North Coast Church Life Groups Leader Guide


We finished Matthew 25 with the sheep and the goats. The sermon was called "Answers To The Final Exam," and yes, you will be quizzed at the end.

I started with a 1973 study from Princeton. Seminary students, some of them on their way to give a talk on the Good Samaritan, walked past a man slumped in a doorway. Whether they stopped had almost nothing to do with the talk and almost everything to do with whether they were running late. A few of them literally stepped over him. As a pastor, I'm offended.

That turns out to be the whole passage. Neither the sheep nor the goats knew what they were doing. Also this week: Abraham at ninety-nine running out to meet three strangers, why visiting someone in a Roman prison cost you something, and the one word Matthew adds in 26:1.

Three things you'll hear in group: "Do I get into heaven by helping people?", "the least of these" turning political, and the person who leaves sure they're a goat.

This one's shorter. I'm trying a highlights version instead of walking through the whole guide. Tell me what you think about the length, the format, the music, anything. Nothing's off the table.

In this episode
  • 0:00 Cold open: the 1973 Princeton study, and who stops for the man in the doorway
  • 1:05 Welcome to week six, and the big idea
  • 1:40 Where to slow down in the guide: the noticing warm-up, both groups surprised (Know It 1), small counts (Share It 1), the kitchen-table midterm (Live It 1), and this week's Kinship Question
  • 3:25 The rabbit hole: why hurry shrinks what we see, Hebrews 13 and Abraham's three strangers, hospitality as survival, Roman prisons, and the word "all" in Matthew 26:1
  • 6:20 Three things you'll hear in group: "Do I get into heaven by helping people?", "the least of these" and politics, and "What if I'm a goat?"
  • 8:30 One tiny practical thing: leave for group ten minutes early. For science.
  • 8:40 For you in particular: the sheep didn't know either
  • 9:25 Help shape this podcast: length, format, music

Scripture in this episode
  • Matthew 25:31–46 (the passage)
  • Matthew 25:37–39 and 44 (both groups ask "when did we see you?")
  • Matthew 25:34 (the kingdom "prepared for you since the creation of the world")
  • Hebrews 13:2–3 (hospitality to strangers; remember those in prison)
  • Genesis 18:1–8 (Abraham and the three visitors)
  • 2 Timothy 1:16 (Onesiphorus, not ashamed of Paul's chains)
  • Matthew 26:1 ("when Jesus had finished saying all these things")
  • Ephesians 2:8–10 (saved by grace, for good works)

Mentioned
  • John Darley and Daniel Batson, "From Jerusalem to Jericho" (1973), the Good Samaritan experiment at Princeton Theological Seminary
  • Hospitality in the ancient world: for a traveler, a stranger's tent was how you made it
  • Roman prisons: prisoners depended on family and friends for food
  • Passing the final exam is easier as a group project: who's one person your group or your family could start with this week?

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What is North Coast Church Life Groups Leader Guide?

Each week a discussion guide is published for the latest sermon at North Coast Church (northcoastchurch.com). The discussion guides are based on the study questions that are available for each sermon. We hope these guides help facilitate the discussion for your group.