1 01:00:01,250 --> 01:00:02,000 Good morning. 2 01:00:03,958 --> 01:00:06,041 And welcome to morning cereal 3 01:00:12,250 --> 01:00:14,166 Okay, good morning and welcome to 4 01:00:14,166 --> 01:00:15,708 Wednesday. It's the middle of the week 5 01:00:15,708 --> 01:00:18,750 and today is coming from the cold day 6 01:00:19,041 --> 01:00:21,375 Literally, and that seems like some 7 01:00:21,375 --> 01:00:23,625 pretty good advice given the polar vortex 8 01:00:23,666 --> 01:00:24,958 Most of the country has been 9 01:00:24,958 --> 01:00:26,416 under the last couple of days 10 01:00:26,750 --> 01:00:29,125 Well, it's also a national grandpa day. 11 01:00:29,125 --> 01:00:30,875 So give your grandpa a ring if you can 12 01:00:30,875 --> 01:00:32,625 and tell him how special he is 13 01:00:33,083 --> 01:00:35,500 Lastly, I thought I'd point out it's also 14 01:00:35,500 --> 01:00:38,416 celebration of life day and that day has 15 01:00:38,416 --> 01:00:39,375 come to signify all 16 01:00:39,375 --> 01:00:40,625 that's good about being alive 17 01:00:40,750 --> 01:00:43,916 It's easy to forget sometimes just all 18 01:00:43,916 --> 01:00:45,708 the things that had to come together 19 01:00:45,958 --> 01:00:47,708 Perfectly for you and I to be 20 01:00:47,708 --> 01:00:49,291 alive at this moment in time 21 01:00:49,500 --> 01:00:52,541 So we're super fortunate to be here and 22 01:00:52,541 --> 01:00:55,083 take time to celebrate that the good far 23 01:00:55,083 --> 01:00:56,583 outweighs the bad in this life 24 01:00:57,125 --> 01:00:58,416 And it all starts with 25 01:00:58,416 --> 01:00:59,708 gratitude and appreciation 26 01:01:00,083 --> 01:01:01,541 Where you are right now? 27 01:01:02,125 --> 01:01:04,291 Okay, let's go ahead and jump into 28 01:01:04,291 --> 01:01:05,958 today's episode with today's quotes 29 01:01:06,291 --> 01:01:08,666 One fun nostalgic quote and then a second 30 01:01:08,666 --> 01:01:10,375 quote to tease our book review later in 31 01:01:10,375 --> 01:01:12,000 the episode as always 32 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:13,666 I hope one of these quotes will speak to 33 01:01:13,666 --> 01:01:14,625 you and kickstart your 34 01:01:14,625 --> 01:01:15,916 day in a positive direction 35 01:01:16,375 --> 01:01:16,916 Okay 36 01:01:17,541 --> 01:01:19,541 Here's the first quote. It's from the 37 01:01:19,541 --> 01:01:21,791 character Peter Banning better known as 38 01:01:21,791 --> 01:01:23,958 Peter Pan and it's from the movie hook 39 01:01:23,958 --> 01:01:24,916 and it's in response 40 01:01:24,916 --> 01:01:27,458 To Wendy asking Peter the question 41 01:01:27,791 --> 01:01:31,541 So your adventures are over and here's 42 01:01:31,541 --> 01:01:32,625 the quote Peter Pan says 43 01:01:32,666 --> 01:01:36,291 Oh, no to live to live would be an 44 01:01:36,291 --> 01:01:37,791 awfully big adventure 45 01:01:38,208 --> 01:01:40,625 So my take away from that is we're all in 46 01:01:40,625 --> 01:01:41,958 the middle of our own adventures 47 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,625 So make the most of it especially on this 48 01:01:44,625 --> 01:01:45,833 celebration of life day 49 01:01:46,666 --> 01:01:48,708 Okay, today's teaser quote from the book 50 01:01:48,708 --> 01:01:51,250 review is these things have literally 51 01:01:51,250 --> 01:01:52,666 revolutionized my life. 52 01:01:52,666 --> 01:01:54,333 I'm a totally different man 53 01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:56,125 happier man a 54 01:01:56,166 --> 01:01:57,625 richer man richer in 55 01:01:57,625 --> 01:01:59,000 friendships and happiness 56 01:01:59,041 --> 01:02:01,958 In quote and as usual we'll unpack that 57 01:02:01,958 --> 01:02:03,000 here in just a few minutes 58 01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:04,208 during the book review segment 59 01:02:04,291 --> 01:02:06,791 But first let's jump into our usual dose 60 01:02:06,791 --> 01:02:08,333 of fun and historic facts 61 01:02:08,333 --> 01:02:09,625 from this day in history 62 01:02:10,416 --> 01:02:13,875 Today's news facts are for January 22nd 63 01:02:14,250 --> 01:02:14,791 We're gonna start in 64 01:02:14,791 --> 01:02:18,083 1943 when on this day 65 01:02:18,250 --> 01:02:20,791 We saw the world record set for the 66 01:02:20,791 --> 01:02:22,333 fastest temperature change 67 01:02:22,583 --> 01:02:24,875 Now the fastest temperature change 68 01:02:24,875 --> 01:02:27,125 recorded in history occurred on this day 69 01:02:27,125 --> 01:02:29,208 in Spearfish, South Dakota 70 01:02:30,041 --> 01:02:32,208 The temperature increased from negative 4 71 01:02:32,208 --> 01:02:35,083 degrees Fahrenheit to positive 72 01:02:35,708 --> 01:02:38,750 45 degrees Fahrenheit and get this it 73 01:02:38,750 --> 01:02:41,333 happened in the span of two minutes just 74 01:02:41,333 --> 01:02:42,416 two minutes set a 75 01:02:42,416 --> 01:02:44,291 world record for that in 76 01:02:44,791 --> 01:02:46,333 1970 as hard as it is 77 01:02:46,333 --> 01:02:47,583 to believe the Boeing 78 01:02:47,791 --> 01:02:50,583 747 took off for the very first scheduled 79 01:02:50,583 --> 01:02:53,166 flight. It was a Pan Am jumbo jet that 80 01:02:53,166 --> 01:02:55,958 flew from New York to London in 81 01:02:56,625 --> 01:02:59,291 1973 in a landmark decision the US 82 01:02:59,291 --> 01:03:01,916 Supreme Court legalized most abortions. 83 01:03:02,125 --> 01:03:04,583 That was Roe v. Wade and 84 01:03:04,583 --> 01:03:07,500 In 1983 and this is one I didn't realize 85 01:03:07,500 --> 01:03:09,083 but after nearly two years 86 01:03:09,083 --> 01:03:10,916 of already being on the air 87 01:03:11,666 --> 01:03:13,500 MTV they began broadcasting 88 01:03:13,500 --> 01:03:15,541 to the west coast of America in 89 01:03:16,500 --> 01:03:19,375 1992 serving as a payload specialist 90 01:03:19,375 --> 01:03:21,125 aboard the Discovery Space Shuttle 91 01:03:21,458 --> 01:03:23,208 Roberta Bond are became the first 92 01:03:23,208 --> 01:03:25,583 Canadian woman and the first neurologist 93 01:03:25,583 --> 01:03:28,375 to travel into space in 94 01:03:28,500 --> 01:03:30,458 1998 one of the most notorious domestic 95 01:03:30,458 --> 01:03:31,916 terrorists in US history 96 01:03:31,916 --> 01:03:34,083 Ted Kaczynski you remember him 97 01:03:34,083 --> 01:03:36,250 He was the so-called unibomber. Well, he 98 01:03:36,250 --> 01:03:38,500 was sentenced to four terms of life in 99 01:03:38,500 --> 01:03:39,666 prison without parole in 100 01:03:40,666 --> 01:03:43,333 2008 and this is a sad one 101 01:03:43,333 --> 01:03:45,041 but this is the day that Heath Ledger 102 01:03:45,041 --> 01:03:46,083 passed away of a drug 103 01:03:46,083 --> 01:03:49,500 overdose at the age of 28 and 104 01:03:49,500 --> 01:03:51,500 Lastly in 2010 struggling 105 01:03:51,500 --> 01:03:52,958 with ratings Conan O'Brien 106 01:03:52,958 --> 01:03:54,500 He left the Tonight Show after hosting 107 01:03:54,500 --> 01:03:55,583 his last episode of the 108 01:03:55,583 --> 01:03:56,875 late-night television program 109 01:03:56,875 --> 01:03:59,416 And if you remember Conan went on to host 110 01:03:59,416 --> 01:04:00,583 his own show Conan on 111 01:04:00,583 --> 01:04:02,208 TBS for the next 11 years 112 01:04:02,625 --> 01:04:04,541 Okay, let's move on to birthdays. Happy 113 01:04:04,541 --> 01:04:06,916 birthday. If today is your birthday you 114 01:04:06,916 --> 01:04:09,041 share a birthday with Bill Bixby 115 01:04:09,125 --> 01:04:11,125 He was born in 1934 116 01:04:11,458 --> 01:04:13,416 Now you might remember him and I 117 01:04:13,416 --> 01:04:15,541 definitely know I remember Bill as he 118 01:04:15,541 --> 01:04:18,500 played dr. David Banner on the Incredible 119 01:04:18,500 --> 01:04:19,791 Hulk television series 120 01:04:19,791 --> 01:04:23,125 That started I think back in the 1970s 121 01:04:23,416 --> 01:04:27,208 Caitlin Clark, she's 23 today and DJ 122 01:04:27,208 --> 01:04:29,666 Jazzy Jeff. He's 60 today 123 01:04:30,708 --> 01:04:31,791 Okay, let's go ahead and turn to the 124 01:04:31,791 --> 01:04:32,791 music in the movies of 125 01:04:32,791 --> 01:04:34,833 the 80s 90s and 2000s 126 01:04:35,041 --> 01:04:36,958 the number one song on this date in 127 01:04:37,708 --> 01:04:41,500 1998 was truly madly deeply by the 128 01:04:41,500 --> 01:04:43,125 Australian band Savage Garden 129 01:04:43,875 --> 01:04:45,708 Now this song was number one for two 130 01:04:45,708 --> 01:04:48,125 weeks and apparently it was the first 131 01:04:48,125 --> 01:04:49,583 song in charts history 132 01:04:49,666 --> 01:04:53,625 To remain in the top 30 for 52 weeks and 133 01:04:53,625 --> 01:04:56,166 it was the most played song in 1997 134 01:04:56,833 --> 01:04:59,375 It also kept the band from becoming the 135 01:04:59,375 --> 01:05:01,833 dreaded one-hit wonder as it was the 136 01:05:01,833 --> 01:05:03,041 follow-up to their previous 137 01:05:03,041 --> 01:05:04,416 number one song to the moon 138 01:05:05,208 --> 01:05:07,250 The band had a total of three number one 139 01:05:07,250 --> 01:05:09,791 hits in the US before breaking up in 2001 140 01:05:11,250 --> 01:05:12,166 And the number one movie on 141 01:05:12,166 --> 01:05:14,625 this date in 1992 was hook 142 01:05:15,208 --> 01:05:17,291 Hook as you might recall was Steven 143 01:05:17,291 --> 01:05:19,875 Spielberg's adaptation of Peter Pan and 144 01:05:19,875 --> 01:05:22,250 it starred Robin Williams Dustin Hoffman 145 01:05:22,333 --> 01:05:24,791 Gwyneth Paltrow Julia Roberts 146 01:05:25,625 --> 01:05:27,833 Interestingly Gwyneth Paltrow and I 147 01:05:27,833 --> 01:05:29,333 didn't remember this but Gwyneth Paltrow 148 01:05:29,333 --> 01:05:31,208 starred as young Wendy in this and it was 149 01:05:31,208 --> 01:05:32,500 only her second movie at 150 01:05:32,500 --> 01:05:34,208 The time apparently Steven 151 01:05:34,208 --> 01:05:35,875 Spielberg is her godfather 152 01:05:37,041 --> 01:05:39,791 Also Julia Roberts role as Tinkerbell it 153 01:05:39,791 --> 01:05:41,708 earned her a razzie nomination for the 154 01:05:41,708 --> 01:05:42,875 worst supporting actress 155 01:05:42,875 --> 01:05:44,916 And it was the first razzie nomination 156 01:05:44,916 --> 01:05:46,833 for a role directed by Spielberg 157 01:05:47,125 --> 01:05:49,125 Hook went on to be nominated for five 158 01:05:49,125 --> 01:05:51,166 Academy Awards, but unfortunately it 159 01:05:51,166 --> 01:05:52,541 wasn't able to take home any wins 160 01:05:54,083 --> 01:05:55,458 Well, let's move on to some personal 161 01:05:55,458 --> 01:05:57,166 growth here in the book review segment of 162 01:05:57,166 --> 01:05:58,833 morning serial as you know 163 01:05:58,875 --> 01:06:00,625 This is where we take a few moments to 164 01:06:00,625 --> 01:06:01,583 reflect on lessons 165 01:06:01,583 --> 01:06:02,708 learned from the current book 166 01:06:02,708 --> 01:06:04,708 We're reading and currently we're reading 167 01:06:04,708 --> 01:06:06,250 through Dale Carnegie's how to win 168 01:06:06,250 --> 01:06:07,458 friends and influence people 169 01:06:08,083 --> 01:06:09,958 It's a timeless book that is consistently 170 01:06:09,958 --> 01:06:12,166 in all the must-read lists and it's 171 01:06:12,166 --> 01:06:14,250 packed with rock solid advice and 172 01:06:14,250 --> 01:06:16,166 Actions for us all to use and build 173 01:06:16,166 --> 01:06:18,375 healthy foundational concepts to live by 174 01:06:19,625 --> 01:06:21,875 We are still in chapter 2 of part 2 and 175 01:06:21,875 --> 01:06:23,375 it's entitled a simple way to 176 01:06:23,375 --> 01:06:24,291 make a good first impression 177 01:06:24,458 --> 01:06:27,458 and it's as simple and as we're learning 178 01:06:27,458 --> 01:06:28,708 as powerful as 179 01:06:28,708 --> 01:06:31,000 starting off with a smile as 180 01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:32,833 Carnegie reminds us throughout the book 181 01:06:32,833 --> 01:06:33,958 when dealing with people 182 01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,333 We must be authentic and it's the same 183 01:06:36,333 --> 01:06:39,125 with a smile give a real smile a 184 01:06:39,125 --> 01:06:40,958 heartwarming smile that comes from within 185 01:06:41,708 --> 01:06:43,750 Yesterday we discussed how the smile can 186 01:06:43,750 --> 01:06:45,000 affect other people's decisions 187 01:06:45,250 --> 01:06:47,416 Even when it's not seen as your 188 01:06:47,416 --> 01:06:49,000 enthusiasm and positivity 189 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:50,000 come through in your voice 190 01:06:50,791 --> 01:06:52,833 Carnegie also reminds us to have a good 191 01:06:52,833 --> 01:06:54,500 time when meeting with people if we want 192 01:06:54,500 --> 01:06:56,083 them to have a good time meeting with us 193 01:06:56,375 --> 01:06:58,583 Now if you'll recall yesterday Carnegie 194 01:06:58,583 --> 01:07:00,791 told us a story about the stockbroker who 195 01:07:00,791 --> 01:07:01,875 decided to implement a 196 01:07:01,875 --> 01:07:03,708 smile in the morning to his wife 197 01:07:04,041 --> 01:07:06,125 After years of just being a morning 198 01:07:06,125 --> 01:07:08,458 grouch and the effect of a consistent 199 01:07:08,458 --> 01:07:09,958 morning smile and greeting 200 01:07:10,125 --> 01:07:12,208 Was bringing more happiness into their 201 01:07:12,208 --> 01:07:13,875 home than they had had in years 202 01:07:14,833 --> 01:07:16,708 Well Carnegie continues his story with 203 01:07:16,708 --> 01:07:18,708 the same stockbroker who implemented this 204 01:07:18,708 --> 01:07:20,000 smile and greeting 205 01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:21,500 outside of his house as well 206 01:07:21,916 --> 01:07:24,208 He'd greet the elevator operator with a 207 01:07:24,208 --> 01:07:25,458 good morning and a smile 208 01:07:25,791 --> 01:07:27,583 He'd greet the doorman with a smile and 209 01:07:27,583 --> 01:07:29,041 he smiled at the cashier in 210 01:07:29,041 --> 01:07:31,166 the subway booth and at work 211 01:07:31,166 --> 01:07:32,958 He'd smile at people on the floor of the 212 01:07:32,958 --> 01:07:34,958 stock exchange that until recently had 213 01:07:34,958 --> 01:07:37,500 never even seen him smile and 214 01:07:37,500 --> 01:07:40,291 The stockbroker said quote I soon found 215 01:07:40,291 --> 01:07:41,291 that everybody was 216 01:07:41,291 --> 01:07:43,000 smiling back at me in quote 217 01:07:43,375 --> 01:07:45,125 People began to come to him with 218 01:07:45,125 --> 01:07:46,500 complaints or grievances 219 01:07:46,583 --> 01:07:48,791 And he found that working with others was 220 01:07:48,791 --> 01:07:49,708 easier when he just 221 01:07:49,708 --> 01:07:51,375 listened and smiled more 222 01:07:52,041 --> 01:07:54,000 This new philosophy was winning him new 223 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:54,875 friends and changing 224 01:07:54,875 --> 01:07:56,125 attitudes towards him 225 01:07:56,583 --> 01:07:58,708 The stockbroker says he also stopped 226 01:07:58,708 --> 01:08:00,791 criticizing people and instead gave 227 01:08:00,791 --> 01:08:02,291 appreciation and praise 228 01:08:02,458 --> 01:08:04,541 He tried to see the world from others 229 01:08:04,541 --> 01:08:06,666 perspectives and not just 230 01:08:06,666 --> 01:08:08,833 his wants which as you know 231 01:08:08,875 --> 01:08:10,541 And they should sound familiar to you 232 01:08:10,541 --> 01:08:12,291 They are basically the concepts in part 233 01:08:12,291 --> 01:08:14,416 one of this book and Carnegie's principle 234 01:08:14,416 --> 01:08:15,750 number one and number two 235 01:08:16,041 --> 01:08:17,750 Don't criticize condemn or complain and 236 01:08:17,750 --> 01:08:19,583 give honest and sincere appreciation 237 01:08:20,333 --> 01:08:22,583 Now although these changes sound simple 238 01:08:22,583 --> 01:08:23,750 to hear they are indeed 239 01:08:23,750 --> 01:08:25,500 powerful and can change lives 240 01:08:26,208 --> 01:08:27,791 I can see how if someone I knew that was 241 01:08:27,791 --> 01:08:29,833 usually quiet and kind of standoffish if 242 01:08:29,833 --> 01:08:31,458 they implemented these changes 243 01:08:31,458 --> 01:08:33,458 I can definitely see how they could 244 01:08:33,458 --> 01:08:34,625 completely change the 245 01:08:34,625 --> 01:08:36,541 way I view that person and 246 01:08:37,083 --> 01:08:39,458 The stockbroker said this about his life 247 01:08:39,458 --> 01:08:40,250 after making the 248 01:08:40,250 --> 01:08:41,833 consistent and genuine changes 249 01:08:41,833 --> 01:08:44,625 He said quote these things have literally 250 01:08:44,625 --> 01:08:46,375 revolutionized my life 251 01:08:46,750 --> 01:08:49,833 I'm a totally different man happier man a 252 01:08:49,833 --> 01:08:51,333 richer man richer in 253 01:08:51,333 --> 01:08:52,708 friendships and happiness 254 01:08:52,833 --> 01:08:54,458 The only things that 255 01:08:54,458 --> 01:08:56,333 matter much after all in quote 256 01:08:57,250 --> 01:08:59,291 One thing I don't want this book segment 257 01:08:59,291 --> 01:09:00,583 and personal review to 258 01:09:00,583 --> 01:09:02,125 become is to become too 259 01:09:02,541 --> 01:09:05,083 Philosophic or theoretical where we just 260 01:09:05,083 --> 01:09:06,291 talk about things that sound 261 01:09:06,291 --> 01:09:07,791 nice and look good on paper 262 01:09:08,041 --> 01:09:10,541 My hope in Carnegie's hope is that we 263 01:09:10,541 --> 01:09:11,791 really implement tools 264 01:09:11,791 --> 01:09:13,125 that can be life-changing 265 01:09:13,125 --> 01:09:15,458 And although Carnegie is talking about 266 01:09:15,458 --> 01:09:17,083 some fairly simple things here 267 01:09:17,083 --> 01:09:19,125 I would say that in today's world 268 01:09:19,125 --> 01:09:21,208 these principles are needed more than 269 01:09:21,208 --> 01:09:23,250 ever because these principles are not 270 01:09:23,250 --> 01:09:24,625 readily practiced by 271 01:09:24,625 --> 01:09:25,791 the average person in 272 01:09:26,583 --> 01:09:28,791 Carnegie's story of how this stockbroker 273 01:09:28,791 --> 01:09:30,125 found more happiness is 274 01:09:30,125 --> 01:09:31,583 not just fluff and rainbows 275 01:09:31,791 --> 01:09:33,458 It's in line with some of the 276 01:09:33,458 --> 01:09:35,708 best minds of our time as well 277 01:09:36,541 --> 01:09:38,958 Before his death Steve Jobs was said to 278 01:09:38,958 --> 01:09:41,416 have pinned a profound essay on the 279 01:09:41,416 --> 01:09:42,833 lessons he learned from life 280 01:09:43,625 --> 01:09:44,833 And at one point in the 281 01:09:44,833 --> 01:09:46,916 essay Jobs wrote this quote 282 01:09:47,291 --> 01:09:49,750 Don't educate your children to be rich 283 01:09:49,750 --> 01:09:51,041 educate them to be 284 01:09:51,041 --> 01:09:52,833 happy so when they grow up 285 01:09:52,833 --> 01:09:53,750 They will know the value 286 01:09:53,750 --> 01:09:55,166 of things not the price 287 01:09:56,041 --> 01:09:59,416 Also treasure love for your family love 288 01:09:59,416 --> 01:10:01,750 for your spouse love for your friends 289 01:10:02,333 --> 01:10:04,041 Treat yourself well and 290 01:10:04,041 --> 01:10:05,958 cherish others in quote 291 01:10:06,750 --> 01:10:07,750 Sounds similar to what 292 01:10:07,750 --> 01:10:09,333 Carnegie is telling us 293 01:10:09,750 --> 01:10:11,958 My point here is that I don't want to get 294 01:10:11,958 --> 01:10:13,916 lost in this personal growth section with 295 01:10:13,916 --> 01:10:15,125 surface level changes 296 01:10:15,708 --> 01:10:17,458 Carnegie is teaching us how to find more 297 01:10:17,458 --> 01:10:19,666 happiness in life how to make life 298 01:10:19,666 --> 01:10:21,750 altering positive changes and 299 01:10:22,291 --> 01:10:24,625 Along with that will come more success in 300 01:10:24,625 --> 01:10:26,916 our everyday lives and this is in line 301 01:10:26,916 --> 01:10:28,583 with what job said as well 302 01:10:29,250 --> 01:10:31,166 By the way jobs essay is definitely worth 303 01:10:31,166 --> 01:10:32,458 looking up for a quick read 304 01:10:32,958 --> 01:10:34,958 Okay, I'll close today with Carnegie 305 01:10:34,958 --> 01:10:36,875 asking the question. What if you don't 306 01:10:36,875 --> 01:10:39,083 feel like smiling then what? 307 01:10:39,708 --> 01:10:42,708 He says quote two things first force 308 01:10:42,708 --> 01:10:44,583 yourself to smile if you're alone 309 01:10:44,958 --> 01:10:46,083 Force yourself to 310 01:10:46,083 --> 01:10:48,125 whistle or hum a tune or sing 311 01:10:48,791 --> 01:10:51,458 Act as if you were already happy and that 312 01:10:51,458 --> 01:10:53,708 will tend to make you happy in quote 313 01:10:54,458 --> 01:10:56,541 Psychologist William James said quote 314 01:10:56,541 --> 01:11:00,000 action seems to follow feeling but really 315 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:03,041 action and feelings go together and 316 01:11:03,041 --> 01:11:05,416 By regulating the action which is under 317 01:11:05,416 --> 01:11:06,125 the more direct 318 01:11:06,125 --> 01:11:08,083 control of the will we can 319 01:11:08,500 --> 01:11:09,833 Indirectly regulate the 320 01:11:09,833 --> 01:11:12,125 feeling which is not in quote 321 01:11:12,291 --> 01:11:14,083 They are essentially saying if you need 322 01:11:14,083 --> 01:11:15,458 to jumpstart fake it 323 01:11:15,458 --> 01:11:17,083 until you make it now 324 01:11:17,083 --> 01:11:19,000 You know, I can't leave you with fake it 325 01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:20,708 until you make it. So I'll 326 01:11:20,708 --> 01:11:22,458 quote Carnegie one last time here 327 01:11:22,708 --> 01:11:25,208 He says quote everybody in the world is 328 01:11:25,208 --> 01:11:27,083 seeking happiness and there 329 01:11:27,083 --> 01:11:28,875 is one sure way to find it 330 01:11:29,500 --> 01:11:31,375 That is by controlling your thoughts 331 01:11:31,916 --> 01:11:33,958 Happiness doesn't depend on outward 332 01:11:33,958 --> 01:11:35,166 conditions. It 333 01:11:35,166 --> 01:11:36,791 depends on inner conditions 334 01:11:37,500 --> 01:11:39,708 Quote and that's what we're working on 335 01:11:39,708 --> 01:11:41,958 here real change real 336 01:11:42,583 --> 01:11:44,666 Life-changing change in ourselves and how 337 01:11:44,666 --> 01:11:46,583 we think and in how we act 338 01:11:47,708 --> 01:11:49,333 Well, that seemed pretty heavy for us. 339 01:11:49,333 --> 01:11:52,083 Just talking about some smiling now get 340 01:11:52,083 --> 01:11:53,625 out there kick some butt today 341 01:11:53,875 --> 01:11:56,500 Conquer that big project or personal goal 342 01:11:56,500 --> 01:11:57,916 and meet this day with 343 01:11:57,916 --> 01:11:59,333 energy and determination 344 01:12:00,041 --> 01:12:02,750 Tomorrow we finish chapter 2 of part 2 345 01:12:02,750 --> 01:12:04,875 and we learn Carnegie's second principle 346 01:12:05,166 --> 01:12:08,791 Have a fantastic day and 347 01:12:08,791 --> 01:12:09,541 we'll see you back here tomorrow 348 01:12:12,250 --> 01:12:14,083 Don't forget to follow and subscribe to 349 01:12:14,083 --> 01:12:14,708 the Morning Serial 350 01:12:14,708 --> 01:12:16,333 podcast on the One Life 351 01:12:16,541 --> 01:12:17,333 Live It channel. 352 01:12:17,875 --> 01:12:19,791 You can find more episodes and videos by 353 01:12:19,791 --> 01:12:20,541 visiting our YouTube 354 01:12:20,541 --> 01:12:22,708 channel and the website at Shawn 355 01:12:22,708 --> 01:12:25,333 English and at ShawnEnglish.com, where 356 01:12:25,333 --> 01:12:26,625 you can also follow our 357 01:12:26,625 --> 01:12:28,000 other podcast, the Mr. 358 01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:28,916 and Mrs. English podcast 359 01:12:28,916 --> 01:12:30,625 and the Life Happens podcast. 360 01:12:31,458 --> 01:12:33,125 In these other podcasts, we'll dive 361 01:12:33,125 --> 01:12:34,500 deeper into everyday issues, 362 01:12:34,791 --> 01:12:35,541 self-improvement and 363 01:12:35,541 --> 01:12:38,041 well-being, business and finance, and we 364 01:12:38,041 --> 01:12:39,291 welcome special guests too. 365 01:12:39,833 --> 01:12:40,541 So join us. 366 01:12:40,541 --> 01:12:41,875 It'll be a good time, I promise. 367 01:12:42,583 --> 01:12:43,416 Thanks again for listening. 368 01:12:43,666 --> 01:12:45,250 Have a fantastic day and 369 01:12:45,250 --> 01:12:45,791 we'll see you tomorrow.