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Welcome to Pickleball Therapy,

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the podcast dedicated to your Pickleball improvement and your mental sanity.

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That's why it's called Pickleball Therapy.

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I am your host.

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My name is Tony Rogan.

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I am glad to be with you in this episode.

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Today, we take another step along our journey of understanding and

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of of mental strength,

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mental awareness,

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and, and health as we continue to grow as Pickleball players.

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What we're gonna do today is we are going to shift

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gears a little bit.

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Last, last week,

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we, we went into goal setting,

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talked about some goal setting,

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setting expectations for yourself in 2024,

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and hopefully you found that episode helpful.

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If you didn't get a chance to check out that episode,

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recommend you go back and check it out.

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It's a really good episode on framing goals in a more

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constructive way.

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This week,

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we're gonna shift a little bit of gears here.

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I gotten an email a while,

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a little while ago from Pickleball therapists.

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Therapists are players who have made a commitment to themselves and

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their mental health growth that,

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and they express that by becoming a therapist,

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Pickleball therapist.

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If you want to know more,

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you can send me an email at therapy at better Pickleball

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dot com and I'll send you the information and you can

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decide if it's right for you.

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But one of our therapists sent a question about open play,

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how to deal with certain situations that arise in open play.

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And there's a practical component to this.

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We're gonna talk about sort of like a strategic practical piece,

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and there's also a mental component to it.

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There's a part of it in terms of just framing how

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we feel about it and what happens when we play in

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these situations.

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So that's where we're gonna cover today.

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And specifically it has to do with when we're partnered with

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a quote unquote weaker player.

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And that happens,

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right? A player who may not be quite at the level

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of our level or the level of the game,

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who's getting targeted mercilessly targeted by their opponents.

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That's my word,

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not, not John's.

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And I'll breach John's email in a second.

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Before we jump into the podcast,

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a couple of things coming up,

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coming up that,

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that actually one's already out that I wanted to tell you

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about is the,

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we have a partner play course in our academy that I

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think you'll find really helpful if you want to know more

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about how to constructively play with partners.

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99% of you out there are playing Pickleball doubles.

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Primarily. That's your primary game.

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If you're playing doubles,

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you are playing a team sport.

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And, and as,

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as a team sport,

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there are aspects of the game that are really helpful to

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you to understand in terms of playing partner play and maximizing

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a partner play.

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Since that's what we're real with today.

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I wanted to make sure you knew that we had an

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entire course dedicated to that subject.

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It's a,

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it's a very good course.

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It's gotten a lot of good feedback from players who have

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benefited from,

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from hearing the concepts that are in that course.

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So checked out at the Better Pickleball Academy,

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you'll go to better Pickleball dot com and I'll put a

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link in the show notes as well.

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And if you have a minute,

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A lot of you know that or not,

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It's called the same thing,

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So you're welcome to watch,

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It helps us for each other players.

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And also let us know what you think about the,

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Alright, let's jump into this idea of,

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or this,

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the question of how do we deal with certain situations,

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an open play.

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And let me start by reading you the email from John,

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one of our therapists.

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He says,

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I think it would be worth talking about how when we

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play with a weaker partner,

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even though he or she gets targeted by many who just

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want to win the game,

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I don't reciprocate,

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but in fact try to do the opposite and hit any

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balls that come my way to the stronger my two opponents

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when I can,

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I think some more discussion on that would be beneficial to

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all. So John,

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thanks for the question and thanks also for being mindful of

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when you're playing a a,

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a partner or against opponents who may be,

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have a imbalance in their ability.

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One thing I would note here is be careful about over

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targeting the strong player too,

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right? So you gotta kind of balance it out,

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if you're playing with an imbalanced team,

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you wanna make sure that both of them get to play.

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both players get to play.

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So sometimes what we can do is we can overcompensate the

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you're like,

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you, you don't want up a player to feel bad,

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so you end up hitting all the balls to the other

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player and then the player who is the weaker player doesn't

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get to play either.

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So kind of balance it out a little bit.

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But let's talk about some ideas when you're dealing in open

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play, when you're playing in an imbalanced situation and your partner's

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getting targeted.

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I'm gonna start with some practical advice I'll give you here.

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Made some three different notes that I wanted to share with

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you in terms of practical advice,

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practical things that you can do to play in a situation

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where there's a heavy imbalance and your partner is getting target.

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Number one is avoid targeting yourself.

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we just talked about that a little bit and John mentioned

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that in,

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in his email that it's something he doesn't do.

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it's, you know,

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it's easy to fall into that trap,

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right? Where,

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you're in a game,

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the score gets a little tight,

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seven, six or something like that,

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I'm gonna start targeting the weaker player.

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'cause you know that that's easier point,

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you gotta do a little soul searching and think through a

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little bit in terms of what is it that you're trying

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to accomplish out there?

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What are you trying to do?

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if you're trying to win the game then you know,

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target away.

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if you're playing in a competitive setting tournament,

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a route robin,

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where it's competitive,

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kind of a,

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everybody understands this is a competition,

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Moneyball, things like that,

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league targeting is perfectly fine,

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okay? So targeting in and of itself is not a bad

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thing. Targeting sometimes.

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Not only is this a a okay thing you should target,

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right? If it's strategically correct to do in a Competitive setting,

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I will tell you that when I play tournaments,

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I will target and I will tell my partner or suggest

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my partner as our strategy that we target.

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when we're targeting one player over another in that kind of

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the the saying is basically what we say is,

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if the player who we're not targeting,

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right, if the other,

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the stronger player hits anything other than the serve or return

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to serve,

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then we made a mistake.

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targeting in that context is fine.

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This question deals specifically with open play.

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In an open play situation,

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we do not advise targeting.

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We think it's,

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it's just not,

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it's not good for the game.

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It's not good for anybody on the court.

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And it's frankly not good for the targeter,

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for the player doing the targeting because you're not getting the

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most out of that time that you have on the court.

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we all have a limited number of games that we're gonna

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play in our lives.

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Let's make the most out of it.

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avoid targeting yourself when you're in,

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in these situations.

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another practical piece of advice is make it harder for your

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opponents to target your partner.

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There's a couple things you can do.

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The main thing is this,

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the main thing is you can hit shots to places that

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makes it harder for them to be targeted.

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is let's say you're,

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you're hitting your return of serve.

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If you hit your return of serve to a spot that

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is diagonal or cross court from the partner that you want

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to protect,

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you're making it easier for your opponents to hit to that

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player, right?

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Because players love hitting their third shots cross court diagonal,

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right? They love that shot.

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They like dinking diagonal too.

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They like it more than digging straight.

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So if you can put balls in front of the quote

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unquote weaker player,

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right? The targeted player by in front of them,

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so that the ball has to be hit directly towards them,

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you're making it harder for your opponents to target that player

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with dinks and with dirt shots and things like that.

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Now, they could speed the ball up to them potentially,

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and if the player doesn't know how to get outta the

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way, that's problematic.

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But it is a way to,

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to, to try and funnel balls in your direction by hitting

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balls diagonal to you.

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So putting balls that are cross court to you,

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inviting your opponents to hit balls into that spot that into

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diagonal spot.

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Another thing that you can do is you can put yourself

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in the position that your opponents are trying to target.

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By position,

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I mean the place on the court,

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more often than not,

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players are enamored with the left side of the core up

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at the naali zone,

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right? So the,

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the odd side of the court up by the naali zone,

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which is the right-handed backhand of the left,

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the player on the left,

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right-handed backhand,

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right? If there's a right-handed player,

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that's the preferred spot on the court for a lot of

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players at a lot of levels,

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they'll hit that spot mercilessly again and again and again.

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So if you want to protect somebody,

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you know,

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protect a player,

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what you do is you put yourself there.

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Now that does require some knowledge of stacking,

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right? Because if you're in a situation where you would normally

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be on the right and your partner would be on the

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left and you want to protect that player,

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you're gonna need to get over to the left side to

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cover that area of the court that,

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that player's favor making it more uncomfortable for your opponents to

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then hit to the weaker player.

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So those are a couple of things that you can,

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well, one is advice for you not to target.

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And then there's two things that advice there in terms of

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taking the ball off of your weaker players paddle sometimes or

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taking some stress off of them by hitting balls in front

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of them so that forcing the,

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the, your opponents to try and hit direct to the player,

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straight to the player as opposed to diagonal.

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And then the other thing is putting yourself in the position

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that is favored by your opponents.

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The one that they,

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the place they wanna hit the ball.

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And then another piece of advice when you're playing with the

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weaker player to make the game more competitive is you would

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then take more chances when you have the ball in front

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of you.

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So whenever you have a chance at the ball,

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you may need to be a little bit more aggressive,

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a little bit more,

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open up the game a little more for yourself,

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take more chances because you're only gonna get so many touches

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on the ball,

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you know that you're only gonna get,

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you know,

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to touch every one out of every five balls or six

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balls or four balls,

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whatever it is.

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And so when you get that opportunity,

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you're probably going to have to try and do something with

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it if,

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you know,

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in order to give yourself the best chance hidden the rally.

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So that's another thing that you can do from a practical

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standpoint, from a mental standpoint,

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right? When you're in these situations,

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let's, lemme give you three tips in,

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in that area.

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Number one is,

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is, is managing your expectations,

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right? You just need to manage the expectations when you're in

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these situations.

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Understand, you know,

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what's going on in the,

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in the,

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in the court,

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what's going on in the,

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in the,

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you know,

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in the game.

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And manage your expectations in that situation.

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You know,

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understand that your,

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you're obviously at a disadvantage if your opponents decide to heavily

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target your partner and your partner is in fact,

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there's a,

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there's a significant imbalance on the court.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Not realistic to expect that you're gonna succeed in that game,

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right? And even if winning and losing isn't your main metric,

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right? As we talk about it in this podcast,

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then you know,

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you, you,

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you at back of your mind,

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you're still like,

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you still wanna win.

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I get that.

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So you're gonna have to manage expectations when you're in the

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situations. Before I forget there,

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there's one more practical tip I'm gonna give you in a

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second. So let's get to two more mental,

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I'm gonna give you one more practical tip.

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So, you know,

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magic expectations is,

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is is important.

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The other thing that you can do,

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and it this depends on the,

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in the context that you're in,

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right? The,

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the, the ecosystem that you play in your facility and the

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other players have a conversation with the other players not in

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the moment,

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right? They'll make it awkward for the players being targeted,

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but if you're one of the better players in that facility,

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right? And that I assume you are,

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if you're,

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if your partners the one getting targeted in these situations,

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have a conversation with your,

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with your peers,

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right? With the other players that are at your level and

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have an understanding that you're not gonna freeze the player out,

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right? You're not gonna not hit to that player,

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but that you're gonna play more a more balanced game,

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right? You're gonna try and direct some balls to the better

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players when they're opposite you and then give some balls to

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the weaker player to get them involved in the game,

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but not targeting the weaker player.

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That's a conversation you can have as long as the ecosystem

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supports it,

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you know,

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you have,

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it's a friendly ecosystem,

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everybody understand each other,

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have that conversation,

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you know,

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off the court,

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you know,

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perhaps even before or after the session just to have a

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conversation about what to expect in terms of targeting.

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Because here's the thing,

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it, you know,

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what goes around comes around as they say,

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right? So if you,

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if you're getting targeted this time,

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then you know,

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whoever's doing the targeting may be the,

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the victim next time,

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right? Of that kind of a play.

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So it,

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it helps everybody out,

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you know,

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and it helps the new player or the,

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the weaker player feel more confident and get better and that,

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listen, at the end of the day,

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you know,

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we want to enjoy the game,

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but we also want to let other players enjoy the game

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as well.

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It also just from a selfish standpoint,

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you want other players to be able to get better because

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it helps you,

421
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right? You get more players to play against who are better

422
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and can push you.

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So, you know,

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that's a more positive environment for everybody.

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And then the,

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the other thing that you need to be really conscientious of

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when you're playing in a,

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in a heavily imbalanced situation is,

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is being extra supportive.

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And what I mean by this is,

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generally speaking,

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the weaker player is gonna know that they're the weaker player,

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right? They're gonna know that they're,

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you know,

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they're, it's kinda like the old Sesame Street thing where they

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have the,

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you have the four objects and then like,

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which doesn't fit in this situation.

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A lot of times a weaker player is aware that they

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don't exactly fit on the court in that situation.

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And so they're gonna be particularly sensitive potentially to any negative

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feedback that you per that,

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that they may perceive.

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Even if you're not giving it to 'em,

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they may perceive negative feedback.

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So try and be extra careful with your,

447
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you know,

448
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your shoulders,

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your head moving and things like that when the mistakes happen

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because you expect them to happen,

451
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right? And one recommendation there would be to really make sure

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you turn towards your partner in that situation.

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In other words,

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turn towards the middle after every rally,

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make eye contact,

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tap paddle,

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smile, whatever works for you.

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But do something to let them know that everything's gonna be

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a okay and not to,

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you know,

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and certainly,

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you know,

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to try and avoid the possibility that they're gonna think that

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you're upset or,

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you know,

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disappointed in them somehow.

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Alright, so what,

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let give you one more,

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those are three mental sides.

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Lemme give you one more practical tip,

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which is this.

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When you're playing with a potentially weaker player,

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consider your position on the court to be more defensive.

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So I'm gonna use a baseball analogy slash metaphor here,

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which is think of yourself as being sort of like a

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center fielder.

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And football would be like a safety,

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right? Where you're,

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you're taking a more neutral defensive kind of position because what

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you're, you expect is that the weaker player when they're put

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under stress is gonna result in some sort of a pop-up,

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or they're gonna try and hit an attack ball that's gonna

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get countered and things like that.

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Put yourself in a position where you can do the most

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to help defend against that situation.

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And generally what I'll do in those situations is I will

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play towards the middle and then a little bit behind the

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non volley zone line.

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So maybe like a,

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a step or two off the non volley zone line.

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You know,

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whenever my partner hits the ball and I see something that

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looks a little bit suspect right?

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Coming off the paddle,

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I'll take a step back,

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get myself nice and centered on the court and give myself

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a chance to work on my defense and trying to reset

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the ball after that.

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So those are,

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those are some things you can do when you're playing open

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play. At the end of the day,

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just remember that it's one game,

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right? Or a couple of games during a session that you're,

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that you're,

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you know,

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in that situation,

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it's not the end of the world.

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There's, there's a lot of games to be played.

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You know,

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enjoy your moments on the court,

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enjoy your time on the court.

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In that situation,

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if you could have an understanding at your,

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at your facility in terms of how you're gonna deal with

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situations, the better.

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But even if you don't,

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you know,

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those are a couple,

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the few things that you can do to give yourself the

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best chance to in those games and to help minimize the

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amount of targeting of your partner.

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So hopefully those tips will help you and open play.

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And as you know,

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and it's just another step along our understanding or thinking about

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the game,

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our application of,

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of sound concepts,

528
00:16:46,010 --> 00:16:46,770
sound ideas,

529
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when we're out there playing this awesome sport of Pickleball.

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As always,

531
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if you enjoyed the podcast,

532
00:16:55,590 --> 00:16:57,170
please share with your friends.

533
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If you know a player who's on the journey and would

534
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benefit from hearing these words,

535
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then if you enjoyed the words and they helped you,

536
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I'm gonna bet they're gonna help that.

537
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As always,

538
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keep enjoying this gift.

539
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Keep enjoying this beautiful game that is Pickleball and I'll see

540
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you next time.