read this only if you’re a parent
there’s a way you can virtually GUARANTEE you’ll end up being a sh*tty parent.
And it won’t even be intentional.
You’ll have all the right intentions for your parenting game.
You’ll read the books and articles and watch the youtube videos
about making sure you’re an amazing parent,
and that you WON’T make the same mistakes your mother/father did…
but if you don’t do this ONE thing….
You’ll end up repeating behavioral patterns
that you PROMISED yourself you wouldn’t do.
What is "That thing?"
It’s to heal your attachment traumas at a Somatic level and become Trigger-Proof.
Why?
Because BY DESIGN the things that you haven’t completed from your past
the resentments and regrets you’re holding onto
are still in your body...
will show up again and again because they live INSIDE YOU.
Without a process and path to meet with,
to release and metabolize
all the triggers that your family can and WILL bring up within you,
without you even knowing it,
you’ll react from a regressed state,
instead of showing up like the person you promised to be.
And none of it will be your fault,
just like it wasn’t your parent’s fault either.
They didn’t take the time to learn
-how to become Trigger-Proof,
-how to create polarity in their relationship
-how to master the art of conflict and repair
and because they didn’t learn it,
you ended up having the experience you had,
and without even being aware of it,
this is what we pass along to the next generation.
As a result, kids end up growing anxious,
depressed,
reactive,
numb and dissociated,
hiding from the world.
They don’t know what to do with their emotions,
just like us…
so then it’s no surprise that they will want to isolate,
they don’t feel seen and understood,
and become reactive and “act out”,
which brings up all sorts of feelings of failure as a parent,
underneath all the anger most parents are feeling these days.
If you can relate to this,
just know that you’re not alone and it’s not your fault.
You CAN create a different scenario.
An outcome where the home feels like a sanctuary
instead of a battlefield.
Where your children want to engage and connect
because of the loving magnetism you bring.
As a parent,
this is what we all want.
That’s why I stand for breaking the cycle of sh*tty parenting.
That’s why I stand for healed families.
It didn’t start with you,
but it can end with you.
Your wingman on the adventure,
Dr. Nima.
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Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast
Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast
Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof
Are you on Telegram? Click link below to join my channel for some TriggerProof wisdom to keep your nervous system regulated, your soul in your body, and your heart aligned with your purpose.
https://t.me/joinchat/TPQjyH2MCBKHonIR
What is Trigger Proof Transmissions (Cyclebreaker Collective)?
Welcome to the TriggerProof podcast.
This is the first season of the Podcast which are audio renditions of
Facebook Live Video Transmissions done for the “TriggerProof” Facebook Community.
These were set up by request of our community members who wanted an opportunity to listen
to insights, tools, and strategies to help heal relationship dynamics, deepen intimacy,
and master the fine art of Autonomic Nervous System Regulation so that we can build resilience,
heal from the past, and become active operators of our mind, body, and life.
This first season wasn’t designed to be a podcast, so you’ll notice the audio isn’t
Professional Studio Quality (like it is on season 2 as we’ve upgraded incrementally).
These trainings are designed to introduce and deepen you to the most critical 2 skills we’ve never been taught:
1) The skill and practice of taking our triggers (Nervous System Activations) and turning them into deeper safety and self-love,
2) The skill and practice of taking conflict (that happens in any relationship) and turning them into deeper intimacy between the parties involved.
Not learning these two critical skills at this time in history costs us dearly: Physical and Mental health is on the DECLINE.
Doing this deep level of healing work can break the cycle of Intergenerational Trauma that didn’t start with you.
It didn’t start with you, but it can end with you,
#Cyclebreaker.
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When you're ready, here's what we got:
Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
https://drnima.com/lp/should-i-stay-or-go/?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming "Breathwork and Badassery" Live Event (Every month)
Regulate Your stress, deepen your connection to your inner child, process your stuck emotions and improve your capacity
https://go.drnima.com/bbvw?sl=transistor-podcast
Upcoming Overview Experience Virtual Event (Every month)
Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
https://go.drnima.com/oevw?sl=transistor-podcast
Or if you are wanting to hop on a call and discuss how we can support you through your transition and you're wanting deeper guidance on your healing journey and you're ready to break the cycle of inter-generational trauma (divorce, separation, relationship limbo, past trauma spilling into present)
https://drnima.com/discovery/application/?sl=transistor-podcast
Join my Facebook Group to help you understand yourself, control your triggers, regulate your nervous system and know what's keeping you stuck in these times of crisis:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/triggerproof