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I was drunk.

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When

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I woke up, my hand had a ring finger.

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the ring finger was on my ring finger.

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And the

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ring finger was loose.

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But of course, I was over it.

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So I put my hand on the ring finger.

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I was saved that night.

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I did that.

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Las Vegas.

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Yes,

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yes.

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I was saved that night.

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My hand was a bit twisted.

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I was about to fall.

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I was a klepto by the way.

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With most of the people who had a quarter-life

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crisis, I mastered it.

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I saw that step.

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The quarter life?

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That's the step I thought of.

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I told the universe that my life is serious.

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It's not a good decision.

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I'm done with it.

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In my religion, real happiness is boredom.

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If you get bored with each other,

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it's okay.

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You're happy.

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the dinkwap show dual income no kids with a podcast

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Hello! Welcome to another episode of the Dinkwap Show.

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And we are your hosts. I am Rem.

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Still Alvia.

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And their only friend, Des.

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Yes.

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We

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still have this.

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I still have an intro.

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We still have this.

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How many episodes have we done together?

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I don't know.

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I think this is our fifth episode. Fourth?

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Fifth?

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We've been together for a week.

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Yes. This is our only outfit. We don't have any clothes

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on.

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We don't have any clothes on.

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don't have anything to wear.

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We're fast.

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We're like that.

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Shower

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is not a thing.

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So we start with this episode, we're now in the mature relationships era.

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For her, it's

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a bit contentious.

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Yeah.

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I told you, the mature?

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After

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risk.

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Because in fairness to us, LV, you can see the progression.

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From high school,

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cute, then

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boyfriend-ish,

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girlfriend

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-ish.

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There's blue magic level, then suddenly,

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early college.

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We have that kind of people.

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you can see that it helps those who know you.

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Versus those

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who are already "the ones"

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in

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high

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school,

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in college.

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Good for you.

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We're not like that.

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Good job, right?

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Yeah.

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But our experience is different.

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I think we're similar.

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It's just that you settle down.

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I feel like I'm angry.

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It's just

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that

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you settle down.

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Why is it not that

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she's happy?

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Thank

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you.

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We should be together in life.

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I'm not together right now.

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You left me in Siargao.

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You didn't invite me.

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Wait, before you went to Siargao, first of all...

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I still have a pain in

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my heart.

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This is the reason why we chose Siargao. - Okay, okay.

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Siargao is gone. - There's one more.

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Wait, the one with the wedding. - The one with the wedding.

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The one with the happy ending.

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next serious relationship is this.

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basically, from my ex-boyfriend, I was dating around for one year, trying to figure out what I want again.

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And then I met this guy.

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He's so serious.

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Do I start the whole-- I just met him.

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You! - You!

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I'm just saying. - What do you want?

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This is your airtime. - I just met him.

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It's true that that the thing, but I guess it's just not the right one for me because it's not an endgame but the person or this relationship will come when you're really not looking.

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the time that I'm pretty much not done.

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But I've met a lot of people and I'm like, "Okay, this is what I want." I don't want this anymore.

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when it comes to dating, it's cute when there are romantic gestures.

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borderline that's cringy.

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So I don't want that anymore.

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When you're getting older. - Yes.

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It's a bit bad. - Yes, because

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like...

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It's just not for you. - I'm in my 20s

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now.

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I guess it's

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just not for me.

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There are times when I'm like, "Oh, it's so romantic, it's nice." But I'll quickly cringe and go, "Stop, don't." So I met him in Boracay.

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When I met him, I was like a bridge.

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a girl that we're with.

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It's a work

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trip for me.

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We have a client.

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She told me that she just broke up with her boyfriend.

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"Oh, just introduce

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me to people." Because I have a lot of friends in Boracay

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Beast.

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So we'll go out later.

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And then this guy, he just came to the bar where my bosses are.

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then she was like, "Oh, he's the one I like." So my boss, being very extroverted, he

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approached him

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right away.

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He was alone and he was talking to me.

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But I guess it was also very wholesome because

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they're older.

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they're talking more about work and business

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it started.

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So that's how it was.

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Then the girl said, "I like him." Then the whole night, we were supposed to be together.

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He was still acting like that.

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I wasn't

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interested when I saw him.

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That's it.

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He's not my type

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physically.

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Though he's tall,

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he's quite

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fit.

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But it's okay.

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I'm not the cute type.

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There's no such thing.

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So the whole night, I was trying to play the wingman.

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But what happened was, After we drank, we ended up in a club.

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After that, he moved to another place.

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He was beside me the whole time.

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I guess she got the

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meme.

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didn't entertain her.

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She just stood there.

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He was buying me all the drinks.

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I just drank.

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He just brought it.

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He wasn't really saying anything.

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He was just talking.

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She just stood there.

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And then the girl was like, "Okay, Des. I'm not the one she likes. You're the one

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I'm gonna go to." Why isn't she mad?

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She's not mad.

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Because we were in Boracay.

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We were in Boracay.

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met him that night.

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she saw that I wasn't really entertaining

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him.

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Or I wasn't really reciprocating

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in his moves.

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course, when the girl left, we were reciprocating.

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We were already 10

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glasses

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of drinks.

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We were already big.

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We didn't have any inhibitions.

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in Boracay.

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When in Boracay,

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it's another story.

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Because it's

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like, "Okay, let's go."

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You won't see him.

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Maybe he

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won't see you.

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Are you going to be a foreigner?

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I'm

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sure.

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Because he told a story that he was on a work trip

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and Boracay

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was just on a side trip for a short vacation before he left.

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Okay, so this is not going to go anywhere.

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done.

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But he kept in touch.

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He's like, "Ah."

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He's like, "No problem." Almost

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all of the people I meet, Though I didn't have any intention to take it seriously right away.

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But they really came back.

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It's really a problem.

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I have a problem.

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But yeah, like

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him, he kept in touch.

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I was like, "We haven't seen each other for a while." "Hello, you were just in a quick work trip here in Manila." And then, bam, Boracay,

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done.

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Nothing happened, by the way. We just really hang out.

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And then, that night, he brought me to my hotel.

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Then he left.

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The following day, that's the worst part.

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Because my boss and I were still working.

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He was just sitting there.

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Oh.

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For a whole

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morning until

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afternoon.

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He was just

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sitting there.

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We were still working.

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We were still moving because he was a

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barahay.

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And my boss

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had properties.

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still in the wine company.

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So we were still distributing.

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So we were checking the bars and restaurants.

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We were meeting the

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partners.

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For example, we were at the same table.

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He was with me and he was at the other table.

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He did that for a whole day.

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What the?

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I think he's not your type.

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Your voice is not like that.

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I was like, "It's okay, go ahead." I asked

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him, "What's your plan?"

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First, he just joined us for breakfast.

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Because

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we also talked the following day.

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Because when I wake up, I have a ring finger.

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the ring finger is on my ring finger.

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And the

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ring finger is loose.

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But of course, I'm over it.

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Did you get a massage that night?

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did.

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In Las Vegas?

287
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Yes.

288
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Did you get a massage that night?

289
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Yes.

290
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Guys, my hands are a bit twisted.

291
00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,900
I'm a klepto by the way.

292
00:09:37,830 --> 00:09:39,280
But you know what you put on your ring finger?

293
00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:40,680
I probably didn't put anything on it.

294
00:09:42,180 --> 00:09:43,000
I was just looking at him with my ring finger.

295
00:09:43,390 --> 00:09:48,980
I was like, "Who is this?" Then I realized, "Oh, it's..." That guy.

296
00:09:50,860 --> 00:09:51,740
Then, when

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I woke up, he texted me.

298
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He

299
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was the one

300
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who texted.

301
00:09:57,660 --> 00:09:57,920
I felt like

302
00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:58,920
he was the one who left me.

303
00:09:59,700 --> 00:10:00,800
I felt like he was the one who left me.

304
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And

305
00:10:01,660 --> 00:10:05,200
when I woke up, he texted me, "This is my number. See you

306
00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:06,440
again tomorrow." But

307
00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,080
most likely, he sent that to me. I was already asleep.

308
00:10:10,180 --> 00:10:21,260
I replied to him, "Hey, I think I stole your ring or I don't know what happened." He said, "Okay, where are you?" He said, "I'll get my ring." But I think it's his style.

309
00:10:21,900 --> 00:10:23,720
We're all in the same boat.

310
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Of course, it's Utu

311
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-Utu.

312
00:10:25,450 --> 00:10:26,000
Yes, it's Tang.

313
00:10:26,900 --> 00:10:27,480
It's also Utu-Utu.

314
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So

315
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he invited us for

316
00:10:30,700 --> 00:10:31,200
breakfast.

317
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And we were together the whole day.

318
00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,440
For breakfast.

319
00:10:37,380 --> 00:10:39,600
Not yet. Because in my head,

320
00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:40,540
it's

321
00:10:40,540 --> 00:10:43,440
cute. It's something new. He's very

322
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gentleman.

323
00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:47,740
So at this point, he's okay with being a gentleman?

324
00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:48,560
Yes.

325
00:10:48,860 --> 00:10:50,280
Before, he was like

326
00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:50,820
a...

327
00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,380
But if he doesn't look like one, he's a

328
00:10:53,380 --> 00:10:53,700
stalker.

329
00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:54,520
Yes.

330
00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,280
He doesn't tell stories like that.

331
00:10:57,680 --> 00:10:57,880
He

332
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doesn't have a

333
00:10:57,980 --> 00:10:59,260
beard because he's all shit.

334
00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:00,060
He's been

335
00:11:00,060 --> 00:11:02,100
getting beaten up all

336
00:11:02,100 --> 00:11:02,100
day.

337
00:11:02,380 --> 00:11:03,420
"Hey, who's

338
00:11:03,420 --> 00:11:34,100
the one My boss was the one who got tired of him.

339
00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:35,520
Seriously,

340
00:11:35,780 --> 00:11:36,600
my boss

341
00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:38,580
said, "Okay, go take Daz out on a

342
00:11:38,580 --> 00:11:40,880
dinner." My boss was

343
00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:41,440
the one who...

344
00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:41,460
The

345
00:11:41,460 --> 00:11:42,220
one who was the one who... - Yes.

346
00:11:42,620 --> 00:11:43,060
I was

347
00:11:43,060 --> 00:11:47,360
like, "Huh? We're having dinner, right?" - "We have work, sir." - Yes.

348
00:11:47,620 --> 00:11:49,480
Essentially, he said, "Go, go out on a dinner."

349
00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,100
So he put in effort the whole day. - Yes, he worked

350
00:11:52,100 --> 00:11:52,880
hard the whole day.

351
00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:54,260
So okay, fine.

352
00:11:54,980 --> 00:11:55,180
Then

353
00:11:55,180 --> 00:11:58,020
after that, we kept in touch.

354
00:11:58,390 --> 00:12:00,459
He came back to Manila until...

355
00:12:00,460 --> 00:12:01,920
By the way,

356
00:12:01,970 --> 00:12:02,580
it's a long-distance

357
00:12:02,580 --> 00:12:04,740
relationship. He's not based here in Manila.

358
00:12:05,519 --> 00:12:06,040
So...

359
00:12:07,140 --> 00:12:07,240
It's

360
00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:07,980
been a while, right?

361
00:12:08,610 --> 00:12:09,500
Almost 5 years.

362
00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:11,600
But LDR. - LDR.

363
00:12:12,399 --> 00:12:13,700
It's hard. - It's hard.

364
00:12:14,210 --> 00:12:14,440
It's expensive,

365
00:12:14,820 --> 00:12:15,080
guys.

366
00:12:16,220 --> 00:12:17,280
And the time.

367
00:12:18,060 --> 00:12:18,420
Time.

368
00:12:19,340 --> 00:12:19,700
Imagine,

369
00:12:19,940 --> 00:12:20,600
I'm working now.

370
00:12:21,340 --> 00:12:25,040
I've allocated almost all of my vacation leave for the year.

371
00:12:25,230 --> 00:12:26,200
So that we

372
00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:26,520
can see each other.

373
00:12:28,010 --> 00:12:30,200
So that

374
00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:30,200
we can see each other.

375
00:12:30,220 --> 00:12:31,940
He didn't just go to Manila.

376
00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,920
For example, there's a trip outside the Philippines.

377
00:12:36,740 --> 00:12:36,820
I

378
00:12:36,820 --> 00:12:37,700
would go there.

379
00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:39,820
So we

380
00:12:39,820 --> 00:12:40,840
really tried.

381
00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:42,220
So it

382
00:12:42,220 --> 00:12:43,160
was almost five years.

383
00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:48,480
So that's pretty much like mid-20s to late-20s.

384
00:12:49,380 --> 00:12:50,140
It was serious.

385
00:12:51,280 --> 00:13:01,600
But then, I think one of the reasons it ended was because Coming from my 2-3 years relationship, I was all out.

386
00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:03,680
I resigned

387
00:13:03,680 --> 00:13:07,580
to give away whatever his plans.

388
00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:09,820
And then, I didn't get any offers.

389
00:13:10,130 --> 00:13:12,360
So when it came to my relationship, I was like, "Wait."

390
00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:14,340
That was the

391
00:13:14,340 --> 00:13:16,540
time when my career was like...

392
00:13:20,980 --> 00:13:23,720
Then my promotion was

393
00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:24,560
like...

394
00:13:24,580 --> 00:13:28,800
We reached a point where if you stay here, nothing will happen.

395
00:13:29,210 --> 00:13:29,580
So you

396
00:13:29,580 --> 00:13:30,480
need to follow.

397
00:13:31,610 --> 00:13:32,680
But I was like, "No, I'll

398
00:13:32,680 --> 00:13:34,580
prioritize." Because you have your career first.

399
00:13:34,580 --> 00:13:35,180
Yes, right?

400
00:13:36,140 --> 00:13:37,120
So that's what happened.

401
00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,520
I decided that we won't go anywhere.

402
00:13:39,870 --> 00:13:40,260
We'll just stop.

403
00:13:41,780 --> 00:13:43,600
But it's like, there's no bitterness.

404
00:13:45,220 --> 00:13:45,820
There's none.

405
00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:46,820
And

406
00:13:46,820 --> 00:13:47,800
I

407
00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,600
learned a lot from the relationship.

408
00:13:50,380 --> 00:13:52,040
I feel like everything I

409
00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,600
answered

410
00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,720
during our relationship

411
00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:57,380
in the first year.

412
00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:58,860
I also had a lot of takeaways.

413
00:13:59,220 --> 00:13:59,820
I feel like

414
00:13:59,820 --> 00:14:00,880
I didn't have any bitterness.

415
00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:02,380
You learned a lot.

416
00:14:03,460 --> 00:14:03,580
It's like,

417
00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:08,400
it's not the right time.

418
00:14:08,780 --> 00:14:08,900
Yeah.

419
00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:10,340
I think so.

420
00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,000
You went through different stages.

421
00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:12,800
True.

422
00:14:15,180 --> 00:14:19,260
When we broke up, I was doing my masters.

423
00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,020
I was having a hard time because I had a boyfriend and

424
00:14:23,020 --> 00:14:23,740
I was trying to

425
00:14:23,740 --> 00:14:24,340
do my career.

426
00:14:25,860 --> 00:14:26,440
Then we broke up.

427
00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,160
When Rem and I broke up, he was studying.

428
00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,080
He was trying to transition his career.

429
00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:34,260
But it was okay.

430
00:14:35,180 --> 00:14:37,500
It was just a different priority.

431
00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,500
That's also how he actually complained about me because I was trying to

432
00:14:41,500 --> 00:14:43,120
code

433
00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:44,280
and transition my career.

434
00:14:45,300 --> 00:14:45,680
Of course,

435
00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:46,680
my focus

436
00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,060
was on the time.

437
00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,020
We were also trying to win.

438
00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:52,460
So that's how it was.

439
00:14:53,100 --> 00:14:53,640
It was just different.

440
00:14:54,820 --> 00:14:55,580
Rem and I also talked

441
00:14:55,580 --> 00:14:59,800
about it because technically, when I started the company, we already knew each other.

442
00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:02,340
We were single then.

443
00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:08,020
But I told Rem, if we were together, we might have just broken up.

444
00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:09,300
I feel the same.

445
00:15:09,580 --> 00:15:10,000
Because I

446
00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:10,160
was young.

447
00:15:10,660 --> 00:15:11,280
I was still a kid.

448
00:15:12,260 --> 00:15:14,660
I know if someone would get mad at me.

449
00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:15,700
I was also the one

450
00:15:15,700 --> 00:15:16,340
who was always...

451
00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:17,280
So

452
00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:18,260
there was

453
00:15:18,260 --> 00:15:18,780
no one to go to.

454
00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:20,140
So it was just

455
00:15:20,140 --> 00:15:20,500
right.

456
00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:21,780
The timing.

457
00:15:22,260 --> 00:15:22,520
The timing.

458
00:15:22,940 --> 00:15:25,580
Because you know, that's the date when you study.

459
00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:26,480
Yes.

460
00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:26,760
Sometimes.

461
00:15:27,740 --> 00:15:28,160
It's like that.

462
00:15:28,700 --> 00:15:29,020
So we

463
00:15:29,020 --> 00:15:29,320
were

464
00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:34,400
in the same stage of life at that

465
00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:34,700
time.

466
00:15:35,210 --> 00:15:35,320
Yeah.

467
00:15:35,940 --> 00:15:36,480
Which I

468
00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:40,420
guess is one of the reasons why I broke up with my ex.

469
00:15:40,590 --> 00:15:40,740
Yeah, you

470
00:15:40,740 --> 00:15:41,300
guys weren't together.

471
00:15:41,810 --> 00:15:42,340
Yeah, we

472
00:15:42,340 --> 00:15:42,780
didn't get along.

473
00:15:42,820 --> 00:15:44,140
And then, he's older.

474
00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:45,440
So he

475
00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:48,980
was already at the peak of his career, and I was getting there.

476
00:15:49,670 --> 00:15:49,820
And

477
00:15:49,820 --> 00:15:52,060
then coming from my previous

478
00:15:52,060 --> 00:15:53,720
relationship where I threw everything away.

479
00:15:53,970 --> 00:15:54,420
You really gave everything away.

480
00:15:54,700 --> 00:15:55,580
I was like, "Wait,

481
00:15:55,860 --> 00:15:56,640
I'm here.

482
00:15:57,540 --> 00:15:58,840
I'm a career now."

483
00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:00,800
I feel like someone is coming to me.

484
00:16:00,820 --> 00:16:04,460
It's like, "It's the time." - I don't want to give

485
00:16:04,460 --> 00:16:04,860
up.

486
00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,660
And that's it. We parted. There's no

487
00:16:07,660 --> 00:16:08,260
bitterness.

488
00:16:09,860 --> 00:16:11,440
Nerem said, it's funny, right?

489
00:16:12,020 --> 00:16:13,840
He said he's in his 30s and he's going to be serious.

490
00:16:14,980 --> 00:16:18,940
I said, "25." There's no arbitrary number.

491
00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:19,580
I

492
00:16:19,580 --> 00:16:26,020
said, "I'll be 20 when I turn 20." With most of the people who had a quarter life crisis, I mastered it.

493
00:16:27,420 --> 00:16:29,180
That's what I saw as a step.

494
00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,240
That's what I

495
00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:33,020
thought as a step to

496
00:16:33,020 --> 00:16:35,020
reverse my

497
00:16:35,020 --> 00:16:35,780
life.

498
00:16:36,110 --> 00:16:36,900
It's not a good decision.

499
00:16:37,900 --> 00:16:38,600
I finished it.

500
00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,460
I tried to finish it in another school.

501
00:16:42,630 --> 00:16:42,980
You just got confused.

502
00:16:43,980 --> 00:16:44,420
I

503
00:16:44,420 --> 00:16:45,440
just did a one-sem in UP.

504
00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:46,600
You just got confused.

505
00:16:46,740 --> 00:16:47,620
But I also

506
00:16:47,620 --> 00:16:51,060
believe that he'll come to us.

507
00:16:51,060 --> 00:16:55,060
Honestly, I don't want to date anymore.

508
00:16:55,900 --> 00:16:56,380
It was kind

509
00:16:56,380 --> 00:16:57,060
of traumatic

510
00:16:57,060 --> 00:16:59,120
after that experience.

511
00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:01,180
I really like Remy.

512
00:17:02,220 --> 00:17:02,320
Wow.

513
00:17:03,460 --> 00:17:04,600
Remy didn't

514
00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:05,760
make you cry anymore.

515
00:17:06,540 --> 00:17:07,699
No, I think it's just right.

516
00:17:09,300 --> 00:17:09,520
True.

517
00:17:09,959 --> 00:17:10,199
That

518
00:17:10,199 --> 00:17:11,720
we're both okay.

519
00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:13,040
We

520
00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:16,720
already knew what we wanted with a partner,

521
00:17:17,060 --> 00:17:17,920
what we wanted

522
00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:19,280
in life, and it worked.

523
00:17:20,020 --> 00:17:20,199
True.

524
00:17:20,430 --> 00:17:22,680
And it's not hard.

525
00:17:24,020 --> 00:17:25,740
It's not hard, it's not...

526
00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,740
You know, you put in effort but it's not...

527
00:17:29,380 --> 00:17:29,900
It's hard.

528
00:17:30,220 --> 00:17:33,580
Yes, the effort you really need to work.

529
00:17:34,360 --> 00:17:34,540
True.

530
00:17:35,020 --> 00:17:35,160
It's like

531
00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:35,340
that.

532
00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:38,760
There's effort but it's not hard.

533
00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:38,920
Yeah,

534
00:17:39,060 --> 00:17:39,680
it's not hard.

535
00:17:39,980 --> 00:17:40,720
It's just...

536
00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:43,280
Nothing. It's effortless.

537
00:17:43,860 --> 00:17:44,260
Something like that.

538
00:17:44,510 --> 00:17:45,680
There's effort but effortless.

539
00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:47,980
You know, it's not like...

540
00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:48,620
Nothing.

541
00:17:49,190 --> 00:17:49,640
Rem tried hard.

542
00:17:50,660 --> 00:17:51,120
It's a secret.

543
00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:51,920
Yes.

544
00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:53,680
And that was the time.

545
00:17:54,140 --> 00:17:54,980
So this is the

546
00:17:54,980 --> 00:17:55,440
shirt gown.

547
00:17:55,980 --> 00:17:57,480
So my boyfriend and I broke up.

548
00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:57,760
I was lost.

549
00:17:59,230 --> 00:17:59,460
I got

550
00:17:59,460 --> 00:18:00,720
Alvina's shirt.

551
00:18:00,970 --> 00:18:01,120
It's like that.

552
00:18:01,900 --> 00:18:02,020
This

553
00:18:02,020 --> 00:18:03,080
is the painful experience.

554
00:18:03,860 --> 00:18:03,980
Wait!

555
00:18:04,980 --> 00:18:05,240
I'll

556
00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:05,900
give

557
00:18:05,900 --> 00:18:06,700
you the details.

558
00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:08,740
I'll defend Des

559
00:18:08,740 --> 00:18:09,240
and

560
00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:09,500
me.

561
00:18:09,340 --> 00:18:10,400
So Des

562
00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,980
cried because she was heartbroken.

563
00:18:12,820 --> 00:18:14,680
Because of your 5 years. - She was so broken.

564
00:18:15,120 --> 00:18:15,540
Almost

565
00:18:15,540 --> 00:18:16,600
5 years. - So I...

566
00:18:17,500 --> 00:18:24,540
As a best friend, I said, "I'll be your wingwoman no matter what." We were noted for this.

567
00:18:25,340 --> 00:18:27,020
Then the next day, we booked a car.

568
00:18:28,100 --> 00:18:28,340
Literally. - That's how

569
00:18:28,340 --> 00:18:29,000
serious

570
00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:29,480
we were.

571
00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:30,040
This is via Clark.

572
00:18:31,020 --> 00:18:33,960
Via Manila, 10k.

573
00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:34,400
So

574
00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:34,840
I said,

575
00:18:35,120 --> 00:18:36,560
"Clark, check it out. 4k,

576
00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,440
we're booked." -Yeah, it's cheap. -Rem,

577
00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:40,840
I'm sorry, I can't include you.

578
00:18:41,580 --> 00:18:45,160
-Yeah, Des will do the soul searching. -Rem didn't even break me.

579
00:18:45,740 --> 00:18:47,180
-It looks like that. -But he's angry.

580
00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:49,200
-It's not soul searching, it's body searching.

581
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:49,980
-It's a little...

582
00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:50,460
-It's

583
00:18:50,460 --> 00:18:52,960
a little different on earth. -We're too game

584
00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:54,620
and we're friends with people.

585
00:18:55,360 --> 00:18:56,400
-It's a good thing that

586
00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,000
our friendship is clear.

587
00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:58,100
-It's a good thing.

588
00:18:59,240 --> 00:18:59,600
-You know,

589
00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:04,820
even if we're going to be in trouble, the universe

590
00:19:04,820 --> 00:19:07,300
will still be clear.

591
00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:07,340
Yes.

592
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:08,440
Or else.

593
00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:09,040
We

594
00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:10,260
were so mad when we got home.

595
00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:12,400
She felt like she's going to be a slave to the

596
00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:13,200
season in

597
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:13,900
Siargao.

598
00:19:14,220 --> 00:19:14,340
But

599
00:19:14,340 --> 00:19:15,600
it's okay, we lived.

600
00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:16,320
We

601
00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:16,480
learned.

602
00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:16,800
Or the

603
00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,880
Siargao isn't mainstream yet.

604
00:19:19,360 --> 00:19:20,840
That's why it's so hard.

605
00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:22,960
There's no ATM in Siargao.

606
00:19:22,980 --> 00:19:34,220
That's it. Then Des, with all the confidence, as a seasoned traveler, "There's an ATM there, I won't withdraw." - "When you arrive, there's nothing!" - We said, "How do you withdraw here? Palawan?" - Palawan. - Remittance.

607
00:19:34,780 --> 00:19:35,540
Who will pay for the Palawan?

608
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,820
Should I call my mom to let me borrow money?

609
00:19:39,100 --> 00:19:40,100
So that I can spend it.

610
00:19:40,310 --> 00:19:41,300
Good thing I

611
00:19:41,300 --> 00:19:41,840
have money.

612
00:19:42,380 --> 00:19:44,000
My ear is still there that I can't borrow.

613
00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:46,620
You can't borrow money.

614
00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:47,740
Rem won't be willing

615
00:19:47,740 --> 00:19:48,360
to

616
00:19:48,360 --> 00:19:49,640
lend us money.

617
00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:50,960
She's mad at us. She already has a

618
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:51,240
picture.

619
00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:53,500
But I still followed her.

620
00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:56,120
And we're still together.

621
00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:56,800
Host before

622
00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:57,360
bros.

623
00:19:58,160 --> 00:19:59,140
That's really Alvia.

624
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:01,520
If

625
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:03,140
you can't accept it, don't.

626
00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,280
You didn't accept our relationship with Des.

627
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,780
Don't be like that. - There's no hope.

628
00:20:08,940 --> 00:20:10,040
There's no choice after

629
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,660
that. - I think Lazada didn't have one because I already found a pala.

630
00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,080
I already have one. - I'll go to the other side.

631
00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:17,120
There's no Gcash.

632
00:20:17,580 --> 00:20:17,900
Is this still a

633
00:20:17,900 --> 00:20:18,340
carousel?

634
00:20:19,460 --> 00:20:19,980
Carousel.

635
00:20:20,460 --> 00:20:22,380
They told us that it's not a carousel.

636
00:20:22,540 --> 00:20:23,380
Yes, but they found a pala in the carousel.

637
00:20:24,810 --> 00:20:24,960
We

638
00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:25,500
made friends

639
00:20:25,500 --> 00:20:28,100
with Matitino. - With

640
00:20:28,100 --> 00:20:28,580
Matitino.

641
00:20:28,860 --> 00:20:32,560
We survived because they made us stay in tourist traps.

642
00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:33,160
True.

643
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:34,400
And there were a lot of people

644
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:35,120
who followed us.

645
00:20:35,420 --> 00:20:36,940
They followed us and cooked us.

646
00:20:36,940 --> 00:20:37,020
They

647
00:20:37,020 --> 00:20:38,060
cooked us.

648
00:20:39,060 --> 00:20:40,120
So we're lucky.

649
00:20:40,860 --> 00:20:41,480
We're lucky.

650
00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:44,040
We're really lucky that Des and

651
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:44,080
I are together.

652
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:45,720
So

653
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:46,400
don't make

654
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:46,880
fun of us.

655
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:49,100
Don't do that again.

656
00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:50,120
We won't do

657
00:20:50,120 --> 00:20:50,340
that again.

658
00:20:50,340 --> 00:20:51,120
We're wiser now.

659
00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,320
I'm like that too but...

660
00:20:53,860 --> 00:20:54,320
You're the only one.

661
00:20:54,740 --> 00:20:55,540
I'll go to Abra.

662
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:56,240
Abra?

663
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,940
Do you know what Abra is?

664
00:20:59,100 --> 00:21:01,520
I know that but I don't know what you did in Abra.

665
00:21:01,540 --> 00:21:02,300
Because

666
00:21:02,300 --> 00:21:07,400
apparently, I didn't know. I went there.

667
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:09,420
It was just called Turkey.

668
00:21:10,120 --> 00:21:15,340
Usually, when it's summer, we go for a vacation in Tarlac.

669
00:21:16,220 --> 00:21:18,440
I said, "I'll take the bus to Abra."

670
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:20,920
-No one knows. -So I took the

671
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:22,480
bus to Abra.

672
00:21:22,590 --> 00:21:23,040
-It's been a

673
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:23,900
while, right? -Yes.

674
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,080
-I was there for a week. -In the heart

675
00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:26,300
of the Philippines.

676
00:21:26,580 --> 00:21:26,760
-Why?

677
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,060
-Apparently, Abra is Killing Fields.

678
00:21:31,020 --> 00:21:31,840
I don't know.

679
00:21:32,180 --> 00:21:32,600
I just want to

680
00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:32,980
be alone.

681
00:21:33,410 --> 00:21:35,920
I also remember the people I know.

682
00:21:36,500 --> 00:21:36,600
Of course.

683
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:37,200
Why

684
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,620
am I there? Why are you worried? It's okay here.

685
00:21:40,100 --> 00:21:41,140
It's like you're just chilling.

686
00:21:42,580 --> 00:21:43,020
Of course.

687
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:45,360
Ignorance is bliss.

688
00:21:45,550 --> 00:21:46,560
Yes. But

689
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:47,080
it's nice, Abra.

690
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,520
Although, before the hotel I stayed in,

691
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,160
I found out that

692
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,340
the owner was the mayor.

693
00:21:54,320 --> 00:22:03,180
Then one day, I think it was the first time I came there, I went home from the hotel and I saw a guy cleaning his car.

694
00:22:04,260 --> 00:22:05,840
What was he doing? Was he drunk?

695
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:06,140
Casual.

696
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:08,040
Casual. He was cleaning his car.

697
00:22:08,780 --> 00:22:11,320
Then he asked me, I thought he was just asking me.

698
00:22:12,360 --> 00:22:13,040
The innocent.

699
00:22:13,940 --> 00:22:21,080
"Where are you from?" "Mainila." "Why are you here?" "I'm not." He called me.

700
00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,300
"You always come with me."

701
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,580
-Protection. -Yeah, like that.

702
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,680
The one who was notorious.

703
00:22:30,460 --> 00:22:31,020
The mayor.

704
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,160
-Oh! -Who

705
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:34,160
was

706
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:34,720
known as...

707
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:54,280
-Who had... -So, it was more of a threat to

708
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,880
Des was just rude because it took a weird turn.

709
00:22:57,360 --> 00:22:57,580
Yeah.

710
00:22:58,300 --> 00:22:58,780
It

711
00:22:58,780 --> 00:22:59,760
was like a killing feels.

712
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,280
It was a rundeating killing feels.

713
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:02,400
Of course,

714
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,220
the ending, we know that you already married Rem.

715
00:23:05,360 --> 00:23:05,480
Yes.

716
00:23:06,100 --> 00:23:07,040
After, it just

717
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,680
happened.

718
00:23:09,360 --> 00:23:09,960
X years.

719
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:12,800
And now, Des.

720
00:23:13,940 --> 00:23:15,760
This is the fun part.

721
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:16,340
What's up with you?

722
00:23:16,340 --> 00:23:16,940
What's up with you?

723
00:23:17,140 --> 00:23:18,400
I'm not dating anymore.

724
00:23:18,460 --> 00:23:19,520
What's up with you,

725
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:19,840
girl?

726
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:20,860
No.

727
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:21,760
No?

728
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,820
The "no" part is so long.

729
00:23:24,039 --> 00:23:24,600
No!

730
00:23:25,780 --> 00:23:25,960
It's like,

731
00:23:26,140 --> 00:23:27,680
"No!"

732
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:29,660
No, because...

733
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,700
When was the last time I dated a guy for real?

734
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:34,980
Pre-pandemic.

735
00:23:35,839 --> 00:23:36,960
Pre-pandemic.

736
00:23:38,260 --> 00:23:42,620
I'm sorry, guys, if you felt like the date was the pandemic, post-pandemic.

737
00:23:42,740 --> 00:23:43,620
But the last time I dated was pre-pandemic.

738
00:23:44,620 --> 00:23:45,740
The one who counted on him.

739
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:48,120
I think it was LV Spiderman.

740
00:23:48,820 --> 00:23:49,500
I'm sorry.

741
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,140
That's the last movie I watched was Spiderman.

742
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:53,860
Okay, so the last movie I watched was pre-pandemic.

743
00:23:56,940 --> 00:23:58,620
I guess okay, so the pandemic happened.

744
00:23:58,980 --> 00:23:59,680
A couple of

745
00:23:59,680 --> 00:23:59,880
years,

746
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,020
then after that...

747
00:24:02,310 --> 00:24:03,940
A couple of years and six dogs later.

748
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,660
Yes, I have a lot of dogs so I'm careful.

749
00:24:07,540 --> 00:24:15,840
But one of the reasons is that I'm here at the point of my life that I don't want to date around anymore.

750
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:16,840
Like if

751
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,860
I'm going to meet someone, I have a specific thing

752
00:24:21,860 --> 00:24:22,300
that

753
00:24:22,300 --> 00:24:23,060
I want to find.

754
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,280
Because unlike before, you were just very open.

755
00:24:26,580 --> 00:24:26,680
Yes.

756
00:24:26,900 --> 00:24:27,520
Okay,

757
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:28,940
date, go, go out, just like that.

758
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,440
But now, I have a specific thing that I really want to find.

759
00:24:33,060 --> 00:24:33,580
You know it already.

760
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:37,160
Yes. So for me, I'm looking for more stability.

761
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:37,920
Yeah.

762
00:24:38,660 --> 00:24:39,900
And… You're busy.

763
00:24:40,500 --> 00:24:42,040
I'm so busy. I have a lot of things to do.

764
00:24:42,750 --> 00:24:42,960
You have a

765
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:43,320
lot of children.

766
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:44,380
Yes, I have a lot of children.

767
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,400
And I work in sales.

768
00:24:48,900 --> 00:24:49,140
So

769
00:24:49,140 --> 00:24:51,660
in one day, I talked to at least 10 people, minimum.

770
00:24:52,300 --> 00:24:53,800
I was like, "Why?"

771
00:24:54,340 --> 00:24:57,260
I don't want to get to know another person.

772
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:58,860
And then, I don't have anyone to go to.

773
00:24:59,760 --> 00:24:59,920
So

774
00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:01,300
I feel like that's one of the reasons.

775
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:11,800
And at this point, though there are guys who were, or present tense, who are asking me out.

776
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:12,460
And they're very

777
00:25:12,460 --> 00:25:12,800
serious.

778
00:25:13,580 --> 00:25:13,940
They're

779
00:25:13,940 --> 00:25:14,780
clear with their intentions.

780
00:25:15,120 --> 00:25:15,700
In fairness to them.

781
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:16,880
I said, "I want to

782
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:18,180
date you. I want to get to know

783
00:25:18,180 --> 00:25:18,760
you." That's how it is.

784
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,880
And they're very straightforward.

785
00:25:22,940 --> 00:25:25,780
"I want to get to know you. If things work out, let's get married." That's how

786
00:25:25,780 --> 00:25:26,080
it is.

787
00:25:27,020 --> 00:25:29,520
They're not even afraid to drop the M

788
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:29,740
word.

789
00:25:30,110 --> 00:25:30,580
That's how it is.

790
00:25:30,580 --> 00:25:31,140
It's not that cheap.

791
00:25:32,250 --> 00:25:32,720
It's not that cheap.

792
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:33,560
But I

793
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,720
guess because they're

794
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:37,720
just a couple of years

795
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:38,640
older than me.

796
00:25:38,790 --> 00:25:38,880
Or

797
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,820
they're the same

798
00:25:40,820 --> 00:25:41,100
age.

799
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:42,600
So that's it.

800
00:25:43,090 --> 00:25:45,440
And I guess one of the reasons why I'm really not dating them.

801
00:25:45,500 --> 00:25:49,180
Like if I date, I hope, let's see, maybe the

802
00:25:49,180 --> 00:25:50,640
next guy— - We'll delete this. - Yes.

803
00:25:50,890 --> 00:25:52,620
It won't happen. - We'll delete this podcast if

804
00:25:52,620 --> 00:25:53,260
it's not true.

805
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:54,520
If

806
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:54,980
it's true.

807
00:25:55,260 --> 00:25:56,780
Yes, the next guy.

808
00:25:57,580 --> 00:25:57,820
For me,

809
00:25:57,950 --> 00:25:58,080
that's it.

810
00:25:58,830 --> 00:26:00,020
Because I don't want to. It's so

811
00:26:00,020 --> 00:26:00,520
hard.

812
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:01,800
The effort.

813
00:26:02,620 --> 00:26:07,320
And that's it, coming from a five-year relationship that's very serious.

814
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:08,740
And...

815
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,260
It's like that, the timing is not right.

816
00:26:12,140 --> 00:26:13,160
Yeah, like personality.

817
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:15,160
I'm looking for everything.

818
00:26:15,260 --> 00:26:17,140
Personality, stability, looks.

819
00:26:17,460 --> 00:26:19,160
He's cute even if he's not my type.

820
00:26:19,860 --> 00:26:20,360
Everything.

821
00:26:22,060 --> 00:26:23,320
He ticked all the boxes.

822
00:26:23,380 --> 00:26:25,220
It's just that it wasn't the perfect time.

823
00:26:25,340 --> 00:26:26,180
Especially for me.

824
00:26:26,540 --> 00:26:27,180
That time.

825
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:28,080
So...

826
00:26:29,140 --> 00:26:32,040
So whoever the next guy is...

827
00:26:32,940 --> 00:26:33,460
Call

828
00:26:33,460 --> 00:26:33,700
me.

829
00:26:34,340 --> 00:26:34,800
Call me.

830
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:35,900
You

831
00:26:35,900 --> 00:26:37,640
tick all the boxes.

832
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:38,880
I have

833
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:39,800
a lot of questions.

834
00:26:40,539 --> 00:26:41,100
You

835
00:26:41,100 --> 00:26:42,680
seem to have a pre-assessment.

836
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:44,400
Why are you answering like this?

837
00:26:45,580 --> 00:26:47,720
You know how it is when you go to a Chinese restaurant.

838
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,440
Guys, you know what?

839
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,320
I can make a questionnaire.

840
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,520
Because I have one in my friends.

841
00:26:54,620 --> 00:26:54,880
I

842
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,720
have a notebook.

843
00:26:56,460 --> 00:26:58,100
Four pages, back to back.

844
00:26:58,899 --> 00:26:59,660
That many?

845
00:27:00,260 --> 00:27:01,720
Specific. Very specific.

846
00:27:02,700 --> 00:27:03,840
But of course, it's like...

847
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:04,940
Do

848
00:27:04,940 --> 00:27:05,900
you want me to show you?

849
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,940
It's like, "For P1,000, I'll show you everything." As

850
00:27:07,940 --> 00:27:08,460
in...

851
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:08,980
And

852
00:27:08,980 --> 00:27:13,380
I guess one of the major differences

853
00:27:13,380 --> 00:27:13,960
is...

854
00:27:14,580 --> 00:27:16,540
Because before, we

855
00:27:16,540 --> 00:27:17,960
were always...

856
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:23,000
Earlier, I guess, in all the things we talked about, we were always looking for the sparks.

857
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:23,720
Yeah.

858
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:24,360
We were

859
00:27:24,360 --> 00:27:25,920
always looking for the butterflies in our

860
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:26,200
stomach.

861
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:27,400
Exciting.

862
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:28,840
But for me, I'm looking

863
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:29,620
for the peace.

864
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:30,160
Yeah!

865
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:31,240
The calm.

866
00:27:31,380 --> 00:27:33,480
I don't want that chaotic anymore.

867
00:27:34,180 --> 00:27:34,300
That's true.

868
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,600
True. - That's the calm.

869
00:27:37,260 --> 00:27:38,380
I guess that's the difference.

870
00:27:38,820 --> 00:27:41,020
When you were in your early 20s,

871
00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:42,040
late 20s,

872
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:43,260
early 30s, "I

873
00:27:43,260 --> 00:27:46,020
don't want a rollercoaster relationship

874
00:27:46,020 --> 00:27:46,640
anymore."

875
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,020
That's wrong. - It's not.

876
00:27:49,540 --> 00:27:52,900
I mean, okay, fine. If other people, it works for them, it works for

877
00:27:52,900 --> 00:27:53,100
you.

878
00:27:53,940 --> 00:27:54,480
But for us,

879
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,120
especially me, the

880
00:27:56,120 --> 00:27:59,180
reason why I'm not dating anymore, I don't want the rollercoaster,

881
00:27:59,380 --> 00:28:00,480
I don't want the butterfly.

882
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:01,020
It's cute.

883
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:02,560
It's cute that

884
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:03,120
there's a smile.

885
00:28:03,980 --> 00:28:06,020
But the main thing that

886
00:28:06,020 --> 00:28:07,120
I'm looking for is

887
00:28:07,120 --> 00:28:07,940
not that.

888
00:28:08,220 --> 00:28:10,000
I'm looking for the calmness, maturity.

889
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:11,300
I think that's it.

890
00:28:11,580 --> 00:28:12,200
Hashtag maturity.

891
00:28:12,580 --> 00:28:12,720
Yes.

892
00:28:13,180 --> 00:28:14,000
The calmness.

893
00:28:14,060 --> 00:28:15,260
We're able to redeem ourselves.

894
00:28:15,740 --> 00:28:15,960
Right?

895
00:28:16,220 --> 00:28:17,400
It's like you're being nice to your

896
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,900
partner but there's peace.

897
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:19,760
Exactly.

898
00:28:20,300 --> 00:28:21,420
And that's what we want.

899
00:28:21,740 --> 00:28:23,160
Yes. That's why I'm single.

900
00:28:24,020 --> 00:28:28,400
And also, in relationship, for me, real happiness is boredom.

901
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:29,200
That's true.

902
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,700
If you get bored with each other, it's okay.

903
00:28:31,940 --> 00:28:32,380
You're happy.

904
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:33,860
You're happy. - Yeah.

905
00:28:34,140 --> 00:28:34,600
In my

906
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:35,200
notebook,

907
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,840
I have

908
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:42,200
a line that says, "I'm looking for someone I can get bored

909
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,260
with." - Yeah, that's true.

910
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:50,700
Because it's one of the reasons I also said to Rhym, that we're just studying in a coffee shop, but it's okay.

911
00:28:51,940 --> 00:28:53,940
And it's easy

912
00:28:53,940 --> 00:28:55,180
to meet people

913
00:28:55,180 --> 00:28:56,400
to have fun with.

914
00:28:56,510 --> 00:28:56,660
Yeah.

915
00:28:57,420 --> 00:28:59,040
But, for example, us.

916
00:28:59,490 --> 00:28:59,940
Especially us.

917
00:29:00,380 --> 00:29:00,520
Yes.

918
00:29:01,300 --> 00:29:01,880
It's so easy.

919
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:02,540
It's so easy!

920
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:07,120
But I guess also why you're my only friends.

921
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:13,320
For example, tonight, we were just here but we're happy now.

922
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:14,000
We're

923
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:14,200
happy.

924
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,920
We didn't buy food.

925
00:29:17,860 --> 00:29:18,500
We're just here.

926
00:29:18,900 --> 00:29:19,400
We're just here.

927
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:20,280
We're just here.

928
00:29:21,020 --> 00:29:21,300
Yes.

929
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,300
But that's how you're looking for it.

930
00:29:24,300 --> 00:29:26,760
You're not looking for who's party, who's

931
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:27,380
the highest.

932
00:29:28,159 --> 00:29:28,720
You're

933
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,080
just here for calm and steady.

934
00:29:30,740 --> 00:29:31,220
We're just relaxed.

935
00:29:32,790 --> 00:29:37,540
I was like that when I was in my twenties. I was really a mess until I got tired of it.

936
00:29:38,660 --> 00:29:38,880
It's okay.

937
00:29:39,020 --> 00:29:39,520
You got

938
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:40,380
tired of it.

939
00:29:40,660 --> 00:29:41,880
It's okay. You

940
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:41,880
got tired of it.

941
00:29:42,260 --> 00:29:42,960
I

942
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:43,620
experienced it.

943
00:29:45,540 --> 00:29:46,160
Let's just be shy.

944
00:29:46,780 --> 00:29:47,300
In

945
00:29:47,300 --> 00:29:49,980
fairness, even if we're a bit messy,

946
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,060
we have a messy stage.

947
00:29:52,780 --> 00:29:53,120
We have

948
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:53,420
a good life.

949
00:29:54,110 --> 00:29:54,800
We have good careers.

950
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:56,140
What's

951
00:29:56,140 --> 00:29:56,140
the response?

952
00:29:58,720 --> 00:29:59,960
Well responsibly.

953
00:30:00,180 --> 00:30:01,120
You know, Alvia is like that.

954
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaking of that, I'm the perfect attendance for the whole college.

955
00:30:05,820 --> 00:30:06,080
I'm

956
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:06,880
a party

957
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:08,940
girl, I'm the perfect attendance for UP.

958
00:30:09,580 --> 00:30:10,660
I'm the one who gets the most.

959
00:30:10,940 --> 00:30:12,660
Just a little bit, you'll get a lot.

960
00:30:13,540 --> 00:30:14,040
I'll get a lot.

961
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:15,040
I'll get a

962
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:15,580
lot if

963
00:30:15,580 --> 00:30:16,700
I don;t fall down in my calculus.

964
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:19,300
Yuppie, why is it like that?

965
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,080
Why do I have a calculus?

966
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:20,360
You

967
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,160
just need to fill the units.

968
00:30:22,820 --> 00:30:22,980
I

969
00:30:22,980 --> 00:30:24,560
wish it was

970
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:25,000
easier.

971
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:25,600
It's

972
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:25,840
true.

973
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,540
Why did you have a calculus when there's no calculus?

974
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,880
I removed my calculus and I'm a magnet.

975
00:30:31,700 --> 00:30:32,840
But here's the question.

976
00:30:33,460 --> 00:30:33,940
If

977
00:30:33,940 --> 00:30:36,540
ever it doesn't really happen for you, will you be okay?

978
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:36,940
Yes.

979
00:30:37,380 --> 00:30:37,500
I

980
00:30:37,500 --> 00:30:40,540
feel like that's why I'm not

981
00:30:40,540 --> 00:30:41,760
searching.

982
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,920
And pressured. I'm not pressured.

983
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:45,580
Yeah.

984
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:47,720
Good for you.

985
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:47,980
I'm

986
00:30:47,980 --> 00:30:49,080
not saying that...

987
00:30:50,740 --> 00:30:51,680
You're closing the door.

988
00:30:51,700 --> 00:30:52,500
I'm not closing the

989
00:30:52,500 --> 00:30:52,680
doors.

990
00:30:53,060 --> 00:30:53,540
I'm open.

991
00:30:53,940 --> 00:30:55,480
I'm open if I meet someone.

992
00:30:56,140 --> 00:30:56,860
Call me.

993
00:30:56,980 --> 00:30:57,460
Just kidding.

994
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,300
No,

995
00:30:58,440 --> 00:30:58,940
but yeah.

996
00:30:58,940 --> 00:30:59,060
Four pages.

997
00:30:59,700 --> 00:30:59,820
It

998
00:30:59,820 --> 00:31:00,720
should be

999
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:30,320
Okay.

1000
00:31:30,860 --> 00:31:31,340
Show it to us

1001
00:31:31,340 --> 00:31:31,880
next time.

1002
00:31:32,130 --> 00:31:33,700
Is that a band paper? - Notebook.

1003
00:31:34,340 --> 00:31:34,820
Not a

1004
00:31:34,820 --> 00:31:34,940
band

1005
00:31:34,940 --> 00:31:35,220
paper.

1006
00:31:35,370 --> 00:31:36,720
Just a regular notebook. - Just a regular one.

1007
00:31:38,810 --> 00:31:38,940
I'll

1008
00:31:38,940 --> 00:31:40,820
show it to you. I'll bring it one time. - Okay.

1009
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:42,320
I'm

1010
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:42,760
curious.

1011
00:31:43,220 --> 00:31:43,440
So guys,

1012
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:44,480
she's open

1013
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:45,100
but...

1014
00:31:45,770 --> 00:31:47,940
But if she's not? - But I feel like...

1015
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:49,920
Rem and

1016
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:50,780
LB are

1017
00:31:50,780 --> 00:31:50,940
here. - We're here.

1018
00:31:52,580 --> 00:31:52,860
We're here.

1019
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,000
Our friendship will level up.

1020
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:03,960
Let's go. - No, I think the best relationship are when two people are complete on their own.

1021
00:32:03,990 --> 00:32:05,060
That's it. - Yes.

1022
00:32:06,140 --> 00:32:08,300
Some people are like, "You complete me."

1023
00:32:08,660 --> 00:32:10,120
Yeah, like, "I'm okay." - How can he not be?

1024
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:11,380
It hurts.

1025
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:13,280
True. - It hurts.

1026
00:32:14,740 --> 00:32:15,760
It's like, that's it.

1027
00:32:16,740 --> 00:32:17,760
Me too, to

1028
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:18,500
be honest,

1029
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,460
I'm okay even if it's just me.

1030
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:21,380
I'm happy.

1031
00:32:22,230 --> 00:32:22,440
But it's not.

1032
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:24,120
It's hard.

1033
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:26,140
I saw how

1034
00:32:26,140 --> 00:32:28,080
she forced herself to Alvia.

1035
00:32:28,540 --> 00:32:30,220
How? - He really

1036
00:32:30,220 --> 00:32:30,660
forced you.

1037
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:33,520
Then he bought our friendship.

1038
00:32:34,460 --> 00:32:35,560
He gave it to me.

1039
00:32:36,060 --> 00:32:36,500
I was surprised.

1040
00:32:37,070 --> 00:32:37,880
Rem is so free.

1041
00:32:38,780 --> 00:32:39,060
Right?

1042
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:40,720
It didn't happen again.

1043
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:40,980
He's just

1044
00:32:40,980 --> 00:32:41,320
borrowing money.

1045
00:32:42,330 --> 00:32:42,480
Just

1046
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:42,600
once.

1047
00:32:43,620 --> 00:32:44,600
He's borrowing money.

1048
00:32:44,910 --> 00:32:45,460
He's borrowing

1049
00:32:45,460 --> 00:32:45,960
15

1050
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:46,660
,000.

1051
00:32:46,660 --> 00:32:47,440
I know this.

1052
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:48,600
Maybe he has an ROI.

1053
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:50,680
I didn't have

1054
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:51,140
an ROI.

1055
00:32:51,290 --> 00:32:51,720
You have an ROI.

1056
00:32:52,430 --> 00:32:53,140
We're still

1057
00:32:53,140 --> 00:32:53,140
friends.

1058
00:32:54,180 --> 00:32:56,660
The one dinner you gave me was an ROI.

1059
00:32:57,500 --> 00:32:58,320
It was a simple

1060
00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,020
dinner.

1061
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,320
J-Reese or something.

1062
00:33:00,540 --> 00:33:00,540
We're

1063
00:33:00,540 --> 00:33:00,740
just excited

1064
00:33:00,740 --> 00:33:02,260
because

1065
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,360
It comes with knowing yourself and what you want.

1066
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,560
It's okay to date around, guys. Just be safe.

1067
00:33:36,260 --> 00:33:36,860
Just don't...

1068
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:38,500
Walwal response.

1069
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:39,460
Don't be shy.

1070
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:40,820
Don't be like Abra.

1071
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:42,520
Don't be like Abra.

1072
00:33:42,740 --> 00:33:43,680
Don't be like Abra.

1073
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:45,020
You can go back

1074
00:33:45,020 --> 00:33:45,280
to Siargao, guys.

1075
00:33:45,940 --> 00:33:46,700
Don't be like

1076
00:33:46,700 --> 00:33:46,700
that.

1077
00:33:46,740 --> 00:33:47,620
There's an

1078
00:33:47,620 --> 00:33:47,860
ATM.

1079
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,580
Anyway, thank you to our guest.

1080
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,460
And hopefully, you'll come back here many times.

1081
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:54,160
Yes!

1082
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:55,340
Because...

1083
00:33:55,340 --> 00:33:55,840
We'll have you again.

1084
00:33:56,420 --> 00:33:57,460
Please have me again.

1085
00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:58,740
Of course.

1086
00:33:59,520 --> 00:33:59,740
Of course.

1087
00:34:00,300 --> 00:34:02,200
As part of our token of appreciation,

1088
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,080
we have free

1089
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,740
rice from the

1090
00:34:07,740 --> 00:34:08,320
barangay.

1091
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,399
Thank you to the barangay, Captain.

1092
00:34:09,919 --> 00:34:10,240
From

1093
00:34:10,240 --> 00:34:11,000
the barangay of San Antonio.

1094
00:34:11,740 --> 00:34:11,860
So,

1095
00:34:11,919 --> 00:34:16,940
because you're our only friend, we have 10 kilos of rice.

1096
00:34:17,340 --> 00:34:17,960
Thank you!

1097
00:34:18,340 --> 00:34:18,840
Oh my God.

1098
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:19,480
That's true.

1099
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:20,960
We have 10

1100
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:21,940
kilos of rice.

1101
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:22,580
Also,

1102
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,480
I forgot to tell you that I already told you that she has a lot of children.

1103
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:26,240
You might think

1104
00:34:26,240 --> 00:34:26,560
that.

1105
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:26,879
Oh, so that's it.

1106
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,600
I have 6 dogs.

1107
00:34:30,330 --> 00:34:32,020
You know that in Dinkwap,

1108
00:34:32,240 --> 00:34:32,780
no

1109
00:34:32,780 --> 00:34:33,320
kids.

1110
00:34:34,079 --> 00:34:34,919
But dogs.

1111
00:34:35,419 --> 00:34:35,800
With pets.

1112
00:34:37,720 --> 00:34:40,280
Des with a pets.

1113
00:34:40,720 --> 00:34:44,040
With a lot of

1114
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:44,800
pets.

1115
00:34:46,819 --> 00:34:47,800
We'll force it.

1116
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:48,980
We'll just have small cups.

1117
00:34:50,940 --> 00:34:52,520
Anyway, that's it.

1118
00:34:53,300 --> 00:34:53,879
Thank you.

1119
00:34:54,859 --> 00:34:56,060
Again, thank you to Des.

1120
00:34:56,540 --> 00:34:59,100
Thank you, Remnant Villas.

1121
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:00,320
See

1122
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:00,620
you

1123
00:35:00,620 --> 00:35:01,680
on the next one.

1124
00:35:02,720 --> 00:35:03,440
Annyeong!

1125
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:04,900
Annyeonghaseyo!

1126
00:35:06,540 --> 00:35:09,640
You were listening to The Dinkwap Show.

1127
00:36:06,140 --> 00:36:06,360
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