Imagine this:
You’re in a relationship
that feels more like a minefield than a safe space.
• You wake up wondering, “What mood will they be in today?”
• A single word, a glance,
or even silence sends your nervous system spiraling.
• You’re constantly tiptoeing around triggers,
theirs and yours.
• Conflict feels unbearable—
so you either avoid it or explode,
and both leave you feeling worse.
(And If you’re single— it’s probably because of
the pain and exhaustion of being in a relationship
like the one described above)
And the worst part is,
You can’t escape the loop.
You’ve read the books,
listened to the podcasts,
studied polarity,
even tried the communication courses,
therapy, maybe even done the workshops…
And yet, here you are, living in the reality that
you can’t solve a problem you don’t fully understand.
Most people stuck in insecure attachments
aren’t just battling relationship issues—
they’re battling EMOTIONAL ILLITERACY.
Here’s what it looks like:
You freeze in conflict: When emotions rise,
you shut down, go numb, and avoid.
You think you’re “keeping the peace,” but inside,
resentment builds like a volcano waiting to erupt.
(You’re stuck in what’s called dorsal vagal shutdown)
You snap at the wrong time:
Anger bubbles to the surface,
but it explodes at the wrong moment,
or toward the wrong person,
creating damage you didn’t intend.
(You’re stuck in what’s called "sympathetic overdrive”.)
You suppress everything:
Years of anger, sadness, and fear sit unresolved inside you.
It’s like emotional constipation—
backed up, uncomfortable, and toxic.
(You’re stuck in dorsal collapse.)
You can’t connect: The very thing you need—
connection—feels impossible.
Reaching out feels like a burden, so you retreat further into yourself.
(You’re stuck in isolation.)
You don’t know how to feel:
You don’t just suppress emotions—
you’ve forgotten how to feel them.
Sadness becomes anger.
Anger becomes guilt.
Guilt becomes shame.
And you’re left overwhelmed,
with no roadmap to make sense of it all.
Sound familiar?
The Cost of Staying Here
If nothing changes, this gets to be your reality:
• You’ll stay stuck in the same toxic patterns,
year after year.
• Your relationships continue to feel like endless battles or cold,
disconnected standoffs.
• Anxiety and stress dominate your life,
leaving you exhausted and emotionally burned out.
• Your kids (if you have them) unconsciously inherit the same emotional illiteracy,
continuing the cycle.
2025 will be no different than 2024—
just another year of surviving instead of thriving.
But it doesn’t have to be that way.
EMOTIONAL LITERACY is the key to breaking the cycle.
It’s the ability to:
• Understand what your emotions are trying to tell you.
• Move through triggers, anger, sadness,
and fear without suppressing or exploding.
• Reconnect with your body and your sensations,
even when it feels uncomfortable.
• Shift out of the freeze and into a state of calm,
grounded presence.
• Build relationships rooted in safety, connection, and trust—not reactivity.
Here’s the catch:
You can’t learn this from a book or a YouTube video.
and she was blown away to realize that her education skipped
emotional literacy.
And binge watching my youtube videos was a night and day difference
we don’t just talk about emotional literacy—we live it.
I teach you how to process what’s stuck.
I guide you out of freeze, step by step.
We create a safe space for you to reconnect with yourself and others.
It’s like potty training for your emotions—
except instead of a toddler learning the bathroom routine,
it’s you learning to feel, process,
and regulate emotions you’ve suppressed for years.
If you haven’t figured out how to do this yet—
if you’re tired of walking on eggshells,
stuck in the same patterns of fear,
overthinking, and self-abandonment—just know:
I WAS RIGHT THERE WITH YOU A FEW YEARS AGO.
I lived in a toxic trauma bond push-pull dynamic,
where the police had to get involved.
I was stuck in the endless cycle of blame,
resentment, and walking on eggshells.
But now— it’s completely different.
Now, I’ve created a relationship rooted in:
Understanding--We listen, we share,
we truly see each other.
Laughter--The kind that fills the house
and reminds us why we chose each other.
Connection: Real, deep connection
that doesn’t feel forced or performative.
Sexy time--Frequent, fun,
and fulfilling intimacy that strengthens our bond,
(even after having a kid).
Conflict resolution—
Arguments that last no longer than 2-3 minutes—
because we know how to repair and resolve with grace.
Holidays and weekends--Full of ease and connection,
not tension and unspoken resentment.
A home that feels like a sanctuary—
A space where we both feel safe, respected, and valued.
If I can go from chaos, fear, and toxic cycles
to this kind of love and stability, you can too.
The only thing standing between you
and the relationship you want
is learning the skills to navigate your emotions,
heal your wounds, and show up as your adult self.
This is the work we do together.
Your wingman on the adventure,
Nima
________________________________________________
P.S. If you’re ready to break free from the cycle of emotional illiteracy,
here’s your chance:
I’m offering a Blind Spot Call—normally $497—
for FREE to those who are truly ready to transform
(read details CAREFULLY in the P.S. to see if you qualify)
This is for you if:
• You’ve tried therapy, read the books, and done the work, but still feel stuck.
• You’re tired of living in the same patterns of anxiety, reactivity, and disconnection.
• You’re determined not to carry these patterns into another year.
2025 doesn’t have to be another year of surviving.
It can be the year you master emotional literacy,
reconnect with your body, and create relationships that feel secure, grounded, and magnetic.
If you’re ready to finally take the leap,
1) REPLY WITH YOUR BACK STORY,
2) share what modalities you’ve tried and invested in,
3) and what has worked and what hasn’t,
and let’s uncover what’s been holding you back.
FINISH THE REPLY WITH “Nima can you please send me your private calendar link”
I’m happy to give you my time to see your blind spots
if you take the time to do the above.
This is your moment to break the cycle—
and step into the life and relationships you deserve.