1 00:00:00,910 --> 00:00:02,220 What is going on guys? 2 00:00:02,220 --> 00:00:08,090 Welcome back to the process of becoming my name is Dino and I'm Josh and we are back 3 00:00:08,090 --> 00:00:09,670 again guys and we're excited. 4 00:00:09,670 --> 00:00:12,870 We are back in full swing of the rotation of things. 5 00:00:12,870 --> 00:00:16,250 We're going to be hitting this every single week like we said we were and we 6 00:00:16,250 --> 00:00:20,410 honestly have a special one for you guys today and we don't even know what it is 7 00:00:20,410 --> 00:00:20,550 yet. 8 00:00:20,550 --> 00:00:21,710 So that's the exciting part. 9 00:00:21,710 --> 00:00:22,550 You ready Josh? 10 00:00:22,550 --> 00:00:24,690 Yeah, I'm doing awesome man. 11 00:00:24,850 --> 00:00:27,970 Like the cool thing about this guys is very rarely do we have like a topic where 12 00:00:27,970 --> 00:00:28,078 we're like. 13 00:00:28,078 --> 00:00:29,328 like, hey, let's just touch on this. 14 00:00:29,328 --> 00:00:31,258 I mean, we started out that way just for structure. 15 00:00:31,258 --> 00:00:34,518 But I think the beautiful thing about the relationship, you know, and I have is we 16 00:00:34,518 --> 00:00:37,788 can just stop down midday and just have a really in depth, awesome discussion. 17 00:00:37,788 --> 00:00:39,958 So you're gonna get a little bit of that today. 18 00:00:39,958 --> 00:00:41,758 yeah, I think you're spot on with that, dude. 19 00:00:41,758 --> 00:00:43,018 Like I've even thought about this. 20 00:00:43,018 --> 00:00:45,288 It's like how many times that we just showed up to the room. 21 00:00:45,288 --> 00:00:47,338 We're like, let's just just swing it. 22 00:00:47,338 --> 00:00:49,058 And it's not like we plan this out throughout the week. 23 00:00:49,058 --> 00:00:52,958 But that is something that I think is is so valuable, bro. 24 00:00:52,958 --> 00:00:54,708 Like I think about this and obviously our relationship. 25 00:00:54,708 --> 00:00:57,742 But like, that's why I appreciate you so much is because 26 00:00:57,742 --> 00:01:01,282 It's almost like we don't really have to talk and we just kind of know where we're 27 00:01:01,282 --> 00:01:02,102 picking up. 28 00:01:02,102 --> 00:01:06,082 And from the sounds of it, it sounds like you guys are enjoying where we're kind of 29 00:01:06,082 --> 00:01:07,342 going with the direction of all these things. 30 00:01:07,342 --> 00:01:12,142 So I'm excited to dive in and you know, we're going to see where this rides. 31 00:01:12,442 --> 00:01:15,542 I think this is a really good point to make though. 32 00:01:15,542 --> 00:01:18,582 It's like what you put in is what comes out. 33 00:01:18,582 --> 00:01:19,282 You know what I mean? 34 00:01:19,282 --> 00:01:21,870 So it's like the whole energy conversation that we've had. 35 00:01:21,870 --> 00:01:24,380 It's the personal development story that we talk about all the time. 36 00:01:24,380 --> 00:01:27,690 And the value of that is like, when you put good things in, that's what you get 37 00:01:27,690 --> 00:01:29,580 out and you don't get what you want. 38 00:01:29,580 --> 00:01:30,730 You get what you are. 39 00:01:30,730 --> 00:01:34,550 So Dino and I, the reason that we're able to bring what you guys are perceiving as 40 00:01:34,550 --> 00:01:37,290 valuable is because we've just been putting that stuff into ourselves for a 41 00:01:37,290 --> 00:01:38,109 long period of time. 42 00:01:38,109 --> 00:01:41,930 And dude, it's a, it, I've kind of been thinking about this, but, and I don't know 43 00:01:41,930 --> 00:01:45,790 when's the last time we really touched on, you know, the power of energy and how it 44 00:01:45,790 --> 00:01:46,230 works. 45 00:01:46,230 --> 00:01:49,850 But it's like, if you think about it, dude, just to the basics, you know, we're 46 00:01:49,850 --> 00:01:51,130 all created out of atoms, right? 47 00:01:51,130 --> 00:01:51,854 Like, 48 00:01:51,854 --> 00:01:58,174 And if you guys really think about it, we know 0 .001 % of what an atom has and we 49 00:01:58,174 --> 00:01:59,044 can't even see it, right? 50 00:01:59,044 --> 00:02:00,054 Well, you can't even go further. 51 00:02:00,054 --> 00:02:02,494 They actually isolated down further to what's called a quark. 52 00:02:02,494 --> 00:02:03,224 Really? 53 00:02:03,224 --> 00:02:03,854 Yep. 54 00:02:03,854 --> 00:02:07,874 And then they isolated that down further to what it's basically a sound wave is the 55 00:02:07,874 --> 00:02:09,654 smallest thing that makes us up. 56 00:02:09,654 --> 00:02:13,554 And the crazy part about that is it's you can't either create or essentially create 57 00:02:13,554 --> 00:02:14,334 or destroy it. 58 00:02:14,334 --> 00:02:17,794 But the only way it interacts is through vibrations and frequencies. 59 00:02:17,794 --> 00:02:21,198 And dude, it's almost like we talk about like the gut feeling. 60 00:02:21,198 --> 00:02:21,448 Right? 61 00:02:21,448 --> 00:02:24,538 It's like when you sense something, how often is it right? 62 00:02:24,538 --> 00:02:27,948 Usually 99 % of the time, but it's because of that frequency, right? 63 00:02:27,948 --> 00:02:31,918 So it's like, dude, literally the world operates on that energy and frequency. 64 00:02:31,918 --> 00:02:34,698 And to your point, what you put out is what you attract. 65 00:02:34,698 --> 00:02:34,818 Right? 66 00:02:34,818 --> 00:02:36,268 And it's not like opposites attract. 67 00:02:36,268 --> 00:02:39,878 It's not, you know, that old saying kind of goes out the window, but at the end of 68 00:02:39,878 --> 00:02:43,038 the day, it's like, dude, the more that you put in, even if you don't know exactly 69 00:02:43,038 --> 00:02:45,518 how just trying is the difference, right? 70 00:02:45,518 --> 00:02:48,798 It's like, Hey, you might not know how to help your friend, but just being there for 71 00:02:48,798 --> 00:02:50,382 him and having the right intent. 72 00:02:50,382 --> 00:02:54,362 Intent is like the biggest, I think it's like the world's currency of frequency to 73 00:02:54,362 --> 00:02:55,862 create the life that you want. 74 00:02:55,862 --> 00:02:56,062 Right? 75 00:02:56,062 --> 00:02:57,282 Like why do you do what you do? 76 00:02:57,282 --> 00:02:58,522 Yeah, I agree. 77 00:02:58,522 --> 00:02:58,852 Yeah. 78 00:02:58,852 --> 00:03:01,482 Something we were just talking about the other day from like a leadership 79 00:03:01,482 --> 00:03:06,441 standpoint is I think it might've been you and I that were talking about it. 80 00:03:06,441 --> 00:03:06,692 Yeah. 81 00:03:06,692 --> 00:03:07,022 Yeah. 82 00:03:07,022 --> 00:03:07,062 Yeah. 83 00:03:07,062 --> 00:03:07,202 Yeah. 84 00:03:07,202 --> 00:03:11,222 We were talking about like, and I said, well, what precede proceeds that intent. 85 00:03:11,222 --> 00:03:11,522 Yup. 86 00:03:11,522 --> 00:03:12,742 That was literally yesterday, by the way. 87 00:03:12,742 --> 00:03:13,022 Yeah. 88 00:03:13,022 --> 00:03:14,002 And you already forgot. 89 00:03:14,002 --> 00:03:16,490 I didn't sleep very well. 90 00:03:16,490 --> 00:03:20,410 yeah, I woke up middle of night as like, I felt like I it's I've been in this pattern 91 00:03:20,410 --> 00:03:24,570 of sleep where like I go to bed like whatever time usually it's around 11 1130 92 00:03:24,570 --> 00:03:27,840 and I woke up, I went to bed last night a little bit earlier. 93 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:33,390 It was around 1030 and I woke up at like one but I felt like I slept for like 55 94 00:03:33,390 --> 00:03:34,090 hours. 95 00:03:34,090 --> 00:03:37,500 I was like wide awake and I was like, man, what is going on here? 96 00:03:37,500 --> 00:03:39,080 So I don't know what it is. 97 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:40,590 Does that happen often to you? 98 00:03:40,590 --> 00:03:45,006 Hasn't for a long time but recently it has been so it's really bizarre to 99 00:03:45,006 --> 00:03:48,766 Anytime I wake up in the middle of the night, I like the first thing I do is I 100 00:03:48,766 --> 00:03:49,136 pray. 101 00:03:49,136 --> 00:03:53,246 And it's not like an automatic thing, but I'm like, all right, there might be a 102 00:03:53,246 --> 00:03:54,116 reason why I'm awake. 103 00:03:54,116 --> 00:03:58,896 And the reason that that stems from is I had a couple of buddies that were very, 104 00:03:58,896 --> 00:04:00,316 very, very tied into energy. 105 00:04:00,316 --> 00:04:02,526 And they're they're very religious guys, spiritual guys. 106 00:04:02,526 --> 00:04:07,126 And they both woke up simultaneously at the exact same time in the middle of the 107 00:04:07,126 --> 00:04:07,276 night. 108 00:04:07,276 --> 00:04:09,422 And they didn't find this out until a little bit later. 109 00:04:09,422 --> 00:04:13,342 But they both woke up simultaneously and one of them actually started praying in 110 00:04:13,342 --> 00:04:16,342 tongues like automatically and that's not something that he ever was able to do. 111 00:04:16,342 --> 00:04:18,462 The other guy just felt like this urge to pray. 112 00:04:18,462 --> 00:04:21,782 Well, they came to find out the next morning when they woke up that their buddy 113 00:04:21,782 --> 00:04:24,522 was traveling back from a conference or something like that in the middle of night 114 00:04:24,522 --> 00:04:27,702 and he got hit head, he was hit head on it by a semi. 115 00:04:27,702 --> 00:04:29,942 Bro, I legitimately have goosebumps. 116 00:04:29,942 --> 00:04:33,722 It was so bad that like when the EMS walked up to the truck, cause there's like 117 00:04:33,722 --> 00:04:36,302 a little S10 pickup truck, they were like, yeah, call the EMS. 118 00:04:36,302 --> 00:04:37,512 There's no, they're called it morgue. 119 00:04:37,512 --> 00:04:38,158 There's no one that. 120 00:04:38,158 --> 00:04:40,338 is living through this accident. 121 00:04:40,998 --> 00:04:45,638 And when they walked up to the vehicle, there was like a capsule around where the 122 00:04:45,638 --> 00:04:46,298 driver's seat was. 123 00:04:46,298 --> 00:04:49,578 And the dude literally walked away without a single scratch on his body. 124 00:04:49,778 --> 00:04:50,338 my God. 125 00:04:50,338 --> 00:04:51,848 And then they found out the next day. 126 00:04:51,848 --> 00:04:53,668 They're like, that was the exact time of the accident. 127 00:04:53,668 --> 00:04:55,598 And that's the exact time that they woke up and prayed. 128 00:04:55,598 --> 00:04:58,618 So any time I wake up in the middle of night, like I think about like, all right, 129 00:04:58,618 --> 00:04:59,838 is there a reason why I'm awake? 130 00:04:59,838 --> 00:05:01,478 Is there something I'm supposed to be doing? 131 00:05:01,478 --> 00:05:02,568 So I just say a little prayer. 132 00:05:02,568 --> 00:05:05,422 And then last night, I got some water, went back to sleep. 133 00:05:05,422 --> 00:05:07,302 Dude, that's wow. 134 00:05:07,302 --> 00:05:08,942 Everything's energy. 135 00:05:08,942 --> 00:05:10,412 Holy cow, man. 136 00:05:10,542 --> 00:05:13,922 I love the fact that you put meaning even to something as simple as that. 137 00:05:13,922 --> 00:05:16,582 Now, obviously you have an experience where it's like, all right, this, this 138 00:05:16,582 --> 00:05:17,922 might make sense. 139 00:05:17,922 --> 00:05:21,582 But how often times do we miss those things in our life where it's like it's 140 00:05:21,582 --> 00:05:24,572 present, but we're like, nah, nah, it can't be this. 141 00:05:24,572 --> 00:05:25,222 It can't be this. 142 00:05:25,222 --> 00:05:27,862 And just taking that little bit of like, Hey, what's the reason for this? 143 00:05:27,862 --> 00:05:31,302 Could there be, and if I don't know which most likely you won't, it's like, Hey, 144 00:05:31,302 --> 00:05:33,562 what if I still at least pray or put good things out? 145 00:05:33,562 --> 00:05:34,798 Dude, it's, 146 00:05:34,798 --> 00:05:35,468 And that's the thing. 147 00:05:35,468 --> 00:05:39,878 It's like, the crazy part about that story is like, it's friends that have saved a 148 00:05:39,878 --> 00:05:40,638 friend, right? 149 00:05:40,638 --> 00:05:43,218 But how often does that happen with people that you don't know? 150 00:05:43,218 --> 00:05:45,098 And that's really where my mind went with this dude. 151 00:05:45,098 --> 00:05:49,998 It's like, you know, putting good out things, good, putting out good things into 152 00:05:49,998 --> 00:05:53,418 the world, regardless of if you actually see it live, right? 153 00:05:53,418 --> 00:05:56,578 Because in the end, it might be working somewhere, but you don't know. 154 00:05:56,578 --> 00:05:59,798 It's kind of like the conversation we had about like, you know, opening the door for 155 00:05:59,798 --> 00:06:00,528 someone, right? 156 00:06:00,528 --> 00:06:01,134 Like in, 157 00:06:01,134 --> 00:06:04,954 In that moment, it might seem like the smallest thing, they're gonna say thank 158 00:06:04,954 --> 00:06:06,854 you, you're gonna leave, you're not gonna think about anything. 159 00:06:06,854 --> 00:06:10,074 But what if that trickle down to that person was like, damn, I was having a 160 00:06:10,074 --> 00:06:13,074 rough day, dude, okay, I have hope in people, that was awesome that that dude 161 00:06:13,074 --> 00:06:15,514 opened the door, I'm gonna open the door for the next person, and then the next 162 00:06:15,514 --> 00:06:16,124 person, next person. 163 00:06:16,124 --> 00:06:19,774 And now all those people are having some kind of influential part in their family 164 00:06:19,774 --> 00:06:23,714 and their work environment in themselves, just because of a little bit of goodness 165 00:06:23,714 --> 00:06:27,934 or a little bit of someone being nice to them or whatever it is, but that energy. 166 00:06:27,934 --> 00:06:29,934 Dude, that is the difference and that's how I think. 167 00:06:29,934 --> 00:06:33,494 in life, if we can control that piece and really look for ways that we can 168 00:06:33,494 --> 00:06:36,254 essentially add value, put good things out every chance that we get. 169 00:06:36,254 --> 00:06:38,274 I think that's such a big fucking key, man. 170 00:06:38,274 --> 00:06:38,674 Yeah. 171 00:06:38,674 --> 00:06:42,594 And I think too, it's a core value that we have here at First Form, it's be selfless. 172 00:06:42,594 --> 00:06:46,094 And I was just thinking through that as you were saying, and we talked on prior 173 00:06:46,094 --> 00:06:51,574 episodes about like moments and like things and actions that really started 174 00:06:51,574 --> 00:06:53,254 changing our own trajectory in life. 175 00:06:53,254 --> 00:06:56,434 And honestly, like thinking back on it now, like one of the things that made the 176 00:06:56,434 --> 00:06:58,062 biggest impact in my life was 177 00:06:58,062 --> 00:07:00,442 stop, I just stopped thinking about myself, right? 178 00:07:00,442 --> 00:07:03,992 So in that situation, it's easy to wake up in the middle of night and be like, man, 179 00:07:03,992 --> 00:07:07,582 I'm awake, you know, screw this, why am I awake, kind of get upset about it and 180 00:07:07,582 --> 00:07:08,432 think about me. 181 00:07:08,432 --> 00:07:12,082 But it's like, no, like, there could be another reason for it outside of me, 182 00:07:12,082 --> 00:07:15,472 right, even to the point of smiling at somebody at Walmart, right? 183 00:07:15,472 --> 00:07:18,882 Or having every time we go to Walmart to grocery shop, there's a greeter in there. 184 00:07:18,882 --> 00:07:19,502 He's an old guy. 185 00:07:19,502 --> 00:07:21,842 And there's, you know, you know how the greeters are. 186 00:07:21,842 --> 00:07:25,774 And it's just like stopping and acknowledging him. 187 00:07:25,774 --> 00:07:26,234 Right? 188 00:07:26,234 --> 00:07:29,154 Instead of just looking down and blowing by him like everybody else does. 189 00:07:29,154 --> 00:07:32,754 So it's like these little moments in life, when you start living outside yourself and 190 00:07:32,754 --> 00:07:36,974 think about other people and do things for other people instead of yourself, life 191 00:07:36,974 --> 00:07:37,964 gets a hell of a lot better. 192 00:07:37,964 --> 00:07:40,734 Dude, it's the basic law of being a good human being. 193 00:07:40,734 --> 00:07:42,234 It's like, bro, everyone is a human. 194 00:07:42,234 --> 00:07:44,014 Everyone goes through their own things. 195 00:07:44,014 --> 00:07:47,754 And I think this is a conversation about judging, you know, where like, where this 196 00:07:47,754 --> 00:07:48,844 is where my mind goes with this. 197 00:07:48,844 --> 00:07:53,848 It's like, I think oftentimes we perceive people a certain way or we judge so fast. 198 00:07:53,966 --> 00:07:55,506 And we never take the time. 199 00:07:55,506 --> 00:08:00,066 It's like, do we base literally a two second, five maybe minute view of someone 200 00:08:00,066 --> 00:08:00,536 right there. 201 00:08:00,536 --> 00:08:02,025 And we're like, yep, that's this person. 202 00:08:02,025 --> 00:08:04,346 It's like, bro, that person is 35 years old. 203 00:08:04,346 --> 00:08:05,656 They've lived 35 years. 204 00:08:05,656 --> 00:08:09,606 You know how many 35 years of experience you go through to get to this and like 205 00:08:09,606 --> 00:08:11,526 judging them based on your five minutes. 206 00:08:11,526 --> 00:08:15,446 But I think it's like when you can remove that piece, man, life gets better. 207 00:08:15,446 --> 00:08:18,366 And life changes for you when you make it about other people. 208 00:08:18,366 --> 00:08:18,666 Yeah. 209 00:08:18,666 --> 00:08:20,256 And it's kind of crazy how it works, right? 210 00:08:20,256 --> 00:08:21,902 It's like if you make it about you. 211 00:08:21,902 --> 00:08:25,362 It eventually comes back to you, but only if you don't expect it to come back to 212 00:08:25,362 --> 00:08:25,742 you. 213 00:08:25,742 --> 00:08:27,182 It's crazy, man. 214 00:08:27,182 --> 00:08:28,942 But it's doing the right thing in my opinion. 215 00:08:28,942 --> 00:08:29,822 Law of reciprocity. 216 00:08:29,822 --> 00:08:30,912 Law of reciprocity. 217 00:08:30,912 --> 00:08:33,482 So there's actually a story to that with judgment. 218 00:08:33,482 --> 00:08:37,542 I think I was maybe like seven or eight years old and I was pretty blessed growing 219 00:08:37,542 --> 00:08:37,812 up. 220 00:08:37,812 --> 00:08:41,702 I grew up very, I'll just say I was pretty poor, right? 221 00:08:41,702 --> 00:08:43,602 We didn't have a whole lot of money, didn't have a lot of things. 222 00:08:43,602 --> 00:08:46,002 But my grandfather was a huge blessing and he had money. 223 00:08:46,002 --> 00:08:48,582 So every year he would take us to school shopping to make sure we had clothes and 224 00:08:48,582 --> 00:08:49,162 stuff. 225 00:08:49,162 --> 00:08:51,182 And we were going to the mall one time. 226 00:08:51,182 --> 00:08:54,502 And I always hated going grocery shopping with him, not grocery shopping, but the 227 00:08:54,502 --> 00:08:55,342 clothes shopping with him. 228 00:08:55,342 --> 00:08:58,312 I loved it, but I hated it because he was like so old school. 229 00:08:58,312 --> 00:09:00,202 So he would be like, why don't you try these on? 230 00:09:00,202 --> 00:09:01,802 And it was like a pair of corduroys. 231 00:09:01,802 --> 00:09:02,862 And I'm like, pop up. 232 00:09:02,862 --> 00:09:04,482 Like, that's not cool, man. 233 00:09:04,482 --> 00:09:07,471 But he was very gracious and he made sure he obviously took care of me. 234 00:09:07,471 --> 00:09:11,062 But we were going to the mall one time and there was this dude standing out at like 235 00:09:11,062 --> 00:09:14,262 the middle of the highway, like with all the intersections going by and he was a 236 00:09:14,262 --> 00:09:18,802 homeless guy and just super disheveled looking, had a sign like asking for money. 237 00:09:18,802 --> 00:09:21,294 And I said, pop up, you know, are you going to give him money? 238 00:09:21,294 --> 00:09:23,774 And he just kind of looked at me and said, no. 239 00:09:23,774 --> 00:09:25,664 And my guy, well, I didn't really question it. 240 00:09:25,664 --> 00:09:26,804 But then we were walking through the mall. 241 00:09:26,804 --> 00:09:29,514 He was telling me he's like the guy out there that you asked me if I was going to 242 00:09:29,514 --> 00:09:32,394 give money, the guy's worth hundreds of millions of dollars. 243 00:09:32,534 --> 00:09:35,514 The guy, he went to F and Franklin and Marshall, which is where my grandfather 244 00:09:35,514 --> 00:09:39,134 went to school, which is the most expensive Ivy league school in the entire 245 00:09:39,134 --> 00:09:39,524 country. 246 00:09:39,524 --> 00:09:40,604 It's back where I used to live. 247 00:09:40,604 --> 00:09:44,494 And this guy went there, started up, I forget what business the guy started. 248 00:09:44,494 --> 00:09:47,174 Lived an amazing life, just tons of money. 249 00:09:47,174 --> 00:09:48,494 But when his wife died, 250 00:09:48,494 --> 00:09:50,134 He basically lost purpose in life. 251 00:09:50,134 --> 00:09:54,054 So he would go out and panhandle and then take whatever money that he get, he would 252 00:09:54,054 --> 00:09:57,114 earn and just donate it to like whatever organization around needed it. 253 00:09:57,114 --> 00:10:00,234 But that's like, he kind of just went off his rocker and that's like how we spend 254 00:10:00,234 --> 00:10:03,374 his time as like a quote unquote homeless philanthropist. 255 00:10:03,374 --> 00:10:04,473 Whoa. 256 00:10:04,473 --> 00:10:08,714 So like that day forward, like, and it's so weird because fast forward, like I've 257 00:10:08,714 --> 00:10:12,534 always looked at the homeless situation guys, and this is this a lesson in life is 258 00:10:12,534 --> 00:10:16,914 like, God does not judge what that person does with the money that you give them or 259 00:10:16,914 --> 00:10:17,902 the food that you give them. 260 00:10:17,902 --> 00:10:20,102 He judges your intent on giving it to him. 261 00:10:20,102 --> 00:10:23,292 So for a while in life, I was like, this guy's just going to go buy drugs or booze. 262 00:10:23,292 --> 00:10:24,702 I'm not going to do it. 263 00:10:25,122 --> 00:10:26,762 but there was a situation outside of Walmart. 264 00:10:26,762 --> 00:10:30,322 One time Kim and I were stopping in just super quick and it was like, we were in 265 00:10:30,322 --> 00:10:34,742 and out less than five minutes and there was a dude, he had tons of stuff like bags 266 00:10:34,742 --> 00:10:36,442 and just all of his belongings. 267 00:10:36,442 --> 00:10:39,702 And we were like, man, let's see, let's buy this guy some food. 268 00:10:39,702 --> 00:10:43,002 So like we grabbed the rotisserie chicken off of like the little heater by the 269 00:10:43,002 --> 00:10:45,722 registers walked, came back out less than five minutes. 270 00:10:45,722 --> 00:10:46,917 The dude was completely gone. 271 00:10:47,118 --> 00:10:48,898 And like, Kim and I even had this conversation. 272 00:10:48,898 --> 00:10:49,838 We were like, that was super weird. 273 00:10:49,838 --> 00:10:53,178 And we're like, dude, was he like an angel that was kind of testing us? 274 00:10:53,218 --> 00:10:53,878 You know what I mean? 275 00:10:53,878 --> 00:10:56,038 Cause I'm like, there's no way this guy could have been gone that quick. 276 00:10:56,038 --> 00:10:57,288 There was no bus stop nearby. 277 00:10:57,288 --> 00:10:59,498 Like we didn't see him walking with all of his belongings. 278 00:10:59,498 --> 00:11:01,178 He had no cart to transport it. 279 00:11:01,178 --> 00:11:03,888 And the guy was gone every single inch of what he had there. 280 00:11:03,888 --> 00:11:04,798 It was bizarre. 281 00:11:04,798 --> 00:11:06,218 So I was like, maybe that was a test. 282 00:11:06,218 --> 00:11:07,168 I remember you telling me that. 283 00:11:07,168 --> 00:11:08,378 So it was weird. 284 00:11:08,378 --> 00:11:12,918 Why do you think, I guess we, we start to like think about like, should we give this 285 00:11:12,918 --> 00:11:13,478 person money? 286 00:11:13,478 --> 00:11:14,292 Should we do this? 287 00:11:14,292 --> 00:11:14,886 Like, 288 00:11:15,438 --> 00:11:16,808 Cause at the end of the day, like you even said, right? 289 00:11:16,808 --> 00:11:19,128 Like it's not up to you with how that person handles it. 290 00:11:19,128 --> 00:11:20,678 Why do you think we go there? 291 00:11:20,678 --> 00:11:23,058 And that's what we think about instead of like, Hey, what is our intent? 292 00:11:23,058 --> 00:11:28,538 Cause we don't fully understand, the law of attraction and how things work. 293 00:11:28,558 --> 00:11:28,668 Right. 294 00:11:28,668 --> 00:11:33,138 Cause like, again, vibrational frequency is if I'm thinking of like, well, you 295 00:11:33,138 --> 00:11:35,178 know, I don't really have a whole lot of money to give. 296 00:11:35,178 --> 00:11:36,528 Well, guess what? 297 00:11:36,528 --> 00:11:40,258 You're operating out of a place of lack and now your vibrational frequency is low. 298 00:11:40,258 --> 00:11:43,178 But if you freely give, which talks about in the Bible, right? 299 00:11:43,248 --> 00:11:44,494 given it'll be given unto you. 300 00:11:44,494 --> 00:11:46,134 in accordance, blah, blah. 301 00:11:46,134 --> 00:11:50,174 But the idea there is just having the heart to be like, hey, you know, and hit 302 00:11:50,174 --> 00:11:51,114 another story, right? 303 00:11:51,114 --> 00:11:54,994 There was a situation that popped up where this is actually right at the beginning of 304 00:11:54,994 --> 00:11:57,954 when I was learning law of attraction and the visualization loop, like literally 305 00:11:57,954 --> 00:11:58,974 right at the beginning of it. 306 00:11:58,974 --> 00:12:03,314 And there was a situation that popped up and I was asked for money from somebody 307 00:12:03,314 --> 00:12:05,814 and I was like, man, I really don't have it, but I know they need it more. 308 00:12:05,814 --> 00:12:08,084 And it was literally at a time in my life where I didn't have a whole lot of money. 309 00:12:08,084 --> 00:12:10,716 So I think I gave them, it was 500 bucks. 310 00:12:10,862 --> 00:12:12,452 It was like my last $500. 311 00:12:12,452 --> 00:12:16,222 I might have even over directed my account to give it to him and literally a week 312 00:12:16,222 --> 00:12:19,432 later I get a check in the mail for $8 ,000. 313 00:12:19,432 --> 00:12:20,682 I remember you told me this too. 314 00:12:20,682 --> 00:12:24,162 And it was my great my great grandfather that had passed away like three years 315 00:12:24,162 --> 00:12:28,242 prior and then all the trickle down effect of like the VA and all the money whatever 316 00:12:28,242 --> 00:12:32,222 like I just get a check from his inheritance for a grant and I literally 317 00:12:32,222 --> 00:12:35,762 remember stopping when I got that because in the Bible it talks about like you give 318 00:12:35,762 --> 00:12:38,926 and it'll like increase tenfold and I was like 319 00:12:38,926 --> 00:12:40,786 dude, that's more than tenfold, right? 320 00:12:40,786 --> 00:12:43,946 And that was like one of those idiosyncrasies with visualization where I 321 00:12:43,946 --> 00:12:45,756 was like, I gotta keep doing this. 322 00:12:45,756 --> 00:12:48,886 And then also give graciously, not with the expectation of something returning. 323 00:12:48,886 --> 00:12:49,566 Cause that's it. 324 00:12:49,566 --> 00:12:52,506 As soon as you start expecting that dude, that's when you actually don't get it 325 00:12:52,506 --> 00:12:52,736 back. 326 00:12:52,736 --> 00:12:57,146 And I think the whole part with this too, it's not just from a money standpoint 327 00:12:57,146 --> 00:12:58,026 either, right? 328 00:12:58,026 --> 00:13:01,846 Because it's like money, I think is one of the most black and white ways you can see 329 00:13:01,846 --> 00:13:03,534 the tenfold increase, right? 330 00:13:03,534 --> 00:13:06,394 but there's a lot of times that you don't see that 10 -fold increase because it 331 00:13:06,394 --> 00:13:07,474 hasn't happened yet, right? 332 00:13:07,474 --> 00:13:11,174 But it's like through giving time, giving energy, giving compliments, taking care of 333 00:13:11,174 --> 00:13:11,634 people. 334 00:13:11,634 --> 00:13:15,334 There's a lot of those things that also fall into that line of giving that isn't 335 00:13:15,334 --> 00:13:16,374 money necessarily, right? 336 00:13:16,374 --> 00:13:21,054 It's not monetary, but that 10 -fold comes at a time that you might not even realize 337 00:13:21,054 --> 00:13:21,354 it, right? 338 00:13:21,354 --> 00:13:23,994 It can happen, like for example, let's say you do something good today, but it 339 00:13:23,994 --> 00:13:26,774 happened 10 years from now when you're at your lowest point, and then all of a 340 00:13:26,774 --> 00:13:28,654 sudden it's like, boom, I got you. 341 00:13:28,654 --> 00:13:31,310 And you're like, what the hell, how did this happen? 342 00:13:31,470 --> 00:13:34,550 And all it is is because of those little, little, little things, right? 343 00:13:34,550 --> 00:13:37,710 It's like at bats, dude, you know, like the more of those good at bats you take, 344 00:13:37,710 --> 00:13:39,310 the better overall you're going to be. 345 00:13:39,310 --> 00:13:39,900 You know what I mean? 346 00:13:39,900 --> 00:13:42,790 It's a, it's a, it's such a beautiful thing, man. 347 00:13:42,790 --> 00:13:47,050 And I always wonder, man, like where we lose sight of that as human beings, 348 00:13:47,050 --> 00:13:49,320 because it seems like such a amazing thing, right? 349 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:52,790 Cause at the end of the day, when you give someone something, even time, energy, or 350 00:13:52,790 --> 00:13:55,190 money who needs it, it's like, how do you feel? 351 00:13:55,190 --> 00:13:57,350 I feel fucking amazing. 352 00:13:57,470 --> 00:13:58,840 But it's like, why do we stop that? 353 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:01,422 Like, why do we not do that more often? 354 00:14:01,422 --> 00:14:05,062 you know, and why do we put this roadblock for ourselves where it's like, it's just 355 00:14:05,062 --> 00:14:08,162 me, it's all about me, it's all about me when it's like, dude, if you actually made 356 00:14:08,162 --> 00:14:10,682 it about them and did something for them, it comes back to you. 357 00:14:10,682 --> 00:14:10,862 Yeah. 358 00:14:10,862 --> 00:14:12,742 Like where do you think that gets lost for us, bro? 359 00:14:12,742 --> 00:14:15,872 The easiest quickest answer is the enemy. 360 00:14:15,872 --> 00:14:18,922 It's the number one tool the enemy uses is fear. 361 00:14:18,922 --> 00:14:19,582 Right? 362 00:14:19,582 --> 00:14:23,562 Because if you're in that situation, I could have had a fear of loss of like, 363 00:14:23,562 --> 00:14:26,522 man, like I'm going to put myself in a really bad spot, which I did, if I give 364 00:14:26,522 --> 00:14:27,502 away this money away. 365 00:14:27,502 --> 00:14:30,126 But it's the fear of loss. 366 00:14:30,126 --> 00:14:33,146 and people have that fear in all different aspects. 367 00:14:33,146 --> 00:14:37,306 But to tie into that point that you just made there, it's you have to give in order 368 00:14:37,306 --> 00:14:38,546 to get that is a principle. 369 00:14:38,546 --> 00:14:40,976 And there's probably a law or some type of a name for it. 370 00:14:40,976 --> 00:14:44,146 But if you want to if you want respect, you got to give respect. 371 00:14:44,146 --> 00:14:46,286 If you want trust, you got to give trust. 372 00:14:46,286 --> 00:14:49,306 If you want to develop leaders, you got to give leadership. 373 00:14:49,306 --> 00:14:49,636 Right. 374 00:14:49,636 --> 00:14:51,546 It's true across the board. 375 00:14:51,546 --> 00:14:51,876 Right. 376 00:14:51,876 --> 00:14:53,716 You want to get Yeah, you want to be loved. 377 00:14:53,716 --> 00:14:54,846 You got to give love. 378 00:14:54,846 --> 00:14:55,126 Right. 379 00:14:55,126 --> 00:14:57,422 So I think just like 380 00:14:57,422 --> 00:15:01,132 maybe people just don't understand that because they understand like the opposite, 381 00:15:01,132 --> 00:15:02,962 which is like, I want to be loved. 382 00:15:02,962 --> 00:15:04,382 So love me. 383 00:15:04,382 --> 00:15:04,522 Right. 384 00:15:04,522 --> 00:15:04,762 Right. 385 00:15:04,762 --> 00:15:05,102 Right. 386 00:15:05,102 --> 00:15:05,242 Right. 387 00:15:05,242 --> 00:15:06,802 You know, and they try to force their hand on that. 388 00:15:06,802 --> 00:15:09,822 And it's not understanding that you got to give the get just what you said. 389 00:15:09,822 --> 00:15:13,912 I, in my mind, I also think part of it, it's a, the movie that you play, right. 390 00:15:13,912 --> 00:15:18,082 Where it's like, I think people understand, but I think, through the 391 00:15:18,082 --> 00:15:21,282 process of like, you know, thinking about it, like, does this make sense? 392 00:15:21,282 --> 00:15:24,702 Is this not, they ended up, they ended up telling themselves that it does it right. 393 00:15:24,702 --> 00:15:27,406 Because they never had someone really show them how it's done. 394 00:15:27,406 --> 00:15:31,096 And I think they have a mis -viewed or a misconception of how to do it. 395 00:15:31,096 --> 00:15:31,256 Right. 396 00:15:31,256 --> 00:15:34,466 So like in my mind, I don't think inherently people do that because they 397 00:15:34,466 --> 00:15:34,856 want to. 398 00:15:34,856 --> 00:15:37,926 I think it's because to your point, they, they don't understand, but it's not that 399 00:15:37,926 --> 00:15:39,406 they don't fully understand. 400 00:15:39,406 --> 00:15:42,726 They haven't gone in deep to really see it. 401 00:15:42,726 --> 00:15:42,916 Right. 402 00:15:42,916 --> 00:15:44,496 And dude, it's part, it's part of life, right? 403 00:15:44,496 --> 00:15:47,766 It's like being able to look at yourself and reflect to find out like, Hey, what am 404 00:15:47,766 --> 00:15:48,006 I doing? 405 00:15:48,006 --> 00:15:48,216 Right. 406 00:15:48,216 --> 00:15:49,136 What am I doing wrong? 407 00:15:49,136 --> 00:15:51,896 And the giving and getting is the same example, right? 408 00:15:51,896 --> 00:15:55,502 Where it's like, Hey, treat others how you want to be treated first before. 409 00:15:55,502 --> 00:15:58,022 Like if you want to be treated a certain way, if you're not treating others that 410 00:15:58,022 --> 00:15:59,682 way, you can't expect it back. 411 00:15:59,682 --> 00:15:59,922 Right? 412 00:15:59,922 --> 00:16:02,682 It's like to your point, if you're operating from a place of lack, you're 413 00:16:02,682 --> 00:16:04,642 never going to get, you know what I mean? 414 00:16:04,642 --> 00:16:06,202 So it's like, think about a lot. 415 00:16:06,202 --> 00:16:08,372 I think a lot of people just stop the process of thinking. 416 00:16:08,372 --> 00:16:11,232 I don't think it's like truly just a lack of understanding. 417 00:16:11,232 --> 00:16:15,482 I think it's a lack of going deep enough to see what the potential of your life can 418 00:16:15,482 --> 00:16:16,282 be. 419 00:16:16,442 --> 00:16:17,242 I hope that makes sense. 420 00:16:17,242 --> 00:16:17,702 Yeah. 421 00:16:17,702 --> 00:16:21,402 And to your point too, I think that you can even tie in the delayed gratification 422 00:16:21,402 --> 00:16:24,174 there and the lack of understanding or the lack of patience. 423 00:16:24,174 --> 00:16:27,774 Because we live in this fishbowl society now where I push a button and something 424 00:16:27,774 --> 00:16:29,694 shows up in the house two days later. 425 00:16:29,694 --> 00:16:33,514 So I mean even to the point where like we've all been guilty of it where we order 426 00:16:33,514 --> 00:16:37,114 something and then we're pissed off that it's not there when it's supposed to be 427 00:16:37,114 --> 00:16:37,454 there. 428 00:16:37,454 --> 00:16:39,494 Like talk about first world problems, right? 429 00:16:39,494 --> 00:16:42,044 So with at least from the tithing standpoint, right? 430 00:16:42,044 --> 00:16:44,694 Because tithing is part of the Christian religion. 431 00:16:44,694 --> 00:16:48,074 It's like, all right, well a lot of people will tithe and give 10 % but then they 432 00:16:48,074 --> 00:16:50,310 don't see that return so then they stop. 433 00:16:50,350 --> 00:16:53,610 not understanding to your point earlier that like, Hey, it could pop up at any 434 00:16:53,610 --> 00:16:53,750 time. 435 00:16:53,750 --> 00:16:56,750 But also the judgment there is your hearts with giving. 436 00:16:56,750 --> 00:17:00,010 So it's like, are you giving respect falsely? 437 00:17:00,010 --> 00:17:03,210 And like under the pretense of like, no, I do, I deserve respect. 438 00:17:03,210 --> 00:17:04,550 Or are you giving it willingly? 439 00:17:04,550 --> 00:17:06,870 It comes back to what you said the very beginning. 440 00:17:06,870 --> 00:17:07,870 Your intent. 441 00:17:07,870 --> 00:17:08,520 Wow. 442 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:09,740 It always comes back to it. 443 00:17:09,740 --> 00:17:10,830 Isn't it crazy, bro? 444 00:17:10,830 --> 00:17:11,510 Isn't it crazy? 445 00:17:11,510 --> 00:17:12,990 Yeah, we need to write a book on intent. 446 00:17:12,990 --> 00:17:14,030 I would love to. 447 00:17:14,030 --> 00:17:19,880 I would love to, dude, I've actually, so, there's something that, 448 00:17:20,046 --> 00:17:21,286 I kind of showed you yesterday. 449 00:17:21,286 --> 00:17:24,786 I don't know if you remember my, my, my, some of my motivations and drives. 450 00:17:24,786 --> 00:17:26,356 I thought you were going to talk about your trick shot. 451 00:17:26,356 --> 00:17:27,546 that, that was, that was pretty sick. 452 00:17:27,546 --> 00:17:28,326 Did I show you that? 453 00:17:28,326 --> 00:17:28,596 Yeah. 454 00:17:28,596 --> 00:17:28,866 Okay. 455 00:17:28,866 --> 00:17:29,686 You know what's weird? 456 00:17:29,686 --> 00:17:30,246 What? 457 00:17:30,246 --> 00:17:31,446 So you showed me that trick shot. 458 00:17:31,446 --> 00:17:36,105 I've never one time and I'm not even exaggerating, seen anything about soccer 459 00:17:36,105 --> 00:17:38,846 on my, my explore page on Instagram. 460 00:17:38,846 --> 00:17:40,846 All of a sudden I started getting all these soccer reels. 461 00:17:40,846 --> 00:17:41,316 No way. 462 00:17:41,316 --> 00:17:41,626 Yeah. 463 00:17:41,626 --> 00:17:43,046 And I didn't even look it up on my phone. 464 00:17:43,046 --> 00:17:44,266 That's insane, bro. 465 00:17:44,266 --> 00:17:45,266 That is insane. 466 00:17:45,266 --> 00:17:45,606 Yeah. 467 00:17:45,606 --> 00:17:49,294 Well, I mean, dude, I don't know if you've seen this, but, they have the airdrop. 468 00:17:49,294 --> 00:17:52,334 I can literally just put my phone next to yours and it'll like push it through. 469 00:17:52,334 --> 00:17:53,394 Like it's weird. 470 00:17:53,394 --> 00:17:54,714 But dude, that's insane, bro. 471 00:17:54,714 --> 00:17:55,454 That's insane. 472 00:17:55,454 --> 00:17:57,514 I'm learning skills though. 473 00:17:57,514 --> 00:17:58,544 I learned one yesterday. 474 00:17:58,544 --> 00:17:59,924 I'm like, I gotta try it before I leave today. 475 00:17:59,924 --> 00:18:01,094 Dude, let's go, bro. 476 00:18:01,094 --> 00:18:03,304 Anytime we want to do a trick shot, you know where to find me. 477 00:18:03,304 --> 00:18:04,034 I'm in that court. 478 00:18:04,034 --> 00:18:04,694 I'm gonna try one. 479 00:18:04,694 --> 00:18:05,474 Can we try one? 480 00:18:05,474 --> 00:18:06,134 Absolutely. 481 00:18:06,134 --> 00:18:06,854 I want to see. 482 00:18:06,854 --> 00:18:09,194 I want to kick it a few times, see how close I can get. 483 00:18:09,194 --> 00:18:11,224 I guarantee you I can get you in an hour. 484 00:18:11,224 --> 00:18:12,934 I guarantee you we can hit a trick shot. 485 00:18:12,934 --> 00:18:13,544 Guaranteed. 486 00:18:13,544 --> 00:18:14,814 I don't know if I have an hour today. 487 00:18:14,814 --> 00:18:15,454 Okay, that's fair. 488 00:18:15,454 --> 00:18:17,354 I'm saying, but I'm saying in total. 489 00:18:17,354 --> 00:18:17,646 Okay. 490 00:18:17,646 --> 00:18:19,666 course of time in an hour we'll make that. 491 00:18:19,666 --> 00:18:23,706 Okay, so no, that was that's not the place I was gonna go. 492 00:18:23,706 --> 00:18:28,806 But that's actually a really good example of you just like a perfect example. 493 00:18:28,806 --> 00:18:31,066 So and that was my shameless plug for your trick. 494 00:18:31,066 --> 00:18:32,286 I appreciate that. 495 00:18:32,286 --> 00:18:34,246 I try not to you don't talk about it. 496 00:18:34,246 --> 00:18:35,686 But it is something I love to do. 497 00:18:35,686 --> 00:18:36,366 Incredible. 498 00:18:36,366 --> 00:18:36,966 Thank you, man. 499 00:18:36,966 --> 00:18:39,226 I don't feel that way all the time. 500 00:18:39,226 --> 00:18:40,436 But it's because I'm in it. 501 00:18:40,436 --> 00:18:40,656 Right. 502 00:18:40,656 --> 00:18:42,606 And it's like, obviously, I'm the one spending the hour. 503 00:18:42,606 --> 00:18:44,296 So it's like, when I hit it, I'm like, awesome. 504 00:18:44,296 --> 00:18:45,454 It makes sense. 505 00:18:45,454 --> 00:18:47,124 And I'm like, okay, was it really that cool? 506 00:18:47,124 --> 00:18:48,214 And you know what I mean? 507 00:18:48,214 --> 00:18:51,474 When you do it so long, you always kind of question or look at like, was this good 508 00:18:51,474 --> 00:18:51,684 enough? 509 00:18:51,684 --> 00:18:52,694 Could I have done this better? 510 00:18:52,694 --> 00:18:54,294 But like, you're like, dude, this is awesome. 511 00:18:54,294 --> 00:18:55,784 So that helps me out more than you know. 512 00:18:55,784 --> 00:18:56,614 It's incredible. 513 00:18:56,614 --> 00:18:57,294 Thank you, man. 514 00:18:57,294 --> 00:18:58,354 I appreciate that. 515 00:18:58,354 --> 00:19:00,174 It's a skill set that I don't have. 516 00:19:00,174 --> 00:19:02,054 Just so you guys understand what we're talking about. 517 00:19:02,054 --> 00:19:05,914 Dino does these soccer trick shots where like he just does insane shit on the 518 00:19:05,914 --> 00:19:07,254 basketball court with the soccer ball. 519 00:19:07,254 --> 00:19:11,074 And then he'll kick it from like three quarters court and it goes in nothing but 520 00:19:11,074 --> 00:19:11,566 net. 521 00:19:11,566 --> 00:19:17,226 And I'm like, I can't even kick a ball into a soccer goal from 15 feet away. 522 00:19:17,226 --> 00:19:18,816 So like it blows my mind. 523 00:19:18,816 --> 00:19:20,926 It's truly incredible stuff. 524 00:19:20,926 --> 00:19:23,206 And he spends a lot of time and that's a lot of time doing it. 525 00:19:23,206 --> 00:19:25,546 So dude, you're a too fucking kind man. 526 00:19:25,766 --> 00:19:29,066 dude, the crazy part about even the soccer aspect of this, and I was talking to my 527 00:19:29,066 --> 00:19:32,366 parents yesterday, but you know, and I've already, I told you guys originally, like 528 00:19:32,366 --> 00:19:34,966 my goal in life was to be a soccer player early on. 529 00:19:34,966 --> 00:19:38,382 And I really, really solidified that at 19. 530 00:19:38,382 --> 00:19:42,142 where my eyes started to open up to like the effort I needed to put into that, to 531 00:19:42,142 --> 00:19:43,182 soccer to get there. 532 00:19:43,182 --> 00:19:46,382 So I ended up taking the Kobe mentality of like, you know, training three, four times 533 00:19:46,382 --> 00:19:47,022 a day, right? 534 00:19:47,022 --> 00:19:50,622 That involved lifting, that involved shooting, that involved like ball skill, 535 00:19:50,622 --> 00:19:52,052 and that involved yoga, stretching. 536 00:19:52,052 --> 00:19:54,222 Like I tried to do whatever I could, right? 537 00:19:54,222 --> 00:19:58,042 So, you know, did that for two, three years and then obviously came here, right? 538 00:19:58,042 --> 00:20:01,542 So the goal was like, damn dude, like soccer was such a big part of my life. 539 00:20:01,542 --> 00:20:03,582 It was the thing that I wanted to do. 540 00:20:03,582 --> 00:20:05,806 And through that process, when I got here, I was like, dude, 541 00:20:05,806 --> 00:20:08,826 I would love to make it a part of this, but I was like, I don't know how this is 542 00:20:08,826 --> 00:20:09,526 going to happen. 543 00:20:09,526 --> 00:20:13,826 But I was like, some, I just believe that something would work, but soccer was kind 544 00:20:13,826 --> 00:20:15,476 of like, okay, maybe there's a different direction. 545 00:20:15,476 --> 00:20:16,786 Like I didn't fully understand it, right? 546 00:20:16,786 --> 00:20:19,316 You always have that uncertainty of where the next step is. 547 00:20:19,316 --> 00:20:21,386 But now fast forward to here. 548 00:20:21,386 --> 00:20:26,126 And I'm like, dude, it all makes sense to why I spent all that time training because 549 00:20:26,126 --> 00:20:28,166 it does help me with those tricks, right? 550 00:20:28,166 --> 00:20:30,076 Like, dude, I spent so much time with that ball. 551 00:20:30,076 --> 00:20:32,706 That was also a thing that helped me get through a lot of problems. 552 00:20:32,706 --> 00:20:34,950 Like, dude, I used to tell people this all the time, but. 553 00:20:35,118 --> 00:20:39,018 When I would struggle with things or have challenges, I would go out to a soccer 554 00:20:39,018 --> 00:20:42,338 field, I would juggle a ball and dude, everything was clear. 555 00:20:42,338 --> 00:20:45,858 Everything just starts to open up and I'm like, I solved my own problems through 556 00:20:45,858 --> 00:20:47,078 doing that, right? 557 00:20:47,078 --> 00:20:49,878 But for me, it was the coolest part was like, man, not knowing where it was gonna 558 00:20:49,878 --> 00:20:52,238 take me, but everything, now when you kind of look back, right? 559 00:20:52,238 --> 00:20:54,788 It's like, this all makes sense to how we got here. 560 00:20:54,788 --> 00:20:56,608 And it was all the intent piece, man. 561 00:20:56,608 --> 00:20:59,908 Like my goal with soccer and everything that I wanted to do wasn't just for me, 562 00:20:59,908 --> 00:21:03,138 like even becoming a soccer player, my intent was to take care of my family. 563 00:21:03,138 --> 00:21:04,582 It was to... 564 00:21:04,654 --> 00:21:07,734 actually, I'll even kind of dive in a little bit deeper on this. 565 00:21:07,874 --> 00:21:12,174 So there was, I've had plenty of moments where I saw people who were successful and 566 00:21:12,174 --> 00:21:13,674 people I looked up to in life, right? 567 00:21:13,674 --> 00:21:15,434 And we all have those people. 568 00:21:15,434 --> 00:21:20,574 And for me, dude, I got the ability and opportunities to meet some of those people 569 00:21:20,574 --> 00:21:24,434 that were my idols or people that I looked up to at the time, and people that I 570 00:21:24,434 --> 00:21:29,954 wanted to be like, and I had almost like a rude awakening of like, holy shit, man, 571 00:21:29,954 --> 00:21:33,518 these are people and they also make mistakes and they're not as... 572 00:21:33,518 --> 00:21:33,878 Good. 573 00:21:33,878 --> 00:21:35,398 Not everyone is a good person. 574 00:21:35,398 --> 00:21:38,168 Not everyone cares the way you think they would care, right? 575 00:21:38,168 --> 00:21:41,098 Because we have this like perception of these people. 576 00:21:41,138 --> 00:21:42,868 And dude, I remember this one story. 577 00:21:42,868 --> 00:21:46,238 So I went to go see one of my favorite players play and it was on a small field. 578 00:21:46,238 --> 00:21:48,618 It was a friendly game and I was an Oscar at the time, right? 579 00:21:48,618 --> 00:21:49,278 Tickets were cheap. 580 00:21:49,278 --> 00:21:50,778 It was like 10 bucks. 581 00:21:51,138 --> 00:21:54,898 and I went to go see and I, you know, I got the chance to meet this guy and I was 582 00:21:54,898 --> 00:21:55,648 like, dude, I'm so excited. 583 00:21:55,648 --> 00:21:58,338 He's going to take a picture and the game ends, dude. 584 00:21:58,338 --> 00:22:00,188 And he just walks into his bus. 585 00:22:00,188 --> 00:22:03,214 People are waiting for him to take a picture and he doesn't stop. 586 00:22:03,214 --> 00:22:04,284 He doesn't say anything. 587 00:22:04,284 --> 00:22:06,014 He just goes in. 588 00:22:06,014 --> 00:22:09,244 And I was like, damn, you know, it stopped me in my tracks. 589 00:22:09,244 --> 00:22:10,994 Dude, and I'm like 19, 18 at the time. 590 00:22:10,994 --> 00:22:11,974 And I was like, that's interesting. 591 00:22:11,974 --> 00:22:15,394 I was like, this guy has all these people looking up to him and fans and he just 592 00:22:15,394 --> 00:22:17,054 doesn't even give the time to him. 593 00:22:17,054 --> 00:22:20,234 And then I saw this other guy come by and he, he's also a good player, but he wasn't 594 00:22:20,234 --> 00:22:22,034 like the main guy, right? 595 00:22:22,034 --> 00:22:23,914 And he stopped and he's taking pictures. 596 00:22:23,914 --> 00:22:25,194 He's talking to people. 597 00:22:25,194 --> 00:22:28,394 And I was like, why aren't more people like that? 598 00:22:28,394 --> 00:22:29,262 I'm like, dude, 599 00:22:29,262 --> 00:22:32,742 I get how much work these guys have to put in and I understand like they're still 600 00:22:32,742 --> 00:22:33,622 humans, right? 601 00:22:33,622 --> 00:22:36,122 But dude, these are the people that get you to this level. 602 00:22:36,122 --> 00:22:39,862 And in my mind, dude, I always wanted to be able to give that to those kids because 603 00:22:39,862 --> 00:22:41,872 I remember what it did to me in that moment. 604 00:22:41,872 --> 00:22:45,682 I was like, dude, it almost like shatters the person that you see, right? 605 00:22:45,682 --> 00:22:48,222 And when I saw that, I was like, dude, I want to be the difference. 606 00:22:48,222 --> 00:22:52,422 I was like, if I ever get to that point, when I get to that point, I am never going 607 00:22:52,422 --> 00:22:53,502 to be I'm never doing that. 608 00:22:53,502 --> 00:22:56,522 I'm giving every person that time because at the end of the day, how I got there is 609 00:22:56,522 --> 00:22:57,774 because of those people. 610 00:22:57,774 --> 00:23:00,534 And dude, that was a big piece for me and my motivation. 611 00:23:00,534 --> 00:23:03,524 And then just obviously long story short now, right? 612 00:23:03,524 --> 00:23:07,334 But it all kind of tied into me doing even trick shots and being here with you is, is 613 00:23:07,334 --> 00:23:10,454 dude, I want to be able to, to be that guy for people and show like, Hey dude, it's 614 00:23:10,454 --> 00:23:13,394 okay to be human, but always give back to the people that got you there. 615 00:23:13,394 --> 00:23:13,554 Right. 616 00:23:13,554 --> 00:23:16,894 And a lot of my motivation for soccer and all these things was other people. 617 00:23:16,894 --> 00:23:18,634 It was my intent to other people. 618 00:23:18,634 --> 00:23:19,814 Like we all want to be cool. 619 00:23:19,814 --> 00:23:23,174 We all want to have, you know, all the great things and be talked about and 620 00:23:23,174 --> 00:23:23,574 complimented. 621 00:23:23,574 --> 00:23:24,184 That's awesome. 622 00:23:24,184 --> 00:23:25,934 But for me, it wasn't about that dude. 623 00:23:25,934 --> 00:23:26,542 And 624 00:23:26,542 --> 00:23:30,302 just to kind of just, dude, it just almost doesn't make sense, but does make sense 625 00:23:30,302 --> 00:23:32,942 because we understand what we've understood, you know, and all the things 626 00:23:32,942 --> 00:23:36,202 we've talked about, but just to see all the pieces line up, I'm just like, dude, 627 00:23:36,202 --> 00:23:38,692 it's mind blowing how I'm even here to this point. 628 00:23:38,692 --> 00:23:42,402 And obviously yesterday meeting someone else who does trick shots and then hitting 629 00:23:42,402 --> 00:23:46,202 a trick shot within like, I'm not gonna give you guys the tries because that might 630 00:23:46,202 --> 00:23:47,122 be part of the question. 631 00:23:47,122 --> 00:23:47,622 It was the first try. 632 00:23:47,622 --> 00:23:49,142 Yeah, yeah, we'll go with that. 633 00:23:49,722 --> 00:23:52,342 But yeah, man, it's just crazy how life kind of works out. 634 00:23:52,342 --> 00:23:53,326 So yeah, hope that. 635 00:23:53,326 --> 00:23:54,166 Hope that makes sense. 636 00:23:54,166 --> 00:23:54,496 It does. 637 00:23:54,496 --> 00:23:56,596 You were going to dive down the path of the other thing you showed me. 638 00:23:56,596 --> 00:23:57,526 Yes. 639 00:23:57,606 --> 00:24:01,146 and dude, I thought about this and I don't want to go too, too in depth with this 640 00:24:01,146 --> 00:24:06,116 because I want to save this for, a different day in time. 641 00:24:06,116 --> 00:24:07,906 Cause it goes deep, man. 642 00:24:07,946 --> 00:24:10,946 and I know this was something, you know, even with when you shared your story, I 643 00:24:10,946 --> 00:24:14,266 know how it was like the first time really that you ever put it out there. 644 00:24:14,586 --> 00:24:18,026 and I eventually want to dive into this a little bit deeper. 645 00:24:18,436 --> 00:24:22,990 but let's just put it this way, you know, in my life, I didn't have the 646 00:24:22,990 --> 00:24:23,970 best support system. 647 00:24:23,970 --> 00:24:25,510 And what I mean by that is not my parents. 648 00:24:25,510 --> 00:24:27,940 My parents were literally the key factor. 649 00:24:27,940 --> 00:24:31,410 So like your friend, when you know, when your friends woke up and you know, they 650 00:24:31,410 --> 00:24:33,470 prayed and it was like that bubble, right? 651 00:24:33,470 --> 00:24:35,650 My parents were always that bubble for me. 652 00:24:35,650 --> 00:24:39,369 But the people around me and the people closest to me, some of my own, literally 653 00:24:39,369 --> 00:24:42,630 my own family, hated me essentially. 654 00:24:42,630 --> 00:24:45,730 And there was a lot of that stuff to it, right? 655 00:24:45,730 --> 00:24:49,454 And it was a big driving factor for me because I saw... 656 00:24:49,454 --> 00:24:50,914 Dude is so much shit. 657 00:24:50,914 --> 00:24:53,974 And like I said, I apologize guys I'm kind of leaving you on like a cliffhanger with 658 00:24:53,974 --> 00:24:58,354 this but I thought about this dude and I'll dive in with you personally because 659 00:24:58,354 --> 00:25:02,534 you know, but one day guys I promise I'll share this and it all makes sense but just 660 00:25:02,534 --> 00:25:07,694 know sometimes your motivations can be the people that Maybe want to see you do the 661 00:25:07,694 --> 00:25:10,394 worst right or don't maybe look at you a certain way, right? 662 00:25:10,394 --> 00:25:14,154 Like it's okay to have that chip on your shoulder, but never wish ill intent on 663 00:25:14,154 --> 00:25:17,070 anybody still operate from a good place even though 664 00:25:17,070 --> 00:25:19,730 some other people might not operate towards you that way. 665 00:25:19,730 --> 00:25:22,470 So yeah, bro, I've been thinking about that. 666 00:25:22,470 --> 00:25:25,150 And I think I'm a, I'm gonna think I'm a hold off on that for a little bit. 667 00:25:25,150 --> 00:25:26,030 That's all right. 668 00:25:26,030 --> 00:25:26,690 That's all right. 669 00:25:26,690 --> 00:25:26,990 Later. 670 00:25:26,990 --> 00:25:28,330 You make a really good point there, right? 671 00:25:28,330 --> 00:25:32,520 Because there's, there's a different motivations for a lot of different things, 672 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:32,670 right? 673 00:25:32,670 --> 00:25:36,230 We actually covered this with our team on our team call on Monday. 674 00:25:36,850 --> 00:25:39,350 for a lot of people in the program that we mentor, there's a couple hundred people on 675 00:25:39,350 --> 00:25:39,660 there. 676 00:25:39,660 --> 00:25:45,570 And, we got into the idea of, of similar discussion of like, all right, well, your 677 00:25:45,570 --> 00:25:46,702 goals can drive you. 678 00:25:46,702 --> 00:25:48,062 and be your driving force. 679 00:25:48,062 --> 00:25:50,602 But it's also okay to operate from a dark side. 680 00:25:50,602 --> 00:25:53,742 And for me, for a long period of time, that's the same way I operated. 681 00:25:53,742 --> 00:25:56,212 It's like, dude, there's, and it wasn't for me. 682 00:25:56,212 --> 00:25:59,242 And I can't think of a whole lot of people, there may have been some that 683 00:25:59,242 --> 00:26:03,502 literally, like not a whole lot of people in my life told me, you're not going to 684 00:26:03,502 --> 00:26:03,942 make it. 685 00:26:03,942 --> 00:26:09,322 But there was just this air and this like overall perspective of like, I grew up in 686 00:26:09,322 --> 00:26:12,932 a town with two red lights, one of them wasn't necessary and nobody made it out. 687 00:26:12,932 --> 00:26:16,142 Like everybody just stayed there and more or less rot. 688 00:26:16,142 --> 00:26:19,182 you know, and for lack of better term, sure, there were some semi successful 689 00:26:19,182 --> 00:26:21,342 people there, but not the success that I wanted. 690 00:26:21,342 --> 00:26:25,782 So it was almost like not necessarily a human being telling you that you can't 691 00:26:25,782 --> 00:26:29,522 make it, but like society as a whole saying like, Hey, you're one of us just 692 00:26:29,522 --> 00:26:30,562 stay here. 693 00:26:30,562 --> 00:26:32,762 Status quo is good enough crabs in a bucket. 694 00:26:32,762 --> 00:26:34,242 Yeah, 1000 % like that. 695 00:26:34,242 --> 00:26:37,762 So and even to the point when I moved out here, like there was a lot of people 696 00:26:37,762 --> 00:26:38,412 questioning it. 697 00:26:38,412 --> 00:26:42,802 I remember I had a conversation with Kim's dad because obviously with the kids and 698 00:26:42,802 --> 00:26:43,982 with Kim and stuff. 699 00:26:43,982 --> 00:26:47,752 He wasn't privy to where we were going and what I was doing. 700 00:26:47,752 --> 00:26:50,402 He didn't really understand what first form was or the mission. 701 00:26:50,402 --> 00:26:52,242 You know, and he never, we just never discussed it. 702 00:26:52,242 --> 00:26:53,402 We didn't have that relationship. 703 00:26:53,402 --> 00:26:56,142 And I remember when I told him that I was moving out here, I kind of just painted 704 00:26:56,142 --> 00:26:58,802 the picture for him of what the future was going to look like in the life that I'd be 705 00:26:58,802 --> 00:27:00,342 able to provide for the girls. 706 00:27:00,342 --> 00:27:04,062 And he got a little bit choked up and, you know, thanked me and all this kind of 707 00:27:04,062 --> 00:27:05,712 stuff for having the conversation with him. 708 00:27:05,712 --> 00:27:09,602 And like three or four days later, he calls me and he's like, hey, I just want 709 00:27:09,602 --> 00:27:12,822 to give you a permission to do what you said you wanted to do. 710 00:27:12,822 --> 00:27:13,294 Dude. 711 00:27:13,294 --> 00:27:15,774 And I was like, Mark, I don't need your permission. 712 00:27:15,774 --> 00:27:18,274 Like I'm a grown man. 713 00:27:18,274 --> 00:27:19,804 But like, it was just an interesting thing. 714 00:27:19,804 --> 00:27:23,434 So even that type of mindset of like, okay, you can go do it. 715 00:27:23,434 --> 00:27:27,834 I'm going to allow you to, you know, so for me, it wasn't like necessarily the 716 00:27:27,834 --> 00:27:31,194 people, but this going back to operating from a dark side, there's like, yeah, 717 00:27:31,194 --> 00:27:33,714 there's a lot of people in your life that you might want to prove wrong. 718 00:27:33,714 --> 00:27:35,874 Use it for freaking fuel, right? 719 00:27:35,874 --> 00:27:38,954 It doesn't always have to be the sunshine and rainbows and the fun shit that drives 720 00:27:38,954 --> 00:27:41,230 you or the goals or the 30, 60, 90. 721 00:27:41,230 --> 00:27:45,050 Like sometimes you got to go to that dark place and be like, fuck you, I'm going to 722 00:27:45,050 --> 00:27:45,610 make it happen. 723 00:27:45,610 --> 00:27:49,330 And honestly, that's a big driver in my life because no one in my life has been 724 00:27:49,330 --> 00:27:50,160 very successful. 725 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:50,960 Right. 726 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,410 Now, my grandfather, he was successful. 727 00:27:52,410 --> 00:27:53,230 My uncle was successful. 728 00:27:53,230 --> 00:27:54,670 But to what end? 729 00:27:54,670 --> 00:27:56,530 Like what legacy did they leave? 730 00:27:56,530 --> 00:27:57,900 So success is in the eye of the beholder. 731 00:27:57,900 --> 00:28:01,370 And I don't look at that as success because, you know, my grandfather, great 732 00:28:01,370 --> 00:28:04,090 human being had an amazing funeral with tons of people. 733 00:28:04,090 --> 00:28:05,140 But that's not what I want. 734 00:28:05,140 --> 00:28:07,662 I want to leave a lasting impact. 735 00:28:07,662 --> 00:28:11,452 That literally changes the entire trajectory of millions of people's lives. 736 00:28:11,452 --> 00:28:15,102 You don't want to live forever You want to create something that does yeah, that's 737 00:28:15,102 --> 00:28:19,082 what thousand percent dude I I think oftentimes man I love that you said that 738 00:28:19,082 --> 00:28:23,262 the the sunshine and rainbows right like it's okay to operate from a dark place But 739 00:28:23,262 --> 00:28:27,842 when you say that it's it's not like hate those people or look or dive so much into 740 00:28:27,842 --> 00:28:31,422 that But look at that as like hey these people viewed me as this way they have no 741 00:28:31,422 --> 00:28:34,862 idea what I'm capable of and I'm gonna show everyone And I'm gonna bring those 742 00:28:34,862 --> 00:28:36,654 people and I'm also gonna show 743 00:28:36,654 --> 00:28:40,294 the path for other people who have these people in their lives, how to get out of 744 00:28:40,294 --> 00:28:40,754 it. 745 00:28:40,754 --> 00:28:43,334 Because that is a fucking superpower, dude. 746 00:28:43,334 --> 00:28:46,794 And again, it all comes from a place of like, you, right? 747 00:28:46,794 --> 00:28:47,434 It's hard. 748 00:28:47,434 --> 00:28:49,894 But again, your intent is not just for you. 749 00:28:49,894 --> 00:28:51,034 It's for the family. 750 00:28:51,034 --> 00:28:52,494 It's for the people around you. 751 00:28:52,494 --> 00:28:54,634 And do when it's bigger than yourself. 752 00:28:54,634 --> 00:28:57,154 You're willing to do whatever the fuck it takes, man. 753 00:28:57,154 --> 00:28:58,514 That's awesome, bro. 754 00:28:58,514 --> 00:28:59,344 That's awesome. 755 00:28:59,344 --> 00:29:01,804 It goes back to the point you made about the whole soccer thing, right? 756 00:29:01,804 --> 00:29:02,414 It's. 757 00:29:02,414 --> 00:29:04,794 It's number one, not judging people. 758 00:29:04,794 --> 00:29:07,594 And you're used, it's like, yeah, it's easy to look at that guy and be like, what 759 00:29:07,594 --> 00:29:08,374 a dick, right? 760 00:29:08,374 --> 00:29:09,424 But who knows where he was at? 761 00:29:09,424 --> 00:29:10,814 Like there might've been something crazy happen. 762 00:29:10,814 --> 00:29:13,914 Maybe he's got a text mid game where a family member died or something. 763 00:29:13,914 --> 00:29:14,954 You never really know. 764 00:29:14,954 --> 00:29:18,814 So it's giving people grace, but it's also looking around at life guys. 765 00:29:18,814 --> 00:29:22,114 And one of the best lessons I've ever learned is you can learn a lot from the 766 00:29:22,114 --> 00:29:25,194 people that you admire, but you can also learn what not to do and who you don't 767 00:29:25,194 --> 00:29:25,966 want to be. 768 00:29:25,966 --> 00:29:26,236 Right. 769 00:29:26,236 --> 00:29:28,336 And it's even the way that we operate as leaders here. 770 00:29:28,336 --> 00:29:30,726 It's like, all right, I'm looking to my leadership and I'm like, all right, these 771 00:29:30,726 --> 00:29:34,266 are all the amazing things that they're teaching me and what I can learn to do. 772 00:29:34,266 --> 00:29:35,726 But what things would I do differently? 773 00:29:35,726 --> 00:29:36,826 What things would I avoid? 774 00:29:36,826 --> 00:29:40,906 Because everybody has pitfalls, even me, the people that look up to me as a leader 775 00:29:40,906 --> 00:29:42,186 or as a human being. 776 00:29:42,186 --> 00:29:45,346 It's like, so that's really the true essence of creating the life that you want 777 00:29:45,346 --> 00:29:49,346 is you get to focus on the things you do want, but you can also create the things 778 00:29:49,346 --> 00:29:50,906 you do want based off things you don't want. 779 00:29:50,906 --> 00:29:51,396 That is true. 780 00:29:51,396 --> 00:29:52,356 And just move it away. 781 00:29:52,356 --> 00:29:52,786 And guess what? 782 00:29:52,786 --> 00:29:54,030 We've talked about it before. 783 00:29:54,030 --> 00:29:56,950 The things that you don't want to tolerate that becomes your standard. 784 00:29:56,950 --> 00:29:58,570 That's what's whatever's left. 785 00:29:58,570 --> 00:29:58,790 Dude. 786 00:29:58,790 --> 00:30:02,130 If you almost don't look into both sides of what you do and what you don't, you 787 00:30:02,130 --> 00:30:03,630 don't really ever get a clear picture. 788 00:30:03,630 --> 00:30:04,170 Right? 789 00:30:04,170 --> 00:30:09,390 It's like you have one side of the circle with what you do, but that's as clear as 790 00:30:09,390 --> 00:30:10,090 just that. 791 00:30:10,090 --> 00:30:12,660 But when you know, Hey, this is also what I don't want. 792 00:30:12,660 --> 00:30:14,120 Now you can kind of put that bubble. 793 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,530 It's almost like a Venn diagram, right? 794 00:30:15,530 --> 00:30:17,990 Where it's like, you have the middle where it's like, okay, what is the thing that I 795 00:30:17,990 --> 00:30:19,090 want from both of these sides? 796 00:30:19,090 --> 00:30:20,490 And how do I make it work? 797 00:30:20,490 --> 00:30:23,630 But if you don't have one or the other, it, the picture is unclear. 798 00:30:23,630 --> 00:30:24,310 You know what I mean? 799 00:30:24,310 --> 00:30:28,190 And to your point, it's like, we're never going to be at a point where someone is 800 00:30:28,190 --> 00:30:29,070 going to be perfect. 801 00:30:29,070 --> 00:30:32,750 And we have to stop moving people off a pedestal, right? 802 00:30:32,750 --> 00:30:37,690 Like one of the things, man, and this is, I'm pretty sure a very stoic, saying, and 803 00:30:37,690 --> 00:30:42,090 I don't remember exact phrases or quotes or what was said, but essentially even 804 00:30:42,090 --> 00:30:44,730 your idols, like never put them on a pedestal because then you're telling 805 00:30:44,730 --> 00:30:46,310 yourself you're number two. 806 00:30:46,310 --> 00:30:47,840 Probably you are capable of anything. 807 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,610 Anyone else is capable of one man can do it. 808 00:30:49,610 --> 00:30:50,702 You can do it too. 809 00:30:50,702 --> 00:30:54,062 And I think oftentimes we put ourselves in those bubbles because we don't look at it 810 00:30:54,062 --> 00:30:54,902 that way. 811 00:30:54,902 --> 00:30:55,132 Right. 812 00:30:55,132 --> 00:30:58,402 We expect everyone to be perfect, but it's okay to look at the person that you admire 813 00:30:58,402 --> 00:31:00,882 and like, I mean, I love this a bottom. 814 00:31:00,882 --> 00:31:05,342 I might do this differently because of this, but boom, that's how you become the 815 00:31:05,342 --> 00:31:05,962 one of one. 816 00:31:05,962 --> 00:31:08,022 That's how you are unique in your own way. 817 00:31:08,022 --> 00:31:08,562 Right. 818 00:31:08,562 --> 00:31:12,522 There's a, there's a J example, on, on the topic of leadership. 819 00:31:12,522 --> 00:31:15,722 And I don't remember which book I want to say to dichotomy of leadership. 820 00:31:15,762 --> 00:31:17,002 it's by Jacqueline. 821 00:31:17,132 --> 00:31:19,694 and there's an example of, so as a leader, 822 00:31:19,694 --> 00:31:19,994 Right. 823 00:31:19,994 --> 00:31:24,014 Especially when you're on the battlefield, being vocal, being able to communicate and 824 00:31:24,014 --> 00:31:27,254 do it quickly, you know, obviously is a, is a very important skill when your life's 825 00:31:27,254 --> 00:31:27,754 on the line. 826 00:31:27,754 --> 00:31:28,224 Right. 827 00:31:28,224 --> 00:31:32,334 And then Jaco is talks about this, younger leader that he kind of puts in and he's 828 00:31:32,334 --> 00:31:34,354 not the most vocal guy, right? 829 00:31:34,354 --> 00:31:38,674 Like he's not the guy that's you can hear when he says his directions, whatever. 830 00:31:38,894 --> 00:31:41,874 But when Jaco saw that he w he didn't, he didn't do anything. 831 00:31:41,874 --> 00:31:44,994 He wanted to see how this guy would essentially solve that problem. 832 00:31:44,994 --> 00:31:45,554 Right. 833 00:31:45,554 --> 00:31:47,884 And how the guy ended up solving the problem was okay. 834 00:31:47,884 --> 00:31:49,486 So the communication needs to be there. 835 00:31:49,486 --> 00:31:51,146 and it needs to be vocal. 836 00:31:51,186 --> 00:31:52,456 That guy isn't vocal. 837 00:31:52,456 --> 00:31:54,316 So he found the most vocal guy. 838 00:31:54,316 --> 00:31:58,446 He was like, Hey, I need you to say this, this, this, and he will tell him what to 839 00:31:58,446 --> 00:31:59,806 say and he'll say it. 840 00:31:59,806 --> 00:32:04,686 And the beauty of that is there's a basic rule of leadership communication. 841 00:32:04,986 --> 00:32:07,906 How it's done can be different and can be in your own way. 842 00:32:07,906 --> 00:32:11,206 But as long as it works, it's the it's like the foundation piece, right? 843 00:32:11,206 --> 00:32:14,006 We all have different the foundations the same, but how you go about it is 844 00:32:14,006 --> 00:32:14,606 different. 845 00:32:14,606 --> 00:32:16,782 And that's one of my favorite examples is because 846 00:32:16,782 --> 00:32:19,862 It took someone who might be a little bit different, but he's still a leader, right? 847 00:32:19,862 --> 00:32:23,262 He might not have this quality, but he figured out a way to still make this 848 00:32:23,262 --> 00:32:24,162 possible. 849 00:32:24,162 --> 00:32:28,462 And dude, I don't know why that came to me, but it's oftentimes like one of those 850 00:32:28,462 --> 00:32:31,762 things where if you really break it down, there's obviously a foundation of being a 851 00:32:31,762 --> 00:32:32,362 good person, right? 852 00:32:32,362 --> 00:32:34,702 But we can all be a good person in our own way, right? 853 00:32:34,702 --> 00:32:37,862 It can come from family, it could be in career, it can be helping the community, 854 00:32:37,862 --> 00:32:39,502 it can be, you know, whatever. 855 00:32:39,502 --> 00:32:43,082 But we all have a simple foundation of being a good human being, but how we apply 856 00:32:43,082 --> 00:32:45,294 it to our lives can be different and that is okay. 857 00:32:45,294 --> 00:32:46,654 And you learn from your idols. 858 00:32:46,654 --> 00:32:47,074 Yep. 859 00:32:47,074 --> 00:32:47,454 100%. 860 00:32:47,454 --> 00:32:49,234 That's from leadership strategy and tactics. 861 00:32:49,234 --> 00:32:49,634 Is it? 862 00:32:49,634 --> 00:32:50,354 Yep. 863 00:32:50,354 --> 00:32:50,654 Yeah. 864 00:32:50,654 --> 00:32:52,264 We're reading through that as a leadership team. 865 00:32:52,264 --> 00:32:53,934 And that's where I guess had that story. 866 00:32:53,934 --> 00:32:55,774 Like literally what? 867 00:32:55,774 --> 00:32:57,004 A week and a half ago. 868 00:32:57,004 --> 00:32:57,294 Was it? 869 00:32:57,294 --> 00:32:57,514 Yeah. 870 00:32:57,514 --> 00:32:58,174 Something like that. 871 00:32:58,174 --> 00:32:58,554 Yeah. 872 00:32:58,554 --> 00:32:59,524 It was one of my favorite dude. 873 00:32:59,524 --> 00:32:59,774 Yeah. 874 00:32:59,774 --> 00:33:00,634 It's one of my favorites. 875 00:33:00,634 --> 00:33:01,754 It's an incredible story. 876 00:33:01,754 --> 00:33:05,224 Incredible book, but it's a proof positive that literally it's what we always say. 877 00:33:05,224 --> 00:33:09,114 There's, there's the way that a lot of people think like, there's only one way to 878 00:33:09,114 --> 00:33:09,614 do this. 879 00:33:09,614 --> 00:33:10,034 Right. 880 00:33:10,034 --> 00:33:12,954 But the beautiful thing about another topic that they talk about in there is 881 00:33:12,954 --> 00:33:14,158 decentralized command. 882 00:33:14,158 --> 00:33:16,738 It's like, hey, if everybody understands what we're supposed to do, but even more 883 00:33:16,738 --> 00:33:20,318 importantly, the why behind it, then they're free to come up with their own way 884 00:33:20,318 --> 00:33:21,808 to make it happen the best they see fit. 885 00:33:21,808 --> 00:33:23,698 And sometimes that's better than what you think. 886 00:33:23,698 --> 00:33:24,688 Thousand percent, dude. 887 00:33:24,688 --> 00:33:25,398 Innovation. 888 00:33:25,398 --> 00:33:26,478 How does innovation happen? 889 00:33:26,478 --> 00:33:29,098 It's when you give someone the power to innovate. 890 00:33:29,098 --> 00:33:32,778 If everyone has to stick in this one line, dude, it'll never change. 891 00:33:32,778 --> 00:33:32,978 Right. 892 00:33:32,978 --> 00:33:34,348 How you do one thing is how you do everything. 893 00:33:34,348 --> 00:33:36,138 And sometimes it's like, hey, cool. 894 00:33:36,138 --> 00:33:36,398 Okay. 895 00:33:36,398 --> 00:33:38,478 We all understand we got to take this serious. 896 00:33:38,478 --> 00:33:41,878 But when you take it serious, the outcome might be different based on whatever that 897 00:33:41,878 --> 00:33:42,734 person sees. 898 00:33:42,734 --> 00:33:45,614 And that could be the new solution to the problem that you're having and it can make 899 00:33:45,614 --> 00:33:47,854 it quicker, more effective, more efficient. 900 00:33:48,134 --> 00:33:49,574 Let's dive in on that real quick. 901 00:33:49,574 --> 00:33:52,454 Cause that's almost like an inside joke sort of language. 902 00:33:52,454 --> 00:33:56,754 So one of the things that I teach my, the coaches that I mentor is be very cautious 903 00:33:56,754 --> 00:34:00,414 of inside joke language, because there's things that we say as coaches like, Hey, 904 00:34:00,414 --> 00:34:01,764 the game plan is a really simple one. 905 00:34:01,764 --> 00:34:03,284 It's protein, calories, water, and movement. 906 00:34:03,284 --> 00:34:03,534 Right. 907 00:34:03,534 --> 00:34:03,974 Right. 908 00:34:03,974 --> 00:34:04,114 Right. 909 00:34:04,114 --> 00:34:07,474 These, the, how you do one thing, how you do everything is the same thing. 910 00:34:07,474 --> 00:34:07,634 Right. 911 00:34:07,634 --> 00:34:09,834 Cause we, we understand that we talk about it all the time. 912 00:34:09,834 --> 00:34:11,118 So let's dive in on that. 913 00:34:11,118 --> 00:34:14,118 because this is a principle that literally, if you can understand this and 914 00:34:14,118 --> 00:34:18,488 embody this, it is the fastest way to increase your standards in life. 915 00:34:18,488 --> 00:34:20,838 And we can talk about the deposits too. 916 00:34:20,838 --> 00:34:21,608 So I like this. 917 00:34:21,608 --> 00:34:25,098 I want to take this back to the two intent with this, right? 918 00:34:25,098 --> 00:34:27,758 Because intense, one of those things with how you do everything, how you do one 919 00:34:27,758 --> 00:34:28,598 thing is how you do everything. 920 00:34:28,598 --> 00:34:28,978 Right? 921 00:34:28,978 --> 00:34:33,358 So from like a standpoint of let's say, and this is something we talked about 922 00:34:33,358 --> 00:34:33,778 here, right? 923 00:34:33,778 --> 00:34:35,368 Where you see a piece of paper, you pick it up. 924 00:34:35,368 --> 00:34:35,938 Okay. 925 00:34:35,938 --> 00:34:38,518 You see a book off you, you fix it, right? 926 00:34:38,518 --> 00:34:40,814 And you do it because it's like, Hey, it might not. 927 00:34:40,814 --> 00:34:42,254 literally make any difference, right? 928 00:34:42,254 --> 00:34:43,494 It's a little bit off. 929 00:34:43,494 --> 00:34:47,134 But the fact that you took your time to make that perfect or as perfect as it can 930 00:34:47,134 --> 00:34:50,484 be, what are you gonna do in the rest of the areas of your life, right? 931 00:34:50,484 --> 00:34:52,934 Well, hey, what happens when it comes to a relationship? 932 00:34:52,934 --> 00:34:56,554 And let's say maybe, you know, something happens, you're like, do I really wanna do 933 00:34:56,554 --> 00:34:56,674 that? 934 00:34:56,674 --> 00:34:57,414 And you're like, you know what? 935 00:34:57,414 --> 00:34:59,114 I want to because I wanna make this right. 936 00:34:59,114 --> 00:35:03,254 I wanna make sure I do what my part here and make sure nothing's left unturned, 937 00:35:03,254 --> 00:35:03,594 right? 938 00:35:03,594 --> 00:35:07,294 And when you do that with everything, it adds up in life and it's like deposits to 939 00:35:07,294 --> 00:35:07,934 your point, right? 940 00:35:07,934 --> 00:35:09,294 And we can kind of tie it all in. 941 00:35:09,294 --> 00:35:12,694 But at the end of the day, intent is where my mind goes with how you do one thing is 942 00:35:12,694 --> 00:35:13,364 how you do everything. 943 00:35:13,364 --> 00:35:13,814 Yeah. 944 00:35:13,814 --> 00:35:14,594 Right. 945 00:35:14,594 --> 00:35:15,434 I'll chip in there. 946 00:35:15,434 --> 00:35:16,774 And it's also standards. 947 00:35:16,774 --> 00:35:17,014 Right. 948 00:35:17,014 --> 00:35:21,474 And another example of that is it's a joke that used to be made, but it was how first 949 00:35:21,474 --> 00:35:22,054 one did things. 950 00:35:22,054 --> 00:35:24,414 And to some degree, we still how we do it. 951 00:35:24,414 --> 00:35:26,914 It's like when people would show up for a job interview, they would go out and check 952 00:35:26,914 --> 00:35:29,754 the person's car and then they would relay information back. 953 00:35:29,754 --> 00:35:31,894 But I do that guy's car is the pig's thigh. 954 00:35:31,894 --> 00:35:32,214 Right. 955 00:35:32,214 --> 00:35:35,034 So you could sit in an interview and be like, man, I'm organized. 956 00:35:35,034 --> 00:35:38,798 Like I have a strength of just being of getting stuff done and taking initiative. 957 00:35:38,798 --> 00:35:40,848 But then when you go look at their car, you're like, not bro. 958 00:35:40,848 --> 00:35:43,358 The actions ain't lining up with the words, right? 959 00:35:43,358 --> 00:35:47,738 So, it's really the fastest way to understand that, like, I need to increase 960 00:35:47,738 --> 00:35:50,848 my standard and that nothing is too small or insignificant. 961 00:35:50,848 --> 00:35:52,878 You know, that's what it's really done for my life. 962 00:35:52,878 --> 00:35:56,458 I've like, yeah, walking through the office and having an extreme tension to 963 00:35:56,458 --> 00:35:59,978 the detail now to almost an OCD level of like, are all the chairs straight? 964 00:35:59,978 --> 00:36:00,798 Are the wheels straight? 965 00:36:00,798 --> 00:36:02,298 Is there any stuff on the floor? 966 00:36:02,298 --> 00:36:04,768 Is there any little watermarks in the mirror? 967 00:36:04,768 --> 00:36:04,928 Right. 968 00:36:04,928 --> 00:36:06,318 And taking care of that stuff. 969 00:36:06,318 --> 00:36:09,258 Because your point, when you do take care of those things, that's a deposit in the 970 00:36:09,258 --> 00:36:10,118 discipline piggy bank. 971 00:36:10,118 --> 00:36:11,108 It's a skill set. 972 00:36:11,108 --> 00:36:12,088 Yeah, it's a skill set. 973 00:36:12,088 --> 00:36:16,958 It'd be very easy to not do those things, but it'd be also very easy to do them, 974 00:36:16,958 --> 00:36:17,378 right? 975 00:36:17,378 --> 00:36:18,618 So which one are you going to do? 976 00:36:18,618 --> 00:36:21,818 Hey, it'd be very easy to eat seven slices of pizza. 977 00:36:21,818 --> 00:36:23,678 It'd be very easy not to, right? 978 00:36:23,678 --> 00:36:24,668 Which one are you going to do? 979 00:36:24,668 --> 00:36:26,998 And that discipline carries over to other areas of your life. 980 00:36:26,998 --> 00:36:29,738 And then the really cool thing about it is you literally increase your standard 981 00:36:29,738 --> 00:36:31,138 across your entire life. 982 00:36:31,138 --> 00:36:33,958 And then that's how you actually outwardly change the world, right? 983 00:36:33,958 --> 00:36:35,566 I was at an airport one time. 984 00:36:35,566 --> 00:36:37,486 Everybody knows how airport bathrooms are. 985 00:36:37,486 --> 00:36:39,306 I'm just completely destroyed. 986 00:36:39,306 --> 00:36:41,066 It's 20 feet long, right? 987 00:36:41,066 --> 00:36:42,026 Soaking wet. 988 00:36:42,026 --> 00:36:43,306 So I'm in there wiping it down. 989 00:36:43,306 --> 00:36:43,916 I had time. 990 00:36:43,916 --> 00:36:44,796 Like, why would I not? 991 00:36:44,796 --> 00:36:45,106 Right. 992 00:36:45,106 --> 00:36:47,146 And I was going to do it even if I didn't have time. 993 00:36:47,146 --> 00:36:49,806 So wiping it down and this dude comes in, he's like, hey, man, you don't got to do 994 00:36:49,806 --> 00:36:49,866 that. 995 00:36:49,866 --> 00:36:50,806 They got people to do that. 996 00:36:50,806 --> 00:36:53,966 And I'm like, yeah, but there's never a wrong time to do the right thing, brother. 997 00:36:53,966 --> 00:36:56,406 And then actually, you know, he's grabbing paper towels and he's helping me. 998 00:36:56,406 --> 00:36:57,146 Isn't that great? 999 00:36:57,146 --> 00:36:59,396 Now, the cool thing is, is I don't not going to follow that guy around. 1000 00:36:59,396 --> 00:37:02,216 But my hope is that he'll do that for the rest of his life. 1001 00:37:02,216 --> 00:37:02,406 Right. 1002 00:37:02,406 --> 00:37:04,558 Just because I put a little chip in his ear. 1003 00:37:04,558 --> 00:37:07,678 a little seed planted of like, dude, it's the right thing to do. 1004 00:37:07,678 --> 00:37:08,587 And I got time to do it. 1005 00:37:08,587 --> 00:37:09,828 Why wouldn't I do that? 1006 00:37:09,828 --> 00:37:10,718 I love that. 1007 00:37:10,718 --> 00:37:13,868 And the thing about it is correlation or causation, right? 1008 00:37:13,868 --> 00:37:18,138 Because the people that pay attention to those things and operate that way, some of 1009 00:37:18,138 --> 00:37:21,618 the most successful people that I know, isn't that crazy how that works though? 1010 00:37:21,618 --> 00:37:26,158 I think about to this example too, where it's like soccer, right? 1011 00:37:26,158 --> 00:37:29,898 Or team sports, you know, you hear it all the time where it's like the people that 1012 00:37:29,898 --> 00:37:33,966 have played in a team sport or have played at like a higher level. 1013 00:37:33,966 --> 00:37:38,176 they're typically, whenever they carry that mindset with them everywhere else, 1014 00:37:38,176 --> 00:37:38,386 right? 1015 00:37:38,386 --> 00:37:39,706 And it's like, well, why do they do that? 1016 00:37:39,706 --> 00:37:42,586 Well, it's because they were so immersed in it all the time. 1017 00:37:42,586 --> 00:37:43,386 Well, guess what? 1018 00:37:43,386 --> 00:37:45,906 Not all of us can play team sports anymore, right? 1019 00:37:45,906 --> 00:37:48,546 Like some of us got kids, some of us got jobs, some of us got family. 1020 00:37:48,546 --> 00:37:51,426 So it's like, how do you create that environment for yourself outside of that? 1021 00:37:51,426 --> 00:37:53,416 Well, it's like, hey, it's picking up that piece of paper. 1022 00:37:53,416 --> 00:37:56,496 Hey, it's wiping down that, the countertop in the bathroom. 1023 00:37:56,496 --> 00:37:58,966 Because if you do that, now you're paying attention to more things. 1024 00:37:58,966 --> 00:37:59,376 And guess what? 1025 00:37:59,376 --> 00:38:01,336 That transfers over into your life, right? 1026 00:38:01,336 --> 00:38:01,966 So like, 1027 00:38:01,966 --> 00:38:04,706 The reason we even talk about how you do one thing is how you do everything is 1028 00:38:04,706 --> 00:38:08,246 because if you're willing to take the time to do that, where else is that going to 1029 00:38:08,246 --> 00:38:09,206 transfer over? 1030 00:38:09,206 --> 00:38:09,426 Right? 1031 00:38:09,426 --> 00:38:09,986 Because guess what? 1032 00:38:09,986 --> 00:38:10,746 It's kind of like school. 1033 00:38:10,746 --> 00:38:11,726 It's like what you learn in school. 1034 00:38:11,726 --> 00:38:15,426 If you're paying attention and you're truly invested, it's going to transfer 1035 00:38:15,426 --> 00:38:17,306 over some way, some shape, some form, right? 1036 00:38:17,306 --> 00:38:18,386 It's like what our parents teach us. 1037 00:38:18,386 --> 00:38:19,506 It transfers over. 1038 00:38:19,506 --> 00:38:21,126 Well, how do we create that for ourselves? 1039 00:38:21,126 --> 00:38:25,546 Because that's the beauty of human beings is we have the ability to create our own 1040 00:38:25,546 --> 00:38:26,446 standard. 1041 00:38:26,446 --> 00:38:30,806 And when you create that standard for yourself, dude, it elevates every other 1042 00:38:30,806 --> 00:38:31,982 area in your life. 1043 00:38:31,982 --> 00:38:35,142 And that's where a lot of, I want to say happiness can come from, right? 1044 00:38:35,142 --> 00:38:38,882 Because that's also with thought processes, that's with relationships, 1045 00:38:38,882 --> 00:38:42,362 that's with your career, that's with your work, that's with regularly just keeping 1046 00:38:42,362 --> 00:38:43,582 your house clean, right? 1047 00:38:43,582 --> 00:38:46,622 It's from literally the basic bones of anything that you do. 1048 00:38:46,622 --> 00:38:50,442 And if you do it at the best level that you can, it'll transfer over into everyday 1049 00:38:50,442 --> 00:38:52,092 life without even thinking about it. 1050 00:38:52,092 --> 00:38:54,142 Like you're just naturally gonna want to do that. 1051 00:38:54,142 --> 00:38:54,782 And guess what? 1052 00:38:54,782 --> 00:38:56,382 It's not as hard anymore. 1053 00:38:56,382 --> 00:38:58,862 You know, I use this example with my team all the time. 1054 00:38:58,862 --> 00:39:01,870 Your first time ever tying your shoes, how fucking hard was it? 1055 00:39:01,870 --> 00:39:03,190 Yeah, it's real hard. 1056 00:39:03,190 --> 00:39:04,670 Dude, it's the hardest thing in the world. 1057 00:39:04,670 --> 00:39:07,830 You feel like you can't fucking you're like, there's no way. 1058 00:39:07,830 --> 00:39:09,950 When's the last time you remember tying your shoes? 1059 00:39:09,950 --> 00:39:11,560 I don't I just slide them on. 1060 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:12,950 That's how they come from the factory. 1061 00:39:12,950 --> 00:39:13,450 All right, dude. 1062 00:39:13,450 --> 00:39:13,850 Damn it. 1063 00:39:13,850 --> 00:39:14,290 Come on. 1064 00:39:14,290 --> 00:39:15,470 There's a point to this. 1065 00:39:15,470 --> 00:39:16,890 Yeah, I don't ever think about it. 1066 00:39:16,890 --> 00:39:18,770 But you don't think about it doesn't take time. 1067 00:39:18,770 --> 00:39:19,610 It's a habit. 1068 00:39:19,610 --> 00:39:22,940 You've done it so much that you don't need to spend time on it. 1069 00:39:22,940 --> 00:39:23,070 Right. 1070 00:39:23,070 --> 00:39:24,650 And that's how life works. 1071 00:39:24,650 --> 00:39:24,930 Right. 1072 00:39:24,930 --> 00:39:27,342 Hey, something that you might want to get better at or whatever. 1073 00:39:27,342 --> 00:39:30,382 It's gonna be weird at first, you gotta pay attention, it's gonna be hard, but 1074 00:39:30,382 --> 00:39:33,902 once you do it so much, it becomes just a part of you. 1075 00:39:33,902 --> 00:39:37,042 And to your point, there's a reason the most successful people do it, and it 1076 00:39:37,042 --> 00:39:39,822 becomes a part of them because it transfers over into every area of their 1077 00:39:39,822 --> 00:39:39,902 life. 1078 00:39:39,902 --> 00:39:42,582 Yeah, and it's a really good way to sum that up. 1079 00:39:42,582 --> 00:39:45,362 It's true with a lot of things that I teach people. 1080 00:39:45,362 --> 00:39:50,402 Even with tracking macros for your nutrition, working out, it hits a 1081 00:39:50,402 --> 00:39:53,126 threshold of it's no longer what you do, it's who you are. 1082 00:39:53,230 --> 00:39:53,580 Right. 1083 00:39:53,580 --> 00:39:56,170 And with, with the, how you do one thing is how you do everything. 1084 00:39:56,170 --> 00:39:57,510 That's true with that as well. 1085 00:39:57,510 --> 00:39:58,290 Cause guess what? 1086 00:39:58,290 --> 00:40:00,530 Like it's not, it's so weird to me, dude. 1087 00:40:00,530 --> 00:40:05,050 It's, it's like another part of my brain has been tapped into where I notice 1088 00:40:05,050 --> 00:40:05,640 everything. 1089 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:09,710 So if I'm on a rock, right, if I'm walking and this happened not too long ago, where 1090 00:40:09,710 --> 00:40:12,130 if I'm walking, I don't look up and out a lot. 1091 00:40:12,130 --> 00:40:14,630 Like I'll just kind of look down in front of me and I'm, as I'm thinking and 1092 00:40:14,630 --> 00:40:16,870 walking, making sure I'm not tripping on anything. 1093 00:40:16,870 --> 00:40:21,050 And then like, I'll look up and literally every time I look up, I'm looking straight 1094 00:40:21,050 --> 00:40:21,890 at a piece of trash. 1095 00:40:21,890 --> 00:40:23,310 That's like 55 feet away. 1096 00:40:23,310 --> 00:40:23,950 That's crazy. 1097 00:40:23,950 --> 00:40:26,490 Yeah, it's like my eyes literally just find it. 1098 00:40:26,490 --> 00:40:26,710 Right. 1099 00:40:26,710 --> 00:40:27,590 It's so weird. 1100 00:40:27,590 --> 00:40:29,990 So and then of course, once I see it, I got to go get it. 1101 00:40:29,990 --> 00:40:34,010 So I mean, I've spent 30 minutes in a shop in a shopping cart. 1102 00:40:34,010 --> 00:40:36,010 It's frenzy running around a park on my guy. 1103 00:40:36,010 --> 00:40:38,490 That one's like, freaking 800 yards away. 1104 00:40:38,490 --> 00:40:39,530 Do I go get that one? 1105 00:40:39,530 --> 00:40:40,320 Yeah, I do. 1106 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:40,550 Yeah. 1107 00:40:40,550 --> 00:40:41,250 You know what I mean? 1108 00:40:41,250 --> 00:40:42,810 It's just the freaking weirdest thing. 1109 00:40:42,810 --> 00:40:46,990 But the way that I look at it is if I don't do that, I consciously saw that and 1110 00:40:46,990 --> 00:40:49,850 I consciously made a decision that I wasn't going to hold that standard. 1111 00:40:49,850 --> 00:40:52,170 And that to me, that's not who I am. 1112 00:40:52,170 --> 00:40:52,460 Right. 1113 00:40:52,460 --> 00:40:53,166 It's it's 1114 00:40:53,166 --> 00:40:56,686 Maybe it used to be what I did, but it's not who I am anymore. 1115 00:40:56,686 --> 00:40:59,796 So, and to Dino's point, that will literally bleed into every single other, 1116 00:40:59,796 --> 00:41:00,486 every life. 1117 00:41:00,486 --> 00:41:03,686 Your decision -making process will be that much more automatic. 1118 00:41:03,686 --> 00:41:08,066 And the cool thing about decisions and automating things in your life from that 1119 00:41:08,066 --> 00:41:12,466 standpoint is your body and your mind, your mind wants to create habits out of 1120 00:41:12,466 --> 00:41:13,466 everything, right? 1121 00:41:13,466 --> 00:41:17,206 I think it was statistically like 40 to 50 % of your stuff you do every day is just 1122 00:41:17,206 --> 00:41:18,286 automatic, right? 1123 00:41:18,286 --> 00:41:21,966 And a proof positive of that is try to think of the order that you should take a 1124 00:41:21,966 --> 00:41:22,862 shower in. 1125 00:41:22,862 --> 00:41:23,262 Right? 1126 00:41:23,262 --> 00:41:26,162 You don't have to think about, all right, I'm going to wash my hand. 1127 00:41:26,162 --> 00:41:27,542 Everybody's the same way. 1128 00:41:27,542 --> 00:41:27,702 Right? 1129 00:41:27,702 --> 00:41:29,032 So your mind wants to do that. 1130 00:41:29,032 --> 00:41:32,702 And the cool thing about it is that that is how you become who you are, how you do 1131 00:41:32,702 --> 00:41:33,552 one thing, how you do everything. 1132 00:41:33,552 --> 00:41:35,762 You start focusing in on that, being intentional with it. 1133 00:41:35,762 --> 00:41:38,702 And then all of a sudden it's automatic and dude, it's, it's like we've talked 1134 00:41:38,702 --> 00:41:40,262 about with the subconscious, right? 1135 00:41:40,262 --> 00:41:42,682 When you do it so often, it's so it's there. 1136 00:41:42,682 --> 00:41:42,902 Right. 1137 00:41:42,902 --> 00:41:45,982 And we all have the subconscious running a lot of our time. 1138 00:41:45,982 --> 00:41:46,622 Right. 1139 00:41:46,622 --> 00:41:49,362 And when you can start taking control of those little things, like dude, the 1140 00:41:49,362 --> 00:41:51,630 subconscious is where it really starts to connect. 1141 00:41:51,630 --> 00:41:54,390 And when that connects, then it becomes a lot easier to do. 1142 00:41:54,390 --> 00:41:54,700 Right? 1143 00:41:54,700 --> 00:41:56,190 We could go in a whole episode of subconscious. 1144 00:41:56,190 --> 00:41:56,600 I know. 1145 00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,350 I was literally thinking that I was like, I was like, I want to dive into this, but 1146 00:41:59,350 --> 00:42:00,330 I'm going to keep this simple. 1147 00:42:00,330 --> 00:42:01,640 Let's talk about that next time. 1148 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:02,500 So I like that. 1149 00:42:02,500 --> 00:42:07,010 I like that Lord, but just know it's when you do these habits or when you do these 1150 00:42:07,010 --> 00:42:11,150 things consistently, the subconscious, the thing that's truly running us at most of 1151 00:42:11,150 --> 00:42:12,670 the time, right? 1152 00:42:12,670 --> 00:42:17,230 That once it's beaten in there, once it's there, dude, it sets you up to your point 1153 00:42:17,230 --> 00:42:19,410 where now you look up and you're like, you see it. 1154 00:42:19,410 --> 00:42:21,678 It's because subconsciously you should focus on it so much. 1155 00:42:21,678 --> 00:42:23,778 Do you remember that gorilla example that I told you about? 1156 00:42:23,778 --> 00:42:25,078 That's where my mind goes. 1157 00:42:25,078 --> 00:42:25,278 Right? 1158 00:42:25,278 --> 00:42:27,858 Like what you put your attention on is what you're going to see more of. 1159 00:42:27,858 --> 00:42:28,798 It's a filter. 1160 00:42:28,798 --> 00:42:30,578 We have a filter 24 seven. 1161 00:42:30,578 --> 00:42:31,018 my gosh. 1162 00:42:31,018 --> 00:42:31,698 It's a trainer filter. 1163 00:42:31,698 --> 00:42:33,498 It's called your reticular activating system. 1164 00:42:33,498 --> 00:42:33,918 Yup. 1165 00:42:33,918 --> 00:42:38,218 I'll finish it with this and this will be a teaser for the next episode. 1166 00:42:38,218 --> 00:42:39,468 It's gonna be freaking fun. 1167 00:42:39,468 --> 00:42:40,228 Let's get it. 1168 00:42:40,228 --> 00:42:43,258 Guys, your subconscious mind dictates what your life is. 1169 00:42:43,258 --> 00:42:44,158 Period. 1170 00:42:44,198 --> 00:42:44,708 Period. 1171 00:42:44,708 --> 00:42:46,368 So your point, I'll correct you with it. 1172 00:42:46,368 --> 00:42:47,578 It's most of the time. 1173 00:42:47,578 --> 00:42:49,398 No, it is a hundred percent of the time. 1174 00:42:49,398 --> 00:42:49,928 You know what I mean? 1175 00:42:49,928 --> 00:42:50,606 95. 1176 00:42:50,606 --> 00:42:53,446 100 % 100 % 95. 1177 00:42:53,446 --> 00:42:54,706 We got five. 1178 00:42:54,706 --> 00:42:56,986 It goes back to the example that we give, right? 1179 00:42:56,986 --> 00:43:00,706 And this is that question that blows people's minds is, all right, you know, 1180 00:43:00,706 --> 00:43:03,466 think about the type of computer that you have. 1181 00:43:03,566 --> 00:43:03,896 Right? 1182 00:43:03,896 --> 00:43:04,826 So you thinking about it? 1183 00:43:04,826 --> 00:43:06,306 Okay, now speak it out loud. 1184 00:43:06,306 --> 00:43:07,236 What type of computer? 1185 00:43:07,236 --> 00:43:08,126 Yeah. 1186 00:43:08,126 --> 00:43:08,986 Hard drive, right? 1187 00:43:08,986 --> 00:43:09,686 Like, is that what you mean? 1188 00:43:09,686 --> 00:43:10,626 Mac. 1189 00:43:10,726 --> 00:43:11,766 well, I'm not okay. 1190 00:43:11,866 --> 00:43:12,926 So I got a PC. 1191 00:43:12,926 --> 00:43:13,106 Right? 1192 00:43:13,106 --> 00:43:13,526 Well, whatever. 1193 00:43:13,526 --> 00:43:14,046 You know what I'm saying? 1194 00:43:14,046 --> 00:43:14,726 I got both. 1195 00:43:14,726 --> 00:43:14,846 Okay. 1196 00:43:14,846 --> 00:43:15,146 Yeah, yeah. 1197 00:43:15,146 --> 00:43:19,526 The exercise here is like the question you ask is like, all right, I want you to say 1198 00:43:19,526 --> 00:43:20,462 that in your head. 1199 00:43:20,462 --> 00:43:22,082 they say it in their head, they hear that voice. 1200 00:43:22,082 --> 00:43:24,481 And then you speak it out loud and you hear your voice saying it. 1201 00:43:24,481 --> 00:43:26,752 And then the question is, well, which voice is yours? 1202 00:43:26,752 --> 00:43:30,982 And the answer to the question is it's the voice that knows the difference. 1203 00:43:30,982 --> 00:43:34,022 You are the piece that knows the difference between those two voices, which 1204 00:43:34,022 --> 00:43:35,242 is your subconscious mind. 1205 00:43:35,242 --> 00:43:36,432 It's personal listening. 1206 00:43:36,432 --> 00:43:37,702 Yeah, it's wild, bro. 1207 00:43:37,702 --> 00:43:38,902 It's wild. 1208 00:43:38,902 --> 00:43:41,782 Human being we are not what we think we are guys. 1209 00:43:41,782 --> 00:43:43,162 You know what's cool about that though? 1210 00:43:43,162 --> 00:43:45,942 It's like if you want to find out who you really are, pay attention to your 1211 00:43:45,942 --> 00:43:47,726 subconscious as much as you can. 1212 00:43:47,726 --> 00:43:49,946 That's the whole idea of meditation and visualization. 1213 00:43:49,946 --> 00:43:51,226 That's exactly it, bro. 1214 00:43:51,226 --> 00:43:53,576 What about, what's his name? 1215 00:43:53,576 --> 00:43:54,906 Rogan podcast. 1216 00:43:56,906 --> 00:43:58,126 Terrence McKenna. 1217 00:43:58,126 --> 00:43:58,656 No, no, no. 1218 00:43:58,656 --> 00:44:00,646 What's, Terrence Howard, Terrence Howard. 1219 00:44:00,646 --> 00:44:01,646 McKenna is a fighter. 1220 00:44:01,646 --> 00:44:03,106 Like dude, talk about subconscious mind. 1221 00:44:03,106 --> 00:44:04,046 Yeah, dude. 1222 00:44:04,046 --> 00:44:04,326 Yeah. 1223 00:44:04,326 --> 00:44:07,306 Well, that's a, yeah, we're diving into that whole thing. 1224 00:44:07,306 --> 00:44:08,216 Dude. 1225 00:44:08,346 --> 00:44:09,016 my God, bro. 1226 00:44:09,016 --> 00:44:10,006 Yeah. 1227 00:44:10,006 --> 00:44:11,126 All right guys, we are at time. 1228 00:44:11,126 --> 00:44:13,070 I got to jump in and do a little bit of work stuff here on a 1229 00:44:13,070 --> 00:44:14,060 Beautiful st. 1230 00:44:14,060 --> 00:44:18,630 Louis Saturday, but we appreciate you listening and as always feedback from you 1231 00:44:18,630 --> 00:44:22,650 guys is absolutely amazing So keep that coming We love to hear what you guys like 1232 00:44:22,650 --> 00:44:26,450 what you don't like and what's driving you the things you're gaining value from on 1233 00:44:26,450 --> 00:44:29,610 the show If you are finding value in the show, please share it. 1234 00:44:29,610 --> 00:44:33,290 It's really we don't advertise, you know, we probably never will It's just gonna be 1235 00:44:33,290 --> 00:44:36,470 a word of mouth message here And if you find that hey this this podcast is making 1236 00:44:36,470 --> 00:44:39,590 a difference in my life making me think a little bit more This is how we change 1237 00:44:39,590 --> 00:44:40,090 mindsets. 1238 00:44:40,090 --> 00:44:41,350 So we change the world a little bit. 1239 00:44:41,350 --> 00:44:41,870 So 1240 00:44:41,870 --> 00:44:45,650 share the show, let us know how we're doing and we appreciate every single one 1241 00:44:45,650 --> 00:44:46,070 of you. 1242 00:44:46,070 --> 00:44:48,990 Thank you guys and we'll be back next week so that's a wrap. 1243 00:44:48,990 --> 00:44:50,950 We love y 'all and peace!