1 00:00:00,967 --> 00:00:04,004 fell in to a burning ring of fire. 2 00:00:04,204 --> 00:00:06,373 I went down, down, John. You are truly. 3 00:00:06,373 --> 00:00:07,107 Oh, John. 4 00:00:07,107 --> 00:00:07,874 Johnny cash. 5 00:00:07,874 --> 00:00:09,542 That's right. Johnny Cash. 6 00:00:09,542 --> 00:00:11,011 And you could sing. 7 00:00:11,011 --> 00:00:13,213 I wear black in his honor today. 8 00:00:13,213 --> 00:00:14,814 And, just listen to some 9 00:00:14,814 --> 00:00:18,518 Johnny Cash earlier, before I came here to get me fired up for this, and, Yeah. 10 00:00:18,818 --> 00:00:19,886 Good for you. 11 00:00:19,886 --> 00:00:21,621 It's good to see you, Joyce. Nice to see you. 12 00:00:21,621 --> 00:00:25,258 I wore brown, but I have no inspiration for this at all. 13 00:00:25,959 --> 00:00:27,660 Earth. I'm earthy today. 14 00:00:27,660 --> 00:00:29,429 It's like the UPS truck. Whenever the truck comes up. 15 00:00:29,429 --> 00:00:31,464 Hey, I call it the brown Army. 16 00:00:31,464 --> 00:00:34,467 I am you, me. That's okay. 17 00:00:34,934 --> 00:00:35,969 And they have great benefits. 18 00:00:35,969 --> 00:00:38,238 They pay very. Well. That's true. 19 00:00:38,238 --> 00:00:39,272 All right, all right. 20 00:00:39,272 --> 00:00:41,074 I bring packages to people. 21 00:00:41,074 --> 00:00:42,442 That's right. Yeah. That's right. 22 00:00:45,011 --> 00:00:47,714 So I know what's good today. 23 00:00:47,714 --> 00:00:50,717 Because you shared something with me last night, 24 00:00:50,817 --> 00:00:53,686 and that was the the prayer of Jabez. 25 00:00:53,686 --> 00:00:54,387 Oh, yes. 26 00:00:54,387 --> 00:00:57,424 But you sent me something that was a little bit more than that. 27 00:00:58,058 --> 00:01:01,428 Yeah, I know that, you know, bless me, father, indeed. 28 00:01:01,428 --> 00:01:02,562 When you say indeed. 29 00:01:02,562 --> 00:01:05,565 And it's like five exclamation mark. And. 30 00:01:05,865 --> 00:01:06,800 Indeed blessed. 31 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:11,504 Yeah, dude, it's a prayer I've been saying with, And we'll see what happens. 32 00:01:11,504 --> 00:01:14,507 I mean, I just started saying that recently about abundance, 33 00:01:14,808 --> 00:01:18,778 speaking faith over your life, but in that, in that passage, that book 34 00:01:19,079 --> 00:01:22,048 that I've been reading over and over again, because it's only like 94 35 00:01:22,048 --> 00:01:25,051 pages, I love it, I internalize it, my spirit. 36 00:01:25,285 --> 00:01:28,288 It says whenever you have problems, embrace your problems. 37 00:01:28,721 --> 00:01:32,158 Embrace your problems because you like obstacles are opportunities, 38 00:01:32,525 --> 00:01:35,161 but give your problems names 39 00:01:35,161 --> 00:01:37,530 so they become like familiar. 40 00:01:37,530 --> 00:01:42,001 So if something keeps popping up, it's like, oh okay, you know 41 00:01:42,402 --> 00:01:44,104 Halifax, okay. 42 00:01:44,104 --> 00:01:46,372 You know, I don't know where it came up with anything but help. 43 00:01:46,372 --> 00:01:48,374 Robert, what's going on? 44 00:01:48,374 --> 00:01:49,175 What's going on? Again? 45 00:01:49,175 --> 00:01:52,178 Just go away or just kind of push it down that way. 46 00:01:52,245 --> 00:01:55,748 It's like it's there, but it's almost like a familiarity. 47 00:01:55,748 --> 00:01:58,585 It's not like this looming. Yeah. 48 00:01:58,585 --> 00:02:01,588 Because certain words or a name of a person could trigger 49 00:02:01,588 --> 00:02:02,789 something triggers in you. 50 00:02:02,789 --> 00:02:05,291 Right? Right. But if you give it another name. 51 00:02:05,291 --> 00:02:06,092 Give it another name. 52 00:02:06,092 --> 00:02:09,562 And it's almost like it's just, you know, it's there, it's like, oh, there you go. 53 00:02:09,562 --> 00:02:11,698 We can get out of here type thing. 54 00:02:11,698 --> 00:02:12,899 Well like that. 55 00:02:12,899 --> 00:02:14,968 And and they say that's very effective. 56 00:02:14,968 --> 00:02:18,905 I mean, I just started doing that over the past couple days after reading. 57 00:02:18,972 --> 00:02:19,305 Right? 58 00:02:19,305 --> 00:02:20,573 So if something comes up 59 00:02:20,573 --> 00:02:24,043 and we all have challenges, I just say, come on, there you go again. 60 00:02:24,544 --> 00:02:25,945 You know? Yeah. 61 00:02:25,945 --> 00:02:28,781 It's almost another way of like saying, get behind me, Satan. 62 00:02:28,781 --> 00:02:31,151 Right. Is making it a little bit more colloquial. 63 00:02:32,719 --> 00:02:34,154 It is. 64 00:02:34,154 --> 00:02:36,389 I know, I'm really, really liking that. 65 00:02:36,389 --> 00:02:39,993 And, you know, we were going to talk today about Stop living 66 00:02:39,993 --> 00:02:43,897 a roller coaster life, because that's exhausting in solitude. 67 00:02:43,930 --> 00:02:44,330 And we. 68 00:02:44,330 --> 00:02:47,033 All we're all on the roller. Coaster to see. It's exhausting. 69 00:02:47,033 --> 00:02:52,372 So try to keep on that, that even keel and so if there's something 70 00:02:52,372 --> 00:02:57,477 or someone who triggers you and you name it, something even silly. 71 00:02:57,544 --> 00:02:59,312 You just get really kind of silly about it. 72 00:02:59,312 --> 00:03:03,082 You're kind of goofy about it just, you know, don't even give it the 73 00:03:03,082 --> 00:03:06,085 the dignity that it doesn't deserve. 74 00:03:06,586 --> 00:03:07,520 Right way. 75 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,689 Right. And again that takes some practice. 76 00:03:09,689 --> 00:03:12,091 It takes some intentionality. And some people are watching right now. 77 00:03:12,091 --> 00:03:13,459 So you know that's gobbledygook. 78 00:03:13,459 --> 00:03:15,962 And maybe it feels that way in the beginning. 79 00:03:15,962 --> 00:03:17,397 But then I felt that way. 80 00:03:17,397 --> 00:03:18,631 But now that I've been doing it 81 00:03:18,631 --> 00:03:21,935 for a couple of days with a couple things that have weighed heavily on my heart, 82 00:03:22,502 --> 00:03:23,269 and we all have them. 83 00:03:23,269 --> 00:03:24,904 No matter who you are 84 00:03:24,904 --> 00:03:27,507 watching right now, something is weighing heavily on your heart. 85 00:03:27,507 --> 00:03:30,343 That can really help, be therapeutic. 86 00:03:31,444 --> 00:03:33,646 You know, I, I oh, I wish I 87 00:03:33,646 --> 00:03:36,683 could think of the whole quote, but I'm pretty sure it's Eckhart Tolle. 88 00:03:37,450 --> 00:03:39,419 Or some people say. Yes. 89 00:03:39,419 --> 00:03:42,422 He said like, welcome every problem. 90 00:03:42,422 --> 00:03:48,294 As if you invited it in, and then you. 91 00:03:49,529 --> 00:03:50,296 I don't know if. 92 00:03:50,296 --> 00:03:53,633 What if it loses its it loses its power. Yes. 93 00:03:53,666 --> 00:03:55,201 It loses its power. 94 00:03:55,201 --> 00:03:58,605 And you begin to think, okay, how can I use this for my good? 95 00:03:58,771 --> 00:04:00,840 What is this lesson I need to learn? 96 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,009 And I know people hear that a lot all the time. 97 00:04:03,009 --> 00:04:04,744 They're so sick of hearing the lessons. 98 00:04:04,744 --> 00:04:05,945 Life is a lesson. 99 00:04:05,945 --> 00:04:07,914 If you're sick. Every day, you get it. Lesson? 100 00:04:07,914 --> 00:04:09,616 We get it. Yes, we know that. We know that. 101 00:04:09,616 --> 00:04:12,752 But if it works and it does work. 102 00:04:12,752 --> 00:04:16,022 And something I heard recently that a mentor told me Joyce was 103 00:04:16,489 --> 00:04:19,659 don't let the problem with a person rent real estate in your head. 104 00:04:19,826 --> 00:04:21,094 Oh good. 105 00:04:21,094 --> 00:04:23,196 Don't let it rent real estate between your ears. 106 00:04:23,196 --> 00:04:25,832 Yes, because we do that all the time. 107 00:04:25,832 --> 00:04:28,801 And when you keep thinking about that person that annoys you or 108 00:04:28,835 --> 00:04:33,973 or that situation, you're giving that person or that situation power over you. 109 00:04:34,007 --> 00:04:37,010 Now you take the power. You have dominion. 110 00:04:37,210 --> 00:04:38,845 Right? Right. 111 00:04:38,845 --> 00:04:43,816 I'm just thinking that there's my my son's in my life, at least one of them. 112 00:04:44,250 --> 00:04:47,520 And I call my grandson my son because he's lived with me forever. 113 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:48,955 So there's I have three boys 114 00:04:49,922 --> 00:04:52,458 and invariably my cousins. 115 00:04:52,458 --> 00:04:53,393 Invariably. 116 00:04:53,393 --> 00:04:59,032 Every day, every other day, I will say, did you hear on the news? 117 00:04:59,032 --> 00:05:00,833 And it's like, no, no. 118 00:05:00,833 --> 00:05:02,702 And don't tell me exactly. 119 00:05:02,702 --> 00:05:05,672 But then they do start talking amongst themselves. 120 00:05:05,972 --> 00:05:09,542 And I usually excuse myself out because I could feel 121 00:05:09,542 --> 00:05:12,512 something bubbling within me that I don't want. 122 00:05:12,512 --> 00:05:15,515 Because when that happens, I dream about it 123 00:05:15,648 --> 00:05:20,586 and I don't want it taking space up, like you said, renting space in my mind. 124 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:21,888 And it's. 125 00:05:21,888 --> 00:05:24,524 Not like we're ostriches with our heads. 126 00:05:24,524 --> 00:05:25,725 Sometimes. I am, I. 127 00:05:25,725 --> 00:05:29,729 Mean, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, I guess, but but but I am aware of what's going on. 128 00:05:29,729 --> 00:05:30,630 Yeah, yeah. 129 00:05:30,630 --> 00:05:32,298 Because, you know, 130 00:05:32,298 --> 00:05:34,834 I like to be aware of that, you know, especially being in the media. 131 00:05:34,834 --> 00:05:35,802 Being in the entertainment business. 132 00:05:35,802 --> 00:05:38,071 Yeah, of course I have to be aware of all that. 133 00:05:38,071 --> 00:05:40,707 But at the same time, I'm not going to let it consume me. 134 00:05:40,707 --> 00:05:41,307 Right. 135 00:05:41,307 --> 00:05:44,911 I'm going to develop, like I said in a previous episode, that mental armor, 136 00:05:45,278 --> 00:05:47,180 when I do my prayer for work in the morning. 137 00:05:47,180 --> 00:05:50,016 So I have all my positive affirmations, all my prayer. 138 00:05:50,016 --> 00:05:53,119 So when I go out there, then I'm ready to to, 139 00:05:53,219 --> 00:05:56,255 you know, actually objectively listen to the news, right? 140 00:05:56,255 --> 00:06:00,660 And not let it have a negative effect on me, at least not, you know, on purpose. 141 00:06:01,060 --> 00:06:01,394 Yeah. 142 00:06:01,394 --> 00:06:02,762 You know, and try to look at it 143 00:06:02,762 --> 00:06:06,532 in a more objective fashion and weigh both sides of the issue. 144 00:06:07,300 --> 00:06:09,369 I'm very, very open minded about that. 145 00:06:09,369 --> 00:06:10,336 That's my nature. 146 00:06:10,336 --> 00:06:10,670 Yeah. 147 00:06:10,670 --> 00:06:11,671 I listen to both sides 148 00:06:11,671 --> 00:06:14,640 and I'll make up my own mind of what I'm hearing with the news. 149 00:06:14,874 --> 00:06:16,542 You know, I think some people are. 150 00:06:19,011 --> 00:06:20,913 They find peace or they're meant to be, 151 00:06:20,913 --> 00:06:25,451 the Warriors, and they'll go out with their signs or whatever. 152 00:06:25,451 --> 00:06:28,054 I don't roll that way. 153 00:06:28,054 --> 00:06:31,224 I vote I owe money to other people. 154 00:06:31,357 --> 00:06:34,026 Yeah, I do my thing. 155 00:06:34,026 --> 00:06:37,029 I'm more prayerful as you are, John. Yes. 156 00:06:37,029 --> 00:06:42,068 And there's a need for people like that in this world, 157 00:06:42,602 --> 00:06:45,738 you know, to hold the peace, to hold it, 158 00:06:46,305 --> 00:06:49,075 and to know that nothing stays forever. 159 00:06:49,075 --> 00:06:51,144 Things change all the time. 160 00:06:51,144 --> 00:06:54,147 And if you don't learn to flow with the change, 161 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:58,084 you're just not going to be happy. 162 00:06:58,451 --> 00:07:00,753 Well, they say the only thing positive is change. 163 00:07:00,753 --> 00:07:02,255 Yeah. Embrace that. 164 00:07:02,255 --> 00:07:03,856 Embrace the change and. Embrace. It. 165 00:07:03,856 --> 00:07:06,859 It was an old song back in the 70s called Rolling with the flow. 166 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:08,161 Oh yeah. Yeah. 167 00:07:08,161 --> 00:07:09,729 And of course you want to know that. 168 00:07:09,729 --> 00:07:12,598 Look it up on, you know, Apple or Pandora. You know who's. Struggling. 169 00:07:12,598 --> 00:07:14,834 Which of t o. 170 00:07:14,834 --> 00:07:16,402 Some people if they're under 40 right now. 171 00:07:16,402 --> 00:07:17,837 I said, who am 172 00:07:18,905 --> 00:07:22,141 I. No, I think all music has a it's coming back. 173 00:07:22,141 --> 00:07:23,843 Right. Well everything old is new again. 174 00:07:23,843 --> 00:07:25,278 Now that's a whole new generation. 175 00:07:25,278 --> 00:07:29,215 So you could talk to a 20 year old about something maybe we grew up with, 176 00:07:29,215 --> 00:07:32,218 and they're going to know it because they have complete access to it. 177 00:07:32,418 --> 00:07:33,619 Right. 178 00:07:33,619 --> 00:07:35,855 Getting involved, you know, all the different platforms 179 00:07:35,855 --> 00:07:37,256 they can listen to it on. 180 00:07:37,256 --> 00:07:39,459 So the music is timeless. I know we're kind of drifting off 181 00:07:39,459 --> 00:07:41,360 a little bit, but anytime you mentioned music. 182 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:42,695 Yeah. 183 00:07:42,695 --> 00:07:44,063 Man. Yes. 184 00:07:44,063 --> 00:07:44,997 That's our passion. 185 00:07:44,997 --> 00:07:47,700 Yeah. I think it's very peaceful. Yeah. It does. 186 00:07:47,700 --> 00:07:50,703 You know, I remember they did a study once where 187 00:07:50,736 --> 00:07:53,206 they took people who had high blood pressure 188 00:07:53,206 --> 00:07:56,976 or any kind of health problems, and they put them in an atmosphere 189 00:07:57,310 --> 00:08:02,782 of when they grew up and it it was like the 19 oh so 1950s. 190 00:08:03,516 --> 00:08:05,117 And they before our time where. 191 00:08:05,117 --> 00:08:06,719 Yes way. 192 00:08:06,719 --> 00:08:10,890 And they kept them in this atmosphere where there were only shows shown 193 00:08:11,190 --> 00:08:15,728 and on their TV from the 1950s, only music from the 50s. 194 00:08:16,262 --> 00:08:19,799 And at the end of this, this week research, 195 00:08:20,433 --> 00:08:23,903 there, blood pressure was way down. 196 00:08:24,370 --> 00:08:27,106 They had a more youthfulness about them. 197 00:08:27,106 --> 00:08:29,909 Aches and pains went away. 198 00:08:29,909 --> 00:08:34,313 So that is really the power of our mind. 199 00:08:34,447 --> 00:08:34,914 Well, music. 200 00:08:34,914 --> 00:08:37,917 Therapy and music therapy is so. Patient. 201 00:08:38,484 --> 00:08:39,952 It's so important. 202 00:08:39,952 --> 00:08:41,153 It really is. 203 00:08:41,153 --> 00:08:43,923 The power of the mind. It makes me want to. 204 00:08:43,923 --> 00:08:44,223 All right. 205 00:08:44,223 --> 00:08:46,592 So I should, Try to talk about the book here. 206 00:08:46,592 --> 00:08:47,994 No, no, we don't want to talk about the book. 207 00:08:47,994 --> 00:08:49,962 I love the book. There's just. 208 00:08:49,962 --> 00:08:50,396 This book. 209 00:08:50,396 --> 00:08:52,598 I mean, don't be shy about it, because this book is going to 210 00:08:52,598 --> 00:08:55,434 be therapeutic and help a lot of people, just like your previous books. 211 00:08:55,434 --> 00:08:58,204 Let me tell you something. My book helps me. 212 00:08:58,204 --> 00:08:58,971 Read because, 213 00:09:00,039 --> 00:09:01,040 you're having a hard time. 214 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:01,674 You're going to the show. 215 00:09:01,674 --> 00:09:04,343 I forgot to bring out your own book. 216 00:09:04,343 --> 00:09:07,980 I forgot what I said and a lot of things, because it just poured out of me. 217 00:09:08,414 --> 00:09:10,550 It just poured out of you. 218 00:09:10,550 --> 00:09:13,886 When you're writing the book, do you find that, what kind of mindset 219 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:14,987 you get into when you. 220 00:09:14,987 --> 00:09:17,823 I've always been curious about when people write music 221 00:09:17,823 --> 00:09:20,726 and I sit with songwriters, I sit with authors. 222 00:09:20,726 --> 00:09:21,360 What is there? 223 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:25,965 Is there a specific system you have, or is it all over the map? 224 00:09:28,467 --> 00:09:30,069 I think it 225 00:09:30,069 --> 00:09:32,972 I start with one thought 226 00:09:32,972 --> 00:09:35,207 and then I can't stop. 227 00:09:35,207 --> 00:09:39,845 I it's not like I think I would be really bad at writing a novel 228 00:09:40,112 --> 00:09:45,685 to keep all the fake people in place, but when it comes from my heart, 229 00:09:47,186 --> 00:09:50,189 I was very surprised what I wrote about, 230 00:09:50,556 --> 00:09:54,560 you know, even like my the Michael Bolton years and. 231 00:09:55,728 --> 00:09:58,297 Oh. What a what a what a, you know. 232 00:09:58,297 --> 00:09:58,731 No, because. 233 00:09:58,731 --> 00:10:01,400 A lot of people wanted to know how did you get involved with that? 234 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:03,869 Like how did you do this and how did you do that? 235 00:10:03,869 --> 00:10:07,406 And, and you know, in the book, my book also talks about, 236 00:10:08,107 --> 00:10:11,911 you know, I didn't have a great beginning when you when you're 16 years old 237 00:10:11,911 --> 00:10:16,115 and pregnant, and you have two kids by the time you're 18. 238 00:10:16,315 --> 00:10:18,484 Yeah, but look at these two kids. They're gifts. 239 00:10:18,484 --> 00:10:20,419 Absolutely. Gifts. 240 00:10:20,419 --> 00:10:20,653 You know, 241 00:10:20,653 --> 00:10:25,625 my grandson said to me the other day, he said, you made some poor life choices. 242 00:10:25,925 --> 00:10:27,460 And I said, let me tell you something. 243 00:10:27,460 --> 00:10:29,996 If I didn't make those choices, you wouldn't exist right. 244 00:10:29,996 --> 00:10:31,797 Now, right? So remember that, 245 00:10:33,199 --> 00:10:36,202 So go there and eat your hot dogs right? 246 00:10:38,137 --> 00:10:40,272 I got to tell you, that's funny. 247 00:10:40,272 --> 00:10:45,611 But the one thing I wanted to share, that maybe will help 248 00:10:45,945 --> 00:10:49,749 all of us in life not have, like, this roller coaster life. 249 00:10:49,749 --> 00:10:54,820 And and to think about things differently, how much control we have over it. 250 00:10:55,388 --> 00:10:57,056 I've got to take this is for it. 251 00:10:57,056 --> 00:10:59,558 Glare for my eyes. It's. They're not. You're like. 252 00:10:59,558 --> 00:11:02,194 You're like a musician as a guitar. For every different. 253 00:11:02,194 --> 00:11:05,197 No. These are my reading glasses. Okay. 254 00:11:05,364 --> 00:11:09,602 So Deepak Chopra is, you know, he's a medical doctor, 255 00:11:09,735 --> 00:11:12,738 but he's more known for teaching mindfulness. 256 00:11:12,872 --> 00:11:16,008 And, he was a medical doctor in Boston. 257 00:11:16,909 --> 00:11:19,912 And when he was, in Boston, 258 00:11:20,413 --> 00:11:23,482 he wrote down some case histories that he worked with. 259 00:11:24,216 --> 00:11:29,855 And that's what began his journey on figuring out the mind 260 00:11:29,855 --> 00:11:33,626 body connection, because years ago, they didn't call it that. 261 00:11:34,026 --> 00:11:36,829 They really didn't have, you know. 262 00:11:36,829 --> 00:11:38,130 Oh, a word for that. 263 00:11:38,130 --> 00:11:41,934 They knew stress was bad, but they know that what that was about it. 264 00:11:42,301 --> 00:11:44,937 It's very brief what I'm going to write, but 265 00:11:44,937 --> 00:11:48,040 I felt like my whole book could just be this one chapter, like, you're. 266 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:48,674 In a book club. 267 00:11:49,642 --> 00:11:52,978 So I'm going to read to case number five okay. 268 00:11:53,012 --> 00:11:54,880 About Mrs. D'Angelo. 269 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,883 And this isn't Deepak Chopra words. 270 00:11:57,983 --> 00:12:00,119 Mrs. D'Angelo, 63 years 271 00:12:00,119 --> 00:12:03,122 old, was admitted to the hospital with jaundice. 272 00:12:03,222 --> 00:12:04,890 Jaundice is most noticeable 273 00:12:04,890 --> 00:12:07,893 as the yellowing of the skin and the whites of the eyes, 274 00:12:08,294 --> 00:12:12,031 which in this case was thought to be a result of gallstones. 275 00:12:12,631 --> 00:12:16,469 The patient, therefore, was scheduled to be taken to the operation room. 276 00:12:16,469 --> 00:12:18,838 The operating room for surgery. 277 00:12:18,838 --> 00:12:21,841 When her abdomen was opened, we discovered that 278 00:12:21,841 --> 00:12:25,344 she did not have gallstones, but gallbladder cancer. 279 00:12:25,945 --> 00:12:30,783 The cancer involved the whole abdominal cavity and had invaded her liver. 280 00:12:31,350 --> 00:12:34,220 The patient was considered inoperable 281 00:12:34,220 --> 00:12:39,191 and without any further maneuvers, we closed up the abdomen while Mrs. 282 00:12:39,191 --> 00:12:44,130 D'Angelo was still in the recovery room, I informed her daughter of the diagnosis. 283 00:12:44,897 --> 00:12:47,767 She insisted that I not tell her mother. 284 00:12:47,767 --> 00:12:49,201 I know my mother. 285 00:12:49,201 --> 00:12:52,972 She will die immediately if you tell her that she has cancer. 286 00:12:53,806 --> 00:12:57,209 Reluctantly, I told the patient that she indeed 287 00:12:57,209 --> 00:13:00,546 had gallbladder stones, which we had removed. 288 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:02,148 I rationalized 289 00:13:02,148 --> 00:13:05,851 that her daughter would tell her the truth some time after they went home. 290 00:13:06,418 --> 00:13:09,922 I also believe that the patient would not live more than a couple of months. 291 00:13:10,656 --> 00:13:13,993 I next saw her eight months later in my office. 292 00:13:14,493 --> 00:13:19,431 Her jaundice had cleared up almost completely and she looked radiant 293 00:13:19,431 --> 00:13:21,000 and healthy. 294 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:24,003 There was no clinical evidence of any cancer. 295 00:13:24,570 --> 00:13:27,173 Mrs. D'Angelo still visits me regularly 296 00:13:27,173 --> 00:13:30,376 for routine checkups and is free of disease. 297 00:13:31,010 --> 00:13:36,182 The last time she came to see me, she said, doctor, when you admitted me 298 00:13:36,182 --> 00:13:40,853 to the hospital three years ago with jaundice, I was sure I had cancer. 299 00:13:41,253 --> 00:13:42,421 I was so relieved. 300 00:13:42,421 --> 00:13:46,091 When you operate it about gallstones that I made up 301 00:13:46,091 --> 00:13:49,295 my mind never to be sick again. 302 00:13:50,329 --> 00:13:51,130 This is one 303 00:13:51,130 --> 00:13:54,400 of the most amazing cases that I have ever encountered. 304 00:13:54,900 --> 00:13:58,804 The placebo in this case was not a drug, but the operation. 305 00:13:59,338 --> 00:14:04,643 Although clinically useless, the surgery had led to a complete cure. 306 00:14:05,144 --> 00:14:09,281 Of course, in actuality, it was not even the operation, 307 00:14:09,715 --> 00:14:13,385 but the patients thoughts afterwards that made her live. 308 00:14:13,652 --> 00:14:16,655 Wow, how powerful is that. 309 00:14:16,789 --> 00:14:17,456 Eye and body? 310 00:14:17,456 --> 00:14:20,159 How powerful is that? How the mind can heal? 311 00:14:20,159 --> 00:14:23,863 Because she had no reference of cancer 312 00:14:24,230 --> 00:14:27,499 and she spoke wellness into her body. Yes. 313 00:14:27,900 --> 00:14:31,871 The very cells of her body began changing 314 00:14:32,171 --> 00:14:34,874 and eradicated the cancer. 315 00:14:34,874 --> 00:14:37,710 And what he discovered after that. 316 00:14:37,710 --> 00:14:40,779 Was, you know, goes back to the neuroplasticity of the brain. Yes. 317 00:14:40,779 --> 00:14:45,417 And able to do that where you can actually heal the inside of your body. 318 00:14:45,451 --> 00:14:46,485 The brain can do that. 319 00:14:46,485 --> 00:14:49,154 Yes, but it all begins with your thoughts. 320 00:14:49,154 --> 00:14:50,823 It does begin with your thoughts. 321 00:14:50,823 --> 00:14:52,291 Which of course come from the brain as we know. Yeah. 322 00:14:53,259 --> 00:14:55,227 Wow. But that is just powerful stuff. 323 00:14:55,227 --> 00:14:56,829 You know that. 324 00:14:56,829 --> 00:15:01,867 Well, that that that led him to do what he, what he does today. 325 00:15:01,867 --> 00:15:05,671 And then I have a picture of myself with Deepak because I always thought 326 00:15:05,838 --> 00:15:07,473 I would love to meet him every time. 327 00:15:07,473 --> 00:15:09,008 I see Deepak, I think a two, actually. 328 00:15:09,008 --> 00:15:11,710 You know. Super. 329 00:15:11,710 --> 00:15:11,977 Yeah. 330 00:15:11,977 --> 00:15:14,980 Totally different gang, totally different. 331 00:15:15,614 --> 00:15:17,283 Right? No it. Is. Yeah. Right. Right. 332 00:15:17,283 --> 00:15:20,452 I know I just had this vision of me and Tupac 333 00:15:20,452 --> 00:15:23,455 hanging out. 334 00:15:24,023 --> 00:15:27,293 But, But that, 335 00:15:28,294 --> 00:15:31,297 so I had this thought that I, you know, I would love to meet him 336 00:15:31,330 --> 00:15:35,434 and share that that made a change in my life. 337 00:15:35,434 --> 00:15:38,437 And again, that had to be that was a good 30. 338 00:15:38,437 --> 00:15:41,840 Oh, that was yeah, that was probably 1991. 339 00:15:42,408 --> 00:15:45,177 When he wrote that book called Creating Health. 340 00:15:45,177 --> 00:15:47,413 Just an excellent, excellent book. 341 00:15:47,413 --> 00:15:48,714 Another one to add. 342 00:15:48,714 --> 00:15:50,215 And and he was just, 343 00:15:50,215 --> 00:15:53,585 you know, he was a doctor as a medical doctor writing about that. 344 00:15:54,453 --> 00:16:00,826 So fast forward to what, 2018 345 00:16:01,460 --> 00:16:03,963 I and there's a picture of us together. 346 00:16:03,963 --> 00:16:06,398 I happened to be asked to, 347 00:16:06,398 --> 00:16:09,535 oversee an event and he was the guest speaker. 348 00:16:10,502 --> 00:16:13,605 So I walked up to him. 349 00:16:14,239 --> 00:16:17,042 It was because I was able to tell him. 350 00:16:17,042 --> 00:16:20,012 Case number five, this is DHB. Yeah, yeah. 351 00:16:20,012 --> 00:16:22,147 And right away my life. 352 00:16:22,147 --> 00:16:24,316 Changed my life, you know. 353 00:16:24,316 --> 00:16:29,221 And but some people may think okay but people die. Yes. 354 00:16:30,489 --> 00:16:33,659 But we still have the power to have good thoughts. 355 00:16:33,659 --> 00:16:36,595 We still have the power to have peace. 356 00:16:36,595 --> 00:16:39,865 Do people always get healed? No. 357 00:16:40,032 --> 00:16:43,135 But to me, death isn't such a bad thing 358 00:16:43,135 --> 00:16:46,772 because we transition to another state. 359 00:16:46,972 --> 00:16:48,240 I mean, a lot of people do say that. 360 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:49,875 They say, well, how come so-and-so got healed? 361 00:16:49,875 --> 00:16:52,411 But my mom or dad didn't get healed, right? 362 00:16:52,411 --> 00:16:55,547 They did get healed, right, but just not in the way we wanted, right? 363 00:16:55,814 --> 00:16:58,283 We wanted them to be here with us. Right? 364 00:16:58,283 --> 00:17:01,620 You know, you've been through that with your with your late husband, Wayne. 365 00:17:01,620 --> 00:17:03,255 I went through that with my first wife. 366 00:17:03,255 --> 00:17:05,324 You know, who, went to be with the Lord. 367 00:17:05,324 --> 00:17:06,925 And I just look at it this way. He listened. 368 00:17:06,925 --> 00:17:08,427 They were healed, right? 369 00:17:08,427 --> 00:17:10,496 But not in the way. Oh, 100%. Yeah. 370 00:17:10,496 --> 00:17:12,631 None of us will ever get out of this world alive. 371 00:17:12,631 --> 00:17:14,299 Well, that that's that's for sure. 372 00:17:14,299 --> 00:17:18,270 But while we're on Earth, let's enjoy the trip. 373 00:17:19,138 --> 00:17:22,441 We have so much beauty in this world, I know, let's focus on the negative. 374 00:17:22,441 --> 00:17:25,110 But I think there's a lot more good. 375 00:17:25,110 --> 00:17:27,312 Yeah. This world, I really do. 376 00:17:27,312 --> 00:17:30,716 You know, I looked at my my bedroom window and I looked at my, 377 00:17:31,083 --> 00:17:33,886 my dead tree because it's winter time. 378 00:17:33,886 --> 00:17:34,787 And I just looked at it 379 00:17:34,787 --> 00:17:38,690 and I said, not too beautiful because right now you're resting. 380 00:17:38,957 --> 00:17:42,094 But I know that's going to happen soon. 381 00:17:43,262 --> 00:17:45,798 So sometimes when people look around and say, oh, it's 382 00:17:45,798 --> 00:17:49,768 so drab looking, I just think, no, the beauty is resting right now. 383 00:17:49,768 --> 00:17:51,937 It's going to come back in all its glory. 384 00:17:51,937 --> 00:17:55,474 Change your words, change your words, change your thoughts, 385 00:17:55,741 --> 00:17:58,610 and the world around you will change. 386 00:17:58,610 --> 00:18:01,313 And if something really bad bothers you 387 00:18:01,313 --> 00:18:05,050 in the news on TV, for God's sakes, turn it off. 388 00:18:05,084 --> 00:18:07,519 Turn it off. Go find your favorite movie. Yes. 389 00:18:07,519 --> 00:18:08,520 You know, find something. 390 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,722 I remember a doctor speaking to a woman. 391 00:18:10,722 --> 00:18:14,059 One time, and and she was really depressed about life. 392 00:18:14,059 --> 00:18:16,061 And he said, let me ask you a question. 393 00:18:16,061 --> 00:18:18,564 When was the last time you really left home? 394 00:18:18,564 --> 00:18:20,332 The last time you had a belly laugh? 395 00:18:20,332 --> 00:18:21,033 Yeah. 396 00:18:21,033 --> 00:18:24,002 You know, she says, maybe 25 years ago. 397 00:18:24,203 --> 00:18:25,771 That long? Wow. 398 00:18:25,771 --> 00:18:28,740 So said, you go home and find something that makes you laugh, 399 00:18:28,740 --> 00:18:32,711 find a comedy show, a movie that made you laugh back in the day, whatever. 400 00:18:32,978 --> 00:18:37,216 And just watch it every night before you go to bed, whenever it makes you laugh. 401 00:18:37,916 --> 00:18:40,986 And she came back like maybe 3 or 4 weeks later, 402 00:18:41,487 --> 00:18:44,790 and he was going to prescribe, you know, some medicines and things, 403 00:18:44,790 --> 00:18:46,658 but said you don't need them anymore 404 00:18:46,658 --> 00:18:50,696 because the laughter, you know, laughter is the best medicine. 405 00:18:51,096 --> 00:18:53,465 Yeah, I remember that book. I do. Yeah. 406 00:18:53,465 --> 00:18:54,533 Let's laugh every day. 407 00:18:54,533 --> 00:18:56,502 I think I do laugh every day. Yeah. 408 00:18:56,502 --> 00:19:01,740 My wife and I laughed a lot, many times at each other, but with each other and. 409 00:19:01,740 --> 00:19:02,341 At each other. 410 00:19:03,809 --> 00:19:05,477 But we love the laugh. 411 00:19:05,477 --> 00:19:08,413 My son Tim makes me laugh all the time. 412 00:19:08,413 --> 00:19:12,351 He sees the world in exaggerated way, but he's really funny at it. 413 00:19:12,684 --> 00:19:14,486 And if he had more, I think 414 00:19:14,486 --> 00:19:18,190 confidence in and of self, he would be like Robin Williams, right? 415 00:19:18,190 --> 00:19:19,892 Well, he's he's very much like that. 416 00:19:19,892 --> 00:19:21,827 He's very quick, quick. 417 00:19:21,827 --> 00:19:24,830 And he sees the humor in things. 418 00:19:24,963 --> 00:19:28,100 But the way he says it, even if you know, like 419 00:19:28,634 --> 00:19:31,637 dating somebody or whatever we're talking about, 420 00:19:32,070 --> 00:19:36,375 I mean, I laugh til I cry til I can't catch my breath sometimes. 421 00:19:37,009 --> 00:19:39,778 But that's great because I, me and you, you get on the roller coaster 422 00:19:39,778 --> 00:19:41,914 and you're up there, and then sometimes things happen 423 00:19:41,914 --> 00:19:44,883 where you're a little bit down and then you're back up again. 424 00:19:44,883 --> 00:19:46,818 A roller coaster of life that we're all on. 425 00:19:46,818 --> 00:19:48,487 Nobody's exempt. 426 00:19:48,487 --> 00:19:51,223 Right? He's on the ride. Right. 427 00:19:51,223 --> 00:19:52,558 I think about roller coasters. 428 00:19:52,558 --> 00:19:55,427 You know, many times where I've been. I love roller coasters. 429 00:19:55,427 --> 00:19:57,829 Back to it, but it just. 430 00:19:57,829 --> 00:20:00,032 You think about the ones at the amusement park, you know? 431 00:20:00,032 --> 00:20:02,034 But it depends on what you eat beforehand. 432 00:20:02,034 --> 00:20:03,669 So to see. 433 00:20:03,669 --> 00:20:05,404 How you're jostled, you know, that's life. 434 00:20:05,404 --> 00:20:06,638 You know, that's life. 435 00:20:06,638 --> 00:20:07,706 You know you're feeling good, you're feeling, 436 00:20:07,706 --> 00:20:10,709 but you know you're out of your peaks and valleys and. Yes. 437 00:20:11,176 --> 00:20:13,478 Yeah, I was going somewhere with that, but I don't know where. But. 438 00:20:13,478 --> 00:20:14,313 Yeah, but. 439 00:20:14,313 --> 00:20:17,883 Yeah, but you but you set the tone every morning to have that 440 00:20:18,984 --> 00:20:20,652 that foundation of peace. 441 00:20:20,652 --> 00:20:21,787 Foundation is key. 442 00:20:21,787 --> 00:20:26,558 You know, when you first wake up, you know, think I think I do this 443 00:20:26,558 --> 00:20:31,697 every morning almost subconsciously I was I say, wow, I'm, I'm a I'm live. 444 00:20:31,697 --> 00:20:33,465 Like I'm always surprised that I'm like. 445 00:20:33,465 --> 00:20:36,301 I mean I look out the window and like you said, I look at the trees and the trees 446 00:20:36,301 --> 00:20:39,705 may not have any leaves on them right now, but I know that underneath it all. 447 00:20:39,705 --> 00:20:41,039 And the roots. Yeah. 448 00:20:41,039 --> 00:20:43,408 And everything inside the tree, it's all coming to life. 449 00:20:43,408 --> 00:20:44,843 Oh, I see the miracle in it. 450 00:20:44,843 --> 00:20:46,545 You do see it? Yes. 451 00:20:46,545 --> 00:20:48,814 It happens every single year. The same thing. Right? 452 00:20:48,814 --> 00:20:49,281 That tree. 453 00:20:49,281 --> 00:20:53,018 And all of a sudden, in a matter of time, it's going to be budding with leaves 454 00:20:53,018 --> 00:20:54,453 and life, right? 455 00:20:54,453 --> 00:20:56,888 Yeah. And it's the little things like that. 456 00:20:56,888 --> 00:21:00,325 It may seem like we're talking like so little, you know, like. 457 00:21:01,026 --> 00:21:02,361 But it's so true. 458 00:21:02,361 --> 00:21:05,631 Like walk out on your front porch, back porch, whatever, 459 00:21:05,631 --> 00:21:09,001 and just say, oh my God, I have eyes to see. 460 00:21:09,001 --> 00:21:11,603 I have ears to hear. I could feel. 461 00:21:11,603 --> 00:21:13,071 Life is beautiful. 462 00:21:13,071 --> 00:21:15,240 Just say life is beautiful. 463 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,644 Because what you keep saying you will see more of you. 464 00:21:18,710 --> 00:21:21,780 Will you bring into your existence what you say and thank you. 465 00:21:21,780 --> 00:21:22,881 Sure do. 466 00:21:22,881 --> 00:21:25,317 Yeah. So be so careful what you say about yourself. 467 00:21:25,317 --> 00:21:26,551 Say over. Yourself. Right. 468 00:21:26,551 --> 00:21:28,854 That's so important. Right. 469 00:21:28,854 --> 00:21:32,357 And especially if you're around people I know people and working environments. 470 00:21:33,659 --> 00:21:34,259 Why is it the 471 00:21:34,259 --> 00:21:37,262 camaraderie of people seems to be so easy to talk about 472 00:21:37,262 --> 00:21:41,366 how bad the weather is, how bad the news is, how bad that is. 473 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,770 But you could be the person that can change that one person. 474 00:21:45,070 --> 00:21:48,073 When you walk into a room, it takes one person to switch on the light. 475 00:21:48,373 --> 00:21:50,175 Yeah, you know, you could be in a whole room 476 00:21:50,175 --> 00:21:51,677 and you can feel the negativity. 477 00:21:51,677 --> 00:21:53,812 Like it cuts like a knife, right? 478 00:21:53,812 --> 00:21:56,982 Yes. And watching right now, you probably think, oh yeah. 479 00:21:56,982 --> 00:21:57,249 Yeah. 480 00:21:57,249 --> 00:21:59,484 I've ever been to a corporate meeting where you walked into that room 481 00:21:59,484 --> 00:22:01,353 and it's like you just feel the tension, 482 00:22:01,353 --> 00:22:03,622 and you could be that one person that changes it. 483 00:22:03,622 --> 00:22:06,958 Just by the way you walk in the room with a smile and bring that out. 484 00:22:07,092 --> 00:22:09,061 You're really great at that. 485 00:22:09,061 --> 00:22:10,996 You were really great at that. 486 00:22:10,996 --> 00:22:16,201 I think I probably more I know I'm more low key, but I have blood 487 00:22:16,201 --> 00:22:20,772 drawn, you know, not too long ago and it was early in the morning. 488 00:22:20,772 --> 00:22:25,744 And the woman said to me, you know, the woman who was drawing the blood said, 489 00:22:26,378 --> 00:22:30,916 when I came in this morning in the parking lot, there was a double rainbow. 490 00:22:31,683 --> 00:22:34,119 Wow. You saw a double rainbow? 491 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,788 She said. Yeah. And then I come in to this. 492 00:22:36,788 --> 00:22:38,990 Day and I. Said to her, do this. 493 00:22:38,990 --> 00:22:41,993 But you saw a double rainbow, right? 494 00:22:42,361 --> 00:22:47,065 Keep your mind on the double rainbow that you saw, because that was beautiful. 495 00:22:47,366 --> 00:22:51,002 And I know you deal with a lot of heart stuff. 496 00:22:51,503 --> 00:22:54,005 I said, but keep that in your mind. 497 00:22:54,005 --> 00:22:55,440 And when I left, she said, you know what? 498 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,310 Thank you for that because I didn't think of it that way. 499 00:22:58,310 --> 00:22:59,644 And the thing is, and that's great choice 500 00:22:59,644 --> 00:23:01,613 because you have a great way of doing that as well. 501 00:23:01,613 --> 00:23:04,649 And the thing is, just focus on what somebody is doing, right. 502 00:23:04,649 --> 00:23:08,286 So when you go into a place where, you know, people are dealing with stress, yes. 503 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,356 And they have a stressful job and you're dealing with the public. 504 00:23:11,456 --> 00:23:11,690 Yeah. 505 00:23:11,690 --> 00:23:14,593 You go to a doctor's office and you're dealing with a lot of challenges. 506 00:23:14,593 --> 00:23:15,794 Yeah. And sickness. 507 00:23:15,794 --> 00:23:17,095 You know, my wife this morning 508 00:23:17,095 --> 00:23:20,399 was on the phone with somebody scheduling a doctor's appointment, 509 00:23:20,932 --> 00:23:24,302 and I was listening to the woman on speaker phone and talking to Patty, 510 00:23:24,603 --> 00:23:27,339 and she was so good at what she does. 511 00:23:27,339 --> 00:23:29,408 And, and, and she was talking to the person. 512 00:23:29,408 --> 00:23:31,476 I said, I got to tell you something in the background. 513 00:23:31,476 --> 00:23:33,545 You are really good at what you do. 514 00:23:33,545 --> 00:23:33,912 Yeah. 515 00:23:33,912 --> 00:23:37,048 You know, they are really very fortunate to have you there. 516 00:23:37,382 --> 00:23:39,651 And then Patty said, well, will I see you? 517 00:23:39,651 --> 00:23:40,752 When I'm there? 518 00:23:40,752 --> 00:23:42,721 Speaking to the woman setting up the appointment said, 519 00:23:42,721 --> 00:23:44,523 oh yeah, you'll you'll see me too. 520 00:23:44,523 --> 00:23:47,592 And I said, wow, you know, she's very lucky 521 00:23:47,592 --> 00:23:50,662 that she's going to be able to see you because you spread such joy. 522 00:23:51,563 --> 00:23:54,566 And I know it can't be easy because you're dealing with all kinds of people. 523 00:23:54,566 --> 00:23:57,602 She's g thank you, thank you. 524 00:23:57,602 --> 00:23:59,604 It's nice to hear that once in a while. 525 00:23:59,604 --> 00:23:59,905 Yeah. 526 00:23:59,905 --> 00:24:02,808 Don't assume people hear that because they probably don't. 527 00:24:02,808 --> 00:24:05,076 You know what. And and helps yourself to, doesn't it? 528 00:24:05,076 --> 00:24:07,546 When you do that, it really bounces back to you. 529 00:24:07,546 --> 00:24:08,079 It does. 530 00:24:08,079 --> 00:24:10,649 And when you when you compliment somebody you feel good to. 531 00:24:10,649 --> 00:24:13,385 Yeah. You're not only make them feel good, but you feel good. 532 00:24:14,619 --> 00:24:14,886 Yeah. 533 00:24:14,886 --> 00:24:19,791 So yesterday that happened where I had physical therapy 534 00:24:19,791 --> 00:24:22,461 and then I had to get back home to pick up my grandson 535 00:24:22,461 --> 00:24:26,431 because he had to see his EMT, you know, ear, nose and throat and, 536 00:24:27,165 --> 00:24:30,569 and I so I went all the way back out the same way. 537 00:24:30,735 --> 00:24:34,906 And we pulled into the parking lot and there was zero cars there. 538 00:24:35,373 --> 00:24:37,142 And he said, it looks like they're closed. 539 00:24:37,142 --> 00:24:40,645 And I said, oh, no, maybe everyone you know parked him back. 540 00:24:40,645 --> 00:24:42,214 You know, everyone that works there. 541 00:24:42,214 --> 00:24:43,381 And it is late in the day. 542 00:24:43,381 --> 00:24:45,250 We're probably the last one. 543 00:24:45,250 --> 00:24:48,119 So we walk in. It's like the doors locked. 544 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:52,891 So I called and I did get someone in another office. 545 00:24:52,891 --> 00:24:55,560 It said, oh, well, you must have been called 546 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,563 because the doctor canceled all his appointments today. 547 00:24:58,763 --> 00:25:00,632 And, and I said, no. 548 00:25:00,632 --> 00:25:03,602 So now I'm on the phone, but it's coming through, you know, the radio. 549 00:25:04,302 --> 00:25:07,506 So Matthew was sitting there listening and, 550 00:25:08,173 --> 00:25:11,176 and, she said, well, I'm sure we must have called. 551 00:25:11,409 --> 00:25:14,713 And I said, no, no, nobody called me. 552 00:25:14,713 --> 00:25:16,314 I said, but that's so that's okay. 553 00:25:16,314 --> 00:25:17,883 We could reschedule. 554 00:25:17,883 --> 00:25:19,751 And she said, well, I'm really sorry. 555 00:25:19,751 --> 00:25:21,920 I said, no, no, it's not your fault. 556 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,956 You know, I just I'm just looking to see if we could reschedule. 557 00:25:24,956 --> 00:25:27,092 She goes, well, I don't have all the appointments in front 558 00:25:27,092 --> 00:25:28,894 and we just had this conversation, 559 00:25:28,894 --> 00:25:31,162 which I'm not really aware of the whole conversation, 560 00:25:31,162 --> 00:25:35,934 but what was important is after that, my grandson said to me, 561 00:25:37,135 --> 00:25:39,271 you handled that so well. 562 00:25:39,271 --> 00:25:44,809 He said, a lot of people would be really upset and they would be, he said. 563 00:25:44,809 --> 00:25:48,213 But like you have this way 564 00:25:48,647 --> 00:25:52,350 with people that kind of like you make them your friends. 565 00:25:52,651 --> 00:25:55,787 Because I asked her what her name was and she told me her name. 566 00:25:55,921 --> 00:25:58,523 People love. That. And, and it was Cindy. 567 00:25:58,523 --> 00:26:01,526 And I said, well, Cindy, you know, this isn't your fault. 568 00:26:01,793 --> 00:26:05,564 And trust me, nobody called me because I would have not sure 569 00:26:05,630 --> 00:26:10,201 come out here and and all of that, but I just thought that, 570 00:26:10,569 --> 00:26:13,638 it is the way we handle things. 571 00:26:13,638 --> 00:26:16,875 And I just taught someone a lesson. 572 00:26:16,875 --> 00:26:18,376 My grandson. 573 00:26:18,376 --> 00:26:21,212 And he said I wouldn't be able to do that 574 00:26:21,212 --> 00:26:25,083 because being that he's in the spectrum. Yes. 575 00:26:25,350 --> 00:26:29,721 He doesn't have a lot of that, that social ness 576 00:26:30,956 --> 00:26:31,222 and I 577 00:26:31,222 --> 00:26:34,893 thought about as I'm driving, I said, Matthew you can do that. 578 00:26:35,193 --> 00:26:35,961 You can. 579 00:26:35,961 --> 00:26:39,030 You'll have to learn it and you'll have to practice it. 580 00:26:39,598 --> 00:26:42,133 But everyone loves to be respon 581 00:26:42,133 --> 00:26:47,539 to, to in a courteous way and just know that even the people we go 582 00:26:47,539 --> 00:26:50,875 to physical therapy with, you know, that are helping us. 583 00:26:51,409 --> 00:26:54,045 They deal with a lot of stuff 584 00:26:54,045 --> 00:26:56,681 and people that are not in a great mood. 585 00:26:56,681 --> 00:27:00,285 So, you know, it is important to uplift people 586 00:27:00,485 --> 00:27:02,954 because you're uplifting yourself as well. 587 00:27:02,954 --> 00:27:04,689 I'm not angry. 588 00:27:04,689 --> 00:27:09,594 And he said, yeah, if we didn't go out here, then we wouldn't. 589 00:27:09,928 --> 00:27:13,231 He said, it got me out of the house and I do like getting out. 590 00:27:13,665 --> 00:27:17,202 And then he mentioned all the things that he liked about our ride. 591 00:27:17,836 --> 00:27:19,337 So there you go. 592 00:27:19,337 --> 00:27:23,375 It could have been, oh, I can't believe I drove all the way out. 593 00:27:23,375 --> 00:27:24,142 Here thing is it. 594 00:27:24,142 --> 00:27:27,078 And and it's. Human nature so many times to be upset. 595 00:27:27,078 --> 00:27:29,648 Yeah, but we have to again be intentional once again 596 00:27:29,648 --> 00:27:32,450 and realize that it's not the end of the world. Right? 597 00:27:32,450 --> 00:27:33,952 You know that we're all human beings. 598 00:27:33,952 --> 00:27:36,688 And put yourself in that person's shoes. Yes. 599 00:27:36,688 --> 00:27:39,824 You know, if we're going to be, you know, casting stones at people about things, 600 00:27:39,824 --> 00:27:42,927 regardless of the situation, we better be perfect ourselves. 601 00:27:43,728 --> 00:27:44,896 And none of us aren't. 602 00:27:44,896 --> 00:27:46,865 So we just have to kind of step back, 603 00:27:46,865 --> 00:27:49,134 take a deep breath, because I've had things happen 604 00:27:49,134 --> 00:27:51,503 where people call me and I really wanted that appointment, 605 00:27:51,503 --> 00:27:55,006 or nobody call to say, listen, it's not your fault mom died. 606 00:27:55,006 --> 00:27:56,908 Your fault. We can always reschedule. 607 00:27:56,908 --> 00:27:58,143 At the. 608 00:27:58,143 --> 00:28:01,146 In the large scheme of life, it's not a big deal. 609 00:28:01,279 --> 00:28:02,681 Right? And I. 610 00:28:02,681 --> 00:28:05,650 And I said to it to a person once, I said, hey, listen, if it ain't cancer, 611 00:28:06,151 --> 00:28:07,952 I ain't worried about it. Yeah. 612 00:28:07,952 --> 00:28:10,188 And, and I said, yeah, yeah, you're really right. 613 00:28:10,188 --> 00:28:11,523 You can correct people's thought. 614 00:28:11,523 --> 00:28:14,492 Yes. And, and even people that are battling cancer, many times 615 00:28:14,492 --> 00:28:16,027 they'll say, listen, I've got cancer. 616 00:28:16,027 --> 00:28:18,063 But somebody else has it worse. 617 00:28:18,063 --> 00:28:20,298 Yeah. There's always someone that has it worse. Yep. 618 00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:23,501 Yes. I learned that early on. 619 00:28:23,501 --> 00:28:24,669 Oh, I love this. 620 00:28:24,669 --> 00:28:27,405 You know, where. We, came into read. 621 00:28:27,405 --> 00:28:28,206 In a reading. 622 00:28:28,206 --> 00:28:28,940 I know, I love. 623 00:28:28,940 --> 00:28:34,279 It, so I'm going to leave you all with this for your affirmation of the day. 624 00:28:34,279 --> 00:28:36,181 Your life. 625 00:28:36,181 --> 00:28:38,883 I am the creator of my reality. 626 00:28:38,883 --> 00:28:43,088 I know that my thoughts, emotions and beliefs create my reality 627 00:28:43,521 --> 00:28:46,524 and so I choose to align them with abundance, 628 00:28:46,691 --> 00:28:49,694 joy and infinite possibilities. 629 00:28:49,694 --> 00:28:54,866 I now choose to release all limitations, step into my true power, 630 00:28:54,866 --> 00:28:58,937 and effortlessly manifest the life I desire. 631 00:28:59,771 --> 00:29:02,774 That's for you, for always and forever. 632 00:29:02,941 --> 00:29:05,577 And I'll drink. I'll drink to. That. Yes! 633 00:29:05,577 --> 00:29:09,481 Thank you so much for choosing us here and our podcast. 634 00:29:09,481 --> 00:29:10,982 You know what's good with John and Joyce? 635 00:29:10,982 --> 00:29:12,951 And again, you can find it on all different platforms. 636 00:29:12,951 --> 00:29:17,856 You can Google us, but you know, you know, find us on Spotify, Apple, YouTube. 637 00:29:17,856 --> 00:29:19,958 Maybe they don't want us I don't know. 638 00:29:19,958 --> 00:29:20,892 Yeah, maybe. 639 00:29:20,892 --> 00:29:23,461 Yeah, you might not I don't know, that could be dangerous. 640 00:29:23,461 --> 00:29:24,496 That could be dangerous. 641 00:29:24,496 --> 00:29:27,499 You know, the things you could find nowadays, right? 642 00:29:27,632 --> 00:29:29,300 Oh. Well, thank you for listening. 643 00:29:29,300 --> 00:29:32,103 We love you all and we hope to see you again. 644 00:29:32,103 --> 00:29:33,705 Thank you so much. Bye for now.