Overwhelm isn’t caused by how much you have to do. It’s caused by perfectionism.
If you constantly feel behind, discouraged, or frozen when you look at your home, this video explains why. The problem isn’t your schedule, your kids, or your to-do list. It’s the unrealistic standards you’re measuring your real life against.
In this video, I explain
• why a full life is not the same thing as an overwhelming life
• how perfectionism creates paralysis, procrastination, and burnout
• why planning and organizing often make overwhelm worse
• how perfectionism fuels the boom and bust cycle so many moms experience
Once you can identify perfectionism at work, you can start undoing it.
If you want a simple way to begin letting go of perfectionism, I’ll send you my free Smile & Start Challenge by email. You’ll get three short, practical emails that help you take small steps instead of chasing perfect plans.
👉 Get the Smile & Start Challenge: https://simplyconvivial.com/smile
Or comment START below and tell me where you see perfectionism showing up in your life, and I’ll reply with the link.
▶️ Next video in this series
In part two, we’ll talk about why baby steps are the cure for perfectionism and how small progress actually brings lasting peace at home.
💜 My membership & courses:
Convivial Circle — Coaching, community, and live support for Christian homemakershttps://simplyconvivial.com/circle
Simply Convivial Library App — Courses, replays, and audio in one placehttps://simplyconvivial.com/library
Homemaking 101 — The foundational course for new membershttps://simplyconvivial.com/homemaking101
📚 My books:
Simplified Organization — Mindset + systems for cheerful productivityhttps://amzn.to/48LOn9z
The Convivial Homeschool — Encouragement and clarity for classical homeschool momshttps://amzn.to/4j0GmRu
🎧 Listen to the Simply Convivial Podcast:
https://simplyconvivial.com/podcast
What is Simply Convivial: Biblical Homemaking, Homeschooling & Mom Life—Without Burnout?
Homemaking and homeschooling can feel overwhelming, but they don’t have to be. If you’re a Christian mom longing for a well-ordered home, a peaceful homeschool, and a joyful heart—without the stress or burnout—you’re in the right place. Moms can be productive and peaceful when grounded in Scriptural truth.
I’m Mystie Winckler, homeschooling mom of five, founder of Simply Convivial, and your guide to managing both home and heart with faith and focus. Here, we talk about biblical homemaking, sustainable homeschooling, and cheerful productivity—all through the lens of organizing your attitude and embracing your God-given calling.
In each episode, you’ll find practical homemaking systems, homeschooling strategies, and mindset shifts that will help you manage your home without perfectionism or frustration. We’ll tackle topics like:
✔️ Christian homemaking routines that actually work
✔️ Productivity, mom-style
✔️ Homeschooling with peace—even when life gets messy
✔️ Time management for moms (without rigid schedules)
✔️ Decluttering your home & your attitude
✔️ How to be diligent, not just busy
Motherhood is a marathon, not a sprint. You don’t need more willpower—you need a grace-filled, biblical approach to managing life at home. Let’s cultivate faithfulness, embrace joy, and build habits that make home a place of peace and purpose.
👉 Subscribe now and start organizing your home and heart—cheerfully.