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Sam Acho: Welcome everybody to the Sam
Acho podcast featuring Cliff Marshall,

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and as we usually do, cliff, we have a
very special guest and I'd love for you

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to introduce to the world our guest.

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Clif Marshall: I'm so fired up today guys.

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We have Fatus Bullard on the show.

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Thaddeus is an American
professional wrestler.

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He is described by the wwe.

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As one of the most philanthropic
superstars in WWE history, he

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was actually the recipient of the
WWE Hall of Fame Award in 2021.

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Uh, fatties played college football
for the University of Florida and

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thereafter in the Arena Football League,
and that led him to a career again

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in the in, in the wrestling world.

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Uh, he went under the ring
name as Titus O'Neill.

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A former WWE tag team champion
as part of the primetime players.

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He is a father.

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He currently resides in Tampa,
Florida, and uh, he is devout in

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his faith and we are super, super
fired up to talk to Thaddeus today.

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Sam Acho: Eddie's got
a new show coming out.

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We're gonna get, we're
gonna get into the new show.

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We got a new show coming out.

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Which, uh, it's gonna be
on NBC and on Peacock.

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Uh, it's, it's called King's Court.

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And I'm, I, I don't wanna
get too deep into it first.

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Tha so I wanna talk about how we connected

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Thaddeus Bullard: Yeah.

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Sam Acho: So I think it was maybe
three, four months ago I, in national

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championship I believe it was.

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And, uh, I'm in the hotel lobby.

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I see this, uh, dapper looking young
fellow muscles sticking out everywhere.

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And I recognized him.

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And for me, Thaddeus, it
wasn't necessarily from your

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wrestling career, but it's from.

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Your impact, I would say, not just
in the community, but also when it

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comes to social media, et cetera.

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I just seen a podcast you had done
with a colleague of mine, Ryan Clark,

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and you went deep and I was like,
man, there's something about this

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man as a human, as an individual.

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And we connected, talked about some of
your, uh, philanthropy and some of your

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work and family, and that's kind of how
the podcast conversation came about.

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But what do you remember about that
initial kind of, uh, interaction?

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Thaddeus Bullard: Yeah, I, I mean, I,
we, we were one of only, uh, very few.

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Black man in the lobby at the time.

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And uh, so I was like, uh, but I've
always been a, a huge fan of your work.

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And, uh, just wanted to
come up and say that.

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And, and that's exactly
what I said to you.

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Hey man, I'm a huge fan of
your work and this and that.

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And, um, he was like,
thank you so much man.

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And we just literally.

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Started talking like we were
brothers from another mother and,

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uh, exchanging pleasantries, talking
about family, talking about faith.

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I just want to be a good human being.

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You know, I don't want.

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If I, if I'm wealthy, great.

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You know, if I, if I have nice cars,
nice clothes, but if I have all of that

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and I'm a horrible human being, I don't
want it, you know, and, uh, my, the,

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the meeting this guy at 13 years old
and being able to literally take him, I.

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To church with one of my teammates
who at that time his family owned

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one of the largest mobile home
manufacturers in the southeast.

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They got him a job.

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He ended up running a place by four
years later, got reconnected with

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his ex-wife not to get married,
but he hadn't been around him.

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'cause one, it didn't, couple of
weeks after I met him and talked to

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him, uh, you know, I asked him, you
know, how did you end up in this

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place, if you don't mind me asking?

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And he said, uh.

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You know, uh, if I told you that I was
A-A-A-A-C-E-O of a company, I had nice

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cars, a beautiful home, beautiful wife,
beautiful daughters, would you believe me?

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And I said, if that's what you say, you
know, that's what I have to believe.

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He said, that's exactly
what my life used to be.

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Drugs, alcohol, and gambling took me away
from my family and to know at that age.

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How I responded to him, you know, when
he told me that God's gonna use you, not

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realizing that, you know, I'm going to go
to a Catholic church and 'cause at the,

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you know, ask of my teammate who had been
asking me all year and um, I went, I.

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I love all religion 'cause I think
we can learn from everything.

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It just didn't move me at all.

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It was a bunch of standing up,
sitting down, humming, and I didn't

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know what the hell was going on and
I had no idea what was going on.

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And I walked out of there like.

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You know, in church most of the time
at le, at the minimum I get the music.

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And the music made me feel good.

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You know, sometimes I wasn't getting
the message, but this was a time where I

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didn't understand none of it, you know?

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But what it, but what I saw this
man experience as a, at me as a kid

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watching this man, just be happy
to be in a house of God at all.

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Um.

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Really put in perspective what
he was saying to me in regards to

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like, how God is going to use me.

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And I'm not, I'm unapologetic
about it to this day.

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You know, like I cuss, I
fuss, I blow the houses down.

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Uh, but I know that God chose 12 people
in the Bible that were the most in.

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You know, probably the most unqualified
folks in the world and made 'em

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disciples, you know, and some of the
best work in the Bible or people in the

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Bible were from, from some of the most,
quote unquote unqualified by society.

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And so, you know, I, I get to live
with a freedom, you know, and,

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uh, we, uh, a freedom that says.

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Regardless of what people think
of me, I know who I am, you know?

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Um, and I know that there are way
more people that know who I am instead

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of knowing what I do for a living.

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You know, when I was playing football,
that's what I did for a living.

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I would constantly tell folks
when they'd go, oh, you're that

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football player at such and such.

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No, that's what I do for a living.

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It's not who I am for a living.

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Oh, you're a wrestler.

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You're that pro wrestler.

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Oh yes.

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What I do for a living, that's
not who I am for a living.

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Lemme tell you who I am
for a living and, uh.

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You know, I didn't grow up with the
example that a lot of people grow up

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with, with the positive dad in the home.

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And, uh, you know, being, you
know, the superstar athlete in

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high school, and I didn't become
all that until later in my, I.

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Uh, high school career, you
know, I was the number one

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recruit coming outta high school.

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Uh, I could have chose anywhere and
obviously I chose the best school at

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the University of Florida and, um, you
know, won a national championship there.

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Graduated from there, uh,
two SEC championships.

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I.

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I'm in the University
of Florida Hall of Fame.

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I was the vice president of
student government and which is

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why I hate politics to this day.

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Um, a lot of the people that, uh,
that helped me get elected into office

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are still, er, are now serving as
senators and congressmen and women.

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Um, and I have my hats off to 'em if they
can, you know, navigate those spaces.

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But I just.

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I, I'm a person that firmly believes
that God put me on this earth to connect

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people and to, um, to impact folks in ways
in which traditional people cannot do.

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And I think all of us have that
in innate, innate ability to do

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that, um, because we're all called,
um, but few are, are chosen.

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Sam Acho: Alright,
Thaddeus, I heard a lot.

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What you just said about faith,
uh, about family, about football,

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about finances, about philanthropy.

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But I have a question about, just
circling back to the family piece.

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Before we started the call, we
talked about you being a father

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and you know, you have the show
coming out, King's Court about being

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a bachelor and all these things.

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But you talked about, man,
I have sons from a previous

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marriage, but an adopted daughter.

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Tell me about your daughter.

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Thaddeus Bullard: My daughter Leah.

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She's, uh, she's amazing.

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Uh, I've actually known her
since she was seven years old.

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Uh, her mother has been a long
time friend of mine, and she, uh,

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had some health complications.

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Um, you know, not to get too far
into what it was, but it was a chance

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that she may or may not make it.

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And, uh, she was just hoping that
I would just check in on Leah.

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You know, um, in the event that
something unfortunate happened, and,

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uh, I said, well, what if I adopted her?

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And she was like, what?

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And I was like, yeah, I've
always wanted a daughter.

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And, you know, I'm not having
physically having any more kids.

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You know, vasectomy 2012 is
my alternate Bible verse.

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And, uh,

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and so I, um, um, so I, uh, you know,
I said, well, let me talk to my sons

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about it first and see what they say.

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And, uh.

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But I knew they would be fine with it
because about three years prior to that,

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you know, I had met two 7-year-old twin
girl, SYA and Skye, and I met 'em at the

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youth ranch and I was like, you know, I.

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Like they were hanging all over me
and I was just fell in love with 'em.

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And I said, uh, I went to the
counselor and I said, you know,

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I, I want to, I would love to see
about like seeing if I can be around

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these kids more and this and that.

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And, you know, I hadn't thought about
adoption, but I, I was definitely

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thinking about adoption at that point.

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And so I started the process of seeing
how I could become their father.

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And probably two months
into the process, uh.

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The social worker came to me and
she said, I think this is very

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admirable of what you're doing.

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Um, there's no question These
kids will come to a great home.

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You're a great man, yada, yada, yada.

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But I need to tell you this, you
know, we're, uh, you could take

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these young ladies and you can
put 'em in the best of situation.

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And, you know, two or three years down
the road, the mom or the dad can come and

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say, Hey, I'm ready to be a parent now.

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And you would have to, you know,
pretty much relinquish the rights

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back over to the parent because
they're in a foster care system.

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And I stopped the process
because I just didn't want to.

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I couldn't, I couldn't imagine pouring
all that time and stuff, uh, into these

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two young ladies and giving them the
opportunity to pour their love into me

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only to have their life shifted again.

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They were already in the foster care
system, and so they kind of been

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at one place to another place, to
a relative here or whatever, and

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I just didn't want to continue.

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I wanted to be the one that broke that
cycle and gave them some stability

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and gave them some, uh, normalcy.

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Um, and, uh, I, I knew that I was
gonna have a lot of trauma and mental

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health and things like that, that
I would have to help them navigate

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through, but I was willing to do that.

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And so cutting that process off, uh,
I clearly God had knew that was on my

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heart, that I wanted to have a daughter.

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And, uh, the opportunity came up to, to
get Leah and, um, you know, sh once I.

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Talked with my sons, and
it was an absolute yes.

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They knew her already.

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Um, uh, jokingly talking about
where she long as she notices a

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competitive family and all this,
that, um, you know, it was all good.

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And so I, I, um, I end up, you
know, FaceTiming her and Carrie

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and, you know, she, uh, Leah said,
why are you doing this for me?

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I said, well, you know, I, uh, I've
always wanted a daughter and if I had

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a daughter, you'd be everything that
I would want, and a daughter or a son.

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And she was like, well,
you know, I'm gay, right?

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And I paused and I said, um,
Leah, I don't give a damn.

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If you purple with streamers
flying outta your ass.

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Like, I'm not here to
make you be a certain way.

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I'm here to help you be the
best version of yourself.

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And I want you to be a good human being.

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And as long as you're a great human being,
you, you are more than welcome to be

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anything and everything you desire to be.

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Um, but part of being a great human
being is also understanding that

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that may be your sexual orientation
and your choice, but you long as you

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don't try to push that motive much.

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Like I don't want anybody to
push Christianity on anyone.

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I don't want anybody to
push politics on anyone.

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I want people to be.

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The their ultimate best selves.

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And because diversity is important
to me, you know, and, um, and, and

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not only diversity in skin color and
religion and politics, but diversity

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in thought because we have a lot of one
track thinkers, um, when it comes to

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a lot of things, uh, when in business.

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Uh, you have a lot of guys that just look
at the bottom line, the bottom line, the

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bottom line, and they completely take out
the human element of that bottom line.

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You know, people do get sick,
people do have life, life issues.

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People do have deaths in the family.

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And when you're looking at people's
performance and you're rating their

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performance based on just the number
and not equating all these other things.

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You're taking out the human element
that got you to the position that

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you're in to even have a business.

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And it's the same way I feel about teams.

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You know, everybody says, uh, you
know, if you were a coach, you know,

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do you coach every player the same?

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No, I don't.

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Do you treat every player the same?

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Absolutely not.

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'cause every player doesn't
come from the same background.

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But every standard is the same.

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You will be on time, basic stuff.

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You will be on time, you
will respect the game.

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You will respect one another.

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And, uh.

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Um, my daughter and my kids
understand that, you know, we

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have three rules in our house.

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You know, the first rule
is love and respect.

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Everybody you come in contact with, you
know, you're not gonna like all of them.

00:13:36.012 --> 00:13:38.502
Uh, and you're not gonna agree
with all of them, but you love

00:13:38.502 --> 00:13:39.582
them and you respect them.

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Uh, rule number two,
don't use the word can't.

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Uh, I was told my entire life, what I
can't do, what I won't do, how I'll never

00:13:46.422 --> 00:13:48.852
be, and it was all proven to be a lie.

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And then from a biblical sense.

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Uh, you know, the Bible says that
we can do all things through Christ

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who strengthens us, and so I can't
tell people that I believe in Christ.

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And then tell them what can't be done.

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It's just a com complete
oxymoron to what I believe.

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And, uh, and rule number
three, be your best.

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You know, um, some days 70% is
your best, 30% is your best.

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But as long as you're doing your best.

00:14:15.262 --> 00:14:17.392
You or anybody else can
never be disappointed.

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It's when you didn't study for
that test or you didn't prepare

00:14:20.362 --> 00:14:23.212
for that presentation as much as
you should have and you lost out

00:14:23.212 --> 00:14:25.702
on that deal or whatever it may be.

00:14:26.062 --> 00:14:28.042
That's when you should be disappointed.

00:14:28.042 --> 00:14:29.872
That's when you're going
to be disappointed because

00:14:29.872 --> 00:14:30.922
you didn't do your best.

00:14:31.432 --> 00:14:39.753
And  my daughter has given me
so much introspective, even

00:14:39.813 --> 00:14:41.523
though she's, you know, gay.

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She's still a woman, you know,
and that's a different, women are

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different, you know what I mean?

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I don't get, women are
different, you know?

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So, uh, um, you know, as, as much as
of a jock she is, she's still very much

00:14:58.983 --> 00:15:02.553
so feminine and very much so sensitive
when it comes to certain things.

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And, you know, I have
to, I've had to like.

00:15:06.903 --> 00:15:11.613
Check myself on, on, on a lot of
occasions because I'm like talking

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to her like I would talk to my sons.

00:15:13.381 --> 00:15:18.901
So my daughter has definitely
been an amazing experience of

00:15:19.321 --> 00:15:22.321
fatherhood, but she's been an
amazing addition to our family.

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She just, uh, she just, uh, signed, uh.

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She went into the transfer portal.

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She was at Oakland University
in Rochester, Michigan.

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And uh, now she's gonna be at UMass.

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And so, uh, great
opportunity for her there.

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Um, she got a little
NIL money coming too, so

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Clif Marshall: Okay.

00:15:42.031 --> 00:15:46.321
Thaddeus Bullard: get out of daddy's
pockets, you know, get out of dad's

00:15:46.321 --> 00:15:48.241
pockets and do your own thing.

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But, um, yeah.

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And then my oldest son plays at UCF.

00:15:52.096 --> 00:15:55.696
Uh, plays football at UCF and
then my daughter, my youngest son

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plays, uh, football at Florida.

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So I'm a very happy
and proud empty nester.

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And, uh, so obviously this show coming
out, uh, Queens Court, which will be,

00:16:06.616 --> 00:16:12.556
uh, debuting on July 13th, on Bravo,
uh, and also streaming on Peacock.

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Um, it's myself, Tyson Beckford
and Carlos Boozer, hosted by

00:16:17.566 --> 00:16:19.306
Holly and Rob Holly Robinson.

00:16:19.306 --> 00:16:20.596
P and Rodney p.

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Uh, to of Hollywood's royalty when it
comes to married couples kind of steering

00:16:26.356 --> 00:16:31.186
us through this journey and, uh, so it's
a, it's a great, I think it's gonna be

00:16:31.186 --> 00:16:35.446
a, a fun experience for people and the
front journey for people to go along with

00:16:35.446 --> 00:16:41.566
us on, uh, as we try to discover if who's
our who, if, and who will be our queen.

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Sam Acho: I got.

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Okay.

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I know Cliff got a question.

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Can you give us some insight?

00:16:44.837 --> 00:16:45.857
Did you find it Queen?

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Did, I mean, what can you share
with us about, about the show?

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Thaddeus Bullard: All I can say it
was a great journey and I think,

00:16:54.002 --> 00:17:00.422
uh, the outcome of the show, uh,
will really be indicative of.

00:17:01.007 --> 00:17:04.847
Just the journey we're all on,
you know, and, uh, in discovering

00:17:04.847 --> 00:17:06.467
who we are as men at this point.

00:17:06.467 --> 00:17:10.817
You know, uh, Carlos formerly
divorced, uh, as well, and his,

00:17:10.817 --> 00:17:14.747
his two sons are top basketball
players in the country, you know?

00:17:14.807 --> 00:17:15.317
Uh.

00:17:16.242 --> 00:17:20.117
Uh, and they're going to Duke and, uh,
tried to get 'em to come to Florida.

00:17:20.117 --> 00:17:22.997
They were very close to coming to Florida,
but obviously they had to follow in

00:17:22.997 --> 00:17:26.837
pop's footsteps and go to Duke, which
is also an amazing opportunity for them.

00:17:26.987 --> 00:17:30.227
And then obviously Tyson's
been a fashion icon for years.

00:17:30.737 --> 00:17:34.847
Uh, been around the world and, and
has dated a pe uh, a person or two.

00:17:35.267 --> 00:17:37.937
Uh, so we'll, uh, we'll, we'll.

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We're, we're very excited about what,
what is to come on the show and what

00:17:41.867 --> 00:17:45.347
people will be able to see from, from
that standpoint and vantage point for us.

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Clif Marshall: Thaddeus, I'm again
so fired up Here're on the show

00:17:50.187 --> 00:17:54.177
today, and I told Sam before we
got on the uh, podcast with you.

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I said, man, I'm a little nervous.

00:17:55.287 --> 00:17:59.877
I've never really spoke to a WWE
superstar, and I grew up in the eighties.

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I grew up watching the WWE with Hulk
Hogan, macho man, Randy Savage, and

00:18:04.827 --> 00:18:06.837
I followed it all the way up until.

00:18:07.387 --> 00:18:08.347
Where it's at today.

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As a matter of fact, in, in the
spring of this year, I was blessed

00:18:11.437 --> 00:18:13.027
to go down to the Royal Rumble.

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It was in Indianapolis.

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And uh, I had a connection where
I was able to get ringside.

00:18:18.637 --> 00:18:23.677
my goodness, man, I just have a new
respect for the athletes of wwe.

00:18:23.677 --> 00:18:27.397
So I really just wanted to talk to
you about your journey from college

00:18:27.397 --> 00:18:30.637
football to the Arena Football
League, and then into wrestling.

00:18:30.967 --> 00:18:32.677
Like did somebody scout you?

00:18:32.737 --> 00:18:35.947
Uh, or how did you get
involved, uh, in wrestling?

00:18:36.737 --> 00:18:39.587
Thaddeus Bullard: No, my best friend
is, uh, one of my best friends is Dave

00:18:39.587 --> 00:18:46.547
Bautista uh, who was also, uh, in, in
wrestling at the time and, and, uh, kind

00:18:46.547 --> 00:18:49.307
of encouraged me to try out for, and
I was like, man, I'm not doing that.

00:18:49.307 --> 00:18:50.177
I want to go coach.

00:18:50.207 --> 00:18:50.687
You know.

00:18:51.047 --> 00:18:57.107
And then 2009, I, I was driving
by FCW, which is, uh, um, our

00:18:57.107 --> 00:19:00.287
develop was our developmental
league, which is now called NXT.

00:19:00.882 --> 00:19:04.962
Uh, and uh, I wanted some jerk
chicken, which is a place called

00:19:04.992 --> 00:19:06.342
in Tampa called the Jerk Cut.

00:19:06.402 --> 00:19:08.052
So I was going to get jerk chicken.

00:19:08.052 --> 00:19:11.112
I saw the building on the right hand
side that he had been telling me about.

00:19:11.622 --> 00:19:14.742
I picked up the phone, I said, Dave, is
this a place you've been telling me about?

00:19:14.742 --> 00:19:18.102
He said, yeah, um, I said, I'm
gonna poke my head in the back door

00:19:18.102 --> 00:19:19.632
and see what it's about, you know?

00:19:19.632 --> 00:19:24.632
And he said, uh, yeah, ask for Dusty
Rhodes or Steve Keirn And I said, dusty

00:19:24.632 --> 00:19:27.662
Rhodes like atomic elbow, dusty rose.

00:19:27.662 --> 00:19:31.422
And he was like a bionic elbow,
dusty Rhodes he's like, yes.

00:19:31.442 --> 00:19:34.772
He's like, he helps the talent
with, uh, developing their

00:19:34.772 --> 00:19:36.272
promos and stuff like that.

00:19:36.782 --> 00:19:40.772
And so I poked my head in the back
door and, you know, lo and behold,

00:19:40.772 --> 00:19:44.252
two weeks later I was signed and
learning how to become a WWE superstar.

00:19:44.972 --> 00:19:46.262
And the rest is history.

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You know, that happened in 2009 and.

00:19:48.932 --> 00:19:53.462
2020, I was put into the WWE Hall of
Fame as a Warrior Award recipient.

00:19:53.462 --> 00:19:58.592
So it's, uh, definitely, again,
one of those things where if people

00:19:58.592 --> 00:20:02.492
would've told me, you know, and that's
why even now, you know, if people

00:20:02.492 --> 00:20:05.702
asked me the question, where do you
see yourself five years from now?

00:20:06.062 --> 00:20:09.242
I can honestly say five years ago, I
couldn't tell you where I was gonna be.

00:20:09.512 --> 00:20:10.892
You know, I wouldn't have told you that.

00:20:10.892 --> 00:20:14.042
I'm getting ready to be on a, you know.

00:20:14.657 --> 00:20:19.097
Uh, unscripted reality TV
series on Bravo of all places.

00:20:19.397 --> 00:20:21.917
Um, I wouldn't have told you
that I was gonna be in the

00:20:21.917 --> 00:20:23.567
WWE e when I was in college.

00:20:23.567 --> 00:20:24.647
I wouldn't have told you anyhow.

00:20:24.707 --> 00:20:28.037
I mean, I speared people into the
pool during my pool parties, but

00:20:28.037 --> 00:20:32.117
that was, that was just me being, you
know, being a fan and being crazy.

00:20:32.537 --> 00:20:36.767
Uh, but yeah, I just, I tell folks all
the time and when they ask me, you know,

00:20:36.767 --> 00:20:38.357
what do you see yourself in five years?

00:20:38.412 --> 00:20:42.672
Right now, you know, five years, 10
years, I see wherever God has for

00:20:42.672 --> 00:20:44.352
me to go, that's where I'm gonna go.

00:20:44.712 --> 00:20:48.402
And, um, I haven't controlled
my destiny up to this point.

00:20:48.402 --> 00:20:50.982
I didn't control how I got
in, came into this world.

00:20:51.402 --> 00:20:55.212
The only thing I can control
is my attitude and, uh, and my

00:20:55.212 --> 00:20:58.512
gratitude and, and displaying
both of them in a positive way.

00:20:59.057 --> 00:21:02.207
Each and every day, I will never be
able to repay the folks that poured

00:21:02.207 --> 00:21:03.797
into the Florida Sheriff's Boys Ranch.

00:21:03.797 --> 00:21:05.447
I'll never, I don't
even know a lot of them.

00:21:05.747 --> 00:21:08.537
I don't know the people that wrote
checks for the Boys and Girls Club.

00:21:08.927 --> 00:21:13.367
I just remember the moments, the
moments at 12 years old when I was

00:21:13.367 --> 00:21:16.397
given an opportunity to stay, even
though everybody wanted me to go.

00:21:16.397 --> 00:21:19.517
I remember at 12 years old before
I went to the Boys Ranch, a white

00:21:19.517 --> 00:21:23.087
lady from Chi from uh, Boynton
Beach, Florida came up and gave me

00:21:23.087 --> 00:21:24.827
a really nice remote control car.

00:21:25.162 --> 00:21:27.742
For Christmas and said,
I want you to have this.

00:21:27.982 --> 00:21:30.412
I really, I want, I bought this
for you because I wanted you

00:21:30.412 --> 00:21:31.702
to have a really nice gift.

00:21:31.852 --> 00:21:34.312
And that was the only thing
that I got for Christmas.

00:21:34.372 --> 00:21:38.782
And I kept that car until my junior
year in college and I would still have

00:21:38.782 --> 00:21:42.802
that car to this day if my college
roommate, uh, darl Owens, who also

00:21:42.802 --> 00:21:46.462
played football with me at Florida,
didn't come home and wanted to wrestle

00:21:46.462 --> 00:21:49.882
at two o'clock in the morning after
drinking, having a good night out of town.

00:21:50.447 --> 00:21:52.007
And, uh, he broke our fish tank.

00:21:52.007 --> 00:21:56.927
And, and my, and my, uh, and my car,
well, I didn't really care much about

00:21:56.927 --> 00:22:00.827
the fish tank, you know, that could
be replaced, but I, I probably beat

00:22:00.827 --> 00:22:04.697
his ass for three days straight,
you know, about remote control car.

00:22:04.697 --> 00:22:06.797
And he, to him, man, it's just a car.

00:22:06.797 --> 00:22:07.787
I'll get you another car.

00:22:07.787 --> 00:22:10.367
But to me it is, it wasn't just
a car, it was the first time

00:22:10.367 --> 00:22:13.967
somebody treated me with dignity,
um, when they gave me a gift.

00:22:14.057 --> 00:22:16.727
We do a lot of very transactional
stuff in this world.

00:22:16.727 --> 00:22:18.107
You know, Christmas comes around.

00:22:18.252 --> 00:22:22.542
Everybody's giving and they'll put some
gifts in a plastic bag and hand them

00:22:22.632 --> 00:22:24.462
and they'll feel good about themselves.

00:22:24.462 --> 00:22:28.212
But those people that are getting that
nice car or whatever, they might not

00:22:28.212 --> 00:22:31.662
have money to get the batteries, or
you're giving them food boxes during

00:22:31.662 --> 00:22:35.892
Thanksgiving, but they might even be, not
even have a home to warm that food up in

00:22:35.892 --> 00:22:37.782
or to cook that for, prepare that food.

00:22:38.232 --> 00:22:42.912
So while we're all very giving,
you know, by nature hurricane hits.

00:22:43.442 --> 00:22:47.102
You know, national disaster, national
disaster hits, mass shooting hits.

00:22:47.102 --> 00:22:49.202
Everybody feels like they
want to do something.

00:22:49.832 --> 00:22:54.362
In my opinion, I, you know, transactional
things didn't get me to where I'm at.

00:22:54.362 --> 00:22:58.502
Transformational things did, and I'm a
transformational thinker when it comes

00:22:58.502 --> 00:23:00.597
to how I give, you know, if I can't.

00:23:01.457 --> 00:23:03.887
Do something that's su that's sustainable.

00:23:04.247 --> 00:23:04.967
I won't do it.

00:23:05.597 --> 00:23:09.557
You know, when I invested my time,
my talent and my resources into

00:23:09.557 --> 00:23:13.277
turn in one of the lowest performing
schools in the entire school district,

00:23:13.907 --> 00:23:18.767
and literally telling the school
district let me do what I need to do.

00:23:20.312 --> 00:23:22.112
Don't mess with us, don't screw with us.

00:23:22.202 --> 00:23:27.062
You know, like I will help turn this
school into a positive beacon for

00:23:27.062 --> 00:23:32.312
this community and four years later,
it's one of the best schools in it is

00:23:32.312 --> 00:23:34.082
definitely the best looking campus.

00:23:34.142 --> 00:23:35.702
We've completely transformed it.

00:23:35.702 --> 00:23:37.682
It's the only middle school
with a whole bunch of stuff.

00:23:37.682 --> 00:23:40.412
I got a street hockey rink
there in the middle of the hood.

00:23:40.592 --> 00:23:42.482
So brothers and sisters
are playing hockey.

00:23:42.872 --> 00:23:42.992
Uh.

00:23:44.097 --> 00:23:45.507
You know, we have a turf field.

00:23:45.507 --> 00:23:48.357
We're the only school in the
school, the only middle school in

00:23:48.357 --> 00:23:50.877
the entire school district that's
public, that has a turf field.

00:23:50.877 --> 00:23:54.567
We got an academy wing, we got
robots, we got all kinds of stuff.

00:23:54.987 --> 00:23:58.437
And so I, because I truly believe
that exposure leads to expansion,

00:23:58.527 --> 00:24:03.777
and when you expose people wherever
they are from, it expands their mind.

00:24:03.777 --> 00:24:06.807
It expands their thought process
and expands their ability to

00:24:06.807 --> 00:24:08.277
think outside of their own.

00:24:08.957 --> 00:24:09.767
Surroundings.

00:24:10.247 --> 00:24:17.207
Um, and so when it comes to being in
the WWE e having a platform that I've

00:24:17.207 --> 00:24:23.537
had in the wwe e uh, and, and even now
to this day, I still have very close

00:24:23.537 --> 00:24:28.157
connections with a lot of people on the,
on the roster, but also former WWE talent.

00:24:28.427 --> 00:24:32.717
It's not because I was world champ
25 times and not, it's not because

00:24:32.717 --> 00:24:37.577
I, uh, was, you know, tag team
champion 3,500 times or whatever.

00:24:38.297 --> 00:24:42.287
It's because I was a great human being
in that space, and I continue to be the

00:24:42.287 --> 00:24:44.477
same dude that I was walking in the doors.

00:24:44.477 --> 00:24:48.257
It didn't matter how much success
I had or didn't have, it was really

00:24:48.257 --> 00:24:51.377
all about, you know, me being
grateful for the opportunity.

00:24:51.377 --> 00:24:53.357
And I think that if people, I.

00:24:53.402 --> 00:24:59.732
Looked at that holistically across the
board, whether it's, you know, dealing

00:24:59.732 --> 00:25:03.932
with your own kids, like, man, these damn
kids, you know, they getting on my nerves.

00:25:04.022 --> 00:25:04.652
Well, guess what?

00:25:04.652 --> 00:25:07.292
It's some people that don't have kids
to get on their nerves and they wish

00:25:07.292 --> 00:25:08.702
they could have kids, but they can't.

00:25:09.362 --> 00:25:12.302
Uh, it's some people that had kids
that were getting on their nerves

00:25:12.302 --> 00:25:16.292
and they lost them to cancer and
some kids that were getting on their

00:25:16.292 --> 00:25:20.882
nerves and um, you know, and they
started finally turning the corner and

00:25:20.882 --> 00:25:22.352
getting things right and then boom.

00:25:22.607 --> 00:25:25.607
Life happens, accident,
shooting, whatever.

00:25:26.507 --> 00:25:30.767
So I think, you know, for me, uh, I.

00:25:31.742 --> 00:25:34.712
Being in a WWE e gave me a
better perspective even of what

00:25:34.712 --> 00:25:38.102
a being American is, you know,
especially an African American.

00:25:38.102 --> 00:25:41.882
You know, folks always, I ask the question
all the time, do you feel like America's

00:25:41.882 --> 00:25:43.142
the greatest country in the world?

00:25:43.622 --> 00:25:45.692
And you'll get some people
to raise their hand proudly.

00:25:45.692 --> 00:25:46.772
Yes, absolutely.

00:25:47.102 --> 00:25:48.962
And for me, ab yeah, it's not.

00:25:49.267 --> 00:25:52.357
Like as a black man in America,
like my history in this country

00:25:52.357 --> 00:25:54.517
is not good and still not good.

00:25:54.517 --> 00:25:57.817
You know, it doesn't mean I can't be
successful and I haven't been successful.

00:25:57.817 --> 00:26:03.037
But when I go to China, who people talk
crap about here, or when I go to Japan

00:26:03.037 --> 00:26:08.172
and it's clean and people are respectful
and there's no obese people over there,

00:26:08.527 --> 00:26:10.477
like you gotta wonder like how can.

00:26:10.687 --> 00:26:12.337
We say we're the greatest
country in the world.

00:26:12.337 --> 00:26:13.987
We lead the world in mass shootings.

00:26:13.987 --> 00:26:18.217
We lead the world in, in
incarcerations, mass incarcerations.

00:26:18.217 --> 00:26:20.887
We lead the world in a whole
lot of things that are not good.

00:26:21.547 --> 00:26:28.447
And I always say the only time we're
ever collectively in this country, good.

00:26:28.477 --> 00:26:28.987
Really good.

00:26:29.882 --> 00:26:31.952
And United is in times of tragedy.

00:26:32.762 --> 00:26:34.352
And even that is fleeting.

00:26:34.412 --> 00:26:37.622
You know, hurricane hits, you
see the best and best of people.

00:26:38.042 --> 00:26:41.642
And then two weeks later they're back to
being the divided country that we are.

00:26:42.122 --> 00:26:45.152
And so I always tell people, people
come to this country not because it's

00:26:45.152 --> 00:26:46.352
the greatest country in the world.

00:26:46.352 --> 00:26:48.662
They come to this country
'cause it's the country with the

00:26:48.662 --> 00:26:49.952
greatest amount of opportunity.

00:26:50.637 --> 00:26:53.007
People can come here and get an
education that they wouldn't be

00:26:53.007 --> 00:26:54.657
able to get at a respective country.

00:26:54.657 --> 00:26:56.427
They'd be able to come
here and start a business.

00:26:56.727 --> 00:27:00.477
It is truly the land of opportunity,
but even with having that

00:27:00.477 --> 00:27:02.847
opportunity, there are still people.

00:27:03.392 --> 00:27:06.512
Completely negate the fact
about the struggles that go

00:27:06.512 --> 00:27:07.892
along with that opportunity.

00:27:08.552 --> 00:27:12.272
And depending on how you look, where you
come from, what language barrier you have

00:27:12.272 --> 00:27:15.872
or you don't have, what's your sexual
orientation, what the color of your skin

00:27:15.872 --> 00:27:20.492
is, or what your political affiliation
is, there is real life situations

00:27:20.492 --> 00:27:22.832
where systemic issues will affect you.

00:27:23.882 --> 00:27:30.182
And so I don't get too caught
up in being a proud American.

00:27:30.182 --> 00:27:30.542
I get.

00:27:31.217 --> 00:27:33.467
More caught up in being
a great human being.

00:27:33.647 --> 00:27:34.127
You know,

00:27:34.427 --> 00:27:37.817
whether you're American or not, this
is supposed, this is a melting pot.

00:27:38.327 --> 00:27:41.147
You know, whether you were born in
this country or you were not born in

00:27:41.147 --> 00:27:44.807
this country, you get an opportunity
to help this country be better, which

00:27:44.807 --> 00:27:46.457
hopefully will help the world be better.

00:27:46.967 --> 00:27:49.637
And that's well constantly
what I preach to my children.

00:27:49.637 --> 00:27:54.317
Like if you go to the league, great,
but if you go and you're successful

00:27:54.317 --> 00:27:57.107
in whatever you're successful in
and people love you for the human

00:27:57.107 --> 00:28:00.017
being that you are, not just 'cause
you're a talent, but because of your.

00:28:00.347 --> 00:28:04.427
Attitude, your character, your
integrity, those things matter to me

00:28:04.427 --> 00:28:06.797
because I set the legacy for my family.

00:28:07.217 --> 00:28:11.447
I broke the generational curses
for my family and I set a legacy

00:28:11.447 --> 00:28:13.007
for my last name in my family.

00:28:13.007 --> 00:28:19.307
And I truly believe that anytime for
a man of any sort, the greatest gifts,

00:28:19.307 --> 00:28:22.877
and I told you this, you know, when
we first met Sam, the greatest gift

00:28:22.877 --> 00:28:25.967
that we'll ever give our children and
our families is a great last name.

00:28:26.867 --> 00:28:30.317
And it's not the house that you live
in, it's not the car that you drive.

00:28:30.317 --> 00:28:33.737
It's a great last name because at the
end of the day when you're dead and

00:28:33.737 --> 00:28:36.137
gone, how will people remember you?

00:28:36.137 --> 00:28:40.157
What will they remember you for and
will that will how they remember you?

00:28:40.937 --> 00:28:45.767
Open up opportunities for other
people you know, as a coach.

00:28:46.247 --> 00:28:52.967
As a CEO, as a president, as a teammate,
when people hear your name or they see

00:28:52.967 --> 00:28:57.527
your number come up on the caller ID
and they ask you for a favor, or you're

00:28:57.527 --> 00:29:04.067
asking to help somebody or get somebody
help, will your last name be the bridge

00:29:04.067 --> 00:29:06.107
that people need to become better?

00:29:07.067 --> 00:29:12.407
And for the most part, up to this
point in my life, that's been the case.

00:29:13.157 --> 00:29:15.197
I didn't, I wasn't
raised with that though.

00:29:15.842 --> 00:29:20.942
I had to build that for myself and
it took a lot of people from a lot

00:29:20.942 --> 00:29:24.842
of different backgrounds to help
get me to the space that I'm in now.

00:29:25.382 --> 00:29:28.862
So when people say, how do you make so
much time to do everything that you do, I.

00:29:29.417 --> 00:29:31.397
My immediate response is, how can I not?

00:29:31.967 --> 00:29:35.357
People invested in me when they had
absolutely nothing to gain in return,

00:29:35.417 --> 00:29:38.387
and I serve a God that truly has.

00:29:38.447 --> 00:29:42.797
Jeremiah 29 11 written all over my life,
he knew the thoughts that he had for me.

00:29:43.247 --> 00:29:48.227
He understood that if thoughts of good
things and I've had a damn good life, and

00:29:48.227 --> 00:29:49.967
I'll continue to have a damn good life.

00:29:50.357 --> 00:29:53.027
And it's not that it is a life
that comes without struggles.

00:29:53.027 --> 00:29:57.197
It's not a life that comes without weapons
being formed, but they haven't prospered.

00:29:57.427 --> 00:29:59.767
Because I continue to
grow and I continue to go.

00:30:00.127 --> 00:30:04.627
And, um, you know, I I thank
you guys for giving me the

00:30:04.627 --> 00:30:06.397
opportunity to come on your podcast.

00:30:06.877 --> 00:30:09.427
Uh, one, because I know
that you're a believer.

00:30:09.432 --> 00:30:10.657
I, I mean, it was very evident.

00:30:10.687 --> 00:30:13.807
I'm a believer right out of the gate,
you didn't shove it down my throat.

00:30:13.957 --> 00:30:16.267
I just could tell by the way you
walked, the way you talked about your

00:30:16.267 --> 00:30:18.907
family, the way you, you carry yourself.

00:30:19.357 --> 00:30:19.987
Um.

00:30:20.792 --> 00:30:24.332
And you know, brother to brother,
both of you, even though you're

00:30:24.332 --> 00:30:26.342
a little lighter than I am, uh,

00:30:28.712 --> 00:30:31.802
we still brothers, you
know, I'm in this walk.

00:30:32.222 --> 00:30:38.042
Uh, continue to use this platform man
to, to, to bring as many voices to

00:30:38.042 --> 00:30:42.062
the table as possibly can that not
only will speak to their journey or

00:30:42.062 --> 00:30:45.182
speak to their faith, but speak truth.

00:30:47.012 --> 00:30:49.622
Because that's what I think
a lot of folks are scared of

00:30:49.622 --> 00:30:51.542
nowadays, is to hear the truth.

00:30:52.082 --> 00:30:55.382
I ain't running for office, have
zero desire to run for office.

00:30:55.412 --> 00:30:59.822
So if I tell somebody to F off, I ain't
worried about that coming back and

00:30:59.822 --> 00:31:01.592
bite me in the butt two years from now.

00:31:01.892 --> 00:31:04.797
Somebody worried about, you know,
well, you know, you told such and such

00:31:05.282 --> 00:31:06.872
grew off, you know, two years ago.

00:31:06.992 --> 00:31:07.562
Yeah, I did.

00:31:07.562 --> 00:31:09.963
And I'll tell him again and
I'll tell you why I told him.

00:31:11.282 --> 00:31:11.972
I'm debt free.

00:31:11.972 --> 00:31:12.722
I'm stress free.

00:31:12.722 --> 00:31:13.592
I'm worry free.

00:31:13.862 --> 00:31:14.822
I'm kids free.

00:31:15.212 --> 00:31:20.342
And so, uh, you know, it just, if
it's just me and my French Bulldogs,

00:31:20.342 --> 00:31:22.202
at the end of the day, I'm good.

00:31:22.232 --> 00:31:26.612
You know, as long as my kids are healthy
and God is continuing to allow me to

00:31:26.612 --> 00:31:31.532
open doors for folks and do things
for people, um, that help facilitate

00:31:32.432 --> 00:31:35.822
the world in which I know we can help.

00:31:36.497 --> 00:31:39.377
Build then so be it.

00:31:39.377 --> 00:31:41.837
You know, they always say if
you can just reach one, you

00:31:41.837 --> 00:31:43.067
know you've done a great job.

00:31:43.067 --> 00:31:44.147
I've reached thousands.

00:31:45.047 --> 00:31:45.917
And thousands.

00:31:46.067 --> 00:31:49.877
We've put 370 something kids in
college in the last 15 years.

00:31:50.237 --> 00:31:52.517
38 of 'em are in the NFL playing football.

00:31:52.967 --> 00:31:55.337
You know, several of 'em are
playing major league baseball.

00:31:55.337 --> 00:31:58.697
Some of 'em are lawyers, some of 'em
are doctors, some of 'em are police

00:31:58.697 --> 00:32:00.497
officers, some of 'em are school teachers.

00:32:01.067 --> 00:32:03.437
So, and this is since
they were 12 years old.

00:32:03.467 --> 00:32:04.187
I'm 48.

00:32:04.307 --> 00:32:05.777
I'm not even halfway dead yet.

00:32:06.467 --> 00:32:09.737
So just imagine when I get
on that other side of 50 when

00:32:09.737 --> 00:32:10.817
I really don't give a damn.

00:32:10.817 --> 00:32:12.737
Because you know, the older
you get, you lose all the damn.

00:32:13.367 --> 00:32:17.372
Yeah, you lose all the
damns together, you know?

00:32:19.082 --> 00:32:21.722
Sam Acho: Uh, so I got, I got
one more and then Cliff, you, we

00:32:21.722 --> 00:32:24.092
always end every episode we end
with some cliff notes, right?

00:32:24.092 --> 00:32:26.912
So Cliff has, his cliff notes will
have, he'll have his cliff notes

00:32:26.912 --> 00:32:28.592
and maybe a, a question to close us.

00:32:29.042 --> 00:32:29.552
Um,

00:32:32.102 --> 00:32:35.102
and I'm, I usually ask, how do
you win without losing it all?

00:32:35.642 --> 00:32:38.822
And, and it seems like you've answered
that question, but I, so what I

00:32:38.822 --> 00:32:44.642
want to ask you Thaddeus, is what
truth does the world need to hear?

00:32:47.747 --> 00:32:48.767
Thaddeus Bullard: You are enough.

00:32:52.457 --> 00:32:53.027
Simple.

00:32:53.912 --> 00:32:57.842
The world will tell you what you can't
do, how you can't be, what you're not

00:32:58.052 --> 00:33:02.432
capable of, what you're not qualified
for, and it's a boldfaced lie.

00:33:02.642 --> 00:33:05.612
You, you are truly enough.

00:33:05.972 --> 00:33:11.312
And the enemy will put that doubt and
that fear and that that wall up so

00:33:11.312 --> 00:33:12.752
that you won't go through that wall.

00:33:12.752 --> 00:33:14.792
Like, just think about it like people.

00:33:15.302 --> 00:33:18.152
The enemy doesn't go after
you for what you have.

00:33:19.112 --> 00:33:21.557
That, that's, that's, uh, that's easy.

00:33:21.797 --> 00:33:22.577
You know what I'm saying?

00:33:22.607 --> 00:33:26.897
Like that's the easy part
when you go into a game plan.

00:33:26.897 --> 00:33:27.977
Sam, you played football.

00:33:30.197 --> 00:33:32.357
Uh, who's the best running
back you played against?

00:33:32.957 --> 00:33:35.777
Sam Acho: Um, I played against
Saquon, so I'd say Saquon.

00:33:36.797 --> 00:33:38.357
Thaddeus Bullard: All
right, so Sequan Barkley.

00:33:38.747 --> 00:33:44.537
So prior to you getting on the field with
Saquon Barkley, you didn't care how many

00:33:44.537 --> 00:33:46.487
yards he rushed for last yard, last game.

00:33:46.762 --> 00:33:46.982
Sam Acho: No,

00:33:47.792 --> 00:33:50.852
Thaddeus Bullard: You didn't care how
many yards people projected him to get

00:33:50.852 --> 00:33:52.472
in the game that you played against.

00:33:53.132 --> 00:33:56.552
What you cared about is stopping
him from gaining anything.

00:33:58.712 --> 00:34:00.422
That's how the enemy works.

00:34:01.352 --> 00:34:03.392
It ain't after what you did in the past.

00:34:04.502 --> 00:34:06.632
It ain't after what you got
going on in the present.

00:34:07.142 --> 00:34:08.432
They wanna stop your future.

00:34:08.462 --> 00:34:10.472
Hey you, you ain't gonna do that with me.

00:34:10.532 --> 00:34:12.182
You, I'm not gonna allow you to do that.

00:34:13.172 --> 00:34:15.302
You ran for 300 yards
against the last team.

00:34:15.362 --> 00:34:16.472
You ain't gonna do that here.

00:34:17.792 --> 00:34:19.232
That's how the enemy works.

00:34:20.372 --> 00:34:24.992
So the devil says, Hey, y'all think
I want what you got right now, man.

00:34:24.992 --> 00:34:26.162
What you got right now ain't no.

00:34:26.282 --> 00:34:27.992
It is not even a fraction of what I know.

00:34:27.992 --> 00:34:28.832
Got God got.

00:34:28.832 --> 00:34:32.702
But if I can keep you from getting at
what God got for you in the future,

00:34:33.752 --> 00:34:35.282
oh, I can kill your whole family.

00:34:36.392 --> 00:34:37.082
I can stop.

00:34:37.262 --> 00:34:38.882
I can stop your grandkids.

00:34:38.942 --> 00:34:40.592
I can stop your great-grandkids.

00:34:40.742 --> 00:34:46.262
If I can just get you right now
because you may be a millionaire.

00:34:47.777 --> 00:34:52.157
But your great gang cri be, are
supposed to be multimillionaires because

00:34:52.157 --> 00:34:55.517
they're gonna continue the generational
wealth that you've accumulated.

00:34:56.477 --> 00:35:01.217
But if I can stop you in your tracks
right here and set you back and set

00:35:01.217 --> 00:35:06.887
your family back, and you be the
patriarch of that, all of a sudden

00:35:06.887 --> 00:35:10.787
I'll put you back in a space and your
family back in a space in which now

00:35:10.787 --> 00:35:14.447
everybody's got a doubt and wonder,
will we ever get back to where we were?

00:35:16.652 --> 00:35:19.382
And you're wondering from a world
sense, you're not depending on

00:35:19.382 --> 00:35:22.682
God, you're depending on the fact
that you just lost all this stuff.

00:35:24.512 --> 00:35:29.342
So my thing is, you are enough.

00:35:30.932 --> 00:35:35.102
There was a time in my life where I was
very insignificant to a lot of people.

00:35:37.142 --> 00:35:38.492
My life up to this point.

00:35:38.522 --> 00:35:42.782
Uh, from this point, moving
forward is all about significance

00:35:43.412 --> 00:35:46.112
because success is for ourselves.

00:35:46.232 --> 00:35:47.222
It's very selfish.

00:35:47.342 --> 00:35:49.472
I wanna be this, I wanna
make this amount of money.

00:35:49.472 --> 00:35:50.612
I wanna do such and such.

00:35:50.792 --> 00:35:52.052
I want to graduate from high school.

00:35:52.052 --> 00:35:53.102
I want to graduate from college.

00:35:53.102 --> 00:35:54.482
I want to do this, I wanna do that.

00:35:54.812 --> 00:35:55.172
Great.

00:35:55.412 --> 00:35:58.622
Anybody can be successful at anything
they wanna do, especially in this country.

00:36:00.002 --> 00:36:02.672
But the question is, what are you
gonna do when you get that success?

00:36:03.992 --> 00:36:06.092
How are you gonna impact
the people around you?

00:36:07.352 --> 00:36:11.972
Because I believe that the 8-year-old
Thaddeus and the 80-year-old

00:36:11.972 --> 00:36:13.622
Thaddeus will never be too far apart.

00:36:13.622 --> 00:36:15.602
I'll never forget where I came from.

00:36:15.602 --> 00:36:18.482
I'll never forget how I felt when
I was ho, when I was hungry, when I

00:36:18.482 --> 00:36:21.092
was cold, when I was homeless, when
I was told when I'll be molested.

00:36:21.302 --> 00:36:24.062
So therefore, I can look at other
people that are in that situation.

00:36:24.062 --> 00:36:25.802
I'm gonna be like, Hey
man, you, you are enough.

00:36:26.942 --> 00:36:29.552
I love you and I believe in you,
and we gonna get through this.

00:36:31.727 --> 00:36:34.697
The 80-year-old me is sitting up
there like, yeah, I've gotten all

00:36:34.697 --> 00:36:39.317
this, this, I've accumulated all these
things, and I got all these great

00:36:39.317 --> 00:36:44.537
memories, but I'm still wanting to make
sure that other people can do that.

00:36:44.777 --> 00:36:47.327
That's why I love kids and I love elderly.

00:36:48.047 --> 00:36:51.677
They both are that they, they, it is
two of the most truthful demographic of

00:36:51.677 --> 00:36:52.997
people you'll ever meet in your life.

00:36:53.837 --> 00:36:57.197
If your breath stink and they're
six years old, they're gonna

00:36:57.197 --> 00:36:58.217
tell you your breath stink.

00:36:58.307 --> 00:37:01.187
If your breath stink and they're
85 years old, they're gonna

00:37:01.187 --> 00:37:02.477
tell you they breath stink.

00:37:02.717 --> 00:37:06.107
As a 8-year-old or a 6-year-old or
7-year-old kid, they're gonna tell you

00:37:06.107 --> 00:37:12.887
the same story every day, all day, and,
and you going and the 85, 90-year-old

00:37:13.187 --> 00:37:15.647
tell you the same stories a million times.

00:37:15.647 --> 00:37:16.217
You know why?

00:37:16.367 --> 00:37:19.847
Because those were their dreams
that they, they see things and

00:37:19.847 --> 00:37:21.167
they experience things, and they.

00:37:21.182 --> 00:37:24.992
Constantly wanna live in those moments
because those are great moments for them.

00:37:26.042 --> 00:37:30.422
And as much as you don't want to
hear what your 6-year-old, 7-year-old

00:37:30.422 --> 00:37:33.632
saying all the time, over and over
and over and over again, man, it's

00:37:33.632 --> 00:37:38.822
gonna be a time that you go when
they 85 grandpa or great 85-year-old

00:37:38.822 --> 00:37:41.162
granddad, or 85-year-old dad or mom.

00:37:42.482 --> 00:37:45.002
And you're gonna wish you
had those conversations back.

00:37:45.902 --> 00:37:49.262
You're gonna wish that you can
talk about the good old days.

00:37:50.297 --> 00:37:54.737
You're gonna wish that you can talk about
what they want to be when they grow up.

00:37:55.577 --> 00:37:58.547
Because once they grow up, they're
not talking to you about the same

00:37:58.547 --> 00:38:01.127
thing that they were talking to you
when they were talking to you at six.

00:38:02.687 --> 00:38:04.637
So you are enough.

00:38:05.837 --> 00:38:09.377
Wherever you are on the spectrum
of life, you are enough.

00:38:09.617 --> 00:38:12.887
God, Jesus died for us all for a reason.

00:38:13.742 --> 00:38:13.862
Clif Marshall: Hmm.

00:38:14.132 --> 00:38:16.862
Thaddeus Bullard: And it
wasn't because I was the best.

00:38:16.922 --> 00:38:17.942
You was the strongest.

00:38:18.002 --> 00:38:19.922
He was the fastest, she was the richest.

00:38:20.042 --> 00:38:25.172
They was the, this, you know,
whatever it was because he loved us.

00:38:26.072 --> 00:38:26.192
Clif Marshall: Hmm.

00:38:27.302 --> 00:38:27.902
Fatties.

00:38:27.902 --> 00:38:32.822
My last, uh, thought, and this has
been incredible, I've spent the

00:38:32.822 --> 00:38:36.692
last eight years as the director of
strength and conditioning for the

00:38:36.692 --> 00:38:38.762
Indiana Hoosiers men's basketball team.

00:38:39.572 --> 00:38:42.272
And as Sam mentioned earlier, I've,
you know, I've been coaching for

00:38:42.272 --> 00:38:46.052
almost 30 years now in the NFL
College football, college basketball.

00:38:46.772 --> 00:38:50.012
But there's one quote that
I typically will leave on my

00:38:50.012 --> 00:38:53.492
grease board for the athletes to
see, and it's from John Wooden.

00:38:53.522 --> 00:39:00.902
And it says, a great person is more
important than being a great athlete.

00:39:01.922 --> 00:39:06.722
And just hearing your story and the impact
that you've made with the platform that

00:39:06.722 --> 00:39:09.542
you've been given is incredible to me.

00:39:10.292 --> 00:39:11.672
it's not really a question.

00:39:11.672 --> 00:39:13.262
It's more or less a salute.

00:39:13.352 --> 00:39:14.282
A thank you.

00:39:14.777 --> 00:39:20.267
And a, uh, encouragement man to
keep doing what you're doing because

00:39:20.267 --> 00:39:23.957
you have certainly inspired me
over the last 45 minutes or so.

00:39:25.262 --> 00:39:25.652
Thaddeus Bullard: Thanks, man.

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Appreciate it.

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Sam Acho: Yeah.

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And, uh, everybody for listening,
thank you all so much for checking out

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the Sam Macho Podcast, uh, featuring
Cliff Marshall, AKA, cliff Notes, and

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today's special guest, Thaddius Bullard.

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Uh, make sure to check out King's Court.

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It'll be on NBC and on
Peacock starting in July.

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I.

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And all this information
will be in the show notes.

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We'll have links for you to
check out and go to sam macho.com

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to check out all the resources.

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Thank you.