.920
 a

00:41:01.920 --> 00:41:02.260
 result

00:41:02.260 --> 00:41:02.440
 of

00:41:02.440 --> 00:41:02.600
 this

00:41:02.600 --> 00:41:02.780
 what

00:41:02.780 --> 00:41:02.960
 we

00:41:02.960 --> 00:41:03.480
 see

00:41:03.480 --> 00:41:04.220
 is

00:41:04.220 --> 00:41:04.400
 that

00:41:04.400 --> 00:41:04.780
 biblical

00:41:04.780 --> 00:41:05.360
 marriage

00:41:05.360 --> 00:41:06.160
 when applied

00:41:06.160 --> 00:41:06.760
 in the way

00:41:06.760 --> 00:41:07.280
 that God

00:41:07.280 --> 00:41:07.840
 designs

00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:08.060
 it

00:41:08.060 --> 00:41:08.760
 to be

00:41:08.760 --> 00:41:09.380
 to be

00:41:09.380 --> 00:41:09.860
 lived

00:41:09.860 --> 00:41:10.220
 out

00:41:10.220 --> 00:41:10.580
 to be

00:41:10.580 --> 00:41:11.080
 practiced

00:41:11.080 --> 00:41:11.480
 to be

00:41:11.480 --> 00:41:12.360
 experienced

00:41:12.360 --> 00:41:12.860
 it

00:41:12.860 --> 00:41:13.820
 portrays

00:41:13.820 --> 00:41:14.300
 a

00:41:14.300 --> 00:41:14.820
 holy

00:41:14.820 --> 00:41:15.840
 picture

00:41:15.840 --> 00:41:18.780
 and

00:41:18.780 --> 00:41:18.900
 so

00:41:18.900 --> 00:41:19.260
 Paul

00:41:19.260 --> 00:41:19.940
 calls

00:41:19.940 --> 00:41:21.840
 the

00:41:21.840 --> 00:41:22.280
 husband

00:41:22.280 --> 00:41:22.560
 in

00:41:22.560 --> 00:41:22.660
 the

00:41:22.660 --> 00:41:22.880
 biblical

00:41:22.880 --> 00:41:23.400
 marriage

00:41:23.400 --> 00:41:24.720
 and

00:41:24.720 --> 00:41:24.900
 the

00:41:24.900 --> 00:41:25.380
 wife

00:41:25.380 --> 00:41:25.620
 in

00:41:25.620 --> 00:41:25.720
 the

00:41:25.720 --> 00:41:25.940
 biblical

00:41:25.940 --> 00:41:26.440
 marriage

00:41:26.440 --> 00:41:27.900
 to be

00:41:27.900 --> 00:41:28.640
 reflective

00:41:28.640 --> 00:41:30.640
 of

00:41:30.640 --> 00:41:31.100
 someone

00:41:31.100 --> 00:41:33.640
 he

00:41:33.640 --> 00:41:34.020
 calls

00:41:34.020 --> 00:41:34.680
 wives

00:41:34.680 --> 00:41:36.260
 to be

00:41:36.260 --> 00:41:36.680
 reflective

00:41:36.680 --> 00:41:37.120
 of the

00:41:37.120 --> 00:41:37.540
 church

00:41:37.540 --> 00:41:39.140
 to

00:41:39.140 --> 00:41:39.820
 show

00:41:39.820 --> 00:41:40.660
 the

00:41:40.660 --> 00:41:41.320
 love

00:41:41.320 --> 00:41:42.000
 and the

00:41:42.000 --> 00:41:42.580
 compassion

00:41:42.580 --> 00:41:43.400
 and the

00:41:43.400 --> 00:41:43.900
 honoring

00:41:43.900 --> 00:41:44.620
 nature

00:41:44.620 --> 00:41:44.940
 of

00:41:44.940 --> 00:41:45.220
 the

00:41:45.220 --> 00:41:45.680
 church

00:41:45.680 --> 00:41:47.380
 and

00:41:47.380 --> 00:41:47.660
 within

00:41:47.660 --> 00:41:48.020
 this

00:41:48.020 --> 00:41:48.220
 there

00:41:48.220 --> 00:41:48.380
 are

00:41:48.380 --> 00:41:48.760
 words

00:41:48.760 --> 00:41:49.080
 that

00:41:49.080 --> 00:41:49.680
 appeal

00:41:49.680 --> 00:41:49.880
 to

00:41:49.880 --> 00:41:50.000
 the

00:41:50.000 --> 00:41:50.440
 flesh

00:41:50.440 --> 00:41:52.060
 wives

00:41:52.060 --> 00:41:52.780
 submit

00:41:52.780 --> 00:41:55.780
 and

00:41:55.780 --> 00:41:56.020
 in

00:41:56.020 --> 00:41:56.240
 our

00:41:56.240 --> 00:41:56.620
 flesh

00:41:56.620 --> 00:41:57.020
 when we

00:41:57.020 --> 00:41:57.280
 see

00:41:57.280 --> 00:41:57.620
 this

00:41:57.620 --> 00:41:58.000
 and

00:41:58.000 --> 00:41:58.160
 when

00:41:58.160 --> 00:41:58.340
 we

00:41:58.340 --> 00:41:58.600
 look

00:41:58.600 --> 00:41:58.800
 at

00:41:58.800 --> 00:41:59.000
 the

00:41:59.000 --> 00:41:59.420
 example

00:41:59.420 --> 00:41:59.860
 maybe

00:41:59.860 --> 00:42:00.100
 that

00:42:00.100 --> 00:42:00.280
 you

00:42:00.280 --> 00:42:00.740
 have

00:42:00.740 --> 00:42:02.660
 as

00:42:02.660 --> 00:42:02.820
 a

00:42:02.820 --> 00:42:03.680
 non-godly

00:42:03.680 --> 00:42:04.560
 example

00:42:04.560 --> 00:42:06.380
 the

00:42:06.380 --> 00:42:07.140
 illustration

00:42:07.140 --> 00:42:07.520
 or the

00:42:07.520 --> 00:42:07.880
 call

00:42:07.880 --> 00:42:08.240
 feels

00:42:08.240 --> 00:42:08.600
 weak

00:42:08.600 --> 00:42:10.400
 but

00:42:10.400 --> 00:42:10.560
 the

00:42:10.560 --> 00:42:10.960
 call

00:42:10.960 --> 00:42:11.140
 is

00:42:11.140 --> 00:42:11.360
 not

00:42:11.360 --> 00:42:11.760
 weak

00:42:11.760 --> 00:42:12.700
 the

00:42:12.700 --> 00:42:13.100
 command

00:42:13.100 --> 00:42:13.300
 is

00:42:13.300 --> 00:42:13.560
 not

00:42:13.560 --> 00:42:13.980
 weak

00:42:13.980 --> 00:42:14.840
 because

00:42:14.840 --> 00:42:15.180
 it's

00:42:15.180 --> 00:42:15.360
 in

00:42:15.360 --> 00:42:15.820
 submission

00:42:15.820 --> 00:42:16.460
 not

00:42:16.460 --> 00:42:16.620
 to

00:42:16.620 --> 00:42:16.820
 the

00:42:16.820 --> 00:42:17.040
 men

00:42:17.040 --> 00:42:17.200
 that

00:42:17.200 --> 00:42:17.400
 we

00:42:17.400 --> 00:42:17.760
 see

00:42:17.760 --> 00:42:18.140
 in

00:42:18.140 --> 00:42:18.420
 Matthew

00:42:18.420 --> 00:42:19.000
 5

00:42:19.000 --> 00:42:20.760
 not

00:42:20.760 --> 00:42:20.940
 to

00:42:20.940 --> 00:42:21.120
 the

00:42:21.120 --> 00:42:21.340
 men

00:42:21.340 --> 00:42:21.480
 that

00:42:21.480 --> 00:42:21.640
 we

00:42:21.640 --> 00:42:21.840
 see

00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:21.980
 who

00:42:21.980 --> 00:42:22.160
 don't

00:42:22.160 --> 00:42:22.360
 love

00:42:22.360 --> 00:42:22.520
 the

00:42:22.520 --> 00:42:22.820
 Lord

00:42:22.820 --> 00:42:23.820
 not

00:42:23.820 --> 00:42:23.940
 to

00:42:23.940 --> 00:42:24.060
 the

00:42:24.060 --> 00:42:24.200
 men

00:42:24.200 --> 00:42:24.320
 that

00:42:24.320 --> 00:42:24.440
 we

00:42:24.440 --> 00:42:24.620
 see

00:42:24.620 --> 00:42:24.760
 that

00:42:24.760 --> 00:42:24.920
 are

00:42:24.920 --> 00:42:25.380
 honoring

00:42:25.380 --> 00:42:25.760
 but

00:42:25.760 --> 00:42:25.900
 they

00:42:25.900 --> 00:42:26.040
 said

00:42:26.040 --> 00:42:26.160
 that

00:42:26.160 --> 00:42:26.340
 it's

00:42:26.340 --> 00:42:26.480
 in

00:42:26.480 --> 00:42:26.900
 submission

00:42:26.900 --> 00:42:27.600
 to

00:42:27.600 --> 00:42:28.420
 Christ

00:42:28.420 --> 00:42:28.700
 as

00:42:28.700 --> 00:42:28.840
 the

00:42:28.840 --> 00:42:29.300
 church

00:42:29.300 --> 00:42:29.700
 is

00:42:29.700 --> 00:42:30.100
 to

00:42:30.100 --> 00:42:31.560
 Christ

00:42:31.560 --> 00:42:34.040
 and

00:42:34.040 --> 00:42:34.160
 then

00:42:34.160 --> 00:42:34.300
 the

00:42:34.300 --> 00:42:34.680
 call

00:42:34.680 --> 00:42:35.040
 within

00:42:35.040 --> 00:42:35.480
 this

00:42:35.480 --> 00:42:37.380
 is

00:42:37.380 --> 00:42:37.600
 that

00:42:37.600 --> 00:42:38.400
 husbands

00:42:38.400 --> 00:42:40.400
 husbands

00:42:40.400 --> 00:42:42.860
 love

00:42:42.860 --> 00:42:44.040
 your

00:42:44.040 --> 00:42:45.380
 wives

00:42:45.380 --> 00:42:46.280
 and

00:42:46.280 --> 00:42:46.480
 then

00:42:46.480 --> 00:42:46.860
 there's

00:42:46.860 --> 00:42:47.100
 an

00:42:47.100 --> 00:42:47.580
 example

00:42:47.580 --> 00:42:48.120
 for it

00:42:48.120 --> 00:42:49.980
 as

00:42:49.980 --> 00:42:50.780
 Christ

00:42:50.780 --> 00:42:52.860
 loved

00:42:52.860 --> 00:42:53.740
 the

00:42:53.740 --> 00:42:54.240
 church

00:42:54.240 --> 00:42:56.500
 and

00:42:56.500 --> 00:42:57.220
 gave

00:42:57.220 --> 00:42:58.600
 himself

00:42:58.600 --> 00:42:59.440
 up

00:42:59.440 --> 00:42:59.960
 for her

00:42:59.960 --> 00:43:01.620
 that

00:43:01.620 --> 00:43:01.900
 he

00:43:01.900 --> 00:43:02.280
 might

00:43:02.280 --> 00:43:03.540
 sanctify

00:43:03.540 --> 00:43:04.040
 her

00:43:04.040 --> 00:43:05.580
 having

00:43:05.580 --> 00:43:06.340
 cleansed

00:43:06.340 --> 00:43:06.600
 her

00:43:06.600 --> 00:43:07.840
 by

00:43:07.840 --> 00:43:08.060
 the

00:43:08.060 --> 00:43:08.520
 washing

00:43:08.520 --> 00:43:09.880
 of

00:43:09.880 --> 00:43:10.320
 water

00:43:10.320 --> 00:43:11.400
 with

00:43:11.400 --> 00:43:11.540
 the

00:43:11.540 --> 00:43:11.860
 word

00:43:11.860 --> 00:43:15.560
 men

00:43:15.560 --> 00:43:17.660
 the

00:43:17.660 --> 00:43:18.320
 conflict

00:43:18.320 --> 00:43:19.820
 in

00:43:19.820 --> 00:43:20.140
 our

00:43:20.140 --> 00:43:20.660
 home

00:43:20.660 --> 00:43:23.660
 oftentimes

00:43:23.660 --> 00:43:25.760
 is

00:43:25.760 --> 00:43:26.280
 not

00:43:26.280 --> 00:43:27.480
 why

00:43:27.480 --> 00:43:27.820
 won't

00:43:27.820 --> 00:43:28.040
 she

00:43:28.040 --> 00:43:28.460
 do

00:43:28.460 --> 00:43:30.860
 the

00:43:30.860 --> 00:43:31.700
 conflict

00:43:31.700 --> 00:43:32.920
 so

00:43:32.920 --> 00:43:33.460
 oftentimes

00:43:33.460 --> 00:43:34.680
 in

00:43:34.680 --> 00:43:34.980
 our

00:43:34.980 --> 00:43:35.620
 home

00:43:35.620 --> 00:43:36.680
 is

00:43:36.680 --> 00:43:37.220
 men

00:43:37.220 --> 00:43:38.620
 why

00:43:38.620 --> 00:43:38.900
 won't

00:43:38.900 --> 00:43:39.080
 we

00:43:39.080 --> 00:43:39.580
 love

00:43:39.580 --> 00:43:42.500
 why

00:43:42.500 --> 00:43:42.720
 won't

00:43:42.720 --> 00:43:42.880
 we

00:43:42.880 --> 00:43:43.520
 love

00:43:43.520 --> 00:43:43.900
 in a

00:43:43.900 --> 00:43:44.060
 way

00:43:44.060 --> 00:43:44.400
 that's

00:43:44.400 --> 00:43:44.740
 beyond

00:43:44.740 --> 00:43:44.960
 our

00:43:44.960 --> 00:43:45.440
 flesh

00:43:45.440 --> 00:43:47.140
 why

00:43:47.140 --> 00:43:47.340
 won't

00:43:47.340 --> 00:43:47.500
 we

00:43:47.500 --> 00:43:47.920
 love

00:43:47.920 --> 00:43:48.260
 in a

00:43:48.260 --> 00:43:48.500
 way

00:43:48.500 --> 00:43:48.840
 that's

00:43:48.840 --> 00:43:49.200
 beyond

00:43:49.200 --> 00:43:49.420
 our

00:43:49.420 --> 00:43:50.160
 selfishness

00:43:50.160 --> 00:43:51.420
 why

00:43:51.420 --> 00:43:51.620
 won't

00:43:51.620 --> 00:43:51.780
 we

00:43:51.780 --> 00:43:52.220
 love

00:43:52.220 --> 00:43:52.400
 in

00:43:52.400 --> 00:43:52.560
 a

00:43:52.560 --> 00:43:52.860
 way

00:43:52.860 --> 00:43:53.840
 that's

00:43:53.840 --> 00:43:54.360
 beyond

00:43:54.360 --> 00:43:54.700
 our

00:43:54.700 --> 00:43:55.240
 self

00:43:55.240 --> 00:43:56.440
 exalting

00:43:56.440 --> 00:43:57.680
 propensities

00:43:57.680 --> 00:43:59.680
 why

00:43:59.680 --> 00:43:59.980
 won't

00:43:59.980 --> 00:44:00.180
 we

00:44:00.180 --> 00:44:00.840
 love

00:44:00.840 --> 00:44:01.640
 in

00:44:01.640 --> 00:44:01.880
 a

00:44:01.880 --> 00:44:02.280
 way

00:44:02.280 --> 00:44:03.160
 that

00:44:03.160 --> 00:44:03.720
 Jesus

00:44:03.720 --> 00:44:05.160
 loves

00:44:05.160 --> 00:44:06.960
 in

00:44:06.960 --> 00:44:07.880
 sacrifice

00:44:07.880 --> 00:44:09.240
 in

00:44:09.240 --> 00:44:10.020
 serving

00:44:10.020 --> 00:44:11.240
 in

00:44:11.240 --> 00:44:11.800
 mercy

00:44:11.800 --> 00:44:12.900
 and

00:44:12.900 --> 00:44:13.060
 in

00:44:13.060 --> 00:44:13.580
 compassion

00:44:13.580 --> 00:44:15.040
 may

00:44:15.040 --> 00:44:15.240
 we

00:44:15.240 --> 00:44:15.940
 love

00:44:15.940 --> 00:44:16.780
 the

00:44:16.780 --> 00:44:17.200
 way

00:44:17.200 --> 00:44:17.920
 that

00:44:17.920 --> 00:44:18.200
 God

00:44:18.200 --> 00:44:18.340
 has

00:44:18.340 --> 00:44:18.560
 called

00:44:18.560 --> 00:44:18.720
 us

00:44:18.720 --> 00:44:18.940
 to

00:44:18.940 --> 00:44:20.380
 and

00:44:20.380 --> 00:44:20.560
 that

00:44:20.560 --> 00:44:20.740
 in

00:44:20.740 --> 00:44:21.120
 this

00:44:21.120 --> 00:44:23.000
 verse

00:44:23.000 --> 00:44:23.500
 32

00:44:23.500 --> 00:44:25.920
 this

00:44:25.920 --> 00:44:26.440
 mystery

00:44:26.440 --> 00:44:26.740
 is

00:44:26.740 --> 00:44:27.380
 profound

00:44:27.380 --> 00:44:29.600
 and

00:44:29.600 --> 00:44:29.840
 I'm

00:44:29.840 --> 00:44:30.280
 saying

00:44:30.280 --> 00:44:30.520
 that

00:44:30.520 --> 00:44:30.680
 it

00:44:30.680 --> 00:44:31.160
 refers

00:44:31.160 --> 00:44:32.600
 to

00:44:32.600 --> 00:44:33.120
 Christ

00:44:33.120 --> 00:44:34.220
 in

00:44:34.220 --> 00:44:34.360
 the

00:44:34.360 --> 00:44:34.740
 church

00:44:34.740 --> 00:44:36.300
 so

00:44:36.300 --> 00:44:36.580
 that

00:44:36.580 --> 00:44:36.800
 when

00:44:36.800 --> 00:44:37.060
 the

00:44:37.060 --> 00:44:37.440
 world

00:44:37.440 --> 00:44:38.080
 sees

00:44:38.080 --> 00:44:39.600
 the

00:44:39.600 --> 00:44:40.080
 testimony

00:44:40.080 --> 00:44:40.500
 of

00:44:40.500 --> 00:44:40.620
 your

00:44:40.620 --> 00:44:41.020
 life

00:44:41.020 --> 00:44:43.080
 in

00:44:43.080 --> 00:44:43.700
 marriage

00:44:43.700 --> 00:44:45.100
 what

00:44:45.100 --> 00:44:45.320
 they

00:44:45.320 --> 00:44:45.700
 see

00:44:45.700 --> 00:44:46.120
 is

00:44:46.120 --> 00:44:47.780
 this

00:44:47.780 --> 00:44:47.940
 is

00:44:47.940 --> 00:44:48.120
 what

00:44:48.120 --> 00:44:48.280
 it

00:44:48.280 --> 00:44:48.560
 means

00:44:48.560 --> 00:44:48.760
 to

00:44:48.760 --> 00:44:48.920
 see

00:44:48.920 --> 00:44:49.080
 the

00:44:49.080 --> 00:44:49.240
 love

00:44:49.240 --> 00:44:49.380
 of

00:44:49.380 --> 00:44:49.780
 Christ

00:44:49.780 --> 00:44:51.180
 and

00:44:51.180 --> 00:44:51.380
 this

00:44:51.380 --> 00:44:51.520
 is

00:44:51.520 --> 00:44:51.660
 what

00:44:51.660 --> 00:44:51.780
 it

00:44:51.780 --> 00:44:51.960
 means

00:44:51.960 --> 00:44:52.120
 to

00:44:52.120 --> 00:44:52.240
 see

00:44:52.240 --> 00:44:52.420
 the

00:44:52.420 --> 00:44:52.580
 love

00:44:52.580 --> 00:44:52.700
 of

00:44:52.700 --> 00:44:52.820
 the

00:44:52.820 --> 00:44:53.180
 church

00:44:53.180 --> 00:44:54.600
 that

00:44:54.600 --> 00:44:55.160
 God

00:44:55.160 --> 00:44:56.360
 can

00:44:56.360 --> 00:44:56.600
 take

00:44:56.600 --> 00:44:56.820
 two

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 people

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 broken

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 with

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 baggage

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 can

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 save

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 them

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 can

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 set

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 them

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 free

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 and

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 then

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 can

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 call

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 them

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 into

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 a

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 unity

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 that

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 reflects

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 his

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 goodness

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 and

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 his

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 nature

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 I'm

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 going to

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 ask

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 that

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 if

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 the

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 worship

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 team

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 and

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 the

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 prayer

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 team

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 would

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 go

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 ahead

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 and

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 get

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 in

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 place

00:45:20.780 --> 00:45:22.640
 my

00:45:22.640 --> 00:45:23.040
 message

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 my

00:45:23.380 --> 00:45:23.960
 challenge

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 our

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 challenge

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 today

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 is

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 this

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 what

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 is

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 not

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 our

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 step

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 out

00:45:31.940 --> 00:45:34.040
 what

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 is

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 not

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 our

00:45:34.680 --> 00:45:35.060
 excuse

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 of

00:45:35.260 --> 00:45:35.440
 how

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 we

00:45:35.620 --> 00:45:35.760
 can

00:45:35.760 --> 00:45:35.940
 get

00:45:35.940 --> 00:45:36.280
 out

00:45:36.280 --> 00:45:38.040
 but

00:45:38.040 --> 00:45:38.320
 what

00:45:38.320 --> 00:45:38.500
 is

00:45:38.500 --> 00:45:38.940
 God's

00:45:38.940 --> 00:45:39.480
 challenge

00:45:39.480 --> 00:45:39.740
 in

00:45:39.740 --> 00:45:39.980
 our

00:45:39.980 --> 00:45:40.440
 life

00:45:40.440 --> 00:45:41.240
 to

00:45:41.240 --> 00:45:41.480
 dig

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 in

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 to

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 surrender

00:45:44.020 --> 00:45:45.520
 to

00:45:45.520 --> 00:45:46.080
 love

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 to

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 serve

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 to

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 seek

00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:49.880
 to

00:45:49.880 --> 00:45:50.740
 glorify

00:45:50.740 --> 00:45:51.440
 and

00:45:51.440 --> 00:45:51.840
 honor

00:45:51.840 --> 00:45:52.100
 in

00:45:52.100 --> 00:45:52.400
 every

00:45:52.400 --> 00:45:52.700
 way

00:45:52.700 --> 00:45:54.300
 by

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 understanding

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 God's

00:45:55.380 --> 00:45:55.800
 design

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 by

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 understanding

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 God's

00:45:58.280 --> 00:45:59.160
 purpose

00:45:59.160 --> 00:46:01.520
 and

00:46:01.520 --> 00:46:01.700
 by

00:46:01.700 --> 00:46:02.040
 living

00:46:02.040 --> 00:46:02.420
 out

00:46:02.420 --> 00:46:03.800
 the

00:46:03.800 --> 00:46:04.140
 holy

00:46:04.140 --> 00:46:04.600
 picture

00:46:04.600 --> 00:46:04.900
 of

00:46:04.900 --> 00:46:05.320
 marriage

00:46:05.320 --> 00:46:06.720
 of

00:46:06.720 --> 00:46:06.880
 what

00:46:06.880 --> 00:46:07.200
 God's

00:46:07.200 --> 00:46:07.400
 called

00:46:07.400 --> 00:46:07.540
 us

00:46:07.540 --> 00:46:07.720
 to

00:46:07.720 --> 00:46:09.340
 would

00:46:09.340 --> 00:46:09.420
 you

00:46:09.420 --> 00:46:09.540
 pray

00:46:09.540 --> 00:46:09.700
 with

00:46:09.700 --> 00:46:10.360
 me

00:46:10.360 --> 00:46:12.540
 God

00:46:12.540 --> 00:46:12.680
 we

00:46:12.680 --> 00:46:12.920
 come

00:46:12.920 --> 00:46:13.060
 to

00:46:13.060 --> 00:46:13.200
 you

00:46:13.200 --> 00:46:13.580
 today

00:46:13.580 --> 00:46:17.460
 we're

00:46:17.460 --> 00:46:17.820
 thanking

00:46:17.820 --> 00:46:18.140
 you

00:46:18.140 --> 00:46:19.540
 for

00:46:19.540 --> 00:46:19.760
 the

00:46:19.760 --> 00:46:20.140
 beauty

00:46:20.140 --> 00:46:20.920
 of

00:46:20.920 --> 00:46:21.060
 your

00:46:21.060 --> 00:46:21.340
 word

00:46:21.340 --> 00:46:23.860
 but

00:46:23.860 --> 00:46:24.300
 Jesus

00:46:24.300 --> 00:46:29.060
 you

00:46:29.060 --> 00:46:29.560
 challenge

00:46:29.560 --> 00:46:29.980
 us

00:46:29.980 --> 00:46:31.940
 you

00:46:31.940 --> 00:46:32.360
 call

00:46:32.360 --> 00:46:32.720
 us

00:46:32.720 --> 00:46:34.440
 to

00:46:34.440 --> 00:46:34.620
 be

00:46:34.620 --> 00:46:35.180
 reflective

00:46:35.180 --> 00:46:35.500
 of

00:46:35.500 --> 00:46:35.720
 you

00:46:35.720 --> 00:46:37.120
 in

00:46:37.120 --> 00:46:37.560
 every

00:46:37.560 --> 00:46:37.960
 way

00:46:37.960 --> 00:46:39.380
 in

00:46:39.380 --> 00:46:39.560
 our

00:46:39.560 --> 00:46:39.940
 life

00:46:39.940 --> 00:46:42.400
 God

00:46:42.400 --> 00:46:42.540
 I

00:46:42.540 --> 00:46:42.800
 pray

00:46:42.800 --> 00:46:43.000
 that

00:46:43.000 --> 00:46:43.180
 that

00:46:43.180 --> 00:46:43.340
 would

00:46:43.340 --> 00:46:43.800
 ring

00:46:43.800 --> 00:46:45.440
 true

00:46:45.440 --> 00:46:46.860
 in

00:46:46.860 --> 00:46:47.060
 who

00:46:47.060 --> 00:46:47.280
 we

00:46:47.280 --> 00:46:47.560
 are

00:46:47.560 --> 00:46:47.800
 as

00:46:47.800 --> 00:46:48.460
 individuals

00:46:48.460 --> 00:46:51.080
 Lord

00:46:51.080 --> 00:46:51.240
 but

00:46:51.240 --> 00:46:51.560
 also

00:46:51.560 --> 00:46:51.800
 who

00:46:51.800 --> 00:46:51.980
 we

00:46:51.980 --> 00:46:52.180
 are

00:46:52.180 --> 00:46:52.360
 as

00:46:52.360 --> 00:46:52.820
 families

00:46:52.820 --> 00:46:55.700
 that

00:46:55.700 --> 00:46:55.860
 the

00:46:55.860 --> 00:46:56.200
 markings

00:46:56.200 --> 00:46:56.460
 of

00:46:56.460 --> 00:46:56.580
 our

00:46:56.580 --> 00:46:57.000
 home

00:46:57.000 --> 00:46:58.760
 the

00:46:58.760 --> 00:46:59.100
 markings

00:46:59.100 --> 00:46:59.340
 of

00:46:59.340 --> 00:46:59.460
 our

00:46:59.460 --> 00:46:59.920
 life

00:46:59.920 --> 00:47:02.180
 would

00:47:02.180 --> 00:47:02.280
 be

00:47:02.280 --> 00:47:02.460
 the

00:47:02.460 --> 00:47:02.840
 call

00:47:02.840 --> 00:47:03.080
 to

00:47:03.080 --> 00:47:03.340
 honor

00:47:03.340 --> 00:47:03.880
 Christ

00:47:03.880 --> 00:47:05.700
 and

00:47:05.700 --> 00:47:05.820
 the

00:47:05.820 --> 00:47:06.260
 passionate

00:47:06.260 --> 00:47:06.660
 pursuit

00:47:06.660 --> 00:47:06.820
 of

00:47:06.820 --> 00:47:07.040
 him

00:47:07.040 --> 00:47:09.960
 God

00:47:09.960 --> 00:47:10.100
 where

00:47:10.100 --> 00:47:10.260
 we

00:47:10.260 --> 00:47:10.400
 have

00:47:10.400 --> 00:47:10.700
 fallen

00:47:10.700 --> 00:47:11.200
 short

00:47:11.200 --> 00:47:13.060
 whether

00:47:13.060 --> 00:47:13.360
 that's

00:47:13.360 --> 00:47:13.540
 through

00:47:13.540 --> 00:47:14.080
 divorce

00:47:14.080 --> 00:47:15.700
 whether

00:47:15.700 --> 00:47:16.000
 that's

00:47:16.000 --> 00:47:16.160
 through

00:47:16.160 --> 00:47:16.840
 selfishness

00:47:16.840 --> 00:47:17.100
 in our

00:47:17.100 --> 00:47:17.560
 marriage

00:47:17.560 --> 00:47:19.520
 whether

00:47:19.520 --> 00:47:19.780
 it's

00:47:19.780 --> 00:47:20.720
 found in

00:47:20.720 --> 00:47:21.560
 an unwillingness

00:47:21.560 --> 00:47:22.120
 of creating

00:47:22.120 --> 00:47:22.700
 the culture

00:47:22.700 --> 00:47:23.680
 of discipleship

00:47:23.680 --> 00:47:25.940
 whether

00:47:25.940 --> 00:47:26.200
 it's

00:47:26.200 --> 00:47:26.480
 found

00:47:26.480 --> 00:47:26.820
 in the

00:47:26.820 --> 00:47:27.260
 flesh

00:47:27.260 --> 00:47:28.000
 of

00:47:28.000 --> 00:47:28.140
 our

00:47:28.140 --> 00:47:28.540
 lives

00:47:28.540 --> 00:47:29.880
 God

00:47:29.880 --> 00:47:30.020
 we

00:47:30.020 --> 00:47:30.300
 thank

00:47:30.300 --> 00:47:30.480
 you

00:47:30.480 --> 00:47:31.620
 that

00:47:31.620 --> 00:47:31.780
 you

00:47:31.780 --> 00:47:32.140
 call

00:47:32.140 --> 00:47:32.480
 us

00:47:32.480 --> 00:47:34.720
 to

00:47:34.720 --> 00:47:34.900
 the

00:47:34.900 --> 00:47:35.160
 sweet

00:47:35.160 --> 00:47:35.580
 place

00:47:35.580 --> 00:47:35.820
 of

00:47:35.820 --> 00:47:36.360
 repentance

00:47:36.360 --> 00:47:38.000
 and

00:47:38.000 --> 00:47:38.140
 that

00:47:38.140 --> 00:47:38.440
 God

00:47:38.440 --> 00:47:38.600
 you

00:47:38.600 --> 00:47:38.840
 give

00:47:38.840 --> 00:47:39.060
 us

00:47:39.060 --> 00:47:39.300
 your

00:47:39.300 --> 00:47:39.760
 forgiveness

00:47:39.760 --> 00:47:41.280
 and

00:47:41.280 --> 00:47:41.640
 mercy

00:47:41.640 --> 00:47:44.560
 God

00:47:44.560 --> 00:47:44.700
 may

00:47:44.700 --> 00:47:44.840
 we

00:47:44.840 --> 00:47:45.360
 respond

00:47:45.360 --> 00:47:45.620
 to

00:47:45.620 --> 00:47:45.880
 you

00:47:45.880 --> 00:47:47.160
 in a

00:47:47.160 --> 00:47:47.300
 way

00:47:47.300 --> 00:47:47.460
 that

00:47:47.460 --> 00:47:47.560
 will

00:47:47.560 --> 00:47:47.700
 bring

00:47:47.700 --> 00:47:48.200
 glory

00:47:48.200 --> 00:47:49.220
 and

00:47:49.220 --> 00:47:49.460
 honor

00:47:49.460 --> 00:47:49.660
 to

00:47:49.660 --> 00:47:49.800
 your

00:47:49.800 --> 00:47:50.080
 name

00:47:50.080 --> 00:47:51.300
 and

00:47:51.300 --> 00:47:51.400
 it's

00:47:51.400 --> 00:47:51.520
 in

00:47:51.520 --> 00:47:51.740
 Jesus

00:47:51.740 --> 00:47:51.840
 and

00:47:51.840 --> 00:47:51.940
 we

00:47:51.940 --> 00:47:52.200
 pray

00:47:52.200 --> 00:47:53.160
 Amen

00:47:53.160 --> 00:47:55.920
 that's

00:47:55.920 --> 00:47:56.060
 it

00:47:56.060 --> 00:47:56.220
 for

00:47:56.220 --> 00:47:56.420
 this

00:47:56.420 --> 00:47:56.780
 week's

00:47:56.780 --> 00:47:57.200
 message

00:47:57.200 --> 00:47:57.820
 be

00:47:57.820 --> 00:47:57.980
 sure

00:47:57.980 --> 00:47:58.120
 to

00:47:58.120 --> 00:47:58.300
 check

00:47:58.300 --> 00:47:58.540
 back

00:47:58.540 --> 00:47:58.900
 next

00:47:58.900 --> 00:47:59.140
 week

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 for

00:47:59.300 --> 00:47:59.420
 a

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 new

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 episode

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 and

00:48:00.660 --> 00:48:00.760
 in

00:48:00.760 --> 00:48:00.860
 the

00:48:00.860 --> 00:48:01.180
 meantime

00:48:01.180 --> 00:48:01.660
 you

00:48:01.660 --> 00:48:01.820
 can

00:48:01.820 --> 00:48:02.040
 visit

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 us

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 at

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