WEBVTT NOTE This file was generated by Descript 00:00:02.080 --> 00:00:02.820 Kyle Wood: Hey everyone. 00:00:03.050 --> 00:00:06.020 Welcome back to Well Designed Today. 00:00:06.680 --> 00:00:07.740 Uh oh. 00:00:07.920 --> 00:00:10.100 I'm joined as usual by my co-host Brandy. 00:00:10.100 --> 00:00:10.420 Brandy. 00:00:10.420 --> 00:00:10.980 You can say hi, 00:00:12.340 --> 00:00:12.560 Brandi Healy: Hi. 00:00:12.730 --> 00:00:13.320 How's it going, 00:00:13.830 --> 00:00:14.460 Kyle Wood: There we go. 00:00:15.800 --> 00:00:17.840 Brandi Healy: I love that I always ask how it's going, even though 00:00:17.840 --> 00:00:20.800 we already know since we usually chat before we get started. 00:00:22.850 --> 00:00:25.340 Kyle Wood: Yeah, I mean, I think it's one of those like 00:00:25.340 --> 00:00:26.980 ingrained conversational things. 00:00:27.690 --> 00:00:30.830 Uh, I was actually thinking the other day, and I'm gonna get sidetracked 00:00:30.830 --> 00:00:34.110 before we even talk about the topic, but you can read it on your phone 00:00:34.110 --> 00:00:36.150 in the title, so you can just wait. 00:00:36.930 --> 00:00:38.590 Uh, that's not you, Brandy, I'm talking to you. 00:00:38.590 --> 00:00:39.310 That's the listener. 00:00:41.030 --> 00:00:45.230 I, as a, I feel like as a projector, I like that question of like, 00:00:45.370 --> 00:00:46.910 how you, how are you doing? 00:00:48.340 --> 00:00:49.440 or what have you been up to? 00:00:50.290 --> 00:00:52.260 Like, drives me crazy. 00:00:52.600 --> 00:00:55.220 And I don't know, I, I feel like it's a projector thing. 00:00:55.340 --> 00:00:58.460 I feel like if I was a generator, I would probably enjoy having 00:00:58.460 --> 00:00:59.660 something to respond to. 00:01:00.320 --> 00:01:04.840 But as a projector, I'm like, do you really want me to answer this question? 00:01:04.840 --> 00:01:09.360 Because like, we're gonna go deep and you are probably, I'm 00:01:09.450 --> 00:01:10.470 Brandi Healy: how much time do you have 00:01:10.560 --> 00:01:13.560 Kyle Wood: shit outta you and you're, you're going to be like, ah. 00:01:15.140 --> 00:01:15.680 And um, 00:01:15.865 --> 00:01:16.805 Brandi Healy: I'm sorry, I asked. 00:01:17.115 --> 00:01:21.045 Yeah, do not ask us an open-ended question unless you're like, ready. 00:01:21.175 --> 00:01:21.965 Ready for a 00:01:22.040 --> 00:01:25.330 Kyle Wood: Yeah, and maybe 'cause it, it's like it's an invitation, but it's 00:01:25.330 --> 00:01:29.370 not really, 'cause I don't really want to know everything that's going on for you. 00:01:29.510 --> 00:01:34.050 So then I really struggled to like, work out what to say because like lots 00:01:34.050 --> 00:01:41.090 of my issues week to week have to do with, um, like my kids, so what are 00:01:41.090 --> 00:01:43.289 my kid, you know, or, or my business. 00:01:43.550 --> 00:01:46.410 And those are like sort of the two things I spend. 00:01:47.330 --> 00:01:48.310 The most time on. 00:01:48.730 --> 00:01:55.230 Um, and what's happening in both those places is really interesting to me, but I 00:01:55.230 --> 00:01:56.990 know for other people it's probably not. 00:01:57.370 --> 00:01:57.789 So, yeah. 00:01:57.789 --> 00:01:59.030 So I can't work out with that. 00:01:59.090 --> 00:02:03.270 If I should continue being annoyed about this question or if it's something like 00:02:04.070 --> 00:02:06.550 I need to deal with because maybe like 00:02:06.854 --> 00:02:07.865 Brandi Healy: give a can dancer. 00:02:09.175 --> 00:02:10.144 Give a can Dancer 00:02:10.389 --> 00:02:11.030 Kyle Wood: a canned answer. 00:02:11.180 --> 00:02:11.710 Just good. 00:02:12.015 --> 00:02:13.745 Brandi Healy: they want, people wanna hear fine 00:02:14.040 --> 00:02:14.690 Kyle Wood: Yeah, fine. 00:02:15.550 --> 00:02:16.490 No, duh. 00:02:17.170 --> 00:02:17.930 I don't like that either. 00:02:21.370 --> 00:02:23.010 I feel more like inclined to be the other way. 00:02:23.010 --> 00:02:25.770 Like I'll just start giving people long, detailed answers 00:02:25.830 --> 00:02:29.330 and then they'll just stop asking because like if you're trying to 00:02:29.365 --> 00:02:30.645 Brandi Healy: I think that that's where I am. 00:02:31.950 --> 00:02:34.970 Kyle Wood: if you're checking in with me, like on my actually checking 00:02:34.990 --> 00:02:38.430 in my wellbeing and I start telling you about like Like, are you really 00:02:38.430 --> 00:02:42.269 open to me talking about if I'm really struggling with something or, 00:02:42.810 --> 00:02:44.950 you know, so yeah, drives me crazy. 00:02:44.950 --> 00:02:45.390 That answer. 00:02:45.890 --> 00:02:46.549 Oh, that question, 00:02:47.870 --> 00:02:50.960 Brandi Healy: Well, I feel like I'm at the, that place, not with you, with 00:02:50.960 --> 00:02:52.680 others where they don't ask me anymore. 00:02:52.920 --> 00:02:53.680 'cause they don't wanna know. 00:02:54.510 --> 00:02:58.240 , they've been, they've been projected to death and they're like, don't talk to her. 00:02:59.489 --> 00:03:06.709 Kyle Wood: I'm gonna practice this See people come All right. 00:03:06.980 --> 00:03:08.350 Onto today's topic. 00:03:08.850 --> 00:03:13.549 So today we've been trying to come up with some, we've been really enjoying 00:03:13.549 --> 00:03:17.870 doing our series in the centers, and from what we're hearing from you listening 00:03:17.890 --> 00:03:19.190 is you're really enjoying them too. 00:03:20.190 --> 00:03:24.380 So we're definitely gonna keep, Posting our deep dives on each center so you can 00:03:24.380 --> 00:03:25.460 keep following along with your chart. 00:03:25.800 --> 00:03:33.140 But we also wanted to come up with some sort of real life episodes where 00:03:33.890 --> 00:03:38.260 this is how human design will just show up in your day-to-day life and, and 00:03:38.260 --> 00:03:40.380 then sort of what you can do about it. 00:03:40.400 --> 00:03:41.940 So just like things to look out for. 00:03:42.480 --> 00:03:48.510 So today we're talking about The sort of self, like negative 00:03:48.510 --> 00:03:51.230 self-talk we might have by our type. 00:03:51.410 --> 00:03:54.670 And this is the thing that we tend to feel our inspiration for. 00:03:54.670 --> 00:03:57.790 This was like what makes us feel really guilty because it's different 00:03:57.790 --> 00:04:05.020 by type and we can think what makes us feel guilty, um, is usually we are 00:04:05.020 --> 00:04:09.540 comparing ourselves to one or more of the other types and how they operate. 00:04:09.840 --> 00:04:12.820 And we're feeling like, why can't we be more like that? 00:04:14.265 --> 00:04:18.404 And I think especially it's huge for generators and manifesting 00:04:18.404 --> 00:04:23.285 generators too, but especially for projectors, reflectors and manifestors. 00:04:23.345 --> 00:04:27.445 If you're one of those types because you're in that minority, it can 00:04:27.445 --> 00:04:31.085 feel like, especially like, oh, I'm really alone in, in feeling this way. 00:04:31.625 --> 00:04:35.845 But that being said, we definitely see with the generators and 00:04:36.005 --> 00:04:38.805 manifesting generators that they really can beat themselves up. 00:04:39.280 --> 00:04:42.250 Hold themselves back, uh, because they feel really guilty 00:04:42.680 --> 00:04:44.610 operating naturally as their type. 00:04:45.390 --> 00:04:49.450 Um, do you have anything you wanna add to that Brandy as part of the intro? 00:04:52.675 --> 00:04:56.155 Brandi Healy: I think just that it not only understanding, you know, 00:04:56.215 --> 00:05:01.159 as we talk through this, Where you personally might be feeling guilty, 00:05:01.349 --> 00:05:05.640 like we usually mention knowing the people close to you, whether they're 00:05:05.880 --> 00:05:08.000 partners, family members, colleagues. 00:05:08.159 --> 00:05:08.580 Kyle Wood: Mm-hmm. 00:05:08.979 --> 00:05:12.520 Brandi Healy: Um, understanding this for others as well can be really useful 00:05:12.520 --> 00:05:19.520 because oftentimes we might not even see it as guilt and we deny ourselves these 00:05:19.520 --> 00:05:23.440 things, but when we can recognize it in the people close to us, we can help 00:05:25.175 --> 00:05:29.345 Help and support them to navigate through some of this negative self-talk. 00:05:29.640 --> 00:05:29.930 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:05:30.550 --> 00:05:30.770 Yes. 00:05:30.770 --> 00:05:31.530 That's a big one. 00:05:31.950 --> 00:05:35.435 And I mean, I My wife's the same type as me. 00:05:35.465 --> 00:05:37.114 Your, your husband's different. 00:05:37.534 --> 00:05:41.755 But yeah, it's definitely helpful for me to observe that in her. 00:05:41.854 --> 00:05:46.875 And, um, she was actually the inspiration for this um, episode today. 00:05:47.215 --> 00:05:51.315 She was like, what is it about me that, um, I feel guilty about this? 00:05:51.615 --> 00:05:53.474 So maybe we'll start there. 00:05:53.615 --> 00:05:54.995 Should we start with projectors? 00:05:55.105 --> 00:05:56.545 Brandi Healy: right, let's. 00:05:57.895 --> 00:05:58.185 Kyle Wood: Okay. 00:05:58.205 --> 00:06:00.590 So, as projectors. 00:06:00.610 --> 00:06:06.590 We know we don't have a defined sacral center, so our energy ebbs and flows. 00:06:06.730 --> 00:06:10.740 And so it could be really tempting as a projector to try and keep 00:06:10.800 --> 00:06:12.820 up with everyone else around us. 00:06:12.920 --> 00:06:17.100 So the thing we tend to feel most guilty about is like being lazy. 00:06:17.240 --> 00:06:18.940 The big capital L word. 00:06:19.289 --> 00:06:26.700 It's like being lazy, not doing enough, and if there's recognition there. 00:06:26.760 --> 00:06:31.725 So if people are like, Seeing us and inviting us to help them do things. 00:06:32.215 --> 00:06:35.405 There can be a real desire to be like, oh, I'm gonna do all of the 00:06:35.405 --> 00:06:36.844 things and really try and keep up. 00:06:37.825 --> 00:06:42.605 Um, but that just doesn't, it just never ends Well, 00:06:44.315 --> 00:06:44.534 Brandi Healy: No. 00:06:46.895 --> 00:06:51.375 Speaking from the other side of that, it, it, it, it can be, it could be disastrous 00:06:51.445 --> 00:06:53.575 depending on how long it goes on for. 00:06:53.575 --> 00:06:53.855 Right? 00:06:53.995 --> 00:07:00.495 And it could be something as simple as us, you know, turning down an obli, like 00:07:00.495 --> 00:07:05.855 an invitation for a social commitment and trying to keep up socially it 00:07:05.855 --> 00:07:10.615 can show up, you know, in, you know, for those of us that are parents in 00:07:11.475 --> 00:07:16.295 you know, how we connect with like our children's school and like the types of 00:07:16.695 --> 00:07:21.815 birthday parties we throw, or, you know, in the workplace, you know, keeping up 00:07:21.815 --> 00:07:26.975 with colleagues or, you know, e even if for most people that listen to this, 00:07:27.195 --> 00:07:33.215 you know, if you're an entrepreneur, you know, people that work more traditional, 00:07:33.635 --> 00:07:39.495 you know, corporate jobs, you know, and as a verse to how you've set your. 00:07:40.715 --> 00:07:43.795 Business up to operate that suits you and your energy. 00:07:44.045 --> 00:07:49.875 There can be that comparison to, I can't do that, or I can't keep up with that. 00:07:49.895 --> 00:07:51.875 Or when you do, why am I so tired? 00:07:52.615 --> 00:07:53.595 Why am I lazy? 00:07:53.855 --> 00:07:56.675 Why don't I, why can't I keep up? 00:07:57.245 --> 00:07:57.535 Kyle Wood: yeah. 00:07:58.895 --> 00:08:03.915 The parenting one's huge, especially with like the expectation of how many bloody 00:08:03.915 --> 00:08:05.795 activities your kids have to do these days 00:08:06.385 --> 00:08:06.675 that 00:08:07.315 --> 00:08:07.535 Brandi Healy: Mm 00:08:07.665 --> 00:08:12.290 Kyle Wood: my wife and I often are like, W we are both projectors. 00:08:12.430 --> 00:08:16.730 One of our daughters is a projector, so we do try and like moderate 00:08:17.430 --> 00:08:18.810 how many things we commit to. 00:08:19.350 --> 00:08:22.970 Um, and yeah, sometimes, yeah, we feel lazy 'cause our friends' 00:08:22.970 --> 00:08:26.170 kids will be doing like 17 different activities each week. 00:08:27.990 --> 00:08:28.690 we are just like, 00:08:29.200 --> 00:08:29.490 Nope. 00:08:32.385 --> 00:08:32.805 Brandi Healy: Us too. 00:08:32.805 --> 00:08:35.924 Like both of our children have open sacral centers and. 00:08:37.070 --> 00:08:40.530 You know, that's something that we take into consideration as well. 00:08:40.640 --> 00:08:45.570 Even their social commitments, you know, they get invited to birthday parties and, 00:08:46.110 --> 00:08:48.210 you know, gatherings with other kids. 00:08:48.510 --> 00:08:53.010 And when we ask them and they say, you know, no, I don't wanna do that. 00:08:53.250 --> 00:08:57.170 I think as a child I can remember like a, not even being asked, 00:08:57.240 --> 00:09:01.650 it's like, you're going to do this and like not wanting to, and. 00:09:03.170 --> 00:09:05.590 Be just like not thinking I had a choice. 00:09:06.170 --> 00:09:11.150 And so like really teaching both of them at, from a young age, it's 00:09:11.150 --> 00:09:15.990 like to be able to honor what they have the energy for to show up to. 00:09:16.050 --> 00:09:18.510 And like the, you know, their closest friends, the people that they 00:09:18.510 --> 00:09:20.350 really enjoy, like they want to go. 00:09:21.130 --> 00:09:26.355 But you know, to the, the activities or the things like . You know, 00:09:26.625 --> 00:09:29.314 they're, they'll just be like, no, I don't really wanna do that. 00:09:29.575 --> 00:09:33.875 And there's like this conditioned part of me that wants to be like, are you sure? 00:09:34.255 --> 00:09:36.955 Or like, they invited you. 00:09:37.015 --> 00:09:37.835 That's not nice. 00:09:37.935 --> 00:09:44.475 And to just be like, no, like I respect . Your desire in this 00:09:44.475 --> 00:09:46.395 case, you know, when it's possible. 00:09:46.395 --> 00:09:51.115 That's not always the case, but you know, in when it is possible, it, it's a 00:09:51.115 --> 00:09:52.755 nice thing to start to teach some young. 00:09:53.190 --> 00:09:53.480 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:09:54.220 --> 00:09:54.440 Yep. 00:09:55.600 --> 00:09:55.890 Yeah. 00:09:55.910 --> 00:10:02.365 And one more thing I'll say on this is It doesn't mean if you're a projector, you 00:10:02.365 --> 00:10:05.685 can't at during periods of time do a lot. 00:10:06.155 --> 00:10:09.605 Like, I feel like I'm just coming to the end of one of those periods now, but I 00:10:09.605 --> 00:10:14.525 am noticing the energy was there for it, and now I'm noticing the energy's waning. 00:10:14.825 --> 00:10:18.765 So it's making sure I pay attention to that, that as that energy's 00:10:18.765 --> 00:10:22.165 going and I need to, there's a temptation to be like, no, I need 00:10:22.165 --> 00:10:24.045 to keep operating at the same level. 00:10:24.770 --> 00:10:27.510 But we're not here as projectors to do that. 00:10:27.800 --> 00:10:31.750 We're actually here to show other people how to rest, how to be 00:10:31.750 --> 00:10:34.510 more chill, how to take which the world really needs at the moment. 00:10:35.290 --> 00:10:36.790 Um, and how to be lazy. 00:10:36.819 --> 00:10:38.430 Like let's, let's embrace that. 00:10:38.430 --> 00:10:41.030 Instead of seeing lazy as a bad thing, it's like, yeah, I'm here to 00:10:41.030 --> 00:10:43.150 show you how to like chill the F out. 00:10:43.430 --> 00:10:43.949 a bit more 00:10:45.515 --> 00:10:48.405 Brandi Healy: Like, my joke is when I'm, like, when I'm in my wisdom, 00:10:48.555 --> 00:10:50.965 like no one relaxes harder than I do. 00:10:51.265 --> 00:10:56.605 And it's like I invite other projector, uh, all types, like embrace that. 00:10:56.605 --> 00:10:59.725 Like relax harder than anyone else. 00:10:59.865 --> 00:11:02.925 You know, when , when it, when it suits you. 00:11:02.925 --> 00:11:03.205 Right? 00:11:03.275 --> 00:11:06.125 When it calls to you based on your, on what you need. 00:11:07.865 --> 00:11:11.285 All right, so should we keep going with these non sacral beings? 00:11:11.485 --> 00:11:12.605 'cause I feel like usually we start 00:11:12.630 --> 00:11:12.870 Kyle Wood: next? 00:11:14.160 --> 00:11:15.390 Brandi Healy: Let's do Manifesters. 00:11:15.810 --> 00:11:20.390 So, you know, manifesters are known as like the Trailblazers. 00:11:20.610 --> 00:11:23.590 So they're about 9% of the population. 00:11:23.930 --> 00:11:28.830 And they're, you know, out there like, kind of like, they like to 00:11:28.830 --> 00:11:30.070 say, they're like the ship starters. 00:11:30.140 --> 00:11:32.710 Like they're like the first to do things. 00:11:33.220 --> 00:11:40.390 They like initiate and shock us into change and kind of they're meant to be. 00:11:41.655 --> 00:11:47.275 You know, here to start new things and to inspire people to kind of follow. 00:11:48.215 --> 00:11:52.275 And so, you know, one of the things that you know, could be that negative 00:11:52.275 --> 00:11:56.755 self-talk is like telling yourself like, no one else is doing this 00:11:57.735 --> 00:12:00.635 or it hasn't been done before. 00:12:01.055 --> 00:12:04.515 Or who do I think I am to be the first? 00:12:05.025 --> 00:12:05.314 Kyle Wood: yeah. 00:12:05.355 --> 00:12:06.275 I think that's such a big 00:12:06.295 --> 00:12:06.515 one. 00:12:07.780 --> 00:12:12.040 Brandi Healy: Or like thinking that other people are, are looking at you 00:12:12.040 --> 00:12:15.160 saying like, how dare they do that thing? 00:12:15.620 --> 00:12:22.240 Or, you know, think that they will be the one to change X, Y, or Z. 00:12:23.020 --> 00:12:28.319 So I think that this is something, you know, that can come up for manifesters. 00:12:28.319 --> 00:12:32.599 And again, like with conditioning, if that's been either internally, 00:12:33.060 --> 00:12:38.849 that's your self-talk or that's been said to you aloud when you've . Tried 00:12:38.849 --> 00:12:43.569 to initiate things or be the first, um, and that's been tamped down. 00:12:44.550 --> 00:12:49.370 It can be hard to really give yourself that permission and really 00:12:49.630 --> 00:12:54.010 own that role of saying like, this is what I'm, what I'm here to do. 00:12:55.665 --> 00:12:55.905 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:12:57.595 --> 00:12:57.885 Yeah. 00:12:58.145 --> 00:13:01.640 And manifests is so Triggering as well, aren't they? 00:13:01.670 --> 00:13:05.240 Like I've been triggered by some online entrepreneurs that I 00:13:05.240 --> 00:13:06.640 know are manifest this big time. 00:13:07.220 --> 00:13:11.720 So I can imagine as a manifester, I've triggered people on the 00:13:11.720 --> 00:13:13.360 path by walking my own path. 00:13:13.750 --> 00:13:16.760 Someone's probably said to me at least once in my life, who 00:13:16.820 --> 00:13:19.210 do you think you are to do 00:13:19.240 --> 00:13:19.660 Brandi Healy: Mm-hmm. 00:13:19.790 --> 00:13:20.690 Kyle Wood: or to think this way? 00:13:20.690 --> 00:13:23.890 When we've always done it this other way, it yeah, it would be hard. 00:13:23.910 --> 00:13:26.290 So yeah, so don't feel guilty for that. 00:13:26.890 --> 00:13:29.270 Not that I, you're a manifester, so I don't really need to tell you this, 00:13:29.330 --> 00:13:33.310 but don't feel guilty about that. 00:13:33.690 --> 00:13:34.310 Uh, yeah. 00:13:34.330 --> 00:13:37.550 You are, you are here to elicit that reaction because the two people 00:13:37.570 --> 00:13:39.830 in particular I'm thinking of who are manifesters, who triggered 00:13:39.830 --> 00:13:43.495 me in such a big way, I have like Huge amount of respect for now. 00:13:43.495 --> 00:13:46.255 So while they initially triggered me, it is that shock thing. 00:13:46.755 --> 00:13:49.815 And now because, because they walk their path, because 00:13:49.845 --> 00:13:51.135 they show us a different way. 00:13:51.765 --> 00:13:54.855 It's like, yeah, you really know what you're talking about and I'm 00:13:55.015 --> 00:13:58.655 actually paying a lot of attention now to what you are saying and doing. 00:13:59.715 --> 00:13:59.935 So, 00:14:00.445 --> 00:14:00.735 yeah. 00:14:02.640 --> 00:14:05.340 Brandi Healy: You know, like I grew up with, uh, my sister who 00:14:05.340 --> 00:14:07.180 I'm very close to is a manifester. 00:14:07.560 --> 00:14:12.340 My daughter is a manifester and my brother's both , his 00:14:12.400 --> 00:14:14.939 two children are Manifesters. 00:14:15.280 --> 00:14:20.579 So it's like, you know, we have one that is a newborn right now, but 00:14:20.640 --> 00:14:24.060 you know, the four year old, the 10 year old, and you know, my adult 00:14:24.060 --> 00:14:25.780 sister, like they all have these 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:30.670 These personalities where they really do like walk their own path 00:14:31.010 --> 00:14:34.070 and like, like you said, they could, it could be really triggering. 00:14:34.260 --> 00:14:40.430 It's also can be really inspiring and they're such fun 00:14:40.490 --> 00:14:42.230 to be around when you let them. 00:14:43.030 --> 00:14:43.729 Kyle Wood: Mm, mm-hmm. 00:14:44.979 --> 00:14:45.270 Yeah. 00:14:45.510 --> 00:14:48.350 Brandi Healy: like, you know, like all, like all superpowers that like we 00:14:48.350 --> 00:14:51.430 have with our type and in our design. 00:14:52.770 --> 00:14:57.900 It's like when we learn how to lean into or find, you know, that sweet spot 00:14:57.900 --> 00:15:02.860 where we're in the wisdom of, you know, our type or you know, whatever part of 00:15:02.860 --> 00:15:07.939 our design that it is, um, you know, we have the capacity to touch others 00:15:08.000 --> 00:15:11.260 so deeply with like our unique flavor. 00:15:11.430 --> 00:15:11.780 Right? 00:15:13.130 --> 00:15:15.740 it's like, you know, you said it really nicely. 00:15:16.010 --> 00:15:19.700 Like you could either be highly triggered by them and repelled. 00:15:21.145 --> 00:15:23.685 Or you could just be changed and shifted and like, 00:15:23.875 --> 00:15:24.165 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:15:24.985 --> 00:15:27.245 Brandi Healy: you know, it's such an amazing way. 00:15:28.165 --> 00:15:28.454 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:15:32.015 --> 00:15:32.355 All right. 00:15:32.814 --> 00:15:33.035 on. 00:15:33.125 --> 00:15:34.714 Continuing on the non sacral. 00:15:35.535 --> 00:15:37.435 So should we chat about reflective. 00:15:39.095 --> 00:15:39.315 Brandi Healy: Yes. 00:15:39.695 --> 00:15:43.835 So our, our, our reflectors the most rare type. 00:15:44.735 --> 00:15:49.675 So, you know, we've said this many times, they're about 1% of the population. 00:15:50.575 --> 00:15:55.635 And so Kyle, what is an area that reflectors might, you know, feel 00:15:55.695 --> 00:15:59.995 guilty for or fe or have negative self-talk or shade themself for? 00:16:00.980 --> 00:16:04.680 Kyle Wood: Oh, I will explain why, but, uh, being a little 00:16:04.990 --> 00:16:08.400 high maintenance and feeling 00:16:08.785 --> 00:16:10.765 Brandi Healy: Or as I like to call it, precious, 00:16:11.185 --> 00:16:14.005 if they, they're , very precious 00:16:14.305 --> 00:16:19.125 and particular, you know, or some words that either they might say about 00:16:19.324 --> 00:16:21.645 themself or may hear from others. 00:16:22.425 --> 00:16:26.964 And what would make them so high maintenance or particular. 00:16:27.575 --> 00:16:27.865 Kyle Wood: yeah. 00:16:27.865 --> 00:16:31.465 So let's, let's reframe that because that can be like, both those 00:16:31.465 --> 00:16:33.585 things can come across so negative. 00:16:33.725 --> 00:16:36.865 So another way to look at it is as reflectors. 00:16:37.814 --> 00:16:38.485 Completely. 00:16:38.625 --> 00:16:41.095 We've been talking a lot about centers, completely open centers, 00:16:41.834 --> 00:16:45.935 so they're taking in everything from the world and amplifying it, and 00:16:45.935 --> 00:16:47.574 that's where the ref name comes from. 00:16:47.574 --> 00:16:48.095 Reflector. 00:16:48.095 --> 00:16:52.574 They're reflecting it back so as such, space, the people 00:16:52.574 --> 00:16:53.775 there around are so important. 00:16:53.775 --> 00:16:58.454 If they're in like a really a space that really doesn't feel good to them, 00:16:58.515 --> 00:17:01.454 that's really gonna impact them and impact the way that they're showing up. 00:17:01.954 --> 00:17:05.095 If they're around people who really don't make them feel good. 00:17:06.075 --> 00:17:07.335 that's also gonna impact them. 00:17:07.875 --> 00:17:11.534 So I think it's probably instinctual to them to wanna 00:17:11.534 --> 00:17:13.295 honor that and not be in spaces. 00:17:13.935 --> 00:17:18.175 I don't want to eat at this restaurant because I don't like it And then 00:17:18.305 --> 00:17:19.315 Brandi Healy: Yeah, and that's enough. 00:17:19.435 --> 00:17:20.095 Kyle Wood: and that's enough. 00:17:20.435 --> 00:17:23.534 Uh, and, and people seeing that as being like precious or high means. 00:17:24.024 --> 00:17:31.085 But for them to show up in their most like powerful, natural way, uh, it's just, it's 00:17:31.085 --> 00:17:32.485 a really important thing for 'em to honor. 00:17:33.065 --> 00:17:38.225 So just seeing that it's like you have, you may feel like you're taking things 00:17:38.254 --> 00:17:44.665 away from other people by wanting to be around different people or, uh, be 00:17:44.665 --> 00:17:50.504 in different spaces, be in different areas than what the group or the other 00:17:50.504 --> 00:17:51.825 person you're with wants to be in. 00:17:51.925 --> 00:17:53.345 But you're actually gonna show up. 00:17:54.105 --> 00:18:00.085 The strongest, and you're gonna be the most, um, blanking on the word here. 00:18:01.925 --> 00:18:08.205 The, you're gonna have the most to give when you honor that. 00:18:09.290 --> 00:18:09.710 Brandi Healy: Mm-hmm. 00:18:10.290 --> 00:18:11.030 . Yes, exactly. 00:18:11.290 --> 00:18:14.990 So, you know, you're like the megaphone, right? 00:18:15.290 --> 00:18:19.860 Of like, The energy , you're, you're the amplifier. 00:18:19.860 --> 00:18:22.820 You're blowing up whatever is happening. 00:18:23.160 --> 00:18:28.660 And if that doesn't feel good to you, it's like that's what you will be amplifying. 00:18:28.920 --> 00:18:33.220 And so, you know, with the reflectors that I have worked with, like this is 00:18:33.240 --> 00:18:39.340 one of the pieces that I think really kind of gave them an aha moment of 00:18:41.915 --> 00:18:46.335 You know, their sensitivity not being something negative, but 00:18:46.435 --> 00:18:49.815 really being something that they could use to their advantage. 00:18:50.115 --> 00:18:55.335 To show up in a way that serves not only themselves, but the people that they're 00:18:55.794 --> 00:19:00.495 on in their around in a better way. 00:19:00.655 --> 00:19:00.875 Kyle Wood: Mm. 00:19:03.225 --> 00:19:03.515 Yeah. 00:19:04.959 --> 00:19:06.179 so hang in there reflectors. 00:19:06.310 --> 00:19:06.820 Don't be, 00:19:07.470 --> 00:19:07.939 don't Be 00:19:07.939 --> 00:19:10.780 worried about coming across pressures or high maintenance like 00:19:12.185 --> 00:19:16.340 Brandi Healy: You know, and I think some tips for that is like, Do your research, 00:19:16.520 --> 00:19:21.340 you know, so it's like, it, it know the, the restaurants you like to go to 00:19:21.840 --> 00:19:27.300 or, you know, look at pictures of, you know, places that you're going to go. 00:19:27.680 --> 00:19:30.700 Or before you meet someone in person, maybe talk to them on the 00:19:30.700 --> 00:19:33.020 phone or do a Zoom chat with them. 00:19:33.450 --> 00:19:38.340 Like, you know, as much as you can try to energetically feel things out, um, 00:19:38.640 --> 00:19:43.725 in that anticipation of no, because, you know, . Um, what it is that you 00:19:43.725 --> 00:19:48.004 need and that can, you know, maybe save you a little bit of time if you 00:19:48.004 --> 00:19:52.485 are the one to say to maybe recommend where you wanna go eat or, you know, 00:19:52.785 --> 00:19:55.125 the hotel you wanna stay in on vacation. 00:19:55.385 --> 00:19:55.675 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:19:57.495 --> 00:19:57.785 Yeah. 00:19:58.485 --> 00:20:02.465 And, and like your people will understand, like they won't view you 00:20:02.465 --> 00:20:02.785 that way. 00:20:02.845 --> 00:20:03.004 Brandi Healy: Yes. 00:20:04.495 --> 00:20:08.985 Kyle Wood: it's a maybe a sign that it's time to find some more supportive friends 00:20:09.085 --> 00:20:10.345 if everyone's making you feel that way. 00:20:10.965 --> 00:20:13.965 Um, should we talk about the generators? 00:20:14.225 --> 00:20:15.085 The generator types? 00:20:15.750 --> 00:20:15.969 Brandi Healy: Yes. 00:20:17.005 --> 00:20:17.295 Kyle Wood: Okay. 00:20:17.340 --> 00:20:17.689 Brandi Healy: Let's, 00:20:18.195 --> 00:20:18.495 Kyle Wood: All right. 00:20:18.495 --> 00:20:21.815 Let's just talk about straight up generators to start with. 00:20:23.300 --> 00:20:28.040 So the thing you might, as a generator feel guilty about 00:20:28.379 --> 00:20:30.909 is being seen as selfish. 00:20:33.360 --> 00:20:34.230 Let's explain why. 00:20:35.780 --> 00:20:36.070 Brandi Healy: yeah. 00:20:36.409 --> 00:20:44.385 So what . I have found is generators oftentimes feel selfish about saying no. 00:20:45.190 --> 00:20:45.310 Kyle Wood: Hmm. 00:20:45.845 --> 00:20:48.504 Brandi Healy: Saying no, and setting boundaries. 00:20:49.045 --> 00:20:55.305 And you know, with both generators and manifesting generators, they have this 00:20:55.305 --> 00:21:01.145 really consistent energy throughout the day, and they have a capacity to do a 00:21:01.145 --> 00:21:03.185 lot and to go for long periods of time. 00:21:03.805 --> 00:21:04.545 The catch is. 00:21:05.899 --> 00:21:10.629 when they are doing things that are deeply satisfying to them and when 00:21:10.629 --> 00:21:15.070 they are doing things that they feel led up by, oftentimes this can be 00:21:15.780 --> 00:21:19.830 perceived by others because they recognize how much energy these 00:21:19.830 --> 00:21:22.710 people have of asking them for things, 00:21:22.735 --> 00:21:23.155 Kyle Wood: Mm-hmm. 00:21:23.850 --> 00:21:28.590 Brandi Healy: and generators can feel obligated and look at their schedule 00:21:28.770 --> 00:21:30.830 and say, I have the time for that. 00:21:31.590 --> 00:21:33.230 I have the energy for that. 00:21:34.495 --> 00:21:35.895 , I want to please this person. 00:21:37.375 --> 00:21:38.415 I should just say yes. 00:21:39.435 --> 00:21:47.094 And when they fill their time up with things that aren't, not lighting 00:21:47.094 --> 00:21:52.375 them up, that feel frustrating versus satisfying, that can lead them to 00:21:52.485 --> 00:21:56.415 feeling really burnt out and depleted. 00:21:57.475 --> 00:21:59.495 And when they say no, 00:22:00.260 --> 00:22:00.680 Kyle Wood: Mm-hmm. 00:22:01.010 --> 00:22:03.110 Brandi Healy: to focus on things that light them up. 00:22:03.530 --> 00:22:09.830 That's where they can, you know, have those moments of feeling selfish or 00:22:10.540 --> 00:22:16.790 guilted into, you know, saying yes to things when, when they really mean no. 00:22:19.100 --> 00:22:19.390 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:22:19.530 --> 00:22:24.510 And the, the difference here is like night and day, like the generators who have 00:22:24.510 --> 00:22:31.840 learned to say no and prioritize their own joy and excitement are just like You 00:22:31.840 --> 00:22:35.280 know, people will be like, you have the, the thing they'll start getting then is 00:22:35.280 --> 00:22:38.000 you've got too much energy, 'cause they're 00:22:38.000 --> 00:22:41.160 just so like on about the things that they like to do. 00:22:41.870 --> 00:22:48.080 Whereas the generators who are have not learned the skill are just like buried 00:22:48.410 --> 00:22:54.360 under like a weight of obligations of things that other people want them to do. 00:22:55.140 --> 00:22:59.645 And, um, Yeah, so you can feel, so I think as a generator, if you are just 00:22:59.885 --> 00:23:07.145 starting out with this, just start by prioritizing something that lights 00:23:07.165 --> 00:23:10.545 you up and gets you excited over that. 00:23:10.545 --> 00:23:14.265 And then as you start prioritizing that, it'll start becoming 00:23:14.265 --> 00:23:16.305 easier to say no to things. 00:23:16.325 --> 00:23:20.505 But it's definitely gonna feel uncomfortable, um, doing 00:23:20.505 --> 00:23:24.065 this at the start, but know that you'll have more energy. 00:23:24.720 --> 00:23:28.740 And you'll actually be more, like you said, you'll be, have more of 00:23:28.740 --> 00:23:32.380 an impact on those around you, a positive impact by prioritizing 00:23:32.960 --> 00:23:35.420 the things you enjoy, uh, first. 00:23:36.520 --> 00:23:39.420 Um, then you will if you're just constantly prioritizing 00:23:39.700 --> 00:23:40.660 everyone else's needs first. 00:23:42.864 --> 00:23:46.975 Brandi Healy: We've been working with a client on exactly this around, 00:23:48.774 --> 00:23:55.695 know, making sure that they are giving themselves kind of like breaks 00:23:55.995 --> 00:24:00.135 to reconnect with themselves when, because not all of your obligations 00:24:00.135 --> 00:24:01.294 are gonna light you up, right? 00:24:01.405 --> 00:24:05.135 Some of the things you can't say no to, but there's still a guilt. 00:24:05.975 --> 00:24:11.715 Of doing things for themself, of doing things that just do to for the 00:24:11.715 --> 00:24:15.995 sake of that they enjoy them because it's like, oh, but I could be doing 00:24:15.995 --> 00:24:18.275 something else for someone else. 00:24:19.695 --> 00:24:24.755 And like this is a reminder that when you prioritize your satisfaction 00:24:25.135 --> 00:24:30.095 and joy, , it makes you more magnetic to more things like that 00:24:30.645 --> 00:24:34.935 when you are prioritizing just like being frustrated and maybe 00:24:35.185 --> 00:24:38.014 angry or feeling super depleted. 00:24:38.645 --> 00:24:40.774 Just more things like that are gonna come your way. 00:24:41.330 --> 00:24:41.620 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:24:42.320 --> 00:24:42.540 Yep. 00:24:42.835 --> 00:24:46.215 Brandi Healy: you know, it is important to, like, if you're looking at your 00:24:46.375 --> 00:24:50.455 schedule, whether it's for the day of the week, the month being like, okay, cool. 00:24:50.455 --> 00:24:52.615 There are things on here that can't go anywhere. 00:24:53.965 --> 00:24:56.845 , I don't love them, but where can I put things in? 00:24:56.845 --> 00:25:03.365 Whether it's, you know, a walk with my dog in the morning or time at the 00:25:03.365 --> 00:25:09.885 end of the day to like go for a bike ride or read a book that I enjoy. 00:25:10.015 --> 00:25:12.005 Watch a television show that's fun. 00:25:12.275 --> 00:25:14.445 Work on a hobby that I like. 00:25:15.425 --> 00:25:21.725 It doesn't matter what it is, big or small, it's just . Lighting that gut 00:25:21.785 --> 00:25:27.645 up and you know, you know, kind of reconnecting with yourself and, and your 00:25:27.705 --> 00:25:30.525 own, your own joy versus everyone else's. 00:25:30.979 --> 00:25:31.270 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:25:32.280 --> 00:25:32.570 Yeah. 00:25:34.139 --> 00:25:40.909 And as we transition to manifesting generators, we will say, like, this 00:25:40.909 --> 00:25:44.149 will show up for manifesting generators too, because remember you've got that 00:25:44.195 --> 00:25:44.615 Brandi Healy: Mm-hmm. 00:25:44.709 --> 00:25:45.310 Kyle Wood: part in you. 00:25:45.729 --> 00:25:48.630 Um, But we have thought of something that's even more 00:25:48.870 --> 00:25:50.270 specific to manifesting generators. 00:25:50.360 --> 00:25:52.310 Which do you want to intro this one? 00:25:52.370 --> 00:25:52.790 Brandy? 00:25:54.010 --> 00:26:01.270 Brandi Healy: Yes, so manifesting generators, you might, you know, feel bad 00:26:01.570 --> 00:26:07.910 or your self-talk, your negative self-talk might go to a place of like, I am flaky. 00:26:08.870 --> 00:26:11.310 I can't stick to one thing. 00:26:13.385 --> 00:26:21.125 And you know, like I, um, you know, I hop around to different hobbies or different 00:26:21.524 --> 00:26:27.725 interests, different jobs, um, between different friend groups even, you know, 00:26:27.905 --> 00:26:36.485 and those people can feel guilty for not taking the air quotes traditional 00:26:36.595 --> 00:26:44.200 path of like, Choosing a vocation or choosing a, you know, straight line 00:26:44.500 --> 00:26:51.159 and theirs might look a little bit more like a maze than A from A to B. 00:26:51.899 --> 00:26:56.905 Um, And so this is a very, very common one that comes up for, 00:26:57.405 --> 00:26:59.025 for manifesting generators. 00:26:59.485 --> 00:27:04.105 And, you know, so Kyle, what are, you know, what are the, some of 00:27:04.105 --> 00:27:07.265 the things to remind manifesting generators when they have these 00:27:07.265 --> 00:27:10.625 feelings of feeling flaky or obligated 00:27:11.525 --> 00:27:15.185 to stay in one thing because they don't wanna feel flaky. 00:27:15.909 --> 00:27:22.649 Kyle Wood: Yeah, I mean that, you know, in a way that is your, that's like a 00:27:22.649 --> 00:27:26.889 little, little signal that's a little bit of information when that interest 00:27:26.909 --> 00:27:32.649 is starting to wane, um, that it is time for you to move on to the next thing. 00:27:34.409 --> 00:27:43.550 So I think the thinking about how it can look is a good, an example, I was 00:27:43.550 --> 00:27:46.710 just thinking of a friend who's got, who's a manifesting generator and 00:27:46.710 --> 00:27:52.390 like he, he's a mechanic and then he went into like the service desk and 00:27:52.390 --> 00:27:56.870 then he went to another car dealership that sells a different type of car 00:27:57.370 --> 00:27:59.470 and worked at their service desk desk. 00:27:59.940 --> 00:28:04.710 Then like this was all like with like a year or two at each, and then he went back 00:28:05.610 --> 00:28:12.050 to, uh, another Yeah, it was a different dealership working on the cars again. 00:28:12.270 --> 00:28:15.929 And there he works for like the head office for this car 00:28:15.929 --> 00:28:18.050 manufacturer here in Australia. 00:28:18.709 --> 00:28:21.090 Um, doing, doing other stuff again and again. 00:28:21.110 --> 00:28:24.490 He, he made that move 'cause he's like, he knew I'm gonna want to change again. 00:28:24.550 --> 00:28:27.320 So I want to move into an environment that gives me like The 00:28:27.320 --> 00:28:29.520 most options of where I can go. 00:28:31.500 --> 00:28:32.600 And he, he, yeah. 00:28:32.660 --> 00:28:35.520 So, and he doesn't, I mean, he, I've talked to him about this, but 00:28:35.520 --> 00:28:36.600 he is not super into human design. 00:28:36.600 --> 00:28:41.680 This is just a manifesting generator just operating out in the world like a, a wild, 00:28:42.035 --> 00:28:42.655 Brandi Healy: In the wild 00:28:44.110 --> 00:28:46.879 Kyle Wood: peacock, doing their thing. 00:28:48.620 --> 00:28:55.490 So yeah, like the generators though, if you stick to this thing past The point of 00:28:55.490 --> 00:28:59.490 your interest and it's, yeah, it's gonna just start draining your energy instead 00:28:59.490 --> 00:29:04.970 of like using your energy in a nice way and then replenishing your energy. 00:29:05.710 --> 00:29:10.689 And again, for those around you, they're actually best served by you. 00:29:11.200 --> 00:29:15.250 Sopping and changing and just informing people, being like, 00:29:15.250 --> 00:29:16.290 Hey, I'm doing this now. 00:29:16.290 --> 00:29:17.210 Hey, I'm doing that now. 00:29:17.510 --> 00:29:21.649 And because of your energy, because manifesting generators are so magnetic. 00:29:23.360 --> 00:29:26.240 People won't care like as much as you think. 00:29:26.449 --> 00:29:30.159 Maybe if they do, it's like it's some hangup they've got, maybe they're 00:29:30.159 --> 00:29:32.000 jealous that, that you get to do this. 00:29:32.419 --> 00:29:36.520 But in general, as long as you, you take the time to just like tell the people 00:29:36.520 --> 00:29:38.199 around you, Hey, I'm gonna go do this now. 00:29:38.965 --> 00:29:42.095 Most people will be like, excited for you because they 00:29:42.095 --> 00:29:44.175 can see your excitement in the thing. 00:29:44.355 --> 00:29:47.095 So as long as you're keeping, prioritizing that satisfaction and 00:29:47.675 --> 00:29:53.175 joy, excitement about the things that you're doing, um, then go for it. 00:29:53.175 --> 00:29:56.895 And also feel free to like, be multi-passionate, have lots of different. 00:29:57.455 --> 00:30:00.675 Things that you're doing at once, don't feel like stay away from that 00:30:00.675 --> 00:30:04.795 advice that you have to like niche down and stick to one thing and do it 00:30:04.935 --> 00:30:05.395 Brandi Healy: Oh my gosh. 00:30:05.395 --> 00:30:05.915 That's like. 00:30:06.035 --> 00:30:06.835 Kyle Wood: become an expert. 00:30:06.985 --> 00:30:07.755 Like no 00:30:09.304 --> 00:30:11.885 Brandi Healy: That's like a manifesting generator's, like worst nightmare 00:30:11.885 --> 00:30:13.685 is the word, like the word niche. 00:30:13.855 --> 00:30:14.564 Niche down. 00:30:14.564 --> 00:30:17.004 They're like, but I wanna do, I wanna do, 00:30:18.305 --> 00:30:18.595 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:30:18.804 --> 00:30:21.205 Brandi Healy: like, do 16 things, get after it. 00:30:22.025 --> 00:30:22.315 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:30:22.435 --> 00:30:23.795 I would follow people. 00:30:23.945 --> 00:30:24.235 Yeah. 00:30:24.235 --> 00:30:30.460 Other multi-passionate people and Online and people who talk about like, 00:30:30.460 --> 00:30:32.620 pivoting and recreating your business. 00:30:32.680 --> 00:30:35.580 And like if you're, if you're into the business space like 00:30:35.770 --> 00:30:37.180 that, that's who I would follow. 00:30:37.360 --> 00:30:43.600 And even in places where I work, uh, working for people who've also 00:30:43.600 --> 00:30:46.840 done lots of different things and had like a big background can, could 00:30:46.840 --> 00:30:49.920 feel really good because that'll just help give you permission to 00:30:49.920 --> 00:30:53.240 be like, this is just a normal way to operate and I'm not being flaky. 00:30:54.044 --> 00:30:58.504 Um, I'm not being wishy-washy by changing all the time, but actually I'm, this 00:30:58.504 --> 00:31:01.824 is a valid way to show up in the world. 00:31:04.754 --> 00:31:09.935 Brandi Healy: So much fun and yeah, the reminder for, you know, like we said for 00:31:09.935 --> 00:31:15.254 both generators, manifesting generators is like this can't be repeated enough. 00:31:15.524 --> 00:31:22.534 Like when you prioritize your joy , everyone around you 00:31:23.795 --> 00:31:24.085 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:31:24.595 --> 00:31:24.885 Yeah. 00:31:25.845 --> 00:31:29.264 Brandi Healy: And you know, I think that that's just like a, with that, 00:31:29.425 --> 00:31:33.105 I think like, you know, a reminder for all of us that like no matter 00:31:33.175 --> 00:31:36.625 what our type is, we all need rest. 00:31:37.925 --> 00:31:42.825 We all need alone time and we all need to do things that like nurture ourselves. 00:31:42.925 --> 00:31:48.784 And I think that's universally something that people in general 00:31:50.735 --> 00:31:52.425 make themselves feel go guilty 00:31:52.440 --> 00:31:52.730 Kyle Wood: Yeah. 00:31:53.280 --> 00:31:53.570 Yeah. 00:31:55.120 --> 00:31:56.939 Brandi Healy: Is like taking that time alone. 00:31:57.800 --> 00:31:58.780 Um, or 00:31:59.045 --> 00:31:59.545 Kyle Wood: US two. 00:31:59.555 --> 00:32:00.065 We're not 00:32:00.090 --> 00:32:01.260 Brandi Healy: yeah, us included 00:32:04.600 --> 00:32:07.860 And, and it's like, and it, it, and it doesn't even taking 00:32:08.010 --> 00:32:09.580 time, you know, to like. 00:32:10.595 --> 00:32:16.385 Spend on your business, or maybe it's spending time, like if you're a 00:32:16.385 --> 00:32:19.705 parent, to like spend time alone with your partner away from your children. 00:32:19.815 --> 00:32:23.024 Like, there's so many different flavors of that, right? 00:32:24.004 --> 00:32:28.665 Um, but you know, we're not single dimensional beings, 00:32:32.165 --> 00:32:35.705 And so it's just like, it's important that we nurture ourselves, 00:32:35.725 --> 00:32:39.304 we nurture the relationships that are important to us, and. 00:32:40.330 --> 00:32:44.070 The passions in our life that you know where we find joy 00:32:46.805 --> 00:32:47.095 Kyle Wood: Amen. 00:32:51.030 --> 00:32:52.970 Brandi Healy: So stop shading all over yourself. 00:32:53.045 --> 00:32:53.525 Kyle Wood: that's right. 00:32:53.635 --> 00:32:53.925 Yeah. 00:32:54.315 --> 00:32:59.565 I'll include these, uh, uh, points in the show notes so that, um, if 00:32:59.565 --> 00:33:01.845 you, you know, after you've listened to this and you're like, oh, what is 00:33:01.845 --> 00:33:02.845 that thing I need to look out for? 00:33:03.345 --> 00:33:05.765 Uh, and just, just notice when it comes up. 00:33:06.305 --> 00:33:10.085 Uh, not everyone's into journaling, but it could be a helpful thing to journal 00:33:10.105 --> 00:33:12.245 and be like, when do I feel this way? 00:33:12.625 --> 00:33:14.565 Or when do I make myself feel this way? 00:33:14.565 --> 00:33:17.525 Like around what things, 'cause that could be a bit of a sign of, I. 00:33:17.525 --> 00:33:19.165 An area where you can start working on this. 00:33:20.945 --> 00:33:26.725 And before we go, I just do wanna say like, work has begun on the well-designed 00:33:26.995 --> 00:33:28.844 website, which I'm very excited about. 00:33:29.665 --> 00:33:35.925 Um, so you'll be able to go there and listen to previous episodes 00:33:36.024 --> 00:33:38.764 and we'll just be able to organize episodes a bit differently as well. 00:33:38.834 --> 00:33:43.084 Like for example, we've got all the Centers episodes, we'll be 00:33:43.084 --> 00:33:44.004 able to have them all together. 00:33:44.620 --> 00:33:50.080 Uh, and we'll just be continuing to add resources to this website, um, articles, 00:33:50.080 --> 00:33:55.240 things like that around using human design as a wellness professional, as a health 00:33:55.240 --> 00:34:00.080 professional to help create more alignment in your business and day-to-day life. 00:34:01.362 --> 00:34:02.062 Brandi Healy: Thanks, Kyle. 00:34:03.342 --> 00:34:03.842 Kyle Wood: You are welcome. 00:34:04.742 --> 00:34:08.842 All right, uh, be sure to hit the follow button or the subscribe 00:34:08.842 --> 00:34:09.882 button if you've got it there. 00:34:09.882 --> 00:34:11.642 If you wanna listen to more episodes like this. 00:34:12.222 --> 00:34:15.922 And also before to check out, be sure to check out our previous episodes if 00:34:15.922 --> 00:34:17.082 you just join 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