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<v Malak Fouad>I think of our region, you know, as a mosaic. We are a multitude of different things.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I think we need to start looking at that as a positive. I wrote a lot of

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<v Malak Fouad>these new lightning round questions in light of the fact that I'm now firmly

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<v Malak Fouad>middle-aged, which is something I'm embracing and I'm not ignoring.

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<v Chirag Desai>Hi, Malak. Welcome to our 2026. Well, the first catch-up of 2026,

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<v Chirag Desai>basically. I don't know if there are enough words to describe how this year

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<v Chirag Desai>has gone really quite...

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<v Malak Fouad>Well, especially that you're sitting in Dubai and you've gone through a lot of changes.

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<v Chirag Desai>We want to take this opportunity as well to catch up on what's going on since

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<v Chirag Desai>the start of the year for the show. Do you have any special highlights from the start of the year?

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<v Malak Fouad>I think what for me was a real joy was, as usual, the breadth of our guests.

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<v Malak Fouad>I mean, the variety of conversations that I was able to have this year,

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<v Malak Fouad>the depth of the conversation.

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<v Malak Fouad>If I just do a quick roundup, we had the icon that is Abdel Wahed El Wakil,

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<v Malak Fouad>who is just such a star and such an important figure in our region,

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<v Malak Fouad>reclaiming identity, reclaiming our heritage from the point of view of architecture.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I have a personal connection to him because he's a family friend and I was

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<v Malak Fouad>really so happy to get his story.

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<v Chirag Desai>It was just really fun to listen to, by the way. Just listening to your grandfather

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<v Chirag Desai>just telling you stories about his childhood and his adulthood.

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<v Chirag Desai>I think that resonated really well.

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<v Malak Fouad>And his body of work speaks for itself. I mean, he's a recognizable name across the region.

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<v Malak Fouad>So I was really, really happy to do that. And to do it in his hometown,

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<v Malak Fouad>he lives in Doha. So I recorded that with him last December.

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<v Chirag Desai>You know, linked to that also was sort of almost this what I did next going

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<v Chirag Desai>international theme that happened, right? So you have filmed outside of Egypt

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<v Chirag Desai>before. We filmed in Dubai.

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<v Chirag Desai>But this time you also filmed in Doha, which you just mentioned with Abdel Wahed.

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<v Chirag Desai>But you also filmed in London. And so we had Nabila [Abdel Nabi],

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<v Chirag Desai>who incidentally was our first video episode on Apple Podcasts.

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<v Chirag Desai>So that was also fun. I mean, one of the new launches this year,

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<v Chirag Desai>Apple adding video as a thing.

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<v Chirag Desai>And then we've got another one coming out next month that was also filmed in London.

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<v Malak Fouad>There's another one coming up in September that I'm going to be filming in San

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<v Malak Fouad>Francisco in person as well. So that's very exciting.

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<v Malak Fouad>So yeah, I mean, the show is...like

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<v Malak Fouad>a lot of businesses around the world now, there's no geographical frame

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<v Malak Fouad>for anything anymore. You can either be doing things online or in person anywhere.

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<v Chirag Desai>Yeah, and I think we've always said, right, that there's sort of as much as

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<v Chirag Desai>we will obviously still do, and we are currently doing a conversation that's remote.

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<v Chirag Desai>Those in-person conversations just tend to be a little bit more meaty.

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<v Chirag Desai>There's more, you know, there's just room for more chemistry,

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<v Chirag Desai>both before and after and all of that. And so this was a nice opportunity for

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<v Chirag Desai>you to do it with them in person.

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<v Malak Fouad>I think it was just like a lot of the other things that happen in life.

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<v Malak Fouad>It was just good timing. It was luck. And it just came together nicely.

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<v Malak Fouad>I'm not sure I'll be able to do interviews in, you know, in Australia or in

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<v Malak Fouad>more of, you know, further afield.

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<v Malak Fouad>But these just came together nicely. And then a big revelation for me was Thuraya

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<v Malak Fouad>Ismail, who I just really adored speaking to.

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<v Malak Fouad>She really is such a great rep representative for our region and she's really

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<v Malak Fouad>personifies what's amazing about women from the region who are multicultural and who

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<v Malak Fouad>are giving back and I was very impressed by her and very inspired by her. And

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<v Malak Fouad>then you know there are so many all the other guests were amazing but I will

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<v Malak Fouad>highlight one more person

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<v Malak Fouad>and it's more about the way the interview came about, which is Tim Marshall.

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<v Malak Fouad>I've been chasing him for about two years on email to try and get him on the show.

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<v Malak Fouad>And finally, he accepted. And I actually met him end of last year at a talk

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<v Malak Fouad>he was giving in London. His episode came out in April. It was right in the middle of the Iran war.

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<v Malak Fouad>And so his insights were even more pertinent and important. And that was pure serendipity. And so now

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<v Chirag Desai>We are in the foothills of designing a new system.

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<v Chirag Desai>And it's very uncomfortable when we're going through these formative years because

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<v Chirag Desai>it's not what we're used to.

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<v Chirag Desai>And I don't know how it's going to settle down. I suspect it settles down into

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<v Chirag Desai>another bipolar world. Yeah. And I kind of also wanted to connect that to something

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<v Chirag Desai>else, right, which is sort of this, you know, the show has always been regional oriented, right?

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<v Malak Fouad>Absolutely. So the MENA region was a very conscious choice for me when I created the podcast.

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<v Malak Fouad>It wasn't Egypt focused. It wasn't coming from one particular place.

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<v Malak Fouad>But I really wanted to look at the region as a whole.

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<v Malak Fouad>You know, I think we've had such a bad rap over the last decades from a more

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<v Malak Fouad>further or a field, specifically after 9/11.

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<v Malak Fouad>I mean, the entire perception of the region was very warped by that.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I think, you know, we need to be reclaiming our stories.

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<v Malak Fouad>We need to be reclaiming our narratives.

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<v Malak Fouad>We are so past the colonial era, but we're still very much influenced by that

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<v Malak Fouad>and feeling the effects of that.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I think enough is enough. I think it's time that we stand up,

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<v Malak Fouad>we create our own stories, we tell our own stories.

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<v Malak Fouad>We are unbelievably educated people across the region, speaking languages in

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<v Malak Fouad>so many different industries.

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<v Malak Fouad>And it's time that we celebrate that. It's time that we highlight that.

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<v Malak Fouad>And that was a really conscious element of my show.

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<v Malak Fouad>I wanted to cheer that on. I wanted to put a spotlight on that.

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<v Chirag Desai>This is something that also, you know, constantly comes up on the show as well.

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<v Chirag Desai>And we came up as recently as last month's episode with Dina, right? Dina H. Sherif.

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<v Malak Fouad>There's a lot to say for...

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<v Malak Fouad>I think people being fed up with histories being written for them from a Western lens.

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<v Malak Fouad>So as someone who was, you know, born in the West and was very much influenced

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<v Malak Fouad>by Western thought and philosophy and so on,

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<v Malak Fouad>the Gaza war for me was a real turning point, as it was for a lot of my friends.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I was lucky enough to get on the show last summer, Omar El Akkad,

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<v Malak Fouad>who, as some of you might know, wrote this unbelievable book called One Day

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<v Malak Fouad>Everyone Will Have Always Been Against This.

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<v Malak Fouad>And he is really lambasting Western democracies for the hypocrisy and the two-faced

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<v Malak Fouad>approach to the Middle East.

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<v Malak Fouad>And although on an intellectual level, I had known that for decades, somehow emotionally

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<v Malak Fouad>his work really really touched me and

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<v Malak Fouad>the horrors that we were seeing in front of us on a daily basis just reinforced that

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<v Malak Fouad>and, you know, it kind of underpinned even more

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<v Malak Fouad>Why I'm doing this show. And at the beginning, when we started,

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<v Malak Fouad>and we've talked about this many times, it's

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<v Malak Fouad>not the origin story of the show.

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<v Malak Fouad>You know, it wasn't, that wasn't the focus, but it's really become its own calling

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<v Malak Fouad>card. And it's something I'm unbelievably proud of.

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<v Malak Fouad>And it's attributable to the magic of MENA,

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<v Malak Fouad>the magic of the region where we have all these stories, we have all these cultures,

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<v Malak Fouad>these nationalities, these languages, we're all the same, but we're all different.

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<v Malak Fouad>We're all having similar experiences, but we're all having different experiences.

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<v Malak Fouad>And if I can just shed a small light on that through the guests we bring on, then all the better.

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<v Chirag Desai>There's also just, in terms of just ourselves, right, we're always,

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<v Chirag Desai>you know, we also need that sort of sense of inspiration, maybe that sense of

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<v Chirag Desai>positivity that, look, there's so much happening here from the small to the big, right?

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<v Chirag Desai>It's not only sort of A headline and B headline, or there's so many things that happen.

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<v Chirag Desai>I mean, you know, through the show, we've met, heard from incredible guests

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<v Chirag Desai>who are impacting their own little circles, right? Even if it's not entire countries and the region.

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<v Chirag Desai>And I think that that's incredibly powerful.

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<v Malak Fouad>Absolutely. And I think of our region, you know, as a mosaic,

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<v Malak Fouad>we are a multitude of different things.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I think we need to start looking at that as a positive. You know,

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<v Malak Fouad>we've been told for decades, it's a negative, it's a negative.

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<v Malak Fouad>Your region is nothing but problems. You're the source of so many global issues.

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<v Malak Fouad>But I think we need to start flipping that round and looking at ourselves in the positive.

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<v Malak Fouad>And the stories on What I Did Next attest to that.

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<v Malak Fouad>People have surmounted a lot of challenges. And of course, the show brings that

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<v Malak Fouad>to the fore. We talk a lot about failure.

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<v Malak Fouad>We talk a lot about pivot points that are not on paper a positive,

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<v Malak Fouad>but somehow they do yield in the end a positive result for the person.

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<v Malak Fouad>And people learn from so much in their own lives.

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<v Malak Fouad>And so I found that something that we had from the very beginning of the show,

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<v Malak Fouad>it continues to be the bedrock of the theme.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I think it's very valuable.

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<v Chirag Desai>A link to this also, I mean, let's talk a little bit about language,

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<v Chirag Desai>right? So I know this is a question that we get asked a lot.

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<v Chirag Desai>I know this is something we spoke about actually way back in 2020 where we were

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<v Chirag Desai>kind of just mapping things up.

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<v Malak Fouad>Yeah. So for me, What I Did Next when we started thinking about how this show

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<v Malak Fouad>would be, for me, it was a no-brainer that it would be in English.

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<v Malak Fouad>English is my first language. I'm trilingual.

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<v Malak Fouad>I'm fluent in English, fluent in French. But Arabic is my third language.

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<v Malak Fouad>And unfortunately, it's my weakest link.

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<v Malak Fouad>So I wasn't confident enough to do a show in Arabic. And that's very much the

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<v Malak Fouad>reason why it's an English first show.

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<v Malak Fouad>Of course, the show is subtitled, which we craft and add on to YouTube, for example.

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<v Chirag Desai>Also our social media clips, right? So anything that we share from the episode

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<v Chirag Desai>comes in both languages. I mean, it's subtitled in both languages.

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<v Malak Fouad>So the other thing I'm very conscious of and was very conscious of when we were

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<v Malak Fouad>formulating the show was that English as a language opens doors for the MENA

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<v Malak Fouad>region on a global level.

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<v Malak Fouad>And the intention was always to have a global spotlight on the show in

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<v Malak Fouad>order to highlight the stories from the region. The other important fact

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<v Malak Fouad>that I think subconsciously I probably thought about and then got reinforced when we were able to

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<v Malak Fouad>look back on some of our numbers, our demographics, was that there is an absolutely

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<v Malak Fouad>massive Arab diaspora around the world.

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<v Malak Fouad>There is a huge Arab population in North America, whether it's the U.S.

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<v Malak Fouad>or Canada, in Europe, as well as in Australia and elsewhere.

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<v Malak Fouad>And a lot of this diaspora are second, third generation Arabs.

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<v Malak Fouad>So having a show from the region that can be a link to their countries of origin,

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<v Malak Fouad>their region of origin, highlighting positive stories is a really big benefit.

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<v Malak Fouad>And we've received messages from people around the world saying how much they

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<v Malak Fouad>love that and how much they feel connected to the region because of the show.

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<v Malak Fouad>So that's an important element as well. And so English, of course, is a benefit for that.

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<v Chirag Desai>I would also say that like when we talk about diaspora, it's not only necessarily,

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<v Chirag Desai>Arabs who migrated or whatever, but it's just people who grew up here,

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<v Chirag Desai>grew up in the region, may have moved out.

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<v Chirag Desai>I mean, as in I'm not Arab, for example, and I have come back.

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<v Chirag Desai>But a lot of my friends, a lot of obviously people that, you know,

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<v Chirag Desai>called Dubai their home when they grew up or Saudi, as you mentioned,

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<v Chirag Desai>and then have gone on to live in other parts of the world.

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<v Chirag Desai>Right. So I think there is also that sort of tier of people that when we talk

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<v Chirag Desai>about sort of this global perspective of people who have interest in the region

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<v Chirag Desai>for many reasons, who want to hear from the people that are building in the

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<v Chirag Desai>region, living in the region, etc.

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<v Chirag Desai>And I think it kind of caters to all of that.

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<v Malak Fouad>Absolutely. I couldn't agree more. And it reflects in so many people we've spoken

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<v Malak Fouad>to on the show who are, you know, I think of someone like Fares Akkad,

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<v Malak Fouad>who is the head of Meta in the Middle East.

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<v Malak Fouad>He's of Syrian origin, living in Dubai. He's just one of many people I can think of.

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<v Malak Fouad>Thuraya, who was on our show this year, also of Syrian origin,

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<v Malak Fouad>living in Lebanon, but grew up in Riyadh. So like, and myself,

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<v Malak Fouad>Egyptian, grew up in Saudi, moved out of the region completely at one point, and now I'm back.

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<v Malak Fouad>So, you know, like our stories, there are millions and millions.

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<v Malak Fouad>And that mix of nationality, that mix of culture is what makes our region so

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<v Malak Fouad>strong and so unique. And we're truly a melting pot.

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<v Malak Fouad>And it's our biggest strength, I think. Absolutely.

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<v Chirag Desai>All right. Well, so, I mean, as always, I mean, as is the tradition of the show,

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<v Chirag Desai>we've got to do a bit of a lightning round before we leave. Let's start with,

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<v Chirag Desai>like a little bit of a fun one is what fictional character do you most relate to?

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<v Malak Fouad>So it's a lovely question And it's a question that I think Like with a lot of

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<v Malak Fouad>the lightning round questions You have to think of the first one that comes

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<v Malak Fouad>to mind Yes So one of the books I absolutely loved reading when I was a child Was Little Women

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<v Malak Fouad>by Mary Louise Alcott. And the

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<v Malak Fouad>fictional character from that book that I absolutely adored is Jo March.

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<v Malak Fouad>And Jo March is the eldest daughter. And I love her because she's absolutely

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<v Malak Fouad>doing things her own way.

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<v Malak Fouad>She doesn't follow the crowd. This

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<v Malak Fouad>was a time, of course, when women were expected to be in the home doing,

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<v Malak Fouad>you know, home-related activities, not at all going out into the workplace and

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<v Malak Fouad>get married and have children and obey your elders and all of this kind of thing.

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<v Malak Fouad>And from a very early age, because it was in the civil war, because it was set

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<v Malak Fouad>in the civil war, a lot of traditions had to be put aside.

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<v Malak Fouad>And so women had to go out to work and so on. But I love her because she is

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<v Malak Fouad>completely authentic. She is completely

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<v Malak Fouad>following her own dream, her own path. She doesn't care who she offends.

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<v Malak Fouad>She just goes out and does her thing. And she carves out a life for herself

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<v Malak Fouad>that is exactly the life she wants. She becomes a writer in the book.

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<v Malak Fouad>She lives alone for a lot of the time away from her family.

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<v Malak Fouad>And eventually she does fall in love and she falls in love with someone completely

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<v Malak Fouad>different to anyone that is within the pages of the book

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<v Malak Fouad>and just love her uh her fearlessness and her ability to just go out and do

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<v Malak Fouad>what she wants um and she just comes across as such a real character because she's very flawed um

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<v Malak Fouad>she is uh tempestuous she's moody, she's just such a real person i mean

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<v Malak Fouad>I just found her really captivating and she's one of my favorite fictional characters.

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<v Chirag Desai>What matters much less than you thought it would?

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<v Malak Fouad>I wrote a lot of these new lightning round questions in light of the fact that

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<v Malak Fouad>I'm now firmly middle-aged, which is something I'm embracing and I'm not ignoring.

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<v Malak Fouad>What matters much less to me now is really people's opinions and what people

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<v Malak Fouad>think. And I'm much more concerned with what makes me happy,

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<v Malak Fouad>what makes me peaceful and calm.

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<v Malak Fouad>I'm much more likely to turn something down than accept it because I'm obliged to.

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<v Chirag Desai>So in contrast, like what matters much more than you thought it would?

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<v Malak Fouad>I think what matters much more to me, and this is something I've discussed so

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<v Malak Fouad>many times with my close girlfriends, is my close girlfriends.

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<v Malak Fouad>So people that I can really hang out with, be myself with, we're all,

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<v Malak Fouad>you know, I can speak about maybe a handful of girls.

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<v Malak Fouad>And they are girls. I don't know why they're girls, but they are girls who,

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<v Malak Fouad>for me, I relate to completely. You know, as an only child,

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<v Malak Fouad>my friends are really important to me.

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<v Malak Fouad>And we're all going through the same phase of life.

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<v Malak Fouad>And we're all relating to the same things. We're all finding the same things annoying.

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<v Malak Fouad>But we're also finding the same things attractive and wanting to be

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<v Malak Fouad>more peaceful, wanting to have more experiences that are fulfilling and not

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<v Malak Fouad>be, you know, the concept of FOMO is completely foreign to us now. Let me put it that way.

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<v Chirag Desai>What is it that calms you down?

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<v Malak Fouad>Sports, especially swimming. For me, swimming is a real escape.

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<v Malak Fouad>It's like a, it feels like a meditation because you're completely cocooned into another environment.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I think the The repetitiveness of swimming allows the mind to just calm

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<v Malak Fouad>down and wander on its own. The other thing that calms me is my dog.

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<v Malak Fouad>So as some of you know, I used to have two dogs.

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<v Malak Fouad>One passed away earlier this year, and it was a really big trauma for us as a family.

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<v Malak Fouad>And it's allowed me in a way to discover my second dog, who's much younger and

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<v Malak Fouad>was kind of hidden away or hidden behind the older dog.

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<v Malak Fouad>But he's now coming into his own in the home and he's absolutely adorable and

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<v Malak Fouad>he's just really cute to have around so he calms me down as well

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<v Chirag Desai>We have a nice memory of of your older dog on one of our episodes which is great,

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<v Chirag Desai>yeah. And then finally what's what's next for.

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<v Malak Fouad>you? So what's next for me is something quite personal so in September my husband

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<v Malak Fouad>and I are taking our youngest son to

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<v Malak Fouad>He's going to be on the other side of the world. He's going to be in California for his first year.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I'm actually having a really hard time coming to grips with that.

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<v Malak Fouad>First, you are going to be empty nesters, which is a really a big turning point,

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<v Malak Fouad>I think, in many families.

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<v Malak Fouad>And just, you know, his character is just so joyful. He's filled the house with

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<v Malak Fouad>so much laughter and his friends.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I'm just concerned about the, you know, what's coming next for me personally

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<v Malak Fouad>on that front. And I didn't expect for it to be this hard. When my eldest son

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<v Malak Fouad>went to college, it was cushioned by the fact that we still had a child at home.

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<v Chirag Desai>You weren't going all emptiness suddenly, right? Exactly. You were just missing him, yeah.

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<v Malak Fouad>So there's been a big change. And then plus with the, you know,

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<v Malak Fouad>our dog passing away earlier this year, it feels like the end of an era a little

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<v Malak Fouad>bit. And so it's a mental adjustment.

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<v Malak Fouad>And I thank God for the show because it's keeping me really busy.

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<v Chirag Desai>All right. Well, I mean, that's that for this catch up. I mean,

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<v Chirag Desai>I've always, you know, we always want to say a big thank you to you who are

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