Ever turned to your partner at 9:30pm, asked "you wanna…?" and rolled over disappointed when she said no? She didn't reject you... she rejected the way you initiated.
In this episode, I break down the three ways most men initiate sex that almost guarantee a "no". None of them are your fault, you weren't taught this. But once you see which one you fall into, you can stop blaming her (or yourself) and start building the kind of connection that makes sex feel inevitable instead of awkward.
I'll walk you through what real initiation looks like... the small, intentional moments throughout the day, the touch, the eye contact, the way you talk to her like she's your woman and how that completely changes what happens at night. This is about creating the frame and the energy that sex actually lives inside of.
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What is What I Love About Sex?
What I Love About Sex is the podcast for high-achieving men who feel like they're successful everywhere but their sex life.
It's hosted by clinical sexologist and men's sex coach Stephanie Ganowski and each weekly episode helps men to understand their relationship more clearly and learn the skills it takes to show up to their woman with confidence, conviction and connection.
Stephanie directly coaches men on topics most men were never taught: sexual performance anxiety, desire and arousal, lasting longer, intimacy vs sex, emotional intelligence, emotional leadership, and how to actually communicate about sex... so you can have more of it.
You'll get practical, judgment-free, science-backed tools to become the man you want to be in your relationship and sex life.
New episodes every week.
🎧 Want to learn more? Go to stephanieganowski.com