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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to The Bible Guys, a podcast where a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of friends talk about the Bible in fun in

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<v Speaker 1>practical ways. Good morning, good morning, we talked, not do

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. Good morning to you. Nice nice, thank you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you usually don't add that. That's great, that's great. We're

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<v Speaker 1>getting into it. Get in the studs. Hey, welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the Bible Guys. We are starting off with a segment

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<v Speaker 1>that has a jingle. It is our only segment that

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<v Speaker 1>we get to sing, and it's so this is.

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<v Speaker 2>Such a good one too, and it might be our

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<v Speaker 2>best jingle.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and here it is. We're going to be doing

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<v Speaker 1>mail bags. Okay, well, hey, what you still from Blues Schools?

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<v Speaker 2>It was super sophisticated. So we're trying to model our

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<v Speaker 2>show after only the finest, yes, finest prom and so

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<v Speaker 2>Blues Clues is right at the top of our viewing list, so.

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<v Speaker 1>That's blue.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. So anyways, hey, this is a great one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>We have so many card and letter that have come

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<v Speaker 2>into our mail bags, and the email and text have

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<v Speaker 2>come in. So this is a message from Christina M.

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<v Speaker 2>And she says Hi. Well, first of all, Hi Christina M. Hi, Christina,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't miss saying hi, thank you for and I

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<v Speaker 2>know this is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>We do appreciate anybody who writes in and pays attention.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm telling you she has I think a great

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<v Speaker 2>thought here, Yeah, what's your go to karaoke song? And

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<v Speaker 2>can you give us a preview? And then she gets

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<v Speaker 2>really honest and she says, I'm just trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>Chris to sing some more. Ha ha.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Then that's appropriate that I started with good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>There you go, you're saying good morning. So I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>going to come out and say, I have never, ever,

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<v Speaker 2>one time in my life done karaoke. What I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew that, so I have no I have no

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<v Speaker 2>go to song.

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<v Speaker 1>But even though I knew that, I still say what.

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<v Speaker 2>I know what? It's the back of the throat. Not

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<v Speaker 2>just a regular what.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a serious this is a whisper what.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right. So there's the what, and there's the what,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there's what.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, how could you? How's that possible?

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<v Speaker 2>How could you?

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<v Speaker 1>You've never been to a party or gathering.

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<v Speaker 2>I never have. I don't get in. That's that's a

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<v Speaker 2>boring guy. I've never been I've never been.

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<v Speaker 1>Karaoke I'm gonna ask you serious questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Leave when karaoke starts, stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop listen. I'm gonna ask you serious questions. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is true. This is you have to be truthful. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever been in a situation where someone whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>even at a church, whatever, where there was karaoke and

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<v Speaker 1>you had a choice whether to volunteer to go up

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<v Speaker 1>and sing karaoke or you had a choice to not

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<v Speaker 1>to have you ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, I've never been in a room. I've seen it.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen on TV shows where like there's there in

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<v Speaker 2>some kind of restaurant or a club or a bar

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<v Speaker 2>or something, and there's a karaoke thing there and people

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<v Speaker 2>go up and there's I've seen that. I've never I've

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<v Speaker 2>never had an opportunity. It was for me. I've been

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<v Speaker 2>in places where we were eating and then karaoke started

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<v Speaker 2>and I got up and left.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, all right, so you have.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, well, not where it was an opportunity for me.

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<v Speaker 2>It was I was eating here, didn't know karaoke was

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<v Speaker 2>a thing here. It starts over there, and before the

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<v Speaker 2>song's done, we've left.

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<v Speaker 1>You just you just like stop in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>your meal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, yeah, we we just yeah, but it's only

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<v Speaker 2>been like once or twice. I'm not how many places

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<v Speaker 2>that car came.

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<v Speaker 1>The stake just came to their singing run.

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<v Speaker 2>I only eat a sophisticated restaurant. The kind of places

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<v Speaker 2>you eat at versus the kind of places they eat

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<v Speaker 2>at maybe are two different, two different things.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I grew up in clubs and stop.

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<v Speaker 2>Prayers doesn't have kaoke, right, Yeah, you said you hang

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<v Speaker 2>out at truck stops, and well that is, by the way, karaoke.

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<v Speaker 2>That is true when I was in high school. This

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<v Speaker 2>is totally off topic, and there's nothing wrong with we

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<v Speaker 2>would we would.

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<v Speaker 1>We would go to truck stops and drink coffee. Even

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<v Speaker 1>in high school. I would do stuff like that because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you sort of grew up around it and everything. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>the point is is that there.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've never never been around and never had the

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to do karaoke. Okay, they have so much anxiety

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<v Speaker 2>about the idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Since we're going to wrap up, since we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>wrap up this, we got to wrap it up.

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<v Speaker 2>You sing it.

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<v Speaker 1>I will give you a preview of what I because

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a go to believe or not yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course. But I have to ask you this, if

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<v Speaker 1>you did, if you did have a karaoke song, what

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<v Speaker 1>would it be.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never contemplated this though.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'm asking you to contemplate it now.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't have a go to song. Just no,

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<v Speaker 2>you got to sing a song. Let me think about

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<v Speaker 2>it while you're singing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So anyway, here's mine. I would say I've done

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<v Speaker 1>karaoke maybe, I don't know, not very many times. Maybe fifteen, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen times, yeah, maybe twenty maybe at the at the max.

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<v Speaker 1>But I always like the one that goes I've got

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<v Speaker 1>friends in low place. Yeah, yeah, because it says what

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<v Speaker 1>does it say? I have to have the lyrics in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me but in low places? You know? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I I like it. I like it because it

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<v Speaker 1>is like it is. I'm a blue collar guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>I know it has the whole bar whiskey thing to it, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not the part that I necessarily cling to.

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<v Speaker 1>I I like the idea that with Garth Brooks. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I love Garth Brooks. But Garth Brooks is saying,

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<v Speaker 1>uh is that he sort of uh puts his guy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he puts his he snubs the the people who snub

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<v Speaker 2>Subs the people who don't eat at places they have carry.

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<v Speaker 1>R right, because he's a blue he's a blue collar guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And so anyway, that's that's why I like it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. How at the end there's guys that

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<v Speaker 1>go yeah, and the whole thing, you know, and then

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<v Speaker 1>usually the crowd joins in I've got friends, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the whole crowd sings it. So that's my go to song.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great. I still don't know that I can think

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<v Speaker 2>of a of a song I would try to sing

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<v Speaker 2>I'm having troubles.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I bet you if you thought about it, there's

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<v Speaker 1>an easy song, right, I mean, come on, who's Who's

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<v Speaker 1>Who's like a pop song to you? Oh my goodness, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Go see we got a little bit of it. But

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<v Speaker 2>she wanted to hear you sing. Do you see this?

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<v Speaker 2>This isn't about what Jeff would sing. So I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to draw a line in the sand on this episode

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<v Speaker 2>and say, I'm just trying to get Chris to sing more. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>she would have you rather have you sing your A

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<v Speaker 2>and B go to songs and to hear me sing

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<v Speaker 2>any songs. That's what I'm trying to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so so I looked at the lyrics. It starts

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<v Speaker 1>off and it goes blame it all my roots. I

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<v Speaker 1>shoot up in boots, some laughing when I'm saying it

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<v Speaker 1>ruined your black tie affair. Yes, last one to know,

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<v Speaker 1>last one to show. I was the last one you

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<v Speaker 1>thought you'd see there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I saw the sur fear in your eyes. I

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<v Speaker 2>am so sorry, listener, So sorry, listeners, that's pretty sure.

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<v Speaker 2>You sing too many more words and we're gonna have

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<v Speaker 2>to pay royalties on this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, really that might be a thing. That might

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<v Speaker 1>be a thing. Okay, let's move on, all right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, hey, Christina m thanks for bringing that up. Let Chris,

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<v Speaker 2>just you know, just indulge in all the glory of

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<v Speaker 2>that one. And if this this, if this podcast gets

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<v Speaker 2>shut down, well it might be your fault, That's all

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, because we're going to be broke. We get

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<v Speaker 2>sued for singing all the works.

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<v Speaker 1>Really meaning, thanks Christina.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks? Okay, Well good, did you get that out of

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<v Speaker 2>your system?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? I had nothing in my system yet, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to play along. I was asked this, this was

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<v Speaker 1>forced upon me.

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<v Speaker 2>This wasn't my choice, Okay, So man alive. There is

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<v Speaker 2>just no way to even pivot from no.

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, especially since well the Absolom gets reconciled to David. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, there's no roots. Yeah, there's no transition.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, So David brings Absolom back into town. If you've

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<v Speaker 2>missed any of these other episodes, you should go back

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<v Speaker 2>and kind of catch up on the Absolum stuff here.

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<v Speaker 2>But they were separated because absolutely killed Amnon. Finally, Joeb

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<v Speaker 2>convinces David to bring Abslom back, and so he brings

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<v Speaker 2>it back, but he won't see him. He refuses to

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<v Speaker 2>even look at his face, right, right, And so then

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<v Speaker 2>in second sam to chapter fourteen, verse twenty five, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>pick up there. It says now Absolom was praised as

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<v Speaker 2>the most handsome man in all Israel. He was flawless

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<v Speaker 2>from head to foot. He cut his hair only once

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<v Speaker 2>a year, and then only because it was so heavy.

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<v Speaker 2>When he weighed out, it came to five pounds. He

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<v Speaker 2>had three sons and one daughter. His daughter's name was Tamar,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was very beautiful. Absolom lived in Jerusalem for

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<v Speaker 2>two years, but he never got to see the king,

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<v Speaker 2>and then Absalom sent for Joeb to ask him to

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<v Speaker 2>intercede for him, but Joib refused to come. Absolom sent

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<v Speaker 2>for him a second time, but again Joeib refused to come.

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<v Speaker 2>So Absalom said to his servants, go and set fire

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<v Speaker 2>to Joeb's barley field, the field next to mine, And

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<v Speaker 2>so they set his field on fire, as Absolom had commanded.

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<v Speaker 2>Then Joeb came to Absolom at his house and demanded,

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<v Speaker 2>why did your servants set my field on fire? Absinom replied,

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<v Speaker 2>because I wanted you to ask the king why he

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<v Speaker 2>brought me back from Giesher. If he didn't intend to

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<v Speaker 2>see me, I might as well have stayed there. Let

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<v Speaker 2>me see the king. If he finds me guilty of anything,

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<v Speaker 2>then let him kill me. So Joeb told the king

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<v Speaker 2>what Absalom had said, and then at last David summoned Absalom,

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<v Speaker 2>who came and bowed low before the king, and the

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<v Speaker 2>king kissed him. Hmm, well, there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there you go. And and again it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't give us a lot of insight about truly

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<v Speaker 1>what David is feeling and thinking and why he basically

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<v Speaker 1>shunned his son. Obviously he's angry. Obviously he didn't approve

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<v Speaker 1>of what he did. But again, I have a tendency

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<v Speaker 1>to believe, I really do. I have a tendency to

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<v Speaker 1>believe that David wants to avoid it all because inside

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<v Speaker 1>he knows he set this in motion. I really do.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think that inside he has so much

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<v Speaker 1>just have a feeling he didn't want to deal with it,

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<v Speaker 1>it easier to do. It's easier to row yourself into

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<v Speaker 1>other things, stick stick your head in the sand. You know, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let me just spend all my energy being king. As

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<v Speaker 1>long as I know that my son Absolom is say hey,

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<v Speaker 1>which means obviously he's being treated well in a nice neighborhood. Yes, right,

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<v Speaker 1>was angry, or David was angry, David was jealous, David

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<v Speaker 1>We just know that he refused to see him. And

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<v Speaker 1>keep this in mind, that's a public shun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, everybody sees it. Everybody sees it because the king

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, everybody knows, which means which means like, uh, now, now,

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<v Speaker 1>Ebsolom is you know, his disgrace is being you know, amplified.

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<v Speaker 1>It's public and uh and and he's so desperate uh,

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<v Speaker 1>and Joe Abb doesn't know how to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Joeb has done all the things that he could do. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>he brought him back, didn't he? And and then uh

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<v Speaker 1>why did you do this? He's so petulant by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, let's not look over the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>his hair weigh five pounds. You know what that deserves?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what that deserves?

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<v Speaker 2>What? What?

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<v Speaker 1>Not?

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<v Speaker 2>A what?

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<v Speaker 1>Because five pounds? Think about the biggest haircut you've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've ever had a child donate third hair?

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<v Speaker 2>What the guy who played for the for the Pittsburgh Steelers,

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<v Speaker 2>they had the long hair of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's a throwback. Yeah yeah, he's all yes, yes, yes, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>He's on the head and Shoulders commercials, the old ones

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<v Speaker 2>still now he was on last season, was he?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was it was him and Patrick Mahomes.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Anyway, anyway, the

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<v Speaker 2>A hair donating place.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, come on, it's love love locks. Oh yeah, lots

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<v Speaker 1>of love, lots of what a great Yeah, it's lots

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<v Speaker 1>of love. And what they do is they have to

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<v Speaker 1>grow over over twelve inches that you donated and then

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<v Speaker 1>they use real hair to make wigs for those child

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<v Speaker 2>Right, what great lots of love.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know that people actually like they grow their

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<v Speaker 1>hair specifically just four locks? Did she really? Good for her?

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<v Speaker 1>Good for her? Anyway? When when you take all that

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<v Speaker 1>hair and you that's what they do. They weigh it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's like an eighth of a pound, right, pounds?

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<v Speaker 1>Five pounds.

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<v Speaker 2>The only cut his hair because it was too heavy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think I think, first of all, if I

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<v Speaker 2>That would have meant he'd ever really thick nick I. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>I was so handsome.

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<v Speaker 1>I almost wonder sometimes, you know, the Bible is pretty specific.

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<v Speaker 1>If the Bible says five pounds, it means five pounds, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's correct. So so I almost wonder, like did that

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<v Speaker 1>include like the beads. I don't know, right, maybe they

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<v Speaker 1>had beads in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Weighed two hundred shekels, right, well, there had to be

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<v Speaker 1>Allows for that, it allows for decorate hair decorative things

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<v Speaker 1>maybe yeah, because yeah, so yes, otherwise you're a punzel.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, right, it's down to his ankles. That might be.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. So yesterday, remember we struggled Crystal Gale

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<v Speaker 2>for our listeners. Yeah, no, yesterday we struggled to remember

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<v Speaker 2>the name of the person who was allowed to get

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you looked it up.

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<v Speaker 2>No I did not.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I did? What is for our listeners? That was

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<v Speaker 2>twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not revenge for you and me.

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<v Speaker 2>It was fifteen minutes ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was not revenge getter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's no, it's not. It's the blood avenger. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah it was. It's pretty close. So the blood Avenger.

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<v Speaker 2>So if a family member was killed and there was

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<v Speaker 2>no local justice available, then the family could choose one.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not the whole thing. It's not this a big

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<v Speaker 2>posse going out, you know for vigilantism. It was one

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<v Speaker 2>blood avenger could go and bring vengeance against this person

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<v Speaker 2>who murdered the other person. So Absolom probably was choosing

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<v Speaker 2>that kind of loophole to give himself permission to kill

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<v Speaker 2>Amnon even though there was government in his town, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what he was doing. He's justifying, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>our law allows this. And this one of the reasons

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<v Speaker 2>why I think David doesn't kill Absolom then, is kind

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<v Speaker 2>of within our culture, there's this thing, this blood avenger,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's what he did. And you know that that

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<v Speaker 2>was a big part. I believe you can know that

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<v Speaker 2>that was a big part of Absolom's sense of justice

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<v Speaker 2>because the Bible mentions that he has a daughter and

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<v Speaker 2>he named her Tamar, which is wonderful, which is the

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<v Speaker 2>name of his sister who was abused by Amnon.

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<v Speaker 1>Which shows his love for his sister.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, and it shows his elevated sense of justice.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a young man who has a strong sense of

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<v Speaker 2>David being a mentor to guide that strong sense of justice.

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<v Speaker 2>He has an opportunity. David has an opportunity to nudge

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<v Speaker 2>his son towards God, to lead his son, the future king,

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<v Speaker 2>to God, to develop the relationship that David had with God,

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<v Speaker 2>to really lean into the laws and the words of God, which,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, God says to Joshua, it's meditating on

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<v Speaker 2>my law's day and night that will make you a success.

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<v Speaker 2>David's success was directly connected that same thing. David knows

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<v Speaker 2>these things, and he just keeps Absolom away. Yes, you

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<v Speaker 2>can come home thinking that Absolom's motivation for wanting to

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<v Speaker 2>come home was just to live in luxury. Again, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>got news for you, David. He was already living in

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<v Speaker 2>a king's house. Father. There's also a king right in

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<v Speaker 2>another kingdom. Yeah, smaller, right, but but still it's not

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<v Speaker 2>like he was starving. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there's there's a there's a sense of uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're raised by a king, whether it's a large

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<v Speaker 1>kingdom or small. Uh, you know, you still have importance, people,

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<v Speaker 1>people treating you the respect. There's still things to model,

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<v Speaker 1>there's still things to teach. And by the way, another

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<v Speaker 1>lesson hidden in here is uh that even though that

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<v Speaker 1>Absolom is a grown man and has you know, sons

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<v Speaker 1>and a daughter and a house of for himself, that

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<v Speaker 1>you never stop being a parent. You never stop being

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<v Speaker 1>a role model. And in this case, job changes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and so it's more peer to peer and

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<v Speaker 1>and but David, and you understand that David has the

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<v Speaker 1>role of father, but also of king, and also of mentor.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's wearing all these different hats for Absolom, and

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<v Speaker 1>he refuses to do any of them. And so it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a challenge to us. No matter how you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what age you are, it's never too late to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to fulfill the roles you know, no matter how old

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<v Speaker 1>your kids are, you know you you still look to

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<v Speaker 1>them by the way. You want you want some insight

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<v Speaker 1>as to how my brain works, Yes, you want?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, do we not?

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<v Speaker 1>Really? Not really, because I'm going to tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>even though I'm trying to think of all these godly

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<v Speaker 1>sermons that come out of this passage, I can't get

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<v Speaker 1>over the term blood Avenger. As I love Marvel movies

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm thinking of the Avengers, and I thought, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>a blood Avenger could be a character. And if an

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<v Speaker 1>Avenger blood Avengers. Yeah, if an Avenger joined, who would

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<v Speaker 1>be the blood Avenger? And I thought, well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>who else is in the Marvel universe, which was the

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<v Speaker 1>first Marvel movie really that was ever popular, which was Blade.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a vampire, he would be the blood Avenger.

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<v Speaker 1>So if Captain America would invite Wesley Snipes in to

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<v Speaker 1>join the Avengers, he would be the blood Avenger. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all I have to say about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so it's in your head. Now, you get that

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<v Speaker 2>out of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I got that out of my system.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, I had back to the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>Back to the Bible.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, back to the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we should call our show that back to the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a show called that back to the future.

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<v Speaker 2>No, there there was an old radio show that had

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<v Speaker 2>thousands of episodes called back to the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>Really huh oh oh? Is it the idea that we've

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<v Speaker 1>strayed from the Bible and our generation should go.

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<v Speaker 2>Back to as a Bible teaching radio program back.

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<v Speaker 1>Like focus on the family, Like, let's put all the

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<v Speaker 1>focus back on.

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<v Speaker 2>The think out of back to the Bible came Do

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<v Speaker 2>you know the little devotional books.

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<v Speaker 1>Are daily bread of course.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, so that's where it came from. I'm pretty sure. Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyways, here's this guy who has so much, so

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<v Speaker 2>many gifts absolum. He has his dad's gifts. He's handsome,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what this highlighted thing about his hair and how

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<v Speaker 2>tough he was, and everybody thought he was so great

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<v Speaker 2>and and every young leader who has a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>gifts needs to also be aware. So absolutely needed this too.

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<v Speaker 2>To be aware. You need good mentors in your life, right,

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<v Speaker 2>You need people to help guide you because otherwise what

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<v Speaker 2>happens is you become really great at what your strengths are,

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<v Speaker 2>but the greater and you and I've talked about this.

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<v Speaker 2>Every genius has an equal and opposite corresponding deficit. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>because you and I are the way we're built. We

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<v Speaker 2>only see one hundred and eighty degrees. We can't see

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<v Speaker 2>all the way around. And so we've got a genius

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<v Speaker 2>that's out here. He clearly is wired to be a

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<v Speaker 2>leader of people. People just flock to Absolom, Even generals

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<v Speaker 2>who see the danger of Absolom, go, we should bring

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<v Speaker 2>him back, and let's just see if we can't make

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<v Speaker 2>him a better guy. Right, And that's what's happening. The

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<v Speaker 2>people love Absolom everything, and Absolom is starting to be

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<v Speaker 2>aware of, Wow, these people really like me. Yeah, my

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<v Speaker 2>dad's kind of a jerk. So instead of his dad

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<v Speaker 2>pulling him in, his dad pushes him away. And so

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<v Speaker 2>what happens is he starts to lean into his talents

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<v Speaker 2>without building the character around him or a group of

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<v Speaker 2>counselors around him that can point out his blind spots,

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<v Speaker 2>and so nobody is telling Absolom about his blind spots

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<v Speaker 2>because everybody's so enamored with his hair, his looks, his

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<v Speaker 2>ability to communicate, and all these kinds of things, and

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<v Speaker 2>so the trouble just keeps coming. Finally, too late in

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<v Speaker 2>the game, David comes to Absalom and kisses him that though,

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<v Speaker 2>was the beginning of an opportunity, but David still doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>seize the opportunity, and we're going to see the consequences

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<v Speaker 2>of that tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and again, it's interesting how it doesn't give us

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<v Speaker 1>any insight because it doesn't say during these two years,

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<v Speaker 1>Apslom had built up a rage that's going to turn

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<v Speaker 1>into rebellion. He doesn't say that, but later on in

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<v Speaker 1>the story we realizes, oh, yeah, that's exactly what happened, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So these two years were very painful. Yes, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of bitterness. There was a lot of rage,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a lot of hatred, There was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of and probably because just like we just like we said,

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<v Speaker 1>David could have handled it differently. He could have, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at least paid attention. I mean, he's so desperate, He says,

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<v Speaker 1>I would rather him just kill me than ignore me, right, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So so put him in front of me and fine

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<v Speaker 1>if he if he if he passed judgment, he finds

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<v Speaker 1>me guilty, then have him killed me. But anything is

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<v Speaker 1>better than being in the kingdom being publicly shunned, and

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<v Speaker 1>then not to mention the father wound that comes from

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<v Speaker 1>you know, David reacting this way. So uh, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And and by the way, it does not say that

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<v Speaker 1>David kissed him with affection, no, right, it says he went,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it kissed him. But did he go through

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<v Speaker 1>the motions? Was it was it? Was it half hearted?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it cold? Was it you know, basically out of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what what kings should do or what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what expect? So again, it's just it's one

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<v Speaker 1>of those things where we're sort of left to connect

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<v Speaker 1>the dots. But it's not hard to figure out because

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<v Speaker 1>of what happens, right, you know, what is about to unfold,

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<v Speaker 1>We could probably agree between the lines.

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<v Speaker 2>So when when there's greatness in front of us, and

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<v Speaker 2>clearly Absolin had no other kings to look up to,

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<v Speaker 2>it was either his dad or Saul, right, and my

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<v Speaker 2>dad is amazing. When Nabslom was a boy, his dad

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<v Speaker 2>was his dad was a giant killer. His dad was

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<v Speaker 2>the one who unified Israel. His dad was great. And

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<v Speaker 2>then when Amnon is dead, at this point he has

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<v Speaker 2>a strong sense of justice. He kills Amnon. Now he's

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<v Speaker 2>the heir to the throne. Even then, as a young man,

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<v Speaker 2>he's probably looking at his dad, going, boy, those are

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<v Speaker 2>going to be some big boots to fill.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he comes to this point where his dad

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<v Speaker 2>will not mentor him, will not encourage him, will not

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<v Speaker 2>challenge him. And so at this point, now either he

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<v Speaker 2>was going to grow up to try to fulfill the

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<v Speaker 2>responsibility of the family. If David had raised him and

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<v Speaker 2>mentored him, he would have had this obligation and responsibility

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<v Speaker 2>to represent his father and his family well as the

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<v Speaker 2>next king. Or David left Absolom with what Absolin felt

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<v Speaker 2>was the only other option, That is to challenge my

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<v Speaker 2>dad right, right, and I'm gonna have to square off

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<v Speaker 2>with him. I'm gonna have to take it because my

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<v Speaker 2>dad is not who I thought he was. Right, And

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<v Speaker 2>this is what's going to happen tomorrow. We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>get into you know, a full blown coup by absolomy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's unbelievable. This was all avoidable, one hundred percent avoidable. What, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's your new thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah maybe so you go, all right, We'll see you

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<v Speaker 1>next time, hopefully on the bibble guys. H m hmmmm