1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,416 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:03,125 --> 01:00:04,041 We're back. 3 01:00:04,583 --> 01:00:05,708 Our highlights can 4 01:00:05,708 --> 01:00:07,125 sometimes be very entertaining. 5 01:00:07,500 --> 01:00:08,083 To us at least. 6 01:00:08,500 --> 01:00:09,416 I literally thought, 7 01:00:09,416 --> 01:00:10,791 am I the one throwing all 8 01:00:10,791 --> 01:00:12,000 this bad juju out there? 9 01:00:12,500 --> 01:00:13,166 But I go back to that 10 01:00:13,166 --> 01:00:14,791 Robin Williams thing, you know, 11 01:00:15,166 --> 01:00:15,875 you never know what 12 01:00:15,875 --> 01:00:16,875 someone else is going through. 13 01:00:17,208 --> 01:00:17,958 Well, you know what? 14 01:00:18,250 --> 01:00:18,583 Karma's real. 15 01:00:19,375 --> 01:00:20,416 I learned a long time ago, 16 01:00:20,416 --> 01:00:22,041 I'm not doing to invest in people 17 01:00:22,708 --> 01:00:24,750 that aren't worth investing in. 18 01:00:24,750 --> 01:00:25,583 I mean, it's just one of 19 01:00:25,583 --> 01:00:26,625 those things in human nature 20 01:00:26,625 --> 01:00:27,750 where everybody thinks they're right. 21 01:00:28,916 --> 01:00:29,291 Well, I'm right. 22 01:00:30,250 --> 01:00:31,541 It's not me, it's not me. 23 01:00:31,625 --> 01:00:32,208 You had it right the 24 01:00:32,208 --> 01:00:33,291 first time, I was wrong. 25 01:00:33,708 --> 01:00:35,500 Yeah, well, there is a 26 01:00:35,500 --> 01:00:36,791 first time for everything. 27 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:38,291 Bortally wrong, you got it right. 28 01:00:38,666 --> 01:00:40,333 I cried at senior night this year. 29 01:00:40,791 --> 01:00:43,333 Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, 30 01:00:44,166 --> 01:00:45,250 in the crocodile hunter. 31 01:00:45,666 --> 01:00:47,375 Talk about good karma and good juju. 32 01:00:47,750 --> 01:00:49,666 Oh, I miss Mr. Rogers. 33 01:00:51,375 --> 01:00:52,541 I don't, but he's nostalgic. 34 01:00:53,083 --> 01:00:54,166 My homies pour a little 35 01:00:54,166 --> 01:00:55,041 liquor for those guys. 36 01:00:57,541 --> 01:00:58,375 (laughing) 37 01:00:59,500 --> 01:01:00,541 Welcome to the Mr. and 38 01:01:00,541 --> 01:01:01,541 Mrs. English podcast. 39 01:01:01,916 --> 01:01:02,291 I'm Megan. 40 01:01:02,708 --> 01:01:03,250 And I'm Sean. 41 01:01:03,541 --> 01:01:04,583 We're here to talk about 42 01:01:04,583 --> 01:01:06,208 the wild ride of raising kids 43 01:01:06,208 --> 01:01:07,208 and growing careers, 44 01:01:07,666 --> 01:01:08,666 keeping life together in 45 01:01:08,666 --> 01:01:09,750 the middle of all the chaos. 46 01:01:10,458 --> 01:01:11,500 So buckle up, 47 01:01:11,833 --> 01:01:12,541 because we're all in 48 01:01:12,541 --> 01:01:13,791 this crazy journey together. 49 01:01:15,458 --> 01:01:17,166 All right, well, here we are. 50 01:01:17,750 --> 01:01:18,500 We're back. 51 01:01:19,291 --> 01:01:19,916 We're back. 52 01:01:20,625 --> 01:01:23,041 Just when you thought you got rid of us. 53 01:01:23,083 --> 01:01:24,833 I know, people are probably like, 54 01:01:24,833 --> 01:01:26,208 "Woof, they're finally done." 55 01:01:26,250 --> 01:01:27,458 Yeah, and Mr. Highlights. 56 01:01:28,416 --> 01:01:29,500 Our highlights can 57 01:01:29,500 --> 01:01:30,916 sometimes be very entertaining. 58 01:01:31,333 --> 01:01:31,875 To us at least. 59 01:01:32,166 --> 01:01:33,750 Oh yeah, yeah. Definitely for us. 60 01:01:33,833 --> 01:01:35,000 You do a good job of cutting 61 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:36,375 them to make us sound funny. 62 01:01:36,791 --> 01:01:37,833 I don't spend any time, 63 01:01:37,833 --> 01:01:39,000 but when we first started doing it, 64 01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:40,000 I actually spent a lot 65 01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,083 of time trying to cut them 66 01:01:41,083 --> 01:01:41,958 and get them right. 67 01:01:42,958 --> 01:01:44,416 I'd rearrange them sometimes. 68 01:01:44,833 --> 01:01:45,125 Yeah. 69 01:01:45,208 --> 01:01:46,666 And it took way too long. 70 01:01:47,375 --> 01:01:49,291 Now it's just, boom, here it is. 71 01:01:49,291 --> 01:01:50,041 I mean, every now and 72 01:01:50,041 --> 01:01:51,000 then I'll rearrange something 73 01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,500 just because it has a better kick there. 74 01:01:53,541 --> 01:01:54,375 Oh yeah, yeah. 75 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:55,416 Ah. 76 01:01:56,291 --> 01:01:58,750 The comedic genius that is Mr. and Mrs. 77 01:01:59,041 --> 01:02:00,166 That's right, that's right. 78 01:02:01,041 --> 01:02:02,291 (laughing) I was laughing, I was 79 01:02:02,291 --> 01:02:03,375 telling Megan about it, 80 01:02:03,666 --> 01:02:05,000 I don't know, a couple days ago, 81 01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:08,708 but I don't ever read comments ever 82 01:02:09,083 --> 01:02:10,041 on either one of the 83 01:02:10,041 --> 01:02:11,916 podcasts or anything social media. 84 01:02:12,583 --> 01:02:14,041 Even personal, I don't very 85 01:02:14,041 --> 01:02:15,333 rarely do I read comments. 86 01:02:15,833 --> 01:02:16,958 Mainly because there's a 87 01:02:16,958 --> 01:02:18,000 lot of time involved in that. 88 01:02:19,125 --> 01:02:22,541 And secondly, sometimes, I mean, 89 01:02:22,541 --> 01:02:24,250 I'm sure most comments are good, right? 90 01:02:24,333 --> 01:02:25,041 Yes, if you're gonna-- Especially on the 91 01:02:25,166 --> 01:02:25,708 personal side. 92 01:02:25,750 --> 01:02:26,833 On the personal side, if you're gonna 93 01:02:26,833 --> 01:02:28,291 take time to comment, 94 01:02:28,291 --> 01:02:29,208 you comment something good. 95 01:02:29,541 --> 01:02:30,375 Yeah, normally. 96 01:02:30,791 --> 01:02:31,458 That's not how it 97 01:02:31,458 --> 01:02:32,375 works in the real world, 98 01:02:32,375 --> 01:02:33,750 like on YouTube and stuff like that. 99 01:02:33,750 --> 01:02:34,000 Right, right. 100 01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:34,500 I was telling Megan 101 01:02:34,500 --> 01:02:36,291 that somebody had commented 102 01:02:37,375 --> 01:02:39,875 on the Mr. and Mrs. podcast saying like, 103 01:02:40,125 --> 01:02:40,625 "You guys have been 104 01:02:40,625 --> 01:02:41,708 at this for a year now, 105 01:02:41,708 --> 01:02:43,000 "it might be time to hang it up." 106 01:02:45,291 --> 01:02:49,166 (laughing) And then we stopped doing 107 01:02:49,166 --> 01:02:50,500 them for about three weeks, so. 108 01:02:50,916 --> 01:02:51,166 Yeah. 109 01:02:51,958 --> 01:02:53,625 Not because of that person in their-- 110 01:02:53,708 --> 01:02:54,125 No. 111 01:02:54,791 --> 01:02:56,458 Negativity, just to throw it out there 112 01:02:56,458 --> 01:02:57,458 for no good reason. 113 01:02:58,125 --> 01:02:59,375 Right, right, we don't 114 01:02:59,375 --> 01:03:00,416 know who this person is. 115 01:03:00,708 --> 01:03:01,416 Yeah, yeah. 116 01:03:01,791 --> 01:03:04,541 And I really wanted to just 117 01:03:04,541 --> 01:03:05,791 reply back to that person, 118 01:03:05,791 --> 01:03:06,500 but I would never do it, 119 01:03:06,500 --> 01:03:06,916 because I'm not gonna 120 01:03:06,916 --> 01:03:07,708 get in a tit for tat. 121 01:03:08,375 --> 01:03:09,500 But just be like, you know what, 122 01:03:10,083 --> 01:03:12,000 appreciate you just throwing negative, 123 01:03:12,500 --> 01:03:15,666 negative juju out there 124 01:03:15,666 --> 01:03:17,333 into the world, the cosmos. 125 01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:20,750 We do this for our friends and family. 126 01:03:21,625 --> 01:03:22,458 We don't do this 127 01:03:22,458 --> 01:03:23,250 because we think we're gonna 128 01:03:23,291 --> 01:03:24,291 get a million followers. 129 01:03:24,666 --> 01:03:24,875 Right. 130 01:03:24,875 --> 01:03:26,250 You know, if we did, I 131 01:03:26,250 --> 01:03:27,166 would start spending money 132 01:03:27,291 --> 01:03:30,250 on, you know, SES stuff, 133 01:03:30,250 --> 01:03:31,125 and I would have to try to 134 01:03:31,125 --> 01:03:32,250 push money into advertising. 135 01:03:32,500 --> 01:03:33,541 I mean, I'd spend 136 01:03:33,541 --> 01:03:34,541 money on trying to get it 137 01:03:34,541 --> 01:03:35,333 in front of people. 138 01:03:35,708 --> 01:03:36,958 Right, but we don't. 139 01:03:37,416 --> 01:03:38,916 I've not spent a penny, no. 140 01:03:39,125 --> 01:03:39,750 The people that want 141 01:03:39,750 --> 01:03:40,791 to see this see this. 142 01:03:41,083 --> 01:03:41,958 That's exactly right. 143 01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,500 So I'm sorry this person 144 01:03:43,500 --> 01:03:45,083 happened to come across it 145 01:03:45,541 --> 01:03:49,708 in your feed, but I am happy to know 146 01:03:49,708 --> 01:03:50,875 that there are just such 147 01:03:50,875 --> 01:03:52,291 miserable people out there 148 01:03:52,375 --> 01:03:53,750 that they couldn't just let it go. 149 01:03:54,291 --> 01:03:55,000 You know what I mean? 150 01:03:55,083 --> 01:03:57,416 I know, I don't know. 151 01:03:57,416 --> 01:03:59,500 I have never, I'll be 152 01:03:59,500 --> 01:04:00,958 interested to hear you. 153 01:04:00,958 --> 01:04:02,083 Have you ever just 154 01:04:02,083 --> 01:04:04,041 made a negative comment 155 01:04:04,041 --> 01:04:07,541 or left a negative review just cause? 156 01:04:07,916 --> 01:04:09,041 Like you took the time to 157 01:04:09,041 --> 01:04:11,125 actually leave something negative? 158 01:04:11,458 --> 01:04:13,291 No, but I was, that 159 01:04:13,291 --> 01:04:15,375 happened, and then the next day, 160 01:04:17,041 --> 01:04:18,000 two things happened like 161 01:04:18,000 --> 01:04:19,708 in a row while I was out 162 01:04:19,708 --> 01:04:20,958 where I was like, it 163 01:04:20,958 --> 01:04:21,750 made me question like, 164 01:04:21,791 --> 01:04:24,375 am I throwing out negative juju? 165 01:04:24,750 --> 01:04:25,500 Where this negative 166 01:04:25,500 --> 01:04:29,041 karma is coming back at me? 167 01:04:29,500 --> 01:04:31,625 And I honestly don't think I am. 168 01:04:31,833 --> 01:04:32,666 But let me tell you the two things that 169 01:04:32,666 --> 01:04:33,333 happened real quick. 170 01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:35,958 The first one was I went to Staples 171 01:04:36,250 --> 01:04:37,916 cause I had to print out these big, 172 01:04:37,916 --> 01:04:41,416 I had to print out big blueprints there. 173 01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:43,791 And the second time I've done it, 174 01:04:43,791 --> 01:04:47,041 and the lady there is just horrible. 175 01:04:47,500 --> 01:04:49,250 I mean, I'm sure she's a nice person, 176 01:04:49,250 --> 01:04:50,333 but she's terrible at her job. 177 01:04:50,458 --> 01:04:53,958 She's so frustrated that I'm 178 01:04:53,958 --> 01:04:55,166 there to pick something up. 179 01:04:55,750 --> 01:04:56,833 I'm just ruining her 180 01:04:56,833 --> 01:04:58,750 day cause she's so busy. 181 01:04:59,541 --> 01:05:00,083 You know what I mean? 182 01:05:00,083 --> 01:05:00,875 And it's like, well, and 183 01:05:00,875 --> 01:05:02,291 then she couldn't find it, 184 01:05:02,291 --> 01:05:03,250 of course, and she's 185 01:05:03,250 --> 01:05:04,250 like, well, where's your, 186 01:05:04,916 --> 01:05:06,416 we emailed you a confirmation number. 187 01:05:06,416 --> 01:05:07,041 I'm like, no, you didn't, 188 01:05:07,041 --> 01:05:08,250 you actually texted me one, 189 01:05:08,250 --> 01:05:09,333 but I deleted the text 190 01:05:09,333 --> 01:05:10,875 because it just said it was ready. 191 01:05:11,291 --> 01:05:12,125 Maybe there was a confirmation. 192 01:05:12,500 --> 01:05:13,750 I was like, can you not 193 01:05:13,750 --> 01:05:14,791 look it up on my phone number 194 01:05:14,791 --> 01:05:15,791 cause you texted me. 195 01:05:16,125 --> 01:05:17,041 You wouldn't have texted you. 196 01:05:17,541 --> 01:05:19,375 I promise you, you texted me. 197 01:05:20,375 --> 01:05:21,666 I'm like, can you not just 198 01:05:21,666 --> 01:05:22,791 look it up on my phone number 199 01:05:23,250 --> 01:05:24,125 or my last name? 200 01:05:24,583 --> 01:05:26,375 I was like, do you have a lot of 201 01:05:26,375 --> 01:05:27,500 blueprints back there? 202 01:05:27,500 --> 01:05:28,291 And she's like, yes. 203 01:05:28,875 --> 01:05:30,000 Like I know she doesn't. 204 01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:31,458 I can see her whole workspace. 205 01:05:32,958 --> 01:05:33,541 There might've been 206 01:05:33,541 --> 01:05:35,500 three blueprints in the back. 207 01:05:35,958 --> 01:05:37,000 One of them being mine, 208 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:38,416 cause they're big rolled up papers. 209 01:05:38,666 --> 01:05:39,125 You know what I mean? 210 01:05:39,208 --> 01:05:40,291 You cannot miss this. 211 01:05:41,125 --> 01:05:43,583 So I was like, well, would 212 01:05:43,583 --> 01:05:44,750 you mind just checking again? 213 01:05:45,250 --> 01:05:47,291 Because I noticed when I said my name, 214 01:05:48,125 --> 01:05:49,666 you didn't ask how to spell it. 215 01:05:49,750 --> 01:05:50,708 And if you didn't do that, 216 01:05:50,708 --> 01:05:51,541 you probably looked under 217 01:05:51,541 --> 01:05:53,750 ease and it's with an I. 218 01:05:54,708 --> 01:05:56,291 And she did not like that. 219 01:05:56,583 --> 01:05:58,375 She was so mad that I said that. 220 01:05:58,416 --> 01:05:58,625 What? 221 01:05:59,333 --> 01:06:00,833 Anyways, she went back. 222 01:06:00,833 --> 01:06:01,333 She stormed back. 223 01:06:01,333 --> 01:06:02,333 I didn't even say a word to me. 224 01:06:02,333 --> 01:06:02,791 So I'm like, I don't 225 01:06:02,791 --> 01:06:04,083 know if she's done with me. 226 01:06:04,083 --> 01:06:06,125 I don't know if I'm, you 227 01:06:06,125 --> 01:06:07,166 know, like what's going on? 228 01:06:07,458 --> 01:06:08,291 Like, you know what I mean? Wow. 229 01:06:08,291 --> 01:06:08,958 I don't know what's happening. 230 01:06:09,333 --> 01:06:10,708 She comes back and she's like, 231 01:06:11,875 --> 01:06:13,583 well, they buried it for me. 232 01:06:13,583 --> 01:06:14,583 So I found it. 233 01:06:14,833 --> 01:06:15,375 It was buried. 234 01:06:16,500 --> 01:06:17,083 I'm like, really? 235 01:06:17,083 --> 01:06:17,500 It was buried. 236 01:06:18,333 --> 01:06:20,125 All this negativity just thrown at me. 237 01:06:20,125 --> 01:06:20,666 Like, I'm sorry. 238 01:06:20,666 --> 01:06:21,833 I'm literally just picking up something 239 01:06:21,833 --> 01:06:22,166 I already picked for. 240 01:06:22,166 --> 01:06:23,250 I just want to pick up 241 01:06:23,250 --> 01:06:23,750 something I picked for. 242 01:06:23,833 --> 01:06:25,000 Same way that when I dropped 243 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:26,958 it off and I had it on a thumb drive, 244 01:06:28,125 --> 01:06:30,000 was so frustrated that I 245 01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:31,000 had it on a thumb drive. 246 01:06:31,750 --> 01:06:32,333 She's like, you can't 247 01:06:32,333 --> 01:06:33,416 just email this to me? 248 01:06:34,416 --> 01:06:37,208 I'm like, I have it on a thumb drive 249 01:06:37,208 --> 01:06:37,666 because I was actually 250 01:06:37,666 --> 01:06:38,333 hoping you might be able 251 01:06:38,333 --> 01:06:39,750 to print it out for me. 252 01:06:40,500 --> 01:06:42,250 And she's like, oh, it'll 253 01:06:42,250 --> 01:06:43,708 be ready maybe tomorrow, 254 01:06:43,958 --> 01:06:44,625 maybe tonight. 255 01:06:45,333 --> 01:06:46,250 She was so mad at me. 256 01:06:46,250 --> 01:06:47,000 The same lady. 257 01:06:47,500 --> 01:06:49,458 Anyways, at the end, I was like, 258 01:06:49,458 --> 01:06:50,041 you know what, this is my 259 01:06:50,041 --> 01:06:52,166 second time here doing this. 260 01:06:52,166 --> 01:06:53,625 I was like, and it's been very 261 01:06:53,625 --> 01:06:54,666 frustrating both times. 262 01:06:54,666 --> 01:06:55,958 Like, I probably won't come back. 263 01:06:56,291 --> 01:06:57,750 In her mind, she's like, I don't care. 264 01:06:57,750 --> 01:07:01,166 So I was thinking, that negative juju, A. 265 01:07:01,666 --> 01:07:02,875 Then I'm walking out, 266 01:07:02,875 --> 01:07:03,375 and then I'll let you 267 01:07:03,375 --> 01:07:04,125 kind of get into this. 268 01:07:04,125 --> 01:07:06,666 You can be my psychiatrist on this one, 269 01:07:06,666 --> 01:07:08,250 but then I'm walking out of Staples. 270 01:07:09,166 --> 01:07:10,541 And I literally am trying to be nice. 271 01:07:10,958 --> 01:07:14,916 Somebody, some lady is driving. 272 01:07:14,916 --> 01:07:16,166 So you step off, you 273 01:07:16,166 --> 01:07:17,250 have to cross the street 274 01:07:17,375 --> 01:07:18,291 to get to the parking spot. 275 01:07:18,916 --> 01:07:19,500 They always are. 276 01:07:20,250 --> 01:07:21,333 Some guy was ahead of me. 277 01:07:21,333 --> 01:07:22,166 He was way ahead of 278 01:07:22,166 --> 01:07:24,458 this lady in a BMW SUV. 279 01:07:25,208 --> 01:07:26,500 So she didn't have to slow down for him. 280 01:07:27,000 --> 01:07:31,083 But she was, I think maybe in her mind, 281 01:07:31,083 --> 01:07:31,583 she's like, I'm gonna 282 01:07:31,583 --> 01:07:33,416 slow down for the second guy. 283 01:07:33,416 --> 01:07:33,916 Who's me? 284 01:07:35,125 --> 01:07:36,583 But I'd already done all 285 01:07:36,583 --> 01:07:37,750 the calculations in my head. 286 01:07:38,208 --> 01:07:40,000 She could just keep on driving by, 287 01:07:40,291 --> 01:07:41,750 and I'll just pivot a 288 01:07:41,750 --> 01:07:42,750 little bit to the right, 289 01:07:42,750 --> 01:07:44,541 and I'll walk behind her car. 290 01:07:45,291 --> 01:07:46,375 So she doesn't have to stop for me. 291 01:07:46,708 --> 01:07:48,125 I'm trying to not be 292 01:07:48,125 --> 01:07:49,458 inconvenient for her. 293 01:07:50,125 --> 01:07:51,083 In fact, so much so I 294 01:07:51,083 --> 01:07:52,000 can see she's struggling 295 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:52,750 with the fact that I've 296 01:07:52,750 --> 01:07:54,208 now pivoted towards her. 297 01:07:54,458 --> 01:07:55,833 Still in the sidewalk, mind you. 298 01:07:56,666 --> 01:07:58,125 She's coming towards me. 299 01:07:58,916 --> 01:08:00,166 I could see she was a 300 01:08:00,166 --> 01:08:01,000 little worried about that. 301 01:08:01,208 --> 01:08:01,916 So I kind of just waved 302 01:08:01,916 --> 01:08:02,875 on, like, go ahead, go ahead. 303 01:08:03,333 --> 01:08:03,458 Yeah. 304 01:08:05,541 --> 01:08:06,875 I don't know if she was mad at me, 305 01:08:07,500 --> 01:08:08,666 but she was gesturing 306 01:08:08,666 --> 01:08:10,500 and making mad faces at me 307 01:08:10,625 --> 01:08:13,750 inside her car, so exasperated at me. 308 01:08:14,375 --> 01:08:15,041 And I was like, well, 309 01:08:15,791 --> 01:08:17,166 this is right after the lady 310 01:08:17,416 --> 01:08:19,000 that had the problem with me picking up. 311 01:08:19,416 --> 01:08:21,583 I think I'm like, I literally thought, 312 01:08:21,583 --> 01:08:22,958 am I the one throwing all 313 01:08:22,958 --> 01:08:24,083 this bad juju out there? 314 01:08:24,875 --> 01:08:26,583 Like, I didn't throw attitude at, 315 01:08:27,041 --> 01:08:29,041 where am I throwing this attitude that 316 01:08:29,041 --> 01:08:29,833 I'm getting it back? 317 01:08:30,500 --> 01:08:31,458 Oh my gosh. 318 01:08:33,041 --> 01:08:34,833 That is insane, especially, I mean, we 319 01:08:34,833 --> 01:08:35,541 all kind of do that. 320 01:08:35,541 --> 01:08:36,583 Like, you know, someone even 321 01:08:36,583 --> 01:08:37,875 did that to me today, right? 322 01:08:37,875 --> 01:08:38,750 Like, they had the right of 323 01:08:38,750 --> 01:08:39,958 way, but they wanted me to go. 324 01:08:39,958 --> 01:08:40,791 And so they kind of just 325 01:08:40,791 --> 01:08:42,125 motioned, and you're like, okay. 326 01:08:42,500 --> 01:08:43,458 Like, that is a very 327 01:08:43,458 --> 01:08:46,375 common thing if, you know, 328 01:08:46,375 --> 01:08:47,291 just to communicate with 329 01:08:47,291 --> 01:08:48,500 people kind of what your plan is. 330 01:08:48,500 --> 01:08:49,625 If you're like, hey, you can go. 331 01:08:51,375 --> 01:08:52,541 Okay, awesome, thank you. 332 01:08:52,791 --> 01:08:54,125 It's not like I'm like flipping them off, 333 01:08:54,125 --> 01:08:56,083 like, you go then, you know what I mean? 334 01:08:56,166 --> 01:08:56,458 Right. 335 01:08:56,458 --> 01:08:56,958 It could have really been 336 01:08:56,958 --> 01:08:58,041 me, but it's usually just like, 337 01:08:58,166 --> 01:08:59,083 oh, you go ahead, go ahead. 338 01:08:59,500 --> 01:09:00,291 You smile at them, 339 01:09:00,291 --> 01:09:01,125 like, go ahead, go ahead, 340 01:09:01,125 --> 01:09:02,333 because that's what you do to people. 341 01:09:02,333 --> 01:09:03,791 It's like, that's what you 342 01:09:03,791 --> 01:09:04,666 do when you're in public. 343 01:09:04,875 --> 01:09:05,916 That's what you do. 344 01:09:07,333 --> 01:09:08,541 Now, the lady at 345 01:09:08,541 --> 01:09:11,125 Staples, you know, I just, 346 01:09:11,500 --> 01:09:12,500 I think that she is 347 01:09:12,500 --> 01:09:14,375 very unhappy in her job, 348 01:09:14,375 --> 01:09:16,041 and there's probably something going on 349 01:09:16,541 --> 01:09:18,666 that is a lot bigger than 350 01:09:18,666 --> 01:09:20,541 your order of blueprints. 351 01:09:20,541 --> 01:09:21,291 It goes back to Robyn, 352 01:09:21,291 --> 01:09:22,083 but she was like that, 353 01:09:22,083 --> 01:09:23,583 I've seen her three times now. 354 01:09:24,166 --> 01:09:25,583 So this is her natural state. 355 01:09:25,583 --> 01:09:26,916 So she's been having a 356 01:09:26,916 --> 01:09:28,041 tough month and a half. 357 01:09:29,291 --> 01:09:30,041 But I go back to that 358 01:09:30,041 --> 01:09:31,666 Robyn Williams thing, you know, 359 01:09:31,666 --> 01:09:32,708 you never know what 360 01:09:32,708 --> 01:09:33,916 someone else is going through. 361 01:09:34,041 --> 01:09:34,416 Right. 362 01:09:34,416 --> 01:09:35,291 So I try not to judge people 363 01:09:35,291 --> 01:09:36,875 on that, but it just happened 364 01:09:36,875 --> 01:09:38,666 like three or four times in one day, 365 01:09:38,958 --> 01:09:40,000 I don't remember what the first thing 366 01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:41,166 we were talking about is here, 367 01:09:41,208 --> 01:09:43,083 but like this negative juju coming at me, 368 01:09:43,083 --> 01:09:44,750 I'm like, whoa, I did not throw, 369 01:09:45,416 --> 01:09:46,708 I don't, I honestly 370 01:09:46,708 --> 01:09:48,291 don't think I'd go into life. 371 01:09:48,958 --> 01:09:50,041 And maybe there's people that are like, 372 01:09:50,041 --> 01:09:50,791 oh, that's not true, Sean, 373 01:09:50,791 --> 01:09:51,375 you're like the most 374 01:09:51,375 --> 01:09:52,125 negative person I know, 375 01:09:52,375 --> 01:09:53,416 but I don't think I am. 376 01:09:53,875 --> 01:09:56,000 Now within our family, I can 377 01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:57,750 definitely complain, right? 378 01:09:58,666 --> 01:10:00,375 You can, but so can I, I mean. 379 01:10:00,666 --> 01:10:01,458 Well, I don't think people 380 01:10:01,458 --> 01:10:02,625 that know me in the stands 381 01:10:02,625 --> 01:10:03,958 or on the soccer fields, I 382 01:10:03,958 --> 01:10:04,791 don't think they're like, 383 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:07,375 I don't think they're like, oh yeah, 384 01:10:07,375 --> 01:10:08,166 Sean's always throwing 385 01:10:08,166 --> 01:10:09,333 negative karma out there, 386 01:10:09,416 --> 01:10:11,375 negative juju, like he's gonna get, 387 01:10:11,666 --> 01:10:12,875 he's gonna get it coming to him. 388 01:10:13,208 --> 01:10:13,916 Yeah, I don't think so. 389 01:10:14,666 --> 01:10:15,583 I mean, and it just, 390 01:10:16,250 --> 01:10:18,166 because the other one may have been, 391 01:10:18,166 --> 01:10:20,875 and this, it still irks our daughter, 392 01:10:21,916 --> 01:10:24,541 because she was riding 393 01:10:24,541 --> 01:10:26,666 scooters with her friends 394 01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:27,833 through a neighborhood 395 01:10:27,833 --> 01:10:29,125 just at the end of our street, 396 01:10:30,208 --> 01:10:33,375 and they got off the 397 01:10:33,375 --> 01:10:34,791 path, they saw a turtle, 398 01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:35,916 and so they got off the 399 01:10:35,916 --> 01:10:37,208 path to like help this turtle 400 01:10:37,208 --> 01:10:38,458 into this little stream, right? 401 01:10:38,500 --> 01:10:39,708 There's this little stream going through, 402 01:10:41,041 --> 01:10:43,541 and there was a lady who 403 01:10:43,541 --> 01:10:45,625 started yelling at them, 404 01:10:45,833 --> 01:10:46,666 you're trespassing, 405 01:10:46,666 --> 01:10:47,791 you're on private property. 406 01:10:48,208 --> 01:10:48,916 First of all, there is no 407 01:10:48,916 --> 01:10:50,375 sign that says private property, 408 01:10:50,958 --> 01:10:52,041 so I mean, keep in mind, 409 01:10:52,291 --> 01:10:54,666 we have very young teenage, 410 01:10:55,250 --> 01:10:57,000 you know, tween type 411 01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,666 girls, like at 11 a.m., 412 01:10:59,666 --> 01:11:01,125 so this isn't like in the 413 01:11:01,125 --> 01:11:02,791 evening, no spray paint, 414 01:11:02,791 --> 01:11:03,416 like doing nothing 415 01:11:03,416 --> 01:11:04,541 other than helping a turtle 416 01:11:04,541 --> 01:11:06,000 into the water, which, 417 01:11:06,458 --> 01:11:07,333 okay, who knows if the turtle 418 01:11:07,458 --> 01:11:08,166 wanted to go in the 419 01:11:08,166 --> 01:11:09,500 water, but in their minds, 420 01:11:09,500 --> 01:11:10,541 that turtle needed help. 421 01:11:12,083 --> 01:11:14,416 Anyway, she just 422 01:11:14,416 --> 01:11:15,750 started screaming at them, 423 01:11:15,750 --> 01:11:16,916 and they're like, "Yes ma'am, yes ma'am," 424 01:11:16,916 --> 01:11:18,458 and they got on their scooters and 425 01:11:18,458 --> 01:11:20,125 started scootering away, 426 01:11:20,375 --> 01:11:22,291 and they were in such a hurry 427 01:11:22,291 --> 01:11:23,541 that actually one of the girls fell and 428 01:11:23,541 --> 01:11:24,416 really hurt herself, 429 01:11:25,208 --> 01:11:26,666 and this woman has her 430 01:11:26,666 --> 01:11:28,375 camera on on her phone, 431 01:11:28,375 --> 01:11:29,833 and is like, "You're on camera," 432 01:11:30,166 --> 01:11:31,000 and starts yelling at 433 01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:32,333 them and chasing them, 434 01:11:32,833 --> 01:11:35,791 and I was like, "Wow." 435 01:11:36,791 --> 01:11:39,750 Like, these three young 436 01:11:39,750 --> 01:11:42,708 girls are not vandalizing 437 01:11:42,708 --> 01:11:43,583 your property, like 438 01:11:43,583 --> 01:11:45,125 they probably didn't know, 439 01:11:45,125 --> 01:11:46,166 like why wouldn't you just give them 440 01:11:46,166 --> 01:11:47,458 the benefit of the doubt? 441 01:11:47,458 --> 01:11:48,291 Like, why is this 442 01:11:48,291 --> 01:11:51,416 person so angry and so upset? 443 01:11:52,916 --> 01:11:53,958 I didn't get it, but I 444 01:11:53,958 --> 01:11:54,666 did tell our daughter, 445 01:11:54,666 --> 01:11:55,500 I was like, "Well, you 446 01:11:55,500 --> 01:11:56,541 know what, karma's real." 447 01:11:57,791 --> 01:11:59,416 Like, I have no idea what's 448 01:11:59,416 --> 01:12:01,000 going on in that woman's life 449 01:12:01,625 --> 01:12:03,791 that she needed to be a Karen and 450 01:12:03,791 --> 01:12:06,625 completely chase them. 451 01:12:07,125 --> 01:12:08,208 Literally chase after 452 01:12:08,208 --> 01:12:09,708 three young girls on a scooter. 453 01:12:10,125 --> 01:12:11,791 Yeah, no, I'm glad you told that one, 454 01:12:11,791 --> 01:12:12,333 because that was one of 455 01:12:12,333 --> 01:12:13,125 the ones that happened too, 456 01:12:13,125 --> 01:12:14,250 and I was like, "Are you kidding me?" 457 01:12:14,250 --> 01:12:15,458 So I did throw some shade on that, 458 01:12:15,458 --> 01:12:15,833 because I think I 459 01:12:15,833 --> 01:12:16,750 know where the lady was, 460 01:12:16,750 --> 01:12:17,750 because I run that way. 461 01:12:18,250 --> 01:12:19,500 I don't run the way they were, 462 01:12:19,500 --> 01:12:20,916 but I kind of connect with 463 01:12:20,916 --> 01:12:22,083 it at the very end of that, 464 01:12:22,083 --> 01:12:23,166 and there was a lady right there, 465 01:12:23,166 --> 01:12:24,458 which is where I think it happened, 466 01:12:25,041 --> 01:12:26,500 who was outside of her gate, 467 01:12:27,166 --> 01:12:27,708 and there's a little 468 01:12:27,708 --> 01:12:28,875 bit more to that story, 469 01:12:29,958 --> 01:12:32,000 because the way this, so 470 01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:32,666 picture a neighborhood, 471 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:34,166 all the houses back 472 01:12:34,166 --> 01:12:35,125 to one another, right? 473 01:12:35,166 --> 01:12:37,125 So backyard to backyard, okay? 474 01:12:37,791 --> 01:12:39,416 However, between those backyards 475 01:12:39,416 --> 01:12:41,541 is a drainage like river, right? 476 01:12:41,541 --> 01:12:43,333 It might get, at the biggest point, 477 01:12:43,333 --> 01:12:44,333 it's like 10 feet wide, some 478 01:12:44,333 --> 01:12:46,625 places it's five feet wide. 479 01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:48,625 We had just done some work on it to like, 480 01:12:48,625 --> 01:12:49,458 because it was eroding, so 481 01:12:49,458 --> 01:12:50,041 they were doing some work, 482 01:12:50,541 --> 01:12:53,541 but those backyards go together in there, 483 01:12:53,541 --> 01:12:56,041 so it's a big green area there, right? 484 01:12:56,041 --> 01:12:59,333 So really, most of them have fences 485 01:12:59,541 --> 01:13:00,875 that stop well before 486 01:13:00,875 --> 01:13:02,500 that, like 20 feet before that. 487 01:13:03,041 --> 01:13:03,708 And then there's a 488 01:13:03,708 --> 01:13:05,958 sidewalk, a walking, jogging path, 489 01:13:05,958 --> 01:13:07,375 a wide five foot sidewalk, 490 01:13:07,750 --> 01:13:09,625 that goes all the way between there. 491 01:13:09,666 --> 01:13:09,875 Yep. 492 01:13:10,458 --> 01:13:11,875 Off of the public sidewalks. 493 01:13:12,125 --> 01:13:13,750 Now, the only caveat I 494 01:13:13,750 --> 01:13:14,583 would have given that lady 495 01:13:14,958 --> 01:13:16,000 was the fact that that 496 01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:17,041 sidewalk that they were on 497 01:13:17,041 --> 01:13:19,333 right there, it does say post it, 498 01:13:19,333 --> 01:13:20,708 it's for HOA residents only. 499 01:13:21,250 --> 01:13:22,791 And I don't know the locks, 500 01:13:22,791 --> 01:13:24,083 I know I believe 501 01:13:24,083 --> 01:13:26,083 regular sidewalks are public, 502 01:13:26,625 --> 01:13:28,083 but because that was not a sidewalk 503 01:13:28,083 --> 01:13:29,958 that was next to a 504 01:13:29,958 --> 01:13:31,291 street, a public street, 505 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:32,333 you know what I mean? 506 01:13:32,583 --> 01:13:33,458 That might've been private. 507 01:13:33,958 --> 01:13:35,750 How she didn't know, how she knew 508 01:13:36,333 --> 01:13:37,083 they weren't in that, 509 01:13:37,416 --> 01:13:39,000 from that neighborhood, 510 01:13:39,458 --> 01:13:40,208 I don't know that. 511 01:13:40,583 --> 01:13:41,208 I mean, we're in that 512 01:13:41,208 --> 01:13:42,291 neighborhood all the time. 513 01:13:42,333 --> 01:13:42,791 All the time. 514 01:13:42,875 --> 01:13:43,625 Because we live right next to them. 515 01:13:43,708 --> 01:13:44,708 People in the neighborhood all the time, 516 01:13:44,708 --> 01:13:45,708 the guy that walks there, 517 01:13:45,708 --> 01:13:47,791 because I run there every day, almost, 518 01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:48,708 every other day at least. 519 01:13:49,250 --> 01:13:50,791 I know all the people that are there. 520 01:13:51,208 --> 01:13:51,750 And there's people 521 01:13:51,750 --> 01:13:53,291 there fishing all the time 522 01:13:53,291 --> 01:13:54,916 in their pond that aren't from there, 523 01:13:54,916 --> 01:13:55,875 because I see them literally 524 01:13:55,875 --> 01:13:56,750 drive into the neighborhood 525 01:13:56,750 --> 01:13:58,916 in their car, park it, get 526 01:13:58,916 --> 01:14:00,041 out with all their stuff. 527 01:14:00,041 --> 01:14:01,041 Now, if you lived in that neighborhood, 528 01:14:01,125 --> 01:14:02,000 you just walked down there. 529 01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:02,625 You just walked there, yeah. 530 01:14:03,208 --> 01:14:04,416 So the fact that she 531 01:14:04,416 --> 01:14:05,958 attacked our children that way, 532 01:14:07,875 --> 01:14:09,291 with them not doing anything, 533 01:14:09,291 --> 01:14:10,500 I mean, they look 534 01:14:10,500 --> 01:14:11,500 like little girls still. 535 01:14:11,875 --> 01:14:12,375 They do. 536 01:14:12,833 --> 01:14:14,250 It'd be one thing if they were like, 537 01:14:14,250 --> 01:14:15,625 and I saw how they were dressed that day 538 01:14:15,625 --> 01:14:16,291 and stuff like that. 539 01:14:16,291 --> 01:14:18,125 It's not like they had 540 01:14:18,125 --> 01:14:20,750 chains and baggy pants 541 01:14:20,750 --> 01:14:21,958 and had goth makeup 542 01:14:21,958 --> 01:14:22,875 on and stuff like that. 543 01:14:23,125 --> 01:14:23,666 They were just little 544 01:14:23,666 --> 01:14:26,000 girls riding scooters. 545 01:14:26,791 --> 01:14:28,666 With helmets, by the way. 546 01:14:28,916 --> 01:14:31,333 So clearly they are responsible enough 547 01:14:31,541 --> 01:14:33,208 to be wearing helmets. 548 01:14:34,166 --> 01:14:36,083 I didn't run by that lady later that day, 549 01:14:36,083 --> 01:14:36,625 because I was kind of 550 01:14:36,625 --> 01:14:37,625 on the lookout for her. 551 01:14:38,958 --> 01:14:41,583 And she smiled at me kind of, I think. 552 01:14:42,166 --> 01:14:43,500 She's getting into wave at me, 553 01:14:43,833 --> 01:14:45,125 and I looked away kind of 554 01:14:45,125 --> 01:14:46,541 just as she was starting to wave. 555 01:14:47,125 --> 01:14:49,333 And it took a lot in me to do it, 556 01:14:49,333 --> 01:14:50,625 and I give this smile, 557 01:14:50,625 --> 01:14:52,708 because I think I'm a friendly person. 558 01:14:53,791 --> 01:14:55,666 Now, rub me the wrong way, 559 01:14:56,125 --> 01:14:58,416 and I'm happy to label 560 01:14:58,416 --> 01:14:59,416 you and leave you behind. 561 01:15:00,250 --> 01:15:01,000 I'm not gonna be mean, 562 01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:01,750 I'm not gonna be angry, 563 01:15:01,750 --> 01:15:02,791 I'm not gonna do what 564 01:15:02,791 --> 01:15:03,916 I can to destroy you. 565 01:15:04,416 --> 01:15:06,541 But I learned a long time ago, 566 01:15:06,541 --> 01:15:08,166 I'm not doing to invest in people 567 01:15:08,833 --> 01:15:10,875 that aren't worth investing in. 568 01:15:10,916 --> 01:15:11,958 Right, right, they're not 569 01:15:11,958 --> 01:15:13,208 gonna invest anything in you, 570 01:15:13,416 --> 01:15:14,541 and yeah, only put 571 01:15:14,541 --> 01:15:15,750 negativity in your life. 572 01:15:15,750 --> 01:15:17,000 Like, okay, you're in your spot. 573 01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:18,666 And so that lady was like that, I think. 574 01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:20,500 But even today on my run, I was like, 575 01:15:21,208 --> 01:15:21,958 I was thinking of what I 576 01:15:21,958 --> 01:15:22,958 would say to that lady. 577 01:15:23,375 --> 01:15:24,375 Did you happen to 578 01:15:24,375 --> 01:15:25,958 chase three little girls 579 01:15:26,083 --> 01:15:27,625 on their scooters down last week? 580 01:15:27,750 --> 01:15:28,000 Right. 581 01:15:28,041 --> 01:15:29,625 I was like, one of those was my daughter. 582 01:15:29,625 --> 01:15:30,750 One of them actually fell and 583 01:15:30,750 --> 01:15:31,833 actually injured their knee. 584 01:15:32,375 --> 01:15:32,916 Pretty badly. 585 01:15:32,916 --> 01:15:35,375 Pretty badly, because you were chasing 586 01:15:35,500 --> 01:15:36,541 three 13-year-old 587 01:15:36,541 --> 01:15:38,250 children who were just looking 588 01:15:38,250 --> 01:15:40,833 at a turtle off of sidewalk, 589 01:15:41,666 --> 01:15:42,583 really which is a green 590 01:15:42,583 --> 01:15:43,500 space in your neighborhood. 591 01:15:43,875 --> 01:15:45,125 Right, and I mean, 592 01:15:45,125 --> 01:15:46,541 they would have no idea. 593 01:15:46,541 --> 01:15:47,958 They don't know how to property. 594 01:15:48,625 --> 01:15:49,333 Yeah, let me give you a-- 595 01:15:49,375 --> 01:15:50,666 I mean, they didn't hop a 596 01:15:50,666 --> 01:15:51,750 fence into someone's yard. 597 01:15:52,083 --> 01:15:53,208 They know better than that, 598 01:15:53,291 --> 01:15:55,208 but it's an open green space that, 599 01:15:56,041 --> 01:15:57,500 if you know, you know, 600 01:15:57,500 --> 01:15:58,625 I guess that it's owned. 601 01:15:58,916 --> 01:15:59,125 Right. 602 01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:00,875 But a young-- 603 01:16:00,875 --> 01:16:01,083 Good point. 604 01:16:01,291 --> 01:16:02,291 At that age, I remember 605 01:16:02,291 --> 01:16:03,500 hopping people's fences, 606 01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:04,500 and they'd be like, 607 01:16:04,750 --> 01:16:05,500 get out of my backyard, 608 01:16:05,791 --> 01:16:06,833 because I'd be like hopping here. 609 01:16:07,208 --> 01:16:08,125 There were times where 610 01:16:08,125 --> 01:16:09,083 I would walk, you know-- 611 01:16:09,333 --> 01:16:10,500 You would hop over 612 01:16:10,500 --> 01:16:11,750 fences into people's yard? 613 01:16:12,166 --> 01:16:13,250 To get through their yard 614 01:16:13,250 --> 01:16:14,208 to another one sometimes, 615 01:16:14,208 --> 01:16:15,041 I would do that, yeah. 616 01:16:15,791 --> 01:16:17,375 There was times I would hop a fence 617 01:16:17,375 --> 01:16:18,166 and I wouldn't even get 618 01:16:18,166 --> 01:16:18,958 one in their backyard. 619 01:16:19,458 --> 01:16:20,875 I would walk on the top plank, 620 01:16:21,458 --> 01:16:25,208 like a, what's the, like a bounce beam. 621 01:16:25,541 --> 01:16:27,000 You know how they had that top wood plank 622 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:28,500 all the way across the wood fences? 623 01:16:29,083 --> 01:16:30,458 I would just walk the 624 01:16:30,458 --> 01:16:31,500 whole length on top of that. 625 01:16:32,541 --> 01:16:33,625 So it's like I wasn't even in their, 626 01:16:33,958 --> 01:16:34,958 I wasn't even in their yard, 627 01:16:35,208 --> 01:16:35,750 but you know, those 628 01:16:35,750 --> 01:16:37,000 fences weren't very strong, 629 01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:37,833 so sometimes they 630 01:16:37,833 --> 01:16:38,833 would sway a little bit. 631 01:16:40,083 --> 01:16:41,041 I didn't do that all the time, 632 01:16:41,041 --> 01:16:41,791 but when I was a kid, 633 01:16:42,208 --> 01:16:42,958 fifth grade, sixth grade, 634 01:16:42,958 --> 01:16:44,000 I didn't think twice about that. 635 01:16:44,625 --> 01:16:45,333 Like, oh, I'm sorry, 636 01:16:45,333 --> 01:16:46,416 you didn't want me in your backyard? 637 01:16:47,083 --> 01:16:47,916 News to me. 638 01:16:48,416 --> 01:16:50,416 Right, like I'm just doing me, 639 01:16:50,916 --> 01:16:52,541 and this, you know, 640 01:16:52,541 --> 01:16:53,291 I'm smart enough to know 641 01:16:53,291 --> 01:16:54,583 that the fastest point, 642 01:16:54,583 --> 01:16:55,500 or the fastest direction 643 01:16:55,625 --> 01:16:56,750 between two things is this 644 01:16:56,750 --> 01:16:57,833 direct line in between them. 645 01:16:58,083 --> 01:16:58,583 Fifth grader had no 646 01:16:58,583 --> 01:16:59,833 idea you would be upset 647 01:16:59,833 --> 01:17:00,833 that I was on your grass. 648 01:17:01,500 --> 01:17:02,416 Right, right. 649 01:17:02,500 --> 01:17:03,541 In your fenced in backyard. 650 01:17:03,916 --> 01:17:04,833 Now I totally get it. 651 01:17:04,833 --> 01:17:05,541 Like I got a kid running 652 01:17:05,541 --> 01:17:06,500 through my backyard right now. 653 01:17:06,500 --> 01:17:07,708 I'd be like, dude, what are you doing? 654 01:17:07,750 --> 01:17:08,375 Right, right. 655 01:17:08,666 --> 01:17:09,125 You know? 656 01:17:09,875 --> 01:17:12,916 Exactly, but I mean, as a child, 657 01:17:13,166 --> 01:17:14,500 like are you really paying attention? 658 01:17:14,500 --> 01:17:16,083 And again, they weren't in 659 01:17:16,083 --> 01:17:17,458 someone's fenced in yard. 660 01:17:17,500 --> 01:17:19,083 That's the whole point. 661 01:17:19,750 --> 01:17:21,875 She would actually know better than that. 662 01:17:22,041 --> 01:17:22,250 Yeah. 663 01:17:22,708 --> 01:17:24,041 Because even still, like, you know, 664 01:17:24,041 --> 01:17:24,875 if a ball goes over 665 01:17:24,875 --> 01:17:26,375 the fence, our children, 666 01:17:26,583 --> 01:17:28,291 and I like to think this is because 667 01:17:28,291 --> 01:17:30,000 they're good human beings, 668 01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:30,875 but like to them, they're like, 669 01:17:30,875 --> 01:17:31,666 I still feel like I should 670 01:17:31,666 --> 01:17:32,833 knock on my neighbor's door. 671 01:17:32,833 --> 01:17:33,833 Even though the neighbor has said, 672 01:17:33,833 --> 01:17:35,000 if you put a ball over the fence, 673 01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:36,708 just go in the backyard and get it. 674 01:17:36,958 --> 01:17:37,500 It's okay. 675 01:17:37,833 --> 01:17:38,666 But our kids are still 676 01:17:38,666 --> 01:17:39,750 like, I still feel bad. 677 01:17:39,750 --> 01:17:40,416 I feel like I should 678 01:17:40,416 --> 01:17:41,666 knock and let them know. 679 01:17:41,708 --> 01:17:41,958 Yeah. 680 01:17:42,500 --> 01:17:43,833 Right, it's the responsible thing. 681 01:17:44,125 --> 01:17:46,000 Yeah, I think, yeah, I agree with that. 682 01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:47,791 And I think just like that point, 683 01:17:47,791 --> 01:17:49,666 and I think it's ingrained in people, 684 01:17:49,666 --> 01:17:50,500 and I feel like for me, 685 01:17:50,500 --> 01:17:51,541 that's one reason why I feel like 686 01:17:51,541 --> 01:17:53,916 I don't think I'm a bad person at heart, 687 01:17:54,541 --> 01:17:56,750 which I mean, I'd 688 01:17:56,750 --> 01:17:57,875 like to say, no, I'm not. 689 01:17:57,875 --> 01:17:59,000 I'm old enough to know I don't think I'm 690 01:17:59,000 --> 01:17:59,833 a bad person at heart. 691 01:18:00,208 --> 01:18:01,916 But when I have those like 692 01:18:01,916 --> 01:18:03,208 uncomfortable interactions 693 01:18:03,208 --> 01:18:05,750 with other humans, it bothers me. 694 01:18:06,291 --> 01:18:07,333 I still remember pulling 695 01:18:07,333 --> 01:18:08,791 out of our driveway one time 696 01:18:09,500 --> 01:18:11,541 in one of our bigger cars. 697 01:18:11,666 --> 01:18:12,041 Yeah. 698 01:18:12,083 --> 01:18:13,208 And I had to take it wide 699 01:18:13,208 --> 01:18:14,958 and then kind of come back, 700 01:18:14,958 --> 01:18:16,291 but on the right side of the road, 701 01:18:16,291 --> 01:18:17,541 and there was a lady walking 702 01:18:17,541 --> 01:18:18,666 on the right side of the road, 703 01:18:19,916 --> 01:18:21,750 and our road's thin, so 704 01:18:21,750 --> 01:18:22,833 there's not sidewalks there. 705 01:18:22,833 --> 01:18:23,750 You can't ride it on a sidewalk. 706 01:18:24,166 --> 01:18:25,500 There's barely even room, honestly, 707 01:18:25,500 --> 01:18:27,500 for two cars to go by side by side. 708 01:18:27,500 --> 01:18:28,958 You can't go by regular speed. 709 01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:30,416 Yeah, so you actually had to slow down 710 01:18:30,416 --> 01:18:31,250 and really get close to 711 01:18:31,250 --> 01:18:32,250 the side for people to go by. 712 01:18:32,250 --> 01:18:33,250 It's just, we just have a 713 01:18:33,250 --> 01:18:35,750 skinny road that we live on, 714 01:18:36,166 --> 01:18:37,666 and a lady was walking on 715 01:18:37,666 --> 01:18:39,875 it, like three feet into it. 716 01:18:40,083 --> 01:18:41,083 And you know, if 717 01:18:41,083 --> 01:18:42,541 you're three feet into it, 718 01:18:42,541 --> 01:18:44,166 you're two feet from the middle of it. 719 01:18:44,250 --> 01:18:44,875 Right, right. 720 01:18:44,916 --> 01:18:45,875 On our street, right? 721 01:18:45,875 --> 01:18:46,625 It's a small road, yeah. 722 01:18:46,666 --> 01:18:47,708 And so I just pulled out. 723 01:18:47,708 --> 01:18:48,916 I had just pulled out, 724 01:18:48,916 --> 01:18:50,125 which I had to take a wide turn 725 01:18:50,125 --> 01:18:51,208 because it's a wide van. 726 01:18:51,208 --> 01:18:52,750 Right, right. 727 01:18:53,458 --> 01:18:55,208 And I'm pulling back 728 01:18:55,208 --> 01:18:56,083 towards the middle there, 729 01:18:56,416 --> 01:18:59,000 and she is yelling at me from the street, 730 01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:00,083 like I'm gonna hit her. 731 01:19:00,666 --> 01:19:03,041 And I'm like motioning to her, like, 732 01:19:03,041 --> 01:19:04,541 I didn't hit you, lady, and 733 01:19:04,541 --> 01:19:06,083 I'm still 20 feet from you. 734 01:19:06,083 --> 01:19:06,791 What are you mad about? 735 01:19:07,083 --> 01:19:09,125 And I'm still actively moving over. 736 01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:11,250 She was so mad at me. 737 01:19:11,250 --> 01:19:12,083 I've not seen her walk 738 01:19:12,083 --> 01:19:13,291 on our street since then. 739 01:19:13,291 --> 01:19:13,791 Maybe she does. 740 01:19:15,166 --> 01:19:16,708 But I felt bad because it was like, 741 01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:18,791 she immediately was so mad at me. 742 01:19:18,916 --> 01:19:19,250 Right. 743 01:19:19,291 --> 01:19:21,041 And I was gesturing at her, like, 744 01:19:21,041 --> 01:19:22,291 I didn't hit you, and 745 01:19:22,291 --> 01:19:23,833 I'm 20 feet from you still. 746 01:19:24,541 --> 01:19:26,541 And you're like cussing me out, 747 01:19:26,958 --> 01:19:28,791 and you just saw where I came out of, 748 01:19:28,791 --> 01:19:29,791 so you know where I live. 749 01:19:29,833 --> 01:19:30,166 Right. 750 01:19:30,166 --> 01:19:31,458 Which makes it even more comfortable 751 01:19:31,458 --> 01:19:32,708 because it's like, now you think the guy 752 01:19:32,708 --> 01:19:34,000 that lives in that house is a jerk. 753 01:19:34,041 --> 01:19:34,625 Jerk, right. 754 01:19:34,916 --> 01:19:35,541 You know, it's like, 755 01:19:35,875 --> 01:19:37,708 I'm not you overreacted. 756 01:19:37,833 --> 01:19:38,458 Right, right. 757 01:19:38,708 --> 01:19:41,541 I saw you, I was being safe, like. 758 01:19:44,500 --> 01:19:45,250 I mean, it's just one of 759 01:19:45,250 --> 01:19:46,250 those things in human nature 760 01:19:46,416 --> 01:19:47,458 where everybody thinks they're right. 761 01:19:47,958 --> 01:19:48,125 Yes. 762 01:19:48,125 --> 01:19:48,541 You know what I mean? 763 01:19:48,541 --> 01:19:49,041 And that's where I 764 01:19:49,041 --> 01:19:49,875 don't want to be the person 765 01:19:49,875 --> 01:19:50,958 that's naive like 766 01:19:50,958 --> 01:19:52,083 other people are sometimes, 767 01:19:52,458 --> 01:19:53,500 thinking all the time, 768 01:19:53,500 --> 01:19:55,000 like, well, I'm right. 769 01:19:56,125 --> 01:19:56,916 Because there's been plenty 770 01:19:56,916 --> 01:19:57,916 of times I have been wrong. 771 01:19:58,291 --> 01:19:59,125 And like, if I am, I 772 01:19:59,125 --> 01:20:00,166 usually try to apologize 773 01:20:01,250 --> 01:20:03,583 in a situation like that, but I rarely, 774 01:20:03,958 --> 01:20:06,625 am I trying to be offensive to somebody. 775 01:20:06,666 --> 01:20:06,875 Right. 776 01:20:07,791 --> 01:20:08,833 No, you don't look for 777 01:20:08,833 --> 01:20:10,083 reasons to be offended at people. 778 01:20:10,708 --> 01:20:10,833 Yeah. 779 01:20:11,166 --> 01:20:12,791 And you actually, honestly, if you're, 780 01:20:13,458 --> 01:20:14,291 this is not you. 781 01:20:14,708 --> 01:20:16,333 If humans, maybe this is 782 01:20:16,333 --> 01:20:18,333 just me, are in the right mood, 783 01:20:18,333 --> 01:20:19,416 you can be easily offended 784 01:20:19,416 --> 01:20:20,541 by just about everything. 785 01:20:20,541 --> 01:20:22,291 Like, I could look 786 01:20:22,291 --> 01:20:24,541 for offenses everywhere. 787 01:20:25,041 --> 01:20:25,250 For sure. 788 01:20:25,250 --> 01:20:25,875 I don't. 789 01:20:26,125 --> 01:20:26,541 For sure. 790 01:20:26,583 --> 01:20:29,291 That really is against my nature. 791 01:20:29,291 --> 01:20:29,541 Yeah. 792 01:20:31,166 --> 01:20:32,000 But I truly think 793 01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:33,875 that I could be offended 794 01:20:33,958 --> 01:20:35,208 100% of the time. 795 01:20:35,333 --> 01:20:36,958 And those are the worst days. 796 01:20:37,541 --> 01:20:37,750 Yeah. 797 01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:38,666 Because it's like, you 798 01:20:38,666 --> 01:20:39,625 know you're in that mood 799 01:20:39,625 --> 01:20:40,166 and it's like, I'm 800 01:20:40,166 --> 01:20:41,666 just, everything's downhill. 801 01:20:41,750 --> 01:20:42,041 Yeah. 802 01:20:42,833 --> 01:20:43,916 And I'm just getting upset perspective. 803 01:20:44,916 --> 01:20:45,708 Even then though, I 804 01:20:45,708 --> 01:20:46,958 wouldn't take it out on the person, 805 01:20:46,958 --> 01:20:48,333 other on the highway, right? 806 01:20:48,333 --> 01:20:49,250 I'll yell at people in the 807 01:20:49,250 --> 01:20:51,083 car in front of me and whatnot. 808 01:20:51,458 --> 01:20:52,583 You can't, they can't hear you. 809 01:20:52,625 --> 01:20:53,458 Yeah, but I'm not like, 810 01:20:53,458 --> 01:20:54,666 I'm not the guy rolling down 811 01:20:54,666 --> 01:20:56,416 my window, you know, giving 812 01:20:56,416 --> 01:20:57,875 them a thumbs up, you know, 813 01:20:57,875 --> 01:20:58,791 as I drive by. 814 01:20:58,916 --> 01:20:59,208 Right, right. 815 01:20:59,250 --> 01:21:00,500 You know, I just, you 816 01:21:00,500 --> 01:21:01,500 know, I'm doing it all 817 01:21:01,500 --> 01:21:02,833 in the privacy of my car 818 01:21:02,833 --> 01:21:04,625 and for my family to hear me. 819 01:21:05,625 --> 01:21:05,833 (laughing) 820 01:21:06,125 --> 01:21:07,541 You're just teaching your 821 01:21:07,541 --> 01:21:08,791 kids how to yell at other kids. 822 01:21:09,125 --> 01:21:09,916 But I think I brought it 823 01:21:09,916 --> 01:21:11,000 up once before on this, 824 01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:11,708 but I'll never, I mean, 825 01:21:11,708 --> 01:21:12,375 you know, other people, 826 01:21:12,625 --> 01:21:13,458 I know are the same way, 827 01:21:13,666 --> 01:21:14,708 like Will Arnett brought up 828 01:21:14,708 --> 01:21:16,583 on his podcast that 829 01:21:16,583 --> 01:21:18,500 if he's in a good mood 830 01:21:18,500 --> 01:21:21,666 when he's driving, everything's great. 831 01:21:21,791 --> 01:21:22,000 Right. 832 01:21:22,416 --> 01:21:23,541 Like people can cut him off 833 01:21:23,541 --> 01:21:25,000 and he's like, no big deal, 834 01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:25,833 go ahead, you got 835 01:21:25,833 --> 01:21:27,083 somewhere to be, I'm all good. 836 01:21:27,500 --> 01:21:28,208 But if he gets in 837 01:21:28,208 --> 01:21:29,125 that car behind the wheel 838 01:21:29,125 --> 01:21:30,250 and he's in a bad mood, 839 01:21:30,708 --> 01:21:31,958 same exact thing happens. 840 01:21:32,458 --> 01:21:34,375 And he's like, he loses his stuff. 841 01:21:34,416 --> 01:21:34,625 Yeah. 842 01:21:34,916 --> 01:21:36,291 Because he approached it 843 01:21:36,291 --> 01:21:37,916 from a negative perspective. 844 01:21:37,958 --> 01:21:38,125 Right. 845 01:21:38,416 --> 01:21:39,458 And now everything's negative. 846 01:21:39,958 --> 01:21:41,750 So true, it's so true. 847 01:21:42,375 --> 01:21:45,000 I was tested this morning even, 848 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:47,625 6.30 in the morning I'm driving 849 01:21:47,625 --> 01:21:49,000 and there is someone driving 850 01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:51,458 anywhere from 10 to 15 miles 851 01:21:51,791 --> 01:21:53,458 below the speed limit. 852 01:21:54,541 --> 01:21:55,500 And I'm like, and 853 01:21:55,500 --> 01:21:56,958 it's kind of a hilly road 854 01:21:56,958 --> 01:21:58,083 so I can't really go 855 01:21:58,083 --> 01:21:59,250 around them or anything. 856 01:22:00,166 --> 01:22:00,916 I was just like, what? 857 01:22:01,291 --> 01:22:02,125 Oh, you're stuck behind. 858 01:22:02,125 --> 01:22:02,916 What are you doing? 859 01:22:02,916 --> 01:22:04,000 Yeah, and you're just stuck behind him 860 01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:05,250 and now the line of cars, 861 01:22:05,250 --> 01:22:06,166 even at 6.30 in the morning 862 01:22:06,166 --> 01:22:09,541 was like on my butt, obviously, 863 01:22:10,250 --> 01:22:11,125 and you kind of want to be like, 864 01:22:11,166 --> 01:22:12,750 hey guys, it's not me, it's really the 865 01:22:12,750 --> 01:22:13,708 person in front of me 866 01:22:13,708 --> 01:22:15,000 and you want to tell them 867 01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:16,333 all, it's not me, it's not me. 868 01:22:16,583 --> 01:22:17,333 I do tell people. 869 01:22:17,958 --> 01:22:19,708 I swerve a little bit, like slowly, 870 01:22:19,916 --> 01:22:20,375 just so people can see the car. 871 01:22:20,416 --> 01:22:21,375 Just so they can see that 872 01:22:21,375 --> 01:22:22,416 there's someone in front of you. 873 01:22:22,541 --> 01:22:25,250 Well, once it opened up to an extra lane, 874 01:22:25,250 --> 01:22:27,416 they could see, because I passed them 875 01:22:27,416 --> 01:22:28,541 going the speed limit. 876 01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:31,250 I was like flying past 877 01:22:31,250 --> 01:22:34,583 them, going 30 miles an hour. 878 01:22:35,375 --> 01:22:36,958 That person probably had no idea. 879 01:22:37,208 --> 01:22:38,208 Probably no idea. 880 01:22:38,625 --> 01:22:40,666 Even though 15 cars just passed them. 881 01:22:41,875 --> 01:22:43,708 I'm pointing to every stop sign 882 01:22:43,708 --> 01:22:45,416 like they can actually see me. 883 01:22:45,416 --> 01:22:46,625 This person is aware 884 01:22:46,625 --> 01:22:47,708 enough to see the person 885 01:22:47,708 --> 01:22:48,583 in the car behind them. 886 01:22:48,583 --> 01:22:49,833 I'm pointing to the sign like, 887 01:22:50,125 --> 01:22:51,958 and I am not a super fast driver. 888 01:22:52,458 --> 01:22:53,083 You know this. 889 01:22:54,291 --> 01:22:55,708 Everyone can say this, if 890 01:22:55,708 --> 01:22:57,083 you are going the speed limit, 891 01:22:57,083 --> 01:22:58,500 I am not going to get mad at you. 892 01:22:58,875 --> 01:22:59,416 I'm not. 893 01:23:00,791 --> 01:23:01,083 I am. 894 01:23:02,416 --> 01:23:05,333 You might, but you know what? 895 01:23:05,541 --> 01:23:06,916 That's not something I get mad at. 896 01:23:06,916 --> 01:23:07,750 That's my threshold of 897 01:23:07,750 --> 01:23:08,666 you're at least going 898 01:23:08,666 --> 01:23:09,583 the speed limit, whatever. 899 01:23:09,833 --> 01:23:11,166 I want to go faster, but it's fine. 900 01:23:13,208 --> 01:23:15,416 But this, I was like, dude, 901 01:23:15,666 --> 01:23:19,166 you're going 15 for a long time. 902 01:23:19,666 --> 01:23:21,208 But that got you mad though off the bat. 903 01:23:21,500 --> 01:23:22,916 Were you able to recover from that? 904 01:23:22,916 --> 01:23:23,750 Because that's the other part of it. 905 01:23:23,750 --> 01:23:24,166 You got to be able to 906 01:23:24,166 --> 01:23:25,083 recover from things, 907 01:23:25,083 --> 01:23:25,583 especially driving. 908 01:23:25,916 --> 01:23:27,000 I was, I was. 909 01:23:27,500 --> 01:23:29,083 It was still too early that I 910 01:23:29,083 --> 01:23:30,583 didn't let that set my mood. 911 01:23:31,291 --> 01:23:32,166 Didn't help that it was 912 01:23:32,166 --> 01:23:33,541 your first back to work day. 913 01:23:34,125 --> 01:23:35,166 Back in the office day. 914 01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:36,833 After we've all been home 915 01:23:36,833 --> 01:23:38,416 for COVID for five years. 916 01:23:38,666 --> 01:23:39,500 Yeah, so it's like, it 917 01:23:39,500 --> 01:23:41,041 just set the tone for the day. 918 01:23:42,416 --> 01:23:44,916 I was like, but whatever. 919 01:23:45,791 --> 01:23:47,166 Yes, you can always 920 01:23:47,166 --> 01:23:48,708 look, I guess to that point, 921 01:23:48,708 --> 01:23:49,583 like you just, you can 922 01:23:49,583 --> 01:23:51,250 always look for the offense there. 923 01:23:51,500 --> 01:23:51,666 Yeah. 924 01:23:52,208 --> 01:23:53,916 It's too easy and I wish it wasn't. 925 01:23:54,250 --> 01:23:54,750 Well, it's like I said 926 01:23:54,750 --> 01:23:55,583 to the kids this weekend, 927 01:23:55,583 --> 01:23:57,833 like we just, we are go-go family. 928 01:23:58,041 --> 01:24:00,500 Everybody knows that we're high strong. 929 01:24:00,875 --> 01:24:02,291 We just constantly have somewhere to be. 930 01:24:02,291 --> 01:24:03,083 There's never downtime 931 01:24:03,083 --> 01:24:05,250 and when there is, we crash. 932 01:24:05,833 --> 01:24:07,166 You know, we don't do anything. 933 01:24:07,208 --> 01:24:08,875 We crash and the family crashes. 934 01:24:09,541 --> 01:24:10,500 But because of that, 935 01:24:10,500 --> 01:24:11,083 there's a lot of times, 936 01:24:11,333 --> 01:24:12,416 there's just a lot of 937 01:24:12,416 --> 01:24:13,958 intensity in the house. 938 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:14,583 Oh yeah. 939 01:24:14,583 --> 01:24:15,500 We had this discussion 940 01:24:15,500 --> 01:24:16,791 this week where it was like, 941 01:24:17,125 --> 01:24:19,416 kids, I know we're intense in this house. 942 01:24:19,416 --> 01:24:20,791 I know we have got, I know 943 01:24:20,791 --> 01:24:22,250 we have no time in this house. 944 01:24:22,250 --> 01:24:23,041 We just go, go, go. 945 01:24:23,375 --> 01:24:24,875 I know that, but the way 946 01:24:24,875 --> 01:24:25,833 you guys are all interacting 947 01:24:25,833 --> 01:24:27,666 right now is just creating more stress. 948 01:24:28,291 --> 01:24:29,291 I was like, and I get it. 949 01:24:29,291 --> 01:24:30,375 Mom and I have taught 950 01:24:30,375 --> 01:24:31,583 you that way, apparently. 951 01:24:31,958 --> 01:24:32,791 Right, right. 952 01:24:32,833 --> 01:24:34,500 So what we need to do now 953 01:24:34,500 --> 01:24:35,916 is bring down the stress. 954 01:24:36,875 --> 01:24:39,333 Everybody has to bring down the stress. 955 01:24:45,708 --> 01:24:47,125 It's something that I 956 01:24:47,125 --> 01:24:48,833 need to try to do more 957 01:24:48,833 --> 01:24:49,875 in everyday life. 958 01:24:50,250 --> 01:24:51,458 But it's sad when it 959 01:24:51,458 --> 01:24:52,583 hits our household sometimes 960 01:24:52,583 --> 01:24:53,416 because it's like, man, 961 01:24:53,416 --> 01:24:54,208 have we taught the kids 962 01:24:54,208 --> 01:24:54,958 to be that way? 963 01:24:55,416 --> 01:24:57,250 Yeah, and part of it is 964 01:24:57,250 --> 01:24:58,791 yes, I think we probably have. 965 01:24:59,000 --> 01:25:00,500 Part of it is that they're siblings 966 01:25:00,708 --> 01:25:02,083 and they argue like 967 01:25:02,083 --> 01:25:03,750 siblings and they get annoyed 968 01:25:03,750 --> 01:25:04,958 with each other like siblings. 969 01:25:06,041 --> 01:25:09,333 I mean, they are really close, I think. 970 01:25:10,875 --> 01:25:13,500 They truly do enjoy being with each other 971 01:25:13,666 --> 01:25:15,083 and laughing with each 972 01:25:15,083 --> 01:25:16,833 other, but they get annoyed 973 01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:19,208 and it doesn't take much. 974 01:25:19,208 --> 01:25:20,083 And then all of a sudden, 975 01:25:20,083 --> 01:25:23,250 it's just downhill, quickly. 976 01:25:24,208 --> 01:25:25,541 Well, I think where I was going with that 977 01:25:25,583 --> 01:25:28,750 was initially that sometimes 978 01:25:28,750 --> 01:25:32,000 you have to just call it out. 979 01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:32,625 Like, hey, you're just 980 01:25:32,625 --> 01:25:33,750 adding stress to the situation. 981 01:25:34,416 --> 01:25:35,333 If you're stressed out, 982 01:25:35,333 --> 01:25:36,750 maybe that should be something 983 01:25:36,750 --> 01:25:38,041 you're just working out on your own 984 01:25:38,541 --> 01:25:39,666 instead of bringing us all down. 985 01:25:40,333 --> 01:25:42,750 And my point to that is like, I'm okay. 986 01:25:43,291 --> 01:25:44,500 I am at a point in my life 987 01:25:44,500 --> 01:25:45,958 where somebody on the sidelines 988 01:25:46,125 --> 01:25:46,833 like, hey, Shawn, you're 989 01:25:46,833 --> 01:25:48,791 kind of just adding stress 990 01:25:48,791 --> 01:25:49,541 to our situation. 991 01:25:49,958 --> 01:25:50,375 If someone were to say 992 01:25:50,375 --> 01:25:51,333 that to me, I'd be like, okay, 993 01:25:51,666 --> 01:25:53,291 that's good to know, I'll change that 994 01:25:53,291 --> 01:25:55,000 because that's not ever my intent. 995 01:25:55,708 --> 01:25:57,000 Or rarely is it my intent. 996 01:25:57,000 --> 01:25:57,208 Right. 997 01:25:58,125 --> 01:26:00,041 You know, like I'm okay with that. 998 01:26:00,041 --> 01:26:01,416 Some people might not be okay with that. 999 01:26:01,416 --> 01:26:02,125 And it depends, if I 1000 01:26:02,125 --> 01:26:02,916 come in in a bad mood, 1001 01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:03,500 I guess I probably 1002 01:26:03,500 --> 01:26:04,416 wouldn't be okay with it. 1003 01:26:04,750 --> 01:26:04,958 Really? 1004 01:26:05,500 --> 01:26:06,833 It's all in the delivery. 1005 01:26:06,833 --> 01:26:07,500 You actually did it 1006 01:26:07,500 --> 01:26:08,416 really well this weekend. 1007 01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:10,333 At one point you looked at our daughter 1008 01:26:10,333 --> 01:26:11,916 and you're like, do you 1009 01:26:11,916 --> 01:26:12,916 want me to tell you something? 1010 01:26:13,458 --> 01:26:16,208 I think she said no, but you were about, 1011 01:26:16,208 --> 01:26:16,875 you wanted to give her 1012 01:26:16,875 --> 01:26:17,916 feedback and you're like, 1013 01:26:18,750 --> 01:26:19,958 you asked if she'd be open 1014 01:26:19,958 --> 01:26:20,958 to hearing it at that moment. 1015 01:26:21,708 --> 01:26:23,541 Yeah, she said no, yeah. 1016 01:26:23,541 --> 01:26:25,333 Yeah, yeah, so you're like, okay. 1017 01:26:26,208 --> 01:26:27,458 Because it is, I think that's part of it. 1018 01:26:27,458 --> 01:26:28,000 You have to be receptive. 1019 01:26:28,416 --> 01:26:29,458 I parented her long 1020 01:26:29,458 --> 01:26:30,333 enough that I think she knew 1021 01:26:30,333 --> 01:26:31,458 exactly what I was gonna say. 1022 01:26:32,916 --> 01:26:33,708 I didn't even have to say it. 1023 01:26:33,708 --> 01:26:35,333 I didn't even have to be a part of this 1024 01:26:35,333 --> 01:26:38,083 to know what you were gonna say. 1025 01:26:38,208 --> 01:26:38,791 Yeah, yeah. 1026 01:26:41,500 --> 01:26:42,666 Yeah, that was just a funny, 1027 01:26:43,416 --> 01:26:44,291 it was a funny situation 1028 01:26:44,291 --> 01:26:45,500 from where I was sitting 1029 01:26:45,500 --> 01:26:47,125 because I could like see it, but I 1030 01:26:47,125 --> 01:26:48,291 couldn't hear any of it. 1031 01:26:48,666 --> 01:26:50,625 I was down the line a little bit. 1032 01:26:51,833 --> 01:26:53,083 I was like, oh, I know what's going on. 1033 01:26:54,208 --> 01:26:55,500 Yeah, well, we've 1034 01:26:55,500 --> 01:26:56,500 skipped a couple of weeks 1035 01:26:56,500 --> 01:26:57,250 because we've just 1036 01:26:57,250 --> 01:26:59,250 been on the crazy train, 1037 01:26:59,375 --> 01:27:00,291 going, going, going. 1038 01:27:00,333 --> 01:27:02,041 We haven't had time to do it. 1039 01:27:02,250 --> 01:27:02,500 Yeah. 1040 01:27:03,916 --> 01:27:04,458 And I know we're 1041 01:27:04,458 --> 01:27:05,875 disappointing that one guy. 1042 01:27:05,875 --> 01:27:07,458 I can't remember what his handle was. 1043 01:27:09,125 --> 01:27:10,041 By keeping it going. 1044 01:27:10,416 --> 01:27:10,958 You're right, buddy, 1045 01:27:10,958 --> 01:27:11,791 we should hang it up. 1046 01:27:11,791 --> 01:27:13,708 And for you, just consider it hung up. 1047 01:27:13,750 --> 01:27:14,541 Just consider it hung 1048 01:27:14,541 --> 01:27:16,583 up and scroll on by. 1049 01:27:16,583 --> 01:27:18,875 Yeah, I'm just gonna let you do that. 1050 01:27:19,166 --> 01:27:19,375 Yep. 1051 01:27:20,750 --> 01:27:21,291 Let him. 1052 01:27:21,833 --> 01:27:23,333 Let them, such a great book. 1053 01:27:23,666 --> 01:27:24,833 Yep, I love it. 1054 01:27:24,875 --> 01:27:25,875 We've had a lot, I mean, 1055 01:27:26,583 --> 01:27:28,208 it's one of the reasons why 1056 01:27:28,375 --> 01:27:29,166 it's nice to do it on a 1057 01:27:29,166 --> 01:27:31,166 weekly basis, for me at least, 1058 01:27:31,166 --> 01:27:32,708 is because most of the 1059 01:27:32,708 --> 01:27:34,041 time there is so much going on 1060 01:27:34,041 --> 01:27:34,833 in a week that we have 1061 01:27:34,833 --> 01:27:35,916 stuff to kind of cover. 1062 01:27:36,041 --> 01:27:36,333 Right. 1063 01:27:36,583 --> 01:27:38,291 You know, and I know we try 1064 01:27:38,291 --> 01:27:40,500 not to be redundant with it. 1065 01:27:40,833 --> 01:27:42,625 Redundive, I almost said redundive. 1066 01:27:43,166 --> 01:27:44,916 Try not to be redundant with it. 1067 01:27:44,958 --> 01:27:45,208 Yeah. 1068 01:27:46,625 --> 01:27:47,958 But man, you give us three weeks. 1069 01:27:49,208 --> 01:27:50,791 So much is going on. 1070 01:27:50,833 --> 01:27:51,208 So much. 1071 01:27:51,500 --> 01:27:52,791 I mean, we've flown 1072 01:27:52,791 --> 01:27:54,541 through state playoffs, 1073 01:27:56,208 --> 01:27:58,541 Dallas Cup, a couple 1074 01:27:58,541 --> 01:27:59,541 different track meets. 1075 01:27:59,541 --> 01:28:00,958 I mean, it has been-- 1076 01:28:00,958 --> 01:28:01,291 Meet of champs. 1077 01:28:01,500 --> 01:28:02,125 Meet of champs. 1078 01:28:02,125 --> 01:28:04,000 Like, it has been, 1079 01:28:05,500 --> 01:28:07,666 like, I don't even know. 1080 01:28:07,666 --> 01:28:10,583 We say busy, but I mean, it's flown by. 1081 01:28:11,833 --> 01:28:13,375 And these weeks are tough 1082 01:28:13,375 --> 01:28:15,416 because so much just required 1083 01:28:15,666 --> 01:28:18,000 juggling with work and all 1084 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:19,041 the things with the kids. 1085 01:28:19,375 --> 01:28:19,833 And I mean, there's 1086 01:28:19,833 --> 01:28:20,875 always some of that juggling, 1087 01:28:20,875 --> 01:28:22,625 but it's, there was just 1088 01:28:22,625 --> 01:28:24,000 more overlap, I feel like, 1089 01:28:24,125 --> 01:28:26,916 between kids sports and like, 1090 01:28:26,916 --> 01:28:28,500 what would traditionally be work time. 1091 01:28:29,000 --> 01:28:31,000 And it's like, it's exhausting. 1092 01:28:31,375 --> 01:28:32,083 Well, and the Dallas, 1093 01:28:32,083 --> 01:28:33,416 like the Dallas Cup for once, 1094 01:28:33,416 --> 01:28:34,500 even for me, I have a 1095 01:28:34,500 --> 01:28:35,833 very flexible schedule 1096 01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:37,750 because I know my boss very well. 1097 01:28:38,041 --> 01:28:38,291 It's me. 1098 01:28:39,875 --> 01:28:40,875 I have a flexible 1099 01:28:40,875 --> 01:28:41,541 schedule. He's a great boss. 1100 01:28:41,583 --> 01:28:42,250 But we're still out, 1101 01:28:42,250 --> 01:28:43,500 we're out of office so much, 1102 01:28:43,500 --> 01:28:44,791 even for me, I'm like, my gosh, 1103 01:28:44,791 --> 01:28:46,958 I actually have tons of work to do. 1104 01:28:46,958 --> 01:28:47,166 Right. 1105 01:28:48,208 --> 01:28:50,125 And Dallas Cup, oh, by the way, 1106 01:28:50,125 --> 01:28:51,333 our kids have school to do too, 1107 01:28:51,500 --> 01:28:52,333 but Dallas Cup is a 1108 01:28:52,333 --> 01:28:54,208 whole week of soccer games 1109 01:28:54,333 --> 01:28:55,291 during the school week 1110 01:28:55,291 --> 01:28:57,416 because there's teams from, 1111 01:28:58,000 --> 01:28:59,625 50 different countries that have flown in 1112 01:28:59,625 --> 01:29:00,916 and they're all on vacation. 1113 01:29:01,083 --> 01:29:01,458 Sure. 1114 01:29:01,666 --> 01:29:02,833 Playing in a soccer 1115 01:29:02,833 --> 01:29:03,916 tournament in the United States. 1116 01:29:04,333 --> 01:29:05,541 Just happens to be in 1117 01:29:05,541 --> 01:29:08,541 Dallas, this Dallas Cup. 1118 01:29:10,166 --> 01:29:10,791 Funny how that works. 1119 01:29:10,833 --> 01:29:12,041 And our kids, they'll go 1120 01:29:12,041 --> 01:29:13,250 to school in the morning 1121 01:29:14,125 --> 01:29:16,125 and then to a game in the 1122 01:29:16,125 --> 01:29:17,291 afternoon or half the school 1123 01:29:17,291 --> 01:29:18,583 or take a test in the morning and then 1124 01:29:18,583 --> 01:29:19,375 we're going to a game. 1125 01:29:20,000 --> 01:29:22,125 But for us, we got to go pick them up 1126 01:29:22,125 --> 01:29:22,541 and we got to take 1127 01:29:22,541 --> 01:29:23,458 them to the game an hour 1128 01:29:23,458 --> 01:29:24,500 or at least take them to warm up. 1129 01:29:25,000 --> 01:29:26,291 And it's just, it's a half 1130 01:29:26,291 --> 01:29:28,666 day or if not a whole day off. 1131 01:29:29,625 --> 01:29:31,708 Or one or two hours and one or two hours 1132 01:29:31,958 --> 01:29:35,041 and the jobs that we do, that's not 1133 01:29:35,041 --> 01:29:36,458 enough to do anything. 1134 01:29:36,833 --> 01:29:38,166 That's like a weekend where it's like, 1135 01:29:38,166 --> 01:29:38,666 I'm going to catch up 1136 01:29:38,666 --> 01:29:39,875 on emails for an hour. 1137 01:29:40,583 --> 01:29:41,250 That's like nothing, 1138 01:29:41,250 --> 01:29:42,333 it's just a chip away. 1139 01:29:42,375 --> 01:29:43,416 Right, right. 1140 01:29:44,500 --> 01:29:46,041 So that's all the time, that's just lost 1141 01:29:46,041 --> 01:29:46,666 and that's difficult. 1142 01:29:47,166 --> 01:29:48,458 It is difficult to get back. 1143 01:29:48,500 --> 01:29:49,500 It's difficult for the kids too. 1144 01:29:49,833 --> 01:29:51,166 It is, oh yeah, now we have 1145 01:29:51,166 --> 01:29:52,750 kids that are buying in school 1146 01:29:53,041 --> 01:29:55,500 and that is hard to make up. 1147 01:29:55,750 --> 01:29:56,208 When their schedules 1148 01:29:56,208 --> 01:29:57,666 are as busy as they are 1149 01:29:57,666 --> 01:29:59,208 on a regular basis to then 1150 01:29:59,208 --> 01:30:02,166 find that time for extra homework. 1151 01:30:02,541 --> 01:30:04,500 And that's club ball for the younger one. 1152 01:30:05,041 --> 01:30:06,625 The older one, he was missing school 1153 01:30:06,708 --> 01:30:09,833 because of high school athletics, right? 1154 01:30:09,833 --> 01:30:11,125 So they're traveling to, 1155 01:30:11,375 --> 01:30:13,750 they went to Lubbock on a Monday 1156 01:30:14,500 --> 01:30:14,625 Tuesday. 1157 01:30:15,125 --> 01:30:17,333 Or Tuesday for a Wednesday game. 1158 01:30:18,416 --> 01:30:19,416 Sorry, no, no, no, they went to Lubbock 1159 01:30:19,416 --> 01:30:20,541 on a Monday for a Tuesday game. 1160 01:30:20,541 --> 01:30:21,125 You had it right the 1161 01:30:21,125 --> 01:30:22,166 first time, I was wrong. 1162 01:30:22,583 --> 01:30:24,458 Yeah, wow, there is a 1163 01:30:24,458 --> 01:30:25,666 first time for everything. 1164 01:30:25,916 --> 01:30:27,208 Orderly wrong, you got it right. 1165 01:30:27,500 --> 01:30:29,250 Yeah, but that's a lot of 1166 01:30:29,250 --> 01:30:30,958 time off to play in a game. 1167 01:30:31,208 --> 01:30:31,458 Yeah. 1168 01:30:32,583 --> 01:30:33,375 They won, which was 1169 01:30:33,375 --> 01:30:35,041 awesome and then they went, 1170 01:30:35,375 --> 01:30:36,541 I think they made it to the 1171 01:30:36,541 --> 01:30:37,958 regional semi-finals maybe. 1172 01:30:38,208 --> 01:30:38,750 They did. 1173 01:30:38,750 --> 01:30:40,166 Which is two games out of state. 1174 01:30:42,000 --> 01:30:44,125 It was a heart breaker 1175 01:30:44,125 --> 01:30:46,500 because the game was close, 1176 01:30:46,625 --> 01:30:48,333 went into overtime, zero, zero. 1177 01:30:48,375 --> 01:30:48,541 Yep. 1178 01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:51,500 Two overtimes, two 10 1179 01:30:51,500 --> 01:30:53,500 minute overtimes, no golden goal. 1180 01:30:54,416 --> 01:30:55,083 And the other team 1181 01:30:55,083 --> 01:30:56,708 scored in the first overtime. 1182 01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:58,125 So we had like eight, we 1183 01:30:58,125 --> 01:30:59,416 had like, I don't know, 1184 01:30:59,708 --> 01:31:00,375 we had like 13 1185 01:31:00,375 --> 01:31:03,291 minutes left in that total. 1186 01:31:03,833 --> 01:31:05,833 So they had some time 1187 01:31:05,833 --> 01:31:08,458 to try to tie it up. 1188 01:31:09,083 --> 01:31:10,208 Unfortunately we couldn't do it, 1189 01:31:10,375 --> 01:31:12,041 really kind of took the air out of our, 1190 01:31:13,208 --> 01:31:13,875 the wind out of our 1191 01:31:13,875 --> 01:31:14,750 sails when that happened. 1192 01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:16,916 But the sad part was any 1193 01:31:16,916 --> 01:31:17,875 team could have won that. 1194 01:31:17,875 --> 01:31:20,083 It was a toss up game. 1195 01:31:20,500 --> 01:31:21,500 And they just happened to be 1196 01:31:21,500 --> 01:31:22,875 the ones that put the magic, 1197 01:31:23,333 --> 01:31:23,958 the one shot in. 1198 01:31:23,958 --> 01:31:24,666 The one shot in. 1199 01:31:24,666 --> 01:31:25,291 Even though I think we 1200 01:31:25,291 --> 01:31:26,416 outshot them in the game. 1201 01:31:26,458 --> 01:31:27,041 I think so. 1202 01:31:27,166 --> 01:31:28,666 We out-possessed them in the game. 1203 01:31:28,666 --> 01:31:29,083 They were a great 1204 01:31:29,083 --> 01:31:29,958 team, don't get me wrong. 1205 01:31:30,375 --> 01:31:31,458 Absolutely, yeah. 1206 01:31:31,875 --> 01:31:32,791 It's just such a heart 1207 01:31:32,791 --> 01:31:33,500 breaker to win a game 1208 01:31:33,500 --> 01:31:34,375 that you could have won. 1209 01:31:34,416 --> 01:31:34,625 Yep. 1210 01:31:35,500 --> 01:31:37,250 You know, and I don't 1211 01:31:37,250 --> 01:31:37,750 know how many people 1212 01:31:37,750 --> 01:31:39,041 that have played sports feel that way, 1213 01:31:39,041 --> 01:31:40,000 but you know, in a game like that, 1214 01:31:40,000 --> 01:31:41,375 you almost wish you got blown out. 1215 01:31:41,541 --> 01:31:41,875 Yeah. 1216 01:31:41,916 --> 01:31:42,333 Because then your 1217 01:31:42,333 --> 01:31:43,500 heart doesn't hurt as much. 1218 01:31:43,500 --> 01:31:43,708 Yeah. 1219 01:31:44,500 --> 01:31:45,125 It was just like, it came 1220 01:31:45,125 --> 01:31:48,000 down to that last few minutes, 1221 01:31:48,250 --> 01:31:49,250 you know, and it just, 1222 01:31:50,041 --> 01:31:51,083 I mean any game that's tied 1223 01:31:51,083 --> 01:31:52,708 zero zero at end of regulation, 1224 01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:54,583 like you know it was a good game. 1225 01:31:54,583 --> 01:31:55,541 It was a hard fought game. 1226 01:31:57,083 --> 01:31:58,833 Oh, my heart breaks for them. 1227 01:31:59,166 --> 01:32:00,625 But you get this, we're, 1228 01:32:01,458 --> 01:32:02,375 our oldest is halfway 1229 01:32:02,375 --> 01:32:03,458 done with his high school 1230 01:32:03,666 --> 01:32:04,458 soccer career now. 1231 01:32:04,750 --> 01:32:06,375 He'll be a junior and senior now. 1232 01:32:06,583 --> 01:32:07,875 He's done freshman and sophomore. 1233 01:32:08,958 --> 01:32:10,625 He's halfway through, it's crazy. 1234 01:32:11,916 --> 01:32:12,083 Crazy. 1235 01:32:12,625 --> 01:32:12,833 Yeah. 1236 01:32:14,250 --> 01:32:15,958 It hurts my heart to be 1237 01:32:15,958 --> 01:32:17,541 like, this is going so fast. 1238 01:32:18,041 --> 01:32:18,833 Well, and we were thinking 1239 01:32:18,833 --> 01:32:20,000 about the seniors, right? 1240 01:32:20,083 --> 01:32:20,333 Oh, yeah. 1241 01:32:20,625 --> 01:32:23,500 Because on the varsity team, 1242 01:32:23,750 --> 01:32:27,000 it's nine seniors, a sophomore, 1243 01:32:27,208 --> 01:32:28,791 which is our son, and a freshman. 1244 01:32:30,500 --> 01:32:30,666 Yeah. 1245 01:32:30,708 --> 01:32:31,541 And that's it. 1246 01:32:31,750 --> 01:32:32,791 So like when these guys, 1247 01:32:33,125 --> 01:32:34,458 when that final whistle blew, 1248 01:32:34,458 --> 01:32:36,458 I mean, they all fell to the ground. 1249 01:32:36,458 --> 01:32:37,541 I mean, that was it for them. 1250 01:32:37,541 --> 01:32:38,125 You know, that's the last 1251 01:32:38,125 --> 01:32:39,125 of their high school careers. 1252 01:32:39,125 --> 01:32:40,291 Now some are going to play college. 1253 01:32:40,291 --> 01:32:40,416 Yeah. 1254 01:32:40,416 --> 01:32:40,833 It's great, but. 1255 01:32:42,625 --> 01:32:45,416 I will not, I'm just 1256 01:32:45,416 --> 01:32:47,416 forewarning everybody, 1257 01:32:47,708 --> 01:32:50,083 particularly you, I will be 1258 01:32:50,083 --> 01:32:53,166 an absolute mess senior year. 1259 01:32:53,166 --> 01:32:53,500 I will. 1260 01:32:53,750 --> 01:32:56,166 Like I cried at senior night this year. 1261 01:32:57,333 --> 01:32:58,000 Yeah, you did. 1262 01:32:58,000 --> 01:33:00,000 I was like, okay. 1263 01:33:01,291 --> 01:33:03,375 I don't have any, I 1264 01:33:03,375 --> 01:33:04,833 don't even personally know 1265 01:33:05,000 --> 01:33:05,958 many of these kids, but I 1266 01:33:05,958 --> 01:33:06,666 do know that they've had 1267 01:33:06,666 --> 01:33:08,583 a big impact on our son's life. 1268 01:33:08,583 --> 01:33:08,916 Yeah. 1269 01:33:09,500 --> 01:33:10,166 And we've gotten to 1270 01:33:10,166 --> 01:33:11,041 know a couple of parents 1271 01:33:11,250 --> 01:33:11,750 and stuff like that, 1272 01:33:11,750 --> 01:33:12,833 but I mean, it was just, 1273 01:33:14,416 --> 01:33:18,583 I just, I was proud and I was sad, 1274 01:33:18,583 --> 01:33:19,375 and I was like all the 1275 01:33:19,375 --> 01:33:20,958 emotions for these parents. 1276 01:33:21,458 --> 01:33:22,375 Yeah, yeah. 1277 01:33:22,458 --> 01:33:23,500 Because I know that it's 1278 01:33:23,500 --> 01:33:24,291 something we're going to go 1279 01:33:24,291 --> 01:33:26,791 through and it's going to be hard. 1280 01:33:27,833 --> 01:33:29,708 I just remember that little baby. 1281 01:33:30,125 --> 01:33:31,458 It will be hard, but 1282 01:33:31,458 --> 01:33:32,958 right now we're proud. 1283 01:33:32,958 --> 01:33:34,500 We're proud parents because, 1284 01:33:35,458 --> 01:33:37,416 and all the awards haven't come out yet. 1285 01:33:37,416 --> 01:33:38,125 I think there's more to 1286 01:33:38,125 --> 01:33:38,875 come because they're waiting 1287 01:33:38,958 --> 01:33:40,500 on the state finals to 1288 01:33:40,500 --> 01:33:41,791 happen before they name like 1289 01:33:42,000 --> 01:33:43,958 all state, all region, 1290 01:33:43,958 --> 01:33:44,750 all that kind of stuff. 1291 01:33:45,250 --> 01:33:46,083 However, our oldest 1292 01:33:46,083 --> 01:33:47,500 did get one of the few 1293 01:33:47,500 --> 01:33:48,083 that they have already 1294 01:33:48,083 --> 01:33:49,458 named, and he was named 1295 01:33:49,458 --> 01:33:51,208 all region defensive 1296 01:33:51,208 --> 01:33:52,458 newcomer of the year. 1297 01:33:52,500 --> 01:33:52,750 Yeah. 1298 01:33:53,458 --> 01:33:54,083 Which is cool. 1299 01:33:54,166 --> 01:33:55,291 Which is really cool. 1300 01:33:55,333 --> 01:33:56,375 Yeah, so congratulations. 1301 01:33:57,125 --> 01:33:57,875 Yeah, it was so good. 1302 01:33:57,916 --> 01:33:58,541 It was well deserved. 1303 01:33:58,791 --> 01:33:59,791 I mean, they only let in 1304 01:33:59,791 --> 01:34:00,875 maybe four or five goals 1305 01:34:00,875 --> 01:34:02,291 the whole season he was center back. 1306 01:34:02,500 --> 01:34:02,708 Yeah. 1307 01:34:03,416 --> 01:34:04,708 And the other thing that he did too, 1308 01:34:04,708 --> 01:34:06,958 and this is, I'm trying not 1309 01:34:06,958 --> 01:34:07,833 to be bag of doshas about it, 1310 01:34:07,875 --> 01:34:09,458 but it's cool, but as 1311 01:34:09,458 --> 01:34:11,458 a sophomore on a team 1312 01:34:11,458 --> 01:34:12,958 that started all seniors 1313 01:34:12,958 --> 01:34:13,833 plus the other freshmen, 1314 01:34:15,333 --> 01:34:16,333 they keep all their stats 1315 01:34:16,333 --> 01:34:17,166 and everything obviously, 1316 01:34:17,666 --> 01:34:19,166 and they keep minutes as one of those. 1317 01:34:20,375 --> 01:34:21,291 Our son had the most 1318 01:34:21,291 --> 01:34:22,333 minutes out of anybody 1319 01:34:22,750 --> 01:34:24,208 played in the entire team. 1320 01:34:25,791 --> 01:34:26,833 Almost by a hundred 1321 01:34:26,833 --> 01:34:28,333 minutes, I think it was in the end. 1322 01:34:28,500 --> 01:34:30,291 I don't remember, but he was 1323 01:34:30,291 --> 01:34:34,000 significantly in the lead. 1324 01:34:34,458 --> 01:34:36,041 So, I mean, he never came off. 1325 01:34:36,041 --> 01:34:36,583 He didn't. 1326 01:34:36,958 --> 01:34:37,708 He came off twice, I 1327 01:34:37,708 --> 01:34:38,625 think, because he had injury 1328 01:34:38,625 --> 01:34:39,625 and then went back on. 1329 01:34:39,666 --> 01:34:40,375 Yep, yep. 1330 01:34:40,375 --> 01:34:41,875 But he almost never subbed out. 1331 01:34:42,166 --> 01:34:42,375 Yep. 1332 01:34:42,958 --> 01:34:44,500 And he did not start senior night, 1333 01:34:44,500 --> 01:34:45,916 which is absolutely appropriate. 1334 01:34:46,458 --> 01:34:47,250 Oh yeah, he lost like 1335 01:34:47,250 --> 01:34:48,875 23 minutes on that night. 1336 01:34:49,208 --> 01:34:50,041 Yeah, yeah. 1337 01:34:50,416 --> 01:34:51,958 Someone gained 23 minutes on him. 1338 01:34:51,958 --> 01:34:52,708 I know, I know. 1339 01:34:52,958 --> 01:34:53,583 And that, I mean. 1340 01:34:54,083 --> 01:34:54,750 Rightfully so. 1341 01:34:54,833 --> 01:34:55,958 Rightfully so. 1342 01:34:57,166 --> 01:34:58,041 Which was a really cool night 1343 01:34:58,041 --> 01:34:58,583 because they started 1344 01:34:58,583 --> 01:34:59,500 with all the seniors. 1345 01:34:59,958 --> 01:35:00,375 Yeah, so cool. And then 1346 01:35:00,375 --> 01:35:01,166 at the end of the game, 1347 01:35:01,166 --> 01:35:01,916 the coach, coach 1348 01:35:01,916 --> 01:35:03,000 Bates did it really well. 1349 01:35:03,000 --> 01:35:04,166 I'm sure he did it on purpose. 1350 01:35:05,166 --> 01:35:06,416 Yep, I'm sure. At the end of the game, 1351 01:35:06,416 --> 01:35:08,041 all the seniors were sitting. 1352 01:35:08,041 --> 01:35:09,833 They all got clap outs, kind of. 1353 01:35:10,916 --> 01:35:12,958 And then basically the team on the field 1354 01:35:13,666 --> 01:35:15,416 was the next generation, next year team. 1355 01:35:15,458 --> 01:35:16,041 Next year team. 1356 01:35:16,375 --> 01:35:19,250 It was really, this is 1357 01:35:19,250 --> 01:35:21,041 maybe a little bit of overkill 1358 01:35:21,041 --> 01:35:21,583 or whatever, but it 1359 01:35:21,583 --> 01:35:22,583 was beautiful in my mind 1360 01:35:22,583 --> 01:35:23,416 to just kind of see 1361 01:35:23,416 --> 01:35:25,166 that arc and that change 1362 01:35:25,916 --> 01:35:26,958 happen throughout the game. 1363 01:35:27,291 --> 01:35:28,958 Like I just, it was very metaphorical 1364 01:35:28,958 --> 01:35:30,916 for what is happening then and overall. 1365 01:35:30,916 --> 01:35:31,458 It was cool. 1366 01:35:32,083 --> 01:35:33,500 The sad part is, and I know that's why 1367 01:35:33,500 --> 01:35:34,625 our oldest is sad too, 1368 01:35:34,791 --> 01:35:35,875 because that was a really good team. 1369 01:35:36,083 --> 01:35:36,666 Really good. 1370 01:35:36,666 --> 01:35:37,916 It's just when teams, 1371 01:35:39,791 --> 01:35:41,708 I hesitate to say it was a special team. 1372 01:35:41,708 --> 01:35:42,958 I mean, they made it way 1373 01:35:42,958 --> 01:35:43,958 further than last year. 1374 01:35:43,958 --> 01:35:44,166 Yep. 1375 01:35:44,875 --> 01:35:47,458 And they actually tied for the furthest 1376 01:35:47,458 --> 01:35:49,500 that any teams made it, I think. 1377 01:35:49,500 --> 01:35:49,916 I think so. 1378 01:35:50,500 --> 01:35:51,125 That's what I remember. 1379 01:35:51,166 --> 01:35:52,166 So if they would have won that game, 1380 01:35:52,166 --> 01:35:52,458 they would have gotten 1381 01:35:52,458 --> 01:35:54,000 further than any boys team had. 1382 01:35:54,500 --> 01:35:55,541 And shout out to the girls team 1383 01:35:55,541 --> 01:35:56,250 who was actually in 1384 01:35:56,250 --> 01:35:56,750 the state championship. 1385 01:35:57,375 --> 01:35:57,666 Yes they are. 1386 01:35:58,500 --> 01:36:00,125 That's awesome, way to go Keller Girls. 1387 01:36:00,458 --> 01:36:01,750 Keller Girls, way to go. 1388 01:36:02,541 --> 01:36:03,208 That's really neat. 1389 01:36:04,458 --> 01:36:06,333 Oh, it's a special team, right? 1390 01:36:06,583 --> 01:36:07,416 And you hate to say 1391 01:36:07,416 --> 01:36:08,208 it was a special team, 1392 01:36:08,208 --> 01:36:09,666 but it was a special team to somebody. 1393 01:36:09,666 --> 01:36:10,625 I mean, you start going through 1394 01:36:10,625 --> 01:36:11,791 some of those seniors individually. 1395 01:36:12,041 --> 01:36:13,083 Like I could say their names. 1396 01:36:14,000 --> 01:36:15,208 Those guys are hard to replace. 1397 01:36:16,166 --> 01:36:18,250 I know that's why this was 1398 01:36:18,250 --> 01:36:19,000 a year that they could have. 1399 01:36:19,000 --> 01:36:19,458 Like I said, they 1400 01:36:19,458 --> 01:36:20,208 could have won that game, 1401 01:36:20,208 --> 01:36:20,750 which means they could 1402 01:36:20,750 --> 01:36:21,583 have gone to that next one. 1403 01:36:22,833 --> 01:36:23,416 You never know how 1404 01:36:23,416 --> 01:36:24,041 far you could have gone 1405 01:36:24,041 --> 01:36:25,166 when you're that good. 1406 01:36:26,458 --> 01:36:28,583 And it's tough to get back to that level. 1407 01:36:28,583 --> 01:36:29,000 A year if we're gonna 1408 01:36:29,000 --> 01:36:30,166 have a team that good. 1409 01:36:30,166 --> 01:36:30,833 That's what you start 1410 01:36:30,833 --> 01:36:32,083 thinking right after it's over. 1411 01:36:32,708 --> 01:36:34,500 I know that's where our son's at. 1412 01:36:34,500 --> 01:36:35,000 It would just be a 1413 01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:36,125 little nervous about that. 1414 01:36:36,416 --> 01:36:39,583 But again, it's like, sorry 1415 01:36:39,583 --> 01:36:40,875 I'm talking a lot right now, 1416 01:36:40,875 --> 01:36:43,166 but I told him when I 1417 01:36:43,166 --> 01:36:44,291 played sports at least, 1418 01:36:44,291 --> 01:36:46,000 I mean, the level you 1419 01:36:46,000 --> 01:36:47,375 get better every year 1420 01:36:48,291 --> 01:36:49,416 is exponential at that 1421 01:36:49,416 --> 01:36:50,583 age for the good players. 1422 01:36:51,416 --> 01:36:53,416 Like the player I was as a sophomore 1423 01:36:54,125 --> 01:36:54,958 was nothing compared to 1424 01:36:54,958 --> 01:36:55,833 what I was as a junior. 1425 01:36:56,041 --> 01:36:56,583 That was probably one 1426 01:36:56,583 --> 01:36:57,708 of my biggest jumps. 1427 01:36:57,708 --> 01:36:59,666 And then junior to senior year was even, 1428 01:36:59,958 --> 01:37:01,083 it was a huge jump too. 1429 01:37:01,125 --> 01:37:01,791 Maybe not as big as 1430 01:37:01,791 --> 01:37:02,583 my sophomore to junior. 1431 01:37:02,791 --> 01:37:04,250 I mean, that was like a 1432 01:37:04,250 --> 01:37:06,583 baby to like, I understand. 1433 01:37:06,833 --> 01:37:07,375 Yeah, yeah. 1434 01:37:07,375 --> 01:37:08,125 You know what I mean? 1435 01:37:08,458 --> 01:37:09,000 Yeah, yeah. 1436 01:37:09,583 --> 01:37:10,625 I mean, it's a big, I 1437 01:37:10,625 --> 01:37:13,000 mean, yeah, you're a man. 1438 01:37:13,333 --> 01:37:14,041 You're a young man. 1439 01:37:14,708 --> 01:37:16,500 I feel like a junior, you know? 1440 01:37:16,541 --> 01:37:19,000 Yeah, but it's just, it's, you know, 1441 01:37:19,000 --> 01:37:21,000 you're maturing in your mind, 1442 01:37:21,000 --> 01:37:22,208 you're understanding the game more, 1443 01:37:22,208 --> 01:37:23,500 you're confidence in the game. 1444 01:37:23,958 --> 01:37:24,416 I don't think there's 1445 01:37:24,416 --> 01:37:25,583 anything to do with manliness 1446 01:37:25,583 --> 01:37:27,000 other than just that 1447 01:37:27,000 --> 01:37:28,875 confidence and maturing 1448 01:37:29,291 --> 01:37:30,458 and just being awake 1449 01:37:30,458 --> 01:37:33,333 to, oh, I can do this. 1450 01:37:33,333 --> 01:37:33,583 Right. 1451 01:37:33,875 --> 01:37:35,041 And having confidence to do it. 1452 01:37:35,041 --> 01:37:36,833 And that's, confidence is half of it. 1453 01:37:36,833 --> 01:37:37,333 Oh yeah. 1454 01:37:37,500 --> 01:37:39,041 Maybe even more than half of it, so. 1455 01:37:39,333 --> 01:37:41,125 But like last year, I think our oldest 1456 01:37:41,125 --> 01:37:42,500 got so much confidence 1457 01:37:42,500 --> 01:37:44,000 playing on this team. 1458 01:37:44,250 --> 01:37:44,500 Totally. 1459 01:37:45,166 --> 01:37:46,166 And he's lucky too, 1460 01:37:46,166 --> 01:37:47,500 because there's a lot of his players 1461 01:37:47,500 --> 01:37:48,583 playing high school teams. 1462 01:37:48,625 --> 01:37:48,875 Yeah. 1463 01:37:49,500 --> 01:37:50,500 But they're not as competitive. 1464 01:37:51,000 --> 01:37:51,166 Right. 1465 01:37:51,583 --> 01:37:52,375 Right, so he's actually 1466 01:37:52,375 --> 01:37:55,000 playing a very competitive team. 1467 01:37:55,375 --> 01:37:56,791 Obviously biggest, they're six eight. 1468 01:37:56,791 --> 01:37:57,958 They're actually the biggest. 1469 01:37:58,000 --> 01:37:59,375 Biggest of the bigs. 1470 01:37:59,375 --> 01:38:00,041 Because the way they 1471 01:38:00,041 --> 01:38:00,875 changed it was weird this year, 1472 01:38:00,875 --> 01:38:01,875 I'm getting too much in the weeds here, 1473 01:38:02,041 --> 01:38:02,791 but six eight is the 1474 01:38:02,791 --> 01:38:03,708 biggest here in Texas. 1475 01:38:04,500 --> 01:38:06,166 And they changed it just this last year, 1476 01:38:06,166 --> 01:38:06,583 because there's so 1477 01:38:06,583 --> 01:38:07,833 many six eight schools, 1478 01:38:08,291 --> 01:38:09,000 that now there's two 1479 01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:10,041 six eight championships. 1480 01:38:10,541 --> 01:38:12,041 And the way they split it is by 1481 01:38:12,041 --> 01:38:13,416 attendance of the schools. 1482 01:38:14,000 --> 01:38:16,125 And Keller is in the biggest one. 1483 01:38:16,166 --> 01:38:16,833 Biggest one. 1484 01:38:16,875 --> 01:38:17,375 So we were playing 1485 01:38:17,375 --> 01:38:18,583 against all the biggest schools, 1486 01:38:18,583 --> 01:38:19,833 which is, I mean, that's cool. 1487 01:38:19,833 --> 01:38:21,791 I mean, that's tough to compete in. 1488 01:38:22,500 --> 01:38:23,666 Totally, and they are so competitive. 1489 01:38:24,083 --> 01:38:26,916 So it was, shout out to the boys. 1490 01:38:26,958 --> 01:38:28,250 It was really fun. 1491 01:38:28,250 --> 01:38:29,500 It was fun to watch them. 1492 01:38:29,500 --> 01:38:30,333 They had a great season. 1493 01:38:30,333 --> 01:38:31,791 They did, they should be really proud. 1494 01:38:32,291 --> 01:38:33,875 Yeah, I'll miss them in the seniors too. 1495 01:38:34,333 --> 01:38:35,708 I know, I know. 1496 01:38:35,708 --> 01:38:37,125 I really got connected 1497 01:38:37,125 --> 01:38:38,500 with watching the team. 1498 01:38:38,500 --> 01:38:38,791 It was awesome. 1499 01:38:39,125 --> 01:38:39,583 I know, I know. 1500 01:38:40,333 --> 01:38:41,666 Oh my gosh, but the thing that, 1501 01:38:42,541 --> 01:38:44,833 so Senior Night cried, I 1502 01:38:44,833 --> 01:38:46,083 was super sad after the game. 1503 01:38:46,625 --> 01:38:51,666 The seniors sign out, 100% made me cry. 1504 01:38:51,916 --> 01:38:52,875 Like tears actually 1505 01:38:52,875 --> 01:38:53,916 rolling down my cheeks. 1506 01:38:54,958 --> 01:38:56,125 I don't know how they do it, 1507 01:38:56,166 --> 01:38:57,541 but there's like a piece of glass 1508 01:38:57,541 --> 01:38:58,750 or something in front of the camera 1509 01:38:58,750 --> 01:38:59,500 and each one of the 1510 01:38:59,500 --> 01:39:01,041 seniors comes and takes a Sharpie 1511 01:39:01,041 --> 01:39:02,125 and signs their name. 1512 01:39:03,291 --> 01:39:04,458 And so you just get a 1513 01:39:04,458 --> 01:39:05,500 picture of them signing it 1514 01:39:05,500 --> 01:39:07,041 and it's called the senior sign out. 1515 01:39:07,958 --> 01:39:09,000 Yeah, it's really cool. 1516 01:39:11,041 --> 01:39:12,041 It made me cry. 1517 01:39:12,041 --> 01:39:13,041 It's about to make you cry again. 1518 01:39:13,041 --> 01:39:14,791 It is, just thinking about it. 1519 01:39:15,041 --> 01:39:15,625 Like they're just 1520 01:39:15,625 --> 01:39:17,041 signing off for the last time. 1521 01:39:17,041 --> 01:39:17,916 Yeah, yeah. 1522 01:39:18,583 --> 01:39:19,291 And it was really sad. 1523 01:39:19,625 --> 01:39:20,125 It was. 1524 01:39:21,125 --> 01:39:21,750 Someone who's not 1525 01:39:21,750 --> 01:39:23,041 signing out is our daughter. 1526 01:39:23,041 --> 01:39:24,583 She's got a lot of time left on this. 1527 01:39:24,958 --> 01:39:27,000 She's been nursing this thing, 1528 01:39:27,000 --> 01:39:28,666 if you followed it on Instagram at all. 1529 01:39:29,250 --> 01:39:29,833 Oh my gosh, we haven't 1530 01:39:29,833 --> 01:39:30,708 talked about it much on here. 1531 01:39:30,958 --> 01:39:32,458 I won't go long 1532 01:39:32,458 --> 01:39:33,708 because we're already getting 1533 01:39:33,708 --> 01:39:34,708 to where we don't 1534 01:39:34,708 --> 01:39:35,583 need to go much further, 1535 01:39:35,791 --> 01:39:37,958 but she's had a quad strain 1536 01:39:39,375 --> 01:39:41,250 that has just been a nightmare. 1537 01:39:41,250 --> 01:39:42,875 She can't get it healthy 1538 01:39:43,000 --> 01:39:44,208 because she's in the 1539 01:39:44,208 --> 01:39:45,041 middle of track season. 1540 01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:46,958 And she has track 1541 01:39:46,958 --> 01:39:49,250 practice every day for school 1542 01:39:50,041 --> 01:39:50,875 and then clubs. 1543 01:39:50,916 --> 01:39:51,458 And then clubs every night. 1544 01:39:51,458 --> 01:39:52,791 She has club every week obviously, 1545 01:39:53,083 --> 01:39:53,875 but club season 1546 01:39:53,875 --> 01:39:55,625 actually starts up about now. 1547 01:39:56,291 --> 01:39:56,958 Right after-- 1548 01:39:56,958 --> 01:39:57,583 Like really hot and 1549 01:39:57,583 --> 01:39:58,583 heavy after high school. 1550 01:39:58,958 --> 01:40:00,083 I mean, by after junior high 1551 01:40:00,083 --> 01:40:01,416 is kind of just finishing up. 1552 01:40:01,416 --> 01:40:02,000 But she was in the middle 1553 01:40:02,000 --> 01:40:03,291 of her junior high season, 1554 01:40:03,291 --> 01:40:04,791 which is kind of her time to shine. 1555 01:40:05,750 --> 01:40:07,500 And she had to sit out a couple of them 1556 01:40:07,875 --> 01:40:09,666 because she was in so much pain with it. 1557 01:40:09,666 --> 01:40:11,541 She ran a couple of them, 1558 01:40:11,541 --> 01:40:13,250 not even close to her best time. 1559 01:40:13,750 --> 01:40:16,000 Most of them, she won all 1560 01:40:16,000 --> 01:40:18,000 of them until she got to, 1561 01:40:18,791 --> 01:40:20,791 oh no, she lost to the same girl 1562 01:40:21,500 --> 01:40:23,083 and one that she lost 1563 01:40:23,083 --> 01:40:24,583 to in the meet of champs. 1564 01:40:24,625 --> 01:40:24,833 Yeah. 1565 01:40:25,916 --> 01:40:26,791 Where she got third place, 1566 01:40:26,791 --> 01:40:28,583 where she was somewhat more healthy, 1567 01:40:28,583 --> 01:40:31,541 but she wasn't healthy yet though. 1568 01:40:31,791 --> 01:40:33,208 I hate having that asterisk 1569 01:40:33,750 --> 01:40:34,708 because I feel like when 1570 01:40:34,708 --> 01:40:35,541 I'm putting these things out, 1571 01:40:35,541 --> 01:40:36,333 I want people to know 1572 01:40:36,333 --> 01:40:38,583 like, hey, I'm proud of Island. 1573 01:40:39,500 --> 01:40:40,250 I'm proud of our daughter 1574 01:40:40,250 --> 01:40:41,583 no matter what she does. 1575 01:40:41,833 --> 01:40:43,875 Whether it's 55th place, 1576 01:40:44,166 --> 01:40:45,125 third place or first place. 1577 01:40:45,916 --> 01:40:47,208 Proud of her no matter what. 1578 01:40:47,916 --> 01:40:49,333 But when I know she's not healthy 1579 01:40:49,833 --> 01:40:51,583 and she's not putting out her best times 1580 01:40:52,250 --> 01:40:53,291 and she's a foot behind the 1581 01:40:53,291 --> 01:40:54,708 person that probably is healthy 1582 01:40:55,500 --> 01:40:56,875 thinking she's beating my daughter, 1583 01:40:57,500 --> 01:40:58,833 the competitive juices in 1584 01:40:58,833 --> 01:41:00,625 me, I don't like excuses. 1585 01:41:01,458 --> 01:41:04,333 But I do just want to point out, 1586 01:41:04,833 --> 01:41:06,583 like stay ready, 1587 01:41:06,958 --> 01:41:08,375 she's gonna come for you. 1588 01:41:08,708 --> 01:41:09,666 You get her on a healthy 1589 01:41:09,666 --> 01:41:11,791 day, she's gonna come for you. 1590 01:41:11,833 --> 01:41:12,666 Right, right. 1591 01:41:12,666 --> 01:41:13,208 You know what I mean? 1592 01:41:14,375 --> 01:41:16,750 So hopefully she gets healthy 1593 01:41:17,250 --> 01:41:18,250 because you re-qualified 1594 01:41:18,250 --> 01:41:20,000 for Nike Outdoor again. 1595 01:41:20,041 --> 01:41:20,791 Yep, that's exciting. 1596 01:41:20,791 --> 01:41:22,250 Such a huge, 100, we 1597 01:41:22,250 --> 01:41:22,916 gotta get her qualified 1598 01:41:22,916 --> 01:41:23,875 for the 200 hopefully. 1599 01:41:24,041 --> 01:41:24,791 Again, you have to have 1600 01:41:24,791 --> 01:41:26,208 a time that's fast enough 1601 01:41:26,208 --> 01:41:27,625 to even qualify to get there. 1602 01:41:28,291 --> 01:41:29,166 Because they only take 1603 01:41:29,166 --> 01:41:32,375 100 or something like that 1604 01:41:32,958 --> 01:41:33,625 across the nation. 1605 01:41:34,458 --> 01:41:34,791 Yeah. 1606 01:41:34,833 --> 01:41:35,625 And if your time's not 1607 01:41:35,625 --> 01:41:36,541 fast enough, you don't get in. 1608 01:41:38,333 --> 01:41:39,708 So hopefully, so she's 1609 01:41:39,708 --> 01:41:40,708 already in on the 100, 1610 01:41:40,708 --> 01:41:42,291 which is awesome, that'll be fun. 1611 01:41:42,625 --> 01:41:44,083 And then, but again, it's 1612 01:41:44,083 --> 01:41:45,333 nice to spend all that money 1613 01:41:45,458 --> 01:41:46,541 and go all the way up to Oregon 1614 01:41:47,541 --> 01:41:49,791 for more than just 10 seconds of running. 1615 01:41:49,833 --> 01:41:50,041 Right. 1616 01:41:50,375 --> 01:41:51,125 Or 12 seconds of 1617 01:41:51,125 --> 01:41:52,166 running, whatever it may be. 1618 01:41:52,208 --> 01:41:52,416 Right. 1619 01:41:52,666 --> 01:41:54,250 If we could add another 25 seconds to it. 1620 01:41:54,291 --> 01:41:55,208 If you could add the 25, it'll be-- 1621 01:41:55,208 --> 01:41:56,125 Make it 35 seconds of 1622 01:41:56,125 --> 01:41:56,833 running, that'd be great. 1623 01:41:57,333 --> 01:41:58,333 He's so worth it. 1624 01:42:00,583 --> 01:42:01,750 It's like $100 a minute. 1625 01:42:02,208 --> 01:42:02,375 Yeah. 1626 01:42:03,458 --> 01:42:04,375 Wait, did I do that right? 1627 01:42:04,375 --> 01:42:04,708 I don't-- 1628 01:42:04,750 --> 01:42:05,416 Something like that. 1629 01:42:05,416 --> 01:42:05,833 I don't-- 1630 01:42:05,916 --> 01:42:06,958 Or no, $100 a second. 1631 01:42:07,291 --> 01:42:07,625 Yeah. 1632 01:42:08,041 --> 01:42:08,583 There we go. 1633 01:42:08,875 --> 01:42:10,000 I was like, I don't know your math, 1634 01:42:10,000 --> 01:42:11,875 but $100 a second makes more sense, yeah. 1635 01:42:12,083 --> 01:42:12,708 Yeah, yeah. 1636 01:42:13,458 --> 01:42:13,625 (laughs) 1637 01:42:15,125 --> 01:42:17,291 You're like, it's good. 1638 01:42:17,833 --> 01:42:20,250 No, I, and it's so frustrating for her 1639 01:42:20,333 --> 01:42:21,750 because she's so competitive. 1640 01:42:22,875 --> 01:42:24,041 And she doesn't like 1641 01:42:24,041 --> 01:42:25,166 to compete, not 100%. 1642 01:42:25,416 --> 01:42:27,166 Nobody would who's competitive, right? 1643 01:42:27,166 --> 01:42:29,291 And it's like, I wanna compete, 1644 01:42:29,291 --> 01:42:31,000 I wanna go show everybody what I can do, 1645 01:42:31,000 --> 01:42:32,916 but I can't do what I know 1646 01:42:32,916 --> 01:42:34,000 I can do because I'm hurt. 1647 01:42:34,291 --> 01:42:35,625 And it's new in our household too, 1648 01:42:35,625 --> 01:42:37,541 because to your point, she's competitive, 1649 01:42:37,833 --> 01:42:38,541 but she also has never 1650 01:42:38,541 --> 01:42:40,083 really had to deal with an injury. 1651 01:42:40,125 --> 01:42:40,458 No. 1652 01:42:40,458 --> 01:42:42,458 Like this, or pain of an injury. 1653 01:42:42,458 --> 01:42:45,291 So she doesn't know what's hurting pain, 1654 01:42:45,791 --> 01:42:47,125 what's nagging pain, 1655 01:42:47,333 --> 01:42:48,000 what, you know what I mean? 1656 01:42:48,000 --> 01:42:48,208 Yep. 1657 01:42:49,000 --> 01:42:50,583 And she's trying to stay healthy 1658 01:42:50,583 --> 01:42:51,625 because she knows she wants, 1659 01:42:52,125 --> 01:42:52,791 some races are more 1660 01:42:52,791 --> 01:42:54,000 important than other ones, 1661 01:42:54,000 --> 01:42:55,666 and some she's forced to do 1662 01:42:55,666 --> 01:42:57,583 because the team needs her. 1663 01:42:57,625 --> 01:42:57,875 Yep. 1664 01:42:58,166 --> 01:42:59,500 And so she's pulled a lot 1665 01:42:59,500 --> 01:43:00,291 of different directions, 1666 01:43:00,500 --> 01:43:01,833 and it was frustrating everybody, 1667 01:43:01,833 --> 01:43:02,916 including in our family, 1668 01:43:03,416 --> 01:43:05,083 just trying to get her to figure out, 1669 01:43:05,083 --> 01:43:05,750 well, what's important? 1670 01:43:06,250 --> 01:43:07,958 Like someone had her do the high jump, 1671 01:43:09,000 --> 01:43:10,708 which I think started the whole thing. 1672 01:43:10,708 --> 01:43:11,833 And it was like, she was still doing it. 1673 01:43:12,083 --> 01:43:12,958 Well, is this important? 1674 01:43:13,291 --> 01:43:15,416 We're having tearful conversations 1675 01:43:15,666 --> 01:43:16,500 around these kinds of things, 1676 01:43:16,500 --> 01:43:17,291 and it's like, well, 1677 01:43:17,791 --> 01:43:19,666 you're not healthy though. 1678 01:43:19,791 --> 01:43:20,208 Yeah. 1679 01:43:20,208 --> 01:43:22,125 And we're not mad at 1680 01:43:22,125 --> 01:43:23,125 you for not being healthy, 1681 01:43:23,125 --> 01:43:23,875 but I don't know that 1682 01:43:23,875 --> 01:43:24,583 we're doing the right things 1683 01:43:24,583 --> 01:43:25,708 to get healthy now. 1684 01:43:26,041 --> 01:43:30,000 And it's just added so many more layers. 1685 01:43:30,583 --> 01:43:31,208 And I've never been 1686 01:43:31,208 --> 01:43:32,125 the one who'd been like, 1687 01:43:32,125 --> 01:43:33,791 oh, my parents were 1688 01:43:33,791 --> 01:43:35,000 terrible at raising me, 1689 01:43:35,000 --> 01:43:36,041 they had no idea what they were doing. 1690 01:43:37,250 --> 01:43:37,708 There's different 1691 01:43:37,708 --> 01:43:39,166 reasons, why am I saying? 1692 01:43:40,041 --> 01:43:42,791 I struggled growing up potentially. 1693 01:43:44,166 --> 01:43:45,458 But my point here is, I 1694 01:43:45,458 --> 01:43:46,833 know nobody's given a booklet. 1695 01:43:46,958 --> 01:43:47,208 No. 1696 01:43:47,250 --> 01:43:49,083 And it's hard for everybody. 1697 01:43:49,875 --> 01:43:51,750 And like right now we're just in this 1698 01:43:51,750 --> 01:43:53,083 seven layer bean dip 1699 01:43:53,208 --> 01:43:55,083 of just more and more layers. 1700 01:43:55,166 --> 01:43:55,500 Yeah. 1701 01:43:56,208 --> 01:43:58,541 Of bean dip that we're 1702 01:43:58,541 --> 01:43:59,666 trying to figure out. 1703 01:44:00,166 --> 01:44:02,208 I know, and it's, every 1704 01:44:02,208 --> 01:44:04,125 child is so different. 1705 01:44:04,458 --> 01:44:06,916 And so like what works with 1706 01:44:06,916 --> 01:44:08,458 one doesn't work with the other 1707 01:44:08,833 --> 01:44:10,208 and they have different struggles. 1708 01:44:10,541 --> 01:44:13,375 And it's just like, man, you guys, 1709 01:44:13,875 --> 01:44:16,208 like I'm mentally exhausted from trying 1710 01:44:16,208 --> 01:44:18,666 to be a good parent. 1711 01:44:19,583 --> 01:44:22,333 And they agreed, agreed, agreed. 1712 01:44:22,333 --> 01:44:23,000 Because you're just 1713 01:44:23,000 --> 01:44:24,291 trying to be so tactical 1714 01:44:24,500 --> 01:44:25,041 about the discussions. 1715 01:44:25,083 --> 01:44:25,291 Yes. 1716 01:44:25,583 --> 01:44:26,166 I'm gonna have them. 1717 01:44:26,708 --> 01:44:28,916 But also these last couple of weeks, 1718 01:44:28,958 --> 01:44:30,291 because we've had all these 1719 01:44:30,291 --> 01:44:32,541 huge state qualifying games, 1720 01:44:32,541 --> 01:44:34,291 regional qualifying championship games, 1721 01:44:34,291 --> 01:44:34,791 I mean, they raised 1722 01:44:34,791 --> 01:44:37,833 trophies for our sons things. 1723 01:44:38,541 --> 01:44:39,333 We had the Dallas Cup, 1724 01:44:39,333 --> 01:44:40,750 which is an invitational only. 1725 01:44:41,000 --> 01:44:42,291 So only the best teams are there. 1726 01:44:42,291 --> 01:44:43,250 I mean, it's a very competitive. 1727 01:44:44,333 --> 01:44:44,875 We didn't brag on 1728 01:44:44,875 --> 01:44:45,625 that one because we got, 1729 01:44:45,833 --> 01:44:46,708 we played terrible and got 1730 01:44:46,708 --> 01:44:48,041 wiped off the face of the earth. 1731 01:44:48,666 --> 01:44:50,458 So nothing to brag about there. 1732 01:44:50,458 --> 01:44:51,541 Just, we didn't show. 1733 01:44:52,000 --> 01:44:52,750 The team didn't show. 1734 01:44:53,916 --> 01:44:55,333 But that was stressful 1735 01:44:55,333 --> 01:44:57,166 because we were trying to show, 1736 01:44:57,166 --> 01:44:58,041 we were hoping to show. 1737 01:44:58,041 --> 01:44:58,708 Hoping to, yeah. 1738 01:44:59,583 --> 01:45:01,500 And then we had the meet a champs, 1739 01:45:01,500 --> 01:45:02,000 which is the champion. 1740 01:45:02,375 --> 01:45:03,583 So you qualify for it and 1741 01:45:03,583 --> 01:45:04,750 then it's all the best sprinters 1742 01:45:05,291 --> 01:45:06,250 are at the meet a champs 1743 01:45:06,250 --> 01:45:07,000 and from the whole 1744 01:45:07,000 --> 01:45:08,250 district at that point. 1745 01:45:08,250 --> 01:45:11,083 So we have all these things, 1746 01:45:11,958 --> 01:45:15,000 like all the, you know, like the finals. 1747 01:45:15,958 --> 01:45:17,708 My point is that was stressful. 1748 01:45:18,166 --> 01:45:19,708 That in and of itself was stressful. 1749 01:45:19,708 --> 01:45:20,458 As a parent. Yeah. 1750 01:45:20,500 --> 01:45:22,000 Because it wasn't just 1751 01:45:22,000 --> 01:45:23,041 like we were just enjoying 1752 01:45:23,041 --> 01:45:23,958 watching our children. 1753 01:45:24,791 --> 01:45:25,708 And it's not like we have 1754 01:45:25,708 --> 01:45:26,916 expectations for them to win 1755 01:45:26,916 --> 01:45:27,750 or else to burn or throw. 1756 01:45:27,958 --> 01:45:30,833 It was just, I wanted, you 1757 01:45:30,833 --> 01:45:33,500 want success for them so badly. 1758 01:45:33,500 --> 01:45:35,083 It worked so hard and you 1759 01:45:35,083 --> 01:45:36,625 want them to feel that success. 1760 01:45:36,916 --> 01:45:38,250 And you want them to 1761 01:45:38,250 --> 01:45:39,458 feel the joy of victory. 1762 01:45:39,958 --> 01:45:40,125 Like. 1763 01:45:41,041 --> 01:45:43,000 When they're used to, I 1764 01:45:43,000 --> 01:45:43,916 shouldn't say used to, 1765 01:45:43,916 --> 01:45:47,875 but when history has suggested that you 1766 01:45:47,875 --> 01:45:48,875 can get first place. 1767 01:45:48,875 --> 01:45:49,083 You can. 1768 01:45:49,416 --> 01:45:50,416 You can win that game. 1769 01:45:50,791 --> 01:45:52,125 You can score the winning goal. 1770 01:45:52,125 --> 01:45:52,458 Yeah. 1771 01:45:52,541 --> 01:45:54,458 You know, like they've all done that. 1772 01:45:54,500 --> 01:45:54,666 Right. 1773 01:45:55,000 --> 01:45:55,333 You know? 1774 01:45:55,333 --> 01:45:55,541 Right. 1775 01:45:55,791 --> 01:45:56,416 I mean, our daughters 1776 01:45:56,416 --> 01:45:58,125 never come in worse than third 1777 01:45:58,416 --> 01:46:00,166 in a race really. 1778 01:46:00,500 --> 01:46:02,625 And that was just this last track meet. 1779 01:46:02,833 --> 01:46:02,958 Right. 1780 01:46:03,250 --> 01:46:04,375 When she wasn't healthy. 1781 01:46:04,833 --> 01:46:05,541 Right, right. 1782 01:46:06,083 --> 01:46:07,125 It's always first or second. 1783 01:46:08,000 --> 01:46:09,833 And it's just that one girl who is fast 1784 01:46:10,000 --> 01:46:11,458 and she's her nemesis right now. 1785 01:46:11,458 --> 01:46:12,541 She needs, she's in her head. 1786 01:46:12,541 --> 01:46:14,583 She's got to get past that girl. 1787 01:46:14,583 --> 01:46:16,458 But when you're used to winning. 1788 01:46:16,458 --> 01:46:16,666 Yeah. 1789 01:46:16,916 --> 01:46:18,000 And you're going out there hurt 1790 01:46:18,541 --> 01:46:19,625 and you know it's going to crush her 1791 01:46:19,625 --> 01:46:20,625 if she can't go out there 1792 01:46:20,625 --> 01:46:22,208 instead of personal best and whatnot. 1793 01:46:23,000 --> 01:46:24,166 Like that's stressful. 1794 01:46:24,541 --> 01:46:24,875 It is. 1795 01:46:25,166 --> 01:46:26,708 And we have to parent to that. 1796 01:46:26,750 --> 01:46:27,125 Yeah. 1797 01:46:27,250 --> 01:46:28,458 I mean, we have to 1798 01:46:28,458 --> 01:46:30,500 parent and find that balance 1799 01:46:30,666 --> 01:46:32,000 between encouraging your 1800 01:46:32,000 --> 01:46:32,958 child to do their best, 1801 01:46:33,083 --> 01:46:36,000 but not putting that 1802 01:46:36,000 --> 01:46:37,416 crown on them, right? 1803 01:46:37,625 --> 01:46:38,583 The heavy is the head. 1804 01:46:39,000 --> 01:46:40,541 That's always my joke in the house. 1805 01:46:40,916 --> 01:46:41,416 Crown, right? 1806 01:46:41,708 --> 01:46:44,750 Like because that weight is so much 1807 01:46:44,750 --> 01:46:46,208 and they want it so bad, 1808 01:46:46,208 --> 01:46:47,083 but at the same time 1809 01:46:47,083 --> 01:46:48,791 it's okay if you fail. 1810 01:46:49,458 --> 01:46:50,375 Like try your best. 1811 01:46:50,583 --> 01:46:52,958 I mean, but yet we all 1812 01:46:52,958 --> 01:46:53,916 know you're competitive enough 1813 01:46:54,083 --> 01:46:54,708 to know you want to 1814 01:46:54,708 --> 01:46:55,625 eat up the competition. 1815 01:46:56,583 --> 01:46:57,916 I mean, we had to have 1816 01:46:57,916 --> 01:46:58,833 the conversation with her. 1817 01:46:59,000 --> 01:46:59,250 I did. 1818 01:47:00,041 --> 01:47:01,875 You ended up getting in on it 1819 01:47:01,916 --> 01:47:02,750 because I wasn't getting through. 1820 01:47:04,833 --> 01:47:06,458 He was so mad because he 1821 01:47:06,458 --> 01:47:07,625 was catching up on homework 1822 01:47:07,625 --> 01:47:08,833 and he's like, I'm not going 1823 01:47:08,833 --> 01:47:10,333 to get a 100 in this class. 1824 01:47:10,333 --> 01:47:12,208 I was like, about 100? 1825 01:47:12,750 --> 01:47:14,250 You know, and oh wait, this is serious. 1826 01:47:14,500 --> 01:47:15,083 Like you're not kidding. 1827 01:47:15,541 --> 01:47:16,375 That's his overall grade. 1828 01:47:16,500 --> 01:47:17,458 That's his overall grade. 1829 01:47:17,750 --> 01:47:18,708 The overall grade, 100. 1830 01:47:19,291 --> 01:47:20,958 So, and he was so mad 1831 01:47:20,958 --> 01:47:22,125 because he was trying to make up. 1832 01:47:22,125 --> 01:47:25,333 He had gotten like a 94 on one assignment 1833 01:47:25,708 --> 01:47:26,250 of all the 1834 01:47:26,250 --> 01:47:27,708 assignments so far in the term. 1835 01:47:28,458 --> 01:47:29,500 And he is like, and 1836 01:47:29,500 --> 01:47:30,500 then he ended up turning 1837 01:47:30,666 --> 01:47:33,000 in some homework and he got 1838 01:47:33,000 --> 01:47:36,083 like a 91% on this homework. 1839 01:47:36,291 --> 01:47:38,000 And he's like, I can't even 1840 01:47:38,000 --> 01:47:39,416 get my grade back up to 100% 1841 01:47:39,750 --> 01:47:40,708 from this 94. 1842 01:47:40,708 --> 01:47:41,500 Now it's never going 1843 01:47:41,500 --> 01:47:42,625 to get back up to 100%. 1844 01:47:43,708 --> 01:47:44,833 Great for the class. 1845 01:47:46,416 --> 01:47:48,208 And he's like, look at this. 1846 01:47:48,208 --> 01:47:48,958 And he's going through his 1847 01:47:48,958 --> 01:47:51,000 grades and it was 100, 100, 1848 01:47:51,041 --> 01:47:54,125 100, 100, 194, 100, 100, 100, 191. 1849 01:47:54,375 --> 01:47:57,625 I was like, son, it is okay. 1850 01:47:58,083 --> 01:47:58,291 Yeah. 1851 01:47:59,125 --> 01:48:01,750 Like you're getting a fantastic grade. 1852 01:48:01,750 --> 01:48:03,791 You clearly understand it, but it's like, 1853 01:48:03,791 --> 01:48:05,416 we have to parent to, it 1854 01:48:05,416 --> 01:48:06,666 is okay to not get 100. 1855 01:48:07,333 --> 01:48:08,333 Yeah, yeah. 1856 01:48:08,333 --> 01:48:09,208 And that's the 1857 01:48:09,208 --> 01:48:10,375 pressure he's put on himself. 1858 01:48:11,208 --> 01:48:14,000 Our expectations are A's and B's, right? 1859 01:48:14,000 --> 01:48:14,208 Yes. 1860 01:48:15,000 --> 01:48:18,041 That's his expectation, which is good. 1861 01:48:18,041 --> 01:48:19,333 I'm glad we have high expectations, 1862 01:48:19,791 --> 01:48:21,875 but that's still a maturing 1863 01:48:21,875 --> 01:48:24,375 emotion, emotions with him. 1864 01:48:24,875 --> 01:48:26,166 So I mean, he'll get there, but yeah, 1865 01:48:26,166 --> 01:48:28,041 that's why we had to have 1866 01:48:28,041 --> 01:48:29,125 a conversation with him. 1867 01:48:29,166 --> 01:48:30,000 Yeah, but that 1868 01:48:30,000 --> 01:48:31,333 pressure can be debilitating 1869 01:48:32,291 --> 01:48:33,916 if we don't parent to that right. 1870 01:48:34,125 --> 01:48:36,041 And that's where it gets hard. 1871 01:48:36,041 --> 01:48:37,375 Cause you're like, what's that balance? 1872 01:48:37,375 --> 01:48:38,208 Like you want them to 1873 01:48:38,208 --> 01:48:39,000 strive for the best, 1874 01:48:39,000 --> 01:48:39,875 but it's okay if they 1875 01:48:39,875 --> 01:48:40,875 fall short of the mark. 1876 01:48:40,958 --> 01:48:42,333 Well, they're all like that though, 1877 01:48:42,625 --> 01:48:43,916 with we talk about 1878 01:48:43,916 --> 01:48:44,958 sports all the time on here, 1879 01:48:44,958 --> 01:48:46,375 but oh, by the way, they're all in school 1880 01:48:46,375 --> 01:48:48,750 and they're all A and B or 1881 01:48:48,750 --> 01:48:50,916 straight A's, kids, right? 1882 01:48:51,458 --> 01:48:51,583 National Honor 1883 01:48:51,583 --> 01:48:54,166 Society, A role, A, B role, 1884 01:48:55,375 --> 01:48:55,958 honors, glasses. 1885 01:48:56,250 --> 01:48:58,041 I mean, we try not to 1886 01:48:58,041 --> 01:48:59,000 make this a brag fest. 1887 01:48:59,000 --> 01:48:59,875 We're proud of our children, 1888 01:48:59,875 --> 01:49:00,458 just like everybody's 1889 01:49:00,458 --> 01:49:01,083 proud of their children. 1890 01:49:01,625 --> 01:49:02,291 That's not the type, 1891 01:49:02,291 --> 01:49:03,083 that's not the side of this 1892 01:49:03,083 --> 01:49:04,750 that we always choose to talk about here, 1893 01:49:04,750 --> 01:49:05,375 which we probably should 1894 01:49:05,375 --> 01:49:06,291 talk about that more often. 1895 01:49:06,875 --> 01:49:08,791 But it is, that's just 1896 01:49:08,791 --> 01:49:09,791 so much pressure for them 1897 01:49:09,791 --> 01:49:15,000 to produce results academically, 1898 01:49:15,333 --> 01:49:16,750 athletically, socially. 1899 01:49:17,041 --> 01:49:17,708 I mean, there's just 1900 01:49:17,708 --> 01:49:19,375 so much stress there. 1901 01:49:19,375 --> 01:49:22,958 And that's part of them, 1902 01:49:23,375 --> 01:49:25,708 that stress to them feeds out to us, 1903 01:49:26,250 --> 01:49:27,916 and then it just becomes a stress loop. 1904 01:49:27,916 --> 01:49:29,291 And that's where, even 1905 01:49:29,291 --> 01:49:30,500 when I was saying it earlier, 1906 01:49:30,500 --> 01:49:31,166 like, all right, 1907 01:49:31,166 --> 01:49:32,916 everybody, stress time out. 1908 01:49:33,166 --> 01:49:33,583 Stress time out. 1909 01:49:33,625 --> 01:49:34,208 I know we have high 1910 01:49:34,208 --> 01:49:35,416 expectations in the house. 1911 01:49:35,416 --> 01:49:36,500 I know we're strung out. 1912 01:49:36,500 --> 01:49:37,916 I know we're busy, but 1913 01:49:37,916 --> 01:49:39,125 we need to take a breath. 1914 01:49:40,000 --> 01:49:40,458 You know what I mean? 1915 01:49:41,000 --> 01:49:42,041 Life is good. 1916 01:49:42,041 --> 01:49:43,000 Let's all have a smile. 1917 01:49:43,500 --> 01:49:45,500 If you're adding to the stress, stop. 1918 01:49:45,833 --> 01:49:46,000 Right. 1919 01:49:47,333 --> 01:49:47,375 (laughing) 1920 01:49:47,375 --> 01:49:48,083 Just stop. 1921 01:49:48,625 --> 01:49:48,833 Yeah. 1922 01:49:49,375 --> 01:49:50,125 And life will go on. 1923 01:49:50,500 --> 01:49:50,833 Exactly. 1924 01:49:50,833 --> 01:49:51,500 It'll go on after 1925 01:49:51,500 --> 01:49:52,750 that 91 and we'll learn. 1926 01:49:52,791 --> 01:49:54,500 It'll go on after, we got 1927 01:49:54,500 --> 01:49:55,708 knocked out of the state, 1928 01:49:56,000 --> 01:49:57,291 you know, tournament, and it'll go on 1929 01:49:57,291 --> 01:50:00,083 after a third place. 1930 01:50:02,000 --> 01:50:02,291 It will. 1931 01:50:02,916 --> 01:50:03,041 Yeah. 1932 01:50:04,166 --> 01:50:04,583 It will. 1933 01:50:04,833 --> 01:50:05,000 Well. 1934 01:50:05,750 --> 01:50:07,083 And it'll go on even 1935 01:50:07,083 --> 01:50:08,000 though you had to go back 1936 01:50:08,000 --> 01:50:09,000 to work today. 1937 01:50:09,250 --> 01:50:09,541 It will. 1938 01:50:09,583 --> 01:50:10,541 Behind somebody driving slow. 1939 01:50:11,083 --> 01:50:11,375 Yes. 1940 01:50:11,958 --> 01:50:12,791 Yes, it will. 1941 01:50:12,833 --> 01:50:15,000 And I'll be going somewhere else. 1942 01:50:15,208 --> 01:50:17,833 It'll go on when I go get my plans 1943 01:50:17,833 --> 01:50:18,833 printed somewhere else. 1944 01:50:20,083 --> 01:50:20,875 But not at Stables. 1945 01:50:21,708 --> 01:50:22,958 That's what I mean by somewhere else. 1946 01:50:23,791 --> 01:50:24,000 Yeah. 1947 01:50:24,125 --> 01:50:24,958 Just not Stables. 1948 01:50:25,791 --> 01:50:26,625 Oh my gosh. 1949 01:50:27,458 --> 01:50:29,166 Oh, all right. 1950 01:50:29,166 --> 01:50:30,666 Well, we are running long. 1951 01:50:31,250 --> 01:50:31,875 Yeah, I know. 1952 01:50:32,125 --> 01:50:33,416 So much for, well, that's what happens 1953 01:50:33,416 --> 01:50:35,958 when we're three weeks behind. 1954 01:50:36,916 --> 01:50:37,666 I always say, we got 1955 01:50:37,666 --> 01:50:38,583 plenty to talk about. 1956 01:50:38,791 --> 01:50:40,000 Plenty to talk about. 1957 01:50:40,041 --> 01:50:40,625 So you can either get 1958 01:50:40,625 --> 01:50:42,166 us for 40 minutes weekly, 1959 01:50:43,166 --> 01:50:43,791 or you can get us for an 1960 01:50:43,791 --> 01:50:44,875 hour every three weeks. 1961 01:50:47,583 --> 01:50:48,500 The math would suggest 1962 01:50:48,500 --> 01:50:50,333 the hour every three weeks 1963 01:50:50,458 --> 01:50:53,083 is still a better use of your time. 1964 01:50:53,083 --> 01:50:54,041 Yeah, that's easier for me too. 1965 01:50:54,416 --> 01:50:56,041 So I'm on board. 1966 01:50:57,000 --> 01:50:57,416 Choo choo. 1967 01:50:58,333 --> 01:50:59,375 Choo choo. 1968 01:50:59,583 --> 01:51:00,666 Pun intended, right? 1969 01:51:01,791 --> 01:51:02,250 Yeah, that's true. 1970 01:51:02,625 --> 01:51:03,041 Mm-hmm. 1971 01:51:03,041 --> 01:51:03,666 That was good. 1972 01:51:03,666 --> 01:51:04,458 You're so quick-witted. 1973 01:51:05,125 --> 01:51:06,500 No, no, no, no, no, no. 1974 01:51:06,750 --> 01:51:09,208 All right, well, we will be back. 1975 01:51:10,166 --> 01:51:11,083 When the day is new. 1976 01:51:11,666 --> 01:51:12,500 When the week is new. 1977 01:51:13,416 --> 01:51:14,583 We'll have more to talk about. 1978 01:51:16,833 --> 01:51:16,958 Nope. 1979 01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:17,791 And so will you. 1980 01:51:18,500 --> 01:51:18,666 Yeah. 1981 01:51:19,500 --> 01:51:20,625 No, really, it doesn't work. 1982 01:51:21,041 --> 01:51:22,875 Yeah, so how did Mr. Rogers say that? 1983 01:51:23,750 --> 01:51:24,791 He didn't talk to people. 1984 01:51:24,791 --> 01:51:25,625 Was it his neighbors that 1985 01:51:25,625 --> 01:51:26,833 came by that he's talking about? 1986 01:51:26,875 --> 01:51:27,541 I think so. 1987 01:51:27,791 --> 01:51:28,000 Yeah. 1988 01:51:28,708 --> 01:51:29,750 In the land of make believe 1989 01:51:29,750 --> 01:51:31,083 with the trolley that went? 1990 01:51:31,666 --> 01:51:31,833 Yeah. 1991 01:51:32,958 --> 01:51:34,916 Oh, I miss Mr. Rogers. 1992 01:51:36,666 --> 01:51:37,791 I don't, but he's nostalgic. 1993 01:51:39,750 --> 01:51:39,958 (laughing) 1994 01:51:40,541 --> 01:51:42,000 If we had more Mr. Rogers, 1995 01:51:42,000 --> 01:51:42,583 maybe there would be 1996 01:51:42,583 --> 01:51:45,791 less people like the lady 1997 01:51:45,791 --> 01:51:46,375 at the Staples. 1998 01:51:47,708 --> 01:51:48,458 I'll leave you with this. 1999 01:51:49,000 --> 01:51:50,916 That t-shirt that I took a picture of, 2000 01:51:50,916 --> 01:51:52,125 someone put it on Instagram. 2001 01:51:52,375 --> 01:51:53,083 I don't even think it's 2002 01:51:53,083 --> 01:51:54,250 real, I think it was AI'd, 2003 01:51:54,250 --> 01:51:58,250 but it was Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, 2004 01:51:59,125 --> 01:52:00,166 and the crocodile hunter. 2005 01:52:01,458 --> 01:52:01,500 (laughing) 2006 01:52:01,500 --> 01:52:04,541 The three best people, you know, 2007 01:52:04,541 --> 01:52:07,291 just to give you a chill vibe. 2008 01:52:07,666 --> 01:52:08,125 Yep. 2009 01:52:08,291 --> 01:52:10,083 Talk about good karma and good juju. 2010 01:52:10,166 --> 01:52:12,583 Yeah, we're gonna make that t-shirt. 2011 01:52:13,000 --> 01:52:13,500 Yeah. 2012 01:52:13,500 --> 01:52:15,125 Go see their faces, we can't. 2013 01:52:15,333 --> 01:52:15,583 Crikey. 2014 01:52:16,166 --> 01:52:16,958 Crikey. 2015 01:52:17,541 --> 01:52:19,458 Crikey, that's a beautiful little tree. 2016 01:52:19,875 --> 01:52:20,625 Happy little tree. 2017 01:52:20,625 --> 01:52:22,166 It's a happy tree, happy tree. 2018 01:52:23,333 --> 01:52:24,375 Well, we'll see you tomorrow, neighbors. 2019 01:52:25,208 --> 01:52:26,291 I actually loved going 2020 01:52:26,291 --> 01:52:27,708 to my orthopedic surgeon 2021 01:52:27,916 --> 01:52:29,000 because they always had 2022 01:52:29,000 --> 01:52:30,458 Bob Ross in the waiting room. 2023 01:52:30,958 --> 01:52:31,666 Oh, on the TV? 2024 01:52:32,000 --> 01:52:32,541 On the TV. 2025 01:52:32,791 --> 01:52:33,000 Funny. 2026 01:52:33,625 --> 01:52:34,666 Or actually Bob Ross. 2027 01:52:37,041 --> 01:52:37,083 (laughing) 2028 01:52:38,583 --> 01:52:40,083 Bob Ross is on the TV. 2029 01:52:40,458 --> 01:52:41,833 I don't think he was sitting in there. 2030 01:52:42,458 --> 01:52:43,333 That would be so funny. 2031 01:52:43,916 --> 01:52:44,916 That would have popped into my head. 2032 01:52:45,125 --> 01:52:45,958 Bob Ross is just some 2033 01:52:45,958 --> 01:52:48,041 random orthodontic waiting room. 2034 01:52:49,375 --> 01:52:51,166 He has his easels set up and he's like, 2035 01:52:51,166 --> 01:52:55,125 happy tree, there are no mistakes, 2036 01:52:55,500 --> 01:52:57,083 just happy little accidents. 2037 01:52:57,541 --> 01:52:57,750 Yeah. 2038 01:52:59,250 --> 01:53:00,750 And nobody can paint as well as him. 2039 01:53:01,291 --> 01:53:03,791 No, the guy is really good. 2040 01:53:03,833 --> 01:53:04,458 Yeah, it's like 2041 01:53:04,458 --> 01:53:05,875 Jackson Pollock's on this one 2042 01:53:05,875 --> 01:53:07,291 and like a Bob Ross on this one. 2043 01:53:07,666 --> 01:53:07,875 Right. 2044 01:53:10,375 --> 01:53:11,500 Shout out to Bob Ross. 2045 01:53:12,000 --> 01:53:13,541 Shout out to all three of those guys. 2046 01:53:13,583 --> 01:53:13,791 Yep. 2047 01:53:14,791 --> 01:53:15,916 My homies pour a little 2048 01:53:15,916 --> 01:53:16,833 liquor for those guys. 2049 01:53:19,791 --> 01:53:20,458 (laughing) 2050 01:53:23,791 --> 01:53:27,083 I'm trying to picture Mr. Rogers, 2051 01:53:27,500 --> 01:53:28,583 or Bob Ross for that 2052 01:53:28,583 --> 01:53:29,916 matter, drinking liquor. 2053 01:53:30,791 --> 01:53:32,833 I can see Bob, no, I can see Mr. Rogers 2054 01:53:32,833 --> 01:53:36,125 wearing his death row records here. 2055 01:53:36,958 --> 01:53:37,875 Snoop hooked him up with. 2056 01:53:38,166 --> 01:53:39,916 Oh yeah, for sure with his sweater vest 2057 01:53:40,500 --> 01:53:41,291 or with his sweater cardigan. 2058 01:53:41,625 --> 01:53:41,875 Yeah. 2059 01:53:43,750 --> 01:53:44,250 I see it. 2060 01:53:45,000 --> 01:53:46,458 Wearing his untied Jordans. 2061 01:53:46,750 --> 01:53:46,958 Yeah. 2062 01:53:47,458 --> 01:53:49,625 Now I can see Bob Ross smoking a joint, 2063 01:53:49,625 --> 01:53:51,000 I just can't see him drinking liquor. 2064 01:53:52,458 --> 01:53:52,833 Yeah. 2065 01:53:53,208 --> 01:53:55,083 I totally see that man. 2066 01:53:55,083 --> 01:53:56,083 I can see all of that. 2067 01:53:57,583 --> 01:53:57,625 (laughing) 2068 01:53:57,625 --> 01:53:58,833 Yeah, I see Bob Ross 2069 01:53:58,833 --> 01:53:59,583 doing a lot of things. 2070 01:54:02,041 --> 01:54:03,625 We might have to unpack that next week 2071 01:54:03,625 --> 01:54:05,541 because that actually surprised me. 2072 01:54:07,666 --> 01:54:08,375 All right, well we've 2073 01:54:08,375 --> 01:54:09,791 extended by another five minutes. 2074 01:54:11,708 --> 01:54:13,541 Oh, you can tell it's been a long day. 2075 01:54:14,000 --> 01:54:14,791 Yeah, yeah. 2076 01:54:15,041 --> 01:54:15,250 All right. 2077 01:54:15,291 --> 01:54:17,375 So we'll say adios. 2078 01:54:18,250 --> 01:54:19,208 That's not what you say. 2079 01:54:19,208 --> 01:54:20,000 No, that's not what I say. 2080 01:54:20,000 --> 01:54:20,625 I say cha-cha. 2081 01:54:21,000 --> 01:54:21,708 That's what you say, or 2082 01:54:21,708 --> 01:54:22,250 you just try it again. 2083 01:54:22,583 --> 01:54:22,791 Okay. 2084 01:54:22,833 --> 01:54:24,333 All right, well, we'll 2085 01:54:24,333 --> 01:54:26,583 catch you on the flip side. 2086 01:54:27,625 --> 01:54:27,958 Cha-cha. 2087 01:54:28,958 --> 01:54:29,958 Wait, let me do it one more time. 2088 01:54:30,583 --> 01:54:31,500 Let me do it this way. 2089 01:54:31,958 --> 01:54:32,666 All right, we're gonna 2090 01:54:32,666 --> 01:54:33,500 pour a little liquor. 2091 01:54:34,083 --> 01:54:34,666 Peace, my brothers. 2092 01:54:35,833 --> 01:54:36,083 Cha-cha. 2093 01:54:37,000 --> 01:54:37,916 All right, we'll see you. 2094 01:54:38,166 --> 01:54:41,333 (upbeat music) 2095 01:59:59,916 --> 02:00:00,916 (upbeat music) 2096 02:00:01,875 --> 02:00:02,750 We're back. 2097 02:00:03,375 --> 02:00:04,458 Our highlights can 2098 02:00:04,458 --> 02:00:05,875 sometimes be very entertaining. 2099 02:00:06,208 --> 02:00:06,833 To us at least. 2100 02:00:07,250 --> 02:00:08,166 I literally thought, 2101 02:00:08,166 --> 02:00:09,541 am I the one throwing all 2102 02:00:09,541 --> 02:00:10,708 this bad juju out there? 2103 02:00:11,291 --> 02:00:11,916 But I go back to that 2104 02:00:11,916 --> 02:00:13,541 Robin Williams thing, you know, 2105 02:00:13,541 --> 02:00:14,583 you never know what 2106 02:00:14,583 --> 02:00:15,625 someone else is going through. 2107 02:00:15,958 --> 02:00:17,375 Well, you know what, karma's real. 2108 02:00:18,166 --> 02:00:19,166 I learned a long time ago, 2109 02:00:19,166 --> 02:00:20,833 I'm not going to invest in people 2110 02:00:21,458 --> 02:00:23,500 that aren't worth investing in. 2111 02:00:23,500 --> 02:00:24,333 I mean, it's just one of 2112 02:00:24,333 --> 02:00:25,375 those things in human nature 2113 02:00:25,375 --> 02:00:26,500 where everybody thinks they're right. 2114 02:00:27,666 --> 02:00:28,041 Well, I'm right. 2115 02:00:28,916 --> 02:00:30,250 It's not me, it's not me. 2116 02:00:30,250 --> 02:00:30,958 And you had it right the 2117 02:00:30,958 --> 02:00:32,000 first time, I was wrong. 2118 02:00:32,416 --> 02:00:34,291 Yeah, well, there is a 2119 02:00:34,291 --> 02:00:35,458 first time for everything. 2120 02:00:35,833 --> 02:00:37,041 Totally wrong, you got it right. 2121 02:00:37,375 --> 02:00:39,083 I cried at senior night this year. 2122 02:00:39,541 --> 02:00:42,166 Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, 2123 02:00:42,541 --> 02:00:44,000 in the crocodile hunter. 2124 02:00:44,416 --> 02:00:46,125 Talk about good karma and good juju. 2125 02:00:46,500 --> 02:00:48,416 Oh, I miss Mr. Rogers. 2126 02:00:50,125 --> 02:00:51,333 I don't, but he's nostalgic. 2127 02:00:51,833 --> 02:00:52,916 My homies pour a little 2128 02:00:52,916 --> 02:00:53,791 liquor for those guys. 2129 02:00:54,250 --> 02:00:56,333 (upbeat music) 2130 02:00:56,333 --> 02:00:57,416 (laughing)