An FAQ around parenting anxious kids is "I feel like I'm constantly having to make things easier for my child so they can cope, but how do I know if that's helpful or just keeping them anxious?" Fair question. Today we're going to take a close look at the difference between accommodating and enabling. We're also going to hear from our guest, Cindy Thompson, a mom and therapist who has lived through parenting an anxious child and can offer hope for the rest of us now that she's seen what magic coping skills can work in your kid's like as they grow into adulthood.
Skill-building is key. When you have the tools and you have opportunities to try them out, you start believing in yourself and your ability to face and manage hard situations. As parents you are in a prime position to teach your kids these skills for life. I've built a family-based course with this in mind, so if it's helpful to have someone guide you through the skill-building process and see results for your whole family, give this a try. I want you to walk away with hope that this can and will get better if you dedicate the time and energy into skill building, so I've invited a fellow mom to the conversation who has walked the walk, and has seen amazing outcomes for her now grown kids. Cindy Thompson is holding a light at the end of our tunnels, so don't stop the journey. It can get much better, we promise.
Here's a link to my online course for families called "CBT for the Family: Tools for life". It's a 9 week course designed to build your anxiety-reduction tool kit and you can do it at your own pace from the comfort of your own home. https://www.my.thrive-life.ca/cbtforthefamily-course
If you'd like access to the free worksheet that helps you break down anxiety-provoking problems into manageable steps, sign up here and we'll email it to you: https://www.my.thrive-life.ca/parenting-in-the-trenches
If your child's anxiety presents in the form of anger, check out this talk I did with FamilySmart - you may find this conversation helpful for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sk7b45uMxn0
If you'd like to hear more from our guest, Cindy Thompson, she has her own podcast on resilience that I'd highly recommend checking out: https://www.aresilienceproject.com/
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