In this episode, Oren Matteson sits down with Dating in Your 20s hosts Amelia Abernathy and Lilly Wehman to reflect on their podcast journey so far. Together, they explore how their conversations about dating, growth, and self-awareness have shaped their own relationships and perspectives. The trio dives into topics like communication, setting intentions, evolving expectations in modern dating, and what commitment really looks like in your twenties. They also share what’s next for the podcast and how it continues to evolve alongside their personal lives.
Takeaways
- The podcast started as a resource for clients.
- Lilly and Amelia's relationship has deepened through their discussions.
- The podcast has helped them connect with friends and clients.
- Amelia feels less different in her dating experiences.
- Conversations on the podcast have made them more confident.
- Dating is seen as fun and exciting, not embarrassing.
- Expectations in dating are influenced by media and societal norms.
- Communication is key to understanding intentions in dating.
- Commitment is a signal to begin the hard work in relationships.
- They aspire to create more interactive content for their audience.
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millenniumhope.comWhat is Dating in Your 20s?
Hosted by Amelia and Lilly, two licensed therapists based in Chicago, Illinois, Dating in Your 20s dives into the chaos, comedy, and complexity of modern dating — all through a therapeutic lens. As two women in their 20s, Amelia and Lilly are in the trenches themselves, navigating everything from bad Hinge dates and ghosting to social media comparison and the pressure of modern relationships.
With a mix of humor, honesty, and clinical insight, each episode blends real-life dating experiences with psychological frameworks like attachment theory, emotional regulation, communication styles, and more. Whether you're healing from heartbreak, stuck in a situationship, or just wondering why dating feels so complicated right now, Amelia and Lilly are here to help you feel a little less alone — and a lot more understood.