The Recovering Nice Guy - With Chuck Chapman, M.A.

In this video, I explore how to effectively handle and overcome my sensitivity to criticism and how it affects your masculine energy and integrity. I delve into how perceived criticism or pushback emotionally impacts me, leading to feelings of withdrawal or hurt. I discuss some signs of these unskillful reactions and the concept of negativity bias. I talk about a lesson from David Deida's Book, Way of the Superior Man. I share advice on how to recognize, navigate, and resolve these emotions, including becoming aware of my emotional state, identifying where the pain physically manifests in my body, and holding onto that pain until it gradually dissipates. I emphasize the importance of creating an open physical space and maintaining strong eye contact, especially when confronting the person who hurt me. I also explain how this practice can enhance my masculine energy, attractiveness, and leadership skills, and deepen the levels of intimacy in my relationships.


What is The Recovering Nice Guy - With Chuck Chapman, M.A.?

This podcast is for recovering "Nice Guys" who are tired of people pleasing and always finishing in last. If you’re ready to uncover your purpose, transcend self-doubt, and start living the best version of yourself, then you’re in the right place. We're not here for temporary solutions but to forge a path of integrity and genuine self-understanding. Tired of feeling like you're not living up to your potential? Hit that subscribe button and engage in the conversation.

I'm Chuck Chapman. As a professional psychotherapist, life and relationships coach, mystic, and fellow journeyman, I specialize in assisting men in navigating life's challenges. My own story includes battles with addiction, the emotional turmoil of divorce, financial downfalls like bankruptcy, health concerns, and the complexities of family ties. But through it all, I've not only survived but thrived, finding my purpose and passion.

The content shared here is for general knowledge and motivational purposes. It is not a substitute for therapy or professional psychological advice.

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