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Ah.

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Ugh.

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Ah.

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Ugh, cheers.

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Let's start this off with a cheers.

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Change the juju.

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Are you making guacamole?

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Or how do you get rid of stress?

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Not well.

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Two hours.

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Wham bam, thank you ma'am.

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Arts and crafts are not my bag, baby.

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Ugly.

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Like, I freaked out doing a gingerbread.

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I think you sabotaged me.

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Hey, are you making guacamole?

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If I didn't think I'd

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be the laughingstock

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of all the moms.

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A me George Jetson type

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thing, like beep boop beep.

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Mom, I need a mom.

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Yeah.

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Beep boop beep.

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I came back downstairs and there's a mom.

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What is for dinner?

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Did you make guacamole?

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(laughing)

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Beep boop beep beep beep.

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I made guacamole.

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Ciao ciao.

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Guaculator.

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Welcome to the Mr. and

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Mrs. English podcast.

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I'm Megan.

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And I'm Sean.

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We're here to talk about

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the wild ride of raising kids

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and growing careers,

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keeping life together

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in the middle of all the chaos.

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So buckle up because we're all

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in this crazy journey together.

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Ah.

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Ah.

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Ah.

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Ah.

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All right, cheers, this is cheers.

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Cheers.

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Start this off with the cheers.

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We're gonna start this off, yeah, cheers.

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And maybe this first

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sip will change the juju.

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(upbeat music)

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Rarely do we sip at the same time,

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but it is now later in the week.

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This is way later in the

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week than we usually do this.

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But we're in the studio, which is good,

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because we had some cancellations

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tonight, which was nice.

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Really nice.

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But you and I didn't say

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more than probably two words

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the whole day because of work.

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And then after work, which it is now,

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well, I mean, kind

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of, you've been working

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way past banker hours at least.

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Yeah, banker hours,

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which we know is gorgeous.

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And I was like, how's it coming, honey?

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And you're like, beep,

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beep, beep, beep, beep.

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(laughing)

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Not, yeah, it was not great.

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So I was like, oh, glad I asked.

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I know, I know, I know.

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So do you wanna air

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anything that's non-confidential?

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Oh my gosh.

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Just get it off your chest.

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Do people just have

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those days where it's like,

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everybody needs everything right now,

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and it's always an

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emergency, but it's not an emergency.

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the most important thing.

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And you're like, I

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got my own things to do.

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And so then you're just left with

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dealing with everyone else's stuff.

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So it's just been one,

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and it just kept piling on.

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It was just like--

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It's called, your fire

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drills are having fire drills.

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Yes, yeah.

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We're not good.

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You hear the ding of the

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email or the I am come through

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and you're just like--

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You only wanna read it.

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Yeah, you don't, you just read it.

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That's right, yeah, yeah.

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Well, it was about a year

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ago, I was in a similar spot

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before a change of course.

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it's not even a

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dumpster fire at this point.

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We're basically a dumpster

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fire on a boat that is on fire,

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that is in a bay that

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is on fire with like,

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remember like Game of

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Thrones, how the water was on fire?

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Oh, now yours is so sad.

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Normally it's my mic that's sad,

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but Megan's mic just took the dive.

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All right, we're back, we

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got technical difficulties,

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we had to bring all

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the grips and everything,

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and it was a big, like 15 people

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you guys don't see behind the scenes.

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I know, they're really helpful though.

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Hopped us off, thanks guys, hang out.

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Yeah, uh-huh.

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Great, I'm gonna do

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this without you guys.

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All of you really thanks.

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I know, it's not.

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Anyways.

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You should have been an actor.

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Yeah.

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But that's what mine was, right?

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It was just like, and the ship's going

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down by the way too.

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And we're not gonna make it to port.

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So that was like this flaming ship

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that's just sinking, coming into port,

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that's not gonna make it.

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You know, I can, Captain

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Sparrow in the very first one.

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He's standing on the

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flag and it's just, yeah.

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He hops off onto the dock the second,

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like the last bit of

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the mask goes underwater.

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Yeah, and you hear the

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bloop bloop as it goes down.

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Well, thank you for that reminder,

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because that put my day in perspective.

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Mine was just, you know, a day, right?

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Where you're like, "Ugh."

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Well, I'm sorry, you've had a rough day.

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You know, just tense all day.

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Yeah, just tense.

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Yeah, I did have a couple

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difficult conversations.

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You know, like, I felt argumentative.

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I'm usually not an argumentative person,

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but I was like, evaluating.

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I don't know if anyone does this,

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but evaluating in the

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middle of a conversation,

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like, am I just being confrontational?

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Like, am I being difficult?

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Like, am I just being too hard to get

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along with right now?

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Not a good spot to be at work, but.

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It's funny, you say that to some degree,

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because, I mean,

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that's not your personality.

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And I think that's

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something you've grown into.

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Yeah.

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Right, because I mean,

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within our relationship,

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you know, airing some of our

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behind the scenes type stuff,

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I mean, there's been

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times where I'm like,

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"Hey, I need work, Megan," to show up.

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Because I know, you know, you

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say you tie on your big boy's

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shoes and pull up your big

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boy boots, whatever it is.

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And sometimes when you're off of work,

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you let that go.

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And it's like, in our

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personal lives, it's like,

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I need you to bring that sense of urgency

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and that sense of get her done.

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Yeah, yeah.

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And that's not my, yeah,

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because that's not my normal mode.

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And it wasn't at work for a while either.

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I mean, you've matured in your career,

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and you've matured in

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where you are with the company.

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And I think that's

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just something that comes

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with the turf to some degree.

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You either learn it or you get trampled.

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Right, right.

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And I've learned it

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and it's a learned thing.

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But it's not, no matter how

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much I've learned to do it,

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it doesn't ever make it comfortable or,

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it's never natural.

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I think that's the feeling, right?

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It's like, it still feels foreign to me

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and I have to focus on it.

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So I'll probably just

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like crash out tonight.

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I'll just be so tired because I had to

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focus on it so much.

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It takes a lot of mental energy.

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It does.

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And I've been doing the same

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thing the last two weeks too,

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just mental energy where I

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just said, I'm tired mentally.

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Because I've been having to focus so much

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and this and that.

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And it's just so weird

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how that will drain you

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at a desktop.

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You're not digging trenches all day long,

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but you can come back mentally,

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which is almost physically exhausted

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from mental gymnastics.

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Yes, yeah.

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I mean, it was ironic.

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I don't know if that's the right word,

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but I was filling out something

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and in this thing I was working on,

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it was like, what are

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the physical requirements

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of the job?

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And I was like, sitting at a desk?

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I was like, there are not.

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And I didn't even know what I would put.

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Like, I literally could be immobile.

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In fact, I was earlier this year,

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immobile, still doing this job.

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So, I'm like, what are

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you trying to get at here?

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Yeah, almost all they say now is like,

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if you look at, I guess I

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haven't looked at a lot of resumes

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or job descriptions lately,

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but the only thing I can

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remember that always stood out

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to me, especially at a professional job,

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was like ability to lift 20 pounds.

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Oh yes, yes.

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Because maybe that's the

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weight of your desk files

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when you get fired.

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I don't know.

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I mean, I can't name one

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time I lifted 20 pounds

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the entire time I worked in finance

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for almost a quarter century.

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Right, right.

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But yet, every year we have

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the annual safety training

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and it truly does, the

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steps of plan your lift,

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bend at the knees.

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Wow, I've used this zero in my career.

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Everybody's bringing their

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back belts in on those days.

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We got a proper squatting and lifting

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is an important thing.

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Super important in some

283
01:08:14,250 --> 01:08:16,666
jobs, just not the one I hold.

284
01:08:17,125 --> 01:08:17,625
Not so much.

285
01:08:18,208 --> 01:08:18,708
Not so much.

286
01:08:19,083 --> 01:08:20,166
In fact, I've been

287
01:08:20,166 --> 01:08:21,291
doing so much computer work.

288
01:08:21,291 --> 01:08:22,000
I know I complained

289
01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:22,958
to you this last week.

290
01:08:22,958 --> 01:08:23,708
This is so funny.

291
01:08:23,750 --> 01:08:24,500
It's not that funny,

292
01:08:24,500 --> 01:08:26,875
but don't build it up too much like that.

293
01:08:27,875 --> 01:08:29,750
But I was doing so much

294
01:08:29,750 --> 01:08:33,791
clicking on these programs

295
01:08:34,666 --> 01:08:36,916
that wasn't carpal tunnel,

296
01:08:36,916 --> 01:08:38,208
but my wrist and my

297
01:08:38,208 --> 01:08:41,000
forearms were killing me.

298
01:08:41,375 --> 01:08:43,416
I was switching off

299
01:08:43,416 --> 01:08:45,833
hands to click and move

300
01:08:46,458 --> 01:08:48,291
the mouse on these different screens to

301
01:08:48,291 --> 01:08:49,458
get to this question

302
01:08:49,458 --> 01:08:51,750
then proceed on to the next and the next.

303
01:08:53,125 --> 01:08:55,375
My arms were on fire.

304
01:08:56,791 --> 01:08:59,333
If you've ever, I'm trying to think,

305
01:08:59,333 --> 01:09:01,250
I don't know what girls do.

306
01:09:02,500 --> 01:09:03,208
That might be it's

307
01:09:03,208 --> 01:09:03,958
because I've never been a girl.

308
01:09:04,500 --> 01:09:05,791
But when I used to play basketball,

309
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:07,750
I would hang on a rim or if

310
01:09:07,750 --> 01:09:10,125
you lift resistant weights,

311
01:09:10,250 --> 01:09:12,416
there's times when you lift so much

312
01:09:12,416 --> 01:09:14,416
that you're after the fact,

313
01:09:14,416 --> 01:09:16,166
you get sore to the point

314
01:09:16,166 --> 01:09:18,041
where you're weak from it.

315
01:09:18,041 --> 01:09:19,708
Like, oh my gosh, I can't like lift

316
01:09:19,708 --> 01:09:20,458
anything with my biceps

317
01:09:20,458 --> 01:09:21,458
because I was so much.

318
01:09:21,708 --> 01:09:21,916
100%.

319
01:09:22,291 --> 01:09:23,916
That's how my forearms were.

320
01:09:25,708 --> 01:09:26,541
Simply just kept

321
01:09:26,541 --> 01:09:28,833
clicking on a computer screen.

322
01:09:29,041 --> 01:09:30,083
And my neck, because I was

323
01:09:30,083 --> 01:09:31,583
looking at that certain angle,

324
01:09:32,416 --> 01:09:34,708
was like, so it's been tough.

325
01:09:36,291 --> 01:09:37,000
I might need some time

326
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:37,833
off in the Caribbean.

327
01:09:38,375 --> 01:09:39,125
I think you might.

328
01:09:40,291 --> 01:09:41,250
A little spa there or

329
01:09:41,250 --> 01:09:41,791
something like that.

330
01:09:42,083 --> 01:09:42,291
Maybe.

331
01:09:42,750 --> 01:09:43,166
We'll see.

332
01:09:43,833 --> 01:09:44,250
We'll see.

333
01:09:44,500 --> 01:09:45,500
More to come on that one maybe.

334
01:09:47,208 --> 01:09:47,333
(laughing)

335
01:09:48,541 --> 01:09:50,583
That's pretty funny because you,

336
01:09:50,833 --> 01:09:53,041
who works out very regularly,

337
01:09:54,666 --> 01:09:56,458
but apparently you need to do some like,

338
01:09:56,750 --> 01:09:59,458
finger exercises or wrist exercises.

339
01:09:59,791 --> 01:10:00,625
You might need to add

340
01:10:00,625 --> 01:10:02,000
those to your gym routine.

341
01:10:02,916 --> 01:10:03,166
Yeah.

342
01:10:04,041 --> 01:10:04,666
Strengthen that.

343
01:10:05,250 --> 01:10:05,500
Yeah.

344
01:10:06,458 --> 01:10:07,000
I guess so.

345
01:10:07,708 --> 01:10:08,291
Very weak.

346
01:10:09,875 --> 01:10:11,750
Very weak forearms apparently.

347
01:10:12,416 --> 01:10:14,000
Well, you know, this last weekend,

348
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:15,541
one of the big things for us

349
01:10:15,541 --> 01:10:17,750
was you had to tackle the mum.

350
01:10:18,750 --> 01:10:19,500
Oh my gosh.

351
01:10:19,958 --> 01:10:21,000
I did tackle the mum.

352
01:10:21,291 --> 01:10:21,500
Yeah.

353
01:10:21,750 --> 01:10:22,833
You put on all your pads.

354
01:10:23,250 --> 01:10:23,666
I did.

355
01:10:23,708 --> 01:10:24,166
You got the black

356
01:10:24,166 --> 01:10:25,291
marks between your eyes.

357
01:10:26,500 --> 01:10:27,791
You got in a three point squat

358
01:10:27,791 --> 01:10:29,375
and you tackled that stinking mum.

359
01:10:29,375 --> 01:10:31,333
I got the mum, man.

360
01:10:32,041 --> 01:10:32,583
You didn't do any of

361
01:10:32,583 --> 01:10:33,333
that, but you got it done.

362
01:10:33,875 --> 01:10:34,250
I did.

363
01:10:35,208 --> 01:10:36,250
Yeah, with the exception,

364
01:10:36,250 --> 01:10:37,708
I think I just have to put like that.

365
01:10:38,291 --> 01:10:39,458
So it can hang around her neck.

366
01:10:39,708 --> 01:10:40,583
But you thought, how long,

367
01:10:40,791 --> 01:10:41,583
how, when you were going

368
01:10:41,583 --> 01:10:42,458
into it, what did you think?

369
01:10:42,708 --> 01:10:45,750
I thought it would be a multi-day thing.

370
01:10:45,750 --> 01:10:46,875
Like if I could spend two,

371
01:10:46,875 --> 01:10:48,500
three hours on it on the weekend

372
01:10:48,500 --> 01:10:49,416
and then maybe it would

373
01:10:49,416 --> 01:10:50,875
be a couple extra hours

374
01:10:50,875 --> 01:10:54,000
through the week is what I had budgeted.

375
01:10:54,000 --> 01:10:54,291
Right.

376
01:10:55,291 --> 01:10:59,208
And I am happy to report two hours.

377
01:11:00,958 --> 01:11:01,791
Wham bam, thank you ma'am.

378
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:03,625
Like it is done.

379
01:11:04,625 --> 01:11:05,583
And I think it looks okay.

380
01:11:05,958 --> 01:11:06,583
I think it looks great.

381
01:11:07,083 --> 01:11:07,791
It's our first one.

382
01:11:08,625 --> 01:11:10,125
When you Google them,

383
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:15,708
I mean, there's quite the scale of,

384
01:11:16,208 --> 01:11:17,541
you know, there's a lot of different,

385
01:11:18,500 --> 01:11:20,541
you can go well beyond what you did.

386
01:11:20,916 --> 01:11:21,500
You could.

387
01:11:21,541 --> 01:11:22,416
But I think yours was

388
01:11:22,416 --> 01:11:24,041
well within the range

389
01:11:24,291 --> 01:11:26,208
of very nice and very normal.

390
01:11:26,541 --> 01:11:29,416
As tasteful and as nice

391
01:11:29,416 --> 01:11:32,208
as these things can be,

392
01:11:32,500 --> 01:11:33,500
I think it hits,

393
01:11:33,875 --> 01:11:35,500
I think it is about as nice as one of

394
01:11:35,500 --> 01:11:36,166
these things can be.

395
01:11:36,833 --> 01:11:40,250
I mean, the reality is, is they're ugly.

396
01:11:40,833 --> 01:11:41,041
Like.

397
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:42,375
That's right.

398
01:11:42,375 --> 01:11:43,500
And it's not audacious.

399
01:11:44,458 --> 01:11:45,875
She can walk around with it.

400
01:11:45,875 --> 01:11:46,166
Yeah.

401
01:11:46,958 --> 01:11:47,916
I think it checks all the boxes.

402
01:11:47,916 --> 01:11:48,833
You did a great job on it.

403
01:11:48,833 --> 01:11:48,875
Well, thank you.

404
01:11:48,916 --> 01:11:49,375
Nicely done.

405
01:11:49,375 --> 01:11:50,666
Cause I know, and this

406
01:11:50,666 --> 01:11:51,708
was the funny part about it

407
01:11:51,708 --> 01:11:52,958
because, and this is,

408
01:11:54,500 --> 01:11:55,791
I wanna say this

409
01:11:55,791 --> 01:11:56,958
tastefully to some degree,

410
01:11:57,041 --> 01:11:59,250
but I have more of the creative.

411
01:11:59,500 --> 01:12:00,083
Oh yeah.

412
01:12:00,291 --> 01:12:00,791
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

413
01:12:02,041 --> 01:12:03,541
Flare in the family.

414
01:12:04,125 --> 01:12:04,333
Totally.

415
01:12:04,833 --> 01:12:06,000
Not that you don't have great taste

416
01:12:06,125 --> 01:12:06,666
and all that kind of stuff.

417
01:12:07,750 --> 01:12:10,583
Arts and crafts are not my bag baby.

418
01:12:10,625 --> 01:12:13,291
So I went into this being like,

419
01:12:13,291 --> 01:12:14,750
okay, I gotta make them up, right?

420
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:15,708
Like, okay, that's fine.

421
01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:16,250
I know.

422
01:12:16,916 --> 01:12:18,500
And I totally, I mean,

423
01:12:18,500 --> 01:12:19,166
we can look back

424
01:12:19,166 --> 01:12:21,500
through our lifetimes where,

425
01:12:22,333 --> 01:12:24,500
you know, I've done the sewing,

426
01:12:24,541 --> 01:12:26,500
I've done the arts and crafts,

427
01:12:26,500 --> 01:12:27,750
I've done, you know,

428
01:12:28,166 --> 01:12:29,000
all that kind of stuff.

429
01:12:29,166 --> 01:12:31,791
I mean, some perspective,

430
01:12:32,833 --> 01:12:36,625
I freaked out doing a gingerbread house.

431
01:12:36,875 --> 01:12:37,541
Oh my gosh.

432
01:12:37,541 --> 01:12:38,291
It is one of the

433
01:12:38,291 --> 01:12:39,541
highlights of our children's life.

434
01:12:41,458 --> 01:12:43,250
I mean, this was misery.

435
01:12:44,625 --> 01:12:45,625
Anyway, and it was terrible.

436
01:12:45,875 --> 01:12:47,083
I figured out you lost your stuff.

437
01:12:47,333 --> 01:12:48,708
I lost my stuff.

438
01:12:48,708 --> 01:12:49,500
That thing was, well,

439
01:12:49,500 --> 01:12:50,416
the thing collapsed.

440
01:12:51,125 --> 01:12:52,250
It didn't even stay together.

441
01:12:52,250 --> 01:12:53,291
It's like five minutes.

442
01:12:53,541 --> 01:12:54,000
It collapsed.

443
01:12:54,250 --> 01:12:56,583
I mean, it was a joke.

444
01:12:56,916 --> 01:12:57,416
Oh my gosh.

445
01:12:57,708 --> 01:12:58,125
The whole thing.

446
01:12:58,166 --> 01:12:59,625
And I heated every minute of it.

447
01:12:59,625 --> 01:13:00,666
And the kids knew it.

448
01:13:00,666 --> 01:13:01,958
I mean, it was like the

449
01:13:01,958 --> 01:13:03,833
worst experience for them.

450
01:13:03,833 --> 01:13:04,416
Cause the previous

451
01:13:04,416 --> 01:13:05,500
year I did it with them.

452
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:07,375
You always did it with them.

453
01:13:07,375 --> 01:13:07,875
That's why I was

454
01:13:07,875 --> 01:13:09,291
like, why am I doing this?

455
01:13:09,500 --> 01:13:10,500
You guys know I'm terrible.

456
01:13:10,708 --> 01:13:11,708
I don't know why I got

457
01:13:11,708 --> 01:13:13,500
kicked out of it that year,

458
01:13:13,916 --> 01:13:15,791
but I think he was

459
01:13:15,791 --> 01:13:17,333
self-selected to not do it.

460
01:13:17,583 --> 01:13:18,041
I think he just kind of

461
01:13:18,041 --> 01:13:19,416
wanted to test the waters.

462
01:13:19,416 --> 01:13:20,541
I think you sabotaged me.

463
01:13:20,583 --> 01:13:21,041
You may have.

464
01:13:21,458 --> 01:13:22,416
You totally did.

465
01:13:22,666 --> 01:13:23,458
Anyway, so, you know,

466
01:13:23,458 --> 01:13:24,250
so I was going into this

467
01:13:24,250 --> 01:13:25,125
thing and I'm gonna make a mom,

468
01:13:25,125 --> 01:13:25,625
which is fine.

469
01:13:25,666 --> 01:13:25,875
Yeah.

470
01:13:26,416 --> 01:13:27,000
And then I had

471
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:28,500
mentioned it at some point,

472
01:13:28,500 --> 01:13:29,208
maybe on a soccer

473
01:13:29,208 --> 01:13:30,333
sideline, maybe somewhere.

474
01:13:30,375 --> 01:13:33,041
I had mentioned like, oh yeah, you know,

475
01:13:33,041 --> 01:13:34,291
we're getting the mom, you know,

476
01:13:34,541 --> 01:13:35,708
I'll probably have to do it.

477
01:13:35,708 --> 01:13:37,416
And then I could see Megan,

478
01:13:37,958 --> 01:13:38,750
I could see that you

479
01:13:38,750 --> 01:13:39,500
were just kind of like,

480
01:13:40,791 --> 01:13:41,583
I could see it, that was

481
01:13:41,583 --> 01:13:43,250
like a pride thing a little bit.

482
01:13:43,250 --> 01:13:46,291
Like a mom was like, no, no, no, no, no.

483
01:13:46,291 --> 01:13:47,416
I think moms are

484
01:13:47,416 --> 01:13:48,958
supposed to do the mom, right?

485
01:13:48,958 --> 01:13:49,916
And you kind of bristled

486
01:13:49,916 --> 01:13:51,666
up a little bit, you know,

487
01:13:51,666 --> 01:13:53,500
from like a pride standpoint, like,

488
01:13:53,750 --> 01:13:55,458
oh, I can't be the mom

489
01:13:55,458 --> 01:13:56,666
that doesn't do the mom.

490
01:13:57,416 --> 01:13:59,333
Right, because the moms do the mom.

491
01:14:00,041 --> 01:14:00,875
Yeah, moms do the moms.

492
01:14:01,250 --> 01:14:03,333
Right, like, and I was like,

493
01:14:03,333 --> 01:14:04,416
I'll never be able to show my

494
01:14:04,416 --> 01:14:06,833
face if I can't do this mom.

495
01:14:07,333 --> 01:14:08,000
So I backed off.

496
01:14:08,208 --> 01:14:09,958
I mean, I totally gave it to you

497
01:14:10,541 --> 01:14:12,708
and you went, bought all this stuff.

498
01:14:13,083 --> 01:14:14,500
You're on top of that.

499
01:14:14,500 --> 01:14:15,958
You didn't procrastinate on that.

500
01:14:15,958 --> 01:14:17,416
You didn't pile it anywhere.

501
01:14:17,416 --> 01:14:18,666
You got right to it.

502
01:14:19,041 --> 01:14:20,583
I mean, all of this is

503
01:14:20,583 --> 01:14:25,041
antithetical to your usual, right?

504
01:14:25,500 --> 01:14:25,875
It is.

505
01:14:27,208 --> 01:14:27,416
Standard.

506
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:29,958
It's not your norm, right?

507
01:14:30,250 --> 01:14:31,375
And you were all over it.

508
01:14:31,375 --> 01:14:32,333
So that's why I want to make

509
01:14:32,333 --> 01:14:33,416
a big deal of the fact that

510
01:14:33,791 --> 01:14:35,875
you kind of got

511
01:14:35,875 --> 01:14:37,500
slapped in the face, right?

512
01:14:37,500 --> 01:14:38,458
With a metaphorical,

513
01:14:40,166 --> 01:14:41,083
you know, can you do this?

514
01:14:41,666 --> 01:14:42,916
Yeah, you stared in the

515
01:14:42,916 --> 01:14:43,791
eyes and you nailed it.

516
01:14:43,791 --> 01:14:44,208
So good job.

517
01:14:44,750 --> 01:14:45,541
Thank you, thank you.

518
01:14:45,875 --> 01:14:51,458
Now, the 15 year old was way less

519
01:14:51,458 --> 01:14:52,500
impressed than you are.

520
01:14:53,833 --> 01:14:55,583
Yeah, I mean, I think he

521
01:14:55,583 --> 01:14:57,416
just expected it to be there.

522
01:14:57,416 --> 01:14:58,250
I think that's a, you

523
01:14:58,250 --> 01:14:59,541
know, that is a classic.

524
01:15:00,041 --> 01:15:01,625
What are they, Generation What?

525
01:15:02,458 --> 01:15:03,583
He's a millennial still, right?

526
01:15:03,708 --> 01:15:05,875
No, he's Gen Z.

527
01:15:07,083 --> 01:15:07,666
He's Gen Z.

528
01:15:08,166 --> 01:15:08,958
He's a Gen Z.

529
01:15:08,958 --> 01:15:09,916
So I think it's a classic,

530
01:15:09,916 --> 01:15:12,291
like a meet George Jetson

531
01:15:12,291 --> 01:15:14,416
type thing, like you type

532
01:15:14,416 --> 01:15:16,791
something into the wall computer

533
01:15:17,500 --> 01:15:18,333
and it spits it out.

534
01:15:19,166 --> 01:15:20,500
So you're his wall computer.

535
01:15:20,500 --> 01:15:21,875
He's like, beep, boop, beep.

536
01:15:22,291 --> 01:15:23,041
Mom might need a mom.

537
01:15:23,791 --> 01:15:24,625
And then he went upstairs

538
01:15:24,625 --> 01:15:25,958
and probably played video games

539
01:15:25,958 --> 01:15:26,833
for two hours.

540
01:15:27,583 --> 01:15:28,833
And then beep, boop, beep.

541
01:15:30,791 --> 01:15:31,208
He came back

542
01:15:31,208 --> 01:15:32,375
downstairs and there's a mom.

543
01:15:32,375 --> 01:15:33,583
And it wasn't like, oh

544
01:15:33,583 --> 01:15:34,833
wow, mom, you did great.

545
01:15:34,833 --> 01:15:35,416
I can't believe all the

546
01:15:35,416 --> 01:15:36,833
hard work you did into this.

547
01:15:36,833 --> 01:15:37,708
And like, look how

548
01:15:37,708 --> 01:15:38,750
you measured everything

549
01:15:38,750 --> 01:15:41,041
and everything is, you know, symmetrical.

550
01:15:41,791 --> 01:15:43,500
Like, wow, mom, you did great.

551
01:15:43,500 --> 01:15:44,250
Thanks for doing, and

552
01:15:44,250 --> 01:15:45,833
you put the gold over that.

553
01:15:45,833 --> 01:15:48,125
Like that's, you had to think about that.

554
01:15:48,125 --> 01:15:49,041
Like, mom, I'm, thank

555
01:15:49,041 --> 01:15:50,083
you so much for making this

556
01:15:50,083 --> 01:15:53,125
a special thing for me and my girlfriend.

557
01:15:53,875 --> 01:15:54,833
No, no, no, he was

558
01:15:54,833 --> 01:15:56,083
like, beep, boop, beep.

559
01:15:56,500 --> 01:15:57,791
Okay, I got the mom now, good.

560
01:15:59,541 --> 01:16:00,791
I know you wanted that.

561
01:16:00,833 --> 01:16:03,125
I know, I was like, are you kidding me?

562
01:16:03,666 --> 01:16:03,875
Although--

563
01:16:04,250 --> 01:16:05,083
Actually, I filmed it.

564
01:16:05,458 --> 01:16:06,416
Oh yeah, we have a video.

565
01:16:06,666 --> 01:16:08,375
We really should post it.

566
01:16:08,375 --> 01:16:09,625
Here's what, you know what he said.

567
01:16:09,625 --> 01:16:11,083
I remember exactly what he said

568
01:16:11,208 --> 01:16:12,541
after you showed it to him.

569
01:16:12,916 --> 01:16:14,291
Beep, boop, beep, you just spit it out.

570
01:16:14,333 --> 01:16:15,916
The microwave drawer opens up.

571
01:16:16,750 --> 01:16:18,000
Here's your mom, you know.

572
01:16:18,583 --> 01:16:19,541
And then this is what he said.

573
01:16:21,125 --> 01:16:21,833
Oh, I thought you were gonna say it.

574
01:16:21,875 --> 01:16:22,750
Oh, I thought you were gonna say it.

575
01:16:23,166 --> 01:16:26,333
He said, are you making guacamole?

576
01:16:30,333 --> 01:16:31,333
When Megan was looking

577
01:16:31,333 --> 01:16:33,875
for all this, like a hug,

578
01:16:34,083 --> 01:16:35,666
and like, oh, I can't believe mom,

579
01:16:35,666 --> 01:16:36,541
after the gingerbread

580
01:16:36,541 --> 01:16:38,458
house fiasco and all that.

581
01:16:39,291 --> 01:16:41,291
You really doubled

582
01:16:41,291 --> 01:16:43,208
down and you got after it.

583
01:16:43,208 --> 01:16:44,500
I just, tears were

584
01:16:44,500 --> 01:16:45,583
streaming down his face

585
01:16:45,583 --> 01:16:47,583
because you did this, you stepped up.

586
01:16:47,875 --> 01:16:49,250
Stepped up, thank you.

587
01:16:49,708 --> 01:16:51,000
Thank you for spending

588
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:52,541
time on the one afternoon

589
01:16:52,750 --> 01:16:54,541
that you actually had available

590
01:16:54,875 --> 01:16:57,500
and putting off all the other things

591
01:16:57,500 --> 01:16:58,916
that you had to do

592
01:16:58,916 --> 01:17:01,666
for making this for me.

593
01:17:03,375 --> 01:17:04,875
Hey, are you making guacamole?

594
01:17:06,041 --> 01:17:08,625
I was like, wow.

595
01:17:09,333 --> 01:17:11,416
I got it on video, I got it on video

596
01:17:11,541 --> 01:17:13,375
because I actually did think,

597
01:17:13,958 --> 01:17:15,500
like, hey, this is a big moment.

598
01:17:15,958 --> 01:17:17,083
Yeah, I know, I know.

599
01:17:18,583 --> 01:17:20,666
She's presenting the mom that she made

600
01:17:20,791 --> 01:17:23,708
for her son, his first homecoming,

601
01:17:24,041 --> 01:17:25,583
for his first girlfriend,

602
01:17:25,833 --> 01:17:26,833
not his first girlfriend,

603
01:17:26,833 --> 01:17:27,875
but the first girl

604
01:17:27,875 --> 01:17:29,041
he's taking to a dance.

605
01:17:29,666 --> 01:17:30,583
Yeah, yeah.

606
01:17:31,125 --> 01:17:32,583
And wow, that air came

607
01:17:32,583 --> 01:17:33,833
out of that balloon fast.

608
01:17:33,875 --> 01:17:35,458
Oh my gosh, it wasn't

609
01:17:35,458 --> 01:17:36,833
even like you let it out.

610
01:17:36,833 --> 01:17:38,250
I mean, he just popped the balloon.

611
01:17:38,458 --> 01:17:41,833
Like, it was like decimated.

612
01:17:43,083 --> 01:17:45,625
Oh my gosh, I was like this kid.

613
01:17:46,250 --> 01:17:47,875
You're right, your George

614
01:17:47,875 --> 01:17:49,541
Judson metaphor though is,

615
01:17:49,833 --> 01:17:51,291
I think they think

616
01:17:51,291 --> 01:17:52,583
laundry's that way too.

617
01:17:53,208 --> 01:17:54,625
Yeah, everything we do is that way.

618
01:17:55,333 --> 01:17:56,791
I'm gonna wear clothes and dirty them.

619
01:17:57,125 --> 01:17:58,958
I'm not gonna do anything about it,

620
01:17:59,750 --> 01:18:01,333
but beep, boop, beep, beep, beep.

621
01:18:02,166 --> 01:18:02,458
Yeah.

622
01:18:02,500 --> 01:18:03,541
I need my clean clothes.

623
01:18:03,583 --> 01:18:04,666
It comes out, that's right.

624
01:18:05,125 --> 01:18:05,541
That's why I

625
01:18:05,541 --> 01:18:07,125
introducing them to things like

626
01:18:07,125 --> 01:18:08,125
empty in the dishwasher.

627
01:18:08,583 --> 01:18:09,708
Now they make their own

628
01:18:09,708 --> 01:18:11,875
beds, some of that stuff,

629
01:18:11,875 --> 01:18:13,291
and hopefully that doesn't sound spoiled,

630
01:18:13,291 --> 01:18:14,500
and they've always done chores,

631
01:18:14,833 --> 01:18:18,583
but making them do chores is like,

632
01:18:18,625 --> 01:18:19,875
oh my gosh, somebody

633
01:18:19,875 --> 01:18:21,375
has to actually do this.

634
01:18:21,375 --> 01:18:21,583
Yeah.

635
01:18:21,791 --> 01:18:22,958
It doesn't just happen.

636
01:18:22,958 --> 01:18:23,875
It just doesn't happen.

637
01:18:23,916 --> 01:18:24,666
Right, right.

638
01:18:25,041 --> 01:18:26,625
Yeah, and I don't know,

639
01:18:26,625 --> 01:18:27,875
for you, is that kind of a,

640
01:18:29,875 --> 01:18:31,458
do we think it's more of a gender thing?

641
01:18:31,791 --> 01:18:33,708
Cause like, I do feel like our daughter

642
01:18:35,375 --> 01:18:36,875
assumes more responsibility

643
01:18:37,083 --> 01:18:39,166
without us telling her than the boys.

644
01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:41,000
Or is that just our boys?

645
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:43,791
Well, based on the

646
01:18:43,791 --> 01:18:45,166
final part of that question,

647
01:18:45,166 --> 01:18:46,000
I hope it's just a gender

648
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:47,291
thing and not just our boys.

649
01:18:47,333 --> 01:18:49,625
I think we are trying,

650
01:18:49,625 --> 01:18:52,500
and I aim to try to raise

651
01:18:53,125 --> 01:18:55,291
gentlemen that are

652
01:18:55,291 --> 01:18:57,166
responsible, that are kind,

653
01:18:58,000 --> 01:18:59,875
that, you know, all that kind of stuff.

654
01:19:01,750 --> 01:19:03,291
But I do think there

655
01:19:03,291 --> 01:19:05,750
is some level of just

656
01:19:07,333 --> 01:19:11,041
the X gene or the Y gene.

657
01:19:11,416 --> 01:19:11,625
Yeah.

658
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:13,041
The combination thereof.

659
01:19:15,166 --> 01:19:18,666
It just, it really is

660
01:19:18,666 --> 01:19:20,583
stretching its limits

661
01:19:21,083 --> 01:19:26,916
on cognitive ability, emotional maturity

662
01:19:27,916 --> 01:19:29,000
through these years.

663
01:19:30,458 --> 01:19:31,291
Response, I mean, anything

664
01:19:31,291 --> 01:19:33,625
with an itty on the end of it

665
01:19:34,125 --> 01:19:35,958
is difficult during these years.

666
01:19:35,958 --> 01:19:36,583
And I'm not saying our,

667
01:19:36,875 --> 01:19:37,458
and I don't think our

668
01:19:37,458 --> 01:19:38,208
sons are any different.

669
01:19:38,208 --> 01:19:39,083
They're great kids.

670
01:19:39,125 --> 01:19:39,541
Yeah, yeah.

671
01:19:39,541 --> 01:19:40,416
They're doing really well.

672
01:19:40,416 --> 01:19:42,041
They're gonna do great in life.

673
01:19:42,375 --> 01:19:43,166
Yeah, absolutely.

674
01:19:43,666 --> 01:19:46,333
But I did find myself telling our oldest,

675
01:19:47,208 --> 01:19:51,541
this last week, I think like, look bud.

676
01:19:53,416 --> 01:19:53,583
(both laughing)

677
01:19:54,083 --> 01:19:55,125
I'm not there yet.

678
01:19:55,333 --> 01:19:56,708
I can't imagine living life

679
01:19:56,708 --> 01:19:58,000
without you under my roof.

680
01:19:59,166 --> 01:20:00,000
And this is after he

681
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:01,875
threw some attitude at me

682
01:20:01,875 --> 01:20:04,041
that was like, whoa, okay,

683
01:20:04,041 --> 01:20:05,375
like you've got an opinion here

684
01:20:05,958 --> 01:20:07,166
and you don't like what I did.

685
01:20:07,750 --> 01:20:07,916
Yep.

686
01:20:07,958 --> 01:20:08,333
And that's okay.

687
01:20:09,875 --> 01:20:10,958
I told him, I was like,

688
01:20:11,458 --> 01:20:13,458
there's gonna come a time

689
01:20:13,875 --> 01:20:15,500
when it is time for you

690
01:20:15,500 --> 01:20:16,458
to move out of this house.

691
01:20:16,666 --> 01:20:18,666
And the way that works is natural.

692
01:20:19,291 --> 01:20:20,166
You're going to start

693
01:20:20,166 --> 01:20:22,208
naturally moving away

694
01:20:22,250 --> 01:20:24,500
from thinking I have all the answers,

695
01:20:24,708 --> 01:20:26,666
thinking I'm Superman

696
01:20:26,666 --> 01:20:28,666
to thinking I'm an idiot.

697
01:20:28,666 --> 01:20:29,291
And that's okay.

698
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:30,958
I'm gonna be subbed

699
01:20:30,958 --> 01:20:31,791
out under the sideline

700
01:20:32,500 --> 01:20:33,916
and you're gonna sub in your friends.

701
01:20:34,166 --> 01:20:34,416
Yep.

702
01:20:36,458 --> 01:20:37,000
And that's okay.

703
01:20:37,666 --> 01:20:38,750
But, and this was a

704
01:20:38,750 --> 01:20:39,958
tough conversation to have

705
01:20:39,958 --> 01:20:41,791
because we kind of like hit butt heads.

706
01:20:42,083 --> 01:20:42,625
It was the first time

707
01:20:42,625 --> 01:20:44,833
we've ever butt heads.

708
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:46,125
Butty heads, we didn't even do that.

709
01:20:46,125 --> 01:20:47,291
I just listened to him to some degree.

710
01:20:47,291 --> 01:20:48,500
And then I told him, I said, look buddy,

711
01:20:48,958 --> 01:20:51,916
I am the type of dad that I'm not,

712
01:20:51,916 --> 01:20:53,250
you're not gonna slap me in the face

713
01:20:53,250 --> 01:20:55,166
with being just a little bit rude to me

714
01:20:55,166 --> 01:20:56,666
and condescending to me

715
01:20:57,208 --> 01:21:01,333
and not expect me to verbally have a

716
01:21:01,333 --> 01:21:03,208
strong discussion back.

717
01:21:04,083 --> 01:21:04,500
And what I said to

718
01:21:04,500 --> 01:21:05,291
him was like, hit back,

719
01:21:05,291 --> 01:21:05,708
but I don't want

720
01:21:05,708 --> 01:21:06,916
anybody to ever interpret that

721
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:07,916
as physicality.

722
01:21:07,916 --> 01:21:09,166
Right, right, exactly, exactly.

723
01:21:09,333 --> 01:21:10,208
This is just like, we're

724
01:21:10,208 --> 01:21:11,000
gonna have a discussion.

725
01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:12,125
I'm not gonna say, I'm

726
01:21:12,125 --> 01:21:15,125
not just gonna shrink down

727
01:21:15,875 --> 01:21:17,000
or, you know, there's,

728
01:21:17,208 --> 01:21:17,958
there are certain things

729
01:21:17,958 --> 01:21:18,666
that I know when I grew

730
01:21:18,666 --> 01:21:20,000
up that drove me crazy.

731
01:21:20,666 --> 01:21:22,208
And one of them was

732
01:21:22,208 --> 01:21:23,333
the fact that I just felt

733
01:21:23,333 --> 01:21:25,000
like I never had a real conversation.

734
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:27,875
It was always, I was the crazy one

735
01:21:28,416 --> 01:21:29,000
and the other people

736
01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:31,416
were perfect and, you know,

737
01:21:31,916 --> 01:21:32,416
that kind of stuff.

738
01:21:32,750 --> 01:21:33,375
I don't wanna get too

739
01:21:33,375 --> 01:21:34,250
deep into that obviously,

740
01:21:34,541 --> 01:21:35,666
but I told him, I was like, hey, look,

741
01:21:35,791 --> 01:21:36,083
we're gonna have

742
01:21:36,083 --> 01:21:37,000
conversations, that's great.

743
01:21:37,375 --> 01:21:37,625
Yes.

744
01:21:38,500 --> 01:21:40,041
You can, I never want

745
01:21:40,041 --> 01:21:40,833
you not to feel like

746
01:21:40,833 --> 01:21:41,666
you can't tell me when

747
01:21:41,666 --> 01:21:42,458
I'm doing something wrong

748
01:21:42,458 --> 01:21:43,541
or you have issues with something

749
01:21:43,541 --> 01:21:44,291
or you have issues with something

750
01:21:44,291 --> 01:21:45,208
that has nothing to do with me.

751
01:21:45,583 --> 01:21:47,500
I should always be able to come to me,

752
01:21:47,833 --> 01:21:49,000
but let's just make sure we do it

753
01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:50,916
on a respectful basis with one another.

754
01:21:51,875 --> 01:21:52,791
And that's exactly right.

755
01:21:52,791 --> 01:21:53,708
I've read something this week.

756
01:21:53,708 --> 01:21:56,583
It's like, you are allowed, in fact,

757
01:21:56,791 --> 01:21:58,500
encouraged to have an opinion,

758
01:21:58,958 --> 01:22:01,083
but that does not give you the right,

759
01:22:01,083 --> 01:22:02,750
this is a parent speaking to a child,

760
01:22:03,166 --> 01:22:04,291
that does not give you the right

761
01:22:04,458 --> 01:22:06,458
to be disrespectful or rude.

762
01:22:06,958 --> 01:22:08,208
Like, there's a big difference

763
01:22:08,208 --> 01:22:09,083
and that's exactly, I

764
01:22:09,083 --> 01:22:09,666
think, what you were

765
01:22:10,041 --> 01:22:10,916
talking to him about.

766
01:22:11,500 --> 01:22:12,666
Yeah, and he wasn't,

767
01:22:12,666 --> 01:22:13,625
because I could tell,

768
01:22:14,708 --> 01:22:15,750
this was our very first

769
01:22:15,750 --> 01:22:16,916
instance really with this,

770
01:22:16,916 --> 01:22:17,625
to be honest with you,

771
01:22:17,958 --> 01:22:18,833
and I could tell he was

772
01:22:18,833 --> 01:22:20,791
trying to be measured with it.

773
01:22:20,791 --> 01:22:21,666
Like, I could tell he

774
01:22:21,666 --> 01:22:23,041
wasn't trying to be disrespectful

775
01:22:24,375 --> 01:22:26,166
and by the end of the conversation,

776
01:22:27,166 --> 01:22:27,916
which it's great,

777
01:22:28,291 --> 01:22:29,791
that's the only good thing

778
01:22:29,791 --> 01:22:31,000
about the fact that we have an hour drive

779
01:22:31,125 --> 01:22:31,958
to soccer practice

780
01:22:31,958 --> 01:22:33,208
every night of the week,

781
01:22:34,041 --> 01:22:35,750
is that I'm still lucky enough,

782
01:22:36,416 --> 01:22:37,666
and it almost brings a tear to my eye,

783
01:22:37,666 --> 01:22:38,958
that they sit up front with us.

784
01:22:38,958 --> 01:22:39,750
Yeah, yeah.

785
01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:41,208
We've got a sprinter van

786
01:22:41,208 --> 01:22:42,000
that everybody knows now

787
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:42,958
because we've done it on this.

788
01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:44,291
They could sit back and watch TV.

789
01:22:44,625 --> 01:22:45,333
Yeah, they could.

790
01:22:45,375 --> 01:22:46,083
They could watch movies, they

791
01:22:46,083 --> 01:22:46,625
could do whatever they want.

792
01:22:46,625 --> 01:22:47,333
They could listen to music.

793
01:22:47,333 --> 01:22:47,958
There's so much stuff

794
01:22:47,958 --> 01:22:48,750
in there, it's awesome.

795
01:22:48,750 --> 01:22:49,666
It's decked out back there.

796
01:22:50,416 --> 01:22:51,208
But they choose to sit

797
01:22:51,208 --> 01:22:52,083
up front with us still.

798
01:22:52,125 --> 01:22:52,625
Exactly.

799
01:22:53,875 --> 01:22:55,750
So, it can't be too far off the base,

800
01:22:56,291 --> 01:22:57,291
and they wanna talk

801
01:22:57,291 --> 01:22:58,250
because of that they talk.

802
01:22:58,875 --> 01:23:00,166
And then they sleep half of the way,

803
01:23:00,166 --> 01:23:01,666
but we talk during that time.

804
01:23:02,208 --> 01:23:02,583
Yeah, yeah. Right?

805
01:23:03,250 --> 01:23:04,875
And that's huge to me.

806
01:23:05,166 --> 01:23:05,500
Me too.

807
01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:06,666
And I know you have

808
01:23:06,666 --> 01:23:08,000
great conversations on that.

809
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:08,250
Yeah.

810
01:23:08,625 --> 01:23:10,375
On that, during those time frames too,

811
01:23:10,375 --> 01:23:11,333
when we switch off,

812
01:23:11,333 --> 01:23:12,000
because we have to

813
01:23:12,000 --> 01:23:12,875
switch off and all that.

814
01:23:13,083 --> 01:23:14,333
But that's what I was saying.

815
01:23:14,541 --> 01:23:16,916
At the end of it, I could tell that

816
01:23:17,041 --> 01:23:17,875
he was really kinda

817
01:23:17,875 --> 01:23:18,833
mad about something else.

818
01:23:18,875 --> 01:23:19,083
Yeah.

819
01:23:20,166 --> 01:23:22,875
And I was taking the

820
01:23:22,875 --> 01:23:24,791
brunt force of that emotion,

821
01:23:25,875 --> 01:23:27,500
which, to circle this

822
01:23:27,500 --> 01:23:28,708
back to your first question,

823
01:23:29,500 --> 01:23:31,291
that's probably a guy thing,

824
01:23:32,708 --> 01:23:33,583
or it's a learn thing,

825
01:23:33,583 --> 01:23:35,291
because I do that in this house too.

826
01:23:36,041 --> 01:23:36,708
There's times when I

827
01:23:36,708 --> 01:23:38,041
know I'm having a tough day,

828
01:23:38,708 --> 01:23:41,291
and I can't always leave it

829
01:23:41,291 --> 01:23:42,541
when I walk out of my office,

830
01:23:43,166 --> 01:23:44,708
or when I walk back in the garage door.

831
01:23:44,750 --> 01:23:44,958
Right.

832
01:23:45,250 --> 01:23:46,333
And sometimes I take it out.

833
01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:49,125
I think that's pretty normal.

834
01:23:49,125 --> 01:23:49,333
Yeah.

835
01:23:49,833 --> 01:23:51,875
I mean, just tonight when you asked me,

836
01:23:51,875 --> 01:23:53,125
so, how's your day looking?

837
01:23:53,541 --> 01:23:54,208
How's your night looking?

838
01:23:54,583 --> 01:23:56,458
And my response, you

839
01:23:56,458 --> 01:23:57,666
didn't need to hear that,

840
01:23:57,666 --> 01:23:58,208
and I'm sorry.

841
01:23:58,791 --> 01:23:59,458
I walked away.

842
01:24:00,500 --> 01:24:01,833
I didn't wanna hear it.

843
01:24:01,833 --> 01:24:04,125
I was like, I don't need that right now.

844
01:24:04,625 --> 01:24:06,000
I thought about it too,

845
01:24:06,000 --> 01:24:06,708
because that was interesting.

846
01:24:07,958 --> 01:24:09,208
Because you and I are,

847
01:24:09,208 --> 01:24:10,875
you're really good about asking,

848
01:24:11,333 --> 01:24:11,666
like, how was your

849
01:24:11,666 --> 01:24:13,041
day in listening to it?

850
01:24:13,041 --> 01:24:14,000
And I'm not as good,

851
01:24:14,125 --> 01:24:14,791
sometimes, especially

852
01:24:14,791 --> 01:24:16,666
when I'm just so focused

853
01:24:16,666 --> 01:24:17,541
on something else.

854
01:24:18,041 --> 01:24:19,208
I think we talked about it last week,

855
01:24:19,208 --> 01:24:20,083
or I talked about it last week,

856
01:24:20,083 --> 01:24:20,583
where I'm like, I

857
01:24:20,583 --> 01:24:23,416
literally have to cognitively

858
01:24:23,875 --> 01:24:25,291
stop myself and be like,

859
01:24:25,500 --> 01:24:28,791
we're proper next step, Sean.

860
01:24:29,916 --> 01:24:31,541
Ask how her day was.

861
01:24:32,458 --> 01:24:33,375
You know what I mean?

862
01:24:33,750 --> 01:24:34,416
And that's usually after

863
01:24:34,416 --> 01:24:35,750
I've unloaded on you probably.

864
01:24:36,000 --> 01:24:36,916
Not to the point you did.

865
01:24:37,125 --> 01:24:39,541
That was a sharp reaction.

866
01:24:39,625 --> 01:24:40,916
It was a sharp reaction.

867
01:24:40,916 --> 01:24:41,583
That's one out of a

868
01:24:41,583 --> 01:24:42,750
million for you, honestly.

869
01:24:42,750 --> 01:24:43,166
It's probably the first

870
01:24:43,166 --> 01:24:43,916
time you ever answered

871
01:24:43,916 --> 01:24:44,875
that way, honestly.

872
01:24:47,166 --> 01:24:49,291
But you gotta be able to unload that.

873
01:24:49,291 --> 01:24:50,375
And so I was thinking about it too.

874
01:24:50,375 --> 01:24:51,000
I was like, I don't

875
01:24:51,000 --> 01:24:53,250
want to hang her for that,

876
01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:54,708
because you need to be

877
01:24:54,708 --> 01:24:56,166
able to come to me with that.

878
01:24:56,625 --> 01:24:56,958
Right.

879
01:24:56,958 --> 01:25:00,000
Without feeling like you messed up.

880
01:25:00,291 --> 01:25:00,666
You know what I mean?

881
01:25:01,250 --> 01:25:02,125
I'm the one safe spot

882
01:25:02,125 --> 01:25:03,125
you should have for that.

883
01:25:03,458 --> 01:25:04,208
Yeah, you are.

884
01:25:04,708 --> 01:25:09,875
And I really do try not to be that sharp,

885
01:25:10,000 --> 01:25:13,083
but it is really hard in a moment when,

886
01:25:13,083 --> 01:25:15,333
you know, there's just a lot

887
01:25:15,333 --> 01:25:17,333
going on at that one moment,

888
01:25:17,458 --> 01:25:22,458
and that was my id response or whatever.

889
01:25:23,416 --> 01:25:24,375
Yeah, bad timing, and it

890
01:25:24,375 --> 01:25:25,583
was 26 minutes past the time

891
01:25:25,583 --> 01:25:26,041
we had already planned

892
01:25:26,041 --> 01:25:27,000
on doing something else,

893
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:27,958
and it's like, you know,

894
01:25:28,208 --> 01:25:30,041
I was probably a little bit

895
01:25:30,041 --> 01:25:31,541
like, okay, clock is ticking.

896
01:25:32,708 --> 01:25:33,666
You know, type thing too.

897
01:25:34,375 --> 01:25:36,875
Yeah, I was just, you know, so.

898
01:25:37,916 --> 01:25:40,416
But all that to say is

899
01:25:40,416 --> 01:25:42,250
it is hard in that moment

900
01:25:42,708 --> 01:25:46,583
to step out and be like, okay, I gotta.

901
01:25:47,041 --> 01:25:48,708
And you're usually really good at that.

902
01:25:49,666 --> 01:25:50,666
You're usually really good at that.

903
01:25:50,708 --> 01:25:52,458
So I know, I mean, it

904
01:25:52,458 --> 01:25:53,666
probably has a lot to do with it.

905
01:25:53,666 --> 01:25:54,666
At the end of the day, you're like,

906
01:25:54,666 --> 01:25:56,500
I am trying to unplug here,

907
01:25:57,458 --> 01:25:59,500
and they just keep throwing stuff at me.

908
01:26:00,166 --> 01:26:00,916
It's like, I am trying

909
01:26:00,916 --> 01:26:01,791
to stand up from the desk,

910
01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:04,166
and, you know, that's the one down side

911
01:26:04,166 --> 01:26:05,083
of working from home.

912
01:26:06,041 --> 01:26:08,708
Your work is literally at the house.

913
01:26:09,291 --> 01:26:10,375
It's always there, yeah.

914
01:26:10,500 --> 01:26:12,583
You're not like, guys, I gotta get home,

915
01:26:12,583 --> 01:26:13,791
because I gotta get to soccer practice,

916
01:26:13,791 --> 01:26:14,833
so you gotta actually leave,

917
01:26:14,833 --> 01:26:15,375
and it's like, okay,

918
01:26:15,375 --> 01:26:16,333
I've got 20 minutes left.

919
01:26:16,625 --> 01:26:18,000
If you wanna call me in the car, great,

920
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:18,916
but I can't be on my computer.

921
01:26:19,291 --> 01:26:19,791
Right, right.

922
01:26:20,458 --> 01:26:21,333
Here, you can.

923
01:26:21,625 --> 01:26:21,833
Yeah.

924
01:26:22,416 --> 01:26:23,041
So I mean, take or

925
01:26:23,041 --> 01:26:24,041
leave it, corporate America.

926
01:26:24,708 --> 01:26:26,958
You actually get, I think, I think,

927
01:26:26,958 --> 01:26:27,625
out of professionals

928
01:26:27,625 --> 01:26:29,250
that are truly professional,

929
01:26:29,250 --> 01:26:31,333
you get a lot more work out

930
01:26:31,333 --> 01:26:32,291
of people working from home.

931
01:26:33,125 --> 01:26:33,583
Completely.

932
01:26:33,625 --> 01:26:35,458
Because I'm not driving to work.

933
01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:37,791
I'm not at the water cooler with people

934
01:26:38,041 --> 01:26:39,416
for 30 minutes a day,

935
01:26:40,166 --> 01:26:40,625
you know what I mean?

936
01:26:41,291 --> 01:26:42,791
And you have way better work

937
01:26:42,791 --> 01:26:44,458
life balance when you do it.

938
01:26:44,500 --> 01:26:44,666
Right.

939
01:26:45,500 --> 01:26:46,666
Requiring people to go into the office,

940
01:26:49,041 --> 01:26:50,458
that wasted work time of

941
01:26:50,458 --> 01:26:52,208
driving to the office is just,

942
01:26:52,708 --> 01:26:53,875
now that we've done it,

943
01:26:53,916 --> 01:26:54,500
Oh my gosh.

944
01:26:54,875 --> 01:26:56,333
It's the biggest waste of time.

945
01:26:56,375 --> 01:26:58,125
It is, and in the

946
01:26:58,125 --> 01:27:00,166
Metroplex, when traffic is bad,

947
01:27:00,166 --> 01:27:01,125
almost anywhere, I think

948
01:27:01,125 --> 01:27:02,375
traffic is bad at this point.

949
01:27:02,625 --> 01:27:03,791
But yeah, because you're like,

950
01:27:04,666 --> 01:27:06,458
that time can't be repurposed.

951
01:27:06,875 --> 01:27:10,000
And I very quickly, as did you,

952
01:27:10,416 --> 01:27:12,833
repurposed any type of drive time

953
01:27:13,375 --> 01:27:14,666
into just extra work time.

954
01:27:15,333 --> 01:27:17,500
Oh yeah, instead of working, you know,

955
01:27:17,833 --> 01:27:18,916
nine hours at the office

956
01:27:18,916 --> 01:27:20,125
and two hours commuting,

957
01:27:20,833 --> 01:27:22,333
I'm working 11 hours from the house.

958
01:27:24,208 --> 01:27:25,041
I mean, I'm sitting in my

959
01:27:25,041 --> 01:27:28,250
office at 604 every morning,

960
01:27:29,250 --> 01:27:31,500
working, you know,

961
01:27:31,500 --> 01:27:33,916
and then I leave at 720

962
01:27:35,125 --> 01:27:38,125
to take the kids to school, back at 754

963
01:27:38,125 --> 01:27:40,083
to hug our daughter.

964
01:27:41,583 --> 01:27:42,375
Tell her I love her,

965
01:27:42,375 --> 01:27:43,500
and she gets on the bus.

966
01:27:44,750 --> 01:27:45,666
And then I go back to work.

967
01:27:45,708 --> 01:27:46,375
You go right back in.

968
01:27:47,041 --> 01:27:48,000
Yeah, so I mean.

969
01:27:48,041 --> 01:27:50,250
Oh you do, don't forget

970
01:27:50,250 --> 01:27:51,541
the 30 seconds you take

971
01:27:51,666 --> 01:27:53,500
to warm up your coffee again.

972
01:27:54,000 --> 01:27:55,583
So here's what I was thinking.

973
01:27:55,583 --> 01:27:56,166
I got to do something

974
01:27:56,166 --> 01:27:58,666
today that used to be

975
01:27:58,666 --> 01:28:01,833
my only stress outlet.

976
01:28:02,416 --> 01:28:02,666
Yes.

977
01:28:02,666 --> 01:28:04,500
I'll say it, but how do

978
01:28:04,500 --> 01:28:05,500
you, on a day like today,

979
01:28:05,500 --> 01:28:06,750
how do you get that stress out?

980
01:28:06,750 --> 01:28:08,500
Because you're talking about differences

981
01:28:08,500 --> 01:28:09,375
between guys and girls.

982
01:28:09,625 --> 01:28:12,250
Like for me, that stress, when I stand up

983
01:28:12,375 --> 01:28:12,958
and walk out of the

984
01:28:12,958 --> 01:28:14,625
office, it doesn't just fall off.

985
01:28:14,916 --> 01:28:15,833
It doesn't, you know what I mean?

986
01:28:16,041 --> 01:28:19,041
Trying to think of like a waterfall.

987
01:28:19,333 --> 01:28:20,583
That only has, you just

988
01:28:20,583 --> 01:28:21,541
let a little bit of water out

989
01:28:21,541 --> 01:28:22,708
and it goes over the

990
01:28:22,708 --> 01:28:24,125
waterfall for a little while,

991
01:28:24,125 --> 01:28:24,875
and then once that water

992
01:28:24,875 --> 01:28:25,833
was shut off, it's done.

993
01:28:25,833 --> 01:28:26,916
There's no more waterfall, right?

994
01:28:26,916 --> 01:28:27,125
Right.

995
01:28:27,541 --> 01:28:28,708
I feel like that's how you

996
01:28:28,708 --> 01:28:29,458
handle some of your stress.

997
01:28:29,875 --> 01:28:31,041
Like once you stand up

998
01:28:31,041 --> 01:28:32,333
and walk away, okay, sure,

999
01:28:32,333 --> 01:28:32,750
there's a little bit

1000
01:28:32,750 --> 01:28:33,750
more water coming down,

1001
01:28:33,750 --> 01:28:34,958
but once that final water

1002
01:28:34,958 --> 01:28:35,833
goes over the waterfall,

1003
01:28:36,583 --> 01:28:37,500
that's the last year of stress,

1004
01:28:37,500 --> 01:28:38,916
and you're able to move on from it.

1005
01:28:39,500 --> 01:28:40,500
For me, and maybe it's

1006
01:28:40,500 --> 01:28:41,666
just me or maybe it's men,

1007
01:28:41,916 --> 01:28:45,541
I don't know, but I don't shed that

1008
01:28:45,541 --> 01:28:46,875
waterfall as quickly.

1009
01:28:48,083 --> 01:28:49,791
It's, I can't, I don't shut

1010
01:28:49,791 --> 01:28:50,541
the water off all the way.

1011
01:28:50,541 --> 01:28:52,291
Maybe it's less, but that

1012
01:28:52,291 --> 01:28:53,791
waterfall will still trickle.

1013
01:28:54,250 --> 01:28:54,541
Yeah.

1014
01:28:54,583 --> 01:28:55,500
Maybe even to the next day.

1015
01:28:56,333 --> 01:28:56,666
Yeah.

1016
01:28:56,708 --> 01:28:57,416
How do you, so my

1017
01:28:57,416 --> 01:28:58,791
question is, how do you do that?

1018
01:28:58,791 --> 01:29:00,666
And then if you are

1019
01:29:00,666 --> 01:29:02,291
stressed out, like what is your,

1020
01:29:02,708 --> 01:29:03,875
how do you get rid of stress?

1021
01:29:06,250 --> 01:29:06,791
Not well.

1022
01:29:07,500 --> 01:29:07,833
I mean.

1023
01:29:08,666 --> 01:29:09,500
You don't have, or do

1024
01:29:09,500 --> 01:29:10,500
you not have a mechanism?

1025
01:29:10,708 --> 01:29:11,208
So. Because you should.

1026
01:29:11,500 --> 01:29:14,625
I should, and I did.

1027
01:29:14,625 --> 01:29:16,666
I used to like working out after work.

1028
01:29:16,875 --> 01:29:17,000
Yeah.

1029
01:29:17,666 --> 01:29:19,000
Until I hurt my knee, and

1030
01:29:19,000 --> 01:29:21,875
now I'm really struggling

1031
01:29:22,041 --> 01:29:24,875
to find, I mean, we

1032
01:29:24,875 --> 01:29:25,875
already wake up early,

1033
01:29:25,875 --> 01:29:27,000
and we go to bed late, and

1034
01:29:27,000 --> 01:29:28,583
there's not a whole lot of time.

1035
01:29:28,583 --> 01:29:30,333
So I do need to figure out

1036
01:29:30,333 --> 01:29:31,250
when to get that in there,

1037
01:29:31,250 --> 01:29:32,708
because there were times, and I was like,

1038
01:29:33,416 --> 01:29:35,083
and I know running on a

1039
01:29:35,083 --> 01:29:36,333
treadmill is not the best workout,

1040
01:29:36,666 --> 01:29:37,958
but for me, it was the

1041
01:29:37,958 --> 01:29:40,041
one thing that I could do,

1042
01:29:40,791 --> 01:29:41,708
because I put on my

1043
01:29:41,708 --> 01:29:43,416
earbuds, I get lost in music,

1044
01:29:43,666 --> 01:29:48,958
and I get 30 minutes of just me.

1045
01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:50,958
Like, you know, like

1046
01:29:50,958 --> 01:29:52,375
whatever music is going on,

1047
01:29:52,375 --> 01:29:54,041
and that's enough to break it.

1048
01:29:54,083 --> 01:29:54,666
Yeah. For me.

1049
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:55,375
Yeah.

1050
01:29:55,458 --> 01:29:56,833
But now I struggle,

1051
01:29:57,083 --> 01:29:59,500
like, because I don't,

1052
01:29:59,500 --> 01:30:00,333
I try, like, you

1053
01:30:00,333 --> 01:30:01,375
know, I talk to the kids,

1054
01:30:01,625 --> 01:30:02,875
or music does it a lot,

1055
01:30:03,250 --> 01:30:04,875
you know, like, by driving,

1056
01:30:04,875 --> 01:30:06,541
I definitely have to like listen to music

1057
01:30:06,541 --> 01:30:08,875
that fits my mood, stuff like that.

1058
01:30:09,000 --> 01:30:09,916
Because one thing that

1059
01:30:09,916 --> 01:30:11,458
stuck with me that actually

1060
01:30:11,458 --> 01:30:13,375
makes me a little sad, I think,

1061
01:30:13,375 --> 01:30:14,125
and I'm sure people

1062
01:30:14,125 --> 01:30:15,041
that watch this maybe,

1063
01:30:15,875 --> 01:30:17,166
I almost don't want to introduce this,

1064
01:30:17,166 --> 01:30:18,125
but I kind of do,

1065
01:30:18,125 --> 01:30:20,708
because I think about it a lot,

1066
01:30:20,708 --> 01:30:22,583
and like, how come we can't do that?

1067
01:30:22,666 --> 01:30:25,166
Why in this world, when

1068
01:30:25,166 --> 01:30:26,250
we're trying to live it

1069
01:30:26,625 --> 01:30:28,250
as best as we can, why can't we do it?

1070
01:30:29,125 --> 01:30:29,791
But you made the

1071
01:30:29,791 --> 01:30:31,250
comment that, what was it?

1072
01:30:31,416 --> 01:30:32,500
Three or four things, but

1073
01:30:32,500 --> 01:30:35,208
you can't do them all, right?

1074
01:30:35,875 --> 01:30:39,708
Career, family, working out, and friends,

1075
01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:41,791
I think are the four things, right?

1076
01:30:42,416 --> 01:30:43,208
And you can only have

1077
01:30:43,208 --> 01:30:44,375
really three of those.

1078
01:30:44,375 --> 01:30:45,541
Max. Max.

1079
01:30:47,125 --> 01:30:49,791
And be successful at them, right?

1080
01:30:50,250 --> 01:30:52,208
So that means you gotta give up career,

1081
01:30:53,208 --> 01:30:54,041
which is not an option,

1082
01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:56,916
because we have to pay,

1083
01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:57,833
everybody's gotta pay bills.

1084
01:30:58,916 --> 01:30:59,875
Two, you have to make a living.

1085
01:31:00,416 --> 01:31:03,083
Two, friends.

1086
01:31:04,833 --> 01:31:05,875
Everybody likes to have friends,

1087
01:31:06,125 --> 01:31:07,500
social outlet is fantastic,

1088
01:31:07,833 --> 01:31:09,083
and these are the toughest

1089
01:31:09,083 --> 01:31:10,333
times to have friends, too,

1090
01:31:10,625 --> 01:31:11,208
especially now that

1091
01:31:11,208 --> 01:31:12,708
everybody's in their sports

1092
01:31:12,708 --> 01:31:14,041
and all that kind of stuff, it's so hard.

1093
01:31:14,083 --> 01:31:14,583
So hard.

1094
01:31:15,458 --> 01:31:17,791
Honestly, we have a ton of friends,

1095
01:31:17,791 --> 01:31:18,458
but we don't have any time

1096
01:31:18,458 --> 01:31:19,666
to hang out with any of them.

1097
01:31:19,708 --> 01:31:20,791
Right, yeah.

1098
01:31:20,791 --> 01:31:21,250
We used to invite

1099
01:31:21,250 --> 01:31:22,666
people over to the house,

1100
01:31:22,666 --> 01:31:23,375
and we used to go to

1101
01:31:23,375 --> 01:31:24,125
other people's houses.

1102
01:31:25,833 --> 01:31:28,375
I keep thinking, oh, do we ruin those

1103
01:31:28,375 --> 01:31:29,333
relationships or not?

1104
01:31:29,625 --> 01:31:30,750
I don't think we did, we just don't have,

1105
01:31:31,916 --> 01:31:33,458
there's no time to do that now.

1106
01:31:34,208 --> 01:31:35,333
And they don't have the time either.

1107
01:31:35,333 --> 01:31:35,875
And they don't either.

1108
01:31:36,125 --> 01:31:37,666
That's the chaos train that we talk about

1109
01:31:38,000 --> 01:31:39,541
for this podcast.

1110
01:31:40,541 --> 01:31:44,125
Three is family, that's an absolute.

1111
01:31:44,458 --> 01:31:45,250
That goes above all.

1112
01:31:45,250 --> 01:31:47,500
So career and family, you have to have.

1113
01:31:48,166 --> 01:31:51,333
Family first, career second, friends,

1114
01:31:52,375 --> 01:31:53,041
that's one that you

1115
01:31:53,041 --> 01:31:54,083
might be able to cut back on

1116
01:31:54,083 --> 01:31:55,125
a little bit, and

1117
01:31:55,125 --> 01:31:56,500
then working out, right?

1118
01:31:56,916 --> 01:31:58,458
Which, for a lot of

1119
01:31:58,458 --> 01:32:00,708
people, their self-image

1120
01:32:01,500 --> 01:32:02,875
is wrapped up in working

1121
01:32:02,875 --> 01:32:04,083
out, and how they look,

1122
01:32:04,083 --> 01:32:04,541
and all that kind of

1123
01:32:04,541 --> 01:32:05,791
stuff, and to look the way,

1124
01:32:06,916 --> 01:32:07,875
everybody wants you to look.

1125
01:32:08,625 --> 01:32:09,208
I mean, God, you gotta

1126
01:32:09,208 --> 01:32:10,416
work out for five hours a day.

1127
01:32:10,416 --> 01:32:12,166
You can't have a job and look like that.

1128
01:32:12,166 --> 01:32:12,458
No.

1129
01:32:12,791 --> 01:32:13,000
Right?

1130
01:32:13,416 --> 01:32:14,208
And I get, genetics

1131
01:32:14,208 --> 01:32:15,041
work and do a lot of this,

1132
01:32:15,041 --> 01:32:16,000
so I get it.

1133
01:32:16,333 --> 01:32:17,041
As you get older, and I'm

1134
01:32:17,041 --> 01:32:17,750
learning that right now,

1135
01:32:17,750 --> 01:32:18,875
as you get older, it's even harder.

1136
01:32:19,875 --> 01:32:21,333
But that always

1137
01:32:21,333 --> 01:32:22,666
sticks with me, like, gosh,

1138
01:32:22,666 --> 01:32:24,500
I can't have all three, why can't I have,

1139
01:32:24,500 --> 01:32:25,625
I want all four, I mean.

1140
01:32:26,166 --> 01:32:27,000
Why can't I?

1141
01:32:27,000 --> 01:32:27,833
Why can't I?

1142
01:32:28,000 --> 01:32:29,333
And right now, you're

1143
01:32:29,333 --> 01:32:31,000
having trouble juggling

1144
01:32:31,208 --> 01:32:31,750
with two of them.

1145
01:32:31,791 --> 01:32:33,750
Two of them, mm-hmm.

1146
01:32:34,166 --> 01:32:34,666
It's a struggle.

1147
01:32:35,250 --> 01:32:37,791
But today, you got to do

1148
01:32:37,791 --> 01:32:39,041
your number one stress reliever.

1149
01:32:39,416 --> 01:32:42,750
My number one stress reliever, and I did.

1150
01:32:42,750 --> 01:32:43,250
I went out to the

1151
01:32:43,250 --> 01:32:47,375
backyard, and I shot hoops.

1152
01:32:48,083 --> 01:32:50,208
Played basketball for 34 minutes.

1153
01:32:51,500 --> 01:32:52,458
And it was great.

1154
01:32:52,625 --> 01:32:56,833
I mean, that is my one free space.

1155
01:32:56,833 --> 01:32:58,458
When I was a kid, with

1156
01:32:58,458 --> 01:32:59,583
all the troubles we had,

1157
01:32:59,666 --> 01:33:00,416
I'd go to the front yard,

1158
01:33:00,666 --> 01:33:01,666
and I could shoot for hours

1159
01:33:01,666 --> 01:33:04,166
and hours and hours and hours and hours.

1160
01:33:04,166 --> 01:33:05,083
There's never a time I

1161
01:33:05,083 --> 01:33:05,750
didn't want to do it.

1162
01:33:05,958 --> 01:33:08,125
Put on gloves when it was snowing,

1163
01:33:08,583 --> 01:33:09,291
and I'd play in the

1164
01:33:09,291 --> 01:33:11,208
snow, I'd play in the rain.

1165
01:33:11,916 --> 01:33:14,458
I mean, that was my psychiatrist.

1166
01:33:14,458 --> 01:33:15,333
I said that for the longest time.

1167
01:33:15,333 --> 01:33:16,125
That was my psychiatrist.

1168
01:33:16,791 --> 01:33:17,250
And that's where you

1169
01:33:17,250 --> 01:33:18,916
get out all that anxiety,

1170
01:33:19,666 --> 01:33:22,250
competitive angst, you know?

1171
01:33:22,250 --> 01:33:23,125
And that's the hardest thing,

1172
01:33:23,125 --> 01:33:24,000
I've talked about it a

1173
01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:25,708
little bit on this show, you know?

1174
01:33:25,708 --> 01:33:27,125
Is this the hardest thing for me?

1175
01:33:27,125 --> 01:33:28,541
I don't know how other males handle it.

1176
01:33:29,291 --> 01:33:30,250
Because I'm not the most

1177
01:33:30,250 --> 01:33:32,833
test-tossed, her own laden male.

1178
01:33:32,833 --> 01:33:34,208
I don't have a lot of

1179
01:33:34,208 --> 01:33:36,416
manliness I got to get out

1180
01:33:36,416 --> 01:33:38,041
all the time, and, you know what I mean?

1181
01:33:38,250 --> 01:33:39,250
There's no Tim the Tool

1182
01:33:39,250 --> 01:33:40,708
Man Taylor inside of me.

1183
01:33:41,208 --> 01:33:41,250
(laughing)

1184
01:33:41,250 --> 01:33:41,708
You know what I mean?

1185
01:33:42,500 --> 01:33:47,750
But there is a level of, like,

1186
01:33:48,583 --> 01:33:49,625
for me, some of those

1187
01:33:49,625 --> 01:33:50,666
frustrations build up,

1188
01:33:50,666 --> 01:33:53,041
and it's like, sports and competitiveness

1189
01:33:53,250 --> 01:33:54,000
is how you let that

1190
01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:54,875
out, you know what I mean?

1191
01:33:55,500 --> 01:33:57,000
Back in the day, you know, and I'd get,

1192
01:33:57,166 --> 01:33:58,916
we'd lose a game or something like that,

1193
01:33:59,000 --> 01:34:00,833
or you hit somebody in a basketball game,

1194
01:34:00,833 --> 01:34:02,250
or you pun a ball or something.

1195
01:34:02,583 --> 01:34:03,416
Who knows, you yell at

1196
01:34:03,416 --> 01:34:04,625
somebody, you run it,

1197
01:34:04,625 --> 01:34:06,333
you mean, there's physicality?

1198
01:34:06,333 --> 01:34:07,375
That's how you got rid of it.

1199
01:34:08,583 --> 01:34:09,416
You know, and I haven't played,

1200
01:34:10,458 --> 01:34:11,708
I mean, basketball's not

1201
01:34:11,708 --> 01:34:12,708
a part of my life anymore.

1202
01:34:12,708 --> 01:34:15,416
It hasn't been for 18 years.

1203
01:34:15,458 --> 01:34:15,625
Right.

1204
01:34:16,041 --> 01:34:16,416
You know what I mean?

1205
01:34:16,416 --> 01:34:17,083
So going out there,

1206
01:34:17,083 --> 01:34:18,500
doing it today was fantastic.

1207
01:34:19,166 --> 01:34:20,916
So it's just, it is nice,

1208
01:34:21,333 --> 01:34:22,958
it was nice to get out there

1209
01:34:22,958 --> 01:34:24,458
and just hear the balance

1210
01:34:24,458 --> 01:34:25,875
of the ball, to hear the net.

1211
01:34:26,500 --> 01:34:28,791
You know, that muscle memory, you know?

1212
01:34:28,791 --> 01:34:29,000
You know, you're even

1213
01:34:29,000 --> 01:34:29,833
strapping on the shoes.

1214
01:34:30,083 --> 01:34:33,625
Well, we've got a big weekend up for us

1215
01:34:33,625 --> 01:34:35,000
and any married couple,

1216
01:34:35,541 --> 01:34:37,375
they know their weekend,

1217
01:34:37,375 --> 01:34:38,125
it's our anniversary.

1218
01:34:38,833 --> 01:34:41,833
It is, it is 18 years.

1219
01:34:42,083 --> 01:34:43,958
18 years, 18 years.

1220
01:34:44,458 --> 01:34:45,041
That is crazy.

1221
01:34:45,458 --> 01:34:46,125
Isn't it?

1222
01:34:46,125 --> 01:34:47,500
Because like 18 years

1223
01:34:47,500 --> 01:34:49,916
feels like a long time,

1224
01:34:49,916 --> 01:34:52,083
but I don't feel like

1225
01:34:52,083 --> 01:34:53,291
that was 18 years ago.

1226
01:34:53,291 --> 01:34:54,750
It's just not been 18 years.

1227
01:34:54,791 --> 01:34:57,791
Like our marriage is a full grown adult.

1228
01:34:58,333 --> 01:35:01,125
Actually, we're at the, oh my gosh,

1229
01:35:01,125 --> 01:35:02,708
our marriage has gone to high school

1230
01:35:02,958 --> 01:35:03,958
and it's on its way to college.

1231
01:35:04,291 --> 01:35:04,500
Yeah.

1232
01:35:04,750 --> 01:35:05,166
Wow.

1233
01:35:05,666 --> 01:35:07,625
That, if that doesn't make you feel old.

1234
01:35:08,375 --> 01:35:10,375
(laughing) I know, right?

1235
01:35:11,041 --> 01:35:11,500
Everything these days

1236
01:35:11,500 --> 01:35:12,791
just makes you feel old.

1237
01:35:12,791 --> 01:35:13,375
You know what I mean?

1238
01:35:13,541 --> 01:35:14,541
Our older generation that

1239
01:35:14,541 --> 01:35:16,125
watches this knows that.

1240
01:35:16,125 --> 01:35:17,166
I mean, they get to know it

1241
01:35:17,166 --> 01:35:18,125
and they've been through

1242
01:35:18,125 --> 01:35:19,708
another 25 years of it.

1243
01:35:19,875 --> 01:35:20,041
Yeah.

1244
01:35:20,875 --> 01:35:22,083
That is crazy, but 18

1245
01:35:22,083 --> 01:35:23,833
years sounds, I don't know.

1246
01:35:24,041 --> 01:35:25,500
I mean, when it's two years,

1247
01:35:25,500 --> 01:35:26,625
it sounds like a long time.

1248
01:35:27,041 --> 01:35:28,875
When people are celebrating 50,

1249
01:35:29,250 --> 01:35:30,625
it doesn't sound like long at all.

1250
01:35:31,000 --> 01:35:31,166
Right.

1251
01:35:32,166 --> 01:35:34,458
It's like, how does

1252
01:35:34,458 --> 01:35:36,000
time just move that fast?

1253
01:35:36,333 --> 01:35:36,625
Yeah.

1254
01:35:37,375 --> 01:35:37,541
Yeah.

1255
01:35:38,500 --> 01:35:39,000
18 years?

1256
01:35:39,333 --> 01:35:40,000
I mean. 18 years.

1257
01:35:40,541 --> 01:35:44,166
So it's on Sunday, which

1258
01:35:44,166 --> 01:35:45,708
means it's one day off.

1259
01:35:46,250 --> 01:35:47,333
Were we married on a Friday night?

1260
01:35:47,333 --> 01:35:48,125
We were married on a Friday.

1261
01:35:48,166 --> 01:35:49,833
So it's two days off, the actual one.

1262
01:35:50,208 --> 01:35:50,416
Yep.

1263
01:35:51,041 --> 01:35:52,416
So we're still, but you

1264
01:35:52,416 --> 01:35:53,416
were already in Minnesota

1265
01:35:53,625 --> 01:35:54,500
and I was back because.

1266
01:35:55,000 --> 01:35:55,541
For sure.

1267
01:35:55,833 --> 01:35:56,708
I was still in Las Vegas

1268
01:35:56,708 --> 01:35:59,041
because Backstory here,

1269
01:35:59,500 --> 01:36:01,000
not a story, but the back,

1270
01:36:01,791 --> 01:36:04,291
whatever it is, Backstory here.

1271
01:36:04,291 --> 01:36:05,166
Yeah, the Backstory.

1272
01:36:05,166 --> 01:36:06,000
So the Backstory here

1273
01:36:06,000 --> 01:36:08,500
is, we owned a company

1274
01:36:09,833 --> 01:36:10,958
that was in Vegas and

1275
01:36:10,958 --> 01:36:12,041
so I was still in Vegas.

1276
01:36:12,041 --> 01:36:13,333
Why you came out to get ready.

1277
01:36:13,750 --> 01:36:13,958
Yep.

1278
01:36:14,583 --> 01:36:15,875
In fact, the biggest negative to that

1279
01:36:15,875 --> 01:36:17,500
was the fact that you got to come out

1280
01:36:18,625 --> 01:36:19,958
and do all the tastings

1281
01:36:19,958 --> 01:36:21,583
and I didn't get to taste.

1282
01:36:21,583 --> 01:36:22,750
So I had the tastings

1283
01:36:22,750 --> 01:36:23,791
like six months before.

1284
01:36:24,166 --> 01:36:24,750
I know and I didn't

1285
01:36:24,750 --> 01:36:25,583
get to go out for that.

1286
01:36:25,625 --> 01:36:28,750
All the hors d'oeuvres and all the food

1287
01:36:28,750 --> 01:36:29,875
that we were gonna have at the reception.

1288
01:36:30,166 --> 01:36:31,666
I didn't get to taste any of it.

1289
01:36:32,166 --> 01:36:32,708
I know.

1290
01:36:33,000 --> 01:36:34,041
I stayed in Vegas.

1291
01:36:34,625 --> 01:36:36,291
None of, I'm trying to remember.

1292
01:36:37,750 --> 01:36:38,625
Single guy in Vegas,

1293
01:36:38,833 --> 01:36:39,750
what did I get up to?

1294
01:36:40,500 --> 01:36:40,958
I'm just kidding.

1295
01:36:43,500 --> 01:36:43,875
I worked.

1296
01:36:44,416 --> 01:36:44,833
You worked.

1297
01:36:45,333 --> 01:36:45,500
Yeah.

1298
01:36:45,791 --> 01:36:47,833
I know what you did.

1299
01:36:47,833 --> 01:36:48,875
Yeah, yeah.

1300
01:36:50,250 --> 01:36:52,083
And it wasn't fallacious,

1301
01:36:52,083 --> 01:36:53,125
it was truly just working.

1302
01:36:54,208 --> 01:36:55,458
Driving the garbage

1303
01:36:55,458 --> 01:36:56,500
truck around that we owned

1304
01:36:56,500 --> 01:36:58,833
was not super sexy.

1305
01:36:58,875 --> 01:36:59,625
Not super sexy.

1306
01:37:00,375 --> 01:37:01,083
Check out the Instagram,

1307
01:37:01,291 --> 01:37:02,458
I can show you one of our garbage trucks.

1308
01:37:02,708 --> 01:37:03,125
That's true.

1309
01:37:04,000 --> 01:37:04,791
Although, wasn't it the

1310
01:37:04,791 --> 01:37:06,375
week of our wedding that--

1311
01:37:06,583 --> 01:37:06,791
Pete.

1312
01:37:07,416 --> 01:37:07,583
Petey.

1313
01:37:07,833 --> 01:37:09,500
Yeah, Pete was our,

1314
01:37:09,916 --> 01:37:11,041
see if we do name cars.

1315
01:37:11,250 --> 01:37:11,833
Yeah, Pete was the

1316
01:37:11,833 --> 01:37:13,458
garbage truck, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1317
01:37:13,583 --> 01:37:14,375
Anyway, sorry I interrupted.

1318
01:37:14,833 --> 01:37:16,166
But wasn't it the week of our wedding

1319
01:37:16,333 --> 01:37:17,333
that somebody hit--

1320
01:37:18,000 --> 01:37:18,416
Gertie.

1321
01:37:18,708 --> 01:37:19,333
Gertie, yeah.

1322
01:37:19,666 --> 01:37:21,000
So we named all the worked vehicles.

1323
01:37:21,000 --> 01:37:21,916
Really when we were younger,

1324
01:37:22,416 --> 01:37:24,000
all the worked vehicles at least were,

1325
01:37:24,166 --> 01:37:25,583
yeah, that was one of the work bands.

1326
01:37:26,875 --> 01:37:27,875
And I got rear-ended.

1327
01:37:28,166 --> 01:37:29,208
Yeah, it was a hit and run, right?

1328
01:37:29,291 --> 01:37:30,083
It was a hit and run, yeah,

1329
01:37:30,083 --> 01:37:31,125
but that's when I

1330
01:37:31,125 --> 01:37:32,416
apparently had a memory,

1331
01:37:33,416 --> 01:37:34,625
you know, a good memory,

1332
01:37:34,625 --> 01:37:36,083
because the guy that hit

1333
01:37:36,083 --> 01:37:37,291
me, I remember, was a Jeep,

1334
01:37:38,000 --> 01:37:39,125
and I looked at his license plate,

1335
01:37:39,125 --> 01:37:40,291
and I remember his license plate,

1336
01:37:40,291 --> 01:37:41,875
I wrote it down and I gave it to the cop,

1337
01:37:42,916 --> 01:37:44,291
and that worked its way

1338
01:37:44,291 --> 01:37:45,166
out through the system.

1339
01:37:46,125 --> 01:37:47,875
But yeah, totally, I called you up,

1340
01:37:47,875 --> 01:37:49,500
it was like four days before our wedding,

1341
01:37:49,500 --> 01:37:50,166
and I'm like, I just

1342
01:37:50,166 --> 01:37:51,166
got in a car accident.

1343
01:37:51,541 --> 01:37:53,083
Yes, and I was like, no, you didn't.

1344
01:37:53,083 --> 01:37:54,000
I remember where I was

1345
01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:54,875
sitting at my parents' house,

1346
01:37:54,875 --> 01:37:55,625
going, no, you didn't.

1347
01:37:56,000 --> 01:37:58,666
They amputated both my legs and an arm,

1348
01:37:58,666 --> 01:37:59,541
I hope you still love me.

1349
01:38:01,333 --> 01:38:02,666
Yes, we're getting married in four days.

1350
01:38:03,375 --> 01:38:04,750
You love me for my personality, right?

1351
01:38:08,041 --> 01:38:09,125
And that beautiful face.

1352
01:38:09,166 --> 01:38:10,875
Yeah, yeah, and yeah, sorry,

1353
01:38:11,166 --> 01:38:12,500
and I was burned to a crisp.

1354
01:38:13,666 --> 01:38:14,458
I'd be glad of that,

1355
01:38:14,458 --> 01:38:14,916
but there were people

1356
01:38:14,916 --> 01:38:15,958
that have been through that, I'm sure.

1357
01:38:16,166 --> 01:38:17,125
It's true, I would say.

1358
01:38:17,125 --> 01:38:18,583
I'm not trying to make a lie to that.

1359
01:38:19,541 --> 01:38:20,541
But yeah, that was

1360
01:38:20,541 --> 01:38:22,208
something that was stressful,

1361
01:38:22,208 --> 01:38:24,958
I think, four days before we got married.

1362
01:38:25,083 --> 01:38:26,083
Yeah, uh-huh, because I

1363
01:38:26,083 --> 01:38:27,583
remember not believing you.

1364
01:38:28,250 --> 01:38:32,166
Which, that's not my usual,

1365
01:38:32,541 --> 01:38:33,250
like when you tell me

1366
01:38:33,250 --> 01:38:34,416
something, I'm like, okay.

1367
01:38:35,208 --> 01:38:36,708
You know, I don't ever question it,

1368
01:38:36,708 --> 01:38:37,500
this one, I'm like,

1369
01:38:37,500 --> 01:38:39,291
you're lying, stop, stop,

1370
01:38:39,291 --> 01:38:40,125
this isn't funny.

1371
01:38:40,583 --> 01:38:40,833
Yeah.

1372
01:38:42,708 --> 01:38:45,375
Oh man, those were not the days, but

1373
01:38:45,375 --> 01:38:46,083
those were the days.

1374
01:38:46,916 --> 01:38:48,416
Oh my gosh, I had

1375
01:38:48,416 --> 01:38:49,875
forgotten about the car accident

1376
01:38:49,875 --> 01:38:50,541
with Gurney.

1377
01:38:51,000 --> 01:38:52,166
Yeah, yeah.

1378
01:38:52,166 --> 01:38:53,000
Good night.

1379
01:38:53,000 --> 01:38:53,500
So that would have been

1380
01:38:53,500 --> 01:38:55,083
almost exactly 18 years

1381
01:38:55,083 --> 01:38:56,333
from today, because it was like four days

1382
01:38:56,333 --> 01:38:56,958
before we got married,

1383
01:38:56,958 --> 01:38:58,000
so we're pretty darn close

1384
01:38:58,000 --> 01:38:59,458
to that exact time frame.

1385
01:38:59,541 --> 01:38:59,875
Yep.

1386
01:38:59,875 --> 01:39:00,666
Where we sit today,

1387
01:39:00,666 --> 01:39:02,916
as we, as we were born.

1388
01:39:03,000 --> 01:39:04,333
Gosh, it was our

1389
01:39:04,333 --> 01:39:05,625
wedding, I still look back

1390
01:39:05,750 --> 01:39:07,416
on that entire

1391
01:39:07,416 --> 01:39:10,041
weekend, it's just magical.

1392
01:39:11,458 --> 01:39:13,541
It was just amazing, all of it.

1393
01:39:13,583 --> 01:39:14,250
Yeah, you just hope that

1394
01:39:14,250 --> 01:39:15,708
everybody can look back,

1395
01:39:16,458 --> 01:39:18,958
on their wedding and think that, right?

1396
01:39:19,625 --> 01:39:21,125
And man, it was an awesome

1397
01:39:21,125 --> 01:39:22,875
day, awesome couple of days,

1398
01:39:22,875 --> 01:39:24,375
but that day, I mean, it

1399
01:39:24,375 --> 01:39:28,500
was just so us, even now.

1400
01:39:29,666 --> 01:39:31,500
Agreed, it was so true to us.

1401
01:39:31,500 --> 01:39:32,166
Who we are.

1402
01:39:32,500 --> 01:39:33,000
I totally agree.

1403
01:39:33,416 --> 01:39:33,666
Right.

1404
01:39:33,666 --> 01:39:34,583
We always just.

1405
01:39:34,875 --> 01:39:36,541
Right, and if you were there, I think,

1406
01:39:36,541 --> 01:39:37,375
and if you still know us

1407
01:39:37,375 --> 01:39:39,375
now, I think you could agree

1408
01:39:39,375 --> 01:39:41,916
that that was just all Shawn and Megan.

1409
01:39:42,083 --> 01:39:43,041
Yeah, yeah.

1410
01:39:43,166 --> 01:39:44,166
From beginning to

1411
01:39:44,166 --> 01:39:44,958
end, through and through.

1412
01:39:45,250 --> 01:39:47,708
I mean, just the

1413
01:39:47,708 --> 01:39:49,500
ambiance of it, the feel of it,

1414
01:39:49,500 --> 01:39:52,250
the, you know, every part

1415
01:39:52,250 --> 01:39:54,375
of it to me was just purely.

1416
01:39:54,916 --> 01:39:57,250
I remember sitting in

1417
01:39:57,250 --> 01:39:59,291
our office in Las Vegas,

1418
01:40:00,166 --> 01:40:03,041
making the intros for our wedding party.

1419
01:40:03,666 --> 01:40:04,666
And oh my gosh, I just

1420
01:40:04,666 --> 01:40:06,125
remember dying, laughing.

1421
01:40:06,583 --> 01:40:08,958
We're like, oh, we can't say that, or oh,

1422
01:40:08,958 --> 01:40:10,083
we should, you know.

1423
01:40:10,416 --> 01:40:11,833
Yeah, can we say that, can we?

1424
01:40:11,833 --> 01:40:12,208
We should.

1425
01:40:12,208 --> 01:40:13,500
We should, you know?

1426
01:40:14,333 --> 01:40:15,833
It was so much fun.

1427
01:40:16,083 --> 01:40:16,916
Yeah, yeah.

1428
01:40:16,916 --> 01:40:17,333
All of it.

1429
01:40:17,791 --> 01:40:18,541
Yeah, it was fantastic.

1430
01:40:18,875 --> 01:40:19,708
I think a lot of

1431
01:40:19,708 --> 01:40:20,500
people had fun there too.

1432
01:40:21,083 --> 01:40:21,708
I hope so.

1433
01:40:21,708 --> 01:40:22,916
The only sad thing about it,

1434
01:40:22,916 --> 01:40:24,000
and then we'll let you guys go here,

1435
01:40:24,000 --> 01:40:25,083
but the only sad thing

1436
01:40:25,083 --> 01:40:26,208
about our wedding, I think,

1437
01:40:26,916 --> 01:40:27,583
is the fact that it

1438
01:40:27,583 --> 01:40:30,166
was pre-cellular phones.

1439
01:40:30,625 --> 01:40:31,541
We got married before the

1440
01:40:31,541 --> 01:40:33,500
iPhones were out, right?

1441
01:40:33,833 --> 01:40:34,750
Well before, yeah.

1442
01:40:34,750 --> 01:40:37,958
Like we literally had, I think we put

1443
01:40:38,958 --> 01:40:40,833
those disposable cameras on the tables

1444
01:40:40,833 --> 01:40:41,875
for people to take pictures,

1445
01:40:42,583 --> 01:40:43,291
so we could get just

1446
01:40:43,291 --> 01:40:44,375
like a couple extra pictures

1447
01:40:45,000 --> 01:40:46,875
from the wedding, you know?

1448
01:40:47,500 --> 01:40:50,583
And so it's different than now.

1449
01:40:50,916 --> 01:40:52,500
Now you'd have a thousand pictures.

1450
01:40:53,375 --> 01:40:54,708
But you know, we had a photographer.

1451
01:40:55,166 --> 01:40:55,541
Of course.

1452
01:40:55,958 --> 01:40:56,958
And the photographer got

1453
01:40:56,958 --> 01:40:57,958
what the photographer got,

1454
01:40:57,958 --> 01:40:59,750
250, 300, they got

1455
01:40:59,750 --> 01:41:01,291
whatever they got, 300 pictures,

1456
01:41:01,291 --> 01:41:01,916
and whatever they didn't

1457
01:41:01,916 --> 01:41:02,875
get, they didn't get, you know?

1458
01:41:03,541 --> 01:41:06,250
And that was my one downside is that,

1459
01:41:06,250 --> 01:41:07,375
you know, like our first dance,

1460
01:41:07,375 --> 01:41:08,708
we actually took dance lessons.

1461
01:41:09,208 --> 01:41:10,083
And I am not a dancer,

1462
01:41:10,250 --> 01:41:11,083
so I'm sorry for anybody

1463
01:41:11,083 --> 01:41:12,083
that had to watch that.

1464
01:41:13,166 --> 01:41:14,583
But Megan being a dancer,

1465
01:41:14,583 --> 01:41:15,458
I thought it was important,

1466
01:41:15,666 --> 01:41:16,375
you know, that we put

1467
01:41:16,375 --> 01:41:17,083
a real dance out there.

1468
01:41:17,083 --> 01:41:17,750
I didn't want to do the

1469
01:41:17,750 --> 01:41:19,500
two step, you know, for you.

1470
01:41:19,791 --> 01:41:21,583
So we took dance lessons and you know,

1471
01:41:21,875 --> 01:41:22,666
maybe it's a good thing it

1472
01:41:22,666 --> 01:41:23,750
doesn't exist in real life

1473
01:41:23,750 --> 01:41:24,583
because we look back and be

1474
01:41:24,583 --> 01:41:26,416
like, oh, Shawn, that was--

1475
01:41:26,416 --> 01:41:27,083
We were, yeah.

1476
01:41:27,375 --> 01:41:27,458
Ooh.

1477
01:41:28,541 --> 01:41:31,000
(laughs) But now it exists in our mind that,

1478
01:41:31,000 --> 01:41:31,916
you know, that was a special thing.

1479
01:41:32,208 --> 01:41:32,916
Yeah, exactly.

1480
01:41:33,458 --> 01:41:35,583
And in our minds, we were amazing.

1481
01:41:36,291 --> 01:41:37,500
I would not say that.

1482
01:41:37,750 --> 01:41:39,041
I would never say that.

1483
01:41:40,583 --> 01:41:42,041
I would not say, you

1484
01:41:42,041 --> 01:41:42,958
were great, I'm sure.

1485
01:41:43,500 --> 01:41:43,708
I--

1486
01:41:43,791 --> 01:41:44,875
I'm sure you were fantastic.

1487
01:41:45,291 --> 01:41:46,083
There's probably more of

1488
01:41:46,083 --> 01:41:47,541
the Tin Man or the Scarecrow

1489
01:41:47,541 --> 01:41:48,583
or somewhere in between.

1490
01:41:49,250 --> 01:41:50,541
Cowardly Lion, all three of them.

1491
01:41:51,833 --> 01:41:52,041
(laughs)

1492
01:41:52,416 --> 01:41:53,000
No, no.

1493
01:41:53,541 --> 01:41:55,750
I think it was, we have

1494
01:41:55,750 --> 01:41:56,791
enough pictures to know

1495
01:41:56,791 --> 01:41:58,625
that it was just fine.

1496
01:41:59,041 --> 01:41:59,250
Yeah.

1497
01:41:59,625 --> 01:42:01,333
So, but you're right.

1498
01:42:01,541 --> 01:42:02,750
Like you think about all of the candid

1499
01:42:02,958 --> 01:42:04,916
and like just everyone else's perspective

1500
01:42:05,083 --> 01:42:05,583
that you would have

1501
01:42:05,583 --> 01:42:06,500
from a wedding nowadays.

1502
01:42:06,916 --> 01:42:07,125
Yeah.

1503
01:42:08,333 --> 01:42:09,000
And I know some

1504
01:42:09,000 --> 01:42:10,666
people did send my videos--

1505
01:42:11,083 --> 01:42:11,750
We don't have any video.

1506
01:42:12,500 --> 01:42:12,875
No.

1507
01:42:13,083 --> 01:42:13,875
Not one video.

1508
01:42:13,875 --> 01:42:14,541
We only have pictures

1509
01:42:14,541 --> 01:42:17,083
because people couldn't video.

1510
01:42:17,500 --> 01:42:18,375
And some people did,

1511
01:42:18,375 --> 01:42:19,000
like they would send,

1512
01:42:19,291 --> 01:42:20,625
and in fact, actually one of

1513
01:42:20,625 --> 01:42:22,000
my favorite pictures of us,

1514
01:42:22,000 --> 01:42:23,916
I think, was taken by

1515
01:42:23,916 --> 01:42:25,291
my cousin, you know,

1516
01:42:25,291 --> 01:42:26,500
and it was sent to my

1517
01:42:26,500 --> 01:42:28,208
parents and then back to us and,

1518
01:42:28,833 --> 01:42:30,625
you know, so yeah.

1519
01:42:31,291 --> 01:42:31,750
It's pretty cool.

1520
01:42:32,041 --> 01:42:33,666
Yeah, so we got that

1521
01:42:33,666 --> 01:42:34,541
coming up this weekend.

1522
01:42:34,541 --> 01:42:35,166
We got a couple soccer

1523
01:42:35,166 --> 01:42:36,333
games coming up this weekend.

1524
01:42:37,083 --> 01:42:37,375
Yeah.

1525
01:42:38,583 --> 01:42:41,166
That's really, that's really it for now.

1526
01:42:41,666 --> 01:42:42,791
We are officially into fall

1527
01:42:42,791 --> 01:42:44,833
and I feel like it is flying.

1528
01:42:46,333 --> 01:42:46,500
Yeah.

1529
01:42:47,833 --> 01:42:49,541
Like once you get to October,

1530
01:42:50,458 --> 01:42:52,000
it just, the rest of

1531
01:42:52,000 --> 01:42:53,708
the year, just races.

1532
01:42:54,208 --> 01:42:55,208
Yeah, yeah.

1533
01:42:56,666 --> 01:42:57,208
Our kids are putting

1534
01:42:57,208 --> 01:42:58,416
together their Christmas list.

1535
01:42:59,541 --> 01:43:01,208
Anyone else's children put

1536
01:43:01,208 --> 01:43:02,291
together a Christmas list

1537
01:43:02,375 --> 01:43:04,333
before it's officially fall?

1538
01:43:04,583 --> 01:43:05,875
I think, we got our first Christmas

1539
01:43:05,875 --> 01:43:07,166
is like two months ago though.

1540
01:43:07,291 --> 01:43:09,791
I know, it had pictures of Santa on it.

1541
01:43:09,791 --> 01:43:10,416
They're so great too.

1542
01:43:11,458 --> 01:43:12,416
One year we got a

1543
01:43:12,416 --> 01:43:15,583
PowerPoint with Amazon links

1544
01:43:16,125 --> 01:43:17,125
to where they were,

1545
01:43:17,125 --> 01:43:18,000
they give us the budget,

1546
01:43:18,000 --> 01:43:18,875
how much they cost.

1547
01:43:18,875 --> 01:43:19,541
Yeah, it was amazing.

1548
01:43:19,916 --> 01:43:20,083
Yeah.

1549
01:43:21,041 --> 01:43:21,333
(laughing)

1550
01:43:21,375 --> 01:43:21,708
We're like,

1551
01:43:21,708 --> 01:43:22,291
We're like, "How much do

1552
01:43:22,291 --> 01:43:23,416
you think we actually spend?"

1553
01:43:25,541 --> 01:43:26,083
You need to narrow

1554
01:43:26,083 --> 01:43:27,208
this down a little bit.

1555
01:43:28,333 --> 01:43:29,666
Oh my gosh, too funny.

1556
01:43:29,666 --> 01:43:30,583
So we got a lot of stuff coming up.

1557
01:43:30,708 --> 01:43:31,625
Yeah, Halloween stuff's

1558
01:43:31,625 --> 01:43:32,791
coming out pretty soon here.

1559
01:43:33,708 --> 01:43:35,875
Next week is October.

1560
01:43:35,916 --> 01:43:36,166
October.

1561
01:43:36,916 --> 01:43:39,000
We gotta get all that stuff out.

1562
01:43:39,250 --> 01:43:39,666
That's fun.

1563
01:43:40,000 --> 01:43:41,125
You gotta start pulling

1564
01:43:41,125 --> 01:43:42,041
stuff down from the attic.

1565
01:43:42,750 --> 01:43:44,208
Bring out the gargoyles.

1566
01:43:44,625 --> 01:43:46,500
Yep, yep, yep, yep.

1567
01:43:46,666 --> 01:43:47,166
Good fun.

1568
01:43:47,166 --> 01:43:48,333
And then the second that comes down,

1569
01:43:48,333 --> 01:43:49,416
all the Christmas stuff goes up.

1570
01:43:50,125 --> 01:43:50,666
Yep, that means I

1571
01:43:50,666 --> 01:43:51,625
gotta start doing leaves,

1572
01:43:52,500 --> 01:43:53,041
getting these out of

1573
01:43:53,041 --> 01:43:54,000
the pool, out of the yard.

1574
01:43:54,666 --> 01:43:55,666
A lot of stuff comes with fall.

1575
01:43:56,583 --> 01:43:57,875
But it is the best time of year.

1576
01:43:58,291 --> 01:43:59,625
Best time of the year.

1577
01:44:00,250 --> 01:44:01,083
Not quite the most

1578
01:44:01,083 --> 01:44:02,958
wonderful time of the year, but.

1579
01:44:03,125 --> 01:44:03,541
Well, that's what we

1580
01:44:03,541 --> 01:44:04,333
didn't say the most wonderful.

1581
01:44:05,208 --> 01:44:05,708
(laughing)

1582
01:44:06,166 --> 01:44:06,833
Great time of year.

1583
01:44:07,166 --> 01:44:08,625
Because there is a time that'll come,

1584
01:44:08,625 --> 01:44:10,083
and it is the most.

1585
01:44:10,666 --> 01:44:10,875
The most. Okay.

1586
01:44:11,833 --> 01:44:12,333
Yeah, I'll start

1587
01:44:12,333 --> 01:44:14,041
sounding like a 1950s singer.

1588
01:44:15,041 --> 01:44:16,375
That's when that song came out, though.

1589
01:44:16,375 --> 01:44:16,875
That's why it sounded like it.

1590
01:44:16,916 --> 01:44:18,750
I know, I thought it was

1591
01:44:18,750 --> 01:44:20,625
very owed to the original.

1592
01:44:20,916 --> 01:44:22,000
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1593
01:44:22,000 --> 01:44:23,708
I've got a great 50s voice, I think.

1594
01:44:24,166 --> 01:44:24,916
Well, I bet you would.

1595
01:44:25,708 --> 01:44:26,875
You've heard me do it all the time.

1596
01:44:26,875 --> 01:44:27,708
You always are like, "I

1597
01:44:27,708 --> 01:44:28,625
don't know how you would sound."

1598
01:44:28,791 --> 01:44:30,333
I sing all the time, and you're like,

1599
01:44:30,333 --> 01:44:31,250
"I've never heard you sing."

1600
01:44:31,916 --> 01:44:33,250
Even now, you just said, "No, you don't."

1601
01:44:33,250 --> 01:44:34,000
I sing all the time.

1602
01:44:34,291 --> 01:44:35,500
All right, anyways, all right.

1603
01:44:35,541 --> 01:44:36,375
We need to come up with our three,

1604
01:44:37,000 --> 01:44:38,083
we're getting so long.

1605
01:44:38,500 --> 01:44:38,875
Our word.

1606
01:44:39,083 --> 01:44:39,750
Our one word.

1607
01:44:40,416 --> 01:44:41,583
Okay, I have a dumb word, but okay.

1608
01:44:42,083 --> 01:44:42,375
Okay.

1609
01:44:43,041 --> 01:44:43,375
All right.

1610
01:44:44,500 --> 01:44:46,041
We only took like two and a half minutes

1611
01:44:46,041 --> 01:44:47,125
to figure that out.

1612
01:44:47,125 --> 01:44:47,708
We're on it.

1613
01:44:48,166 --> 01:44:48,375
Yeah.

1614
01:44:49,458 --> 01:44:51,041
One, two, three.

1615
01:44:51,833 --> 01:44:52,375
Can't get in.

1616
01:44:55,125 --> 01:44:56,500
Mine's just a little foreshadowing.

1617
01:44:56,833 --> 01:44:58,291
That's all I can say about mine.

1618
01:44:59,208 --> 01:45:00,041
Can't even repeat it.

1619
01:45:00,041 --> 01:45:01,458
I can't, don't even repeat it, no?

1620
01:45:02,083 --> 01:45:04,333
In fact, I might bleep it out.

1621
01:45:05,666 --> 01:45:05,958
Shit.

1622
01:45:06,416 --> 01:45:07,333
All right, accomplish.

1623
01:45:07,833 --> 01:45:09,041
Is that all to do with the mom?

1624
01:45:11,125 --> 01:45:14,166
No, I feel like we got quite a bit of,

1625
01:45:14,375 --> 01:45:16,000
I feel like things

1626
01:45:16,000 --> 01:45:16,916
have been accomplished.

1627
01:45:17,166 --> 01:45:17,333
Yeah.

1628
01:45:17,625 --> 01:45:20,833
Like, across the board.

1629
01:45:20,833 --> 01:45:23,000
But yes, the mom was a big part of it,

1630
01:45:23,000 --> 01:45:24,458
but I do feel like

1631
01:45:24,458 --> 01:45:25,833
there's been things that,

1632
01:45:27,500 --> 01:45:28,958
check things off the to-do list.

1633
01:45:29,500 --> 01:45:30,416
I feel like you had a big

1634
01:45:30,416 --> 01:45:32,208
accomplishment last week at work.

1635
01:45:33,250 --> 01:45:35,083
I just hit my mouth on the mic.

1636
01:45:36,875 --> 01:45:39,708
I feel like accomplishment

1637
01:45:39,708 --> 01:45:42,416
was the word of the week.

1638
01:45:42,916 --> 01:45:44,333
Yeah, it's good.

1639
01:45:44,500 --> 01:45:45,333
That's a great word.

1640
01:45:45,791 --> 01:45:47,333
If you summed up your last week with the

1641
01:45:47,333 --> 01:45:48,125
word accomplishment,

1642
01:45:48,583 --> 01:45:49,583
it's gonna be a good week,

1643
01:45:50,041 --> 01:45:52,375
despite how you felt an hour ago.

1644
01:45:53,666 --> 01:45:54,416
That's gotta be good.

1645
01:45:54,583 --> 01:45:55,750
And I agree, we're

1646
01:45:55,750 --> 01:45:57,083
checking a lot of boxes right now,

1647
01:45:57,083 --> 01:45:57,708
which is really good.

1648
01:45:58,208 --> 01:45:58,375
Yeah.

1649
01:45:59,333 --> 01:46:02,875
Because we're, I don't

1650
01:46:02,875 --> 01:46:05,375
know, it's been a year, right?

1651
01:46:05,750 --> 01:46:07,291
Everybody's been talking about it,

1652
01:46:07,291 --> 01:46:08,000
that we've just been

1653
01:46:08,000 --> 01:46:10,375
trying new things out.

1654
01:46:11,291 --> 01:46:12,125
We're growing upstream.

1655
01:46:13,000 --> 01:46:15,166
Feels like we're still

1656
01:46:15,166 --> 01:46:15,958
fighting a good fight.

1657
01:46:16,916 --> 01:46:17,916
And checking some boxes for

1658
01:46:17,916 --> 01:46:19,000
accomplishment, which is great.

1659
01:46:19,750 --> 01:46:22,916
Yeah, accomplishment, and suspicion.

1660
01:46:24,166 --> 01:46:25,750
All right, one last question for you.

1661
01:46:25,791 --> 01:46:26,000
Yeah.

1662
01:46:26,375 --> 01:46:27,541
I'm gonna put the pressure on you here.

1663
01:46:27,958 --> 01:46:29,708
What is for dinner?

1664
01:46:33,125 --> 01:46:34,041
Did you make guacamole?

1665
01:46:35,791 --> 01:46:37,583
(laughing)

1666
01:46:40,791 --> 01:46:44,291
For the record, after I made the bomb,

1667
01:46:45,708 --> 01:46:46,583
I made guacamole.

1668
01:46:49,708 --> 01:46:50,333
I think that's good.

1669
01:46:51,791 --> 01:46:52,583
Ciao, ciao.

1670
01:46:52,625 --> 01:46:53,250
Guac-a-lator.