From Control to Connection: A Dad's Journey in a Blended Family with Dave Inglis

In this episode of the Ambitious Dads podcast, host Jeff Hittner welcomes his friend and neighbor, Dave Inglis, a Canadian executive and couples coach living in Valencia, Spain. The conversation delves into the complexities of blended family dynamics, as Dave shares his journey of becoming a stepdad to two teenagers while also welcoming a biological son, Will. He reflects on the challenges and joys of navigating relationships with his wife Jen and her ex-husband, Aaron, emphasizing the importance of non-attachment and flexibility in parenting. The discussion also touches on the significance of solitude and self-inquiry in personal growth, as Dave reveals his unique practices inspired by shamanism. Throughout the episode, the two dads explore the messy realities of fatherhood, including humorous anecdotes and the ongoing evolution of their roles as parents.

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What is Ambitious Dads?

Fatherhood cracked me open in ways I never expected — and showed me how unprepared most of us are for the emotional work it demands. After learning I couldn’t be a biological father, I wrestled early with the fear that I might screw up my kids before they even existed — a feeling every dad, in one way or another, eventually comes to know. The Ambitious Dads Podcast is where we stop winging it and start talking — about balancing endless competing priorities like work, kids, partners (sex — yeah, right!), self-care, and finances; about the emotions that hit daily — guilt, stress, fear, fatigue, love — and about the quiet doubts that keep us up at night. We’ll get vulnerable. We’ll get honest. And yes, we’ll end every episode with a ridiculous poop story, because if fatherhood teaches you anything, it’s how to laugh while cleaning up disasters.

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