Nice Guys like to live in the gray and, as such, often live lives in perpetual bad moods. It's part of our psychology, and it hurts men's mental health. One of the best ways to transform your life is to learn the skills for getting into and staying in a good mood. Today, I talk with an expert on good moods; we will discuss the importance of mood in determining the quality of life and identifying how many people live in a 'neutral state' of quiet desperation. Matt O'Neill, a mood expert and host of the 'Good Mood Show' podcast, shares insights on choosing and maintaining a good mood to improve life quality significantly. They explore strategies for sustaining a positive mindset, including journaling, practicing gratitude, and focusing on core values. The discussion also touches on the impact of exercise on mental health, managing reactions to life's challenges, and the principle of not allowing external circumstances to dictate one's mood. Additionally, practical advice on personal growth and happiness, such as reading ten pages of a self-development book daily, is provided. This conversation is a deep dive into the power of perspective, the importance of intentional living, and the transformative potential of maintaining a positive outlook.
Find Matt's Podcast The Good Mood Show here:
https://www.goodmoodshow.com/and on every major podcast platform.
What is The Way of The Confident Husband - Chuck Chapman, M.A.?
The Confident Husband Podcast is for the man who’s done settling.
If you’re tired of feeling disconnected in your marriage, confused by your wife’s needs, or unsure how to lead without controlling or caretaking—this podcast is for you.
I’m Chuck Chapman, a licensed professional counselor, a men’s relationship expert and creator of The Confident Husband Solution. After 20,000+ hours working with men, I’ve seen the patterns that keep us stuck—and I’ve built the roadmap to help you lead with strength, presence, and purpose.
Each week, we dive into what it really means to be a husband, how to rebuild trust, reignite intimacy, and take full ownership of your life and marriage—without losing yourself in the process.
Real tools, real stories, and real transformation.
Because your marriage won’t change until you do.
Let’s do the work—together.