Are you walking on eggshells in your marriage? Do you feel like nothing you do is ever enough, or that your needs are always dismissed? Many men wonder if they’re simply in a hard season… or if what they’re in has crossed the line into toxic.
In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott shares what it means to face the truth about your marriage without abandoning yourself or blowing everything up. You’ll hear the story of one of his coaching clients who finally admitted, “I think my marriage might be toxic,” and how that admission became the starting point for his healing.
What you’ll learn in this video:
✔️ The difference between a wounded relationship and a toxic one
✔️ Red flags that show your emotional safety may be missing
✔️ How self-gaslighting keeps men stuck in unhealthy patterns
✔️ Why childhood wounds often drive your tolerance for mistreatment
✔️ How to reclaim your voice and stop abandoning yourself
✔️ The six steps of The Secure Husband Process for building clarity and strength
✔️ What it looks like to protect yourself with calm leadership, not cruelty
You don’t need to wait until things “get worse” to honor your truth. If you feel unsafe, unseen, or constantly blamed — that matters. You can choose honesty, safety, and strength starting now.
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If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.
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What is The Secure Husband?
A Secure Husband no longer seeks validation from his wife—he stands strong in self-worth, meets his own emotional needs, and leads with confidence and clarity. I’ve been where you are, and I’m here to help you break free from old patterns, reclaim your strength, and transform your marriage from the inside out.