The Purple Pawedcast

Today's episode features Artemisia de Vine's theory of sexual fantasy.  Artemisia is a sexual fantasy expert, sexologist and author who uses fantasy not as a source of shame and guilt, but as the key to unlocking our deepest motivations and desires.  Artemisia and I discuss prevailing theories of sexual fantasy, the three paradoxes we seek to rectify through sex, and the origin of airborne penetration of pastry products.

REFERENCES:
deVining the Erotic (free) Substack: https://substack.com/@artemisiadevine
Artemisia de Vine’s website:  https://www.artemisiadevine.com/
Follow Artemisia on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/artemisia-de-vine-780847184/
Follow Artemisia on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/artemisiadevine/
Follow Artemisia on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ArtemisiadeVine

Free mini course! The Celeb Swoon Technique: Uncover your own unique erotic narrative with this simple exercise:
https://MyFantasyIs.com (also found at https://www.artemisiadevine.com/CelebSwoon).

  • (00:00) - Opening credits
  • (00:37) - Show opening
  • (01:30) - Introducing Artemisia de Vine
  • (02:51) - Sex is in everything we do
  • (06:55) - Theories of sexual fantasy
  • (10:29) - A human-centered theory of sexual fantasy
  • (13:57) - The first paradox in sex
  • (19:14) - The second paradox in sex
  • (22:32) - The third paradox in sex
  • (26:35) - Resolving the paradoxes
  • (30:28) - Changing state of consciousness
  • (35:33) - Improving your life by understanding your fantasies
  • (40:43) - Why do we feel shame at fulfilling our fantasies?
  • (44:52) - The spirituality of smut
  • (48:42) - Fantasies are not necessarily about trauma
  • (52:41) - How to find Artemisia de Vine on the internet
  • (55:46) - Show closing
  • (58:02) - Closing credits
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Creators and Guests

Host
Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D.
Scientist, storyteller, and professional overthinker of all things identity. Also, I happen to be a transgender woman.

What is The Purple Pawedcast?

Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this pod is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.