North Coast Church Life Groups Leader Guide

Week 9 Leader Notes: Gethsemane, the Cup, and “Your Will Be Done”

James Browning records on a work trip to Dallas, contrasting his travel frustrations with Christ’s suffering and urging “Your will be done.” He welcomes leaders to week nine and reviews Pastor Chris Brown’s sermon on Matthew 26:36–56 (Gethsemane and Jesus’ arrest), emphasizing the big idea: Jesus didn’t want the cup of judgment but drank it anyway, honestly telling the Father how he felt while surrendering to God’s will. He walks through the guide’s warm-ups, kinship question, and discussion flow (read the whole passage; note Jesus’ repeated prayer, cries, and tears; study Old Testament “cup” texts; connect Isaiah 51:22 with 2 Corinthians 5:21; and discuss why the cross was necessary per Romans 3:25–26). He addresses group dynamics (what people “reach for,” safety caveats), memorization of Matthew 26:39, two likely questions about sacrifice and the Father/Son, a Greek “friend” rabbit hole, encouragement to find someone to “keep watch,” and a request to confirm group rosters and email wins.

00:00 Travel Struggles
01:14 Joy Set Before Us
02:16 Week Nine Overview
02:50 Warm Up Questions
04:25 Read The Passage
05:10 The Cup And Judgment
06:35 Share And Surrender
07:50 Live It This Week
08:24 Memorize And Rabbit Hole
09:37 Tough Group Questions
10:30 Keeping Watch Together
12:14 Roster And Wrap Up

What is North Coast Church Life Groups Leader Guide?

Each week a discussion guide is published for the latest sermon at North Coast Church (northcoastchurch.com). The discussion guides are based on the study questions that are available for each sermon. We hope these guides help facilitate the discussion for your group.