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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to the Bible Guys, a podcast where a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of friends talk about the Bible in fun, in

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<v Speaker 1>practical ways. Hello, everybody, I just want to pause and

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<v Speaker 1>say I am thrilled that you're here. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about Jeff, but I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Thinking about it. We'll see, we'll see how good I

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<v Speaker 2>guess they are today listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, what's going to change your mind? What do they

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<v Speaker 3>have to do? What do you mean we'll see?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't Chris, If I tell them now, then how

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<v Speaker 4>you know? Then they're just going to manipulate the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're just gonna let it play play out.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, hopefully we'll get on your good side for one.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thrilled.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>So welcome to the Bible Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>We are going to kick off this segment with a

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<v Speaker 1>social medium in it, which is a great way to start.

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<v Speaker 4>See there they go right there, right, that's how they're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna That's how they did it, right there.

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<v Speaker 3>This is going to inform you how you feel about them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, how great?

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<v Speaker 3>That's great.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, even though it's only four people, yeah three, oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It is only three.

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<v Speaker 2>That one that has like two half loops is the three.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I got it all right? What you want to

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<v Speaker 3>read the first one?

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<v Speaker 2>The first one is from Ocean Golf. Two.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's not what a person's what a cool name?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi? Ocean golf too? Hey ocean hey?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it says so right on my birth certificate.

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<v Speaker 2>What kind of what is ocean golf? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know what, it's a person who probably travels.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a good friend who's an attorney who literally

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<v Speaker 1>travels all throughout the year to go to all the

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<v Speaker 1>golf courses.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and and golfing on the ocean maybe ocean, but

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<v Speaker 4>not not only like golf's on the ocean.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the second iteration, it's ocean golf. Two.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh right, So that's that's impressive. You know I used

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<v Speaker 4>to ocean golf. No, I got back to it. Ocean

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<v Speaker 4>golf too.

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<v Speaker 3>There's another golfer out there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, anyways, ocean golf too. So can you believe

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<v Speaker 4>somebody gave us this show?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? That's our listeners are going? What now? Okay, here

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<v Speaker 2>we go.

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<v Speaker 4>I love listening to your podcast. I appreciate the way

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<v Speaker 4>you teach, making the word understandable and relatable. I have

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<v Speaker 4>learned so much from both of you. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 4>touching on the subject of gifts. Remember when we talked

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<v Speaker 4>about spiritual gifts. Yeah, this is a topic. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>often shared, and for you two to put your personal

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<v Speaker 4>test stories and testimonies to these things is more affirming.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's very nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, thanks, big, oh big big og O G

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<v Speaker 4>two O G.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah the O G two there so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so, hey, appreciate you saying that the whole goal

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<v Speaker 1>for you know, unpacking God's word is to make it

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<v Speaker 1>understandable because it's supposed to be for application.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, spiritual gifts is something that we probably even

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk about even more.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So okay, So this next one is from DARCYG.

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<v Speaker 2>DARCYG. Yeah is that like her rap name.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she's married to Ocean G Ocean d Og.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, thank you Bible guys exclamation mark. You're so

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<v Speaker 1>insightful to bring the Bible to life and application to

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<v Speaker 1>our lives, especially when it's a little deep or confusing

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<v Speaker 1>to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Darcy. That's a very big compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and the good news is it's only when it's

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<v Speaker 4>a little deep, because if it went any deeper we

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't be able to handle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're it's just a little deep. Right, that's so good.

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<v Speaker 4>And then Carrie d says listening every morning and I

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<v Speaker 4>love the games, and that you don't take each other

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<v Speaker 4>too seriously.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for this podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's actually a great compliment. It makes me feel

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<v Speaker 1>better about the first six or seven minutes of.

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<v Speaker 2>It was only three, but it felt like seven.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, No, yeah, but sometimes right, we can get up

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<v Speaker 1>there to the seven race. I bet you there's people

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<v Speaker 1>who they're so either they're in a rush or they're

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<v Speaker 1>the anti.

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<v Speaker 3>Person, anti fun fun. I'm not interested in the person

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<v Speaker 3>of lawn.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they're listening to the podcast yelling the kids riding

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<v Speaker 4>buying their bicyclist.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>But he's gonna get you and your little dog too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get you, my pretty But I bet you they

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<v Speaker 1>fast forward it. That's there are some people probably you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I had a guy tell me that, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>told him find a different podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, But I did have a guy tell me that

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<v Speaker 2>he skips the fun stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I mean it's yeah, it is is sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>too silly for people.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the Bible says that a merry heart does good

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<v Speaker 2>like medicine.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that is good.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what it says. That is good, I know in

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<v Speaker 2>the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>And joy uh has a physical uh and mental and

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<v Speaker 1>emotional reaction to the body.

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<v Speaker 2>So laugh it's almost like what the Bible was saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, it's it's it's actually when people laugh, it

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<v Speaker 1>actually does the heart good, the emotional state.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, laughter and joy.

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<v Speaker 2>Something releases positive hormones on a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And interesting though, I mean, you could take something as

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<v Speaker 1>simple as that here we turned into you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>turn this six minutes seven minute, a little you know,

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<v Speaker 1>segment of laughter into the fact that God created us

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<v Speaker 1>that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, So how about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Is, if you and I don't get to laugh while

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<v Speaker 4>we're working, then we don't get to laugh because.

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<v Speaker 3>We're always what we always do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so we have a lot of fun, right, and

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<v Speaker 4>then the two of us together is it's not this

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<v Speaker 4>way with everybody that we know, but the two of

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<v Speaker 4>us together, give us a few minutes and we're going

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<v Speaker 4>to start.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, I think so too.

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<v Speaker 4>But we take our faith very seriously. We take God's

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<v Speaker 4>word very seriously. We just don't take ourselves too seriously.

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<v Speaker 2>So the fact that.

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<v Speaker 4>People recognize that is kind of a cool thing. Which,

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<v Speaker 4>by the way, there's way less stress in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't take yourself too seriously.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, right, Yes, I agree completely.

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<v Speaker 1>And you can still put forth a great effort, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in life dedication. You can put forth everything and still

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<v Speaker 1>not take yourself too seriously.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I think you can achieve a lot. I

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<v Speaker 4>We have not to brag, but I mean we've We've

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<v Speaker 4>done a lot of really amazing things that God's let

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<v Speaker 4>us be a part of. And you know, so it's

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<v Speaker 4>not that we don't take the task Got's given us seriously, right,

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<v Speaker 4>It's just we have fun along the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was working as a salesman, I sold a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of different things early on, young, you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>my career, and when I was making atten legitimate things,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't sell if it wasn't legitimate. But there was

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<v Speaker 1>one job where they asked me to do shady things

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<v Speaker 1>and I couldn't stand it.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't stand it.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, the bottom line is is when I was

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<v Speaker 1>of money. I was so consumed with sales. It took

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<v Speaker 1>over my life. I was so stressed. And my wife

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<v Speaker 1>was like, who are you? And that's all I was doing,

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<v Speaker 1>money and the angle, and just that's all I did.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was like, she's like, yeah, the.

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<v Speaker 3>Money's nice, but holy cow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that was early on. That was our first year

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<v Speaker 1>of marriage. It almost got me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, speaking of almost getting you, go ahead, good, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I have nothing. I have nothing here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I don't. To be honest, I didn't read

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<v Speaker 1>ahead of What we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Is Solomon talking to his son.

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<v Speaker 3>The father's wise advice. Yeah, okay, how about this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, now that I'm older, I tell my son,

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<v Speaker 1>who's at work right now, not to pursue money as

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<v Speaker 1>the first priority. And speaking of that today, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to read from Proverbs chapter four. So I had to

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<v Speaker 1>create something and Solomon, yeah, I've given wives advice to

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<v Speaker 1>his children. But to be honest with you, even though

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<v Speaker 1>I just created that cheesy transition, that is the honest truth.

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<v Speaker 3>My son and I talked about this just last night.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, it won't make money. The number one thing yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He was actually saying like he's like, I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to work sixty hours a week, and he was talking

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to work super super hard.

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<v Speaker 1>To hate my life. He's like, to have no life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, good for you. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>where'd you learn that from.

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<v Speaker 4>He's like you yeah, yeah, okay, well well then mental life.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a wise father giving advice to his children.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, just like just like Arbog giving whise, either wisdom

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<v Speaker 4>of zar Bag giving his own wisdom to his son.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So here we go the Solomon of allmen?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yep, right there, same, same, same, yep. I can't

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<v Speaker 4>which one am I looking at?

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<v Speaker 2>Here? Am I looking at im? Looking at Solomon?

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<v Speaker 4>So Proverbs chapter four and as I mentioned before, there's

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<v Speaker 4>thirty one chapters in the Book of Proverbs, and you

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<v Speaker 4>could read one proverb every day. And the proverbs are

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<v Speaker 4>written like little slogans, maybe two or three sentences that

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<v Speaker 4>are are very memorable and practical wisdom for daily living snippets.

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<v Speaker 3>Why is slogans?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, why sayings? That's why I like, why I come

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<v Speaker 2>why sayings?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's very wise.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, my children listen to your father. When he corrects you,

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<v Speaker 4>pay attention and good judgment, for I'm giving you good guidance.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't turn away from my instructions. For I too was

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<v Speaker 4>Don't forget my words or turn away from them. Don't

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<v Speaker 4>Love her, and she will guide you. Getting wisdom is

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<v Speaker 4>which shines ever brighter until the full light of day.

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<v Speaker 4>But the way of the wicked is like total darkness.

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<v Speaker 4>They have no idea what they're stumbling over. My child,

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<v Speaker 4>pay attention to what I say, Listen carefully to my words,

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<v Speaker 4>Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the

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<v Speaker 4>course of your life. Avoid all perverse talk and stay

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<v Speaker 4>away from crop speech. Look straight ahead and fix your

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<v Speaker 1>it determines the course of your life. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>your heart or follow your heart, what's wrong with.

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<v Speaker 2>That saying it's wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>Why is it wrong?

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<v Speaker 4>Because your heart will always lie to you. It's a

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<v Speaker 4>seaful above all things, and desperately wicked.

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<v Speaker 2>Who can know it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? And now that's another proverb.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Jeremiah.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's Jeremiah. Sounds like it's in a proverb.

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<v Speaker 1>Because because actually Solomon doesn't he say to that and proverbs?

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, you sure, I'm positive?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh positive?

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<v Speaker 2>Huh positive?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well, I do know this.

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<v Speaker 1>I do know that all throughout the scripture sprinkled in

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<v Speaker 1>when it talks about the heart, it refers to it

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<v Speaker 1>as the seat of emotions, and it is the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that people want to follow. But what he's saying here

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<v Speaker 1>is he's saying, guard your heart above all else. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's a statement because if you're not supposed to necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>listen to your heart, but you're supposed to guard your heart. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's just it's a wise piece of advice

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<v Speaker 1>where Solomon says, above all else, and you think to yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>what really, of all the pieces of advice that you

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<v Speaker 1>have in all thirty one chapters, above all else, the

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<v Speaker 1>one thing we're supposed to do is guard our heart.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think there's so many implications that you can unpack.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard a message one time that talked about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how to guard your heart? And actually it was a

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<v Speaker 1>devotional by a guy who you may remember this. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember when we did that huge baptism at Jimmy Johnsfield.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, we've done a few, the one that I was

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<v Speaker 4>with with you at, Yes, a couple of years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you remember on.

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<v Speaker 1>The day of in the morning of, there was a

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<v Speaker 3>I remember we shot a video and we said in

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<v Speaker 3>too him and his name was Jerry.

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<v Speaker 1>It was him, Oh, and he just he passed away.

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<v Speaker 1>But this was his favorite verse in all the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he did a devotional one time at a

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<v Speaker 1>men's Bible study I was at, and this is his

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<v Speaker 1>how the heart is deceitful, but he also talked about

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<v Speaker 1>how God wants you to protect the emotions that He's

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<v Speaker 1>given to you. He wants you to be emotionally stable.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants you to be you know, your emotions are

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing towards God. Just don't let them deceive

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<v Speaker 1>your you know, lead.

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<v Speaker 3>You down the wrong path.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really good and I just remember him talking

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<v Speaker 1>about that, and I just remember, Wow, that's that's really wise.

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<v Speaker 4>So he says, guard your heart above all else. And

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<v Speaker 4>he says getting wisdom is the wisest thing you can do.

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<v Speaker 4>In the same chapter, right though, those be the two things.

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<v Speaker 4>And so it's like he's contrasting the truth, the truth

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<v Speaker 4>your heart. If you follow your heart, your heart will

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<v Speaker 4>lie to you over and over and over and over again.

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<v Speaker 4>How many times have you heard people who clearly make

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<v Speaker 4>a heart decision, They just choose a thing based on

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<v Speaker 4>desire is, you know, they're in love with being in

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<v Speaker 4>love or whatever. And then later on they say, what

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>That's usually that you weren't. You weren't thinking you were

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<v Speaker 4>feeling in that moment, right. And so this is where

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<v Speaker 4>so he says, get all the wisdom you can get

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<v Speaker 4>right right, that there's nothing more important than getting all

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<v Speaker 4>the wisdom you can get. It's the wisest thing you

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<v Speaker 4>can do. Whatever else you do, develop good judgment. So

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<v Speaker 4>wisdom and good judgment, those will drive your life. And

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<v Speaker 4>as you read through the Book of Proverbs, he's telling

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<v Speaker 4>his children over and over and over again, a wise

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<v Speaker 4>going to have peace, A wise person is going to

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<v Speaker 4>have good relationships. A wise person is going to have

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<v Speaker 4>plenty of resources. A wise person is going to have

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's literally the fountain of your life. The other side,

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<v Speaker 4>he warns over and over, don't follow you your heart.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't just, you know, indulge your desires, those kinds of things,

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<v Speaker 4>because they're going to destroy your life. So he says,

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<v Speaker 4>guard your heart blah blah. El's because it determines the

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<v Speaker 4>course of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And he says, don't don't don't let the wicked, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>lead you down the path of evil doers. Right, don't

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<v Speaker 1>even think about it going their way, Turn away and

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<v Speaker 1>keep on moving. He's saying, avoid them at all costs.

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<v Speaker 1>In the same comparison, in the same way that our

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they usually grab a hold of our hearts. Right, Hey,

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't this be fun? Wouldn't it be funny? Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>just just do what you want to do. Life short.

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<v Speaker 2>I get think when you.

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<v Speaker 1>Said those two phrases, I was reminded of my youth.

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't this be fun? Wouldn't this be funny? There were

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<v Speaker 1>so many things that I've done that were that were

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<v Speaker 1>destruct destructive, And we used to vandalize and and and

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<v Speaker 1>do goofy things, harmful things, right, you know, throw ice

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<v Speaker 1>the side of their doors and then running in the snow.

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<v Speaker 3>It's terrible, like terrible, And we thought that was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Now now, granted most of the cars in Youngstown, Ohio

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<v Speaker 1>were russ buckets anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Well, that makes it better. It makes it better.

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<v Speaker 2>At least you weren't in a nice town, right Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But I mean, like, the mentality in my neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 2>Was just wouldn't it be fun? Wouldn't it be funny?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>But no consideration of other people.

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<v Speaker 1>No, And I know that sounds terrible, but if my

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, well no, we did.

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<v Speaker 1>You know why because it was with all the neighborhood kids, right,

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<v Speaker 1>people can lead you down the path emotionally, right, this

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<v Speaker 1>would be fun, this would be funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that was well.

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<v Speaker 4>He warns often about friends, and you know, eventually he

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<v Speaker 4>But it's interesting. They eat the food of wickedness and

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<v Speaker 4>drink the wine of violence. And sometimes if you take

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<v Speaker 4>the strongest word he says, you go, oh, that's not

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<v Speaker 4>my friends, but you take all the words before that, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Usually he's building up to the worst thing, And that's

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<v Speaker 4>what sin does. Sin normally doesn't start off at the

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<v Speaker 4>worst place. It starts off at a simpler, gentler place,

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<v Speaker 4>more fun place, or whatever, and builds up to the

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<v Speaker 4>worst thing. And that's kind of how he builds his argument.

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<v Speaker 4>So he warns often that friends can take in the

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<v Speaker 4>wrong direction, or the other one is surround yourself with

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<v Speaker 4>wise people. So he constantly throughout the Book of Proverbs

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<v Speaker 4>just saying get wise counselors, get wise people around you.

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<v Speaker 4>He says the why. If you walk with the wise,

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<v Speaker 4>you'll be wise. If you walk with the foolish, you'll

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<v Speaker 4>be foolish. My dad used to say all the time,

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<v Speaker 4>you either are right now or as soon shall be

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<v Speaker 4>just like the crowd you run with. And that is

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<v Speaker 4>very consistent through if you read all thirty one chapters

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<v Speaker 4>in the Book of Proverbs, it's very consistent with the

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<v Speaker 4>wisest man in the world's view of the importance of friendships.

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<v Speaker 4>You're going to be just like the people you hang

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<v Speaker 4>out with. So if you're looking right now and your

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<v Speaker 4>marriage is important to you, you look around and all

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<v Speaker 4>your friends are getting divorced right now. Just know that's

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<v Speaker 4>going to become a temptation for you at some point

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<v Speaker 4>when you get ticked off and when you're struggling, your friends,

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<v Speaker 4>their advice is going to be, just follow your heart,

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<v Speaker 4>don't you want to do? Oh, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 4>put up that junk. Right, And they didn't hang in,

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<v Speaker 4>they didn't do the hard work of getting past that

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<v Speaker 4>bad day. They bailed, And it's going to be a

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<v Speaker 4>stronger temptation for you to bail if your friends. If

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<v Speaker 4>all of your friends are going into debt and getting

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<v Speaker 4>you know, buying a house that's too much, buying a

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<v Speaker 4>car that's too much, getting one more toy, constantly going

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<v Speaker 4>on another vacation, you're going to start feeling like you're

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>So, But on the other hand, if you have friends

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<v Speaker 4>that are are doing the right thing, they're managing their

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<v Speaker 4>happen is you're going to wind up doing similar things.

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<v Speaker 4>You become just like the people you hang out with

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<v Speaker 4>over time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you know you mentioned that phrase that said

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<v Speaker 1>they drink the wine of violence. Think about the significance

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<v Speaker 1>of what it meant to eat and drink with someone

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<v Speaker 1>in the first century, and obviously this was well before

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<v Speaker 1>the first century, right, So to sit down in someone's

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<v Speaker 1>home was a great honor.

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<v Speaker 3>You were partaking.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time that you sat down in a circle around

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<v Speaker 1>a campfire, for instance, they would take a wine, they

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<v Speaker 1>would take the cup of wine, and they would pass

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<v Speaker 1>it around, which is why Jesus said, let this cup

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<v Speaker 1>pass from me. In other words, I don't want to partake, right.

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<v Speaker 1>That was his You know, he was talking the cup

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<v Speaker 1>of bitterness and the cup of sorrow and death and

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<v Speaker 1>going to the cross, and he was using the symbolism

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I think it's the same symbolism that Solomon's using.

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<v Speaker 1>He's saying, Hey, you're sharing in their life. You're you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're accepting their their fellowship, You're you're joining with them

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<v Speaker 1>in friendship. And so you're drinking their wine. But guess what,

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<v Speaker 1>you're drinking the wine of violence because their life is

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<v Speaker 1>wrapped up in violence and it's and so what you

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<v Speaker 1>were saying is true. It starts off subtle and then

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<v Speaker 1>it gets extreme. Well think about how subtle it is

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<v Speaker 1>to just.

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<v Speaker 3>Be merry and eat and drink with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems harmless, right, But what he's saying is you're

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<v Speaker 1>joining yourself with somebody.

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<v Speaker 3>You're you're aligning with them, right.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're gonna become like them?

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<v Speaker 3>Right. I really like the UH Life Application Study Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>This little chart right here where it says UH a

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<v Speaker 1>strategy for effective living, and it lists four steps and

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<v Speaker 1>it says number one is get wisdom. Number two moral application,

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<v Speaker 1>number three, practical application number four Effective living.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't that great?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? It begins with God's wisdom.

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<v Speaker 4>It requires moral application, which requires practical application, which results

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<v Speaker 4>in effective living.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't that great? It's a great formula.

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<v Speaker 1>So God's wisdom has a moral application, which is sort

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<v Speaker 1>of what we said at the very beginning during the

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<v Speaker 1>social media segment where she said, hey, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>the practical application. Oh, that's what God's word is supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be. I remember Andy Stanley did a series called

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<v Speaker 1>There's an App for That. And you know, back when

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<v Speaker 1>iPhones were just coming on the scene, there was a

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<v Speaker 1>big commercial that said, hey, if you have any there's

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<v Speaker 1>an app for that. Need a taxi, there's an app

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<v Speaker 1>for that. Right, you know, want food delivered your house,

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<v Speaker 1>There's an app for that. And I remember he did

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<v Speaker 1>a series called There's an App for that. And what

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<v Speaker 1>he was meaning was, no matter what verse you read,

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<v Speaker 1>there's an app for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there's an application.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yep, which is really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So he says, where was this, I just saw it. Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>In verse thirteen, he says, take hold of my instructions,

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<v Speaker 4>don't let them go guard them, for they are the

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<v Speaker 4>key to life. Earlier he had just said listen to

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<v Speaker 4>you know. Verse ten, he said my child listened to

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<v Speaker 4>me and do as I say, and you'll have a long,

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<v Speaker 4>good life. I'll teach you wisdom's ways and lead you

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<v Speaker 4>in straight pass. When you walk, you won't be held back.

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<v Speaker 4>When you run, you won't stumble. Take hold of my

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<v Speaker 4>instructions and don't let them go. Guard them for their

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<v Speaker 4>the key to life. That is, I think the desire

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<v Speaker 4>of every good parent that has any kind of wisdom

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<v Speaker 4>is that you want to You look at your kids

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<v Speaker 4>and you say, man, if you would just take my

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<v Speaker 4>advice on the skip all the dumb stuff I learned

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<v Speaker 4>the hard way, and just do this, and you can

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<v Speaker 4>give your kids an advance and an opportunity to jump

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<v Speaker 4>ahead of everybody else. But he literally says, if you

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<v Speaker 4>guard my instructions, they're the key to life, which is

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<v Speaker 4>different from guard your heart above all else that determines

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<v Speaker 4>the course of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I was just thinking the other day I've

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<v Speaker 4>done this a couple of times. But the other day

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<v Speaker 4>we sat down and I gave to you know, I've

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<v Speaker 4>got a few young adults, my three kids, and I

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<v Speaker 4>gave them a budget framework with percentages of these are

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<v Speaker 4>the wise percentages. If you stay within these percentages on

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<v Speaker 4>how on you know your giving, and on your housing,

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<v Speaker 4>and on your autos.

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<v Speaker 2>And on all these things.

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<v Speaker 4>You stay there, it doesn't matter if you stay in

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<v Speaker 4>those percentages, it doesn't matter how much money you're making,

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<v Speaker 4>you will always have enough. And I told them, I said,

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<v Speaker 4>I wish somebody had given this to me when I

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<v Speaker 4>was a kid, right or when I was a young person.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm telling you, you could avoid so many of

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<v Speaker 4>the mistakes that Bonnie and I made early on if

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<v Speaker 4>you would choose to stay inside of this framework. And

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<v Speaker 4>there's a lot of that as you see through the

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<v Speaker 4>Book of Proverbs where he's like, hey, just take it

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<v Speaker 4>from me. If you just could understand, I've already done

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<v Speaker 4>all the dumb stuff, So just do the wise stuff

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<v Speaker 4>I'm telling you. And it's the key to life. And

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<v Speaker 4>I think you know, young people have that opportunity. There

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<v Speaker 4>are every once in a while, did you have any

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<v Speaker 4>friends that seemed to get out ahead of all the

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<v Speaker 4>rest of you, And it was just because they made

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<v Speaker 4>better choices than the rest of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys.

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<v Speaker 4>I had a couple of friends that were that way.

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<v Speaker 4>And I had one friend in particular. His dad was very,

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<v Speaker 4>very disciplined and very kind of character driven and made

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<v Speaker 4>good choices, and it seemed like right out of the gate,

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<v Speaker 4>my friend was very much adopted that I tended to

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<v Speaker 4>learn things the hard way a lot of times, but

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<v Speaker 4>I had a friend that seemed to get way out ahead,

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<v Speaker 4>and it was because, you know, he listened to his parents.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's something to that, the young people listening. They

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<v Speaker 4>listen to your parents. They're smarter than you are. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>for sure, they've been around longer than you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that's right. Well, hey, that's great. That's great. There's

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of sermons pulling from this chapter.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's our time for today, so hopefully we'll see

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<v Speaker 1>you next time on the Bible.

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<v Speaker 4>Guys,