Empowering Trans Youth: Language, Intimacy, and Support

Gender dysphoria impacts how young people relate to their bodies, intimacy, and care. But when stigma and misinformation get loud, affirming language and evidence-based resources matter more than ever. In this conversation, host Cyn Sweeney sits down with Hanley Smith (Heal Nova Scotia; Check Me Out) to explore safer intimacy, language experimentation, and trans-inclusive sexual health—especially for those outside major city centers.

Together they discuss:

• Why affirming homes build lifelong resilience
• Language tools that reduce dysphoria (and what NOT to do)
• Fetishization red flags and staying safer
• Intimacy when you’re navigating body discomfort
• The rise of online misinformation—and how to fact-check yourself
• Why community knowledge is powerful but can’t replace evidence-based care
• How the Check Me Out tool works (380+ possible custom responses!)

Takeaways:

1. Silence communicates shame; curiosity communicates care.
2. Let people choose the words for their bodies—then follow their lead.
3. Safety isn’t one perfect decision; it’s informed consent across time.
4. Community resources survive persecution; they deserve engagement.
5. Engagement (not just donations) keeps programs funded.

Resources mentioned: 

• Check Me Out — Trans-inclusive sexual health tool (18+)
• HEAL Nova Scotia
• Sugar Health (NS) — Sexual health directory + warm line
• zine libraries
• sexual health clinics
• community surveys

Music Credit:
Show intro/outro music courtesy of: Craymo: https://www.craymo.com/ and Be Myself video

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Creators and Guests

Guest

Hanley Smith

Co-Creator of CheckMeOut & Program Coordinator at HEAL NS

What is Simply Beyond?

A Simply Good Form podcast exploring transgender inclusion, gender diversity, and inclusive leadership — one bold conversation at a time.

Hosted by award-winning advocate and proud mama bear Cyndi Sweeney (she/her), Simply Beyond amplifies the lived experiences of trans, non-binary, and 2SLGBTQIA+ voices across Canada and beyond.

Through real stories, candid conversations, and practical insights, we go beyond the binary to build connection, foster belonging, and inspire allyship at home, at work, and in our communities.

Whether you're a curious ally, a parent of a trans kid, or a leader working to create safer, more inclusive spaces — you're in the right place.

Because every voice matters. And every story counts.