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As October 31st approaches, many Christians face the same question.

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Hallows, harvest, or horror? It's the season of costumes and community,

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but also genuine confusion about a holiday steeped in darkness.

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Today we are not asking, should we celebrate? But we are asking,

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how should we, as people committed to kingdom living, approach this night with

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intentionality and light?

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Today, the guys cut through the confusion. We will hear the facts on the holiday's

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surprisingly Christian roots, break down the statistics on how believers are

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responding, and find scriptural principles needed to move past fear and toward discernment.

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Get ready to equip your family and your church to be a bright,

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unshakable light in the neighborhood. Let's turn up the volume.

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What's happening, dog? What's up, brother? Nothing.

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How you doing? I'm doing good. Doing good. Yeah, did you have a good day?

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I did have a good day. Yeah, it was relatively quiet today at work, which was good.

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I did go and have me a Cousins Maine lobster roll at lunchtime.

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Yeah, I've been waiting. We watched football last night. I watched the commanders

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get their butts kicked. Yeah, they definitely did that.

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And during the game, you mentioned you were going. So give us the review. Tell us about it.

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I mean, it was lobster.

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Like, they don't skimp on how much lobster they give you. Like I'll give them credit for that.

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But I mean, I was expecting like some kind of like added seasoning or flavor.

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I mean, it was lobster and it was good lobster. Don't get me wrong.

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But for just like lobster on a roll for $28, I was just kind of like,

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eh, probably won't do that again. No.

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Yeah. You know what I had? What did you have? For lunch? For lunch?

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Jambalaya. Oh, that Jambalaya was good. Yeah.

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Yeah. Oh, and then tonight for dinner, Tara messaged me like before I left work

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and she was like, I really don't know what to make for dinner.

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I said, well, I'll make something when I get home. What are you craving?

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And I listed off a couple of things and she picked hot dogs. Okay.

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I said, well, I'm going to make me some gourmet hot dogs. Tell me about them.

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What'd you have on them? So I got some Hebrew nationals.

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Did them on the grill, brought them in, and she had these mini tater tots that she had gotten.

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Okay. So, I put some mini tater tots on top of my hot dog.

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Oh, oh, on a split top Hawaiian roll. Oh, baby.

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And then mac and cheese. Nice.

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And some Cajun seasoning on that. That sounds delicious. It was amazing.

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Delicious. And then I went and cut some trees. Nice. Yeah. So, it was good.

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What about you? What did you get into today? I did lots of church admin stuff.

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We're going to do baptism in December. So I was getting that together and we

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have just some, you know, holiday season, like working through,

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thinking through some of that stuff, did some phone calls.

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For the most part, it was a pretty quiet day. I felt really,

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really productive, which is, which is fantastic.

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Good. And I stopped and had leftover jambalaya. Oh man, that was some good jambalaya though.

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You can make that for me anytime. Yeah, it was good. It was good.

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I hadn't made jambalaya in a couple of years, actually.

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Oh, really? And so last night, it was definitely a lot better than the football game.

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It wouldn't have been hard to be better than that football game.

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You could lick the bottom of

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your shoe and have been better than that football game. Oh, my goodness.

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Yeah. So tonight, we're talking about Halloween. Yes, we are. Friday is Halloween.

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Yep. And before we dive into the content, we took to Facebook.

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Oh. And we wanted to know what people's favorite Halloween candy is.

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Now, I asked the twins, and they wanted to know, is there a difference between

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Halloween candy and regular candy?

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Not really. Not really. Not really.

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I mean, do you think there is? I don't think so, but, like, they were talking

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about, like, some of the candy that, like, only comes out around Halloween,

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like, you know, Reese's pumpkins or. But, I mean, it's still the same as a Reese's

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cup. Yeah. Like, it's not any different. Yeah.

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And, you know, just some, you know, candy corn, like the pumpkins.

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Like, you can really only get those around.

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Unless you go to Sharp Shopper. Unless you go to Sharp Shopper.

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Then you can get them year-round. Yeah.

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We had some good ones on the old Facebook page. Yeah, what we got? Let's see. Oh, Hannah.

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Hannah Horse. Did she like Kit Kats? That would be Riley's pick.

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Riley loves some Kit Kat. That's a dark horse.

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Another one, Dixie Miller's is Paydays.

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Okay. Okay. I'm not a huge fan of Payday, but we have a couple.

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So we have Reese's Pumpkins and Reese's Cups. I'm going to put those together.

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I'm going to put those together. Yeah. Reese's Cups or any other Reese's Shapes.

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Yeah. Although if I'm given either a cup or a shape, I'm going to take the shape.

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Well, because you get more peanut butter. Exactly.

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Yeah. Let's see. Old RB talks about, oh, he brought up when he was little,

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he liked the flavored Tootsie Rolls. Oh, yeah. The Fruities.

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Yeah, he has vanilla and fruit flavors. Yep, yep, yep. Yep.

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And again, he talked about how Halloween was the only time when he was little that you could either.

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Now he says it's Nerds or Nestle Crunch. I do love me some Nerds. I like some Nerds too.

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Probably, probably my favorite answer here is from Trudy Burgess.

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She talks about how they had a neighbor who would make homemade caramel popcorn balls.

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That's yeah. I could eat. I could eat a caramel popcorn ball. Yeah.

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How much he was your favorite of the of the Halloween candy.

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All right. So I separate you're going to I know we've talked about this before

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and you and the boys both made fun of me because I separate my candy into you

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have like the chocolate candy.

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Types of candy or you have like the, the more like sugary gelatin based types of candy. Okay.

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So if I'm picking a chocolate candy, I'm going to go with one that a lot of

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people probably are not super duper keen on. Okay.

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Fifth Avenue. Okay. I love a Fifth Avenue bar. Love it. Yeah. Okay.

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Yeah. I mean, just cause you're not cool as me, it doesn't, you know,

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that, that, yeah, that's why. Yep. Okay.

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Okay, so the other Chewy Spree. Dude, Chewy Spree. That's a dark horse pick. Oh, my goodness.

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That's a dark horse pick. I've loved Chewy Spree ever since I was a kid. Yeah, Chewy.

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The boys got â have you seen the freeze-dried Spree?

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Oh, yeah. Don't do it. All the freeze-dried can. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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They got them the other day, and I grabbed one. I felt like I was biting a green piece of Styrofoam.

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Well, I mean, people freeze-dry this can, and they sell it for like five times

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the price, and you're like, wait a minute, dude. Hang on. Yeah.

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It's not even as good. Yeah. But anyway. Yeah. Yeah.

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Or Snickers. I love a Snickers. Oh, yes. That's classic. Yeah.

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All right. So I'll follow you. If we're going chocolate candy,

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probably going to go to the Whatchamacallit.

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Okay. I like a Whatchamacallit. Yeah. They're not as readily available as other ones.

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Well, they can be if you know somebody who works in Stewart's Drafton. Yeah.

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Yeah. Okay. And the gelatin candy, gelatinous form.

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Just give me give me Sour Patch Kids ooooh I do like some Sour Patch Kids yeah

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we're not sweet as fish I'm I feel like we've talked about this before I'm not

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a huge Swedish fish guy nah you're a hater okay are you so do you do you employ the dad techs,

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Halloween candy? I don't call it the dad tax. I just take whatever I want.

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Okay. That's cool. I mean.

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That's cool. That's more like a dad tariff than tax. Pretty much.

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Pretty much. Okay. The tariff changes depending on what kind of candy it is.

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Now, here's the big question. Okay.

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Candy corn. In or out?

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I'm not going to seek out candy corn. I'm not going to throw it in the trash,

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but like if there's candy corn sitting next to like M&M's, I'm not touching

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the candy corn. I mean M&M's. Okay.

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I'm a candy corn lover. Really? I love candy corn. I love it.

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Not a lover. My candy corn lover. Bro, what about black licorice?

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How about I lick the bottom of my shoe? Exactly. That's what I'm saying.

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That stuff is disgusting.

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That's disgusting. That's disgusting. Nasty. So let's talk about black licorice real quick.

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Funny black licorice story. A few years ago, we did the Bean Boozled game with the jelly beans.

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And black is either black licorice or skunk spray.

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And I forget which one of the kids it was, but they popped one of those black

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jelly beans in their mouth.

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And I mean, started gagging like, and like, I looked over and I was like,

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oh, is it skunk spray? They're like, no, it's black licorice.

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Yeah, black licorice is nasty.

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All right, that's a lose-lose. Nothing good about that. If you're thinking between

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black licorice and skunk spray, I'm out.

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So we're talking about Halloween. Halloween. You know, for a lot of Christians,

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Halloween can be a bit of a tricky wicket. Yep. Oh, tricky, wicked.

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Yeah, depending on, I know some Christians who don't celebrate Halloween and

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are happy to tell you about it.

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I know some Christians who do celebrate Halloween.

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Did you celebrate Halloween growing up, Jeremy?

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Funny story about that.

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I told my mom that we were going to be talking about Halloween on the podcast.

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And she was like, oh, yeah, I know there are some people who,

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you know, are not, you know, don't let their kids do Halloween or they don't

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do Halloween, whatever.

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I know, you know, when you all were kids, we took, I'm like, what?

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She was like, yeah, didn't we? And I'm like, no, no, no.

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Like we played, you made us play games in the living room. Like we couldn't

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go trick or treating. And she was like, really?

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I know we took you to some people's houses. She suppressed the.

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And I'm like, I'm like, okay.

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All right. Well, maybe you did take us to some people's houses,

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but like we didn't get dressed up and go trick or treating. Like that's hilarious. You know what I mean?

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And she was like, oh, well, I just thought blah, blah, blah.

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But yeah, I just thought it was funny because like in my mind,

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like my memory is not Halloween's bad. We don't do Halloween. Okay.

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Right. So that was my memory as a kid. Okay.

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What about you? We didn't like trick or treat because we didn't really have

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an area that trick or treated.

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We dressed up and mom and dad would just like take us in the car and we would

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go to relatives and close friends houses.

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And I think maybe that's what my mom was remembering. Like, but I don't really

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remember getting dressed up ever.

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I found some statistics. Ooh, I like statistics. Yeah.

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It talks about that nearly 45% of evangelicals see the fun aspects of Halloween,

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but a sizable percentage, 28% of those surveys, choose to avoid the holiday completely.

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Huh. Compared to Catholics.

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71% of Catholics see no harm in it. Hmm.

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So I actually would have pulled that the other way around. So now pair that

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with that only 19% of pastors who they surveyed see Halloween as problematic.

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Okay. So the number of Christians is much higher, significantly higher than the amount of pastors.

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And in fact, many churches have kind of embraced like, you know,

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the fall festival or the trunk retreat or. Sure.

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Which we've done at our place, I guess, as an alternative.

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So, you know, there's kind of a mixed bag. Like, you know, you got,

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you got what, basically 49% of Protestants saying, saying it's okay.

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And then 28% saying avoid it completely. I guess the other is kind of line between.

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The tricky thing about Halloween is like, what are you actually celebrating? You know what I mean?

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Right. There's not like a, like Thanksgiving, you know, we're celebrating the

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death of a turkey. Right.

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We're going back to like the pilgrims being thankful and celebrating the death

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of a turkey. The death of a turkey.

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Okay, fine. I'm celebrating the death of a turkey because turkey tastes delicious.

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But anyway, you know what I mean?

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And like most other holidays, you're celebrating something specific.

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Right. Even if they're not a Christian holiday. Right.

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So to be fair, we trace the roots of Halloween. Oh, yes. Okay.

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And so I know the, so the original, like the original idea of Halloween is actually

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a Celtic idea. It comes from a festival of Samhain and it's spelled S-A-M-H-A-I-N.

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So it's pronounced differently than it's spelled. Yeah, it definitely does not.

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Yeah, it doesn't look like that. But it marked the end of the harvest.

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And the Celtic mysticism is pretty different than what we would go with.

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But so Celtic mystics believe that the veil between the living and the dead was thinnest.

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So that's what established themes of death and spirits and things like that,

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that the veil between the spirit world and the... Became blurred. Yeah.

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Interesting. That's an interesting thought, actually. Yeah. Weird.

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Celtic spirituality. I know you kind of looked up some of the Christian roots. What did you find?

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So, like, the first thing I said when we got here was All Hallows' Eve.

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Yeah. Which I don't remember the details of when or how that started.

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Do you have that there? Well, yeah.

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So, you know, then morphed into All Saints' Day. Yes, that's right. Okay.

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Right. So, which was actually, it was November 1st, and then November 2nd would

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be the All Souls' Day. It was established by Pope Gregory IV on November 1st in 835 A.D.

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To honor all the saints and martyrs. And then October 31st then became a holy

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vigil of preparation to celebrate.

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So, I mean, there are some Christian roots in this holiday, right?

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And really, I mean, like most holidays, it's been, what do you,

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what's the, what's the word I'm thinking of? Monetized or whatever. Oh, absolutely.

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So like that, like trying to make money off horror films and all of the things scary, right?

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Like that was, that was really brought, brought about more and more to make money.

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Yeah. Well, and even the idea of candy actually finds its roots back to a Christian

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practice for All Hallows' Eve. It was called souling.

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Souling. Souling. So basically, it was a medieval Christian practice,

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primarily in Britain and Ireland, when the poor often children would go door

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to door on All Hallows' Eve or All Saints' Day and offer prayers for the dead

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in exchange for a sweet little treat.

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So they were known as soulers or soul cakers.

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They would recite prayers, sing hymns, or give a blessing for the deceased family member.

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In exchange, the homeowner would give them soul cakes, small round cakes,

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often marked with a cross, specifically for this occasion.

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It was a payment or a charitable donation for offered prayers.

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That's very interesting. Yeah. I can't say I knew that. Yeah. It's, uh, yeah.

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Souling. So, all right. So who's going souling on Friday night?

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I don't know if I'm going to soul in, but I mean, I'll eat cake.

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I'll eat cake. I'll eat candy.

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I'll eat all of it. So what do you, what do you think is, what do you think?

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How is we, how can we as Christians? I mean, most, most of Christians I know

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do celebrate Halloween.

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Same. How do we, how do we talk about that together?

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I mean, I mean, obviously not embracing any of the darkness of Halloween is a good place to start.

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You know, if as a Christian you're embracing like the evil and scary things, I mean,

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that doesn't really fit in us sharing the light of Jesus with others, in my opinion.

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So obviously kind of rejecting the darkness side of it is probably the first step.

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But then, I mean, you can be the light. I mean, just like on Sunday morning,

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we have those cards that we can give out for trick-or-treaters coming to our

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house to invite them to church.

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So, I mean, that's a great opportunity for outreach.

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Absolutely. So as Christians, like, use it as an opportunity to share about

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Jesus and, you know, hand out invitations to church along with the candy and just talk to people.

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I mean, kids, a lot of times it might be the only chance these kids get to hear about Jesus.

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Yeah. So. It made me think about 1 Corinthians chapter 10.

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Okay. Verse 31. So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do,

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do it all for the glory of God.

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Yes. You know, so Paul kind of enters this thing about, oh, should we eat food

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sacrificed to idols? He's like, you're kind of missing the point.

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You're putting a lot of energy in debating this thing.

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Whatever you do, do it for the glory of God. Yep. Right.

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And so I think the heart behind what you're doing is much more important than the practice.

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Right. And so, yeah. So maybe the question isn't, is it a sin or is it not?

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But how do I glorify Christ in the way that I respond to this thing? Yeah.

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And, you know, like for a lot of a lot of Christians and people that I know

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that and celebrate Halloween is like celebrating Halloween almost doesn't doesn't even fit.

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Like you're not really celebrating any thing, in my opinion. Yeah.

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Like we're getting together and having a meal and seeing the kids in the costumes

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and like meeting all the kids that come up to the door and all those things.

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It's more of an opportunity just to get together and be part of one another's

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lives and share stories and all those good things that we like to do anyway.

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It's almost like we use it as an excuse to do something we'd like to do anyway. Yeah, basically.

00:18:11.754 --> 00:18:16.954
That's true. Well, and it's one of those things like is is participating in

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Halloween by dressing up in a costume and walking around like,

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is that the same thing is like running a Ouija board or, you know,

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sacrificing images to a demon or something like that? Like, I just don't see.

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I don't see the connection in the two. I think if you are participating in Halloween

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in a way that glorifies darkness or glorifies evil, that's very different.

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Agreed. The other thing I find interesting, and man, this could,

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if anybody's listening to this with your kids, you might want to turn this off.

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So, you know, Jess and I don't do, we don't do Christmas.

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We don't do, I mean, we do Christmas, we don't do Santa Claus. Oh, same.

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And I had this conversation with someone a few years ago because they were like,

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well, why is it that you don't do Santa Claus, but you will do Halloween?

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I'm like, well, first of all, Santa Claus and Halloween are not the same thing, in my opinion.

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Second of all, when we do Santa Claus, everybody plays in this elaborate lie.

00:19:15.929 --> 00:19:18.329
Sure. And Halloween, everybody knows we're all kidding. Yeah.

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Like, nobody puts on a costume and they don't, like, actually make the kids

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become something that they're not. Like, we're all playing a game together.

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Yeah, we're all playing a game. And the whole Santa Claus thing,

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like, you know, it's now become, like, this lie where adults dress up.

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Very elaborate lie. Very elaborate lie.

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Right. And so, I do think there's something, like, in the all good fun, you know.

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I agree 100%. Yeah. I mean, we don't, our kids don't, like, dress up in anything

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that's, like, demonic or nasty.

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Yeah or anything like that like i guess the boys are doing it now

00:19:51.798 --> 00:19:54.798
because they have girlfriends and the girlfriends want to dress up together it's like

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one of them's curious george and the man in the yellow hat and the

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other one's shaggy and scooby-doo you know

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like we've never had like we don't let our kids do the

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like vile gross stuff yeah

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you know in fact man i

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should see if i can find a picture last year ethan made his

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own costume do you remember this yeah what did he make he was

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a box of mcdonald's french fries that's right yeah it

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was amazing it was amazing i still

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gotta say one of my favorites is riley is wally when tara

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made the wally costume that was awesome yeah yeah so

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you know there is something to be said about and i guess that's the deeper question

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here isn't just like should christians celebrate halloween but what does it

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mean to be in the world but not of the world and is celebrating halloween part

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of becoming like the world. I don't think so.

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I really don't think so either, because even when you think about people that

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aren't Christian that are celebrating or participating in Halloween,

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maybe participating is a better word, participating in Halloween,

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even a lot of the people today that do it don't do it with any evil or Satan-worshipping

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or demonic things in mind.

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It's literally just a fun time to dress up and eat candy.

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It's literally an excuse to dress up, have fun, and eat lots of candy.

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Yeah. Essentially. To most people, that's what Halloween is.

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So, I mean, I do those things almost every day anyway.

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I kind of dress goofy. So you're participating in Halloween daily.

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Yeah. I kind of dress up goofy.

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I hang out with my friends. I eat candy. I am Halloween. I am the embodiment. Reach. of Halloween.

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And so, here's a hot take for you. Ooh. I actually don't, I don't like churches doing chunk retreats.

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Oh, really? I don't, I don't like it.

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Interesting. Okay. I don't, I think we are missing a really good opportunity.

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I mean, I've always done them because our church has done them.

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This is like the first year that we haven't done one in a long time.

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I actually don't like it. Okay. Because I think you will have more impact if

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you're at home welcoming kids in your own neighborhood.

00:22:12.405 --> 00:22:15.745
Okay. That's an interesting thought. Yeah, like handing out the invitations

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or having conversations with your neighbors.

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Because nine times out of ten, I mean, maybe your church is in your neighborhood, right?

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Lots of the people who we want to minister to aren't going to church for a chunk or treat.

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Like, you know, I would say that, you know, most of the folks who really,

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really need Jesus there. That's a very good point.

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Yeah. So I think we have an opportunity to have like in our congregation,

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you know, we have we have 100 plus families.

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We have 100 plus people in their own neighborhoods handing out candy to be able

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to talk to their neighbors.

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And we now just put them all in a church parking lot and said,

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well, we'll make them come to us.

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Yeah. I just I think that. Yeah, you're right. Yeah. Never thought of it that way.

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Yeah. And I mean, I've never really like, that's probably the first time anybody's

00:23:00.505 --> 00:23:03.365
ever heard me say that because I'm just like, Hey, if the church is going to

00:23:03.365 --> 00:23:07.685
do it, like I want to support the church is about, but I actually like what we're doing this year.

00:23:07.825 --> 00:23:11.865
We, we printed out and provided some little invitations to church that people

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could put in their home bags.

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Yeah. One of the ladies in our church brought that up, but I don't know.

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I just think, I think we have an opportunity where literally people are coming

00:23:19.985 --> 00:23:22.585
maybe for the only time all year.

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Somebody might knock on your door and you might get to talk to them and tell

00:23:25.965 --> 00:23:28.545
them about Jesus, and it might be your neighbor, and it might be your friend, and.

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Yeah, I mean, think about it. What other time do you have people coming to you

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and you have the opportunity to share with them?

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Yeah, yeah. And that doesn't mean like, oh, hand out tracks and put the tracks

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in there, pumpkins, or make sure you have the fall for Jesus napkins or whatever.

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Like, okay, that's your style.

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But it's more just about like build that relationship and, you know. Plant that seed.

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Plant the seed. And like nine times out of ten, like you can find a place in

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the conversation to bring up faith, you know, if you look hard enough.

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But, I mean, if you're at the church doing the harvest party thing and your

00:24:03.288 --> 00:24:06.108
neighbor's knocking on your door and you're not there, you've missed an opportunity.

00:24:06.708 --> 00:24:09.128
I don't know. That's just a very valid point. I have to say,

00:24:09.228 --> 00:24:11.648
I've never, never thought of it

00:24:11.648 --> 00:24:14.508
that way. And I'd imagine a lot of people listening haven't either. Yeah.

00:24:14.788 --> 00:24:19.868
And it's, I mean, it's just like, why did churches start doing trunk or treats?

00:24:19.948 --> 00:24:24.228
Well, I think it was because of they don't know how to interact with Halloween.

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And so the easiest thing we can do is just kind of grab it, grab it and try

00:24:29.388 --> 00:24:31.588
to holify it. Holy fight.

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Is that a word? Is that a word? I just made a new word. Holify it. Holification.

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Sanctify it. Try to sanctify it. All right. If it's not a word,

00:24:41.448 --> 00:24:42.948
it's going to be tomorrow. I like it.

00:24:43.388 --> 00:24:48.768
Holify. New holified. New word on the Life on 11 podcast. I like it.

00:24:49.108 --> 00:24:53.868
I love it. Yeah. So we, we will be, we'll be doing some Halloween festivities.

00:24:53.868 --> 00:24:55.668
Yep. It'll be, it'll be fun.

00:24:56.148 --> 00:24:59.648
Absolutely. Always is. Yeah. Kids are going to, kids are going to enjoy it. Oh yeah.

00:25:00.408 --> 00:25:03.748
You know, just seeing all the kids get together. Oh man, I'd love it.

00:25:04.248 --> 00:25:07.968
Love it. Yeah. Well, and, and it's interesting because I mean,

00:25:08.088 --> 00:25:11.248
I would say if you push the idea of Halloween to the oomph degree,

00:25:11.568 --> 00:25:15.288
then we wouldn't celebrate any, any holidays.

00:25:16.168 --> 00:25:19.948
True. Yeah. That's, you know, absolutely true. I mean, even cause I could,

00:25:20.148 --> 00:25:22.708
if we're going to use, if we're going to apply the same logic that we apply

00:25:22.708 --> 00:25:24.348
to Halloween to everything else. Mm-hmm.

00:25:25.095 --> 00:25:28.155
You know? Yep. You're right. Absolutely.

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All that to say, you know, I would, I would say avoid anything that is overly demonic or overly dark.

00:25:34.835 --> 00:25:37.015
Absolutely. Don't, don't practice those things. Yeah.

00:25:37.235 --> 00:25:43.415
I mean, not because, and so here's the next thing, not because you're like going

00:25:43.415 --> 00:25:47.675
to get demonically possessed or something like that, but just, yeah.

00:25:47.815 --> 00:25:49.775
Refer back to that podcast.

00:25:50.755 --> 00:25:54.015
Yeah yeah yeah i did

00:25:54.015 --> 00:25:56.815
you see the clip of like the televangelist who was like make sure

00:25:56.815 --> 00:25:59.635
you don't buy your clothes from the goodwill because it could have a demon on it

00:25:59.635 --> 00:26:02.555
and you bring it to your house oh no i did not see that it's pretty funny

00:26:02.555 --> 00:26:05.495
i was like what i'm gonna have to see that that sounds funny

00:26:05.495 --> 00:26:08.235
yeah yeah it was it's like a video and it's like the guy's like oh

00:26:08.235 --> 00:26:11.135
the scriptures say don't live in fear then there's this guy he's like

00:26:11.135 --> 00:26:13.975
don't suffer the goodwill the shirt could

00:26:13.975 --> 00:26:17.555
have a demon on you bring it to your house what just

00:26:17.555 --> 00:26:20.375
happened i don't understand and so when we

00:26:20.375 --> 00:26:23.015
say we don't don't celebrate halloween we're not it's not

00:26:23.015 --> 00:26:26.535
because we're afraid you're going to catch something but merely

00:26:26.535 --> 00:26:29.735
because you know celebrate halloween

00:26:29.735 --> 00:26:33.235
and stay away from the other stuff because it can desensitize

00:26:33.235 --> 00:26:37.455
us to what really is you know i think that's the other side like maybe maybe

00:26:37.455 --> 00:26:40.355
that's maybe that's something to think about you know if we if we take our kids

00:26:40.355 --> 00:26:45.955
and we let them dress up like little demons all the time then And then demons

00:26:45.955 --> 00:26:50.075
become funny little characters and not something serious and supernatural that

00:26:50.075 --> 00:26:52.015
we need to think about. Not something serious or dangerous or, yeah.

00:26:52.615 --> 00:26:55.835
You're right. But that could be true about it really all time.

00:26:55.935 --> 00:26:58.575
I mean, anytime. Not just Halloween. Oh, absolutely.

00:26:59.215 --> 00:27:06.255
Especially with all the junk that's on the old television and YouTube and all that stuff. What? What?

00:27:07.441 --> 00:27:11.081
And I mean, we didn't unpack the whole, like, you know, all the roots,

00:27:11.281 --> 00:27:13.361
but there's some really interesting reading out there. Yeah,

00:27:13.421 --> 00:27:14.361
there definitely is. Yeah.

00:27:14.621 --> 00:27:17.361
You know, about the roots of these whole holidays.

00:27:17.981 --> 00:27:21.441
Yeah. And eat candy corn. Yeah.

00:27:22.241 --> 00:27:26.081
I'm really hoping that I'm going to have some peanut butter M&Ms.

00:27:26.801 --> 00:27:30.161
Ooh, solid choice. I do like some peanut butter M&Ms.

00:27:30.641 --> 00:27:34.861
We need to find out who around us is doing the full-size candy bars.

00:27:34.861 --> 00:27:38.041
The place we're going is doing the full-size candy bars. Okay, done.

00:27:40.141 --> 00:27:45.061
Like, if you want to be the light of the world, give out full-size candy bars.

00:27:45.341 --> 00:27:48.001
Oh, yeah, absolutely. Everybody will be at your house.

00:27:48.501 --> 00:27:52.481
Yeah. I'll be at your house. An invitation to church and a full-size candy bar?

00:27:52.561 --> 00:27:54.821
Bro. That's a job well done.

00:27:55.741 --> 00:27:58.701
You are setting the standard right there. Yeah.

00:27:59.081 --> 00:28:01.161
Kids will be talking. Full-size candy bar and an invitation to church.

00:28:01.161 --> 00:28:02.401
Have you ever been to one of those houses that, like,

00:28:02.481 --> 00:28:05.201
sets up, like, the full, like, haunted house or something out in

00:28:05.201 --> 00:28:08.161
front of their house i've been by yeah that's crazy yeah

00:28:08.161 --> 00:28:11.921
yeah that is that is crazy yeah okay so

00:28:11.921 --> 00:28:16.601
oh snap before we go oh no do you feel like i feel like i feel like like lately

00:28:16.601 --> 00:28:19.701
past few years like there's really been a rise in decorating for halloween was

00:28:19.701 --> 00:28:22.581
that a thing when we were little like when we were honestly i don't remember

00:28:22.581 --> 00:28:26.081
it when i was a kid yeah because your your mom made you stay in the stay in

00:28:26.081 --> 00:28:28.301
the living room all right true it is true,

00:28:29.128 --> 00:28:32.328
Mom, I'm sorry if you're listening to this, but that's what I remember.

00:28:32.608 --> 00:28:33.948
You might remember it different.

00:28:35.348 --> 00:28:39.388
But that's what I remember. But no, you're right.

00:28:39.508 --> 00:28:44.408
I've seen a lot more people decorating for Halloween with spider webs going

00:28:44.408 --> 00:28:48.308
up to their house with fake spiders and lots of orange lights and stuff.

00:28:48.508 --> 00:28:51.568
Oh, dude. There's a guy on the way back to the church. He has a whole horror

00:28:51.568 --> 00:28:53.928
movie scene in his front yard. For real? Oh, yeah.

00:28:54.348 --> 00:28:57.928
I know the house now. because like the first year he did it like he had a dude

00:28:57.928 --> 00:29:00.748
and like when you went by your headlights would catch it it looked like a guy

00:29:00.748 --> 00:29:02.308
standing in his yard with a chainsaw,

00:29:02.788 --> 00:29:06.388
yee yeah like that's a good way to have somebody run up in your yard try to

00:29:06.388 --> 00:29:07.988
save your life and realize it was a

00:29:08.368 --> 00:29:11.408
pair of jeans and a sweatshirt stuffed with hay you gotta watch out for that

00:29:11.408 --> 00:29:14.528
stuff dog yeah that's true that makes me think about a hilarious one for Christmas

00:29:14.528 --> 00:29:18.088
though have you seen the ones like where somebody like puts a ladder up and

00:29:18.088 --> 00:29:20.768
like they have the ladder falling over oh yeah there's like a dude hanging from

00:29:20.768 --> 00:29:24.648
the gutter yeah but it's not really a dude yeah yeah that's hilarious I love that Yeah,

00:29:24.788 --> 00:29:28.268
we had some members of our church back last year when the elections were going on.

00:29:28.408 --> 00:29:31.328
They had a life-size cardboard cutout of Donald Trump on their front yard.

00:29:32.808 --> 00:29:36.448
And one night, like, I left the church and my headlights happened to hit it.

00:29:36.608 --> 00:29:39.868
And I called him the next day and I was like, I was about to fall into,

00:29:39.928 --> 00:29:41.128
like, ninja pastor mode.

00:29:41.268 --> 00:29:43.828
Like, I thought somebody was trying to break into your house.

00:29:43.848 --> 00:29:45.848
Donald Trump's breaking into their house.

00:29:47.288 --> 00:29:50.788
I was ready to call the cops and, like, whip up your driveway and be like,

00:29:50.908 --> 00:29:52.548
hey, that's my friend's house.

00:29:53.868 --> 00:29:58.108
When I got close enough I realized it was just Donnie I wish you would have

00:29:58.108 --> 00:30:05.488
That would have made for a great newscast Local pastor arrested After assaulting

00:30:05.488 --> 00:30:08.548
a Donald Trump cardboard cutout A Donald Trump cardboard cutout,

00:30:09.809 --> 00:30:12.569
Oh, man. You can't make it up. Yep.

00:30:12.749 --> 00:30:15.709
Oh, man. All that being said, however you're going to celebrate Halloween or

00:30:15.709 --> 00:30:18.689
not celebrate Halloween, we hope you do it as best you can.

00:30:18.809 --> 00:30:22.909
Bring out Jesus and take the opportunity to share your faith with others.

00:30:23.149 --> 00:30:27.269
And Jeremy, I guess I'll see you next time. Yeah, brother. Have a good night. Later.

00:30:32.669 --> 00:30:36.569
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