We're going there.
What do you do when it turns political?
And usually, correct me if I'm wrong, these political conversations
are initiated by a homeowner.
Only after you've been invited inside, built rapport, created a friendship.
They've offered you coffee, and now that you're relating his
friends, they make the assumption.
Well, everybody's just like me and therefore shares my political views and
they begin spewing their political agendas with an emotional passion that makes you
want to crawl outta your skin, cuz you feel the polar opposite and you're stuck
because you have one of three choices.
Choice number one, you play pure chameleon mode, violate your own values
and morals and pretend to be just like them, even though in your heart
of hearts you know that you're not, but you're just trying to save the.
Not a good choice.
Choice number two is you share your opinion, which basically means you're
gonna throw a grenade right in the kitchen table and blow this deal to smithereens.
Or number three, where you just try to skirt the conversation and bring it back.
But you've got this really awkward deer in the headlights look on
your face, which basically screams to them, I don't agree with you,
and will later cost you the deal.
Once they send you out of the house by saying, thanks for coming
out, we'll call you in a few days.
If we're in.
Now this video is for you regardless of what end of the
political spectrum you lie.
Quite frankly, I don't care.
What I care about is how you treat other human beings and specifically your
customers, which is a great introduction.
Welcome, welcome back.
Adam Benjamin here, the roof strategist.
And speaking of taking care of your customers, my mission is to help you and
your team smash your income goal and give every customer an amazing experience.
That's what it's all.
Because money is just a thank you note for us to serve and
receive thank you notes back.
And I don't know about you, but to send me a thank you note can come from anybody.
I don't need to be on the same page on everything.
In my heart of hearts, all I care about is helping good people who are value
driven, live their life by a sound set of morals and principles, and are
dedicated to being of use and serving.
So for me, I have to check my emotional baggage that's associated with my
political views in order to be of service and the highest degree possible.
And I encourage you to do the same, but you are your own being and get
to decide what makes sense to you.
I'm just sharing my view.
So in this video I wanna share with you a really simple technique that I learned on
how to take this conversation once it goes political, which by the way, Seemingly
good thing cuz it means that they like you, they trust you, and they feel like
you're a friend because people assume that their friends are just like them.
So it is a good sign, but we don't want to throw the grenade into
the kitchen table and lose a sale.
So I'm gonna teach you this technique and you're gonna be able to use this
the very next time a conversation gets thrown off the rails, whether
it's politics or something else.
So here it is, true story.
I'm out on a hike the other day.
Neighbor and I run into each other.
He's, he's become a good friend.
We first met, we walk our dogs in the same trail in the mountain.
We kept seeing each other.
It turned into a, a, a sound friendship.
In fact, I just finished a hike in the snow.
We went over to his place.
We were watching the, the, um, uh, playoffs game right before the Super Bowl.
We had a.
And we never talked politics, but on our last hike together, it turned political
and I knew it did when he made a very charged comment and that charged comment
I quite didn't agree with frankly, but I knew that getting into that dialogue
and sharing when someone's not like emotionally charged, almost to the
point where they're using derogatory names towards another group, another
group of people, and not quite that extreme, but you get the idea when.
There's that much in it.
You're like, I'm not gonna say anything that's gonna change our perspective.
So how do I reel this back?
So I waited and I'll share this story and you'll see the message
and we'll tie it back together.
I waited.
I let him kind of continue.
I'm like, I don't even know.
What to say and he literally said to me, this is where I
made that the third mistake.
So I told you you had three options.
Option one, agree even if you don't, option two, combat it head on.
Or option three, you just are like kind of quiet and they can
tell, well, that's what happened.
It was option three.
I was quiet.
And he goes, well, I can tell you don't share those views.
And I didn't know what to say because at first I was like, if I share my views,
then we're just gonna end up in this.
You're right, you're right.
You know, total, no one's going anywhere.
But quite frankly, I'm rather open on my political conversations.
I'm like, I don't think things are black and white.
I'm gonna leave it at that.
All the big topics, it's not this or that.
There's a whole story and I like to look at this at things a bit more
holistically rather than black or white.
And I start having this conversation a little bit and I can tell, you know,
this really isn't gonna go anywhere.
So I let him go on and I just waited.
I'm like, I gotta figure out how to get out of this thing.
And he goes on and on and on and on, and he's talking about the system
and I was like, there's my moment.
So I found an appropriate way where I could kind of casually
interject and I said, speaking of the system, which he just meant like
the man, the operation, the system.
I don't know, I totally changed the subject.
I just, I had a story about my sister-in-law and something that
came up and it was about the system.
And I was like, speaking of messed up systems, let me tell you this.
And I just completely shifted it away from politics on a personal
experience that she was going through.
And it was just a, a, a, like a lateral move.
And then before I knew it, I'm sitting there thinking
to myself, did he pick up on.
Didn't did was that okay?
And five, 10 minutes goes by and the conversation naturally evolved and
it was like, it never even happened.
And it was so beautiful.
And the coolest part is that it was, we were able to artfully dance
this topic that's like, listen man, we can, we can be buddies.
We don't need to agree on everything, but like, let's just
get away from it a little bit.
And it, it was.
So light, and that's why I wanted to share this video with you cuz
I wish I had known that earlier.
So here's the, the, the takeaway of this strategy.
So you can use this the next time it comes up and it goes like this, speaking of, and
then just grab something that they shared.
And even if it's not related, change the subject to a completely different.
Have fun with it.
You got literally nothing to lose.
Speaking of the system, man, let me tell you about what happened to
my sister-in-law and then I just told a story about some system.
So speaking of grab something they said, change the topic, and now my friend, you
have a tool that I wish I had decades ago to jump me out of those conversations.
But before we wrap it up, just remember these political conversations
are a good sign means they like you and they feel like you're a friend.
So learn the art of dancing around this topic and then carry that friend.
On so you can earn the business.
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