Melissa Methven is a dental hygienist whose husband, Scott, a dentist, committed suicide in 2022, leaving behind Melissa and her two young children. She shares her incredible story of emerging from a time of great darkness and tragedy with the hope of helping others who are struggling with depression.
We discuss:
· Scott’s tremendous passion for dentistry.
· What led Scott to take his own life and, in hindsight, some of the warning signs that were there.
· How Scott’s cycle of depression spun deeper and deeper.
· The role that suppression plays in our physical and mental health.
· The way Melissa explained Scott’s suicide to her children.
· How she picked herself up after Scott’s passing.
· Strategies that Melissa uses to help her young children cope with the loss of their father.
· Scott’s fear of having a formal diagnosis and what it would do to his reputation and career.
· The darkness that can surround people who are suffering from depression.
· The role that prayer, belief in God (or any higher power), and breathwork have played in the healing journey.
· The difference between religion and faith.
· Healthy techniques for releasing your stress and anxiety.
· The steps that can and should be taken in dental school to better equip dentists to handle the rigor and stress of their job.
· The need for a dental community to help dentists who are struggling, and the pushback Melissa is receiving trying to bring awareness to this issue.
· How to recognize the signs that your body and mind are not healthy.
· How Melissa and her kids know that Scott is with them in spirit.
· The value of being of service to others and how it has helped their family heal.
· Tips on how to find and live your truth.
· And much more!!
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