WEBVTT NOTE This file was generated by Descript 00:00:42.180 --> 00:00:45.560 Kyle Wood: Hello and welcome back to the well designed podcast. 00:00:45.900 --> 00:00:48.390 I'm Kyle Wood and with me is my co host. 00:00:50.490 --> 00:00:52.390 This is where you can jump in Brandy. 00:00:54.300 --> 00:00:55.160 Brandi Healy: That's my cue. 00:00:55.650 --> 00:00:57.780 I mean, I would make a terrible actor. 00:00:58.010 --> 00:00:58.870 I'm Brandy Healy. 00:01:00.345 --> 00:01:00.835 Kyle Wood: Awesome. 00:01:00.955 --> 00:01:01.395 Welcome. 00:01:02.185 --> 00:01:02.575 All right. 00:01:02.655 --> 00:01:06.835 So today we're talking about something we thought before we start diving 00:01:06.835 --> 00:01:11.285 into sharing with you the ins and outs of human design and how you can use 00:01:11.285 --> 00:01:13.145 it in your career and your business. 00:01:14.395 --> 00:01:18.095 We thought we should actually talk about where should you start? 00:01:19.230 --> 00:01:22.630 Because, you know, if you look up your human design chart. 00:01:24.970 --> 00:01:26.130 It can be pretty overwhelming. 00:01:26.130 --> 00:01:29.710 You'll get this like list of all the, you know, text of all 00:01:29.710 --> 00:01:30.680 the different things you are. 00:01:30.690 --> 00:01:34.250 And then you get this like funny looking chart with like triangles 00:01:34.250 --> 00:01:36.700 and squares and diamonds and 00:01:36.700 --> 00:01:41.930 lines and Numbers and yeah, and it's just like, okay, what 00:01:41.940 --> 00:01:43.860 do I do with this information? 00:01:45.760 --> 00:01:48.790 So hopefully today we can, like, point you in the right direction. 00:01:49.100 --> 00:01:49.850 That's our goal. 00:01:50.350 --> 00:01:50.710 so how are 00:01:50.830 --> 00:01:51.505 Brandi Healy: I actually. 00:01:52.065 --> 00:01:55.075 Oh, I was going to say, I actually did a poll in my Instagram stories 00:01:55.075 --> 00:01:59.115 the other day about, like, with people of what did you think the 00:01:59.115 --> 00:02:00.785 first time you looked up your chart? 00:02:00.855 --> 00:02:03.385 And it was like, did you feel deeply seen? 00:02:03.785 --> 00:02:05.925 Did you feel like it didn't resonate? 00:02:06.235 --> 00:02:08.765 Were you, like, overwhelmed? 00:02:08.945 --> 00:02:11.895 And, you know, I was actually shocked because a lot of people 00:02:11.895 --> 00:02:14.805 said that they felt deeply seen and I was like, that's not how I felt. 00:02:14.805 --> 00:02:18.175 I felt very overwhelmed the first time I looked at the chart. 00:02:19.550 --> 00:02:24.480 So, you know, if you are one of those people that like me saw that and felt like 00:02:24.510 --> 00:02:28.130 it was a lot going on, you're not alone. 00:02:28.690 --> 00:02:29.050 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:02:30.260 --> 00:02:30.520 Yep. 00:02:32.320 --> 00:02:34.370 So there's a few ways we could take this. 00:02:34.540 --> 00:02:38.520 Should we try and do this in a bit of like a process where it's like. 00:02:39.345 --> 00:02:43.575 Here's how to even look up your chart, and then here's what to look at first. 00:02:44.055 --> 00:02:47.825 Or should we just sort of have a bit of a discussion? 00:02:47.825 --> 00:02:48.615 I've got some notes here. 00:02:48.615 --> 00:02:49.605 What do you think, Brandy? 00:02:50.340 --> 00:02:51.470 Brandi Healy: I think we should just chat. 00:02:52.330 --> 00:02:59.470 So I think, yeah, I think when you look up your chart, I think the 00:02:59.470 --> 00:03:04.620 easiest thing I think is you view the chart itself and there's not 00:03:04.630 --> 00:03:06.920 really explanation to what it means. 00:03:07.605 --> 00:03:08.105 Kyle Wood: Hmm. 00:03:08.225 --> 00:03:08.535 No. 00:03:08.635 --> 00:03:09.615 Brandi Healy: charts, right? 00:03:09.775 --> 00:03:13.775 So you drop down to kind of the list of texts, and that would vary. 00:03:13.815 --> 00:03:19.415 But generally on most chart generators, there is going to be information 00:03:19.415 --> 00:03:23.775 that that's provided to you that you could do a lot with without 00:03:23.805 --> 00:03:25.265 even looking at the body graph. 00:03:25.265 --> 00:03:30.495 So the body graph is all the shapes, lines, numbers and I think 00:03:30.495 --> 00:03:36.395 that there's just some of the text descriptions of your chart that can 00:03:36.395 --> 00:03:38.925 be incredibly useful to start with. 00:03:39.815 --> 00:03:40.195 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:03:42.155 --> 00:03:42.845 Brandi Healy: What do you think? 00:03:44.215 --> 00:03:49.825 Kyle Wood: Yeah, I mean, The way I sort of came at it when I had a good think about 00:03:49.825 --> 00:03:52.165 this, I was like, I think the most useful. 00:03:52.850 --> 00:03:57.210 Thing to do is to ask yourself, like, what, what do I want to get out of this? 00:03:57.510 --> 00:04:01.740 Like, you know, it's just, it's just information for the sake of information. 00:04:01.740 --> 00:04:04.730 You can look up your chart, Google it. 00:04:05.610 --> 00:04:08.990 You'll find, you know, an article or a blog post somewhere that will describe it. 00:04:09.600 --> 00:04:13.490 And then you can read it and then, you know, move on with your life and get. 00:04:17.765 --> 00:04:18.875 Anything out of it. 00:04:18.905 --> 00:04:22.975 So I think I like the idea of using human design as a tool. 00:04:23.325 --> 00:04:26.515 So in that case, I think starting with the question of like, What 00:04:26.515 --> 00:04:28.015 are you struggling with right now? 00:04:28.535 --> 00:04:34.695 Because then there's a specific part or aspect of your, your human design that 00:04:34.705 --> 00:04:40.405 you can look at that will be able to give you some tools to help you navigate that. 00:04:41.245 --> 00:04:43.465 So that's kind of the approach I took with it. 00:04:43.465 --> 00:04:44.835 And then that's a good way to start. 00:04:45.715 --> 00:04:49.975 Practicing because yeah, it's not with human design. 00:04:50.125 --> 00:04:52.835 We've found that it's not enough to just know it. 00:04:52.855 --> 00:04:56.235 You do have to kind of, there is a reflection process that's involved in 00:04:56.235 --> 00:05:02.285 this thing I do with, with the coaches and professionals who I work with is, you 00:05:02.285 --> 00:05:04.225 know, there's lots of reflection work. 00:05:04.225 --> 00:05:07.695 We learn about stuff, but then it's like, our house is actually showing up for you. 00:05:08.270 --> 00:05:12.550 Where can you tweak things to, you know, find more flow or whatever it 00:05:12.550 --> 00:05:13.690 is they're dealing with right now. 00:05:15.785 --> 00:05:16.305 Brandi Healy: I love that. 00:05:17.340 --> 00:05:17.680 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:05:19.290 --> 00:05:24.780 So, should we go through, I wrote down like some different common problems 00:05:24.820 --> 00:05:28.820 people have and then like we can chat about that part of the chat. 00:05:29.585 --> 00:05:29.695 Brandi Healy: Yes. 00:05:29.695 --> 00:05:30.535 Yeah, absolutely. 00:05:30.805 --> 00:05:36.085 So what are, for you, I'm curious, what was it that you were kind of 00:05:36.085 --> 00:05:39.205 looking for answers when you looked at your own chart for the first time? 00:05:39.810 --> 00:05:40.610 Kyle Wood: good question. 00:05:41.460 --> 00:05:44.510 I, I mean, I'm probably the exception to the rule because I 00:05:44.510 --> 00:05:46.250 just like geeking out on this stuff. 00:05:46.250 --> 00:05:49.640 So, like, I was like, Oh, yes, this will be good. 00:05:49.950 --> 00:05:51.950 Then I just did the thing of like, Oh, I'll read about my 00:05:51.950 --> 00:05:54.120 type and then, and then, okay, 00:05:54.915 --> 00:05:55.405 Brandi Healy: Same. 00:05:55.510 --> 00:05:55.820 Kyle Wood: whatever. 00:05:56.740 --> 00:06:01.740 So for me, probably like a big part of it was when I learned about the centers. 00:06:02.690 --> 00:06:06.610 Because I was able to look at my chart and my wife's chart. 00:06:07.155 --> 00:06:10.935 And see, and we talked a bit about this last week when you, 00:06:11.625 --> 00:06:15.735 or last episode when you were in talking, doing a reading on me. 00:06:16.275 --> 00:06:20.115 But I was able to see, like with my wife, I was like, oh, she's defined there. 00:06:20.475 --> 00:06:21.585 I'm undefined. 00:06:22.185 --> 00:06:23.145 That makes sense. 00:06:23.150 --> 00:06:27.555 Why, why we clash here or why we have really different like 00:06:27.555 --> 00:06:29.445 innate approaches to this. 00:06:30.045 --> 00:06:33.915 Uh, so that appreciation of, of the difference between us. 00:06:34.595 --> 00:06:37.835 That was probably the first time I was really like, Oh, this is 00:06:37.845 --> 00:06:42.445 something I'm going to actually start by trying to practice, you know, 00:06:42.445 --> 00:06:46.035 you might, which was, which was just in the way that we communicated. 00:06:47.145 --> 00:06:50.265 Brandi Healy: So it's like, even just starting there, like, if you're 00:06:50.265 --> 00:06:55.035 looking for it as a tool to support your relationships, looking at your 00:06:55.035 --> 00:06:57.955 centers, Is a great place to start. 00:06:58.005 --> 00:07:02.445 So whether it's, you know personal partnership or a professional 00:07:02.445 --> 00:07:06.735 partnership, like those, it's huge. 00:07:06.825 --> 00:07:09.975 Any, anyone that you're spending a significant amount of time with, 00:07:09.985 --> 00:07:12.475 it's, it's so useful to look at that. 00:07:12.585 --> 00:07:14.475 And that's such a good example. 00:07:15.425 --> 00:07:15.655 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:07:15.655 --> 00:07:19.075 And the great stuff about just needing that date of birth as 00:07:19.075 --> 00:07:23.315 well as if you've got a client or something that, you know, you just. 00:07:25.540 --> 00:07:28.610 You could also look up theirs and see how your chat so pull 00:07:28.610 --> 00:07:30.160 up both chats side by side. 00:07:30.830 --> 00:07:35.530 So what we're looking for with this is we're looking at which centers are 00:07:35.530 --> 00:07:41.860 colored in and which centers, a white or clear and then we're comparing our chart. 00:07:42.310 --> 00:07:46.360 To the other person's chart and to see where, where they're different. 00:07:46.420 --> 00:07:48.430 So where 1 is colored in and 1 is not. 00:07:48.430 --> 00:07:52.480 1 And so that's just an area of where. 00:07:53.565 --> 00:07:58.215 The person with the colored in shape or which is the center, they're 00:07:58.215 --> 00:08:06.735 going to have more influence over the person with the open or undefined 00:08:06.735 --> 00:08:07.995 center, which is like not colored in. 00:08:09.150 --> 00:08:14.860 So, yeah, so you can see then very quickly why in relationships, one person can 00:08:14.860 --> 00:08:16.670 be like, why don't you do it this way? 00:08:16.670 --> 00:08:18.980 Why do you always do it this other way? 00:08:20.000 --> 00:08:22.440 Or why will they, why are you always talking? 00:08:22.450 --> 00:08:26.150 And I don't feel the need to say much or why don't you talk enough? 00:08:26.490 --> 00:08:29.470 When I, you know, why don't you meet me here? 00:08:29.500 --> 00:08:30.590 And it's just, we're different. 00:08:31.390 --> 00:08:33.210 So that's something that you could also Google. 00:08:33.210 --> 00:08:38.830 You could go online, find that center that's different with the person find 00:08:38.830 --> 00:08:42.350 out what that center is called, and then just look it up and look up what's, 00:08:42.580 --> 00:08:46.080 what's the different characteristics of someone who has that colored in and 00:08:46.090 --> 00:08:48.730 someone who has that white or clear. 00:08:48.800 --> 00:08:48.820 Is 00:08:51.005 --> 00:08:52.085 Brandi Healy: Yeah, such a good one. 00:08:52.540 --> 00:08:53.050 Kyle Wood: that a good advice? 00:08:53.490 --> 00:08:54.580 So I did have that down here. 00:08:54.790 --> 00:08:56.200 I had that down under personal conflicts. 00:08:59.030 --> 00:09:02.510 Brandi Healy: it could also be a great place to look at if you're have a 00:09:02.510 --> 00:09:06.390 relationship that feels really good and to really understand, like, why does 00:09:06.390 --> 00:09:07.860 this relationship feel really good? 00:09:07.870 --> 00:09:10.960 Because even if you have those centers that are. 00:09:11.735 --> 00:09:15.425 Defined, undefined, you know, they're different from one another. 00:09:16.265 --> 00:09:20.595 You've probably found a way to navigate and honor those differences. 00:09:20.605 --> 00:09:26.365 So it's like, you know, you can lean more into that and kind of have language to 00:09:26.365 --> 00:09:31.535 speak to why parts of your relationship work, which can also be really supportive. 00:09:32.085 --> 00:09:32.415 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:09:33.525 --> 00:09:35.175 Yeah, yeah. 00:09:36.195 --> 00:09:38.925 And, and at the same time, you'll then inadvertently start 00:09:38.925 --> 00:09:40.575 learning more about your design. 00:09:41.625 --> 00:09:45.645 Through this as well, you'll learn, like, where you have the capacity for 00:09:45.645 --> 00:09:53.625 a lot of empathy and understanding and where you're more, how would you describe 00:09:53.625 --> 00:09:55.515 it for someone who has defined center? 00:09:55.655 --> 00:09:56.405 How do you like to 00:09:56.425 --> 00:09:57.255 Brandi Healy: Consistent. 00:09:57.495 --> 00:09:58.365 Kyle Wood: Consistent, yeah. 00:09:58.805 --> 00:10:01.625 Brandi Healy: Yeah, it's just, there's more consistency in the 00:10:01.625 --> 00:10:05.805 way that you show up in specific areas of your life when you have. 00:10:05.825 --> 00:10:06.345 Right. 00:10:06.345 --> 00:10:09.905 Center is defined and I think, you know, the easiest example 00:10:09.905 --> 00:10:11.335 is the sacral center, right? 00:10:11.345 --> 00:10:13.795 For our generators and manifesting generators. 00:10:13.795 --> 00:10:19.985 That's kind of your, your ability to kind of your to get things done. 00:10:20.025 --> 00:10:22.125 And like, you're kind of your, your passion. 00:10:22.125 --> 00:10:26.055 So when we talk about that consistent energy that generators 00:10:26.055 --> 00:10:30.475 and manifesting generators have, I think, you know, that 70% of people. 00:10:30.485 --> 00:10:33.375 So I think that that's kind of the easiest center to kind of 00:10:33.385 --> 00:10:35.295 differentiate between the two, but. 00:10:35.755 --> 00:10:42.175 That's, you know, a really kind of good example of like, it's consistent, right? 00:10:42.205 --> 00:10:48.175 You generate consistently from that center and for, you know, the rest of us, 00:10:48.215 --> 00:10:51.365 depending on what we have in our chart. 00:10:51.715 --> 00:10:56.095 Those defined centers will dictate to, you know, where we have that consistency. 00:10:56.095 --> 00:11:00.085 And for our reflectors, that just means that there's a lot more fluidity 00:11:01.275 --> 00:11:05.115 in your design and the way that you kind of operate and show up. 00:11:06.115 --> 00:11:07.525 Kyle Wood: That was a good, good description. 00:11:08.385 --> 00:11:08.795 Thank you. 00:11:11.185 --> 00:11:16.585 All right, so another thing I had down was what if you're, you're coming 00:11:16.585 --> 00:11:19.625 across human design around the time you've got a big decision to make. 00:11:20.095 --> 00:11:23.465 So maybe it's again, maybe it's a relationship decision. 00:11:23.475 --> 00:11:26.735 Maybe it's changing your career or something. 00:11:27.270 --> 00:11:29.520 You know, actually I'm working with a couple of people who are going, one's 00:11:29.520 --> 00:11:33.780 going through a relationship decision, one's going through You know, the, a 00:11:33.780 --> 00:11:36.620 career change that's out of their control. 00:11:36.920 --> 00:11:38.990 So they're, they're trying to work out like what to do next. 00:11:39.160 --> 00:11:44.790 So what part of our chart would be the most helpful with that? 00:11:44.970 --> 00:11:48.010 You didn't have my notes, but yeah, I think you should 00:11:48.315 --> 00:11:49.105 Brandi Healy: Is this a quiz? 00:11:49.630 --> 00:11:49.760 Kyle Wood: know this one. 00:11:49.760 --> 00:11:52.130 Yeah, this is the human design. 00:11:53.165 --> 00:11:53.995 Human design quits. 00:11:55.525 --> 00:11:55.995 yeah. 00:11:55.995 --> 00:11:58.835 Our authority sometimes called out, you know, authority. 00:11:59.535 --> 00:12:02.335 So what, what does our authority help us with? 00:12:03.755 --> 00:12:07.405 Brandi Healy: It just, our, our authority helps us make decisions 00:12:07.405 --> 00:12:09.715 that are in alignment with our design. 00:12:09.725 --> 00:12:12.745 So there are seven different authority types. 00:12:12.745 --> 00:12:17.925 And I think, you know, the easiest way to kind of like bucket them is 00:12:17.985 --> 00:12:20.975 there are some people that are meant to make decisions in the moment. 00:12:21.385 --> 00:12:26.155 And there are other people that are in other people that are intended to. 00:12:26.795 --> 00:12:31.785 Kind of wait before they make these larger decisions, like you mentioned 00:12:32.125 --> 00:12:38.165 entering or exiting relationships or moving cities, changing jobs. 00:12:38.525 --> 00:12:43.245 I think that there can be kind of other filters when it comes to smaller day to 00:12:43.245 --> 00:12:48.015 day decisions where it's like, you know, you might not need to wait for clarity or. 00:12:48.450 --> 00:12:52.470 Our reflectors wait a lunar cycle to do, you know, to figure 00:12:52.470 --> 00:12:53.610 out what to eat for dinner. 00:12:54.090 --> 00:12:59.460 However, when you understand your authority, it can really help you 00:12:59.820 --> 00:13:03.380 support yourself as you enter into some of these bigger decisions. 00:13:03.390 --> 00:13:07.340 So, you know, you and I have very different authorities. 00:13:07.360 --> 00:13:11.240 So, you know, you're a splenic or tune into your intuition, 00:13:11.240 --> 00:13:12.820 which is an in the moment. 00:13:12.985 --> 00:13:17.695 Decision maker and mine is that emotional or wait for clarity. 00:13:17.715 --> 00:13:23.495 So for me, it's best when it comes to even like, and I think I've mentioned 00:13:23.495 --> 00:13:26.145 this before, like, especially when it comes to social commitments. 00:13:26.765 --> 00:13:30.335 I really have to like, take that beat and say like, Oh, that sounds super fun. 00:13:30.365 --> 00:13:34.755 Like, can I get back to you and make sure that I feel, you know, 00:13:35.075 --> 00:13:38.075 really clear that I'm not making that choice from an emotional high 00:13:38.075 --> 00:13:40.935 or low before I enter into that. 00:13:40.985 --> 00:13:41.515 And. 00:13:41.855 --> 00:13:47.855 I think regardless of what your authority is, having that knowledge 00:13:48.225 --> 00:13:52.505 for yourself and also for the people that are close to you really helps take 00:13:52.505 --> 00:13:58.155 out some of that frustration sometimes that can come with decision making. 00:13:58.515 --> 00:14:02.975 So like for you being, you know, meant to make those decisions in 00:14:02.975 --> 00:14:08.015 the moment, how has that changed the way that you make choices now? 00:14:10.750 --> 00:14:17.910 Kyle Wood: I think I had always done this, Luckily for big stuff, but I 00:14:17.920 --> 00:14:21.810 did waste a lot of energy probably on the smaller stuff, trying to 00:14:21.810 --> 00:14:23.510 work everything out in my head. 00:14:23.995 --> 00:14:27.555 And not sort of getting in touch with my inner authority and 00:14:27.555 --> 00:14:29.185 seeing what that said first. 00:14:30.765 --> 00:14:34.855 So that's probably, it's just taken, when I remember to use it, 00:14:34.945 --> 00:14:37.735 because you know, like this stuff is hard to remember sometimes, 00:14:38.405 --> 00:14:43.630 um, when I remember to use it, it's It's a relief because I can spend so much 00:14:43.650 --> 00:14:49.130 mental energy trying to come up with ideas and Of what I should be doing next 00:14:49.270 --> 00:14:50.960 or how to handle a certain situation. 00:14:51.170 --> 00:14:55.620 So Yeah, that's probably a big thing for me Like 00:14:55.640 --> 00:14:55.870 Brandi Healy: Yep. 00:14:55.890 --> 00:14:59.160 My partner also is an in the moment decision maker. 00:14:59.160 --> 00:15:00.880 He's a trust your gut. 00:15:01.090 --> 00:15:06.810 So for me, when I see him kind of dragging out a decision, like, I know I can support 00:15:06.810 --> 00:15:08.530 him by saying, like, do you want to do it? 00:15:08.530 --> 00:15:09.220 Yes or no? 00:15:09.810 --> 00:15:13.040 Or giving him like those choices of like this or that. 00:15:13.340 --> 00:15:14.150 And it's like. 00:15:14.310 --> 00:15:19.090 Then I know I can get, you know, a response from him rather quickly 00:15:19.090 --> 00:15:22.580 and kind of help clear things up because, you know, the reality is, 00:15:22.580 --> 00:15:26.400 is most of us are not meant to make decisions from logic and they're 00:15:26.430 --> 00:15:32.660 either body based, intuition based, or, you know, they're process based. 00:15:32.690 --> 00:15:36.050 So when you can really understand that, it's like. 00:15:36.445 --> 00:15:41.225 You allow that kind of mind chatter that happens when it comes to decision 00:15:41.225 --> 00:15:47.135 making, you know, not to get as lost in it when, when we're at our best. 00:15:47.135 --> 00:15:47.405 Right. 00:15:47.415 --> 00:15:48.395 It doesn't always work. 00:15:49.645 --> 00:15:49.715 Of 00:15:49.795 --> 00:15:51.845 Kyle Wood: Yeah, yeah, but I mean, it's hard, right? 00:15:51.845 --> 00:15:55.805 Because we've been conditioned that, especially around a big decision, you 00:15:55.805 --> 00:15:57.205 need to have thought about it a lot. 00:15:57.215 --> 00:16:01.885 And if you're, you know, we think of the kind of stereotypical person who 00:16:01.885 --> 00:16:05.735 makes decisions in the moment, large decisions at the moment, they can 00:16:05.735 --> 00:16:10.075 be seen as, you know, kind of like, 00:16:10.380 --> 00:16:10.800 Brandi Healy: Thoughtless 00:16:10.935 --> 00:16:14.255 Kyle Wood: or yeah, exactly because they haven't weighed everything up. 00:16:14.735 --> 00:16:16.975 But then as I say that out loud, I think of, like. 00:16:18.090 --> 00:16:25.740 The, you know, let's know some coaches who work with pretty high, like, executive 00:16:26.060 --> 00:16:31.930 leaders on and big companies and those people have to make decisions really 00:16:31.930 --> 00:16:35.950 quickly and a lot of them are very successful in their jobs, not because 00:16:35.950 --> 00:16:39.680 they spend a lot of time thinking about things, but because they're able to make 00:16:39.680 --> 00:16:44.860 good decisions really quickly, probably, you know, unconsciously using their 00:16:45.110 --> 00:16:47.340 Brandi Healy: really tapping into whatever their inner authority. 00:16:47.340 --> 00:16:48.540 Yeah, absolutely. 00:16:48.960 --> 00:16:51.320 I think on the flip side of that, you know, when you think about 00:16:51.320 --> 00:16:53.740 people that do need to wait to make 00:16:53.750 --> 00:16:53.890 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:16:54.170 --> 00:16:56.050 Brandi Healy: clear decisions for themselves, there can be a 00:16:56.050 --> 00:16:58.810 lot of conditioning around that, that people are pressuring you. 00:16:58.810 --> 00:17:01.845 And I know I've heard this from, like, reflector clients as well. 00:17:02.045 --> 00:17:06.195 Especially because, you know, they have that, you know, for really 00:17:06.195 --> 00:17:09.195 big decisions, if they can give themselves a month, that's ideal. 00:17:09.225 --> 00:17:13.775 And I know a lot of them that I've spoken to, like, just felt like a huge relief. 00:17:13.775 --> 00:17:15.885 They were like, I always thought something was wrong with me. 00:17:16.315 --> 00:17:17.985 Like, why couldn't I do this? 00:17:17.985 --> 00:17:19.305 And now I just. 00:17:21.025 --> 00:17:25.015 And I my process and again, like, although that full 20 days might not always be 00:17:25.015 --> 00:17:29.845 feasible, but I know that if I take my time to feel into this, to talk about 00:17:29.845 --> 00:17:34.235 it with people that I really trust in pieces that feel really good, that I can 00:17:34.235 --> 00:17:38.505 get to that place and feel comfortable entering into that without feeling rushed 00:17:38.930 --> 00:17:39.090 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:17:39.930 --> 00:17:40.310 Yeah. 00:17:42.110 --> 00:17:42.480 Yeah. 00:17:42.530 --> 00:17:44.690 That, that, yeah, that's especially on those. 00:17:45.070 --> 00:17:45.390 Yeah. 00:17:46.600 --> 00:17:46.860 Yes. 00:17:46.980 --> 00:17:50.980 Especially with today's day of like, you know, messages and stuff like 00:17:50.980 --> 00:17:52.170 that where people are expecting you. 00:17:53.270 --> 00:17:54.180 I like, I hate that. 00:17:54.190 --> 00:17:58.150 I have an instant authority and I hate people messaging me out of the blue, 00:17:58.180 --> 00:18:02.570 you know, asking me to commit to things because like sometimes, you know, I 00:18:02.570 --> 00:18:07.570 mean, there's probably is because it's like, I'm, I I'm dragging, but that is 00:18:07.570 --> 00:18:12.930 actually something I'm trying to work on now is normally I would put that off. 00:18:13.505 --> 00:18:15.255 And then it would be like, hanging over me. 00:18:15.385 --> 00:18:19.485 So now when someone does message me, I think it's like, well, no, I need to get 00:18:19.505 --> 00:18:24.645 back to, I am going to get back to them quickly just to remove that from my mind. 00:18:24.655 --> 00:18:25.945 So I'm not carrying that around. 00:18:26.505 --> 00:18:30.165 And so I don't know why I haven't been using my inner authority for 00:18:30.165 --> 00:18:34.865 those kinds of decisions, but I'm definitely going to definitely going to 00:18:35.105 --> 00:18:35.715 Brandi Healy: in the moment. 00:18:35.775 --> 00:18:37.325 Epiphany here, everyone. 00:18:37.345 --> 00:18:37.945 Kyle Wood: yeah, yeah. 00:18:37.945 --> 00:18:38.845 And it's funny. 00:18:38.865 --> 00:18:39.465 It is funny. 00:18:39.465 --> 00:18:42.305 Like, you know, I've been doing this for a while now and it's still. 00:18:42.850 --> 00:18:47.840 Aspects where just you're so ingrained in doing something 00:18:47.840 --> 00:18:50.190 the same way that you forget. 00:18:51.270 --> 00:18:54.570 Brandi Healy: You know, like you mentioned, this is a tool and just like 00:18:54.570 --> 00:18:56.310 with any tool, it's a practice, right? 00:18:56.320 --> 00:18:59.490 The more you practice these skills. 00:18:59.955 --> 00:19:01.885 The more comfortable you become with them. 00:19:01.915 --> 00:19:06.385 And I think over time, you start to realize that there are probably more 00:19:06.415 --> 00:19:08.775 places that you can use this tool than you 00:19:09.080 --> 00:19:10.280 Kyle Wood: yeah, yeah. 00:19:10.795 --> 00:19:11.345 Brandi Healy: right now. 00:19:11.345 --> 00:19:13.325 You just feel more comfortable using it. 00:19:13.325 --> 00:19:15.475 And, you know, I love that example of like. 00:19:16.190 --> 00:19:19.260 Not letting those decisions take up mental space when you know 00:19:19.270 --> 00:19:21.020 that they're not meant to, right? 00:19:21.030 --> 00:19:23.930 And so I'm sure having some of those smaller decisions hang over 00:19:23.930 --> 00:19:28.060 your head, probably you're pretty draining and being a projector, it's 00:19:28.060 --> 00:19:29.890 like you're built for efficiency. 00:19:29.890 --> 00:19:35.740 So it's not really efficient to let those hang out and drink, you know, 00:19:36.610 --> 00:19:38.380 Kyle Wood: True, true. 00:19:40.085 --> 00:19:44.145 All right, well, let's talk about that now, because the other thing, 00:19:44.515 --> 00:19:49.395 especially working for yourself, probably working with business owners, 00:19:49.395 --> 00:19:53.585 probably the biggest thing that comes up when it's like actually the meeting 00:19:53.655 --> 00:19:55.155 wanting to work on their business. 00:19:55.255 --> 00:19:55.795 It's not. 00:19:57.235 --> 00:19:59.175 Always that they lack the information. 00:19:59.195 --> 00:20:02.265 It's that they're struggling with like motivation and energy. 00:20:02.965 --> 00:20:08.875 So if that's me, what part of my chart is going to be the most helpful? 00:20:10.410 --> 00:20:11.150 Brandi Healy: you're tight. 00:20:11.445 --> 00:20:11.825 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:20:12.765 --> 00:20:13.275 Yeah. 00:20:16.190 --> 00:20:18.690 Brandi Healy: And, a bit already speaking about, you know, those generators and 00:20:18.690 --> 00:20:20.680 manifesting generators that have that. 00:20:21.235 --> 00:20:26.475 Really consistent energy that takes place throughout the day as long as 00:20:26.525 --> 00:20:32.535 they are investing their energy on things that they're lit up by and 00:20:32.535 --> 00:20:34.935 that they feel deeply satisfied by. 00:20:35.445 --> 00:20:39.415 So, you know, for those manifesting generators and generators, if 00:20:39.415 --> 00:20:44.045 you're feeling frustrated in your work, really looking at. 00:20:44.470 --> 00:20:50.090 You know, where in my day, you know, what are the activities or tasks that are on 00:20:50.090 --> 00:20:52.250 my plate that are making me feel that way? 00:20:52.690 --> 00:20:58.280 And are there ways for me to either kind of change the way I approach 00:20:58.280 --> 00:21:01.690 that so that they feel a little bit more satisfying or those things that I 00:21:01.710 --> 00:21:06.600 can, you know, delegate or maybe even just eliminate if that's the case. 00:21:07.045 --> 00:21:12.295 Kyle Wood: Yeah, yeah, if I have a chat to a generator on manifest and 00:21:12.295 --> 00:21:16.855 generator is talking about like working out at 10 o'clock at night or, you 00:21:16.855 --> 00:21:18.275 know, cleaning the house or something. 00:21:19.015 --> 00:21:22.695 Usually like, hmm, how are you using your energy during the day? 00:21:22.995 --> 00:21:25.475 Because that sounds like maybe you're not 00:21:25.480 --> 00:21:26.570 Brandi Healy: didn't get it out 00:21:26.775 --> 00:21:27.105 Kyle Wood: it up. 00:21:27.115 --> 00:21:27.455 Yeah. 00:21:27.465 --> 00:21:29.125 In ways that are like satisfying. 00:21:29.575 --> 00:21:30.195 And that's the thing. 00:21:30.195 --> 00:21:33.945 Like, if you're struggling with motivation and you're like, oh, I'm a 00:21:33.945 --> 00:21:36.005 generator, like, I've got lots of energy. 00:21:36.545 --> 00:21:40.135 It's yeah, it's probably just that thing of the type of things using 00:21:40.145 --> 00:21:42.625 your energy on and not in alignment. 00:21:43.880 --> 00:21:46.160 Brandi Healy: well, and I think that it can be helpful as well 00:21:46.160 --> 00:21:49.660 to think about things that maybe, like, you don't necessarily love. 00:21:49.660 --> 00:21:54.810 So, like, I had a client that was sharing about their partner 00:21:54.810 --> 00:21:58.730 was also a generator and they wanted to do an activity together. 00:21:58.740 --> 00:22:00.005 And the client was just like. 00:22:00.365 --> 00:22:02.705 I don't really love the idea of doing this activity. 00:22:02.705 --> 00:22:04.185 It doesn't really light me up. 00:22:04.185 --> 00:22:08.125 And I was like, can you reframe it and say, by doing this activity 00:22:08.125 --> 00:22:12.905 with my partner, I, that will make me feel deeply satisfied. 00:22:12.935 --> 00:22:15.065 And they were like, actually, yes. 00:22:15.105 --> 00:22:18.895 Like that would like that lighting my partner up and being of. 00:22:21.125 --> 00:22:25.095 Spending that time together and like seeing how satisfying that is to my 00:22:25.215 --> 00:22:27.535 partner, how much that lights them up. 00:22:27.585 --> 00:22:31.345 They were like, I think that like, I can step away from doing a thing that 00:22:31.345 --> 00:22:36.285 maybe I don't necessarily love, but with somebody that obviously deeply 00:22:36.285 --> 00:22:39.975 care for, like, yes, I could see how that could feel deeply satisfying. 00:22:39.975 --> 00:22:40.745 So it's like. 00:22:41.195 --> 00:22:45.085 Cleaning the toilet might not light you up, but when it's done, like, 00:22:45.625 --> 00:22:46.875 Kyle Wood: Yeah, I mean, a clean house. 00:22:46.915 --> 00:22:47.775 Absolutely. 00:22:48.045 --> 00:22:50.235 Brandi Healy: yeah, I'm feeling really satisfied, right? 00:22:50.235 --> 00:22:53.065 So, you know, some of these activities, are they going to light 00:22:53.085 --> 00:22:55.125 up your guy and feel super exciting? 00:22:55.655 --> 00:23:00.755 You know, no, not all of them, but like, can you reframe and think about, 00:23:00.785 --> 00:23:04.765 you know, like, can we fast forward the tape a bit and say, like, you know, can 00:23:04.765 --> 00:23:07.185 these things feel, feel satisfying and. 00:23:07.565 --> 00:23:11.845 If you, there are just a lot of things throughout your day that, that aren't 00:23:11.875 --> 00:23:15.515 exciting to you, as Kyle mentioned, like, where can you build those things 00:23:15.585 --> 00:23:21.015 in to use some of the, the, that energy and in ways that feel really good, 00:23:21.475 --> 00:23:21.485 Kyle Wood: Hmm. 00:23:21.495 --> 00:23:21.815 Yeah. 00:23:24.185 --> 00:23:28.615 Yeah, it's Sorry, I was just texting because the kids are running around. 00:23:28.615 --> 00:23:30.575 It probably sounds like an elephant's in the room with 00:23:30.575 --> 00:23:32.135 me right now, so I apologize. 00:23:32.325 --> 00:23:32.995 Brandi Healy: it's somebody yelling. 00:23:33.145 --> 00:23:34.395 Kyle Wood: Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha. 00:23:36.665 --> 00:23:37.275 And... 00:23:38.590 --> 00:23:43.720 This is the reality of working from home, as everyone now knows yeah, so, and then, 00:23:43.770 --> 00:23:52.640 you know, for us, there's projectors and I'll loop manifestors and, and reflectors. 00:23:52.780 --> 00:23:54.660 Sorry, Brian is just laughing now. 00:23:56.080 --> 00:23:57.390 I'm glad they're having a good time. 00:23:57.390 --> 00:23:57.440 Yeah. 00:23:59.820 --> 00:24:00.750 Brandi Healy: Yeah, for sure. 00:24:00.770 --> 00:24:02.170 They sound like they're having a blast. 00:24:02.720 --> 00:24:06.440 Kyle Wood: Yeah, so for projectors and. 00:24:07.000 --> 00:24:08.820 Yeah, we'll look manifestors and reflectors in there. 00:24:08.820 --> 00:24:10.270 You know, this can be really helpful as well. 00:24:10.300 --> 00:24:13.600 Cause it's the cliche thing of like, why can't I keep up? 00:24:13.900 --> 00:24:15.460 Why can't I seem to do. 00:24:16.015 --> 00:24:17.775 work as many hours as someone else. 00:24:18.375 --> 00:24:23.675 And one of the first PT studios I worked at, the owner was doing 00:24:23.675 --> 00:24:27.415 like 60 to 70 PT sessions a week. 00:24:28.785 --> 00:24:31.875 And like, I was just like. 00:24:32.655 --> 00:24:35.475 How, how are you going from like 5 o'clock in the morning to like 00:24:35.525 --> 00:24:39.705 9 o'clock at night with like, just a few hours break here and there? 00:24:39.705 --> 00:24:44.325 And I mean, it wasn't, there was quite obscene amounts of coffee being drunk too. 00:24:45.435 --> 00:24:47.005 But then, you know, he was a marathon runner too. 00:24:47.015 --> 00:24:53.195 So then, you know, on his day off, he'd be running, you know, what, in, I'm not 00:24:53.270 --> 00:24:54.170 Brandi Healy: 23 miles. 00:24:54.455 --> 00:24:54.965 Kyle Wood: kilometers. 00:24:55.555 --> 00:24:55.950 they do like 00:24:55.995 --> 00:24:56.445 Brandi Healy: miles. 00:24:57.440 --> 00:24:58.430 Kyle Wood: So that's a full marathon. 00:24:58.440 --> 00:24:59.120 23 miles. 00:24:59.470 --> 00:24:59.840 Yeah. 00:25:00.150 --> 00:25:00.330 Yeah. 00:25:00.330 --> 00:25:06.170 So the long run, they would probably do like 15, 15 miles for their training. 00:25:06.870 --> 00:25:07.550 And yeah, anyway, yeah. 00:25:07.550 --> 00:25:12.000 So it was just like how, when when I was trying to work out how to 00:25:12.620 --> 00:25:15.110 do like 20 hours contact or less. 00:25:16.615 --> 00:25:16.945 Brandi Healy: Yep. 00:25:17.165 --> 00:25:17.365 I'm 00:25:18.100 --> 00:25:19.780 Kyle Wood: Yeah, so this can be really helpful too. 00:25:19.780 --> 00:25:23.170 If you're like, one of these on energy types to see that, like, your 00:25:23.170 --> 00:25:27.990 gift is not in how many hours you work, but in, like, what you can 00:25:27.990 --> 00:25:32.790 achieve and your insight you can give in the times when you are working. 00:25:34.850 --> 00:25:40.320 So I have, I have 1 more question on the where to start with human design pop quiz. 00:25:41.120 --> 00:25:41.760 Are you ready? 00:25:42.575 --> 00:25:42.955 Brandi Healy: ready. 00:25:43.290 --> 00:25:43.470 Kyle Wood: This 00:25:43.470 --> 00:25:45.060 one's got, I'll give you a heads up. 00:25:45.060 --> 00:25:46.300 This one's got two answers. 00:25:47.220 --> 00:25:51.300 So where would I look at my chart if I feel like things 00:25:51.350 --> 00:25:52.410 aren't progressing for me? 00:25:52.430 --> 00:25:56.050 So maybe I've been in this business for a while. 00:25:56.060 --> 00:26:00.050 There's like new career and it's like just stuck not getting new 00:26:00.060 --> 00:26:02.130 clients, like just not working out. 00:26:03.130 --> 00:26:03.550 Brandi Healy: Okay. 00:26:03.580 --> 00:26:06.820 So I actually came up with three answers 00:26:06.855 --> 00:26:07.725 Kyle Wood: Oh, okay. 00:26:07.865 --> 00:26:08.315 Yeah. 00:26:08.980 --> 00:26:09.680 Brandi Healy: This is fun. 00:26:09.730 --> 00:26:10.040 Okay. 00:26:10.310 --> 00:26:13.500 So when you said stack immediately, I think about. 00:26:15.255 --> 00:26:16.195 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:26:17.995 --> 00:26:21.685 Brandi Healy: So, you know, that you could have, you know, there are 00:26:21.685 --> 00:26:23.325 4 different types of definition. 00:26:23.415 --> 00:26:29.755 And, you know, if you are independent, you know, often, like, you find a lot of 00:26:29.765 --> 00:26:33.135 wholeness in, you know, how you operate. 00:26:34.035 --> 00:26:39.735 On your own, that doesn't mean that you can never operate in group settings, but 00:26:39.735 --> 00:26:42.315 sometimes like if you find you're working in a group and you're feeling a bit 00:26:42.335 --> 00:26:46.705 stuck, stepping away and taking some time on your own can help you find clarity. 00:26:47.865 --> 00:26:52.915 Collaborative definitions like you and I, oftentimes if we get stuck and 00:26:52.915 --> 00:26:57.475 we're working alone, it can be really beneficial to work around others. 00:26:57.485 --> 00:27:01.085 And that doesn't mean to work necessarily to work with others. 00:27:01.255 --> 00:27:06.180 It can sometimes just mean like Going to like a coffee shop or, you know, 00:27:06.210 --> 00:27:10.900 a co work space where there are just other people's energy around that 00:27:10.900 --> 00:27:12.490 could kind of activate different 00:27:12.490 --> 00:27:13.080 parts of your 00:27:13.330 --> 00:27:14.310 Kyle Wood: yeah, that's a good one. 00:27:15.280 --> 00:27:18.400 Brandi Healy: And then there's you know, synthesizing and there's 5, sorry. 00:27:18.400 --> 00:27:18.430 And 00:27:19.620 --> 00:27:19.860 Kyle Wood: Yeah, 00:27:19.890 --> 00:27:23.650 Brandi Healy: we have our reflectors that have you know, that have none. 00:27:23.740 --> 00:27:31.030 So like knowing what that profile is or what your definition is, and then knowing. 00:27:31.650 --> 00:27:33.430 Okay, I'm feeling stuck right now. 00:27:33.460 --> 00:27:38.260 I have tools available to me to kind of get things going. 00:27:38.750 --> 00:27:42.090 And the fun one about, about the definition is like this 00:27:42.090 --> 00:27:43.510 works in partnerships as well. 00:27:43.620 --> 00:27:48.310 So even if you're a collaborative when you look at either your business 00:27:48.320 --> 00:27:52.800 partner or, you know, friendships or other partnerships in your life, you 00:27:53.195 --> 00:27:55.665 Can create a new definition together. 00:27:56.055 --> 00:28:00.325 So understanding like, oh, in our relationship, we might 00:28:00.345 --> 00:28:01.945 have a collaborative split. 00:28:01.945 --> 00:28:03.715 We're feeling some tension in our relationship. 00:28:03.755 --> 00:28:07.175 It might be useful to get yourself out around other people. 00:28:07.615 --> 00:28:12.125 And, you know, again, activate different parts of your collective chart there. 00:28:12.550 --> 00:28:12.570 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:28:13.440 --> 00:28:13.820 Yeah. 00:28:13.835 --> 00:28:14.475 Brandi Healy: that one right? 00:28:14.910 --> 00:28:15.340 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:28:15.720 --> 00:28:19.230 I actually didn't have definition down, but that makes that makes total sense. 00:28:19.260 --> 00:28:19.710 Yeah, yeah. 00:28:20.575 --> 00:28:21.285 That is a good one. 00:28:21.285 --> 00:28:25.585 And actually, yeah, I can, I can speak to that with having a wide split. 00:28:26.045 --> 00:28:31.065 But yeah, if I'm trying to work on my own too much, you know, it's hard to run 00:28:31.065 --> 00:28:35.275 your own business, but definitely things move better when I can find ways to 00:28:35.275 --> 00:28:41.225 collaborate or bring other people in or yeah, at worst to just work in the cafe. 00:28:42.105 --> 00:28:42.705 Brandi Healy: Mm hmm. 00:28:43.055 --> 00:28:46.075 Kyle Wood: So, let's not go too deep into them, but what 00:28:46.075 --> 00:28:47.285 were the other 2 things that. 00:28:47.845 --> 00:28:51.175 That came up that are worth looking at if things are stuck. 00:28:52.085 --> 00:28:53.615 Brandi Healy: I was thinking about profile. 00:28:53.825 --> 00:28:54.085 Kyle Wood: Yep. 00:28:55.425 --> 00:28:56.515 Brandi Healy: And channels. 00:28:57.125 --> 00:28:57.865 Kyle Wood: And channels. 00:28:58.095 --> 00:28:58.375 Okay. 00:28:59.095 --> 00:28:59.825 Brandi Healy: Yeah. 00:29:00.045 --> 00:29:01.135 You're like, that wasn't on your 00:29:01.398 --> 00:29:01.765 Kyle Wood: ha ha. 00:29:01.965 --> 00:29:02.795 That wasn't on my list either. 00:29:03.165 --> 00:29:07.445 So I was thinking about, which I don't think is wrong, and it's Yeah, 00:29:07.445 --> 00:29:08.665 it's just different areas to look at. 00:29:08.695 --> 00:29:10.715 So I was thinking about strategy and 00:29:10.885 --> 00:29:14.425 Brandi Healy: Oh, you're s Well, and I think the reason I went to channels is 00:29:14.425 --> 00:29:18.245 because you were talking about clients and I was like, oh, to market your gifts. 00:29:18.565 --> 00:29:18.885 So, 00:29:18.915 --> 00:29:20.145 Kyle Wood: Ah, yeah, yeah. 00:29:20.155 --> 00:29:22.845 Brandi Healy: I was like, Oh, obviously, we didn't even talk about that. 00:29:23.095 --> 00:29:23.235 Kyle Wood: Ha 00:29:23.735 --> 00:29:24.695 Brandi Healy: Kyle is correct. 00:29:24.705 --> 00:29:26.545 I would not start with your channels. 00:29:27.765 --> 00:29:28.385 Kyle Wood: Yeah, I didn't even 00:29:28.385 --> 00:29:29.315 have channels on here. 00:29:29.315 --> 00:29:29.875 I was like, 00:29:30.145 --> 00:29:31.645 Brandi Healy: yeah, no. 00:29:31.755 --> 00:29:32.285 Kyle Wood: yeah, 00:29:32.475 --> 00:29:32.645 so 00:29:32.785 --> 00:29:36.390 Brandi Healy: was like I went far off the edge because I just 00:29:36.390 --> 00:29:37.950 got excited about marketing. 00:29:38.130 --> 00:29:39.580 That'll be another episode. 00:29:39.630 --> 00:29:44.180 But yes, so for profile profiles, how you manifest your unique purpose, 00:29:44.210 --> 00:29:48.690 and there are 6 different numbers and knowing, you know, when you look at your 00:29:48.700 --> 00:29:52.930 chart, it'll look like a fraction and knowing what your profile is and what 00:29:52.930 --> 00:29:55.830 those numbers mean can be really useful. 00:29:56.185 --> 00:29:56.615 Kyle Wood: yeah, 00:29:56.920 --> 00:30:00.930 Brandi Healy: To, you know, help, help you understand how you work best. 00:30:00.930 --> 00:30:05.530 So like for myself, I'm a three, which is like, I am meant to learn by doing. 00:30:05.530 --> 00:30:10.730 So oftentimes when I do feel stuck, like I know I just have to start and it's okay. 00:30:10.730 --> 00:30:15.380 If it's not perfect the first time, like it'll get me closer to where I want to be. 00:30:15.430 --> 00:30:20.610 And then the second part of my profile is that five, which is like a problem solver. 00:30:20.630 --> 00:30:22.740 So knowing that. 00:30:23.210 --> 00:30:27.550 When I'm presented with problems, it's up to me to use my authority to 00:30:27.550 --> 00:30:34.680 know, like, what is it that I want to solve so that that's super useful. 00:30:34.710 --> 00:30:38.070 And oftentimes that 1 comes in a lot of times when I feel overwhelmed, 00:30:38.110 --> 00:30:41.520 because it's like, maybe there are too many problems to solve. 00:30:41.520 --> 00:30:45.750 And a lot of them, I don't have the energy or desire to actually solve them. 00:30:46.185 --> 00:30:46.425 Kyle Wood: yeah, 00:30:48.175 --> 00:30:48.545 yeah, 00:30:48.560 --> 00:30:49.900 Brandi Healy: just 1 example there. 00:30:49.925 --> 00:30:50.455 Kyle Wood: a good one. 00:30:51.625 --> 00:30:54.145 Brandi Healy: So, do you want to share about strategy? 00:30:54.480 --> 00:30:59.750 Kyle Wood: Yeah, so then strategy can be helpful because, you know, as a 00:30:59.750 --> 00:31:03.180 projector, I can look back very clearly and see all the times like I was 00:31:03.180 --> 00:31:07.500 like, right, I'm going to make this, I'm going to make some shit happen. 00:31:07.710 --> 00:31:11.910 I'm going to, I'm going to get my hustle boots on and I'm going to 00:31:12.260 --> 00:31:13.590 like, we're just going to do this. 00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:18.080 And then after like two days, I'm like in a ball on the ground crying 00:31:18.165 --> 00:31:18.905 Brandi Healy: You're like, fuck this. 00:31:19.360 --> 00:31:20.010 Kyle Wood: Yeah, yeah. 00:31:20.360 --> 00:31:21.160 And nothing's happened. 00:31:21.170 --> 00:31:24.050 Or, you know, even in the times I did manage to sustain it longer, 00:31:24.110 --> 00:31:29.430 it's just like, just, just like, and just didn't resonate. 00:31:29.510 --> 00:31:30.830 Like, didn't resonate with people. 00:31:32.370 --> 00:31:36.370 So understanding my thing of like waiting for the invitation made so much sense. 00:31:36.440 --> 00:31:39.150 And again, I was able to look back and be like, Oh, I can see those 00:31:39.150 --> 00:31:43.400 times when I was really invited in to situations or relationships 00:31:43.920 --> 00:31:49.240 and and I had the most impact and it felt like the easiest as well. 00:31:49.940 --> 00:31:54.300 So yeah, that's, that's an area I'd look at if you're like stuck as well. 00:31:54.340 --> 00:31:55.770 Like what, what is that? 00:31:55.770 --> 00:31:56.530 And try and. 00:31:57.400 --> 00:31:59.720 Do some work to understand. 00:32:00.720 --> 00:32:03.140 Don't just read it and be like, Oh, my thing is, you know, 00:32:03.140 --> 00:32:04.080 to wait for an invitation. 00:32:04.080 --> 00:32:06.070 Cause like with that, there are subtleties to it. 00:32:06.080 --> 00:32:09.880 So try and try and read up or find some resources. 00:32:10.110 --> 00:32:13.870 We'll put out some future episodes on different aspects as well. 00:32:14.620 --> 00:32:17.720 But yeah, that would be an area to definitely look at too. 00:32:20.530 --> 00:32:20.820 So 00:32:21.875 --> 00:32:23.045 Brandi Healy: Any more quiz questions? 00:32:23.620 --> 00:32:25.650 Kyle Wood: no, but I did think of one just from that. 00:32:26.100 --> 00:32:26.660 It's like. 00:32:27.490 --> 00:32:30.840 What should you not look at when you're just starting with human design? 00:32:30.840 --> 00:32:31.730 Like what should you just 00:32:32.195 --> 00:32:33.725 Brandi Healy: I think I already mentioned one. 00:32:33.725 --> 00:32:34.485 Channels. 00:32:34.600 --> 00:32:35.110 Kyle Wood: Yeah, yeah. 00:32:35.110 --> 00:32:40.490 Channels which, you know, also is linked to like gates, sometimes called gene keys. 00:32:40.520 --> 00:32:42.660 Again, they're like advanced. 00:32:42.700 --> 00:32:43.960 I would only look at them 00:32:44.495 --> 00:32:46.635 Brandi Healy: That's when you're starting to get into the weeds. 00:32:47.135 --> 00:32:48.085 Yes, exactly. 00:32:48.925 --> 00:32:50.715 And I think that that's like an excellent point. 00:32:50.715 --> 00:32:53.235 So, some of these other things that we already talked about. 00:32:53.335 --> 00:32:53.725 Type. 00:32:54.605 --> 00:32:56.945 strategy, authority. 00:32:57.975 --> 00:33:03.685 Typically, once you start experimenting with those and are finding a lot more 00:33:03.685 --> 00:33:09.055 flow and alignment, a lot more ease, the other parts of your chart just kind 00:33:09.055 --> 00:33:11.225 of naturally start to fall into place. 00:33:11.385 --> 00:33:17.715 And that's when, you know, you actually can start to Live in alignment with 00:33:17.715 --> 00:33:21.395 like your channels and your channels are your gifts and like really use 00:33:21.395 --> 00:33:25.285 your gifts I think another thing that I would probably stay away from is 00:33:25.315 --> 00:33:32.235 things like your environment and your cognition so it's like people Love to 00:33:32.235 --> 00:33:36.565 look at their charts and it's like my environments are sure as let's move to the 00:33:36.775 --> 00:33:39.685 Kyle Wood: their their eyes always like go to that bit maybe 00:33:39.685 --> 00:33:41.285 because it like stands out. 00:33:41.655 --> 00:33:42.335 Kitchens? 00:33:43.405 --> 00:33:43.735 What? 00:33:44.525 --> 00:33:45.105 Kitchens? 00:33:46.105 --> 00:33:46.225 Brandi Healy: Or like, caves? 00:33:46.225 --> 00:33:46.645 Do I need 00:33:47.225 --> 00:33:47.545 Kyle Wood: Yeah, 00:33:47.935 --> 00:33:48.575 Brandi Healy: a cave? 00:33:48.575 --> 00:33:52.575 Or like, you know, some of these other ones, it's like, cognition is like, smell. 00:33:52.585 --> 00:33:55.245 Or it's like, what does hot digestion mean? 00:33:55.315 --> 00:33:55.845 Like, 00:33:56.200 --> 00:33:56.360 Kyle Wood: Yeah, 00:33:56.895 --> 00:34:00.745 Brandi Healy: some of this stuff is like, it's very nuanced, and again, it's... 00:34:01.570 --> 00:34:08.130 Once you start to really embody some of these bigger parts of your design, it's a 00:34:08.130 --> 00:34:15.240 lot easier to start to tinker with some of these, like, you know, more nuanced bits. 00:34:15.260 --> 00:34:21.980 And because I don't know about you, I don't even, like, I certainly can see 00:34:21.980 --> 00:34:26.570 how, like, my environment comes into play now, but, like, that's not even 00:34:26.570 --> 00:34:30.770 something that, like, I was really thinking of, you know, three years ago. 00:34:31.310 --> 00:34:33.850 Kyle Wood: Yeah, no, I don't think it's worth looking at. 00:34:34.440 --> 00:34:38.920 Sometimes it's called your personal health system, PHS, I think as well, 00:34:39.310 --> 00:34:42.590 sometimes referred to or your variables or 00:34:43.085 --> 00:34:43.235 Brandi Healy: Mm 00:34:43.680 --> 00:34:48.860 Kyle Wood: But yeah, again, that's an advancing, don't get stuck there because 00:34:49.000 --> 00:34:53.280 even to use that properly, you need to be pretty comfortable with your strategy 00:34:53.280 --> 00:34:55.950 and your type and your authority too. 00:34:55.950 --> 00:34:59.510 So yeah, I would say don't look at that. 00:35:00.230 --> 00:35:02.030 Don't look at your incarnation cross. 00:35:02.120 --> 00:35:02.380 Like, 00:35:03.175 --> 00:35:03.585 Brandi Healy: Yeah. 00:35:04.085 --> 00:35:06.905 Kyle Wood: That that's like the final piece of the puzzle. 00:35:07.045 --> 00:35:11.095 And yeah, and then obviously you can look at your. 00:35:11.975 --> 00:35:12.435 We didn't really 00:35:12.445 --> 00:35:13.175 Brandi Healy: your planet. 00:35:13.405 --> 00:35:16.235 Kyle Wood: your signature and not self, but that'll come up when 00:35:16.235 --> 00:35:17.995 you look at your strategy anyway. 00:35:18.035 --> 00:35:19.015 So, yeah. 00:35:20.405 --> 00:35:23.415 Brandi Healy: Yeah, the planet's probably not as important. 00:35:23.645 --> 00:35:23.985 Kyle Wood: no, 00:35:24.125 --> 00:35:24.915 Brandi Healy: Out of the gate. 00:35:25.255 --> 00:35:26.495 Kyle Wood: those numbers down the side. 00:35:26.495 --> 00:35:31.675 Yeah, again, they're just like that fine tuning stuff just by like understanding. 00:35:32.290 --> 00:35:35.410 You know, some of the stuff we talked about today, like your authority 00:35:35.410 --> 00:35:37.660 and your strategy and your type. 00:35:38.130 --> 00:35:41.850 And then if you wanna look at centers when it comes to relationships or if you wanna 00:35:41.850 --> 00:35:47.220 look at your profile to sort of understand maybe how you work best those are good 00:35:47.220 --> 00:35:51.690 places to start and you're gonna get so much bang for your buck out of that. 00:35:52.050 --> 00:35:56.850 And then, like I said at the start, it's helpful to, to actually. 00:35:57.430 --> 00:36:00.290 You know, reflect to integrate this stuff, not just read about it. 00:36:00.290 --> 00:36:03.340 So that's where if you do have a problem in mind when you're approaching 00:36:03.340 --> 00:36:05.880 human design, it could be really helpful because it gives you kind 00:36:05.880 --> 00:36:09.010 of a practical place to get started. 00:36:09.880 --> 00:36:12.120 Yeah, and that's what I have to say about that. 00:36:12.935 --> 00:36:13.755 Brandi Healy: Yeah, I love that. 00:36:13.755 --> 00:36:17.065 I think a really good analogy, you know, for those of you that are in the 00:36:17.065 --> 00:36:21.695 fitness world, is like, You know, as a yoga teacher, I oftentimes will got 00:36:21.695 --> 00:36:24.435 like students that are like, I really want to learn how to do a handstand. 00:36:24.435 --> 00:36:25.455 I'm like, amazing. 00:36:25.465 --> 00:36:26.875 Let's work on that plank. 00:36:27.455 --> 00:36:29.015 Let's work on that plank. 00:36:29.295 --> 00:36:34.145 And so, you know, work on that plank and like, you know, we'll, we'll 00:36:34.145 --> 00:36:37.495 take our time and we'll get there to build, build the muscles to be 00:36:37.525 --> 00:36:39.145 able to get into that handstand. 00:36:40.035 --> 00:36:40.475 Kyle Wood: Yep. 00:36:40.995 --> 00:36:43.925 And we're happy to, to share more about these today. 00:36:43.925 --> 00:36:47.025 We kind of wanted to do this more like big picture thing because I 00:36:47.025 --> 00:36:51.755 think it is a useful step before you just start diving in and also, 00:36:52.635 --> 00:36:54.245 like, you're listening to this. 00:36:54.705 --> 00:36:56.455 Those of you listening to this, like, if you. 00:36:57.585 --> 00:37:01.215 Have an aspect either that we covered today or something else with your 00:37:01.215 --> 00:37:05.485 human design that you'd like us to talk about more or go dive deeper into, 00:37:05.485 --> 00:37:10.475 like, please reach out to us and we can absolutely do a future episode on that. 00:37:12.375 --> 00:37:13.135 Brandi Healy: So fun. 00:37:13.535 --> 00:37:13.865 Kyle Wood: Fun. 00:37:14.235 --> 00:37:14.605 Yeah. 00:37:15.335 --> 00:37:15.635 All right. 00:37:16.325 --> 00:37:17.205 I think that was good. 00:37:17.325 --> 00:37:17.995 That was awesome. 00:37:18.085 --> 00:37:18.855 Thank you, Brandy. 00:37:19.555 --> 00:37:20.105 Brandi Healy: My pleasure. 00:37:20.105 --> 00:37:20.655 Thank you. 00:37:21.085 --> 00:37:21.315 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:37:21.365 --> 00:37:25.105 Thanks everyone for listening and we will we will be in your earbuds. 00:37:26.000 --> 00:37:26.990 Or your ear holes. 00:37:27.990 --> 00:37:29.780 What's the other word for your ears? 00:37:31.280 --> 00:37:33.220 Your ear cavities. 00:37:33.300 --> 00:37:34.110 See, it just gets worse. 00:37:35.110 --> 00:37:35.380 Brandi Healy: I think 00:37:35.385 --> 00:37:37.665 Kyle Wood: You'll be able to, you'll be able to listen to us again. 00:37:39.785 --> 00:37:40.365 Farewell. 00:37:41.600 --> 00:37:42.070 Brandi Healy: Bye.